Our parents and grand parents had as many as seven children, some even ten or more but things have kinda changed now. So in this day and age what's the ideal number of children couples should have, no matter how rich or poor they are - just the average?
A. 2
B. 3
C. 4
D. As many children as they can afford ?
2.5 kids
ReplyDeleteIt depends on the amount of cold nights they have
ReplyDelete4 or five is fine!
ReplyDeleteThe ideal number whether you are rich or poor should be four, as for me, I don't want more than three.
ReplyDeletei think 1-4 is a decent range
ReplyDeleteThe ideal number whether you are rich or poor should be four, as for me, I don't want more than three.
ReplyDeleteone is better
ReplyDeleteMe I want 2 ohhhh..............#dancing skelewu
ReplyDelete4kids should be enough 4me.
ReplyDeletei will go wit 4 children
ReplyDeleteLinda Na becos of d driver nd him 7 children Na him u come post dis question abi? Anyway I tink 3 is enough. Madam Linda I know I'm first 2 comment if u like post am last as usual.
ReplyDeleteI think 3 is just ok 4 a family. this is where family planning comes in.
ReplyDeleteThe ideal number whether you are rich or poor should be four, as for me, I don't want more than three.
ReplyDeletei will leave the question for my BABA to answer..oya 2face over to you!
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ReplyDeleteD... As lng as dey can tk care of d children witout askin 4 financial help.
ReplyDelete2 if you want to push it 3. You can afford to feed 10 kids today doesn't mean you will afford them tomorrow
ReplyDeleteNa ''4'' nowadays population for naija go soon clock #300'000000. Lol!
ReplyDelete#Chuks-Remap-King
As many as they can afford - that is also factoring future expenses and their current and expected investments.
ReplyDeleteHowever, 2 children sounds ideal to me.
Four
ReplyDelete@Galore
Its depends...different style for different folks
ReplyDeleteBut as for me I will go with 4 ...preferably 2girls nd two boys
Maximum should be 4 while minimum 2
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ReplyDeleteNot more than three kids..abeg 3 is enough
ReplyDeleteJust a question I was asking myself this minute. Not just for the financial means of taking care of them, labour was tough that it scares me of having more. I have just 1 tho.
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ReplyDelete2 issokay for me..ve had 1 and am hoping for 1more and wish for better upbringing which i wasn't privileged in my days as a kid!
ReplyDeleteI think two is ideal. It creates the right balance between happiness(oh i have children) and stress(emotional/financial). Anything more than two would depend on how financially capable you are, how the kids turn out etc.
ReplyDeleteFor me it's three, two girls one boy!
ReplyDeleteI will say three kids
ReplyDelete3 is vry ok,rich or poor.
ReplyDeleteD.. As many as u can "afford"in quote Afford"...but 9ja men if the wife hasnt givn them a boy yet they can continue till d 7th child *eyes rolling*
ReplyDeleteThree children is jx d best,I have two boys now if God bless me with one girl I will be d happiest person on earth!
ReplyDeleteAs many as they can afford biko..adenuga can have 50 and they will neva lack..see indimi fam..i ave lost count of how many daughters dat old man get lool
ReplyDeleteBetween 3
ReplyDeleteBetween 2 and 4
ReplyDelete4 children will be ohk..abi u wan born a whole community ni.four is ohk 4 me oo
ReplyDelete4 is really ideal. It's neither too much or too small.
ReplyDelete4 kids is cool....
ReplyDeleteThe reason why lots of piple hav dozen of kids is their quest for a particular sex of child.a lot of men and women want a male child due to some reasons..women want a male child for next of kin while men want a male child who can possiblely make their names last when there are gon. For me, I and my hubby will hav 3kids which ever God bless us wit!
ReplyDeleteYaaay! 1st 2 comment
ReplyDeleteMinimum of two... Maximum of 4 for me , jus incase twins are involved!....... Its not about how many u can afford o.... I'm hoping to have two kids ,prayin to God for a boy n a gal.... *smiles*
ReplyDelete4 kids is cool....
