To all my Nigerian brothers and sisters
I am, always have been, and always will be proud of my Nigerian heritage. I understand the pain and anger caused by some of the comments I made in a recent interview, and I wanted to address you directly. Contrary to popular belief, this interview was not the first in which I mentioned Nigeria. In fact, I’m frequently bragging about how Nigerians attend the world’s most prestigious institutions, and how we are known to produce world class doctors, entrepreneurs, innovators, lawyers, engineers, professors, athletes and artists. Unfortunately, people tend to leave these moments out, and, in this case, highlight stereotypes. I would never do or say anything to intentionally disgrace the legacy of my father nor my fatherland. But to not relay my own story, both the good times and the bad, would be a disservice.
Jidenna and late dad |
When
I was 5 years old, my family was robbed at gunpoint, my mother was
beaten, family members were kidnapped, and I was shot in my foot. As is
the case with all kidnapping, targeting those who are perceived to be
wealthy is the objective. In this instance, my father was the target
because of his prominence in the community. This was a traumatic
experience for my family that would shape our entire lives and our
experiences in both Nigeria and America. As a little boy, I swore that I
would never let that happen to my family again. As my father often
said, “Once you’re bitten by a snake, you‘ll be ready to shoot a
lizard!” At the time of my father’s burial 5 years ago, my family in the
village was concerned about increased targeting for kidnapping since
the rate of abductions had increased dramatically in the area we are
from. We were traveling from America, which along with our biracial
appearance, had the potential to attract attention and pose a threat to
our security. In light of what happened in the past and the tense
climate at the time, my family took precautions to ensure our safety.
This was not an uncommon protocol at the time. I recognize incidents
such as these are not unique to Nigeria or the African continent, and
there have been significant improvements in the region since this
period.
In the recent interview to
which I’ve been referring, I shared my family’s experience traveling
from the States back home for the burial. In this interview, I used the
term “light-skinned.” When using this term, I was actually referring to
my immediate family’s mixed or biracial appearance. See, no matter what
language I use to describe my heritage, I’m certain that someone will
feel some kind of way. This is a larger discussion not meant for this
statement, but certainly derives from our colonial past and postcolonial
present, and in the States, from the days of slavery to the present
times. My comments about skin tone were related to the notion of
perceived wealth and value, not my personal beliefs. My point was never
to imply that biracial or “light-skinned” people are the only ones or
the most targeted group of people kidnapped, or that I myself was
wealthy at the time. Rather than focus on my perceived value, let us
continue to focus on the value of Nigeria.
There
is no question that Africa is playing a pivotal role in the future of
our planet and that Nigeria, with it’s booming economy and burgeoning
middle class, is a driving force. I will continue to play my role in the
Renaissance taking place in Nigeria and Africa at large. We may not
agree on everything, but know my heart is your heart, and my experience
is part of our collective experience.
Ok
ReplyDeleteAm in love with Jidenna already. He looks like Banky W. So handsome, so cute. My dear please don't mind some people, na jealously de worry them.
DeleteIssokay then. Very thoughtful of him to clarify things. Linda take note!
DeleteIssokay then. Very thoughtful of him to clarify things. Linda take note!
DeleteWow! Nice write up, and d open letter mak a lot of sense. I wish him all d best thereof. Thumbs up, and more power to his elbows.
DeleteNice one
DeleteI understand you better now.
Classic man. U are really a classic man. Nice write up. U are forgiven.
DeleteEzigbo nwa afor Igbo. We always rep. Jisieike Nnam.
DeleteI'm out. ***CATCH ME IF U CAN***
Attention seeker!!!.... He's enjoying his 2mins fame in LIB..
DeleteNnenne george, with all your exposure in Canada. U still claimed to be Biafran instead of Nigerian. Nawa o. Lol
DeleteOh booboo kitty there's no need explaining to Nigerians, they're bitter by default! Always looking for the nenext person to tear down. Love you boo 😚
DeleteI did see or read anything like i'm sorry.
DeleteHe's actually fair o. Nigerians n deir wahala
DeleteNnenna. You are a bitter person. Lick some sugar n pray. God can change u. By the way Jidenna does not need LIB. He's already made n popular. Lastly, it is 'on' LIB.
DeleteNnenne George... haba he's ibo na
DeleteIts quite quite, next u learn how to talk so u dont take out time out of ur jobless schedule to right this unaccepted rubbish. Isoray. Ayamatanga
DeleteNnenne George really? I laugh in igbo. LIB of all places? Bleh.....
