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Tuesday, 24 February 2015

Dear LIB readers: I last so long during sex and I am worried...

From a male LIB reader
I feel I have a problem of ejaculating late. My girlfriend doesn't complain but I know it worries her. I'm feeling weird like when me and my friends take our girlfriends to hotels (something like that ) I always come out last and I feel awkward. Is it normal or I am just over reacting?

188 comments:

  1. Now, is that supposed to be a problem???


    @Sophia Stephen

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    1. Na problm oo, sumtym u jst wanna be done in 10mins bt u end up goin 45mins n yet no sign of releasing yet! It do happen 2 me lyk dat ooo, I will force it 2 cum out or sumtym jst pack up n get a handjob lata

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    2. Bro na so eh be oooo..Most times I dont release. My gf just begs me to stop..and its not jus her ...it happens wit all d girls.. they jus wear out after about 30 mins...n my shlong is real big too..its a real problem. .

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    3. Hope u plan to marry her o cos u cannot work so hard on her farm n dump her. Thank you

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    4. Pls u people should teach me. I am an Indomie man *hottears*

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    5. Hahaha @im an Indomie man! Don't worry your time will come

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    6. Stewpeed question! My friend, Google is ur friend. Better still, see a doctor!

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  2. Hehehehe I can relate to dat ..... Lol

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  3. Ma dear! Don't let dat disturb u take God u said is ur gal frd and nt ur wife! Is well Gud nite Linda ikeji

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    1. Have you tried all the styles? Because some styles makes guys ejaculate fast. So try them styles to know which is which

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    1. What some women are looking for, is now a problem to some dude, uwaezuoke.

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    2. Hahahahah...wetin Linda do u now? Chai dis my babe don suffer..anyway she's jus doing her work despite all d tease on her...lol

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  5. Lol. U need Linda in ur life.

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  6. Na you sabi. ##########OTUoCHA

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    1. Wen some people re complaining of not lasting long my guy dey complain say him last long nawaooo

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  7. Not something out of the ordinary...As far as you still can climax, it's ok..perhaps you need more foreplay before intercourse for extra stimulation. #SeunLondon

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  8. Okokobioko..lmfao

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  9. Girlfriend??? Pls give ur life Christ.

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  10. Hian! And this is supposed to be a problem?
    Send your CV to Brazzers.com and you'll see how they'll rush you.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  11. It's a good thing I think :D ----C21

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  12. Stupid post.
    Linda abeg go find news.

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    1. Abi My broda

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    2. If you guys so much want to read news related stuff only, why not go on cnn website? Awon hypocrite oshi...

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  13. You have a g/friend that doesn't complain, meaning she gives you it to all she's got, and you are still asheworing with prostitutes in hotels?

    Later now you go give her HIV like Hanks.

    Mchwwww!

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  14. Too much Jedi and opa Eyin. End of story

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  15. It depends... But if its 2 long,den dere is a problem

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  16. ODE! it's because your hand is always on your dick. Stop wanking for a week! After when you finally have sex you'll find out you'll be back to a normal human being. At the moment you sound like your a regular client of pixelated naked women.

    Thankyou and please come again

    #DoktorMofin

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    1. I'll try dat out, cux ds same tin do hapen 2 me n I do d wank alot!! I will try 2 stop d wank maybe I'd cum in tym n not spend so many minutes dia

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    2. Just how shameless can one be?
      Ahmed had to give us details of his sex life, even with his photo clearly displayed for all to see?
      Your girlfriend must be proud of you. .. smh

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    3. Hmmmm aiye ooo speaking from experience

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    4. Doktormofin, it's not all true. Ever since I started having sex, I could go for up to 2 hours with a few short intervals on my first round. To me it is more of a personal and psychological thing...with or without beating my meat, even if i do not do sex for a whole month, it doesn't change much. It was an issue for me at first because girls would climax and get exhausted while I was still running on nitros until I had this one girl that loved me for it and made me more comfortable...it was then I understood that it wasn't much of a problem.

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    5. Yepa, 1st round 2hrs n u never come? Ao many hours wl 2nd round now take u? U need serious deliverance n ur babe too

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    6. Funny enough, my second round lasts shorter than the first.

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  17. It depends... But if its 2 long,den dere is a problem

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  18. There's nothing wrong with it

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  19. There's nothing wrong with it

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  20. Go get medical advice if u feel it isnt right

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  21. VERULE says-eayah

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  22. The Lord is your strength, some people claiming they release too early and yours is late ejaculation. Since your gf is not complaining, I think you have no prob, only if you na only show yourself for us sha

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    1. Which lord is his strength? Strength in fornication? You are not afraid to say such abomination? Better repent and ask the Lord for mercy.

