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Wednesday, 19 March 2014

Dear LIB readers: Am I still a virgin?

From a female LIB reader
I am 23 years old and I have vowed not to have sex until after marriage. I've been dating this guy for about a year and he's been begging me for intimacy. Because of my love for him, I allowed him to finger me but that was all. Am I still considered a virgin?

452 comments:

  1. Linda abeg stop with this redundant questions, is fingering = penetration

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  2. hmmmm, stories we hear here. Linda i think the question was for you not us, lmao. please visit my fashion blog, www.meemjay.com

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  3. Do you still consider yourself one? Answer your own question.

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  4. How many fingers?

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  5. You are still a virgin, but you are going too far and will soon lose that virginity if u are not careful


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  6. No chic.jus open it up

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  7. Ajuju. Ka esi aza ya bu......

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  8. Mumu! Go and see your doctor and ask him.

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  9. You are no longer a virgin, being a virgin means nothing has gone in weda biro or pencil.

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  10. Ur no longer a virgin .am so disappointed in you. Better still sell it on eBay to the highest bidder.

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  11. Nope my dear. He has defiled you though ur hymen has not yet broken

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  12. Lol....cookie jar jez gt fingered

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  13. No Hun , you are not...
    Please visit: www.mimiubini.com

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  14. rili? but sincerely dear I don't av an idea

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  15. Go to an hospital and let a doctor do a vaginal examination on you to check if your vaginal Hymen(the small flesh of tissue that covers the entrance of the vagina in someone who is still a virgin). If yours is present then you are still virgin . ***Dr Faceless She

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  16. Simply put, you are mad, u shuld av just allowed him put his penis instead of his fingers. Linda please approve this...

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  17. Virgin ko Virgin ni19 March 2014 at 18:49

    Ode ni e.... See ur mouth like am i still a virgin? You are a foolish virgin..

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  18. The letter was only opened by unknown, however, it was not read! Meaning ua still still branded virgin.

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  19. The letter was only opened by an unknown, however, it was not read! Meaning ua still branded virgin.

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  20. Go see a Dr to examine your hemen.If its tempered with,then definitely you aint no virgin

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  21. In Jodies words ' You can't ask me that question cuz I have no experience'..

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  22. You and your fingerer' dey crase.na where them the buy cloth persin the enter market.....oshisco .

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  23. Any1 who need my nude pic hit mai name.
    and I also need guys that can satisfy me sexually, If you are
    interested in me,hit mai name

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  24. You are a virgin na,as far as he has not put d tin inside.....dnt panick ni

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  25. In Jodie's words ' You can't ask me that question cuz I have no experience'..

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  26. Same my granny is thinking if she's still a virgin. Quit deceiving ursef young lady. Go back to the guy and finish up.

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  27. U are my dear

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  28. When he was at it do u experience pain or blood? If yes ur hymen has been broken.sweetheart ur no more a virgin.

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  29. Why bpother about that? Prevention is better than cure they say, so who wld do d test/check for u if u are or not? Park well jare . *L*

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  30. Na clap dey turn to dance. Very soon he will soon disvirgin u.

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  31. You are no longer a Virgin Since he has have canal knowledge of you,besides girls that are not virgin get fingered during Sex. But y do u care 2 have a boyfriend since u are not ready 2 lose ur virginity, u think say na Rev u dey date? Even d thing dey hungry Rev sef.

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  32. You are a fool ..

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  33. Who are u asking? Am I to do the check for you? Prevention is better than cure they say so just park well! U re in d best position to know !

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  34. You are no longer a Virgin Since he has had canal knowledge of you,besides girls that are not virgin get fingered during Sex. But y do u care 2 have a boyfriend since u are not ready 2 lose ur virginity, u think say na Rev u dey date? Even d thing dey hungry Rev sef.

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  35. Ur no longer a virgin. Y dont u do dy main sex

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  36. Lmao this is d most annoying post ever .... Linda please post pictures of your us trip rather than this thank you. N mrs virgin ask ur grandmother she has first hand experience

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  37. Mtcheeeeeeeewwwwww......linda biko next...

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  38. Post my comment

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  39. to me that guy is not your rightful person. how can he finger you knowing that you are a virgin.

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  40. Hmm. Babe it depends oo. If he went really deep, am sorry u aint a virgin anymore.