ReplyDelete4 children will be ohk..abi u wan born a whole community ni.four is ohk 4 me oo
ReplyDeleteA. 2! That's why vacations packages are quoted for families of 4...hahaha.
ReplyDeletefor me 3 kids 2 boys and a girl. linda post my comment ooooooooooo dont eat it dis time ehhhhhhhh! tolu
ReplyDeletefor me 3 kids 2 boys and a girl. linda post my comment ooooooooooo dont eat it dis time ehhhhhhhh! tolu
ReplyDelete3 kids do for me buh i just like sex tooooo much! am i sick?
ReplyDeleteOption A will be the ideal one for me
ReplyDeletefor me 3 kids 2 boys and a girl. linda post my comment ooooooooooo dont eat it dis time ehhhhhhhh! tolu
ReplyDeletewith the help of God i will go for B. (3)
ReplyDeleteLinda Linda, I assume your big day is drawing close! You want us to answer the question for you, abi? No wahala. Go for 3. Twins go come first, then top am up with the last one. Claim am in Jesus name!
ReplyDeleteLinda Linda, I assume your big day is drawing close! You want us to answer the question for you, abi? No wahala. Go for 3. Twins go come first, then top am up with the last one. Claim am in Jesus name!
ReplyDeleteI want 3, my hubby wants 4
ReplyDelete4 kids will be ideal for me. Probably 2 boys & 2 girls!
ReplyDelete#MissP#
Me too
DeleteMe tooo. I want 4.
DeleteRoflmao@ d second pics...dat one na village.lol
Bt above all, have as much as u can provide for, no be to produce agbero full everywhere.
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ReplyDeleteMy dad has 3children from 3 dif women am first and only son lol, my uncle has 9 from one woman i prefer dat thou.
DeleteIs dere anyfing like ideal number of kids?? Only couple can decide dat. You can av as many as U̶̲̥̅̊ so desire nd can CATER FOR. Buh don't pass beyond ur boundary! Don't brings kids you can't cater for into d world.
ReplyDeleteSis jane,who ask 4 story na,chei...deres such an option as D.u shuld av just sed dat.
DeleteI think C is the best.
ReplyDeleteAs for me Imma go for 4,so the boy will av a brother to play with and the girl a sister to play with.
ReplyDelete~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310
2 is ok..highest should be 33
ReplyDeleteB or D
ReplyDeleteAs many children as they can afford ooo...abi now....if u re poor just manage 1 or 2..no do pass urself
ReplyDeleteMax 3,if they aren't financially alright 0,bringing those poor children to suffer,I hate those ppl then the kids end up selling Bread and sachet water or begging for money on the street.If u can't afford to take care of them ,DON'T HAVE THEM,ur husband can't bring home money for food but he can come and ask u for sex,USELESS MAN and stupid woman.
ReplyDelete3 all d way
ReplyDeletelove this question, dis is d best question of the day, thumbs up linda, in the stage we are now, the economy system in our country is nothing 2 write home about, food, payment of schoolfees, shelter, and upbringin of kids is very expensive, in my own opinion i will consider hvin 3 kids. and gve dem d best of the best. dan bringin 7 2 10 kids to the world to suffer.
ReplyDeletei want seven and i pray for quadruplets AMEN. mummy dan
ReplyDeleteHmmm! I tink 2kids are jst ok 4 couples! Too many kids brings headache esp if dose kids are stubborn but if d family re jst 4, d parents nd jst 2kids...dey wil be very happy nd contented even if dey re not rich! I rest my case...AmyHottie
ReplyDelete3 is ok
ReplyDeletefour children is ok
ReplyDelete2.Ŋ☹ mata aw things α̲̅яε̲ whether rich or poor.
ReplyDeleteI agree wit u . De less number of kids u av, de more de quality of trainin u 'll giv dem.
Delete2 kids ideally if you live abroad. More kids if you can afford to look after them.
