2nd December was my girlfriend (of 20 months)’s birthday. We have been friends for 30 months though. Meanwhile I had planned to propose marriage to her on that day. Thing is, I am resident in Lagos while she is in Enugu. In 2013, a coordinated surprise visit to Enugu wowed her birthday and she never stopped talking about how that was the most pleasant surprise of her life, not until 2nd December, 2014 anyway.
So to douse her anticipation for any form of surprise, I got
really involved in planning her 2014 birthday. During one of my visits to
Enugu, we had dined at Octopus, an exquisite Chinese Restaurant that has got
lovers of good meals in ‘042’ wanting for more. I loved the ambience and the
meals were really amazing. We decided to host her birthday there. Hers was to
make all the inquiries, invite her friends, have fun and be happy. Mine was to
fund the dinner which I did with all pleasure. Of course there couldn’t be any
more surprises when she was already aware of the ‘whole’ package. Besides, my
work couldn’t allow me time-off on a Tuesday.
Then …..
I arrived Enugu at 4.15pm having been to work earlier on the
day and checked into my hotel room. I had the Manager of Octopus come meet me
and we concluded on the 3-level surprise.
Level 1.
After the starter has
been served, she was invited (with her friends) to see a video clip on screen
of the 60” television in the restaurant. Behold it was me (JIRO) wishing my
baby-girl a happy birthday and apologizing for missing her ‘big’ event. Towards
the end of the clip, my sister and cousins joined me to sing the traditional
‘happy birthday’ song. Twinkle was so wowed and crying by the end of the
rendition. “This JIRO will not kill me ooo” she muttered in her tears. Then……
Level
2.
As the video clip ended, I walked into the restaurant! The
wow feeling turned into a positive frenzy. She was speechless as she ran to her
star. “Baby, why do you always do this to me” was all she could say as she
cried in my arms. Yes, am badt like that….hehe.
Level
3.
After I settled in
and ordered some more champagne, the management of Octopus brought a bowl of
what they dubbed their traditional gift to all birthday celebrants in the
restaurant. Since I was there, it only made sense that they hand the package
over to me (as the boyfriend) to appoint any of the diners to open it or open
it myself. And my speech happened…. “… anyway, everybody may be worthy but I
don’t see any person that is more worthy than you (twinkle) today to open this
special package from Octopus….” By the time she opened the bowl, her friends
and other diners were already gathered by our side to take a sneak peek,
my one knee was down and I continued “…there are no better words than the three
words that make up ‘I Love You’. You have been a friend, you have been bla bla
bla bla bla bla and all dem beautiful things” And … “now I ask you, Chisom
Onyinyechi Ogbuji, to make me the happiest man in the world and be my wife,
please……
And she said YES!
And we changed into our tees that read “OMG Jiro asked!”
with all them smileys for her and “…and Twinkle said YES… of course!” for me.
Love is indeed a beautiful thing. Give love always and
appreciate love when you have it. May God make our dreams come true and our
earnest desires fulfilled, Amen!
Now we plan for our future, together. See the photos below...
Awwww congratulations to them. Wish them more romance and a long and happy marriage
ReplyDeleteLove is a beautiful thing, congrats. Ubanagum
DeleteCongrats My classmate..
DeleteLong live UNSSEC '08
Yeah!! Hope he doesn't cheat on her anytime soon cos men can be pigs!!!
DeleteCongratulations girl
ReplyDeleteAmakadarlyn@yahoo.com
That's so sweet
ReplyDeleteAmazing! Both of you are blessed! How romantic, I urge you to dwell in the presence of God as you abide under the shadow of the Almighty it is well with you both. Deut 18:18. 2tim 4:18. BishopDammy#
ReplyDeleteWAOOO THIS GOD IS MYSTERIOUS KUDOS TO HIM.
ReplyDeleteCongrats to u both
ReplyDeleteThat's no badt guy,that's a very local guy that seen a lot of home movies...WTH is that pant he's Putin on,Chukwu ekwene ihe ojor meh.Nwana buy clothes after that single champagne
DeleteToo cute. She's a pretty girl with a great figure. Lucky too with a thoughtful man.
ReplyDeleteGot this from......
ReplyDeleteMay God bless t ur union.
ReplyDeleteWow!!!...I want to ask too o!
