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Monday, 17 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: I met my dream woman a week after I got engaged

From a male LIB readers
I gave my girlfriend of two and a half years an engagement ring and just a little over a week later I met the woman of my dreams who is single and interested in having a relationship with me. How do I break things off with my girl without breaking her heart? I'm convinced without any iota of doubt that this new girl is The One. What would you advise? Why did I get engaged when I wasn't sure? Pressure! Some guys know what I mean...

417 comments:

  1. B contented with wat u av nd move on wit ur relationship..

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  2. The good thing is that u are not yet married to her, so u have an option


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  3. "Some guys know what i mean..." NOPE WE DON'T

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  4. "Some guys know what i mean..." NOPE WE DON'T

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  5. U ARE A CONFUSED PERSON. ASEWO LIK U. DREAM WOMAN KO NIGHTMARE WOMAN NI. THUNDER FIRE U DIA

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  6. Oh wow, this is hard
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  7. Oh wow, this is hard
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  8. Ur a sick fuck. Now u wanna call thing off with her? Wow it easy for u right?not thinking of d pain u will put her thru. Am very sure tomorrow u will find another woman interesting again. Sick bastard

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  9. Nah wah Oo°˚˚˚°! U̶̲̥̅̊ $ Ƌ̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊τ̲̣̣̥ girl of ur drmz will marry in heaven. Walahi

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  10. Eleribuuuuu niwo boy yiiiii. Oloun nio ko oooo

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  11. SORRY TO SAY, U R DUMB. YOU SAY YOU R SURE DIS NEW GIRL IS YOUR DRM GIRL GOOD. WISH YOU D BEST IN HAVING THE DREAM(NIGHTMARE) GIRL. I CAN ALMOST BE SURE U WILL REGRET THIS YOUR DREAM GIRL. ONIRANU....

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  12. My friend,u are a confuse person,u can't be too sure about dis new girl being d one for you,u just met her,d devil u know is better than d angel u don't know,so make ur heart correct o don't break an inoncent girl heart

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  13. U didn't meet any dream woman, that's always the temptation that comes once we want to get hitched, u met ur former gal and as time grew u engaged her and I want to tell u, if u quit, u ll later find out when u stayed with ur so called dream gal after 2years and engage her that she is no more the dream gal u want, u ll always meet women everyday so bear it in mind that whoever u choose should be ur dream woman..

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  14. I beg I beg I beg,Linda,leave this man joooor he is confused,and if he so convinced he should call off the engagement and marry the new babe naaaa,but I know men like him will away have reasons to cheat

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    ☺u truly love the 1st one then stick with her....that other girl might not be your wife ooo...don't Makê a mistake that γ̥
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  16. Save her the stress let her move on ASAP

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  17. Guy, this is 21st Century, you don't get Pressured to get someone engaged. Now you meet your true love. My advice its better you break up the engagement and go on with your new found love. A break up Engagement is better than a divorce.

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  18. You are a sick dude....SHIKENA!

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  19. Its Simple!!! Cheat on ur fiancee, and while cheating on her, make sure she knows. That will chase her away and clear d road for this dream girl of urs... GoodLuck...

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  20. u r a fool,wicked and most of all a learning child

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  21. This dude is really funny...... Ok, what about in the future when yu decided to get engage to this one, suudenly yu found another gal, so this one will no longer be ur dream gal that newly found catch will and so it continues ryt...?? Yu are not serious...
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  22. Na hungry dey hungry this man no doubt.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  23. is still engagement not marriage so still disengage her b4 it is late

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  24. just stay with d one u av engaged and move on cos if u break her heart and go 4 d new one, one day u will leave her 4 anoda dream girl.

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  25. U can't be serious,just forget about this new girl n focus on planing your weeding,PERIOD!!!

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  26. A recipe for disaster. Insatiability has ruined many men.

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  27. How do u know dat dis new 1 is d real girl? My dear just stay with ur gf oooo,she is d real 1 i bet u..n if u leave her 4 dis new 1 u might regret it!!!!

