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Tuesday, 24 February 2015

Singer Essence on why it's been difficult to get married

One of the hassles of being single is that people never stop asking you about it..lol. After a while, you just repeat the same thing to everyone. When asked if being single bothered her and why it's been difficult for her to get married, singer Essence said;
"It bothers some people. Some think it is destiny. If you can work towards it, fine. It doesn't just work for everybody. If it happens, fine. If not, fine"she said
"Marriage is difficult. A lot of people in it are not enjoying it. Some are enjoying it. It is not just me. I wouldn't be sent to hell if I don't get married" she said
at 2/24/2015 01:08:00 pm

97 comments:

  1. @MEETD®EALEVANS™24 February 2015 at 13:10

    Okay, run along

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  2. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:10

    But u dey fuck nah?

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    1. Mr nice guy24 February 2015 at 13:41

      Izzz normal

      @lwkmd_naija

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    2. Princess G24 February 2015 at 15:42

      Na WA for ur question oooo. Did she tell u that she is calibrate

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    3. Unknown24 February 2015 at 17:59

      Which one I s calibrate again????biko calibrate ko caliber neee..celibate

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    4. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 22:35

      Rotflmao @ calibrate. Jezzzzuuusss

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  3. Peejay24 February 2015 at 13:10

    *yawns*.

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  4. Bonita Bislam24 February 2015 at 13:11

    She's right.No one can send you to hell for not getting married.

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  5. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:11

    Aunty... Go and marry; Make it work for U

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  6. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:11

    Eyaaa... Alright.. It is well

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  7. Americannah24 February 2015 at 13:11

    Hmmm. Me I want to get married o. Every mallam with em kettle.

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  8. Bonita Bislam24 February 2015 at 13:11

    She's right.No one can send you to hell for not getting married.

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  9. NaijaDeltaBabe24 February 2015 at 13:11

    Oh! She's still single?

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  10. AbokiDaWarriBoy24 February 2015 at 13:11

    Na dem sabi

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  11. AbokiDaWarriBoy24 February 2015 at 13:12

    Na dem sabi

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  12. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:12

    yet its kinda necessary

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    1. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:43

      No it isn't. It is not perquisite to make it to Heaven

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  13. The Monarch24 February 2015 at 13:13

    its her life anything she like she do

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  14. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:13

    All ur mates are already married. What is stopping u?


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    1. Unknown25 February 2015 at 04:09

      We wont visit your already failed blog, you piece of insensitive soul. Very stupid, myopic and heartless comment. Wish i could bitch slap you back to that cave you escaped from.

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  15. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:14

    Abrakarian long time no see

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  16. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:14

    My dear lives your life,marriage is something to rush into

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    1. Unknown24 February 2015 at 16:00

      Abeg is dis a typo abi ?????????

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    2. @osirmah24 February 2015 at 16:16

      GBAGUAN!!!!!!!! Lawd......*faints*

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  17. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:14

    True talk dear,a lot of people are not enjoying it they are just dying in silent

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  18. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:14

    Chai its destiny my dear when the right time comes you will be selected.





    ***floxycares***

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  19. MADE IN NIGERIA24 February 2015 at 13:15

    hhahhhahhahahhhaha @ i wouldn't be sent to hell if i don't get married....no be by force jare my sister but me i want to be married, so different choices 4 different people.

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  20. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:15

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
    .
    Waiting for rich man as usual though....
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  21. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:16

    True talk dear,most married couple just pretend to b happy while dying in silent

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  22. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:16

    she is right its not a do or die affair. some people might be better off single. If a man dosnt come for them shoudl they die ? some cant stay under a man cos they dont wanna be controlled, so dont cos dey wanna meet different men.

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  23. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:16

    True talk dear,most married couple just pretend to b happy while dying in silent

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  24. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:16

    If a man dosnt ask for her hand in marriage will that be her fault ? not at all.

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  25. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:16

    Thank you my sister!

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  26. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:17

    Even if u don't wanna get married ,at least have children!!!!!!

