Dear LIB readers; My man can't get it up & has refused to seek help
From a female LIB reader
I am a frustrated new wife. I've been married for just under a year and I can count how many times I have had sex with my husband. He got treated for diabetes and since then has been having problems getting it up. I've told him several times to go find help but he has refused. He is embarrassed and doesn't want any one to know about this challenge but it is making me frustrated. If I am lucky I get it once in two weeks and a lot of work has to put into it for our lovemaking to happen. I'm trying to get pregnant but I don't see how this is going to happen when my husband can't perform. Can anyone help me? Since he has refused to go seek help, maybe you know something I can for him at home to help our situation? Help please! I am a sexual person so this is frustrating!
1. You're just a hoe. 2. You were blind when marrying him ko? 3. He's probably gay. Diabetes won't inhibit him from getting it up. 4. Once in two weeks is fine. Be content. Some don't even have any. 5. It's the reward of marriage desperate gals that seem to populate the streets these days. Carry ya cross.
Hey I'm a doctor from London. It's probably the side effect of a drug he's still taking for diabetes. All doctors in Nigeria know about this. He should ask for an alternative. They'll understand
That could be one of d acute effects of anti diabetic drugs. I will advice as a toxicologist to take supplements, and if he can take bitter kola, and also take this small round seeds that hausas sell. It is called ofio or imumu in yoruba. This seed gives a milky taste when chewed. According to my research and others, we call it man power.
Really u should confirm if he is not Gay! Meanwhile I think at this stage he should allow u to confide in a female member of his family before they start coming for u. @ doctor Kent, according to the writer, I don't think he is still on treatment. If he has a grown up daughter, u should tell her.
Yea. It's prolly a drug related side effect. My Husband had this issue too. He had to use Viagra , which I didn't like because I think it's side effect on him could shorten his life. Pls cook more vegetable related meals and let him drink lots of yoghurt, less alcohol. He could also try changing his diabetes pills
Skelewu, u r an idiot!!! Anon 1:15 is everything okay??? She should confide in a female member of d family before they come for her? Meaning d female member should tell others too abi? If he has a female daughter keee lmao, did she tell u she married a divorcee? Nawa ooo
Give him lots of WATERMELONS. Eat the whole thing, plus the seeds and the rind (the bark or back whatever you call it). You can check Google to confirm. I m sure it d help. Goodluck.
If it's due to Drugs, then he has Physical issues to sort out. He definitely needs to see a Doctor.
But if it's as a result of Stress or Anxiety, then Maybe he's trying too Hard to get it up cos he wants to Please you, it's a Psychological thing.
Please don't use the Phrase "He can't Perform" that alone cld demoralize him. I believe he wants to Please you, but Just can't Immediately.
Also, try a lot of Foreplay and let Penetration not be the Ultimate. It may take a while, but he will finally get aroused. And hopefully the frequency of dis will increase. And he may Snap out of it. But it's not a One Day affair. It would take a Looooong while, almost months. But Please Bear with him. That's why you married him.
He should also take Lots of Water Melon. It works like Magic. It's like an Aphrodisiac. And Increases Frequency of Erections.
In all, just be patient Please, He needs you more than ever now. He will Snap out of it eventually. And you'd have ur Stallion in Top Form again.
I understand and i am sure you won't as a new bride, the drugs he is using is the cause. Continue to persuade him to see same doctor that is treating him maybe that will help. Diabetic drugs can play funny on men most times. Be more understanding and know that his ego is on the line now so help him get his ego back. That is why you are his wife.
I understand and i am sure you won't as a new bride, the drugs he is using is the cause. Continue to persuade him to see same doctor that is treating him maybe that will help. Diabetic drugs can play funny on men most times. Be more understanding and know that his ego is on the line now so help him get his ego back. That is why you are his wife.
@anonymous 11:35am......dats terrible and so personal..abi u knw the man in question....or ure d man's sister...so u dey vex say d grl poured her complaint here.....pls u av no right to wish sm1 dead okay
I feel ur pain my love. don't get frustrated my dear. Pls serve him with plenty of okro and ewedu soup it helps. Make him eat plenty banana always it helps with love making .and lastly Talk to GOD
Am so so sorry for you. Prayer is everything. But a problem shared is a problem solved, get a close family member of your husband and explain everything with him or her and the risk involved in you not having see and children early. I think it's going to help
Witch, u want to finally break her home abi? Ewu Gambia.. Madam seek a family doctor and explain everything. A good doctor will surely prefer solution.