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  28. Hey Bro, if ur sure the 1st Lady aint the woman to spend d rest of ur life with, simply sit her down, talk to her and withdraw ur engagement to her.(b4 u marry her and now be a bad husband in the future) but be sure this new chick is the right one ooo! there wont be a "going back" after you've withdrawn your engagement u know. Also, I'll love to ask u, WHAT CRITERIA did you u consider for you to say this new girl is your dream woman? u barely know her. No go jonz o!

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  29. Marriage is for serious minded fellows, so if u had happened to wed her? U ll tell her u want a divoce cos u just got ur dream woman, listen make what u ve what u want, treat ur woman as if she is the last option..cos if u start getting dream girls now u ll still see many dream girls morrow and next..

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  30. Dem dun jazz u mumu,u better fast and pray

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  31. Happened to me too. I have had a high school sweet heart who only agreed to date me after i got hitched to my wife. It worries me everyday ...

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  32. Wow!!dis is so easy.. Get a matchet n break ur head open,den kneel down n pray 2 God 4 wisdom....cos u fked up big time

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  33. Double wahala for living body. That's a lesson to others never do things out of pressure, my brother carry ur cross, am wondering if you would feel this way if you hadn't met the new girl. If you have to leave her pls do, don't stay with her out of pity cus you making matters worse but let me add agbalumo wey de hand better pass the one for market margot fit de inside.

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  34. a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.your current fiancee would hurt now but trust me it is better now than when you get married and you guys then become bitter.BUT be sure...dont go chasing after shadows

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  35. yes bro I know wot u mean...plz hold on a lil b4 any 4da step wt both of dem. don't brake up yet & don't b too close 2 ur new "crush"...u ll thank me later

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  36. Let her know dat u re no longer interested in marryin her..it wil hurt her but she wil get over it...its better dan divorce or marriage wtout luv..i pray God giv her a man datz far more better dan u

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  37. Abeg just gerrout! U r just an unrepented playboy! U really have a long wayyyyyyY to go. Which one is woman of ur dreams? D one u proposed to, is she d woman of ur alertness? Infact I don't even know how to classify u!

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  38. Your a jerk! Selfish ass nigga!

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  39. All I can advise u is dat u ar a confused mad bastard clothed with a dress of stupidity and foolishness

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  40. there is no miss perfect out dere... u are only blindfolded wt d physical attribute of d new lady.n let me tel u ..u dbt knw her too wel as d old lady...d devil u knw is beta dan d angel u dnt knw

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  41. Your a jerk! Selfish asshole!

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  42. LMAO, My dear so sad to be the one to tell you this, but the bitter truth is you would always meet your deam woman, the irony of life is it aint fair, but truth is no woman is perfect. u take your imperfect woman and turn her to your dream woman, otherwise you would foever constantly meet a strange woman(your dream woman) every now and then, especially when you are about to make major decisions in your relationship.

    JENIFA KAN SAYS SO

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  43. You are not sure about someone you dated for 2.6 yrs, how are you sure about somebody you've just met less than a month? Say NO to temptation before you would do something you will regret forever.

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  44. sabali bruv, Sabali. (be patient)

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  45. When you've engaged her why go after another woman? Or you just saw "this dream girl" and without a word, you clicked? Please choose wisely. You barely know the new one

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  46. neva marry outta pressure

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  47. First of all don't be sentimental about marriage its a life time thing if you have seen ur mrs right then go for it and the bible which is the word of GOD forbids divorce. Pray to GOD to prepare the heart of ur girlfriend to receive the news and them break it to her. GOD help you.

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  48. This is so painful...i understand how you feel. please take your time. dont rush to break things off with your girl or jump in with Miss right. If you believe in GOD, Pray and ask God to "dissolve and resolve" with a sincere hear, maybe for two weeks, dont say which you prefer, just tell Him to dissolve what shouldnt be and resolve what should. And see a miracle! it happens like magic,everyone will be happy at the end of the day...no heartbreaks. Am talking from experience!

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  49. r u looking for advice from Linda or from libers? cuz u'll get d latter. dunno when Linda turned to Dr.phil

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  50. Marriage is not a weak affair! I advice you pray about it

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  51. Men are never satisfied... You've been with her over 2 yrs and you did not realize she's not the one? #alwaysthirsty

    *Kelly Crush*

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  52. there is no way you won't break her heart. you just have to do what you have to do so you don't make her life miserable in the future.