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  27. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:18

    this lady just dey fat dey go, see her face...
    remain single then if you won't be send to hell ode








    #Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

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  28. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:18

    NA TRUE JARE

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  29. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:18

    NA UR CHOICE MADAM......TOMJERRYSWIT

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  30. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:18

    NA UR CHOICE MADAM......TOMJERRYSWIT

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  31. Jules24 February 2015 at 13:21

    Awww...God is in control!

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  32. kayPee24 February 2015 at 13:26

    True... Relationships are difficult... Marriage could be Crazy..

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  33. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:27

    Hmmmmm that's hst the fact, she kuku will nt kill herself. Biko enjoy ur life, if man come jeje if man no come stl jeje

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  34. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:29

    Hmmmmm that's hst the fact, she kuku will nt kill herself. Biko enjoy ur life, if man come jeje if man no come stl jeje

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  35. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:30

    Aboki, will u be the father of the children, olodo

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  36. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:32

    ITS BECAUSE UVE GOT SQUARE JAWS!CHISEL THEM OUT AND I'LL ARRANGE A DATE FOR U....Mr fix

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  37. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:36

    Lyndie, dnt mind her, u hear? Me wil b very Api 2c u get successfully married, biko! I pray 4 ds 2!

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  38. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:39

    She said it all. C d rate women are cheating on dir spouse, c d rate of divorce, c d rates of single parent, the days of our mothers has gone, Essex 1 advice, adopt or 1 a child. Let God b our husband, I don't stand alone

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  39. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:41

    Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

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  40. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:41

    Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

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  41. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:41

    Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

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  42. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:42

    Yes o! Well said Essence, it is necessary but not a Do or Die affair. Linda take note!

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  43. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:46

    Nor marry na. Who you help???


    @Sophia Stephen

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  44. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:46

    THAT IS WHY ITS A SUPER STORY.


    NWUNYE EMI

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  45. BluntIjebuChic'*GiFTED'*24 February 2015 at 13:47

    we will definitely survive..I sha no fit marry moi self...#GiftedDiva#

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  46. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:48

    she is a lesbian

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  47. Unknown24 February 2015 at 13:54

    It's well with you my sis. If you remain faithful to God,He sure makes things beautiful in His time. I like your response. #KeepFaith

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  48. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 13:58

    Sm ppl don't hw difficult marriage is until dy get married. I got married @ d age of 17 nd am 23 nw, 2 b candid I cry everyday cos am not happy. @all ...I jst wish I Cld turn back d hands of tym...#Queenmama...

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  49. uwa24 February 2015 at 14:12

    If you ask me my dear , my answer is and will always be :MARRIAGE IS OVERRATED !
    Make your money,take care of yourself and family, be happy , when the time is right for you kukuma make your babies through the best channel that will not frustrate you .

    Things sometimes start falling apart for some people when the RING sit's on that finger, they feel trapped which dig out the worst in them . Before you know it, you don start your own Biafra war for house .
    No dear, is not for me biko .
    I've seen beautiful people together for 10 wonderful years, got married and everything packed up like a badly made China toy !
    Look at rate divorce trends now .

    Sorry baby, but this is what I want, tag it Gemini madness , na you sabi .For me, na no!

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  50. Unknown24 February 2015 at 14:17

    Oh well.. it's just basic nigerian mentality that if ure not married, u haven't achieved the ultimate in life.. ure not fulfilled. .ure not normal. May God see us thru..

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  51. GALORE24 February 2015 at 14:29

    Eya........Peele d thing no easy especially if u are a star.




