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Tuesday, 22 October 2013

Dear LIB readers: My boyfriend only proposes during sex

From a female LIB reader
My boyfriend only proposes when we are making love...in the heat of a passionate moment he says things like 'let's get married', 'marry me', 'when do you want to get married?' But once we are done, he doesn't mention it again ...and I'm too shy to bring it up. What should I do?

294 comments:

  1. Lol,, he is a crazy dude.I think you should talk to him about how u feel.

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  2. Just find your way, he is only there to tick the box

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  3. His only using you. The earlier u quit, the beta for you.

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  4. you gotta record him saying it and make it your ring tone :)

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  5. Just plan the whole wedding during sex. Next time, scream "yes ill marry you", then after that "I've chosen our theme colors" and on and on....until the whole wedding is planned.

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  6. he's a sex freak...he only wants to marry u probably because u give good sex...even when he proposes, don't agree to marry him...it's a sign u should not ignore...your marriage may not be what u desire #myhonestopinion

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  7. U r on a longthing.....sex machine

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  8. U r on a longthing.....sex machine

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  9. den bring it up and see his reaction.....iam sure u wld knw dere after y he is trueli into u ....for sex or d otherwise
    christotos17

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  10. it's rather strange but common with men. You would have to stand up to him. If you continue to get shy about your rights or how you feel, I pity you dear.............

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  11. Serz one, pls bring it up and hear what he says. Cos if u delay, u might regret it lata. Goodluck

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  12. dear just talk 2 him about it 2 know wat he rily wants, handle d matter with care d way u sound its like u love him ask him where d relationship is heading 2. Wish u all d best. #Hugs. IZZZ

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  13. Speak up my Dear, a closed mouth is a closed destiny

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  14. If you can open your legs for him, then you kindly say after with a smile after sex, "erm honey why do you only say those things durring sex"?

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  15. He's not to be trusted.
    He thinks with his 3rd leg,if ejaculation can be sustained for 50years,you would have had a very good marriage.but it aint so.
    First u need to starve him sex.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  16. He's not to be trusted.
    He thinks with his 3rd leg,if ejaculation can be sustained for 50years,you would have had a very good marriage.but it aint so.
    First u need to starve him sex.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  17. Kick his fucking ass out of ur life. ..
    He is only enjoying the moment with you.I sincerely know he only wants sex from you.
    Shikena

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  18. Madam stop dulling. When you guys are in heat make sure your fone is recording. Once he pops the question, shout 'Yes'and make sure the recorder grabs it. Then after your time out, post it on your DP saying 'congrats to me, I just got engaged to the best guy in the world'
    And that's your engagement style secret! Thank me later.

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  19. I'm so sorry to tell you that you are not his wife but a sex image to him. Your case na sorry case.

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  20. that your so called boyfriend is not ready to marry you, he is just enjoying what is meant for your husband.

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  21. Loool.... D guy is funny ooo Lafin .don't b stupid my dear...since u no he doesn't av any marriage plans den let go...

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  22. stop having sex with him and see how it goes.if he really does love you he would ask ...again.

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  23. It shows u r gud in bed....try ask him y he doesnt say anything bout it after sex. Asides dat premarital sex is wrong! ZIP UP GURL!!!

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  24. Lol see gobe....

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  25. stop having sex with him and see how it goes.if he really does love you he would ask ...again.

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  26. He's not to be trusted.
    He thinks with his 3rd leg,if ejaculation can be sustained for 50years,you would have had a very good marriage.but it aint so.
    First u need to starve him sex.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  27. My dear you better save your time, face the reality and talk about it or rather waste your time and keep quite. Act wisely.

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  28. stop having sex with him and see how it goes.if he really does love you he would ask ... for real!

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  29. My sister, u r just wasting ur tym with such man bcos it is evident dat all he cares about is having a carnal knowledge of you....*free advice* RUN FOR YOUR LYF

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  30. Your too shy to bring up the issue but not shy to open ur legs for your BF*** honestly u really don't know what you want when you do*** U won't be shy trust me****

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  31. Then make love to him all day.... Till you get to the church alter, lol kidding#, pray hard........ Linda you know I'm obsessed with you heehehe...... Punked Linda Ikeji Offered 10 Million Dollars To Sell Her Blog And She Said .....http://diamondodey.blogspot.com/2013/10/punked-linda-ikeji-offered-10-million.html?m=1

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  32. I'm so sorry to tell you that you are not his wife but a sex image to him. Your case na sorry case.