DeleteOk
DeleteJisike nwokeoma
DeleteHe shouldn't have apologized, he didn't do nothing.. He doesn't owe anybody jackshit
DeleteWell said Olivia Pope. Like we all don't know d situation of things in ds country. I'm beginning to feel we have serious complex issues in ds country. Cos we are so quick to xpct pple to portray us well even when we know we are far from well.
DeletePls let Nnenna G be jor, y'all are hypocritic by default.
DeleteHe's famous, rich n mixed race: not the first in that category I believe. Rather than apologize straight out, he uses English to charm his way through and "no hope" girls r already calling him boo.
I'm sorry (okwusigo)
Epic story about being shot in d foot @ 5yrs during a robbery (guessing in Nigeria .
Alright then. Go and sin no more
ReplyDeleteI don't know Jidenna personally and hadn't heard of him before this...
Deletebut if u ever come across this... u shud know ur pple by now.
1. We talk too much
2. We jump to hasty conclusions
So its not evrything sm1 says u shud respond to. Any smart individual who actually listened to that piece would know you were speaking about your experience and speaking your own view/truth.
which you are entitled to
Nigerians we don't like to hear the truth.
They still Kidnap esp in the Eastern region till TODAY
Chimamanda's dad was kidnapped recently, so was NOI's parent.
Nigerians always complain that whites r given preferential treatment or light-skinned girls are preferred but when sm1 else says it wahala
You may wanna play to the tune of ur fan-based but how many pple here even buy ur music? to make u bother what they think.
Pple who buy ur music will understand u and ur point of view.
U see all these things ive just said is proof that we talk a lot
Keep doing u.
Haters will always be there
I like dis Nigerian, u re indeed a Nigerian sir.
Delete@ anno 5.1 a million like for your comment .you have said it all
DeleteThanks man. U spoke my mind. He's definitely a classic man to reply to jobless Nigerians who keep denying the abysmal state our country is in. God bless u Jidenna
DeleteI love you mhan..
DeleteWe don hear....guide ur tongue better next time.
ReplyDeleteCheck my blog please. Thanks.
Lol okay o
DeleteLong story...
ReplyDeleteThanks for d lovely write up.
Thumbs up, and more power to his elbows for dis.
Now ur a CLASSIC MAN!
Delete"Slow and steady wins d race"
Now ur a CLASSIC MAN!
Delete"Slow and steady wins d race"
Ok. You're forgiven, but watch your utterances henceforth
ReplyDeleteCOMING SOON!!!
[Music] LYNDY - MY HERO ( A TRIBUTE TO DR GOODLUCK JONATHAN)
U don't have job o. A fool is ur hero
DeleteUr Nigerian brothers and sisters.....na now u knw! nkita lacha kwa gi onu there.
ReplyDeleteNa wa for you, the insult is uncalled for
DeleteMrs Poche. People like u are the reason Nigeria is still backwards. U r the boko haram of our time. It is not until u behead someone before u can b called that. Too much hate n bitterness even towards ur own. I wonder what u wld hv said if he was of a different tribe. Anuofia. Is it until he licks ur pussy then u let it go? Nkita lachakwa gi
DeleteOloshi
DeleteApology Accepted, well said
ReplyDeleteOga I don't blame u at all, Nigeria is full of evil. The fear of nigeria is the beginning of wisdom.
ReplyDeleteFuck out
ReplyDeleteLmao. Bitch u r mean
DeleteU r mad
DeleteThunder fire you breast for this comment
DeleteImbecile. Fvck off. See ur ugly face
DeleteU r the biggest idiot.
DeleteU look miserable sef. N u dey tell billonaire to fuck off. Abeg go get a job before depression sets in.
DeleteSee this ugly bitch oo.. You should fuck in..
DeleteSo nice of him, good to know he's back to his sense.
ReplyDeleteNWA oma, go and sin no more.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Ignorance is bliss... Smh, you are part of the lot he had to explain what "being light skinned" means to and you still dare say he has come back to his senses. Typical stereotyped nigerians that love to hate (and hear)the truth.
DeleteHe didn't say anything out of place! Learn to understand people before you spew your bit! #copythat
DeleteWell said and so articulate Jidenna, God bless you bro
ReplyDeleteGood one ... You're right and I support u on dis
ReplyDeleteStory For the Gods oh
ReplyDeleteOk! Go and sin no more. Lindaobserve
ReplyDeleteNna gi muru gi! Supu!
ReplyDeleteE TOO LONG...TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeletei completely agree with Jidenna on this one. people should not be quoted out of context. continue your good works. Nigeria is proud of you too.
ReplyDeletePOOR BOY DIDNT SAY NOTHING WRONG
ReplyDeleteNICE ONE
ReplyDeleteGood boy...