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  41. Define ur precepts n priniciples n stand by it bae... waitin 4 odas' definition 2 console u won't do.. Bt medically as far as ur hymen is intact, u re a virgin!

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  42. No u r nolonger a virgin bcos ders bin a penetration *laff*.ote!!!

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  43. Asahwo.finger you?idiat oshi

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  44. that guy is not your rightful person, while he finger you, knowing you are virgin.

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  45. I think being a virgin is a state of mind. Your own fingers have passed that area over and over again. Whats the difference if its someone else's fingers? Anybody can be a virgin

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  46. Kindly correct to "because of my lust for him"

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  47. nope you aren't anymore. some sexual activity had occurred down there besides fingering can break the hymen

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  48. Lol... my dear, na jamb question b dt

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  49. Why nt walk into ​A̶̲̅ hospital nd ask ​A̶̲̅ doctor? †Ñ’ξ kind ☀f news U, Linda Ikeji bring to Us @times makes M̲̅e̲̅ wonder.

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  50. Your land is still a forest reserve until a bulldozer ply n fell d trees...pls keep d forest guard at alert till d timber magnet gets a felling license from d Forestry Commission.

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  51. Nawa ooo. People don turn LIB to search engine sha. Go ask google Na.



    Sir Alpachino

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  52. Technically yes, coz dere's bn no intercourse bt i only consider one without any sexual experience as a virgin. U can still stick2ur vows though.

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  53. Nawa ooo. People don turn LIB to search engine sha. Go ask google Na.



    Sir Alpachino

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  54. LOL I can't wait for the answers, if your hymen is gone my dear you aren't, fingering can also break hymens

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  55. The term virgin is generally used to describe a man or woman who has not engaged in sexual activity. For a woman, your proof of virginity is usually the existence of a hymen. The hymen is the membrane that covers the external vagina opening. People use this as proof of virginity because its existence means that you have never been penetrated. However, this membrane is pretty easy to break and lots of girls lose it in their teens by simply running, horseback riding and other physical sports/activities. When they lose it, doe sit mean they are no longer virgins? Not necessarily..A virgin is someone who hasn't engaged in sexual activity/penetration remember? Now my dear whether or not you define yourself as a virgin will depend on how you define sexual activity. I would say that you are not because you are engaging in some form of sex activity with a partner and I would advise you stop the hypocrisy before man and God.As to whether you stil have your Hymen? I don't know. Could be or not.

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  56. My personal opinion is that u are still a virgin. Some people may view otherwise. Virginity can be defined in other ways. U may be considered a virgine if ur hymen is not broken. In ur case, u were fingered. Your hymen may have been torn. In that case , some people may not consider u a virgin.

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  57. He finger you.the boy prick the pain am abi e nor dey work.idiot

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  58. He finger you.the boy prick the pain am abi e nor dey work.idiot

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  59. Mumu! Yes tho! U̶̲̥̅̊ r!

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  60. You are not a virgin, You are a fool.. 23 year old mumu

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  61. If your hymen isn't broken then yes you are still a virgin

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  62. If the Bobo raptured your hymen; then you are not!!!

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  63. Ajuju! U stil are dearie buh den again, some men hv proven to hv fingers larger... So ask urself some personal questions esp if u felt any pains afterwards..
    I wil also advice u maintain ur stand on what. If u allow him to ginger u cuz of "Love", a day wil come wen u wil allow him hv sex wiv u cuz of "Love"...nd u wil stil b asking if u still b virginia

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  64. Keep deceiving ya self, already yaaf had the sex by even thinking of it, so what's d diff? The guy has fingered you, you're no longer a virgin!!! And dt dude sha, how will you finger sm1 without collecting joy or maybe you're lieing, cs I see no reason dt guy will finger you without having sex with you, after how many years he's been waiting for that small chance.. Smh

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  65. U re a virgin bt not a pure chaste virgin...once ur hymen is still intact nd deres no deep penetration or force to tear it den u re still a Virgin.

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  66. Knock it off with this behind the scene of Rechargeable Video Watch http://youtu.be/JAkmKNnFDsA

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  67. lmao! If u ask us na who we go ask?fingering wey u do so..ei tey wey ei start...no be u go end am o...abeg make sumbody help me end am...

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  68. take style ask ur mama,she's d only one dat can tell u d truth..XTY.