    @Galore

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  52. @Osirmah24 February 2015 at 14:37

    Singer u called her?? Lmao......wen last did she record any song?? Lol, babe abeg help urself

    FF on IG n Twitter @Osirmah

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  53. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 14:37

    If you don't get married remember not to fuck
    its a big sin to fuck while singe

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  54. M424 February 2015 at 14:41

    She's fuckin lesbian she stays on my street I knw the bitch fuckin her

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  55. Unknown24 February 2015 at 14:41

    Yes God doesn't care if you are married or not before he will use your sins to judge you and send you to hell fire........good one from her


    ::::::::::::::::::::::::QUEENMAYA:::::::::::::::::::::::

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  56. ABEE...24 February 2015 at 14:49

    True..u can be send to hell if u marry a wrong man dat makes u sin (querrelled, fighting, bitterness etc) and u can also be sent to hell if u remain single & unholy...Marriage can either form u or deformed you. Its never a sin in the bible if one isn't married, but if u must be unmarried, make sure to remain holy. No touch touch..lol

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  57. prettiyz24 February 2015 at 14:58

    Don't let what makes pple say let u make d wrong decision

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  58. Unknown24 February 2015 at 15:04

    Truth she said.... There is always a but...

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  59. Unknown24 February 2015 at 15:08

    Not everyone will get married... My dear, its ur life, live it as u please but live it right.

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  60. Subomi24 February 2015 at 15:15

    an interesting way to look at it.. her life her opinion jare

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  61. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 15:16

    make she no lie, one baba agba is servicing her regularly.

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  62. Unknown24 February 2015 at 15:30

    Ok

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  63. Chop Chop24 February 2015 at 15:37

    Don't be pressured .

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  64. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 16:05

    Go and marry Linda and forget about ds peeps.

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  65. LA' SUNSHINE24 February 2015 at 16:12

    The fact that most people aren't happy in their marriages doesnt mean u won't be happy, thats just a stupid thing to say.... marriage is not easy but is the best thing dat can happen to any one, no one should be alone.. the truth is nobody can give us all the happiness we want not even our spouse, there is a vacuum in our heart that is mean't to be for God alone and if his not dere we won't be completely happy..

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  66. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 16:20

    Leave them, this is what they say after they had bungled all the opportunity God gave them. They refused to listen to their mother and chose wayward life and now they will console themselves that it's not important. Many will even choose to be single mother raising kids that will for ever suffer from lack of fatherly love and become another menace to society. Awon were. Linda if you like don't post my comment o.

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  67. Unknown24 February 2015 at 16:51

    I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

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  68. Unknown24 February 2015 at 16:51

    I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

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  69. Unknown24 February 2015 at 16:52

    I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

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  70. Unknown24 February 2015 at 16:52

    I am in it and I am enjoying it. Not like I married early sha. So many questions like that but finally I got married. God's time is the best

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  71. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 18:05

    WHY is it that mature singles always finger the rate of divorce and bad marriages as reason for staying single ??truth be told you want to marry but no body came yet..so is that a bad reason?? after yarning dem go dey pursue any man wey dem see up and down dey find way to marry am....i think na only linda just respect her self keep quiet...before i met my spouse i wanted to settle down so no need to lie and pretend then wet your pillow at night..just say right man hasn't come yet..simple

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  72. Unknown24 February 2015 at 18:39

    How will you get married when you have boy friend your husband? Marriage have principles and you ll understand it when monopus come staring at you face....Olochi....Linda in copy...

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  73. Unknown24 February 2015 at 19:07

    We hear u...

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  74. Ajoke24 February 2015 at 19:11

    I will marry and start a family this year in Jesus name amen.

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  75. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 19:43

    Marriage is a thing whereby, those that are in it wants to get out, and those that are not in it, wants to get in. On quote!!

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  76. Unknown24 February 2015 at 21:25

    U better don't look for cover from what essen said, hold him tight if u av 1, if u don't av go get 1 and lastly don't use ur husband for a boyfriend

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  77. Anonymous24 February 2015 at 22:52

    You wouldn't be sent to hell if you don't get married but Na hell fire direct if you do that thing* without marriage.

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  78. GR8BABE 25 February 2015 at 00:30

    Marriage is a beautiful thing and only God can make it beautiful.GOD IS LOVE...

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  79. Unknown6 March 2015 at 20:20

    Don't worry, if u meet d right man now, ur sorry will change.

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