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Monday, 5 January 2015

The difference between a sugar daddy and a pedophile...:-)

There was an argument on Nigerian twitter last night on why any lady should marry a man 20 years older than her and it got a lot of responses with many calling a man who marries a lady way younger than him, a paedophile. However, there were other opinions but the tweet above summed it all up.

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    1. Funny Buh true

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    2. Sugar daddy is wen a young girl dates a man who is old enuf to be her father. Usually dis girl will be up to the age considered ok to date.

      Pedophile is wen a man dates or marries and under aged girl

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    3. Is this how stupid all of you are? Sugar daddy = large age difference, but both of them are of the age of consent. Plus whatever activities is consensual. Never forced. Money and material gifts, yeah.
      Paedo= one of the party is below age of consent i.e less than 18. Cc that governor et emir of kano marrying 17year olds or less in the name of Islam or tradition. Even if money or material comfort is given, it's still paedo.

      *** forst to comment aka ose ore mi ***

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    4. At least, a lady dat marries a man 20yrs older dan she is an adult n gave het consent, unlike a child who doesn't ve a mind of her own just yet

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    5. @gracie, true talk while @anonymous, u nailed it.

      D overall difference is stil bank acct.

      For once anonymous spoke wit wisdom on dis blog...Lolzzzzzzzz.

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    6. Thank you anonymous 11:26am. You have broken it down correctly.

      Child slaves and child brides are raped daily across the world by both rich and poor men. Watch the CNN Freedom Project program to be more enlightened.

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    7. Anon 11:26 u mke sense! Peados do minors.

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    8. @gracie, true talk while @anonymous, u nailed it.

      D overall difference is stil bank acct.

      For once anonymous spoke wit wisdom on dis blog...Lolzzzzzzzz.

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    9. Anon 11:26 said it all, Nigerians will b trivialising everything

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    10. Dabota Lawson ( aku) Na your matter den dey table so

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    11. I've often listened to the nigerian version of sugar daddy and I've found it hilarious! Sugar daddies do not always have a huge difference in age between them and their sugar babies. A sugar daddy is basically any one that takes care of a girl financially! So you might be 25 and you're dating a 30 year old man (married or single) and he meets all your needs financially honey that's your sugar daddy. If you doubt this everyone go read Sugardaddy 101 by Baje Fletcher. It just so happens that in our country a large percentage of the free giving are usually married men old enough to be our grand dads. On the pedophile part those are just lecherous humans that prey on weak and vulnerable minors, wether cash is involved or not! If the other person involved is under 18 that's pedophilia. So I'm sorry bank account is not the difference it's the age and consent of the other person.

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    12. It's totally different, not money wise but the age difference; a pedophile is with an under aged but sugar daddy is with an adult

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    13. @royal priesthood, till date you have never uttered anything of the closest significance to elementary intelligence yet. Yet!

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  2. lol.....still same tshhh
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    1. MR EDDY said.
      Lol. Same thing jare
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    2. Abeg any Dog run pass here?..white Caucasian

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  3. There is a huge difference. And the above tweet is right

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    1. A sugar daddy doesn't force the girl into the relationship, ,she does that at her own will ... whereas a pedophile doesn't seek the girl's consent..lol I guess that's the difference

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    2. Exactly mademoiselle, consent is d main difference here....

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    3. MR EDDY said.
      Lol. Funny differentiation
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    4. That's not the difference ma.
      Pedophile dates or marries and under aged girl

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    5. @grace offor how is a girl over 18yrs underaged? Do u know wat underage even mean? A 60yr old man marries a 25yr old girl,will u call d girl underage cos she marrying a 60yr old man?smh,English

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    6. Onyx na u nor understand English and you definitely do not understand Grace...go n Google paedophile properly

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    7. Dis Onyx sef u no sabi anytin, u dnt knw dat a child is a person unda d age of 18, be it 17 and half, ur still a child if ur not up 2 18. Go and read more, bros

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  4. Absolutely right...

    D babe bank acct.

    #Royal Priesthood#

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    1. Biko, in dis matter, age is just number d capital difference is d bank acct.

