As you read this, remember you have a warm bed and a cooked meal at home. Everyone wants to be happy, so pay attention. Acknowledge that happiness is not quantified by materialism. I know many people who are reading this right now aren't happy with their lives. I used to think that when I have a nice car and a lot of money I would be happy. Yet on my journey I have met hundreds of people with all of these things, yet none of the happiness. If your bank balance outweighs your sense of purpose, or your only sense of purpose is working to achieve a greater bank balance, you will struggle to find happiness
Some guidelines for happiness I wrote down. Appreciate what you have, gaining more won't make you happy if you aren't happy with what you already have. Live in the moment, don't video everything you see, take it in whilst it is happening, then relive the memories forever. You were there but looking at a phone screen...? Give more than you receive, be it your time, money, gifts, love and laughs. When you give someone your best, the best comes out of you. Stop worrying about your future! Your future is going to happen, it is yours to happen to. If you want something then work towards it, but make sure you are happy on the way there. We are all going to die, concentrate on living. Don't practice escapism because you are unhappy with your reality, be real, keep level headed and make sense of your life. Being high or drunk all the time is a problem, nobody wants to be ill or crazy or both! Life is a journey not a destination, you never want to get too comfortable, comfort is where you put on weight, get slow, become bored. I'm not saying throw yourself out of a plane, but you should try to do something that scares you now and again. Don't worry to much what other people are doing, they are on their own journeys, enjoy yours, try not to compare your behind the scenes life to someone else's highlight reel. Bling from the inside out, not the outside in, as it doesn't work the other way round. What's in your heart and head shines brighter than what's on your wrist and neck. Love your work, this will be a big part of your life.
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ReplyDeleteWow, inspiring, all we need in dis life to be happy is JESUS..
DeleteDs babe ain't gat sense....is ds a matter of national importance?
DeleteFor the very first time, Tonto Dikeh made so much sense. #Postonfleek
DeleteShe didn't write it! Someone wrote it for her, Tony I doesn't think this way.
DeleteI mean Toto not Tony
DeleteNyc one...
ReplyDelete.......she finally found jesus. Lovely piece plus never let Him go. I hope you get to see this
DeleteAbegi park well jorr,wrong tyming!
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Deletethankyou ma...not a fan
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Lol writing from experience huh?
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ReplyDeleteThank u Tonto! Lindaobserve
ReplyDeleteU try..
ReplyDeleteTonto d philospher/inspirational speaker well done its lyk she hsnt use those stuffs dt puts her off d track. Nyc pixs.
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This babe don really turn instagram princess i swear..... Niceone though....
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Work diligently and you'd be proud you did so. No food for the lazy man. 2thess 3:10.
ReplyDeleteGood pointer..ive always liked her..shez really a nice person
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Never knew she got some sense
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ReplyDeleteHow touching ... Chimezieamanze130@gmail.com
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ReplyDeleteWow! Truly inspiring...
ReplyDeleteWow! Truly inspiring...
ReplyDeleteNice one poko baby
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best write up ever
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ReplyDeleteNice one
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Wow,this is a really nice insight,Tonto u did well on this one
ReplyDeleteI get the part of "comfort zone"
ReplyDeleteThanks poko.
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Tonto speaks sense evri now and again
ReplyDeleteComing from a crack head.....her mood go don swing to anoda level.
ReplyDeleteShe didn't drink today tank God.. All said. Money cnt buy happiness
ReplyDeleteNice one tonto
ReplyDeletetrue talk jare .......i feel u dear
ReplyDeleteNimelda said so.............
Hmmm a fat reason to love her, nice lines
ReplyDeleteSo true,am in love with her.
DeleteWow! Very nice of her, and thumbs up to her.
ReplyDeleteNellynizzytp6@yahoo.com.... Tonto u are the best
ReplyDeleteTonto am loving u
ReplyDeleteMe too...Love me some tonto.
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well said sister1. Thats wux up.