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  23. Half information. How long is ur "last"

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  24. Lmao, evidence of plenty alomo $ ogidiga

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  25. Kylie Jenner everytime when u dey post for this site dey vess me ehh

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  26. I don't ejaculate quickly too and no gal has ever complained about it, u should be thankful u do not suffer premature ejaculations

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  27. "Come out last"?? Is it like a competition or something

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  28. Definitely u are over reacting

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  29. Wetin una dey take una girl friends go do for hotel? Una no get house?

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  30. One man's meat is another's poison, choi! Dis na wetin many men want oooo, and a lot of women lack dis 4rm thr man.
    Long ejaculation wow! Dat's good, but it might mean U don't av feelings for d one U r with, if u do den u are suppose to cum early especially durin d first shot, den d 2nd one could b a marathon. Lol yea 1st shot!

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  31. KEEP IT UP MAN
    YOU BE REAL MAN
    no be only u dey experience this sh we plenty i swear





    #Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

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  32. ah ah...bros which kin question b dat....sex wen men dey pray to lastfor one hour,dey drink all form of agbo for mr dickens to work....u dey complain say u dey last long...in fact your wife suppose carry yam go do thanksgiving....lol...nigga as far as the thing dey sweet my doodie....it can last a whole day for all i fucking care...lmao

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  33. Oga, it's not bad so you have nothing to worry about.

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  34. guy noting bad if u late ejaculate....it u ejaculate early ma na problem..

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  35. Mr man,it seems you are jobless.

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  36. Mr man,it seems you are jobless.

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  37. U re weird oga "take our girlfriends to the hotel"...hian
    Iz it a couple s retreat?

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  38. u a strong guy!

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  39. lolz....... funny u mahn...wen am looking for ways to last longer u are complain.. jisos...

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  40. It's extremely normal. Some people are like that. Most guys will envy sef. We will like to last for an hour and a lady will like it too.

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  41. It's normal...if she doesn't like it, Plz come to me..

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    1. Outspoken babe. I feel u.


      #TeamBlessed#

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    2. Dat is y I don't take all d local herb cos I think Is a problem I last long bt my gf always complain n push me off. }

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  42. This one pass me o, will read comments later

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  43. Gataway u there,ewu Gambia!!!!

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  44. Abegi! Hv u compared urslf 2 guys dat com evn b4 enterin? Wich wld u prefer? U shld b happy joooor! As long as she actualy comes and u dn't make her sore.

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  45. Crazy stupid question. Pls visit rellaidiovo.blogspot.com

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  46. Wetin person no go hear for dis our country.Which kind yeye question come be dis?wetin u wan make we tell u make u do?Abeg go find beta work de do jari

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  47. My kind of man...

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  48. I don't really think is a problem
    Maybe your blood sugar is low
    Some girls will like
    Maybe your girlfriend does since she doesn't complain

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  49. Please I need ur contact. My number is 0805066011

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  50. You are over reacting! You know how much many men will kill to ejaculate later? Count your blessings my man!

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  51. Girlfriend and boyfriend sex everywhere.....I wonder were all this is leading us all to......not even married couple seeking sex advice but just boyfriend girlfriend things.....


    :::::::::::::::::::::::QUEENMAYA::::::::::::::::::::

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  52. Not even ur wife...ur gf. Its amazing hiw its just normal these days. And u guys take dem to hotels...how decent.

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  53. dont see anything bad in it.. but you and your friend straff together? how do you know how long they last

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  54. Mr man,you dont last as long as me and i dont see it as a problem.My girls even love it

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  55. Ow many minute or hour now?Tahh! Commot there just they make mouth...

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  56. Mallam,always engage in long,sensual foreplay b4 you enter.No de rush de put am inside.u can thank me now

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  57. Hahahhaha..do u last over 47minutes?

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  58. lol zzz... Lucky you. This is something every guy wants

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  59. You should be thanking God cos everygirl longs for a man that can last longer in bed,so its normal then don't let it worry u

    Meanwhile email me to know how to enlarge your joystick and stop premature ejac n let your woman respect you


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    1. Not every gal biko, na food..20 minutes tops, anything after dat na punishment.. foreplay na d koko

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  60. 'Me and my friends take our girlfriends to hotels and I always come out last' . What a horrid statement.