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  33. Open up a sex education sch....cos the sex must be AMAZING for him to keep proposing while u r at it.. then take it up a notch by learning how to make him do it without sex....

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  34. Wicked man you have there... Next time he says that to you,get really offended and push him off you! Unless you are the fool he is thinking you are.

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  35. Haba!!!!! So after finished sex wt Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ N̶̲̥̅̊☺ proposal again lol ......better 4 Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ find anoda person b4 is too late 4 Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ , dis 1 N̶̲̥̅̊A̷̷̴̐͠ђ confirm woman rapper.
    ALATISHE say so.

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  36. Use your head babes, he's only in for sex. He is not looking to stay with you for the long haul. If he was, he would propose to you properly, not when you guys are having SEX!

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  37. He is clearly not serious...be wise and walk away!!!!

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  38. Na her hed she dey use.... Quit before its too late... A guy dat wants you whether during sex or without sex will want to marry you so in this case na the girl had she dey use so dat she go cooperate wellaaaaaaaaa

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  39. you are shy for a follow up but you are not shy to open your legs for him? if you don't bring the issue up, it's going to be like that between you both till he ditches you for another mature person who can do a follow up.the choice is yours to make, talk to him now or let him talk beautiful nonsense to you each time you give it to him real hard.

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  40. Confront him about it. If he does not respond, then seriously leave him cos he will just keep using u for sex.

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  41. that means he's just taking advantage of u.....aunty linda abeg post my comment

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  42. Woman up and ask him about it. Before its too late

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  43. Babe maybe it's just me, but I don't put much stock to things said during the heat of the moment. Passion has a way of making us say things we don't mean, that's not to say your boo doesn't love you or want to spend his life with you. But what are you shy about? He has seen you naked, hasn't he? What more do you have to hide? My dear bring it up and stop torturing yourself with worry.

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  44. Na the girl head the guy dey use so dat she go cooperate wella nothing more.

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  45. Jz reply immediately, yea baby uh-uh, bring it on. Show me d ring. Lol

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  46. My dear deep dnw in u, u know d truth.Pls dnt bring it up cos if u do n u guys get married, he wld only b marrying u cos of SEX nt cos he wants 2 spend d rest of his life wit u.So pls take a walk n God wld bring a man dat wld luv n want 2 marry u cos of u n nt SEX.

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  47. Then say no during sex. EOD.

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  48. Dats very very gud...rply I'm only sex hours too.its even dat way

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  49. Leave him cos he's using u.

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  50. the next he says that to u again durin love makin i wil advice u to bring up that same topic after u too are done and then u wil knw if he is seriouse or not

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  51. dot bishop angels22 October 2013 at 12:24

    well sweety u already know he wants u (fso)for sex only run very far

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  52. Na so the tin sweet am reach? Lmao. U r shy ke? My dear u beta ask him again wen he is sane&stop giving ursef crazy ideas

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  53. Lmsao.
    Dt guy is a scammer baby.
    He's scamming u badly.
    Know wot?
    Nxt tym u r in d act hav a priest in d next room so as soon as d nigga proposes u call d priest out to marry u.
    #winks
    Amanda Reginald

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  54. Fuck him all the times, U̶̲̥̅̊ might get married in the process

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  55. never trust what a man says when he is in between your legs. most men would generally say anything to shed the weight and heat in between their legs.

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  56. Hahaha! I'll advice u ask him 1st but he obviously doesn't mean wat he says while having sex wiv u.. If he trys 2 avoid d question... Pls dump his sorry ass, he only proposes wen he's unconcious n having sexual pleasure. Believe it or not d only reason y he's wiv u is cos he loves d sexual rltnshp u both r having. Move on u'll find ur own man!

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  57. LWKM! I am sorry, no advice but this really made me laugh!!!