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  69. definition of virgin...which many dnt knw ..a vigin is a person who has nt been defile ...so my dear ur virginity is stil intact but u ve sinned of d flesh...a sin is a sin...try n keep ur sef

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  70. Ey. Oo. Finger, depends on how many hands he used on u. Might still be a virgin.

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  71. toto wey dick never enter go d smell o..d guy mumu !fingering na penetratn??is't satisfactory?!

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  72. No, ur an idiot.....silly question.....neexxxxtttt

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  73. Just passing by*winks* first to comment tho

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  74. Noooooooo! Ya not a Virgin because you can't eat your cake nd have it!

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  75. U better let him fuck u cos dias no point waiting for marriage b4 sex,u r no longer a virgin my dear

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  76. yea u still a virgin,just keep up the good work(fingering)and u will soon love the real deal.

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  77. yea u still a virgin,just keep up the good work(fingering)and u will soon love the real deal.

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  78. yea u still a virgin,just keep up the good work(fingering)and u will soon love the real deal.

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  79. Hehehehe...mtew...haaaa...it is well..see jamb question..

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  80. lol haven't you had PHYNO'S song ?OBAGO well it goes like this " IHE BALU ABA ABAGO. pls all death na death

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  81. yea u still a virgin,just keep up the good work(fingering)and u will soon love the real deal

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  82. U are a W nyash

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  83. What a stupid question?,u deserve stupid answers here,wait until u hear4rm bonario&onyix Godwin,i reserve my comment4nw


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  84. Are u a fingering tool?

    Zuriel

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  85. yes babe buh a biological one cos there was penetration lots of luv.

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  86. Oro nla!!!!!!!!Jamb Question Year 2020


    FDJ

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  87. bankole animashaun19 March 2014 at 19:28

    izz all over "dun cry dun beg". You've lost it.

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  88. You are what i call a virgin of Sodom. You go a little but not all the way. Better go ahead and have sex and stop deceiving yourself

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  89. Go to d doctor and check if your hymen is still intact

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  90. finger you?? wat are u stil waiting 4??

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  91. U better be careful if u really want to keep the uar virgin for uar husband.

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  92. U de craze. No be u feel d finger, who's suppose 2 confirm 4 u

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  93. Aww dear its wrong u allowed him finger u, I have been fingered by a guy once but I didnt allow him go that deep, after that I asked God for mercy, u can turn to God, probably u may be a virgin and maybe u are not, stay out of any form of foreplay, it doesnt pay at the end of the day n if he loves u, he will wait n not pressure u

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  94. Except his fingers are fucking huge and gigantic then you my dear remains a Virgin The Male dick is big and hard and strong it and can't be compared to a mere finger. Also I hate men who want to finger me. Itss disgusting and painful. Eeeewww!

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  95. Virgin ko. Virgin ni. You've lost it to the boy jor! Poor you.

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  96. I think this is just a stupid question to ask here, is Linda a doctor? Go to a hospital or ask google.

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  97. Hmmmmm OYO for u, stick to your words lady, cos from fingering to d main tin n u won't c him again. If he loves you, he will be patient with you ( meemee ).

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  98. Madam finger u better do it once n s all, u need experience o, al else ur husband will not enjoy u, about ur ? U er still a VIRGIN

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  99. ibere kpataki wen he dey shook am inside u no kw u come dey ask mumu kwesion my frnd go and sleep jor if his whole finger entered inside and it was sweeting you den chic u are sooo not a virgin

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  100. ibere kpataki wen he dey shook am inside u no kw u come dey ask mumu kwesion my frnd go and sleep jor if his whole finger entered inside and it was sweeting you den chic u are sooo not a virgin

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  101. It depends though on hw u were fingered. Did u bleed? If d fingering was gentle and u didnt bleed then I guess u re still 1.

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  102. U ar now a vir. D guy av fingered d gin away frm u

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  103. It depends on how big his finger is, lol.

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  104. Hhaahaha u r not a virgin again.

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  105. Get ready you are about to lose it. From fingering, it will be please honey just the head...then remember say the thing NO get neck. Good luck.