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  53. How do I begin to answer this question of yours... Just call up the and be upfront with her that you were not sure when you engaged is better than going on and having regrets about it..

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  54. How do I begin to answer this question of yours... Just call up the and be upfront with her that you were not sure when you engaged is better than going on and having regrets about it..

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  55. Tight shit! Any decision u make,be considerate of ur gf and place urself in her shoes..I think if after all ds while u've waited,she's the one u still goh engaged to, it means u two r meant to be...u just gotta let d new gal go and in the end if d new gal is meant to be,u guys will deff find ur way back together

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  56. MY DEAR, YOU BETTER THANK GOD THAT YOU ARE SIMPLY ENGAGED TO YOUR GIRLFRIEND AND NOT MARRIED.....SINCE YOU ARE NOT SURE.A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE.

    I WILL ADVICE YOU TO THINK VERY CAREFULLY THOUGH, REMEMBER THAT YOU DONT ACTUALLY KNOW THIS NEW GIRL 100%. ONE OF THE BEST TIMES IN A RELATIONSHIP IS THE BEGINNING WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE NEW. YOUR CURRENT GIRLFRIEND IS SOMEONE YOU KNOW VERY WELL AND IM SURE YOU CAN PRDICT HER WAYS BETTER THAN THIS NEW GIRL.

    I DONT KNOW WHAT YOU SEE IN THIS NEW GIRL THAT MAKES YOU 100% SURE THAT SHE IS THE ONE. BUT I HOPE ITS NOT INFATUATION BECAUSE THAT WILL FADE IN TIME.

    PRAY ABOUT IT AND OPEN YOUR EYES WIDE. ONES YOU DECIDE TO BREAK UP THE ENGAGEMENT THEN THERE IS NO TURING BACK.

    I ALSO WONDER WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN THIS YOUR DREAM GIRL IS IF SHE IS KNOWINGLY WILLING TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU WHEN SHE KNOWS THAT YOU ARE ENGAGED.......JUST SAYING

    THE FINAL DECISION IS YOURS.....GOOD LUCK

    AKA....... OPK

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  57. Just after 1 week?..u better use your head o..

    Ify

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  58. Disengage lol.. But on a serious note, never ever succumb to pressure.. You gotta figure this one out yourself cuz there's no easy way out..

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  59. So....how do you know she is the right one for you because sometimes our dreams are not what is best for us?? Don't make a mistake you might regret for the rest of your life, when you knew your girl wasn't right for you all along why did you date for that long and even engaged her?

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  60. Oloshi ni bobo yi sha...na so dem go brk up with ur sister without breaking her heart. Ewu!

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  61. ditch the girl,and follow your heart

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  62. Sincerely speaking, u have to break off the engagement. Ur fiancee would be hurt...but then it would eventually go away. Its worse getting married when your head isn't home. Cos surely that marriage won't stand for long. So end it now while you can but before you do be certain you aren't going after this new lady for the wrong reasons.

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  63. Craze dey worry you

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  64. Di√a₢ΰiƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ε17 March 2014 at 13:08

    ♍я dяǝam man, I gues u яǝ still dяǝaming tho to have jux notice such! Better ♡ wit уᵒᵘʳ head & think ahead not wit уᵒᵘʳ hrt & get lost cos I dunno how on earth you got уᵒᵘʳ gf engaged when she's not уᵒᵘʳ dяǝam woman!!!

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  65. Mr man, I cannot but pity you. Lemme paint an instance for you, You got a job with nice pay and u were confortable with it, just for your employer to come after two and half years and tell you that u were wrongly given d job dat the wrightful owner of that job just checked in and so u gat to vacate such job. How will u feel? I guess the witches and wizards in ur family are after you, rite? That's your problem rite now!! I bet u, it was the outward appearance of dis new girl dat drove u insane to have called her ur dream gurl, thank God you re still dreaming, when u wake up, go meet d gurl u got angaged with and marry her....Can you see where covetiousness can take a man to!

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  66. But u weren't under pressure when u were sleeping wt her? Don't lie dat u haven't slept wt her dating her for 2yrs. Rubbish!