ReplyDeleteAt least three children is ok
ReplyDelete2
ReplyDeleteAtleas 3 children are ok 4 either rich or poor
ReplyDelete2/3 please
ReplyDeleteMy parent had three not minding the sex and I think three is just the perfect number!
ReplyDelete3 is ok cos N̶̲̥̅̊☺ one knows 2moro buh we don't pray Fø̲̣̣я̅ bad thing o
ReplyDeleteHaving 2kids is jst very ok! Cos wen tins get bad in d family..I mean financial crisis, u cud be able 2cater 4dose kids witout much stress but if dey plenty...hmmmm! Dats wen d man of d house gets heart attack or high bp nd den dies living d poor kids nd dia mum 2suffer! Bsides d economic condition of our country is very bad nw, so I tink couples shud tink wisely oo! Not one year one block dat I see in some mothers these days....AmyHottie says so....
ReplyDelete2 is okay depending on ur financial status
ReplyDeleteℓ̊ want 2 children,a boy Ãήϑ girl.don't know Ђδω many children M̶̲̅γ̲̣̣̥ husband will like †☺ have.
ReplyDeleteHmmm! I tink 2kids are jst ok 4 couples! Too many kids brings headache esp if dose kids are stubborn but if d family re jst 4, d parents nd jst 2kids...dey wil be very happy nd contented even if dey re not rich! I rest my case...AmyHottie
ReplyDeletei want four, just as my parents had
ReplyDeleteD WORD IS TO MULPIPLY SO 3 IS OK TO REPLACE URSELF AND A SPARE.
ReplyDelete4,God willing.
ReplyDelete2, I WANT 2 GIRLS
ReplyDelete4 is d ideal numba,bt 4 me 2 is okay!SHIKENA
ReplyDelete3 kids is okay,maybe twice then 4
ReplyDeleteM̶̲̅ε̲̣̣̣̥ love children very much. 4 is ok
ReplyDeleteThere is no ideal number. That is between the couple, they should just be sure that they can take care of all of them and give them the best.
ReplyDeletelindyway my said he wants 4, but at the last gap the wife port triplet. for me ohhh 2 is kin of better
ReplyDeleteLinda me I have 4 kids but if I had my way would have had just 1. Most times its the guys that says how many kids they want. Cos for me it was a serious issue before we married. We later settled for 3,but baba God come give us twins
ReplyDelete4 is ideal 2 guys 2 ladies.
ReplyDelete2 is okay,dat d best no of kids to av
ReplyDeleteHave as many as u can cater 4,De joy begins when dey are all glown nd doing well..Dey shall surround ur table
ReplyDelete3 is okay and give them the best.
ReplyDeletehmmmm, i would say an ideal number should be 2 kids. My husband wants 2(1 girl and 1 boy) but i want 4 kids (2 boys and 2 girls) i think i`m ready to settle for 3 and maybe adopt 1 making 4.....smilezzzz
ReplyDelete3 is just ideal
ReplyDeleteoh pls why don't we over populate the world...... btw 1 and 3 should be good for any couple any more is just an unhealthy! It is important children are raised and taken care of fully having 7 or more and I don't care if u are a billionaire is just obscene. Taking care of children doesn't just mean money but being there for them emotionally and in all ways possible........we live in a society where the feeling is well as long as u can send them t sch and cater (money wise) for kids its ok.... well its not!
ReplyDelete2 will do
ReplyDeleteLinda 5 is ok for me, 3boys 2girls
ReplyDelete4
ReplyDelete3 is okay for me
ReplyDeleteafford ke! children na for sell
ReplyDeleteI KNOW A MAN WHO HAS 12 KIDS WITH ONE WIFE. EVERY YEAR HIS WIFE GET PREGNANT, ANOTHER BABY IS DUE THIS DECEMBER,....THAT IS NUMBER 13. OOOOH, HE ALSO HAS 2 OTHER KIDS BEFORE HE GOT MARRIED TO HIS CURRENT WIFE.....SO IN TOTAL, HE HAS 14 KIDS AND ONE ON THE WAY.