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    2. Lol. The tweet really sum it up. Bank account. The 1st is with consent and while the other is without consent.

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    3. Mr. Priest, how stupid can u be to reply Ur own comments...

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    4. Hello my darling Lawyer Princess G,

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      #Royal Priesthood#

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    5. U nailed it.

      It really distinguish both.

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    6. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    7. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    8. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    9. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    10. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    11. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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    12. @MEETDREALEVANS or whtever dat ur name is,

      "Charity begin@home"...

      When u get home redirect dat question to ur elder brother, uncle, nephew and father@home since u r mannerless and disrespectful.

      If u try dis again, I wil fast and pray for u&ur generations to come.

      Don't come to LIB and display ur lack of proper up bringing@home.
      Wht ur business if I do anytin on dis blog? D I come here 4u or wht?

      #Royal Priesthood#

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  5. its still same tin abeg.
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  6. There is no much diff between them.
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    @Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

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  7. Complicated but not the same shaa

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    1. It may be the same but the similarities is the tweet above

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  8. VERY FUNNY PIX...SEE ME SEE ATM MACHINE NA!

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    1. There's a big difference.

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    2. MR EDDY said.
      @Tamia please shade more light on the differences.
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  10. One is fair the other is sick.

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  11. Sugar daddy will give u money and take care of u lol, while paedophiles can sleep with kids from age 3 But sugar daddy might not b too old nd d girl in question can be more dan 18

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    1. I think its d age that differentiate the two....older man to immature lady- paedophile ...if they are all mature but thr man is way older than thr lady...then Sugar daddy....

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    2. These are the only ppl dat understand the fact that a paedophile violates a child sexually whether or not there's money involved. it is a crime against nature to even think of a child in a sexual way

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  12. There's no difference in my eyes...

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    1. Of course you wouldn't know the difference cause you're an ignorant buffoon.

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    2. MR EDDY said.
      Hahaha haha haha. lwkmdo. I laugh jump enter 3rd mainland bridge o
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  13. Bankakant? Could be true. Bcos sigar daddy uses his mony to lure victims while a pedophile uses "sweet nothings" to lure victims.
    I think???

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  14. Exactly.... and besides some people prefer older guys

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  15. Dats their own jug of tea. Linda take note!

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  16. Most younger women like older men.
    At times is not the man's fault or him being a paedophile, there are many young girls that love being with men older than them with 20years or more, Is just their choice of men. It doesn't mean they're insane or looking for money or anything.

    I've seen it before.

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  17. Funny but there's a huge difference....marrying someone that is much older than you is better than marrying someone within your age bracket....much respect and more love....
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  18. I think its d age that differentiate the two....older man to immature lady- paedophile ...if they are all mature but thr man is way older than thr lady...then Sugar daddy....

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  19. Make una repent o, What is the meaning and benefits of sugar daddy or mummy if I may ask?

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  20. a sugar daddy doesn't force anyone to date him its a voluntary decision from the lady but a pedophile marries a young girl against her wish. theres a big difference biko.

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  21. There is an apparent lack of intelligence in that tweeted submission. A pedophile preys on little children who have absolutely no will of their because they are under-aged while a sugar daddy is an older man who dates or marries much younger women with their consent. There is nothing about bank accounts and wealth status here. A female becomes a woman from the age of 16-18yrs depending on different country's terms and can decide to be with any man she so desires. many ladies prefer the companies of older men where they won't necessarily listen to very shallow issues/gossips on DonJazzy, JayZ, Sport cars or Kim Kardashian. Older men are more real, accomplished and are a good resource to become a better person

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    1. Older men gives d best sex too, well experienced in sexology

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    2. Thank you Anon 11:58 you are very educated unlike those shallow minds that say it's same thing

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  22. Vry correct...I mean linda v u evr seen or heard of any lady who marry a man 20yrs older dan she is n d man us actually broke?

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  23. when people talk this age difference, we all automatically picture one old and grey man in his late sixties or early 70s, what if she is 23 and he is 43, still sugar daddy?