ReplyDeleteLinda you "got" not "God ", hmmmmmm what a romantic engagement, I can imagine how happy she would have felt on her birthday. esebeauty21@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteIt reminds me of my proposal tooo*awwwwwwaw romantic.
DeleteMay God bless the union
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Arrogant fool! Must u tell how the manager came to meet you n d rest... In fact, u r as useless as the P in psychology.
ReplyDeleteU seem extremely frustrated....
DeleteSeriously frustrated! From the entire lovely story see wot u picked out of it! U sound extremely bitter, that kinda attitude gets u nowhere, it's poison! I wish the couple well & may God deliver the pessimist from bitterness.
DeleteHater, go and hug that transformer in ur street. U are the P in psychology. @Anonymous 8:22, expunge "seem" frm ur sentence. He is extremely frustrated. Isi ewu ndi umuokereke.
DeleteNot extremely... .. Seriously frustrated... . Lmao. In France where I live, people are not frustrated like this. Lmao
DeleteLmfao, yes very very frustrated
DeleteAnon 8:22 I agree wit u.frustration smells all ova d fool.......oloshi buruku bad belle.must u even comment?enemy of good thing
DeleteLinda pls correct your statement Got not God. Am happy for them.
ReplyDeleteJiro Nwa
ReplyDeleteCongrats
DeleteDamn!! The essay is too much nah. Congrat to them sha....REPORTING>LIVE FROM PORT NOVIA>
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwwww......sweet! May God bless your home.
ReplyDeleteIt's a good thing and a wonderful feeling when a man finds a wife. Mc Baba Oloye says so.
ReplyDeleteAww i luv pleasant surprise too.I wish them years of marriage as old as methuselah.They look more like friends than couple.
ReplyDeleteDear Lord biko when will my bf give me ring na??!! we go soon enter 2015 oh.. All these leaving one relationship dt is not working out n entering another.. Biko nu God touch this guy's heart to bring forth this ring IJN.. AMEN
ReplyDeleteAbeg park well joor.. Rubbish. Na you wan first fall in love? Make we hear word joor
ReplyDeleteAwwww you are so lonely and depressed.
DeleteAwww so sweet,I go love oh,love is realy sweet wen u're wit d ryt 1,baba God be a boo provider lols
ReplyDeleteDont worry Bonario will soon propose...
DeleteThe explanation was much tho, the main point was @ the end I wonder why the long write up. Anyways congratz to them #onelovefromSnow#
ReplyDeleteAbeg u get work? Must u comment on every damn post?! Seems ur life revolves around this blog.
DeleteLolll my tots exactly e could not summarize!
DeleteAwwwww, so beautiful #lovestruck
ReplyDeleteHeee...guy come pwopose oh....marriage dey hungry me
ReplyDeleteIt's all good..congrats
ReplyDeleteIt's all good..congrats
ReplyDeleteWoow, that was really romantic of him, i wish my bf can give me a bit of a surprise as well, congrats 2 dem anyway
ReplyDeleteTell him you love surprises and that when he wanna propose he should surprise you.thats what I did,and it worked*shinesteeth*
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Awwwwn...this is so cool.
ReplyDeleteKaiii,when will my own happen God???
ReplyDeleteHia eeeeeeh!!!!!, Nke am tokwaram uto oooo
ReplyDeleteWow! Lovely.....her friends look very hungry n starved, hope de were well fed....she's such a biuri! Congrats
ReplyDeleteAwwww so so sweet.congratulations.
ReplyDeleteFaceoflib
See me fantasizing to d whole package...choi! I love...
ReplyDeleteThat's sweet
ReplyDelete....... ROV
Isn't DAT bonario...looks like him
ReplyDeleteCongrats. Although am jealous
ReplyDeleteLuvlyn
Awwww nice , congratulations to them.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations to u dear u deserve more Dan dat
ReplyDeleteWow! This is so sweet. I love it
ReplyDeleteHappy for u. Good luck
ReplyDeleteLuv Is Indeed A Beautiful Thing, Cnt Wait 2 Propose 2 D Right Woman, SingleLadies Ready 4 A Serious Date Addup 2bcdd5ed
ReplyDeleteVERY DRY
ReplyDeleteVery lovely, I pray your marriage is blissful than the engagement.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Congrat bro i wish yu all the best.....