Awch! this is really sad......Dunno but u can try getting him some herbal energy booster just for a try....and seriously take him away from all kinds of sugar. God can heal all things
Take him out for a dinner to a lovely place, tell him how special he is and how much you love him.Then romantically beg him to help you fulfill ur heart desires. If he isn't so hard hearted, he'll listen to you and seek help.
I read stuffs like this and i wonder. How can a man have issues getting it up? When some guys have issues bringing it down?
@frustrated wife. i'll advice you toe the herbal remedy path. I can recommend one for you and your hubby.
Are you a lady? Are you bored alone or in that relationship of yours? do you really want to turn things up a notch? If so, why not take that bold step and send a line of interest to akimseun2@gmail.com and lets explore together the infinite possibilities that exist.
Two things are guaranteed tho: One is discretion and two is i dont need your money.
If he refuse to see the doctor, dear go ur self and explain to doctor. And each time u have to discuss it with him use low and caring voice. I believe that one day he will understand u.
I feel whatever u intend to do, u need his consent. Just try and get him to see reasons as to why u should see a specialist!! Be patient with him! Good Luck
Gobe!..nne sorry oh this is certainly more dan frustration..isn't der som1 u can talk to like a family doctor or even his ma?..u c why sampling product b4 purchase is kinda good?
Eyah.take ur time to persuade him.dnt chide on him over it.be patient wit him.n pet him as much as u can for him to go n see a doctor.dnt pressure him.jst keep on askin him in a vry calm way.dnt pressure him ok.its well n also pray abt it #nothankyoui'llratherbeselfmade
U shuld really talk to him abt it. Tell him hw u feel nd he shuld nt b embarrassed abt it bcus u r by his side. Make him understand dat it is abt d future. God b wit u
I would say Viagra but then too much of it is not good. So I think you need to plead with him, first do your home work, find a discrete medical place for men, get their details and speak to your husband in tears
I felt so sorry for you my dear,but I must let you know that,there is nothing impossible,if he refused to seek help you can as well go in search of help on his behalf to save your marriage and plz committing adultery is not an option plzzzzzZzzzz
Hello dear, I am a regular on LIB but I have never made any comment. I decided to write on this due to personal experience from work and a very close friend. first step is try and ensure that that it is not a problem to you by showing ur hubby that u are not that bothered about it so as to build back his confidence.spend more time together talking and flirting with him. whenever he cant get it up try not to appear angry or disappointed. show him love and change the subject. This attitude works because most of this problems are psychological. Remember ur hubby is more concern than you so pls help him too. All the best.
Sorry for your predicament. Since u already know his problem why not visit a Men's clinic and tell a doctor and bring the prescribed drugs back to him at home.
So how do u find a man with ur kind of libido? By sexing them right? For how long? Den u find out ur libidos don't match u move on to the next candidate. What a nonsense advice.
Oh my! U have to help him in getting d help. U can't just tell him to go and get help. And don't make him feel any less cuz of sex. Try and help him just like his mother would. Run around on his behalf, follow him for his treatments and help and don't forget to remind him how much u love him even with his condition. Help him boost his ego and he'll be willing to do or go wherever u want.
You can't "tell him several times to go find help" like it's his own problem. Otherwise, why are you frustrated and writing this? Help him seek help, it's a marriage, your issue is his and his should be yours as well. Y'all are a team and there's no "I" or "U" in TEAM
U have to help him get his confidence back, and whenever it happens don't show how badly u feel, show him more love at this stage and keep talking to him about it in a calm and loving way and not moment wen it fails
My dear. Lucky you! You get it at lease once in two weeks, mine is once in six month. My husband has the same issue too and his keeping quite about it. I have tried all I could to help him to no avail, since he refuse to seek medical help. And relive me, there are Thousands of women with this same issue. God help us. And yes we've being trying for babies too for over 3years. Maybe all the women facing this kind of problem should form a caucus. Lol just joking. All will end in Praise. Just keep praying for him because is not easy for them too.
My dear. Lucky you! You get it at lease once in two weeks, mine is once in six month. My husband has the same issue too and his keeping quite about it. I have tried all I could to help him to no avail, since he refuse to seek medical help. And relive me, there are Thousands of women with this same issue. God help us. And yes we've being trying for babies too for over 3years. Maybe all the women facing this kind of problem should form a caucus. Lol just joking. All will end in Praise. Just keep praying for him because is not easy for them too.