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  67. guy my sincere and true advice to u, as a brother to a brother.
    pls give it time, i hv seen a lot of guys walk this same path and end up regreting but unfortunately, it is too late.
    my advice to you is to allow time to tell, keep her as a friend and still spend more time with ur fiancee. if its true love it would grow, and if it is lust, with u spending more time with ur fieancee it will fade off.
    the true and real personality of pple (esp ladies) usually reveals itself over time.

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  68. loll..Just met the woman of my dreams y'day I think sef...and I also have a girlfriend whom I ain't engaged to..was thinking of same thing too..this is how i think you should do it...tell the woman of your dreams of your present situation and then tell your gf things might not be perfect between you two in the near future...then tell her the truth if she probes further. do it where she won't kill you though.

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  69. *scoffs*niggah sit yo black ass down!how can you be sure this new lady is "the one"just after one week?!Here is another man thinking with is Mr twinky!..and what do you mean by pressure though?mscheww I just can't! You better think this through before you regret this silly mistake the rest of your life.

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  70. tell her exactly what you are telling us gosh... its so painful to even think of your poor fiancé running around thinking she's with the man of her dreams... just break it off already and let the poor girl move on jor ...

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  71. You are Foolish with Capital "F" 2 and half year over 1 week? Of course, you can break up with her then meet another "girl of your dream" after 2 and half years down the line.

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  72. i bet you all, the author of this story is a female, or a guy who is a female inside, how can a man asked online readers for advise on his own future, na wah? and which can man never fashee your wife-to-be for babe wey you never even see her pant?ok ride on..

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  73. Dnt b decieved, hw are u sure dis new gal u jus met is ur ideal woman? Hence u bearlly knw her. Dnt b decieved d devil u know is better dan d angel u dnt knw.

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  74. Think twice. I think you are confused. Maybe after engaging the present one you will find another match...Relax please.

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  75. u b idiot naah..... pressure abi? na so u go mari talk sai na pressure.....

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  76. So should we fry eggs for u?

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  77. Sorry comment becos same thing happen to me, u cn only work on luv

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  78. Young man marriage is a lifetime commitment so be wise when making such decision.
    Please ask God God forgiveness and proceed with you engaged girl.

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  79. You are just being selfish.
    Soon you will see another lady you will call the woman of your dream,coz you've not stopped dreaming

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  80. Fuck u linda and ur fake stories.

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  81. U really did to go 4 check up young man..how can u tie a girl down 4 dat long all in d name of engagement and now she turns out not to be ur drm girl...u really need some medical check up

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  82. Its obvious you don't love your girlfriend turned fiancee'. Its better you break it off with her. As the saying goes, better a broken engagement than a broken marraige. PS...your fiancee' is going to be heartbroken.

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  83. Dream Woman my ass, some1 dat u hav only dated in ur imagination is d person u want to chose over som1 u hav been dating in reality for 2 solid yrs.
    Guy i think u need d nearest rehab center asap.
    Anumpam

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  84. Lool. Brah, this is your problem broken down in percentages:

    1: fear of commitment: 50%
    2: desire to try someone new: 25%
    3: almighty konji: 25%

    All you need is to change how you think. Even if you break things off and marry 'the one' (Jet Li bawo), you'll still meet the 2nd, 3rd till 29th one. Fact is, you'll never stop meeting desirable women. Rather, think hard on what made you give 'the expired one' a ring in the first place then you can work your way back from there.

    I don talk my own.

    Mr. Sugar

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  85. U r a confused man. Tomorrow u will still meet another girl after this one. Anyway, go into prayer. Don't rush things. Take easy my brother. Pls avoid making mistake

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  86. just break it off, better now tha
    n later

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  87. the only thing to say is to break it off but do it right....you cant go into a loveless marriage since you dont love her. goodluck

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  89. Ogun strike you there!!! Infact, amadioha circumcise you with lightening bolt. Onyiara!!!

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  90. This is the reason why heartless girls deal with men like you,oh u were not sure and you put the ring.onye iberibe like you.do u kW hw many men she must hv turned down cos of u.mk u no provoke me oh.