*GLO BRING 3G TO KONTAGORA*
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Sweet super story
ReplyDelete#Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE
Congratulations to u dear u deserve more Dan dat
ReplyDeleteSo sweet....ologunifemidolapo@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteAnd I have the same plan o
ReplyDeleteDry
ReplyDeleteCongratulations,mine too will come surprisingly and elegant than dis ijn
ReplyDeleteSome crazy ish, quite humorous n worthy of stealin a tip or 2. Bt dude's wears n posture is devoid of Machismo which speaks volumes. Prolly still hidin in the closet. Look b4 u leap.
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww so sweet, I wish that I can get this type of surprise engagement. Future husband hope u re listening? Lol
ReplyDeleteOne and only Ada David Omobabalanu says so
Awww.........So romantic. I luv fins lyk dis
ReplyDeleteInteresting n I v been planning on how do execute mine when the time comes. Even though I v not known who....Lol. (God bless Nigeria)™Sp. godblessnigeria.sp@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteNice..
ReplyDeleteCongt to them! And hbd!
ReplyDeleteDIS IS GRACE B
Ur story would have been more romantic if u didnt add unnecessary details like champagne,hotel room bla bla..who are u tryning to impress ?? Anyway happy married life in advance
ReplyDeletehow do I comment with my name please I need your help
ReplyDeleteAsk Bonario...
DeleteAm not a fan of this surprise engagement,but anything worth doing is what doing well.i wish them HML
ReplyDeleteORACLE SAYS SO
badest guy..nice 1 dude
ReplyDeleteCool!!
ReplyDeleteAwww! So lovely.
ReplyDeleteI just can't wait.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Oh oh oh... That's lovely.. Congratulation
ReplyDeleteWatch and pray for the evil days are here
Awwwwn that's so sweet.
ReplyDeleteAwwwwwww I just love love
ReplyDeleteRuns gal later get engaged....
ReplyDeleteHaters!who don engage you?
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Engagement is less important to marriage. Start planing for marriage sooner do not delay coz if u delay your engagement ring may be thrown back on ur face! mjabdulk@gmail.com
ReplyDeletelove is beautiful!!!
ReplyDeleteDats sweet.
ReplyDeletehmmmm.wish them the best.just that a surprise engagement may not be sincerely accepted.just to dispel the present environment situation,she may say yes.when God leads,its always the best
ReplyDeleteBab boy....I love it
ReplyDeleteVERY ROMANTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteLove is indeed a beautiful thing. Congratulations to them.
ReplyDeleteMehn! Am gonna cry...so sweet
ReplyDeleteWow how sweet. Congrats to both of you
ReplyDeleteOhh wow! Marry me
ReplyDeleteWhy is his trouser jumping
ReplyDeleteWow!!!!! I share the same birthday with her. Congratulations to her and may you have a beautiful journey together. May GOD conclude HIS work with you two!
ReplyDeleteLinda Ikeji...this could be you..
ReplyDeleteka i no na publish..i be gi a na me wedding..
no mind me..God is arranging ur special hubby..im sure he wont jus give you any kin hubby
congrats to the couple ...nm ur first child Candid *shines teeth*
Do u Propose marriage someone or you simple propose & its called a marriage proposal
ReplyDeleteLove is the sweetest, when money isn't scarce and its involved!
ReplyDeleteCongrat man!
Good for them.hml in adv
ReplyDelete@lwkmd_naija
(Twitter/ig)
Congratulations but super story
ReplyDeleteThis guy bragging bucket list full pass Rihanna own oh!!!! Haaa Ogbeni jeje soro nah, haba!!! The birthday luxuries isn't even upto an average unilag studnt birthdays.... Buh is all good, I appreciate a man dt can make it happen even if he has little..... Just tone it down with the bragging and feeling lyk wht u did was "out of this galaxy"..#cheEzyjayne
ReplyDeleteHahahahaahahahahahhhahahahhahaha *faints
DeleteLovely!!!
ReplyDeleteYou're quite creative; i must confess. I look forward to tapping from your idea soonest.
Wow!!!!! Congratulations!!!!! I share the same birth date with your sweet heart. That's very romantic and she's over the moon it's obvious. May you two have a beautiful life journey together.
ReplyDeleteAwww, so sweet. I love LOVE. Wishing you all the best as you take this journey togetehr.
ReplyDeleteAwwwww!That was so sweet of u. Big congrats to u guys
ReplyDeleteLove is a beautiful thing, no doubt.