And dear frustrated new wife. be not deceived that western medicine or any medical doctor has the solution to this shit. Like i mentioned earlier, only herbal remedy fixes it. And again, you need to know where to search cos lots and lots of fakes and ineffective hern=bal remedies abound.
Good luck to you both.
Are you a lady? Are you bored alone or in that relationship of yours? do you really want to turn things up a notch? If so, why not take that bold step and send a line of interest to akimseun2@gmail.com and lets explore together the infinite possibilities that exist.
Two things are guaranteed tho: One is discretion and two is i dont need your money.
Since he is ashamed of his predicament and does not want anybody to know, he can go online do his research and even buy some helpful items from all this online stores who deal or specializes in sex related matters. If he is still stubborn to do this, maybe you can do it on his behalf. If you massage his ego well enough I am sure he will see things from your point of view and give in to your request and you can once again have a fulfilled sexual experience
Chaii i jst saw a poster for low erection but is here in ph. My men re full of pride so save ur family by going to look 4 h solution nd be patient with him ok
There's a fantastic medical clinic for men just next to Bertola tools at Anthony/Gbagada on Ikorodu road. The clinic has medical doctors/experts that handle sexual problems associated with men. Your husband could see them. I'm sure u both will be glad he did.
Jst get Maganin Bura Tashi (as Aboki rightly said) from any Fulani or Hausa man u see n watch it perform magic. But u will need to prepare ur Pussy for the coming war.
Pls my candid advice is for both of u to take it to God in prayer. There is nothing impossible with God. He who created it knows better how to fix up any malfunctioning organ.
Let him run to GOd who is called the ABLE, surrender his life and for you do the same. Also attend the class of content and patience. God will heal him
Hmmm it is well, usauli face sure problem too, hubby refused to seek help and I decide to seek help for him, got some western drugs that only worked for a short period,after which I was introduced to som kind of herbal tablet which I usuali mix in his drinks n food. To God b d glory am smiling now n he is hapi too,n I later told him all I did to get him back. Pls help ur man out bfor anoda woman dos, it will b a disaster if anyoda woman get him a solution
U got me commentin on LIB again after a long time. Well for a diabetic it's not d drug he is takin dat is d issue. One of d complications of diabetics is erectile dysfunction. Dis happens especially if he had been diabetic for long and if d illness is poorly controlled. So bottom line is, get him to talk to d doctors treating him about d issue so dat it can b addressed appropriately wit medications. . . LIB VISITOR.
Am sure if u r d 1 wit dis problm,he will get anoda babe to impregnate or constantly bang.... Give him a fuckn ultimatum... U av d right to b api too,nd u r to luv urslf more. Since he dsnt wnt to get help,gve him an ultimatum.... Guys aint loyal.
Weak erection is a major problem amongst many men.pray for him,support him,be patient with him,its barely a year into ur marriage for goodness sake.the reason abokis make serious bucks selling these concoctions is because they have many clients who aren't aliens men like ur husband so ur case isn't unique.if u getting it once in 2weeks appreciate that while hoping for more as time goes by.ur husband just needs to understand how his body works n he will be fine.
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diabetes is a metabolic disorder which usually co-exists with other medical conditions. Once he has been cleared of co-morbidities, he needs to engage in several lifestyle modifications. Stop alcohol, smoking, sleep better eat healthier and start exercising. exercise and physical activity is very important in its management. This is because it helps to control the blood sugar level and also helps in increasing blood flow to the phallus/penis. Invariably, it leads to a healthier sexual life. its one of the conditions which we manage. check out our website www.physiocraft.com and lets see if we can help out.
tHIS HAPPENS BECAUSE SOME OF THE DIABETES DRUGS HAVE ADVERSE EFFECT ON HIS DICK. HE NEEDS TO COMPLAIN TO HIS DOCTOR SO THAT SOME OF HIS DRUGS CAN BE SLOWED, OTHERWISE HIS DICK WILL EVENTUALLY DIE OFF !