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  58. Hahahahahahaahaha! Something like Oh baby, oh shit baby, marry me hunny, you are so sweet baby,oh fuck! Wanna enjoy this for the rest of my life..oohcch! Baby.. hahahahaha! OMG! I can't mhan

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  59. He's only after the sex part. He doesn't love you. If you doubt try bringing it up after sex and listen to his reply.

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  60. U̶̲̥̅̊ r a sex tool. Once he's done satisfying himself, he forgets about u. Talk to him to know his mind to enable u know where u belong.

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  61. Why dnt u tell him abt it dear, plz did any1 here know d adress to mavins record office plzzzzzzzzzz?

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  62. Oooo!!! He's only interested in d hot,raunchy sex!I wonder wen gals will b smart enuff 2 understand guys tricks!keeep dreamin,he'll propose 2 u hun!! *ONYX GODWIN*

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  63. He says it so u can give him an amazing time. Its all about the sex for him. Anyway,what do I know?

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  64. Nah conji d wori am

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  65. But you are not shy to stand Naked before him #long hissss....,besides Linn how are u?ope ur gud stay blessed.

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  66. im sorry but this just made me laugh out loud. lmaooo. ok, now that ive laughed finish, this is what you do... when next ur having sex and he starts proposing, simply accept. if he says "lets get married" you say "yes! lets" "marry me" "yes. i thought you'd never ask" "when do you want to get married?" "May 17th, 2014 is fine for me, does it work for you?".

    Then when youre done call all your friends and his friends and announce to them that he just popped the question and you said yes! problem solved.

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  67. Its bcos he is in de spirit wen he is out of it he 4gts everythn he said

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  68. Ah dis na serious matter o! Abeg remind d idiot joor! How can he be mkin such promises only during sex. And u sef, kip ur bdy until after marriage. D devil steals during sex!

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  69. Lol.proposal during sex? Excuse me wat does he propose wit? A ring or Dick? If u can AV sex wit him den u can marry him so if na ring collect it.

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  70. hun time waits for no-one. man up and ask him the plans he asks for you, then watch his actions cos actions speak louder than words.

    if after a while you cant see any visible change please keep ur options open.

    do you need a travel agent to handle your flight and hotel reservations then click here now

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  71. Lmao.....this is so fucking funny.....then tell your boyfriend YES in the heat of the moment

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  72. Its bcos he is in de spirit wen he is out of it he 4gets virtualy all dat he said so do wel 2 rmind him

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  73. Dnt discuss d ish f proposal 2 him now, u guyz shld try nd talk abt ur future 2geda like wen u'll av ur first kid, d kind f name he'll like 2 giv d baby, does he want a boy or gal stuffs like talk abt ur future 2geda in his response u'll knw if he wanna av a future wiv u, nd d proposal will b a surprise sweet every gal is destined a av her prince charming. *zeeny*

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  74. D guy is jxt expressing himself jare no be marriage proposal

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  75. my dear if you truly love this guy and he love u too and u feel deep down in u that he can make u a good husband,kindly ask him.Shyness has really caused me the love of my life...my 1st true love and am regretting it till tomorrow.so wise up and tell him ur mind.cheers

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  76. It jus shows you both aint matured yet! And he's wit u cos of d sex,once he gets bored of u,dats all. Be real and stop fantancising.

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  77. If you are too shy to ask mayb u are equally not ready to get married,if u get naked with him then y shuld u be shy?let me teach u how to ask when u guy are done with the love session and u cuddling in bed ask him in a loving way!babe re u serious abt marrying me? Jeez ladies always ask what u want cos when u get hurt u blame the man. Mayb he is saying those stuff so u can surrender better.

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  78. Remind him of what he said, probably he must have forgoten.

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  79. try to talk to him if u really wnt to knw if it's real

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  80. Babe lock up no go full yourself oh. He go laff u :p

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  81. Bring it up na! Hian! All u people's problems dat you can solve you'll b asking us! Ahn ahn I taya mehn!

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  82. Be bold and talk to him abt it after the sex,wat ever he says shld help you decide your fate

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  83. Why don't u ask him, what is his problem, when he is entering d honey pot, he should control his brain.

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  84. *singing* girl your behind z a killer...Lind which 1 z this coke bottle cusor na

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  85. *singing* girl your behind z a killer...Lind which 1 z this coke bottle cusor na

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  86. you are too shy to bring it up abi? ok. he will soon meet someone that wont be shy about it.

