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Monday, 30 March 2015

Tonto Dikeh sends motivational message to fans

What the actress shared on her instagram page this morning. Very encouraging. Read below...
As you read this, remember you have a warm bed and a cooked meal at home. Everyone wants to be happy, so pay attention. Acknowledge that happiness is not quantified by materialism. I know many people who are reading this right now aren't happy with their lives. I used to think that when I have a nice car and a lot of money I would be happy. Yet on my journey I have met hundreds of people with all of these things, yet none of the happiness. If your bank balance outweighs your sense of purpose, or your only sense of purpose is working to achieve a greater bank balance, you will struggle to find happiness
Some guidelines for happiness I wrote down. Appreciate what you have, gaining more won't make you happy if you aren't happy with what you already have. Live in the moment, don't video everything you see, take it in whilst it is happening, then relive the memories forever. You were there but looking at a phone screen...? Give more than you receive, be it your time, money, gifts, love and laughs. When you give someone your best, the best comes out of you. Stop worrying about your future! Your future is going to happen, it is yours to happen to. If you want something then work towards it, but make sure you are happy on the way there. We are all going to die, concentrate on living. Don't practice escapism because you are unhappy with your reality, be real, keep level headed and make sense of your life. Being high or drunk all the time is a problem, nobody wants to be ill or crazy or both! Life is a journey not a destination, you never want to get too comfortable, comfort is where you put on weight, get slow, become bored. I'm not saying throw yourself out of a plane, but you should try to do something that scares you now and again. Don't worry to much what other people are doing, they are on their own journeys, enjoy yours, try not to compare your behind the scenes life to someone else's highlight reel. Bling from the inside out, not the outside in, as it doesn't work the other way round. What's in your heart and head shines brighter than what's on your wrist and neck. Love your work, this will be a big part of your life.

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    1. Wow, inspiring, all we need in dis life to be happy is JESUS..

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    2. Ds babe ain't gat sense....is ds a matter of national importance?

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    3. For the very first time, Tonto Dikeh made so much sense. #Postonfleek

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    4. She didn't write it! Someone wrote it for her, Tony I doesn't think this way.

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    5. I mean Toto not Tony

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    1. .......she finally found jesus. Lovely piece plus never let Him go. I hope you get to see this

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  3. Abegi park well jorr,wrong tyming!

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  4. thankyou ma...not a fan


    MISSVEE

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  5. Lol writing from experience huh?

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  6. Tonto d philospher/inspirational speaker well done its lyk she hsnt use those stuffs dt puts her off d track. Nyc pixs.

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  7. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    This babe don really turn instagram princess i swear..... Niceone though....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  8. Work diligently and you'd be proud you did so. No food for the lazy man. 2thess 3:10.

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  9. Good pointer..ive always liked her..shez really a nice person

    www.glowyshoe.blogspot.com

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  10. Never knew she got some sense

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  11. How touching ... Chimezieamanze130@gmail.com

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  12. How touching ... Chimezieamanze130@gmail.com

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  13. Wow! Truly inspiring...

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  14. Wow! Truly inspiring...

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  15. Nice one poko baby







    @shady

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  16. best write up ever

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  17. Nice one





    @shady

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  18. Wow,this is a really nice insight,Tonto u did well on this one

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  19. I get the part of "comfort zone"
    Thanks poko.

    OKORO UPGRADED**

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  20. Tonto speaks sense evri now and again

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  21. Coming from a crack head.....her mood go don swing to anoda level.

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  22. She didn't drink today tank God.. All said. Money cnt buy happiness

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  23. true talk jare .......i feel u dear









    Nimelda said so.............

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  24. Hmmm a fat reason to love her, nice lines

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    1. So true,am in love with her.

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  25. Wow! Very nice of her, and thumbs up to her.

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  26. Nellynizzytp6@yahoo.com.... Tonto u are the best

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  27. Tonto am loving u

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    1. Me too...Love me some tonto.

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  28. loving messages from her



    dapizy02@gmail.com

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  29. well said sister1. Thats wux up.

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  30. Dis words mak a lot of sense "If your bank balance outweighs your sense of purpose, or your only sense of purpose is working to achieve a greater bank balance, you will struggle to find happiness".

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  31. Waow.. it was emotional..

    But one question plz?

    Happiness is not quantified by materialism?.. Ceriously? but why she still dey pursue money?

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  32. VERULE Says-updates.fyn baby oku

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  33. Wow! So inspiring....... Did u guys read this? "Give more than you receive, be it
    your time, money, gifts, love and laughs. When you
    give someone your best, the best comes out of you".
    Am inspired

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  34. Thumbs up Tonto, well said from A _ Z.

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  35. Dint actually read all.. bt she try

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    1. You should read it very inspiring and i believe tonto is talking out of experience that's why u'all should listen.

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  36. Say whatever you want to say about tonto.........she is just great.

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    1. 1000likes and am not tonto

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  37. #WORD..... I love Tonto For this .. Am her Fan Now... #CHUKKYABLE

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  38. So very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!

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  39. So very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!

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  40. So very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!

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  41. So very well said, Tonto well done. Linda take note!

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  42. tonto abeg when will u release a new track me love ur song ;;dont mind hater keep doing that thing that will make u happy am kc.pac will love to feature u www.chizobas.blogspot.com

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  43. Motivational indeed.
    Hope she abide by what she preach.
    #love her tho#

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  44. Well said. Thumbs up from A _ Z.

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  45. Thanks tonto for this wonderful advice.
    I learnt something.