Laughter won't let let continue with d comments. Pls lady just be patient, if u can get ur family doctor to convince him to go for treatment that would be nice. Keep praying for him. He's a man n u won't understand how he feels right now not satisfying u his wife. Be patient n encourage him.
he has erectile dysfunction which is a complication of diabetes. He needs to see the doctor before taking drugs like sildenafil (viagra) to ensure his heart can tolerate it. Tell your husband that doctors see enough diseases every day. His erectile dysfunction is absolutely nothing inshort it is expected in male diabetic patients. All the best!
If it is type 2 diabetes you can beat it with diet. As his wife you are in charge of the kitchen so you can control this. Read up on diabetes type 2. It can be beat. I should know coz I had it. hen he will be off his medication and you will run out of the bedroom coz he will be making up for lost time. Good luck girl. If he refuses to help himself, get a playboy, or leave him
Kai madam I feel for you. Its so frustrating when being deprived of sex esp when it's ur right in marriage. This is the reason why we must have sex with our spouses to be before marriage to avoid stories that touch such as this. Sexual compatibility is so important in every relationship. If it's a man nw, he would have been philandering and impregnating babes. Its a woman&every1 is advicing her to endure. Such biased comments. Marriage isn't living in bondage joor
I hope you get to see this post. I think u need to thread carefully because of his ego and this is really sensitive. Once you can gain his trust, you can go to LUTH , they have some of the best urologist/ugandologist you can consult. Pls do not take any drugs the doctor does not prescribe as with diabetes there are side effects.
I hope you get to see this post. I think u need to thread carefully because of his ego and this is really sensitive. Once you can gain his trust, you can go to LUTH , they have some of the best urologist/ugandologist you can consult. Pls do not take any drugs the doctor does not prescribe as with diabetes there are side effects.
Okpemu! Aboki get maganin Bura Tashi!
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Delete1. You're just a hoe.
Delete2. You were blind when marrying him ko?
3. He's probably gay. Diabetes won't inhibit him from getting it up.
4. Once in two weeks is fine. Be content. Some don't even have any.
5. It's the reward of marriage desperate gals that seem to populate the streets these days. Carry ya cross.
Signed,
Maazi Skelewu
*** mynameisSkelewu
ABOKI!!!!!! @maganin Bura Tashi.
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Hey I'm a doctor from London. It's probably the side effect of a drug he's still taking for diabetes. All doctors in Nigeria know about this. He should ask for an alternative. They'll understand
DeletePele ooooooo
DeleteTAKE DR KENT's ADVICE FOR NOW...don't ever consider cheating my dear For God will never understand,it will only ruin you
DeleteThat could be one of d acute effects of anti diabetic drugs. I will advice as a toxicologist to take supplements, and if he can take bitter kola, and also take this small round seeds that hausas sell. It is called ofio or imumu in yoruba. This seed gives a milky taste when chewed. According to my research and others, we call it man power.
DeleteReally u should confirm if he is not Gay! Meanwhile I think at this stage he should allow u to confide in a female member of his family before they start coming for u. @ doctor Kent, according to the writer, I don't think he is still on treatment. If he has a grown up daughter, u should tell her.
DeleteMaazi! Ignorance is killing you. Diabetes affects men'a libido and sexaul organs. Go Google it my friend! Odé! He needs medical help and medication to help with his libido and maintain erections.
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Yea. It's prolly a drug related side effect. My Husband had this issue too. He had to use Viagra , which I didn't like because I think it's side effect on him could shorten his life. Pls cook more vegetable related meals and let him drink lots of yoghurt, less alcohol. He could also try changing his diabetes pills
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Delete1. You're a bigger hoe
2. You're as dumb as shit
3. You're the gay ass
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Skelewu, u r an idiot!!! Anon 1:15 is everything okay??? She should confide in a female member of d family before they come for her? Meaning d female member should tell others too abi? If he has a female daughter keee lmao, did she tell u she married a divorcee? Nawa ooo
DeleteGive him lots of WATERMELONS. Eat the whole thing, plus the seeds and the rind (the bark or back whatever you call it). You can check Google to confirm. I m sure it d help. Goodluck.
DeleteIf it's due to Drugs, then he has Physical issues to sort out. He definitely needs to see a Doctor.
DeleteBut if it's as a result of Stress or Anxiety, then Maybe he's trying too Hard to get it up cos he wants to Please you, it's a Psychological thing.
Please don't use the Phrase "He can't Perform" that alone cld demoralize him. I believe he wants to Please you, but Just can't Immediately.
