A South African woman named Nonhle Mamthembu Nweke, took her her instagram account to expose her Nigerian husband who she said has been battering her for years.
"I didn’t want to publicize this but this is beyond my control. iIcant even go to the shop without fearing that a man I once called my
husband could come and kill me and leave me by the street to be eaten by
dogsHe cheated multiple times i forgave that……all throughout the
years he beat me up even while pregnant with his own children …..GUESS
WHAT I FORGAVE HIM FOR THAT TOO.
He stole from me, from my family LOL
HE EVEN stole the ring he bought me and pawned it IN FACT HE PAWNED
EVERYTHING WE OWNED EVEN A CAR FOR R5000 ……i still forgave him.even when
his girlfriend sent me unclad pics of them in bed and harassed me i
still forgave that.AM I NOT HUMAN?????DON’T I HAVE A BREAKING POINT???
STAY FOR THE KIDS SAKE THEY SAY!!!!!! UNTIL I’M DEAD???? i moved out and
stayed alone with my kids i cant even go to the shop without fearing
that the will come and attack me.
APPARENTLY in their culture there’s nothing like divorce, well in my
culture there’s nothing like domestic violence……… YEAH IM SNAPPING COZ
I’VE HAD ENOUGH….this morning i locked the flat went down and come out
of the gate no knowing he now knows where i stay GUESS wgat he attacked
me again and i’m bleeding once again..AS USUAL. HE took my bag took my
phones and slapped me….his last words I WILL DISTURB YOU TILL U DIE NO
ONE LEAVES ME AND GETS TO MOVE ON IN PEACE………well even while still
married to him i never did find peace,but he wouldn’t know coz he spent
most of his nights out with friends, even christmas days were for him
and his s***S ……
IF ANYTHING HAPPENS TO ME ,AT LEAST YOU ALL KNOW
NOW…….my kids will grow up without a mother,,,,,and yeah i did try the
police and got zero help from there i guess it true what people say the
police only act when there’s a dead body. I guess SOON MY FAMILY WILL BE
UPLOADING FUNERAL#NONHLE’SFUNERAL.
Madam keep staying you hear.
ReplyDeleteDidn't u read where she said she has moved out ?
DeleteDomestic violence is becoming too prevalent nowadays
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Domestic violence is not becoming more prevalent; it has always been there. Some brave women broke the norm and spoke out to the chagrin of a pretentious society. Celebrities joined in. Social media has been a big help. More women should speak up if they are victims...and men too who are.
DeleteSpeaking out is the best thing, at least, you can no longer die in silent..
ReplyDeleteSilence Mma.
DeleteChai, what is all this with abuse?
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no woman has to put up with a man that beats her up as if she was a punching bag.
ok. she should just divorce him.
ReplyDeleteNa wa oooo everyone is been abused! For year he battered u ... u still still down ba?
ReplyDeleteFear and pressure, especially when you've been brainwashed to believe it is acceptable for you to be abused.
DeleteThe moment you allow it to happen once and you have nowhere to turn to, after others have told you to stay and work it out, all that is left is either to suffer in silence, end up in a body bag or run away.
Ladies, please! Your life has value, you owe no one any explanation, and your life will go on, there is no shame in being brave enough to take back your life.
OMG! What is that thing on her head? Madam pls involved sm human rights activist,and run for ur life,sm men are beast.
ReplyDeleteOMG! What is that thing on her head? Madam pls involved sm human rights activist,and run for ur life,sm men are beast.
ReplyDeleteKeep praying to God to change him and you should learn to summit yourself and beside your manner of approachment matter most.
ReplyDeleteYours is the worst kind of idiocy!
DeleteYou need to fight back,break a bottle on his head. That is the only time fear will make him leave you alone.WTF
ReplyDeleteI admit this is not right but still I wouldn't judge. I'm currently in a relationship who have experienced domestic voilence and now I can say you don't have to judge without hearing from him too.
ReplyDeleteI've never and will never raise my hands on a woman but I can tell that this girl I'm dating wants all this kind of man and not a gentle man like me. I've been instigated to misbehave several times but I will rather walk away instead.
Domestic violence is becoming too prevalent nowadays
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This is too much nah!!! She took too much from the start, so now he sees it, as his right. Keep screaming this, go on TV if possible. Draw pples attention to what's going on, don't stop. Talk to any, nd everybody you think can help. Speak out, so he backs of. Horror stories.
ReplyDeletePLEASE MADAM, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE O! INVOLVE HUMAN RIGHTS GROUP, POLICE....ANY GROUP THAT CAN ASSIST YOU GAIN YOUR FREEDOM PLEASE! i DNT WANT TO TYPE 'RIP' FOR YOU O!
ReplyDeleteSo so sad.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sick of this domestic violence shut.
So so sad.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sick of this domestic violence shit.
I called him Monster,Even at eight months pregnancy mine beats.His mother even said women don't leave their marriage bc their hubby beats yet she ran from the husband's house to her fathers house.Most of the Beast are up bringing.Like father like son.Madam,relocate with your kids so that they will not grow to be like him thinking that's what every man does. God will definitely provide for you.
ReplyDeleteMadam, Move on with your life fast assuming him dead.In this, life you reap what you sow.God is not a man.
ReplyDeleteWhy not report him to SA or Nigeria police as the case maybe let them take necessary action against him before it's too late.
ReplyDeleteShe should leave the country, seek asylum with her kids in another one. Leave the city move to a village. Your kids deserve to grow with their mother. Run. This is why the first world has shelters for abused women that offers them protection and anonymity.. Africa should start the same. An underground network..
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm Nawa oooo.wife battering everywhere.make una stop ooo
ReplyDeleteNow I'm scared of getting married
ReplyDeleteAbusive men are on the increase. My sister got her portion last night when the husband came back from a friend wedding. They stay at onitsha
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