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  87. Lolxx babes 4get dat guy ol nah wash hez jst afta d grt sex u gv him n nth more.Jst stp vin sex wif him 4d main tym n c hw it turns out owk

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  88. Hahaha...u must be killing him wit pleasure babes! Giv him a taste of his own pudding girlfriend! Next time, in the middle of the heated action, and he proposes again...answer him, quite loudly i must add. Yell....Yes!!!... Oh yes-yes-yes!!! Ryt now! Let's get started now! Den freeze the action right that very minute and ask him if he's really serious...then continue the converSEXtion from there! U should get some gud leads...All d best o!

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  89. LOL end time thIngs.

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  90. Marry him nd make sure u fuck him 24/7 bcos if nt u r on a long things

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  91. If u are ready to settle down now,jus ask him on a good day.Its left for him to give u an answer,then you wil know d right step to take.

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  92. My dear you should stop the sex immediately he proposed in the heat of passion and tell him that he should make all possible arrangements towards your wedding. and my dear please don't take any man seriously that make promises in the heat of passion.

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  93. It seems ur guy is also shy to ask for ur hand in marriage when u r nt havn sex. That's why he seized d̶̲̥̅̊ opportunity t̶̲̥̅̊ợ̣̣̇̇̇ ask u while avn sex. You have to rise up to d occasion nd ask him wat he rili wants.

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  94. Pls get another guy. Don't waste your time with him. He knows what he's doing. He only says it so you won't leave him because of the free sex. He's counting on the fact that you are to shy to bring it up. Just try though but am sure he already has an excuse for you.

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  95. =))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=)). Dis is so funny. D sex turnd is head 360 degres. Wait till d next sex n ask ur question den u wud get all d ans u nid. Since dts d peak tym.

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  96. Hahaha(permit me to laugh first).But I just don't get it when people say they are too shy to talk to their bf about marriage.I mean,after sometime in every relationship,the people involved know what they want out of it and have an idea of what the other person wants.Unless you choose to live in denial.Anyway,stuff is simple,in the heat of the next passionate moment,close your legs when he starts to propose(if u like get carried away with enjoyment),ask him there and then if he really means it and talk things out.But he careful,he might go all yes baby on you just to get back in.

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  97. My dear,kip yr shyness asyd and find tym to bring up the topic,his responds will tell u how much he rmembers wat he says during yr luv mking and how onest he is about it.

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  98. Why don't u say yes,then see wht will be his reaction..coz I believe he's not serious with u it just the sex.

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  99. Hi , I think You should get a Rev to wed while you guys are doing it so you can say yes and exchange rings while the heat is on.

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  100. A man can even say his mother is a witch wen u r on top him he say anyfin I mean anyfin.

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  101. Babes, u r bin used, flee.

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  102. LOL! The dude just says that because he is caught up in the euphoria of the moment, he most definitely doesn't mean those words, be wise!

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  103. A man can even say his mother is a witch wen u r on top him he say anyfin I mean anyfin.

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  104. Lol
    Men can b useless smtimes.....when they r in d heat of it dey don't mind saying anything jes 2 make u work harder.. na dat time dem go say"baby wen I go motor I go buy u lagos" mtchewww stupid!...
    Pls ask him abt it n tell him never 2 say what he doesn't mean weneva u'r having sex.

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  105. hahahaha Lol don't mind him na ur Pussy dey sweet him!

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  106. My dear..it just shows&proves dat..he only wants to bang u o&only intrested in hvin sex,u shld bring d marriage issue,up&hear wat he will say,if he says no#runaway#

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  107. Smile*winks* pls ask him jor but the truth is that some men love u when their dick Is in ur pussy but when is out the love is gone.