Also, try a lot of Foreplay and let Penetration not be the Ultimate. It may take a while, but he will finally get aroused. And hopefully the frequency of dis will increase. And he may Snap out of it. But it's not a One Day affair. It would take a Looooong while, almost months. But Please Bear with him. That's why you married him.
He should also take Lots of Water Melon. It works like Magic. It's like an Aphrodisiac. And Increases Frequency of Erections.
In all, just be patient Please, He needs you more than ever now. He will Snap out of it eventually. And you'd have ur Stallion in Top Form again.
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ReplyDeleteMaybe he doesn't see u interesting anymore. Engr Emy
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DeleteHe shld better seek for help o
ReplyDeleteSit him down and talk to him. He has to seek help afterall you are supportive, except there's something he's not telling you
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ReplyDeleteI understand and i am sure you won't as a new bride, the drugs he is using is the cause. Continue to persuade him to see same doctor that is treating him maybe that will help. Diabetic drugs can play funny on men most times. Be more understanding and know that his ego is on the line now so help him get his ego back. That is why you are his wife.
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ReplyDeleteI understand and i am sure you won't as a new bride, the drugs he is using is the cause. Continue to persuade him to see same doctor that is treating him maybe that will help. Diabetic drugs can play funny on men most times. Be more understanding and know that his ego is on the line now so help him get his ego back. That is why you are his wife.
ReplyDeleteHe just has to go seek medical help........no shame in it......
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DeleteI cannnot be with a man who cannot get it up and work it.
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Delete@anonymous 11:35am......dats terrible and so personal..abi u knw the man in question....or ure d man's sister...so u dey vex say d grl poured her complaint here.....pls u av no right to wish sm1 dead okay
DeleteI feel ur pain my love. don't get frustrated my dear. Pls serve him with plenty of okro and ewedu soup it helps. Make him eat plenty banana always it helps with love making .and lastly Talk to GOD
ReplyDeleteAm so so sorry for you. Prayer is everything. But a problem shared is a problem solved, get a close family member of your husband and explain everything with him or her and the risk involved in you not having see and children early. I think it's going to help
ReplyDeleteAaaaah! Worst advice ever!!!
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DeleteStupid Advice ever
DeletePls don't follow dis stupid advice I beg,it should remain btw u n ur husband and d doctor that wil be attending to him
DeleteAre u kidding me, pls keep ur advice to ur self, haba! . Don't tell his family members o
DeleteWitch, u want to finally break her home abi? Ewu Gambia.. Madam seek a family doctor and explain everything. A good doctor will surely prefer solution.
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DeleteYou can seek help for him. Get the medication and start mixing it in his food...Seriously!
ReplyDeleteHe needs to get over his fears and seek medical help. Keep on talking to him. Am sure he wants children.
ReplyDeleteAwch! this is really sad......Dunno but u can try getting him some herbal energy booster just for a try....and seriously take him away from all kinds of sugar. God can heal all things
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ReplyDeleteTake him out for a dinner to a lovely place, tell him how special he is and how much you love him.Then romantically beg him to help you fulfill ur heart desires. If he isn't so hard hearted, he'll listen to you and seek help.
ReplyDeleteI read stuffs like this and i wonder. How can a man have issues getting it up? When some guys have issues bringing it down?
ReplyDelete@frustrated wife. i'll advice you toe the herbal remedy path. I can recommend one for you and your hubby.
Are you a lady? Are you bored alone or in that relationship of yours? do you really want to turn things up a notch? If so, why not take that bold step and send a line of interest to akimseun2@gmail.com and lets explore together the infinite possibilities that exist.
Two things are guaranteed tho: One is discretion and two is i dont need your money.
If he refuse to see the doctor, dear go ur self and explain to doctor. And each time u have to discuss it with him use low and caring voice. I believe that one day he will understand u.
ReplyDeleteI feel whatever u intend to do, u need his consent. Just try and get him to see reasons as to why u should see a specialist!! Be patient with him! Good Luck
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Madam, sit him down and tell him what u just told us....
Go to God in prayers for your hubby sake that is if u love him or sex
ReplyDeleteEyah.take ur time to persuade him.dnt chide on him over it.be patient wit him.n pet him as much as u can for him to go n see a doctor.dnt pressure him.jst keep on askin him in a vry calm way.dnt pressure him ok.its well n also pray abt it
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ReplyDeleteChai....i feel ur pain dear. Maybe he shld take viagra
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ReplyDeleteHmmm!!! Let him seek medical attention or u talk to a doctor on his behalf... dee
ReplyDeleteHe needs help but since you guys are newly
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First of all he needs to admit his problem and then seek for solutions.