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  91. beautiful onyinye17 March 2014 at 13:22

    My dear! Engagement is not marriage! Dnt mk a mistaje dat ll leave u unhappy 4 d rest of ur life! Am engaged 2 a man and nt sure if I can live wt him.. Am jst stuck in d realtionship cuz I feel he has done a lot 4 me n I cnt afford to hurt him..

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  92. You need to know there is no perfect woman boss and beside what makes you think she is the woman of your dream and if she is then the woman you got engage to is a woman of your vision? Plz come off it guy you have no excuse for wanting to brake up boss

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  93. Bros i advice u to relax. U see is just 1 wk u know dis babe, dont tink u hv seen all her behavour ooooo. My take is dat u concentrate on ur present relationship & make it work, okay.

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  94. Ogun will kee u! after 2 nd a half years u not sure she's d one? Imagine d series of abortion she had for you,after filling her 'kpekus' for 2 nd a Half years nw she's not d now? Year case is wit lucifer!

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  95. Since u no u dnt lv her y did u keep her so long 2 d extent u gv her ring n ow r u sure d single lady is ur dream gal???

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  96. Please I really don't know how to say this but please don't hurt your girl. she didn't force you to engage her. am a girl and I can tell you from my personal experience. a short story to inspire u, it happened to my friend and when the guy told her he wants to call off the engagement she died and the guy was arrested and jailed for murder please follow to my advice.


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  97. oh dear, i guess nature does not want u guys to get married other wise she wld have come wen u were not already engaged to someone else, hw wld ur fiancee feel

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  98. A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage. Be very sure this new woman is not a pretender because you might live to regret it. Sometimes, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.

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  99. I wish the both ladies find better men, you don't deserve any. what the hell were you doing engaging a woman you don't love or as you said is not your dream woman.

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  100. IS THAT WHY YOU ARE CONFUSED?? YOU DON'T HAVE A PROBLEM AT ALL..MARRY THE BOTH OF THEM JARI. #CASECLOSED...

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  101. The devil at work,shine ya eyes

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  102. You are just a Yanshhole! After 2 and a half yrs you finally engaged but u were still looking for your "dream woman" Your life may just be a dream u may never wake up from - just saying!

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  103. U must b jokin.....

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  104. Choi! I hope i'm not d gal oh! Dis guy just sounds like my fiance... if he's d one then I have news for u! better don't break off this engagement if not!!!!!

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  105. And i'm convinced without any iota of doubt that you don't know what you are doing......

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  106. So in other words, you are asking for advice on how to break a girl's heart abi? You dated her for two and a half years and you still weren't sure she is the woman for you. .how wicked you are! !! What makes you so sure that you won't find another "woman of your dreams" the minute you engage this one too? Nawa 4 some people sha

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  107. Now, this is the reason why women(girls) behave the way the do! with a lot of guys, "it's not over until its over (the altar)".

    Hisssssss! You are just an idiot! wait till your "dream girl" unravels!!! Ever heard of "a bird at hand"?

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  108. I hope you didn't do one of those 'epic' 'will you marry me?' proposals?
    Another thing is, when you break off this engagement and you ask 'The One' for her hand in marriage, what are the chances that you won't meet another 'One' a week after?

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  109. and how do you knw she's whats best for you after 1 week??? plus anyone ready to date a guy or a girl who is already engaged and promises to brake it up with the other party is fooling his/her self big tym. what makes you think he wont find another girl after 1 week and say shes the one????? Be WISE

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  110. Abeg...a case of the grass looking greener on the other end. In less than a week u already know that. How won't she put out her best foot to impress you. To think that u kept a babe for 2yrs and ur ready to dump her and expect she won't have her heart broken...SMH. Babe's pls stop all these long courtship tinz. Check ur intentions man!

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  111. Ogun will kee u! after 2 nd a half years u not sure she's d one? Imagine d series of abortion she had for you,after filling her 'kpekus' for 2 nd a Half years nw she's not d one? Your case is wit lucifer!