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  108. he no love you nah only sex from you he lov shikena

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  109. My own bf goes like dis: pls be the mother of my children, we will b foreva. After sex he hardly remembers...na so dear. Things we say wen we re in heaven. Me I squeeze his head while he is licking me to cum and tell him I will do anything for him.#wash

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  110. na wa oo..dis 1 tough no be small

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  111. Dont ask em anytin.....give him tym if he still does not bring the isssue up.......*runforyourlife*

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  112. Lols this is a very funny condition you dey o i no know wat to say
    and see desperate couple making love in the bush see pics

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  113. Get d hell outta d freakin rlshp.U'r obviously his sex machine n not a wife material

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  114. Sweetheart, when he says that, put the sex on hold n ask him 'what did you just say? do you mean that? you want me to marry you'? If he answers positively like 'yeah' be sure he means it buh if he doesn't answer n prolly tries to evade it wiv prolly 'I was carried away', Sweerie, dress up cuz you sure don't want that kinda man who loves your body buh not you. If he wants the goods, he gotta pay for it baby, it aint free

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  115. Lmfao..sori am nt laffin @ u buh am picturin d whole tin...men can b crazy sha...I dnt aff wot to say to u tho...ehen linda wat did I do to u ehn?u no dey gree post my comment...if I catch ur jimmychoo's eehn

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  116. Its a bit obvious he doesn't mean it...so if u wanna walk pls do

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  117. Run for your life!!! He enjoys the sex but you? .......

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  118. Lol!!! Can't stop laughing oOº°˚˚˚˚°ºOo ... Your boy friend too like toto.my advice:that guy is not serious o,you better find someone else

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  119. Ask him ooo...Is he mad? There is no shyness in this Matter. Is either we marry or not. Lin Lin post my Comment ooo. you have been vexing me lately by not posting my comment

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  120. dont mind the fools mine only tells me he loves me while we are atit , after then he would never mention it again.

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  121. Looool same here...

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  122. Ehen o, Lindarling, i say i wan ask...Abeg, why my mouse cursor dey change to Guinness bottle i'm on ur page? na d new style ne?

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  123. U better ask him to know where u stand. Stop sleeping on bicycle

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  124. well u have to bring it up and ask him y he does that... he might think that's the best time for him to mention it. but yet u still need to talk to him about it, don't be shy. am a man and ld like my girl to talk to me about anything.

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  125. VERY SIMPLE, when next he tell you that why making love, just respond by saying come and tell me tomorrow then I will tell you my mind. But to be candid, you are a spoilt girl for having sex before marriage. So if he dumb you and go you will be blaming him when you gave yourself so cheap to him. PLEASE, THINK ABOUT IT AND DO THE NEEDFUL. Good day.

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  126. Ask him about it because he could really be serious but be a bit shy to ask you about it at other times. I went through talmost the same thing and always was shy to ask but later got to know he really meant wat he was asking so dear, please ask him about it and get his response.

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  127. Sweerie, put the sex on hold n ask him 'do you really mean it? you want me to marry you?'n if he responds positively like 'yeah' good for you buh if he tries to evade the question like 'errrm, I was caught up in the moment, Sweerie, dress up. If he wants the goodies,he should pay for it. It aint for free baby

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  128. it simply mean dat u av a very sweet snail..

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  129. Then u must making luv to him!

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  130. It's obvious he wants 2 marry d sex & not u, he's sex obsessed

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  131. Sweerie, it's ur relationship, be bold and stand up 4 urself. Is he going 2 beat u up... If ur scared up 2 dat level den y are u wit him anyway

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  132. Ha!BETTER RUN.... Na horney he-goat.

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  133. U don enter gobe be that o. Run for your future. He only wants you for SEX

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  134. Hehehehe...hez ur man so dnt b too shy to ask him abt it. 1st to comment!

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  135. Sweerie, when that happens, put the sex on hold n ask him 'do you really mean it? you want me to marry you?' n get his response. If he tries to evade the question or answers 'errmm, I was caught up in the heat of the moment' Sweerie dress up. He loves your body n wants it buh does not want to be wiv you. The goodies aint free baby, he has to pay for it.

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  136. Dnt b deceived any more, tak ur stand no sex untill he does d rit tin

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  137. If u are shy then remain quiet

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  139. Mine only tells me I love u during sex,after dat noting more... "Whew" I tire gan...

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  140. guys says so-many tins during sex, like baby i want to eat you i will take you to usa, to uk,to and we all know he cant eat you it just the feelings we have at that point.so baby girl dont think of it

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  141. Nw U̶̲̥̅̊ should knw he is nt in luv wt U̶̲̥̅̊ ,it wl never yield any good result ,so U̶̲̥̅̊ better quit b/4 it's too late 4 U̶̲̥̅̊ pls.he's deceivn U̶̲̥̅̊ Oº°˚ .