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ReplyDeletepray for miracle to happen. and just believe God can do it
ReplyDeleteU shuld really talk to him abt it. Tell him hw u feel nd he shuld nt b embarrassed abt it bcus u r by his side. Make him understand dat it is abt d future. God b wit u
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ReplyDeleteI would say Viagra but then too much of it is not good. So I think you need to plead with him, first do your home work, find a discrete medical place for men, get their details and speak to your husband in tears
ReplyDeleteeiyaaaa pele! That's way too bad for any lady... just pray hard nothing is impossible for God.
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ReplyDeleteSince he as refuse 2 seek medical attention, u can as well do it 4 him. Contact ur doctor n explain tins 2 him or u go orthodox
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ReplyDeleteI felt so sorry for you my dear,but I must let you know that,there is nothing impossible,if he refused to seek help you can as well go in search of help on his behalf to save your marriage and plz committing adultery is not an option plzzzzzZzzzz
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ReplyDeleteHello dear, I am a regular on LIB but I have never made any comment. I decided to write on this due to personal experience from work and a very close friend. first step is try and ensure that that it is not a problem to you by showing ur hubby that u are not that bothered about it so as to build back his confidence.spend more time together talking and flirting with him. whenever he cant get it up try not to appear angry or disappointed. show him love and change the subject. This attitude works because most of this problems are psychological. Remember ur hubby is more concern than you so pls help him too. All the best.
ReplyDeleteLool .. . The thing is, his hormone Is low, he should go and test for TSH, from there the doctors will know the drugs to recommend
ReplyDeleteSorry for your predicament. Since u already know his problem why not visit a Men's clinic and tell a doctor and bring the prescribed drugs back to him at home.
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Wen dey say marry sm1 wirt ur kind of libido una no go hear... Bundle him for fmedical help.
ReplyDeleteSo how do u find a man with ur kind of libido? By sexing them right? For how long? Den u find out ur libidos don't match u move on to the next candidate. What a nonsense advice.
DeleteIs that the advice u gave ur younger sister? Nonsense and ingredient
DeleteCoax him into seeking for help. He just must understand that its a serious issue. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteOh my! U have to help him in getting d help. U can't just tell him to go and get help. And don't make him feel any less cuz of sex. Try and help him just like his mother would. Run around on his behalf, follow him for his treatments and help and don't forget to remind him how much u love him even with his condition. Help him boost his ego and he'll be willing to do or go wherever u want.
DeleteCoax him into seeking for help. He just must understand that its a serious issue. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteU too like penis, Juliet.
DeleteYou can't "tell him several times to go find help" like it's his own problem. Otherwise, why are you frustrated and writing this? Help him seek help, it's a marriage, your issue is his and his should be yours as well. Y'all are a team and there's no "I" or "U" in TEAM
ReplyDeleteU have to help him get his confidence back, and whenever it happens don't show how badly u feel, show him more love at this stage and keep talking to him about it in a calm and loving way and not moment wen it fails
ReplyDeleteHmmmm, dicey situation . Pray n fast . God will intervene
ReplyDeleteHe needs medical help not pray nd fast miss or oga churchy
DeleteHmmmm, dicey situation . Pray n fast . God will intervene
ReplyDeleteMy dear. Lucky you! You get it at lease once in two weeks, mine is once in six month. My husband has the same issue too and his keeping quite about it. I have tried all I could to help him to no avail, since he refuse to seek medical help. And relive me, there are Thousands of women with this same issue. God help us. And yes we've being trying for babies too for over 3years. Maybe all the women facing this kind of problem should form a caucus. Lol just joking. All will end in Praise. Just keep praying for him because is not easy for them too.
ReplyDeleteMy dear. Lucky you! You get it at lease once in two weeks, mine is once in six month. My husband has the same issue too and his keeping quite about it. I have tried all I could to help him to no avail, since he refuse to seek medical help. And relive me, there are Thousands of women with this same issue. God help us. And yes we've being trying for babies too for over 3years. Maybe all the women facing this kind of problem should form a caucus. Lol just joking. All will end in Praise. Just keep praying for him because is not easy for them too.