ReplyDeleteOga dont mind them, they all knew how to protect their own family.
ReplyDeleteI understand him and have supported him right from day1 of his hit song
ReplyDeleteStory!!!
ReplyDeleteLinda u see am???
Ok seen, buy dnt try dat again nxt tym
ReplyDeleteHe said exactly dsame thing d last u people went mad....u were just too slow to reason out what he meant...obote!!! Exposing your ignorance...be there shouting-- u guys boosted his position on d billboard...he's more known presently in nigeria than before u peoplez stupid reaction.
DeleteObote man? 7 amigos? Dodorima to you. Egede.
DeleteCalm down people. For those that didnt understand jidenna i think you need to go back to high school..for those that understood, I say smart thinking. .for those insulting the ones that don't uunderstand I think you guys are on the same level so go back to high school..thank you
DeleteHow touching....he seems sincere
ReplyDeleteExcellent! As you read through. you could almost feel his sincerity. Way to go J!
ReplyDeleteSure!
DeletePeople didn't take time to watch the video to hear the interview. This guy spoke about his experience what he has faced, iif it. Was me I will do the same. People misunderstood him, if it was me will do the same. It is well with u jidenna
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly! He only talked about his childhood bitter experience. "If you have ever been bitten by a snake, you will shoot a lizard." simply put, "once bitten, twice shy!"
DeleteAlright Jidenna,Your Forgiven go and sin no more!
ReplyDeleteDs story too long abeg... Tame ur tongue so dt u wnt av to write Ds long apology story next tym...
ReplyDeleteYou should spend more time in school, so you can learn patience when reading! #copythat
DeleteGood.
ReplyDeleteWell said jidenna. I understand and forgive you. Sorry for lashing out at you. Follow me on Twitter @guineacar and DM ur pin or phone number to me so we can talk better.
ReplyDeleteNigerian slut
DeleteTalk better ke. O ma ga o
Deletehustler..He will send u his pin, phone number and even house address...ode!!
DeleteThe hustle is real.
DeleteLmfao. I'm dead. Jidenna biko follow asap. Na una sabi.
DeleteLol! Jesox, talk better?? Na for your dreams go be that one oooo!! Mumu...
DeleteHahahaha jajajajaja the hussle is real.
DeleteThat is if he will read your comment abi? Na so your hustle strong? I just can't stop laughing...
DeleteAs in on the real??? Lmao
DeleteMa dear,dont mind dem make dem de laugh u,next month or year now,they'll hear Jidenna weds wetin b dat ur name again sef? Hustle jor,its real.. God bless u sister
DeleteDs story too long abeg...Tame ur tongue so dt u wnt av to write Ds long apology story next tym dearie
ReplyDeleteYou should read with glasses next time. He wasn't apologising, he was only providing clarity on the issue! #copythat
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
Fuck Nigeria and nice write up bro....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
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Fuck Nigeria and nice write up bro....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Nice write-up, well articulated. You surely didn't eat your school fees. Apology accepted.
ReplyDeleteWe are just good at reading meanings in people comments. The poor boy meant no wrong in what he said.
ReplyDelete~Charles Ifeco~
He is not a 'poor boi'! How can you even qualify a boi as 'poor'! He's a man FYI!
DeleteWell said...
ReplyDeleteStill our brother
Yes, a brother's anger no dey reach bone-marrow
DeleteI have said it before and I will say it again, he didn't say anything wrong. You owe nobody any explanation. Linda, swear if you no dey carry mobile police or bodyguard anywhere you travel around Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteAccepted..cos you're a classic man...
ReplyDeleteKiss nd hug jor,,,,dun mind wt ppl wil say so far u re duin t for ya benefit jor,,,,,***odikwa risky nd tyt***
ReplyDeleteKiss nd hug jor,,,,dun mind wt ppl wil say so far u re duin t for ya benefit jor,,,,,***odikwa risky nd tyt***
ReplyDeleteLinda you must take note of his action now for nest time
ReplyDeleteNext** na night school you go I can feel it!
DeleteTOP THREE BLOGS IN NIGERIA
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donny who? i laugh in spanish ..dreamer
Deletehahahahah well hahahahah what did you said that is his name Linda? is he an unfortunate albino?
ReplyDeleteChill pills dear! Go check your grammar before pouncing on someone's skin colour! I feel sorry for your english teacher! Did I say english teacher? Oops! My bad, u spent school hours chasing for bush meat to impress your village girlfriend.
DeleteWoow nice write up.....
ReplyDeleteMedicine after death, let me tell you when you bashed your so called nigeria brothers and sisters. So bad from your base, it spreads abroad and not only nigeria,I listen to it on entertainment news in ghana,next time learn to control your tongue mr man.