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  46. she is so ugly ewww lol

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  47. stories that touches the heart...*yawns

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  48. Well said.... good to know that you got a very good ideology to life. U've seen things and acquired to an extent some good things to life. so u can acknowledge the sentiment of the wise king solomon that all is vanity and a striving after the wind. good to remind ourselves with those thoughts

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  49. Wow.. really really nice writeup

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  50. Wow.. really really nice writeup

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  51. So she has it in her to come up with ds,nice write up.doxaeyeclinic@yahoo.com

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  52. Nice wordx from a beautiful woman..poko

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  53. Wow, just wow!

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  54. Nicely written it touches the heart Jst hope we practice what we author. Jst sayin sha jennifer

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  55. Nice write up, im glad dat dis chick is beginning 2 mature....

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  56. Nice one tonto..ddnt realise she was dis smart

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    1. She's not, her friend wrote it for her.

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  57. I never thought a day wud come where tonto and wonderful wud go together...buh alas..extremely nice...its good to see she is in a better frame of mind

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  58. i've always love this girl, regardless!

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  59. So so inspiring. Nice write up.

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  60. LOVELY TONTO, I WISH IT WAS THAT EASY...

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  61. Awwwww....very touching coming from her especially,but then,i believe being rich also brings happiness d poor will never have,having alllll d luxury of this world and more!! My aim- to be veryyyyyyyy rich! And nothing is stopping me!

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  62. Queen poko has spoken abi written. Good one. Keep it up dear

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  63. lovely inspirational talks...really appreciate that dikeh.. hats off..

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  64. money doesn't bring happiness, neither does poverty !!! so choose wisely,its better 2b rich n unhappy, dan b poor n still b unhappy! money is life!

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    1. U still a kid....wen u get a lil older u'll understand

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  65. lovely inspirational talks...really appreciate that dikeh.. hats off..

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  66. True talk . Always appreciate what you have. Others are still struggling to get up to where you have reach. Is very good to appreciate 👌

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  67. Datz gud,real word, first time of making sense

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  68. Hmm..tonto thanks for your food for thought it motivates..LINDA ONYEOMA

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  69. sounds like the innocent calm young woman i use to admire back then in PH b4 the #poko took over... cum back home horny. @d end of it all what doesnt gladden the soul is vanity.

    @mcsenator1
    ff

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  70. sounds like the innocent calm young woman i use to admire back then in PH b4 the #poko took over... cum back home horny. @d end of it all what doesnt gladden the soul is vanity.

    @mcsenator1
    ff

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  71. For the first time ...I really appreciate poko baby ...that's really inspiring..Aytipsy@gmail.com

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  72. For the first time ...I really appreciate poko baby ...that's really inspiring..Aytipsy@gmail.com

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  73. everything you said is on point apart from the money bit.....hmmmm...if money wont realy make you happy,try porvaty or being broke. then get back to us....Just a thought .

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    1. Money can't make u happy...If u doubt try asking celebrities or superstars dat suffer depression or beta still commit suicide...

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  74. Thanks Tontolet......So encouraging...

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  75. we talking election result, u talki tonto dikeh

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  76. Wow!! Truly inspiring....nice one poko!

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  77. Fantastic I am impressed.Well written Dear.Quite Exceptional

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  78. Hmmm... nice one tonto.

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  79. not my biz

    dapizy02@gmail.com

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  80. not my biz

    dapizy02@gmail.com

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  81. not my biz

    dapizy02@gmail.com

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  82. not my biz

    dapizy02@gmail.com

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  83. That's why I never condemned you the way some people do. Your word have in courage me and made me to understand that Life is a journey not a destination.

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  84. U just won urself a fan. Well said bae!

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  85. This something good and new from Tonto... I love your acting sha.. I don't care how u leave Ur life behind the scene is nobody business.. Wasere

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  86. Bla bla bla bla.. 😪

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  87. Nice one, Tonto. Thanks for that really inspiring words

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  88. OK seen

    ugobest4realluv@yahoo.com

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  89. ok.. now what number am i? hope i win this time......emmmanuelukipeter@yahoo.com

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  90. Nice words, thanks for sharing, love you

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  91. THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH!! YOU HAVE MADE MY DAY!!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!…..i refused to be depressed again!!!….

    MAY HAPPINESS NEVER CEASE FROM YOUR LIFE!

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  92. Lovely Writeup...Thumbs up Tonto

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  93. Nice write up... but the thing too long sha....sholly_boy5721@yahoo.com

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  94. Good one...sholly_boy5721@yahoo.com

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  95. Nice one babes, keep doing what u know how to do best cos hardwork pays...

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  96. Well, I think she is very fake. She won't even abide to her copied words

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  97. i am in shock how a drug addict who has neglected her family under the guise of being jealous of her can give valuable advice. Tonto Dick, you can only give advice to people who do not know you. Kindly advice yourself you this ungrateful bitch. God in heaven will judge you. Useless Whore

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  98. nice research......

    iamsegun


    fasegz@gmail.com

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  99. So are we supposed to believe she wrote this or just an excerpt from a book . She isn't that bright .

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  100. She should go into writing,not bad

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  101. Food for the soul..perfect timing!

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  102. Nice one Tonto,haters get a life or u huge transformer

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  103. Tonto dear,God bless u 4 being a blessn to others in whichever little way u can as this...

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  104. its very easy 2 write like this when u r in Tonto's position bt girl i bet u wld never had writen this while u were still jumping buses and okada around like me. Abeg park 1 side..MATERIAL acquisition INCREASES HAPPINESS period

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  105. well written..never really a fan of hers but this is really inspiring..i like that thanks so much for this..tonto

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