ReplyDeleteEeya, pray 2 God.Come 2 winners church @ Ota..2 of u shud attend next sunday service,its an anointing service..am sure u will get ur healing..
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ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear,i know how you feel.......go talk to a doctor in private,maybe he can't tell you some possible solutions
ReplyDeleteAnd dear frustrated new wife. be not deceived that western medicine or any medical doctor has the solution to this shit. Like i mentioned earlier, only herbal remedy fixes it. And again, you need to know where to search cos lots and lots of fakes and ineffective hern=bal remedies abound.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to you both.
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ReplyDeleteToo much sugar can cause this in men, please advice him to stay off sugar.
ReplyDeleteSince he is ashamed of his predicament and does not want anybody to know, he can go online do his research and even buy some helpful items from all this online stores who deal or specializes in sex related matters. If he is still stubborn to do this, maybe you can do it on his behalf. If you massage his ego well enough I am sure he will see things from your point of view and give in to your request and you can once again have a fulfilled sexual experience
ReplyDeleteGet a Ghanian Herb at most Ghana bus station .. Dem know born the level well him go sheet all rubbish comot...
ReplyDeleteChaii i jst saw a poster for low erection but is here in ph. My men re full of pride so save ur family by going to look 4 h solution nd be patient with him ok
ReplyDeleteContact me 07055623070, your man need to go traditional since it's the diabetes that causes it.
ReplyDeleteGoodluck!
Spike his tea with aphrodisiac
ReplyDeleteThere's a fantastic medical clinic for men just next to Bertola tools at Anthony/Gbagada on Ikorodu road. The clinic has medical doctors/experts that handle sexual problems associated with men. Your husband could see them. I'm sure u both will be glad he did.
ReplyDeleteJust help him consult a doctor and i tell you......your family will be fortified from the yes of any strange woman in time to come...
ReplyDeleteJst get Maganin Bura Tashi (as Aboki rightly said) from any Fulani or Hausa man u see n watch it perform magic.
ReplyDeleteBut u will need to prepare ur Pussy for the coming war.
SORRY DEAR
ReplyDelete#LIB OBI
If he loves u n u knw him well den u can convince him to get..pray too
ReplyDeleteJust help him consult a doctor and i tell you......your family will be fortified from the yes of any strange woman in time to come...
ReplyDeletePls my candid advice is for both of u to take it to God in prayer. There is nothing impossible with God. He who created it knows better how to fix up any malfunctioning organ.
ReplyDeleteToo bhad
ReplyDeleteget him TREVO.....am sure he will neva remain thesame..
ReplyDeleteLet him run to GOd who is called the ABLE, surrender his life and for you do the same.
ReplyDeleteAlso attend the class of content and patience.
God will heal him
Hmmm it is well, usauli face sure problem too, hubby refused to seek help and I decide to seek help for him, got some western drugs that only worked for a short period,after which I was introduced to som kind of herbal tablet which I usuali mix in his drinks n food. To God b d glory am smiling now n he is hapi too,n I later told him all I did to get him back. Pls help ur man out bfor anoda woman dos, it will b a disaster if anyoda woman get him a solution
ReplyDeletelet him try revive it is a kedi suppliment
ReplyDeletePoint him to the nearest agbo seller, it will help him reduce the sugar in his system.
ReplyDeletelet me come n bang u n get ur pregnant....my poleis as hard as a p.stars own....am a starr in bed...leave dat lame man alone .www.iwonpopular.com
ReplyDeleteAfter you have consulted the medicals also Take him to a living church for prayers and deliverance have faith God make impossible possible.
ReplyDelete*Amigo De Don*
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ReplyDeleteU got me commentin on LIB again after a long time. Well for a diabetic it's not d drug he is takin dat is d issue. One of d complications of diabetics is erectile dysfunction. Dis happens especially if he had been diabetic for long and if d illness is poorly controlled. So bottom line is, get him to talk to d doctors treating him about d issue so dat it can b addressed appropriately wit medications. . . LIB VISITOR.
ReplyDeleteAm sure if u r d 1 wit dis problm,he will get anoda babe to impregnate or constantly bang.... Give him a fuckn ultimatum... U av d right to b api too,nd u r to luv urslf more. Since he dsnt wnt to get help,gve him an ultimatum.... Guys aint loyal.