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    1. Good question Subomi. A guy at 43 isstill a young man, 20years older than a girl of 23 and they are a match as patners,
      yet everyone kp saying a man 20years older is a sugar daddy. Think wisely guys.

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    2. Abi o same thought went through my mynd

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  24. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    The tweet really said it all....
    *GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  25. Come on. There is no basis for comparison. Pedophiles are disgusting, sugar daddies on the other hand at least go for adults. No matter how much younger they are the babe is still an adult that can decide for herself and knows exactly what she's doing. A child on the other hand, is a whole different story.

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  26. Yerima is a pedophile. Most Northerners are pedophiles because they marry children.

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  27. AGE OF MARRIAGE IN NIGERIA

    The Marriage Act does not lay down any
    mandatory age for marriage. This vacuum on an
    important and fundamental matter is a serious
    omission which requires immediate remedial
    action.

    Before March 1970, when the Matrimonial
    Causes Act became effective, one school of
    thought held the view that the lacunae in the
    marriage law should be filled by applying the law
    and practice for the time being in force in England'.

    If this were accepted, the English age of marriage
    prescribed by the Marriage Act 1949, which is
    sixteen years, would be applicable in Nigeria.

    Whatever may be the validity of this point of view,
    the possibility of its application has been lost since
    the 1970 Act came into force, banning the
    application of English law.Section 3(l)(e) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1970
    makes a marriage void where either of the parties
    is not of 'marriageable age'.

    But nowhere in the statute is the term 'marriageable age' defined.In the absence of a statutory definition of age of marriage, recourse may be had to the common-rule on the subject. Part of the received English law in Nigeria is the common law of England.

    Under the common law, a valid marriage -may be
    contracted if the parties have attained the age of
    puberty—fourteen years in the case of a boy and
    twelve years for a girl.

    Age for marriage

    Consent of the parties

    Neither party must be already married

    Parental consent

    Prohibited degrees of consanguinity and affinity
    Sanity

    courtesy: http://www.onlinenigeria.com/marriages-in-nigeria/Essential-Validity-Of-Marriage/age-for-marriage.asp

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  28. 20years? Ok, can a 40year old marry a 20year old girl?

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  29. I think its d age that differentiate the two....older man to immature lady- paedophile ...if they are all mature but thr man is way older than thr lady...then Sugar daddy....

    I think its d age that differentiate the two....older man to immature lady- paedophile ...if they are all mature but thr man is way older than thr lady...then Sugar daddy....

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  30. Come on. There is no basis for comparison. Pedophiles are disgusting, sugar daddies on the other hand at least go for adults. No matter how much younger they are the babe is still an adult that can decide for herself and knows exactly what she's doing. A child on the other hand, is a whole different story.

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  31. Like button for anonymous 11:26 am, thats true.

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  32. Am just a child,what do I know?

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  33. There sure is a big difference as a pedophile is only attracted to prepubescent children (children below the age of 11). A 25 year old lady having a 50 or even 60 year old sugar daddy (which am not saying is good) is surely not the same thing as a 30 year old man being sexually attracted to a 10 year old.

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  34. LAMIDO SANUSI LAMIDO SANUSI LAMIDO SANUSI LAMIDO, OR WHATEVER HIS NAME IS, THE WRONG EMIR OF KANO AND FAKE FRIEND OF EL "DWARF" RUFAI. LAMIDO LIKES VERY, VERY YOUNG GIRLS. 17 YEARS AND BELOW. SOME OF THE LEADERS IN NORTHERN NIGERIA USE THE EXCUSE OF RELIGION, SHARIA AND POLYGAMY TO MARRY MANY "TODDLERS WIVES." HOW COME THEIR DRACONIAN SHARIA LAW UP NORTH IS NEVER USED TO PROSECUTE THOSE PEDOPHILE AND CROOKED NORTHERN LEADERS AND POLITICIANS IN NORTHERN NIGERIA? HOW COME THOSE HYPOCRITES AND BACKWARD CREATURES IN POWER IN NORTHERN NIGERIA ONLY USE THEIR DRACONIAN SHARIA LAW TO PUNISH POOR INNOCENT PEOPLE? WHERE IS EQUALITY, JUSTICE AND FAIRNESS? WHERE IS PROGRESS? WHERE IS "CHANGE"? APC, KEEP YOUR "CHANGE" COS JUST LIKE YOUR GERIATRIC AND DESPOTIC LEADER, BUHARI, THE SHARIA LAW LOVING ISLAMIST, ALL OF YOU ARE STILL STUCK IN FOOLISHNESS AND IN THE BARBARIC AND MEDIEVAL TIMES OF THE HYPOCRITICAL, UNFAIR, UNJUST AND CORRUPT HERDS OF NORTHERN NIGERIAN RULERS AND YOUR KUNU DRINKING, GOAT HERDING AND ILLITERATE ANCESTORS. Sannu. Salaam alaikum. lol