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sit down. He has apologised. Take it or leave it, u don't put food on his table. Haba!!!
DeleteWho are you and what have you achieved to correct another Nigerian! Abeg park!
DeleteNice one..Now dat's how a real classic man is meant to act.
ReplyDeleteWell articulated & understood! Nothing do you my bro. Carry go!!!
ReplyDeleteI like the heart felt sincerity of his letter to Nigerians.
ReplyDeleteHope we can all move past the misconceptions of his interview and focus on more important issues challenging our unity and peace as a nation, Boko haram, biafra, Odutuwa, corruption etc.
God punish Tiwa savage's husband talking nonsense. Papajassiman like him that a woman is feeding. And God punish Basket mouth too. Animals
DeleteFine boy. Igbo boys sabi fine and they have good manners. That's why I married one. They Take good care of their wives too. I love love the Igbos.
ReplyDeleteOk .....
ReplyDeleteWow! Well spoken like a real Man Apology Accepted No real man can runaway from his father's Land that you now know
ReplyDeleteHe looks like Bob Obodo
ReplyDeleteAccepted bro. Seen a lot of his interviews after Linda's first publication of him and of a truth; this guy represents Nigeria everywhere he goes. God bless you Classic Man.
ReplyDeleteAccepted
ReplyDeleteWe hear you
Fallen in love with this sexy guy
ReplyDeleteNice one Jidenna. I love u already.
ReplyDeleteI believe him and I love him already for this. My Ibo brother.
ReplyDeleteWell said Jidenna. I know the family and can attest to the horror they went through. It speaks volumes that he still feels that it is important to maintain good relationship with his roots despite the horrible experiences suffered by his family. I am SO proud of him for addressing this issue when he really did not even have to. He is super educated- got into Harvard, but went to Stanford instead, and he followed every protocol to come and bury his father in his village in Nigeria despite the risks. You are a well brought up young man, a role model and a classic man. Great job at the BET Awards....When is your next single... Everyone should please support this young man - don't just write about support - download from I-tunes, and buy his awesome music!!! GO Jidenna!
ReplyDeleteHe wanted attention to promote n create buzz for himself n whatever he does, n guess what? It worked! Ignorant ass albino looking like lizard.. FOH!
ReplyDeleteBad belle. Go and kill yourself. Show your face and let's compare. Ugly mofo!
DeleteIt's good he made people understand what he was thinking when he made that comment
ReplyDeleteAlright
ReplyDeleteAccepted cause u are a classy man
ReplyDeleteIt's ok, go and sin no more.
ReplyDeletegod save you i for use you sock garri
ReplyDeleteCool talk.....plenty sense..anyways na true u talk shall
ReplyDelete"...Controvery"?
ReplyDeleteAll this "value" biz is making me feel some type of way but I'll let you slide this time. Let me go find this song you found a way to sneak into your write-up.
ReplyDeleteAll this "value" biz is making me feel some type of way but I'll let you slide this time. Let me go find this song you snuck into your write-up.
ReplyDeleteLINDA, I LIKE THIS GUY FOR YOU.....PLS MARRY HIM, AM SURE HE SENT THIS LETTER TO YOU PERSONALLY SO YOU HAVE HIS CONTACTS
ReplyDeleteLOL
DeleteForgiven and now water under the bridge. This is what he should've said and how he should've said it from the beginning. We know the ills that cause stench and rot in our country but if someone wants to distance himself from us we will distance ourselves but not without insulting his forefathers first...nigerians sha lol. Old adage, I can insult myself and my family, but you cannot use the same insult if you're not in the family. I takes a "classic man" to admit his mistakes and apologize and he's done both. I hail my igbo brother.
ReplyDeleteNice One. He looks like Banky by the way but cuter cuz he's without the big head.
ReplyDeleteThis guy is talented....see grammar. alright we have heard. It's ok nna
ReplyDeleteJidenna, God Bless you and God Bless Nigeria.
ReplyDeletei still like him and his music.Apology accepted
ReplyDeleteIn Igbo... Si eba puwa... shiit mehn.. say wohh!!!
ReplyDeleteI understand you better now Jide.. Very classic indeed.
ReplyDeletePlease loose the beard✌✌
How come is dad is dark-skinned?I thought that all igbos are light-skinned and descend from king david of isreal.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha! Foolish person. Just like saying all Yorubas are ugly with big tribal marks and descendants of Egypt.
DeleteU 4 no clarify ursef knw weda u go show Dia country again nonsense try control ur tongue mak e no put u 4 trouble
ReplyDeleteWell written.