ReplyDeleteLove indeed is a beautiful thing....congratz guyz & plz no tey b4 d wedding proper oooo
ReplyDeleteNot real. Sounds scripted and acted to me.
ReplyDeleteI was there n witnessed it ooooo. Jezzzz some guys just knw hw to b romantic seriously. We had no idea atall that he'l come anyways so we were just doin our thing o. Trust d plenty pictures lool. I guess d manager n d octopus crew wud hv probably been laughing saying these gurls dont even knw wat awaits them, Then came d video while we were still awwww'n n drooling then came Jiro. Omg!!! Dear bf biko if u dont know how to be romantic abeg ask or even read up. We were jst saying d engagement wud b another drooling moment little did we know it was set 2 happen #BigGrin.Ha!!! As I saw d engagement ring na so I turn 2 photographer. So happyyyy 4 them. Ashoebi mood activated
ReplyDelete1st time commenting on this blog since 1950.
*Ugoeze 1*
Eye witness Toh badt
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awww am feeling all emotional.. very happy for you guys and I pray God also do it for me.
ReplyDelete#miz'avatar
miz.avatar@gmail.com
OMG, so lovely, I wish u guys all de best, perfect match
ReplyDeleteNice one dude!!! Thumbs up....
ReplyDeleteI like dizz
ReplyDeleteCongrats to them. (•͡.̮ •͡ )
ReplyDeleteLuvly n cute
ReplyDeletewow! congrats to both of you...
ReplyDelete#GodblessNigeria
So cute I just wish it Meeeeeeee
ReplyDeleteAwwh!!! Sweet & HBD gal!
ReplyDeleteLove is really a beautiful thing.........how I wish....congrat again
ReplyDeleteCongrats
ReplyDeleteLovely...
ReplyDeleteHmmmm linda all dis love flyin around sha...linda I wnt somtin like dis to hapen to u oh
ReplyDeleteNice T-Shirts . . . what if she had said No?
ReplyDeletewow! wow! Am so happy for her. Father Lord please I want mine as soon as possible. Linda pray for me biko
ReplyDeleteAwwwwww. So sweet. Congrats to the latest LIB couple.
ReplyDeleteHow romantic!!! Awwwww
ReplyDeleteSo lovely...wishing you both the best
ReplyDeleteWow am so happy for them, love is sweet wen u meet the right person. Really missing ma ex cos I tot we gonna end up as husband and wife buh der was a big mistake from the laboratory we checked for our genotype 5years ago. God knows the best. Ryt now is hard for me to love any gal. Well still hoping for the best............diamonddanielz
ReplyDeleteAwwwww dats so sweet
ReplyDeleteWowwww, pls God u know wat I want
ReplyDeleteEbidosia ona ato
ReplyDeleteebidosia ona ada
darling darling
onye mazikwanu mgbe oga esu?
It's always d best bday gift given to a spouse
ReplyDeleteLovely
ReplyDeleteDistance relationship? These b****** aint loyal
ReplyDeleteongratulation, that's a very nice STEP that you're taking, I Wish you people the best and happy xmast Season.
ReplyDeleteAwww.
ReplyDeleteChisom my class mate.
Congrats babe.
Awww
Wishing you a happy married life
Wow! Me likey...God let my own joy come soon..
ReplyDeleteDis is sooo lovely!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmm Baba God please answer my prayers oh Amen.
ReplyDeleteThis is the cutest thing I've read in months. I'm so happy for you Dear. Happy married life. I just hope my boyfriend can do more than this.*blushing * prettyprecious0018@yahoo.com a.k.a preCious.
ReplyDeleteAwww! Beautiful
ReplyDeleteOh my...this is so sos nice.loving all the three steps. Jiro killed it really
ReplyDeletenice one
ReplyDeleteLovely, she is lucky
ReplyDeleteAwwwww sigh so romantic
ReplyDeletewow***such an exquisite proposal..plan on doing sumtin as dis for my future wife...still a teen tho..lol
ReplyDeleteSo romantic, love is a gud tin
ReplyDeleteHappy for them.......congrats to u both..
ReplyDeletehow romantic, I tried putting an engagement ring in a bowl of Banga soup for the first girl i wanted to marry, guess what? she ate everything, dropped just a few bones from the okporoko fish n Goat meat, ring i nor see, what am I suppose to do? I kept quiet, we broken up tho #lvmXmasMarket
ReplyDeleteMtchewww...good for you guys but we didn't need all that long detailed story like some novel with all d 20months n 30months ish! Short n simple gives a better effect abeg!