ReplyDeleteI THINK AN IDEAL AMOUNT SHOULD BE 2 OR 3
4 kids, 2boys n 2girls :)
ReplyDeleteLinda, as for me, only 2 children oo....a boy n a girl.weda rich or poor(but God forbid poverty)....but as I'm growin older n all my children av left home prolly to university or boarders in secondary skul, I'll consider avin one more
ReplyDelete2 IS OK FOR ME....NO MATTER CONDITION
ReplyDeleteI Think 4 is very much ideal for me
ReplyDeleteJUST 2
ReplyDeleteMy sister always says that an ideal family in the modern age should be able to fit a regular 5 sitter car....therefore 2 or 3 kids should be fine
ReplyDeleteAs many as they can, as far as I'm concerned no no. Is too mch, jst ask 4 god to bless them..we r 14 frm ma mum.. Nd all blessed..
ReplyDeleteI wil lov τ̅☺ hv 4, two boys α̲̅ŋϑ two gals.by Gods grace
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ReplyDelete~D great anonymous!
Two or three abeg!!
ReplyDelete200 children from you and i linda
ReplyDeleteas many God wantz me to hav ..itz nt ma will or dat of ma wife to b
ReplyDeleteI wana have 5kids but my girl insist we have 2. Its the biggest debate we both are into. I pray God help us decide
ReplyDelete4 or 5. As de case may be
ReplyDelete3 for me
ReplyDeleteI only want one but my boyfriend wants 4 there is no way on this planet I will get pregnant 4 times. One kid is enough for me lol
ReplyDelete3 is perfect.
ReplyDelete2...max
ReplyDelete3 at most,whether rich or poor.atleast its a gud enof number that makes up a family of our time
ReplyDelete3
ReplyDeleteThree
ReplyDelete3 linda..I want 3
ReplyDeleteI want 5 bur ma hubby wnts 2 or 3..I love a large family thingy..very fun..grew up in such.
ReplyDelete4 kids is ok by me.
ReplyDelete5kids. 2Boys 2 Girls now, then when the last child is like 23years old with his MSC and working we add the last one(Baby of the house). Hope it works for me.
ReplyDelete4 kids is ok by me
ReplyDelete3
ReplyDeleteLinda dis is my 1st time of commenting..bera post ma comment
ReplyDeleteJst 2
ReplyDeleteMy parents just had two of us nd I found it so boring nd wish we were like 4 or 5 but I told myself I was goin to hve a large family nd now I hve two nd still Counting.lol
ReplyDeleteEhhh...3 don do now four na almost oversabi sef(ma opinion oo)
ReplyDeleteas many they can afford
ReplyDelete4
ReplyDeleteFor me I Think 3 is Ok, A Boy nd two Gals,
ReplyDelete3........2grls and 1boy
ReplyDelete3kids for me o.if its 4den it will b a mistake lolz
ReplyDeleteAt least 4 to me
ReplyDelete2 is ok either boy or girl.
ReplyDelete2 to 4 is ok
ReplyDelete2 kids minimum.....4kids max....... Evryone has deir different number tho... My brother said 6 minimum......chai......lol....
ReplyDelete2 please! in other to give them the best,if you can afford more,then adopt or help train less priviledged kids
ReplyDelete2 is gud a boy and a girl.
ReplyDeleteAt last 4
ReplyDeleteMinimum of 2, Maximum of 3 is okay for a couple this era.
ReplyDeleteI Have 3 adorable handful kids but i think anything more than 4 is migraine
ReplyDelete2 jor, highest 3! the 3rd one gan must battle to make it, as in after every means of keeping it back must failed ni.
ReplyDelete4 maximum minimum 2
ReplyDeleteHave the Numer of children you can cater for... It's dat simple. My tailor had 3 kids. 2 girls and a boy then decided she wants another boy which happened to be twins. A boy and a girl.... She cld hardly send d previous 3 to school and now there are 5 of them. None of them attends school anymore and she's always looking for some1 to pay their fees or buy them food stuff. I have a child and I plan on having 1 more. I could afford to tk care of more bt there's a level of luxury and achievements I plan on having for my kids and I ( holidays, education etc) and having more than
ReplyDelete2 kids wnt achieve that. In summary, cut your coat according to your size.