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  61. If dats ur problem den u don't Hv one but u can visit ur doctor

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  62. yeye man,too much of jedi,opa eyin,alomo,
    please click my name

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  63. You and your partner in ........should always romance each other very well b4 doing it.you should romancing her clit while she will be sucking ur nipples and romancing the tip of your dick at d same time.you will thank me 2moro

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  64. Ok wud hv given u my number bt d hotel part ruined ur chances *cat walks away

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  65. Dumbfounded******

    You're in need of mental health treatment or this must be a joke. Smh

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  66. Dats not a problem in my dictionary

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  67. Eddy wiz will be the appropriate person to elaborate on this.....m jst a virgin..........lolz *thamixbreed*

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  68. Lol Dude U don't have a problem, just make sure ur gurl orgasms during ur 1hr or whatever romp..

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  69. Hmmm to my own opinion n experience I guess u not so much inlove with ur girl friend cos if u are d excitement and d feelings which is so strong will make u release so fast then maybe d 2nd round maybe for long but d 1st always attach to feelings

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  70. Oga,e bi like say ur girlfriend no fine.na im make to enjoy sex with am na wahala.Go look for fine girl jari.

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  71. Oga,e bi like say ur girlfriend no fine.na im make to enjoy sex with am na wahala.Go look for fine girl jari.

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  72. So u dey feel like Badoo abi. Park well bros and stop feeling like a boss.



    #TeamBlessed#

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  73. My Broda u not alone in DAT shit..smtims u just feel like crying... Anyway ride faster.... Lolllllllll

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  74. There is nothing wrong with u, just break up with your GF and date a Calabar girl, she will treasure you and even visit you with Lucozade boost in her bag

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  75. So pple can no longer google things and get information abi?everything has become topic of discussion.hia

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  76. Absolutely normal! there is nothing wrong with you.

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  77. It's cool to last long,little advice is stop worrying about it,at least you don't ejaculate early.If you are really worried,try and see a doctor to get proper advice

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  78. I think its a good thing that u last long,but u sld ask your girl,if she's comfortable with it then no p.

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  79. Just like me. Engr Emy

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  80. It really affect someone i know a friend,and it spent more than 45min on a lady and the guy is never on drugs.Nobody want to date him because of of the time factor....

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  81. Guy your own better

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  82. U re always the man of the match,keep it up bro.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#

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  83. You sound freaking immature. You and your friends rent rooms and go in to holler and then when you come out, do you guys compare notes or what? All levels and manner of retardation on Linda Ikeji's blog.

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  84. U n ur friends share same room with ur babes? Chai. #happytues

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  85. Itz normal Dude. Itz NORMAL. Infact count urself lucky among the few of us that got this wonderful Condition. Cheerz n live life.

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  86. Left to doctors in the house.....expecting comments to gain experience

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  87. ask ur doc if its normal not linda

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  88. I guess is normal but desist 4rm premarital sex.

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  89. Some people dey cry say them no dey last, u wey dey last dey cry say you too last abeg na you sabi. CHI.

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  90. Guy u are what every woman is looking for. Dat guy dat can last longer in bed. Guy u be man jare...No think'am!!

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  91. To me its normal bt go google it out shaa.

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  92. What will you say about the 5 minute men? Not to say Urs is a better situation to be in but it's still a better thr the premature ejaculators

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  93. I think its OK.. no lady want a instant noodle type of man...just try to put ya mind while in the act...#GiftedDiva#

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  94. Now you no get anything talk about abi. If you do a lot of forplay and treat her like a woman......mhen u wud get there. Ladies call 08162448198

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  95. Linda's Antagonist25 February 2015 at 00:11

    Hehe!
    Nigerians this post is so dumb..."I'm feeling weird like when me and my friends take our girlfriends to hotels (something like that ) I always come out last and I feel awkward."
    Like coming out last from a hotel room mean you last long, could even be that you had premature ejaculation and you are still dealing with your shame and how you failed to impress your gal.
    Mtschewwww...next
    Linda, mind the stuff you post...I get am for short temper

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  96. Abegg na lindodo make up this topic abeg!!!who cmplains about this???like cme on!!!pple get drugs for this shit.

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  97. U be mumu of life , den say 17yearbild boy boy dey do well dey spend $2.7m but awse .... U ode say u no de cum fast say u dey wank ...ehn die wankin nah #shoroniyen

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  98. The pussy you're fucking is wack...change pussy and see first!

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  99. Try a clean n Fresher P***y, maybe d one ya unto is fucked up

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  100. O boi ! U last long because you are not attracted to the girl. I bet you,if you replace that girl with a girl you are attracted to you go ejaculate sharp sharp.lol. its all mental. You are having sex, but you are missing satisfaction because d attraction is missing.

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  101. Go to GOD in prayer over the problem, boldly tell him that while committing fornication which GOD is against that you last so long period. May be GOD will part you at the back and help you.

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  105. Enough enjoyment for your babe

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  106. People sef... u last for 2 mins, wahala... u last long, wahala... define your last so long sef make we know...