ReplyDeleteU re so mean
DeleteWeak erection is a major problem amongst many men.pray for him,support him,be patient with him,its barely a year into ur marriage for goodness sake.the reason abokis make serious bucks selling these concoctions is because they have many clients who aren't aliens men like ur husband so ur case isn't unique.if u getting it once in 2weeks appreciate that while hoping for more as time goes by.ur husband just needs to understand how his body works n he will be fine.
ReplyDeleteHe should go and take Manix 10 cards
ReplyDeleteWhy bring it to social network, why not seek for doctor's advice.. Haba
ReplyDeleteLet him seek medical attention.
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ReplyDeleteTwo of you should consult your family doctor for some text please
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ReplyDeleteKai!! Shoosh! stop shouting in my hie. Barawo wan use the geh do sharp sharp business kwo?
DeleteI am diabetic and understands what your husband is going through. Ask him to mail me anguei123@yahoo.ca, I will help him out.
ReplyDeletePray and God will help him.
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ReplyDeletediabetes is a metabolic disorder which usually co-exists with other medical conditions. Once he has been cleared of co-morbidities, he needs to engage in several lifestyle modifications. Stop alcohol, smoking, sleep better eat healthier and start exercising. exercise and physical activity is very important in its management. This is because it helps to control the blood sugar level and also helps in increasing blood flow to the phallus/penis. Invariably, it leads to a healthier sexual life. its one of the conditions which we manage. check out our website www.physiocraft.com and lets see if we can help out.
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ReplyDeletetHIS HAPPENS BECAUSE SOME OF THE DIABETES DRUGS HAVE ADVERSE EFFECT ON HIS DICK. HE NEEDS TO COMPLAIN TO HIS DOCTOR SO THAT SOME OF HIS DRUGS CAN BE SLOWED, OTHERWISE HIS DICK WILL EVENTUALLY DIE OFF !
ReplyDeleteLaughter won't let let continue with d comments. Pls lady just be patient, if u can get ur family doctor to convince him to go for treatment that would be nice. Keep praying for him. He's a man n u won't understand how he feels right now not satisfying u his wife. Be patient n encourage him.
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ReplyDeletehe has erectile dysfunction which is a complication of diabetes. He needs to see the doctor before taking drugs like sildenafil (viagra) to ensure his heart can tolerate it. Tell your husband that doctors see enough diseases every day. His erectile dysfunction is absolutely nothing inshort it is expected in male diabetic patients. All the best!
ReplyDeleteFirst ask him to consult the doctor, then I recommend him taking Multi-Maca. Should help. I can help you get it.
ReplyDeleteCheers
I recommend Multi-Maca for him. I can help you get it across to him.
ReplyDeleteCheers
Tell him to go and buy baby oku and drink it
ReplyDeleteIf it is type 2 diabetes you can beat it with diet. As his wife you are in charge of the kitchen so you can control this. Read up on diabetes type 2. It can be beat. I should know coz I had it. hen he will be off his medication and you will run out of the bedroom coz he will be making up for lost time. Good luck girl. If he refuses to help himself, get a playboy, or leave him
ReplyDeleteIt's probably due to the medication he takes. He shd speak to a doctor, there are always ways around it. Believe me, I've been there.
ReplyDeleteSome people are just too dumb for my comprehension...if you dnt have a cordinated cerebrum, at least you'l keep quiet.
ReplyDeleteKai madam I feel for you. Its so frustrating when being deprived of sex esp when it's ur right in marriage. This is the reason why we must have sex with our spouses to be before marriage to avoid stories that touch such as this. Sexual compatibility is so important in every relationship. If it's a man nw, he would have been philandering and impregnating babes. Its a woman&every1 is advicing her to endure. Such biased comments. Marriage isn't living in bondage joor
ReplyDeleteI hope you get to see this post. I think u need to thread carefully because of his ego and this is really sensitive. Once you can gain his trust, you can go to LUTH , they have some of the best urologist/ugandologist you can consult. Pls do not take any drugs the doctor does not prescribe as with diabetes there are side effects.
ReplyDeletelastly take it to God in prayer.
I hope you get to see this post. I think u need to thread carefully because of his ego and this is really sensitive. Once you can gain his trust, you can go to LUTH , they have some of the best urologist/ugandologist you can consult. Pls do not take any drugs the doctor does not prescribe as with diabetes there are side effects.
ReplyDeletelastly take it to God in prayer.