ReplyDeleteI don't need to, but I feel compelled to comment so that if at all Jidenna ever reads this, he would see another comment that acknowledges his truth as valid and important. Everyone in the world has some complex or another; unfortunately social media gives Nigerians (and other groups) the "opportunity" to express their complexes, stew in their dysfunction, and then make sensible honest expression feel defensive. Stay classic, Jidenna! You rock!
ReplyDeleteThis guy is a fool. And he is insulting our intelligence. He didn't even apologise. He is a disgrace and he should take his light skinned ass away from us. We love put brown skin. We are beautiful and we love Nigeria. Why did he have to distinguish between the two skin tones. He is a disgusting human being.
ReplyDeleteClassic open Letter from a 'classic' man! Xoxo
ReplyDeleteWhen you say things when you're not prepared for them that's actually when your speaking from the bottom of your belly. Going back and reflecting on all that has happened and thinking a mere article would make me perceive you different is a big lie. Before this controversy I never knew you but now I have watched your video. Be try and be yourself. What will be will be light skin or dark we are all human.
ReplyDeleteTake several seats man. You would say worse if you had similar experience. Get a fvcking life!!!
Deletemature way of handling matters,I see truth in it. Respect,u just earned 100 points
ReplyDeleteJidenna is so sweet!
ReplyDeleteI dont understand these new linda ikeji soldiers e.g mr stretch who wont let any one oppose thier opinion. I mean even if you get paid to do pr dont follow uncle jona's pr analysts who kept insulting the public and ended up isolating him more..
ReplyDeleteI dont get these new linda ikeji soldiers who wont let any one oppose their views without getting aggressive e.g mr stretch
ReplyDeleteSeen
ReplyDeleteYou are forgiven...but no fuck up again o
ReplyDeleteI love your name Jidenna( hold onto God), it's beautiful. This is not actually an apology but a clarification based on your last writeup. I love the way and manner you went about it and this is how people should relate with one another to build and enhance relationship. I clearly understand the terms you used now which got me confused. Things and times have changed but you can't be alien to your homeland. More of this please.
ReplyDeleteCool story, next please
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell
Once bitten by a snake, you will be ready to shoot a lizard!!! I love that proverb "taken"
ReplyDeletethis dude just got popular, downloading all his songs....#hitMe
ReplyDeletewell said dude
ReplyDeletewell said dude
ReplyDeleteCan't even find any of my messages
ReplyDeleteNigeria conjures up the fondest memories of being an exchange student back, back in the day. I was not at odds with being in a different place, because I was reared in the Eastern Caribbean and I made the adjustment immediately. Jamaican women where I worked would say she is "one of us" although I am not Jamaican. A sense of belonging heaped around me, but I can say this, Nigeria is a mix of old and new, yet I always kept my eyes open for those who thought they could outsmart me. "Look at this girl oh", thought I was a Nigerian returning who had gotten beside herself. Not hardly. I am humble as ever. Although I can relate to Jidenna has stated, I think he did so very diplomatically. The truth sometimes hurts. Thus, the reaction from fellow Nigerians. I will say this although I am what most people of African descent would refer to as "brown skin", I too being a foreigner had a certain type of prestige in Nigeria. I could not understand, but that was just their mindset. For instance, it always amazed me I was always asked to eat "English diet". I also gathered there was not a strong sense of consciousness among certain folk, about being Nigerian or for that matter, connection to Africans in the Diaspora. Enough said'
ReplyDeleteNigeria conjures up the fondest memories of being an exchange student back, back in the day. I was not at odds with being in a different place, because I was reared in the Eastern Caribbean and I made the adjustment immediately. Jamaican women where I worked would say she is "one of us" although I am not Jamaican. A sense of belonging heaped around me, but I can say this, Nigeria is a mix of old and new, yet I always kept my eyes open for those who thought they could outsmart me. "Look at this girl oh", thought I was a Nigerian returning who had gotten beside herself. Not hardly. I am humble as ever. Although I can relate to Jidenna has stated, I think he did so very diplomatically. The truth sometimes hurts. Thus, the reaction from fellow Nigerians. I will say this although I am what most people of African descent would refer to as "brown skin", I too being a foreigner had a certain type of prestige in Nigeria. I could not understand, but that was just their mindset. For instance, it always amazed me I was always asked to eat "English diet". I also gathered there was not a strong sense of consciousness among certain folk, about being Nigerian or for that matter, connection to Africans in the Diaspora. Enough said'
ReplyDelete"where are the other two points?" I am loving it. I think he is talking about my own life growing up in NYC. Igbo parents sha..
ReplyDelete