ReplyDeleteDis words mak a lot of sense "If your bank balance outweighs your sense of purpose, or your only sense of purpose is working to achieve a greater bank balance, you will struggle to find happiness".
ReplyDeleteI conquer
DeleteWaow.. it was emotional..
ReplyDeleteBut one question plz?
Happiness is not quantified by materialism?.. Ceriously? but why she still dey pursue money?
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Wow! So inspiring....... Did u guys read this? "Give more than you receive, be it
ReplyDeleteyour time, money, gifts, love and laughs. When you
give someone your best, the best comes out of you".
Am inspired
i commend her. Nicely said
ReplyDeleteThumbs up Tonto, well said from A _ Z.
ReplyDeleteDint actually read all.. bt she try
ReplyDeleteYou should read it very inspiring and i believe tonto is talking out of experience that's why u'all should listen.
DeleteSay whatever you want to say about tonto.........she is just great.
ReplyDelete1000likes and am not tonto
Delete#WORD..... I love Tonto For this .. Am her Fan Now... #CHUKKYABLE
ReplyDeleteSo very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteSo very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteSo very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteSo very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!
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ReplyDeletetonto abeg when will u release a new track me love ur song ;;dont mind hater keep doing that thing that will make u happy am kc.pac will love to feature u www.chizobas.blogspot.com
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ReplyDeleteMotivational indeed.
ReplyDeleteHope she abide by what she preach.
#love her tho#
Well said. Thumbs up from A _ Z.
ReplyDeleteThanks tonto for this wonderful advice.
ReplyDeleteI learnt something.
she is so ugly ewww lol
ReplyDeleteUgly as ur mama..lol
Deletestories that touches the heart...*yawns
ReplyDeleteLOVE U TOO
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ReplyDeleteWell said.... good to know that you got a very good ideology to life. U've seen things and acquired to an extent some good things to life. so u can acknowledge the sentiment of the wise king solomon that all is vanity and a striving after the wind. good to remind ourselves with those thoughts
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Wow.. really really nice writeup
ReplyDeleteWow.. really really nice writeup
ReplyDeleteSo she has it in her to come up with ds,nice write up.doxaeyeclinic@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteNice wordx from a beautiful woman..poko
ReplyDeleteWow, just wow!
ReplyDeleteNicely written it touches the heart Jst hope we practice what we author. Jst sayin sha jennifer
ReplyDeleteNice write up, im glad dat dis chick is beginning 2 mature....
ReplyDeleteNice one tonto..ddnt realise she was dis smart
ReplyDeleteShe's not, her friend wrote it for her.
DeleteI never thought a day wud come where tonto and wonderful wud go together...buh alas..extremely nice...its good to see she is in a better frame of mind
ReplyDeletei've always love this girl, regardless!
ReplyDeleteAnd dis is a Ncy piece
ReplyDeleteSo so inspiring. Nice write up.
ReplyDeleteLOVELY TONTO, I WISH IT WAS THAT EASY...
ReplyDeleteAwwwww....very touching coming from her especially,but then,i believe being rich also brings happiness d poor will never have,having alllll d luxury of this world and more!! My aim- to be veryyyyyyyy rich! And nothing is stopping me!
ReplyDeleteQueen poko has spoken abi written. Good one. Keep it up dear
ReplyDeletelovely inspirational talks...really appreciate that dikeh.. hats off..
ReplyDeletemoney doesn't bring happiness, neither does poverty !!! so choose wisely,its better 2b rich n unhappy, dan b poor n still b unhappy! money is life!
ReplyDeleteU still a kid....wen u get a lil older u'll understand
Deletelovely inspirational talks...really appreciate that dikeh.. hats off..
ReplyDeleteTrue talk . Always appreciate what you have. Others are still struggling to get up to where you have reach. Is very good to appreciate 👌
ReplyDeletegood one there
ReplyDeleteDatz gud,real word, first time of making sense
ReplyDeleteHmm..tonto thanks for your food for thought it motivates..LINDA ONYEOMA
ReplyDeletesounds like the innocent calm young woman i use to admire back then in PH b4 the #poko took over... cum back home horny. @d end of it all what doesnt gladden the soul is vanity.