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  106. I don't kno if ur a virgin but one thing I kno is you are a fool

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  107. To man, yes. To God, I'm not sure. A man that won't wait for u guys to get married b4 touchin u doesn't have ur interest at heart

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  108. Your virginity don pafuka

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  109. What is this craze about virginity anyway? There are a lot of things happening around and so many problems to solve and people are busy worrying about silly things like virginity. ...na was o.Not hating but please this should be the leader of your worries now....if you want to remain a virgin until marriage...good for you but please make sure you are keeping it for yourself. .not cuz of some useless man who might not even appreciate it. ...no man is worth it abeg

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  110. Big Olodo, y not ask ur mummy.

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  111. Hmmm... My dear, depending on d fact dat he didn't go in deep or dat u didn't blead afterwards

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  112. No! You've already defiled yourself.

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  113. Sorry for u re d only virgin, u re suppose to stool by ur words. U allow him to finger u 1 day he wil finally dis virgin u.

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  114. If his fingers entered ur pussy well, then u're no more a virgin.

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  115. Very funny!anyway u r still a virgin,if der was "NO BLOOD"after he fingered u but I know of a girl dat her bf disflowered her with his fingers..

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  116. If ur hymen is broken by fingers, then sorry u r no longer a virgin. It doesn't matter wats breaks it, b it penis or finger.

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  117. haven't you had PHYNO song ? IHE BALU ABA ABAGO lol

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  118. Hey hey hey....d seal is broken..weda by hand or by P. So darlin,u aint any virgin rara

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  119. Your not a virgin but a bitch... BITCH

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  120. You vowed never to v sex till after marriage, yet u allowed urself to be fingered. How sweet is it? Guess ur next try wil be d real tin. Well once is broken u ain't a view in any longer. My advice, dnt allow him finger u again.

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  121. No, you are no longer a virgin.

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  122. Lol..u a virgin my dear..

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  123. Is their blood during the fingering and more so, did u feel d finger deeply inside of you? If all the answer is YES so you are no more a virgin but if otherwise you still intact

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  124. Sorry, you're not a virgin....lmao

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  125. Linda pls answer d question

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  126. Dearie u r still a virgin Bt d nxt tym u guys attempt it I assure u u would lose ur virginity

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  127. You most be a fool

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  128. Abeg wich kind stupid question be dis......abeg go ask google or u can go ask una mama to ask ur brainless and stupid question

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  129. When he was fingering u, was it sweetening u n u were moaning n screaming?..jamal

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  130. No! Hahhahahahaha!

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  131. Ask Google dear .

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  132. Partial Virgin. Datz wat U are. Was d h:metabolism scattered in d f-process? ........although

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  133. Ιƨ that a question? Alright lemme make you understand, his fingers has penetrated.

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  134. Lindodo! u don come again o. Which kind qtn be that na? make she go test her virginity for hospital na. Next pls

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  135. No u r no longer a virgin

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  136. Virgin means no form of pentration have been carried out which in ur case is different..... Sorry....
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  137. It was horrible, I was at the scene

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  138. One yr relationship and no sex.... He his definately getting it frm some place else.....
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  139. I'm not trying to judge (only God can) but I dislike it when people don't stick to their principles. You say because you love him but his inability to abide by your moral principles just served as proof that he doesn't truly love you. The question should be should I continue dating him, which is NO. This is 2014, everyone should be wise. If you are a christian, you know it is wrong to engage in sexual intercourse before marriage. I'm no saint, I've made my own mistakes but like I said this is 2014, everyone should be grown by now. If you must kiss me and touch me to believe I love you before marriage, then God didn't plan you for me. But if you are not a christian, well, losing your hymen is not equal to not being a virgin. Do the math! May God direct you amen. Much love!

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  140. Yes you r very much a Virgin. Becareful n fulfil ur promise to urself

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  141. Lolz... Sorry I lafd at dat, its a lil'bit funy. Of cus u ar stil a virgin since u avnt had s*x b4... The thin is people bliv dat once the hymen is broken, den u'v lost ur virginity. But a woman's hymen, a piece of skin which covers the opening of the vagina, can be broken in many number of ways including sexual intercourse, tampon use, and vigorous exercise. It's presence, or lack thereof, was at one time used to prove or disprove a woman's virginity, but we now know that this is an archaic idea, as it can be broken in several ways, and many women are in fact born without one.