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  112. If your girlfriend is a very nice person and has done you no harm then you will regret what you're about to do for the rest of your life. Your 'dream woman' may be barren afterall. You shouldn't have 'looked outside' when you were already engaged. Be warned

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  113. Idiot, u re infatuating

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  114. You are not matured enough to get married, pure and simple. This little one liner sentence says it all. Leave relationships alone and go learn what it means to be a grown-up. Nobody should ever feel pressured to want to make a lifetime commitment to anyone, especially if you are not sure. It is obvious making decisions that involves other peoples hearts are trivial/easy to make. You're not even matured enough to get a job... you're a tad bit irresponsible.

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  115. and how do you knw she's whats best for you after 1 week??? plus anyone ready to date a guy or a girl who is already engaged and promises to brake it up with the other party is fooling his/her self big tym. what makes you think he wont find another girl after 1 week and say shes the one????? Be WISE

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  116. Don't get into what u will end up regretting, just pray to God for a better leading.

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  117. You need to be sure... it may be the pressure of finally getting "tied down" is affecting you. Think about the 80/20 principle. You have 80... but you see 20 outside and because u dont have, the 20 suddenly seems bigger than the 80. I don think you should marry someone you dont love, but be sure its not ur emotions playing games with u.. if youre sure, tell her, nothing worse nothing worse than being in a loveless marraige

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  118. Evil of d year goes to u man, u do chop naw e don tire u...breaking news: ure nt d dream man of d new girl...

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  119. Two years and a half she's not the one and you didn't let her go? That's the issue with you guys, why keep a girl and waste her time when you know deep down she isn't the one you want, better u break her heart and safe her time to go meet her match.

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  120. Thank God is ur dream girl..... All you'll do is.... stop dreaming.....

    On a serious note...... you can reevaluate your status if u deem it fit...

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  121. Asshole.
    A week after you got engaged,you went fishing.moron

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  122. R USURE??? ALL THAT GLITTERS ISNT GOLD...THIS MIGHT BE LUST AND INFATUATION BE WISE MY YOUNG MAN!!!! MARRIAGE IS TOUGH U NEED AN UNDERSTANDING PATIENT, GOD FEARING WOMAN, WHO IS KIND AND UNDERSTANDING...LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!!!

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  123. Best you break off with her now cos you will definitely cheat on her.since just a week after proposing marriage,you jumped some one else.

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  124. Engagements are meant to be broken! Not too late!

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  126. I don't know what most guys take girls for? When you weren't sure she wasn't the one why did you engage her, well its your mistake leave the so called girl of your dream and live with marrying the girlfriend you have!

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  127. U need serious prayer,met a girl a week ago and concluded she is ur dream woman...hmmm ife ne me na upper iweka junction

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  128. Hm, there's' no way there wont be a heartbreak. Maturity will face it and stick with the old girl but otherwise will want to change. It's'true that new things excite

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  129. We ain't always supposed to end up with the girl of our dreams. Not always.

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  130. Dude u need prayers. ..u have been wit a girl for 2 and a half years and after getting her engaged u r saying u have met the one u just met over a week...how is she d one? U need ur head washed.

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  131. The only tin i have 2 say 2 you is that you are mad. Coward

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  132. U re an idiot,y did u engage her if she wasn't d woman of ur dream?May God punish al these useless n confused men that go abt breaking hearts.Nonsense!!

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  133. You really want an advise, BEAST that's what you are.

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  134. a doubleminded man is unstable in all his ways

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  135. You can go ahead and end the relationship, mind you, you will meet other women in the nearest future whom you would also believe are your dream women. Keep breaking women's hearts because of dream, don't wake up and face reality. Nonsense!

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  136. I know that feelings......

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  137. Guy follow ur dream.

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  138. But the devil u know is better than thw angel u don't know.

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  139. Dont do what u will regret...dnt call off d engagement...its a normal thing...it happens when one is about to marry but u will get over it, but u are funny o....u want to leave a girl u dated for two weeks for a girl u met just one week ago? Infact u dnt know wat u want...u dnt deserve ur girl at all...I wish she finds out and dump ur sorry ass and when u xome begging she should give a dirty slap cos definitely u must come back...trust me..mtscheeeew

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  140. u r not alrite o...you better sleep and wake up again....u want to undo ur engagement...rubbish

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  141. She could be the woman of your dreams ,but it doesn't mean the relationship would last. Don't make the mistake of leaving someone who truly loves you for someone who LIKES you.