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  107. the reason why ur facing this problem is because u masturbates alot. u need to stop masturbation i wld advice u seek medical advice n pls lindaikeji blog is not for professional medical advice u ll only get insulted.next time seek medical help.

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  108. Linda's blog na hospital? Go & seek professional help & not coming here to read rubbish. Linda take note!

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  109. Linda's blog na hospital? Go & seek professional help & not coming here to read rubbish. Linda take note!

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  110. Ok can you please takevthis issue to God????thats all am saying JC

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  111. If u masturbate alot, dat cud b one of d reasons y u don't ejaculate on tym

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  112. ....then I guess your wife or girlfriend most very UGLY.. Because if she's pretty, sexy and hot then you'll "blow up" in 5minutes... Try someone cute...





    UK Tog

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  113. Just reading comments

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  114. Just reading comments

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  115. DUPE TI EE!!!NA HIM BE SAY U BE CONFIRM..I DEY THINK SAY ME SEF GET PROBLEM NI, BUT NA SO SHE LIKE AM..U WAN BE 2 MIN NOODLES MAN?

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  116. Huh? You and your friends take your girlfriends to hotels? Who the fuck is this guy?!!!

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  117. Is normal dude. D most important thing is dat u satisfy ur babe after d whole s*x thing. Lol

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  118. U shld be happy for that gift...

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  119. she's not even your wife u take her to hotel and u proudly say u come out last??!! Chai..This World.... Lord Have Mercy!

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  120. Dude......are you for real? Do you realize that for some of us babes, having an orgasm takes a while too? We may not be inclined to let you know because we don't want to be branded a slut. You better shut up there and give it good to your lady my friend. Forget about what your friends may be thinking. It should be about satisfying your girl and not about how long you last between her legs..... I nu go.

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  121. Hmmmm Mr. Go and get married maybe by the time u are on top of ur wife for 3days u will start running from it.

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  122. I think there is noting wrong with you, mayb its ur nature, you should be happy doh.

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  123. In a Darwinian way of looking at it...The ability to be able to transfer your genes as quickly as possible is a test of true male virility. But, in modern day, when you probably dont have to worry about someone wacking you before you transfer your genes, guess its not too bad doing a long haul. In lay terms, any Zebras going at it 2hrs before cumin, would probably end up as food for Lions. There was an age when the same could be said for humans according to Darwin

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    1. @ Adebayo....... Rotflmao..... thass some. "out of the box". Analysis.....

      Lol. ....@ any zebra doing 2hrs before coming......mehn.... he's sure to be meat for the lion.....

      Naadays. The feminine gender put the pressure on their opposite counterparts to do the "Long haul"..... else your virility will be seriously questioned.



      On 2 the Next!

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  124. I advice u go register wit a porn company and specialize on animal/Human Sex, wld be glad to watch you there.

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  125. some persons have early ejaculation while others have a rather prolonged ejaculation. its perfectly normal of expected. it simply means you av a longer please threshhold. it takes more effort to make you ejaculate. all i beleieve should be looked into, is ehm finding those position dat gives you a huge amount of pleasure. other sexual stimulation s could be devised.,

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  126. I luv my man to last longer before releasing, so i see noting wrong with that.

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  127. I just stopped by to tell this poster

    "u be fool! shameless got! you check time when you enter hotel with your friends? your mates are thinking of economic indices and how to be strategic, u dey here dey talk say u dey last! mumu wey nor get part two. Ewu!"

    Thanks and Regards,
    X

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  128. Why should that be a problem.many women wish their men could last long.

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  129. Delay ejaculation is not much of a problem like quick ejaculation. It's only becomes a problem if the prolong act causes soreness and pains on your partner. Several factors can led to unnecessary delay in ejaculation. These could be excessive drinking of alcoholic beverages, excessive smoking, using condom(this seem to dull your feelings especially if your partner is a regular one) it may also be as a result of not having real sexual attraction to the babe in question. Or you are not really excited about making love to her but because you owe her the exercise. If you are really worried, always pretend you are with someone you really desired especially if she is someone who is playing hard to get. Imagine you are doing it to her and you will come in no time. Also try and zero your mind on the lovemaking, keep other thought at bay. Put the light on so you can appreciates the curves in your girl, this will definitely excite you and push you to the limit.

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  130. It is called Delayed Ejaculation(DE). It is more psychological. Stop watching pornography and vigorous masturbation all together. Focus attention on your woman. Think of nothing else while u are at it. You will notice a greater change in your time to climax.

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    1. Ditto! that's a solid way of knowing a guy who masturbates... Not ideal.

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