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  142. Buhahahahhahahhahahahhahaha

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  143. You are stupid to allow that fool desicrate you and you ask of your virginity. Wait someone in this forum would give you an answer your ears would love to hear. After 23 years with a few months extra, would you not have waited. And you think a boy friend, fiance is truly a husband. Please next time stay clear if such low lifes.

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  144. U're hymenless .....u ain't

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  145. My dear na from clap dem take they enter dance o!.......... Consider urself vandalized.....lol

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  146. Sure u are still a virgin so far blood didn't come out!

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  147. Lol,u still are oo

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  148. Lol abeg my dearie dearest, u r no more a virgin so deal with it....

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  149. Ur virginity now depends on how many fingers dat was slot in. If it is more than one u ve lost it

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  150. Lol nahhhhhhh you not but it's all good you will be fine :-)

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  151. Techinically yes. U vnt gotten penile penetratn but u v had a penetratn. Like masturbatn me tink. Just sayin...D Curious1

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  152. YOU ARE A GOOD GIRL..BUT PLS DONT BE A NAUGHTY GIRL AND ALLOW HIM TO DO THAT TO YOU AGAIN...U ARE STILL A VIRGIN FINGER AND THE OTHER THING ARE NOT THE SAME...I LOVE UR DESIRE TO BE CHASTE BEFORE MARRIAGE KEEP IT THAT WAY IT COMES WITH A LOT OF BLESSINGS...

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  153. Nope you are not.... For the fact that something has gone through your punani P*, Limpo or finger.. U have become unsealed. Keep it safe in ur next life.

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  154. Yes u are,that is if u are sure he did nt have sex wit u,and u have neva had sex before

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  155. Lol abeg my dearie dearest, u r no more a virgin u av gone against ur vows u av gone against d bible d scripture of the Almighty God and u av defiled d gods of d land! so deal with it.... smh let ur conscience judge you!!!!!!!!!

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  156. Sorry u hv sold ur virginity for a token of finger. Rip #urpride#

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  157. Yes, you are still a virgin even though ur hymen may have gotten broken (if you bled) in the course of the fingering. As long as a girl has never had any form of penetrative sex (i.e virginal or anal), she is still a virgin.

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  158. pls What are u doing on this blog if @ ur age u don't know when uve been disvirgined or not.

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  159. Capital NO you're not!.... You've just been finger fucked! ....

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  160. Let me officially deflower u.I hereby say FUCK YOU for that stupid question

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  161. Go for a virginity test.

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  162. Lol, dnt worry ur still a virgin

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  163. medically,it depends on hymen if u have a soft hymen d fingering might av disvirgn u,but if u av a hard one fingering might not disvirgin u

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  164. Bring your Toto, let me test it, then I will know

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  165. Na so e dey stat o. If e put finger 2day... 2moro jst d tip.. l8a evertyn. I cnt biliv u still dey mumu at 23. If want 2 do jst do. If nt zip up nd look 4 a born again virgin like ursef. Mtchwww

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  166. You're still a virgin as long as you didn't bleed and your hymen wasn't broken*Nkey*

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  167. You're still a virgin as long as you didn't bleed and your hymen wasn't broken*Nkey*

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  168. I dont know anything about female sexuality oooh

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  169. U could still be a virgin.there are differnt types of hymen,its only cribriform hymen dat a finger can't pass tru others can actually allow at least a finger so since der is no hymenal tear evidienced by some spottings u are "INTACTA INCORRUPTA"

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  170. Linda I cnt beliv cos u dnt ve anytin to blog u wld actually waste ds space for ds????chaiii y nt google or go 2 d hosp and ask a doc????linda pls dnt try ds again....

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  171. DUHHH!!! some people can like to ask stupid questions

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  172. People be keeping deir virgnity for wrong reasons, if u wanna abstain from sex do it because is a sin(fornication) u allowed him to finger u is dat not fornication already, so wen dey say vrgins should stand up u sef will stand, I don't understand some girls...

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  173. Yeah, fingered Virgin!

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  174. Babe,check yourself..put your mirror beneath and look for yourself

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  175. Yeah right, fingered virgin! Lol

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  176. Ask yaself! Mtseeeew.

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  177. See smelling question,ask Google na

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  178. When he was doing d fingering did blood came out? If yes,u'r no longer a Virgin... Bt in all virginity means total abstience from anytin involvin intimacy so to say,partially u'r no longer a virgin...

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