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  142. It's called fuck talk,when he is ready, he would propose properly. Just ignore him for now.

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  143. Ask me again, please

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  144. You should talk to him about it,there is nothing like communication in a reletionship,if he dosen't give you any meaningful answer then u shd probably move on with your life,cos he only wants to marry ur pussy,IMO. Ngo

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  145. Gal dats no love at all,wat he desires nd enjoys most ℓ̊s just sleepin wit ud,am so sori justh kip urself up nd don't let him mk uj a tokunbo market,dey re beta guys out dere who re ready to tk u to d alter,plis forget abt dat sex. butcher nd move on.kip urself pls. #Rachy Kampbel...

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  146. Lmfaooo
    Ur a very dumb bitch!
    He doesn't love u clearly, he loves ur punani!
    How can't u see that!
    Girls can be soo stupid!
    Lol
    Move on, and find sm1 who wud take u 2 church, wife u, n fuck u real good!
    Xoxo

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  147. Accept his proposal in that same sexual frenzy, and take it from there. Goodluck as you journey through your "ecstasy induced marriage proposal "

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  148. Accept his proposal in that same sexual frenzy, and take it from there. Goodluck as you journey through your "ecstasy induced marriage proposal "

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  149. M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ D̶̲̥̅̊ξαя̩̥̊ don't be shy Τ̅e̶̲̥̅̊ℓℓ him .M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ own Ȋ̝̊̅§ since four yrs M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ hubby travel I don't knew wht sex albout .

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  150. Luv is an xpreession of feelin nt sex. The guy is only interested in ur sexually life. Hee his a killer n nt a lovin man. Flee heb 13:4, james 4:18

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  151. LMAO!! You must be so good on bed.. But seriously!! Why not talk to him about it,no one can give you a good advise,when you tell him about it,his responds should determine what you will do next.

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  152. Av been in such situation n now d guy is married to some else cos I never talked to him abt it.So u better open ur mouth.Bia Linda post my comment O!

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  153. What use to be your response when he proposed during sex?

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  154. my dear, he is not ready for marriage.He probably thinks sex is all that there is about marriage, fundamental as it could be. Call his attention to
    his marriage proposal and watch his reaction.I think from there u would be able to get a confirmation of his readiness to marry u, his true feelings concerning u,and what he truly thinks of ur relationship with him.It would be critical for u to raise the issue by referring to what he says concerning marriage, otherwise you would simply be wasting ur time...

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  155. He's just using you as a "conji relief matchine"Get off d relationship.

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  156. Your asking What you should do? Isn't it very obvious that he is using you to satisfy his urge for sex, telling you exactly what you want to her, and with all the fake story you still open your legs for him. Beside why are you sleeping with a man your not marry to? Its better you talk about it or quit such relationship. because some men can say anything during sex they dont mean.

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  157. Leave him cos he doesn't luv u, he is lostin after u. He luvs d way u s*x nd hw he feels we he is in cl*max.

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  158. Bring it up and ask him....unless you know that you are his side chick and he is just saying it in the heat of passion.

    Only you know the truth, let it set you free

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  159. Girl he says those things out of pleasure, don't take it serious.

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  160. R u a learner....dust ur shoes,put dem on ur head n run....bt b4 u do dat ....try one more tym n wen he says dat same nonsense....slap him atleast twice...den run very far....

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  161. Jokingly bring it up when u two are chatting about something not too serious

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  162. Abegi, ma dalohun jare, onikati kati. Ko mo ohun ton so lenu nigbayen mani ke. When he is serious true true, e go propose. Instead of him saying dirty word like most of them do wen they are high, naa marry me be his own. I dey laugh in faranse (french) okunrin alainikanse....... Adey

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  163. Hahaha,na the sweetness dey cause am. Don't take him literally o.I'm sure he's also promised u a car,a house and a trip abroad while ontop!

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  164. Like seriously?..."I'm too shy to bring it up". If u can't discuss marriage with ur bf...then with who galfriend?