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  142. Send her text msgs that u av met a woman which is the dream of ur life **joking**....am tired of all this kinda stories,if u want us to help u then tell us the full story we cant just tell u to go ahead with ur new dream...u gonna hurt somebody remember that

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  143. Yeah, we know what you mean.



    We know you are an IDIOT.

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  144. Lmao confused human being

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  145. Awwwww.....i understnd how u feel,m.a woman i can understnd she will feel used n dumped,2 wasted years.but my dear a broken relationship s beta dan a broken marriage.i dnt c u being happy in dt home wen u get married to her*mayb* cos ur hrt s sumwhr else.follow ur heart my dear
    God b wii u.

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  146. Follow ur dream, but beware... the devil u know is beta dan the angel u don't know. abi how dem talk am.

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  147. Just pray to God, He answers prayers. Listen to His voice and He will answer you. That you are engaged does not mean she is your wife. Be wise this is a life time project.

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  148. Shes not ur dream girl! Ur just lusting After her ode, onuku igala!

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  149. There is no way to call off your engagement without breaking your fiancee's heart.

    But a broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.

    Be honest, tell her you had doubts but did it anyway. But now can't go thru with a relationship.

    You will be insulted and bla bla...but marriage is life long. In time everyone will move on.

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  150. u re a bastard!!!!! i pray dat u shud hv a sister, nd anoda man wil treat her lik u wana du 2 dis one, heart breaker!!! u r not sure n yet u went ahead 2 propose 2 her..... infact dnt let me get angry wif u o

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  151. People will insult n curse u buh my dear,non of dem wil ever liv with u.

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  152. It's not too late, better an ex girlfriend than an ex wife...

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  153. I am just curious though how you know this new woman is your dream woman?

    Really think about this before making any decisions.

    Think about the important things and not booty size. #FYI

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  154. Ojukokoro is the name of your problem. If u cancel ur engagement and marry this new 'woman of my dreams' girl, u will still meet someone 'better' after marriage. Get a grip and stop hopping around.

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  155. Cam down and make your decision, the future matters not today o. U got to leave with your decision for life.

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  156. U can't tell in a wk, u r just carried away wiv d phase , let it go tru fire then wen it stand....

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  157. aristocratdammy17 March 2014 at 13:58

    Gobe nla,na to breakup noni tell her you don move to d next level.God go provide better option

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  158. What kind ☀f story is dis. Plx make urr choice Ūя̲̅ self.

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  159. Poster onise, face ur work!

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  160. after giving ur girl a ring u still went around flirting. girl of ur dreams kor, girl of ur dreams nii, my brother not all dat glitters is gold its always like magic in d begginning, ul think every1 u meet is d one. go fix urself, build ur current relationship and stop flirting around

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  161. Well, the best thing is just to let go of your former relationship oo cos if this new girl is truly your dream girl,go for her wit rush cos future is at stake here

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  162. Hmmmmm...... How come u didn't notice she wasn't right for u all these yrs? 2nhalf years no be play nah! Bro think well

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  163. Go ahead and tell her the truth...she's not the right person 4 u

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  164. At this point dude, the woman will/should remain in your dreams... There is a reason( God knows) why you did not meet until you took the plunge...Pele..


    Mayowa

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  165. Its better 2 hv a broken engagement than marriage, so....... follow ur heart

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  166. Ur name na MUMU!!!!!!
    Ewu hausa dika gi.....go ahead nd break it off with her nah
    So dat u can go nd be wit d woman of ur "dreams"....
    Y propose to someone wen u know u r not ready for marriage nd u dont love her enuf to marry her..
    Fool, mtchewww.

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  167. Pls think twice

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  168. The thing there ιƨ, every woman possess a great quality, ßut how are you sure. The one you Just saw now isn't a camouflage? Tell that present devil that surfaced to pack out of your thought. God has a reason For you to have engaged your present girl. Take this αѕ a blessing.