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  36. LYNTROY SAYS
    Pedophile is ex zamfara state govnor,sugar daddy is okpabio

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  37. common similarity (money) but total different.

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  38. Lol.. Lemme check my dictionary first

    #CameThroughTheBackDoor

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  39. Make una check the meaning of both then u go knw d diff

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  40. Common interest..money..so they are d same

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  41. Common interest...money...so they are d same

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  42. A girl who is of age and matured enough but decides to marry a man 20yrs older didn't do anything wrong. But when a man decides to marry an underaged girl who hasn't reached an age of concent and doesn't really understand what she's going into, d man is a paedophile. Dating an older man for money or whatever for a girl who has reached an age of concent, d man is a sugar daddy.

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  43. Zamfara gov na d paedophile, na Senator Uzodinma be sugar daddy **DOPEY SAID SO**

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  44. Zamfara gov na d paedophile, na Senator Uzodinma be sugar daddy **DOPEY SAID SO**

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  45. Zamfara gov na d paedophile, na Senator Uzodinma be sugar daddy **DOPEY SAID SO**

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  46. Zamfara gov na d paedophile, na Senator Uzodinma be sugar daddy **DOPEY SAID SO**

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  47. Zamfara gov na d paedophile, na Senator Uzodinma be sugar daddy **DOPEY SAID SO**

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  48. Linda, what a shallow argument.

    I'm pretty sure a pedophile does not receive consent from his young (often child) victims before preying.

    At least relationships with sugar daddy's are often consensual.

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  49. Lol, na real akant.

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  50. UR SIMPLE ANSWER IS ADULTS N CONSENTUAL...HOW EVer THERe COULD BE YOUNG ADULTS LIKE THIS 17yr OLD FORCED INTO IT BY HER FAMILY..IN THIS CASE LAMIDO Sanusi AND THE GIRLS FAMILY ARE RAPIST. .THEY RAPE HER EVERYTIME SHE IS MISERABLE WITH THAT MAN

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  51. It shld be banned buh most women are so in support of it cuz most tyms em sugar daddy supply em money more than dem regular guys

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  52. It shld be banned buh most women are so in support of it cuz most tyms em sugar daddy supply em money more than dem regular guys

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  53. please get the two defined properly before you conclude just as you can always differentiate between ecology and environment....

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  54. The activities between a sugar daddy and a girl is consensual. She is already an adult and can take decisions, unlike that of pedophile.

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  55. Pedophilia is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children, generally age 11 years or younger.

    Sugar Daddy is a man who offers to support a typically younger woman after establishing a relationship that is usually sexual.

    Two completely different things.

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  56. Some comments has said it all, if u don't have an idea just ask Google. .....

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  57. A paedophile is attracted to children. Someone that is 20 years younger than you can be a consenting adult, you idiots.

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  58. Pedophile is an adult who is sexually attracted to children while sugar daddy is a wealthy older man who gives a young person expensive gifts in return of friendship or intimacy.

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  59. Don't need a sugar relationship? Millionaire Dating Site is also a good choice. I know MillionaireMatch is not a sugar daddy dating site; it's a true millionaires club. There is no better place for successful millionaires interested in meeting other millionaires.

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