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sounds like the innocent calm young woman i use to admire back then in PH b4 the #poko took over... cum back home horny. @d end of it all what doesnt gladden the soul is vanity.
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Plenty hugs Tonto
ReplyDeleteNice write up tontolet
ReplyDeleteFor the first time ...I really appreciate poko baby ...that's really inspiring..Aytipsy@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteFor the first time ...I really appreciate poko baby ...that's really inspiring..Aytipsy@gmail.com
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ReplyDeleteeverything you said is on point apart from the money bit.....hmmmm...if money wont realy make you happy,try porvaty or being broke. then get back to us....Just a thought .
ReplyDeleteMoney can't make u happy...If u doubt try asking celebrities or superstars dat suffer depression or beta still commit suicide...
DeleteThanks Tontolet......So encouraging...
ReplyDeleteShe make cool sha
ReplyDeleteShe's right
ReplyDeletewe talking election result, u talki tonto dikeh
ReplyDeleteWow!! Truly inspiring....nice one poko!
ReplyDeleteFantastic I am impressed.Well written Dear.Quite Exceptional
ReplyDeleteHmmm... nice one tonto.
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Tonto ke?
ReplyDeleteWell said
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ReplyDeleteThat's why I never condemned you the way some people do. Your word have in courage me and made me to understand that Life is a journey not a destination.
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ReplyDeleteU just won urself a fan. Well said bae!
ReplyDeleteThis something good and new from Tonto... I love your acting sha.. I don't care how u leave Ur life behind the scene is nobody business.. Wasere
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Bla bla bla bla.. 😪
ReplyDeleteNice one, Tonto. Thanks for that really inspiring words
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ok.. now what number am i? hope i win this time......emmmanuelukipeter@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteNice words, thanks for sharing, love you
ReplyDeleteTHANK YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH!! YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!…..i refused to be depressed again!!!….
ReplyDeleteMAY HAPPINESS NEVER CEASE FROM YOUR LIFE!
Nice 1 miss T!
ReplyDeleteLovely Writeup...Thumbs up Tonto
ReplyDeleteThanks dear
ReplyDeleteInspiring! Thanks T
ReplyDeleteNice write up... but the thing too long sha....sholly_boy5721@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteNice one
ReplyDeleteGood one...sholly_boy5721@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteNice one babes, keep doing what u know how to do best cos hardwork pays...
ReplyDeleteKuddos!
ReplyDeleteWell, I think she is very fake. She won't even abide to her copied words
ReplyDeletei am in shock how a drug addict who has neglected her family under the guise of being jealous of her can give valuable advice. Tonto Dick, you can only give advice to people who do not know you. Kindly advice yourself you this ungrateful bitch. God in heaven will judge you. Useless Whore
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Tonto don talk her own
ReplyDeleteSo are we supposed to believe she wrote this or just an excerpt from a book . She isn't that bright .
ReplyDeleteShe should go into writing,not bad
ReplyDeleteFood for the soul..perfect timing!
ReplyDeletePokolee, oshee
ReplyDeleteNice write up tontolet
ReplyDeleteNice write up tontolet
ReplyDeleteNice one Tonto,haters get a life or u huge transformer
ReplyDeleteWell said.
ReplyDeleteMake sense.
ReplyDeleteReally lovely piece
ReplyDeleteTonto dear,God bless u 4 being a blessn to others in whichever little way u can as this...
ReplyDeleteits very easy 2 write like this when u r in Tonto's position bt girl i bet u wld never had writen this while u were still jumping buses and okada around like me. Abeg park 1 side..MATERIAL acquisition INCREASES HAPPINESS period
ReplyDeletewell written..never really a fan of hers but this is really inspiring..i like that thanks so much for this..tonto
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