ReplyDeleteChai! na dis kind love I dey like, God dey oo.
ReplyDeleteAwesome, xo romantic#spanner#
ReplyDeleteAwwww...My Ex, why didn't you do your proposal this way and I would have said yes. It's your loss o
ReplyDeleteThat's so romantic of him, I wish them well..
ReplyDeleteLol Jiro n Twinkle 9ce 1 I jst hp bae comes up wit sumthn wonderful 4 proposal if nt ehn bt still waitn 4 my Linda #smiles....... NJ
ReplyDeleteVery dry *sighs* yall are one of those hype peeps. Mtscheeew
ReplyDeleteBeautiful....
ReplyDelete===Pearl===
Wow!!! So romantic.
ReplyDeleteSo romantic :) :)
ReplyDeleteGood for them.
ReplyDeletePut as much effort in the marriage as you did in engaging her.
Aww! I don't like suprises but I love this kinda suprise
ReplyDeletecongrat Twinkle and Jiro my own day will come too and its soon Amen!
ReplyDeleteLoveli,werz ma own husby naao...b fast ooo n commaan propose
ReplyDeleteVery nice.....romantic all d way.
ReplyDeleteCongrats
ReplyDeleteCongrats
ReplyDeleteYou are a good man that cares about your woman and making memories count, now why won't your woman go the extra mile to please u. Unlike that useless excuse of a baby daddy, does nothing worth the while but wants a party thrown cos he carries out his responsibilities or not lately. Stupid thing. Anyway everybody can't have it all. Besides i guess i burned my bridges trying to prove a point to somebody who wasn't even worth it. You are a very lucky girl.
ReplyDeleteCute. Congrats!
ReplyDeleteOoOooooooooyyeah!
ReplyDeleteMay ur love wine neva run out of its taste!
Put Christ 1st and hope Jiro lovs Christ more than he love u twinkle.
Enjoy! I love romantic guys!
Oh boy, u get swag oh, wt a lovely way 2 propose 2 ur gf, i'm alredy feeling jealous & wishing it wz me. Congrat, wish d both of u a happy ending
ReplyDeleteWow! Wow! Too cute to a story!!! Wish u guys d best
ReplyDeleteI wish u guyz everlastin hapiness.
ReplyDeleteAwwwww...love is a beautiful thing
ReplyDeleteCongratz guys wising u guys so much love together.
ReplyDeleteIs dat chinny I see..lol her friends dou dem too igbotic abeg..
ReplyDeleteWhat a romantic and unforgetable way to propose..and some ll say our naija guys aren't romantic..I wish my self better one
ReplyDeletehappy for you make sure you bring God into your life
ReplyDeleteOluwa mo fi iru ife yi Toro oo! Congrats guys!
ReplyDeleteCongrats girl
ReplyDeleteNice to hear girl may the gud Lord b ur union
ReplyDeleteWow! What a sweet experience. Congrats to you both!
ReplyDeletecongrats, man. wish you guys all the best!
ReplyDeleteHappy her
ReplyDeleteSweet....i pray my man propose to me in a romantic way
ReplyDelete-----#AUNTYLINDAgoddaughter#
Omg...so sweet...not those yeye men that pride themselves on having multiple GFs
ReplyDeleteSo lovely. Congrats to you both.
ReplyDeletethis is exactly what i am planing next year
ReplyDeleteGreatest Battles!!! Part 1
The Narrow Way That Leads To Heaven - Matthew 7:13,14
Congrats to dem
ReplyDeleteAww so so romantic..she's beautiful without words..buh those her friends like free things. Den no even send the dramas.. na d chaws dem send..happy for u guys. She's gonna make. Good wife
ReplyDeleteSuper sweet! I wish my cuties the best as they become ONE
ReplyDeleteNice proposal
ReplyDelete-----#AUNTYLINDAgoddaughter#
So beautiful,I cried just reading it
ReplyDelete**lululiscious**
(Yawns) Boring
ReplyDeleteCongrats to them so lovely
ReplyDeleteLindo i see your blog turning to magistrate court very soon, and people hosting their court (or blog) wedding here. E go happen!
ReplyDeleteBeautiful! !
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