2 pere!! max 3
ReplyDeleteAt least 4
ReplyDeleteTwo kids should do
ReplyDeleteTwo would do for me but all depends on the couple. Different strokes for different folks.
ReplyDelete7-10 kids is very ok!!!!
ReplyDeleteFor me, 3 kids makes. A lot of sense. But I want 4 and hubby doesn't mind! But a lot of people are okay with 2 these days. Makes sense too.
ReplyDeleteI want 6!! Twins,triplets,and one single!! My dad has over 20 kids!! *ONYX GODWIN*
ReplyDeleteJust 4,two boys two girls
ReplyDeleteBetween 2- 4 children. Anything above this number is never ♍y wish.
ReplyDeleteAnything beyond 4 is too much no matter your financial capacity. The world is too populated already. Couples need to be principled enough not to have more than 4 kids. Some Igbo couples tend to keep giving birth all cause they are looking for a male child. My bestie comes from a family of 8, they are all girls except the last child who is a boy. P.S: I'm Igbo
ReplyDelete2 feels ideal sha buh I want 4.
ReplyDeleteas much as you can train lol,2 or 3 is okay.
ReplyDeleteAs many children as dey can afford & cater for.
ReplyDelete2 kids very ok...
ReplyDeletefour
ReplyDeleteAtmost 4 is cool
ReplyDeleteo well my parents had 7 and they r taking proper care of us. We go to the best skuls, proper clothing feedin and we aint wayward, we r unbelievebly happy. Its so fun to have a large family
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ReplyDelete3 kids is the best
ReplyDeleteI want 45 if only 1 woman can give me 45 kids. but since she can't i will stick to 3....
ReplyDelete3 kids is the best
ReplyDeleteI want 2 cus me and my babe has agreed.
ReplyDeletei will go 4 for d rich an 2 for the poor. cause d more kids d poor has d more problem 4 naija.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on what d couples want.they can have as many as they want as long as they can take care of dem but me want 4....includin twins.
ReplyDelete4 will do.
ReplyDeleteI want 2 children but 3 children is not bad at all.... Vikenx Virus.
ReplyDeleteWell, as many as the Good Lord provides. But, from the 'economy' view point, 2 'd be just fine.
ReplyDeleteAS 4 me,na 3 girls 1 boy...lyk d Kardashians
ReplyDeleteI want 2 dozen!
ReplyDelete3 is just so ideal for me.
ReplyDeleteI think 4 is cool! 2boys 2gurls..
ReplyDeleteTwo is ideal. Its easy to gv dem de best educationally etc. Wntd two, but de turnd out all girls. My hubby is a typical ibo man who wants a boy, so am on de third pregnancy. I wish one of de two ws a boy, but God knws best.
ReplyDeleteNtn like ideal in this issue. Give birth to those you can bring up properly, nt financial wise alone here
ReplyDeleteThe ideal no depends on the couple,for me 3 is a perfect number.
ReplyDeleteDON'T BRING A NUMBER YOU CAN'T TAKE CARE OFF, ONE OF MY RELATIVES HAS 19, NOW HE IS WORRYING ME TO HELP HIM RAISE THEM.
ReplyDelete2. There should be a law that states that if a family does not meet an income threshold, they shouldd only be allowed 2 children. Atimes, it breaks my heart when I see small children suffering on the road. I often ask myself why people bring children into the world to suffer, which I find utterly unfair.
ReplyDeleteHuh? Like r u serious, Linda? What's this? Mtcheew
ReplyDeleteWell I want 3, but my hubby wants 4. So d average that I've heard people say is 4.
ReplyDelete2 then you can really afford give your kids the best and also have a life!
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ReplyDeleteD idea number is 4 two girls and two boys so no ones cheats each other between d couple
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