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  169. follow ur heart no matter how hard it looks

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  170. Break off d engagement with ur gf. Marriage is hard enough as it is. Don't just settle 4 wat u don't like. Grass is always greener on the other side. But bear in mind that this 'the one' girl might end up not seeing u as 'the one' in d not too far future.
    Ole Olojukokoro somebody

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  171. very easy breakup with your fiancee right away,you will be doing her a great favour,like the say goes a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage..... if were her i will be glad not to end up with a looser like you

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  172. Wahala dey oooo

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  173. Guy are u sure this is not lust or fantasy

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  174. I do undrstnd u very well cus same hapnd 2me after my girl frnd got pregnant & decided 2 kp it 4 me wit d hope of marryn her after she gave birth. I meet some one after my heart. The woman that I hav bn askn God 2 send 2me 4 years. Am still on the cross roadd rite now hoping 4 d direction of my Destiny.

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  175. Bia u diz two timin fool,am sure u av a sista yh? Now ow wud yu feel if diz hapnd 2ur sista..dude free dat so called gurl of ur dream,and work on ur fiancee 2 bcome d aPpl of ur IYZ,dnt dul!

    Na me;HARRYPOTTA

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  176. very easy breakup with your fiancee right away,you will be doing her a great favour,like the say goes a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage..... if were her i will be glad not to end up with a looser like you

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  177. hello dear, my first question is how can you be so sure after a week???? we humans love new things,so at the initial stage it all looks shinny and beautiful and we just want to hold unto it. please be calm, you've been with your fiance' for over 2 years now trust me no matter the pressure you say you had before proposing, you till did it without a gun being put to your head, you were with her for that long. don't break it up just cuz you met someone new....

    but then again i'm confused how can you be talking about a relationship with someone else after a week??? ....i'm done here. just think before you act.

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  178. The usual smart moves from men to continue soiling the Royal "Oats".

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  179. Thank God you said engaged and not marriage. My brother, speaking honestly, a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage and no one should be pressured into this life-time commitment called marriage. Its better you have a heart to heart with your fiance, make her understand you are having cold-feet about settling down and encourage her to go on her merry way. Of course you know you'll have to keep ur new relationship on d low for sometime. DON'T tell her its because of another woman you are chickening out. Now speaking as a woman and as a mother, after wasting the poor girl's time and giving her high hopes, sampled her pussy endlessly and probably gotten her to abort a few babies for you, you now realize @ d last minute that she's not ur kind of woman abi? Turn d table around, would you be happy if you were on d receiving end of this kind of mess? Pray for God's forgiveness brother.

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  180. Patience is a virtue, u cud have waited and not rush into what u wud eventually regret and Never u jilt ur lover for another, its heart aching, remember it cud be u.

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  181. Ur just a sick modafucker!! Pls tell d poor girl now so she dosnt end up with a looser like u who dosnt knw wot loyalty, trust n love is! Psycho bastard

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  182. Don't leave your fiancee...take a conscious effort to develop the right feeling for her because I know she loves you.

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  183. stupid , idiot . you have known her for just a week and you think she is the one . my dear have a rethink ok

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  184. Guy, don't ever make d mistake of being sentimental about your future. If you are so sure of this new woman in your life then please be a MAN enough n tell your now fiance the truth and end it before you make a mistake you will regret & have to live with for the rest of your life.

    Let just say am talking from experience, because I was in your shoes and I know where it pitches now.

    Met this totally amazing girl 3 months before my marriage and we bounded like we had known for ever, we did everything together, she was my friend & confidant, she made me laugh and she completed me in every-way, but was not MAN enough to break up with my now wife for fear of breaking her heart.

    But today I have my regrets, so be wise friend.

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  185. Linda or wat are u called,how about this young telnt boy from PH Jcin producer and song writer there inform u and u said no space but u can va space for dis nonsense

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  186. You must be insane... Idiot

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  187. U feeling pressure frm guyz not even mum or fam? Odiegwu.com! What makes u think she is ur dream gal?? All of a sudden, u find nothing "Dreamy" in ur supposed fiance?? Dude jukwa onwegi ajuju ofuma b4 indulging in d newbe. Nevrdless I dnt advise u go into marriage wiv some1 u ain't comfortable wiv...stay away frm d both of dem for a while and go search urself, if aftr u no stil get d ryt answer, nwanne OYO!

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