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  165. Lol. Don't know if its bcos you're too sweet, or he's immature. ¶f he just says †нα† during sex & ..... Den its not love. Even if U̶̲̥̅̊ end up marrying him, when sex is no longer available ,he'll push you aside. Sex shouldn't be the foundation of a gud marriage. ASTRO™

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  166. You better ask him so you will know if the only thing he wants from you is sex. Ladies shouldn't be shy when it comes to matter of the heart. Don't post this one linda like many that you refused to post.

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  167. U̶̲̥̅̊‎​ don enter one chance my sister

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  168. Lmao! .....gurl, you best be careful, ....As a bruvva, ill tell you that a man can PROMISE anything when hes "In there"!.......................... But decides who hes gonna marry in his calm moments, when he's not "In there"................This is issue you should be bringing up, when y'all. Aren't making out! ....And most importantly, watch how he reacts when you talk it, ...then you go know whether una get future together.........Linda of life!# Squeezing face, i didn't see my last comment, better post this #

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  169. Apparently may be its de jedi jedi in btw ur legs dat is responsible 4 his delirious proposal. U shld know ur stands by now

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  170. lolzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz dat guy aint serius bout dat bcus he can even deny himself at dis point bcus he is at the PEAK so ma dear dont take it seriusly oh,na d switness of the "kpomo" cause am but wen we guys go learn to control ourselves wen we dey ontop woman? is it not better to just grunt dan careless talks!

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  171. Babe u are not the only one he is telling that to,use ur head men are liars

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  172. I guess he only loves in in bed,jst for the moment. Please walk away...#GBAM#

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  173. OTU OCHA!!THE BOY NA RA GI OTU FREE YOUR THING E SWEET WELLA THAT IS WHY AFTER AKPACO THE HELL OTTA YOU HE FORGET HE LOVES ONLY SEX NOT YOU KEEP OPENING NYANSH.

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  174. I wont say you gullible but you need to understand the nature of man generally. A man will say anything just to enter the place. We can even kill just to make sure you open your laps especially in that mood, I mean that situation your man was when you think he proposed... Spending the rest of your life with someone shouldn't be built on sex alone, although no marriage could survive without sex but there are more to marriage than sex alone. Dont be a juvenile in the hand of player.

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  175. be bold and ask him

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  176. OTU OCHA!!THE BOY NA RA GI OTU FREE YOUR THING E SWEET WELLA THAT IS WHY AFTER KNACKING AKPACO THE HELL OTTA YOU HE FORGET HE LOVES ONLY SEX NOT YOU KEEP OPENING NYANSH FOR HIM, HIM GO DEY COLLECT DEY GO STILL DEY PRPOSE MARRIAGE...SHINE YOUR EYES BABES RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

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  177. Na your currency be that. Thankfully sex with you is so good he is always confessing his desire for a permanent right. and what did you do? you came and told me?

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  178. Dear be sure that he truely loves youu otherwise he is just using that word "marry me" to pull ur legs run oooooo

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  179. Hahahaha better remind ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥A̶̲̥̅♏ oº° but do it wit style maybe immediately after sex incase he does not know wat he is saying but atleast he mite still remember den D̶̲̥̅̊α̲̅τ̲̅ he said sumtin lik D̶̲̥̅̊α̲̅τ̲̅

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  180. LOL....What u should do? S.C.R.A.M...!!!!

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  181. Very simple, let him propose and pay dowry before another sex. Shikena

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  182. babes, u gats bring it up after sex. don't b shy, hes nt gonna eat u up.

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  183. Kill him God will understand cos he's using U̶̲̥̅̊ 2 get ΨђåƮ he want...stop giving him sex n U̶̲̥̅̊ W̶̲̥̅̊ȋ̊ƪƪ discover his true colour. Lolz

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  184. You have to find the courage to confront him about it cos I don't think the guy is a serious person.

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  185. Y r u shy ? Is he not ur bfrd? Beta wise up n ask him how serious he is b4 he Dumps ur ass after he's thru wt U.!!

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  186. my ex did the same thing, proposing when having sex.my dear It is fake tell him to stop disceiving u when he said it.

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  187. Y must u shy?ask him now he might not remember again.

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