yes ooo both of u shd have ur going out time at least 2ce a, week..if he is d clubbing and hanging out time u cant totally stop him from hanging out with his male crew but dia shd be a balance... and if he Insists on not taking u at all den dia is a problem..make d woman sit up!.
Tnk God my husband dnt do all dt...vry indoor type,calm n reservd.spendin tym wit d kids,watchn movies in hs bed,hvn fun wit hs wyf..yet hs gud lukin n earns well....nw I undstnd wt my mum meant wen she said d hip hop guys aint d best wen it cms to marraige.i earn a gud 6 figure pay yet he doesnt let me spend my money,tks gud kia of me..always quick to apologise to me,puts me 1st..yes it sounds 2 gud 2 b tru.ds man hs gvn me peace.n I wish ds kind of husbnd to evry woman.God bless hm
Nyc one sis, happy u found ur type. My type is turning up & wit hubby ders always smwhere 2 go 2 & he doesnt let me spend my money unless i really hav to & i'm d queen in our kingdom.
Yes naa. Somethings have to change..no be only me go change. I can't be wife and maid at the same time with no enjoyment. If I'm not going, he's going nowhere. Thank God, he no get money now, so he gentle for house. He doesn't have a choice than to sit at home! #married 7 years #mother, #wife.
It isn't far fetched when it is said "birds of the same feather flock together", "the way you prepare your bed is how you lie on it".it all boils down to how, where and what manner you met your better half.
Aww! Take heart dear. Look for cooler ways to unwind. Take yourself out to the movies. Give yourself a good treat. Visit the spa. Buy good books.. update yourself intellectually. Do whatever to uplift yourself spiritually, emotionally, financially and mentally. Watch what happens next.
Silly question tho... Does your life remain the same when you give it to Christ? Can a wife still peck and hug all her male friends the way she used to before getting married? if no then no its not okay for a husband either.----C21
As a woman you have to have your own me time and allow your husband have his time with his friends too. Every married woman must know how to allow their man to spend time away from them. It good because it gives you things to catch up on when you meet by gisting each other how you spend your time away. And women too should ensure they have their time with their friends or timeout with the kids if you have kids. It's always strengthen the marriage.......
CHOICES. Life's all about CHOICES. Never compromise your happiness by unmanageable choices. Marriage is a choice too. Don't be pushed by society. Push yourself.
Funny how some husbands quarrel with their wives for offering to club with them. I will be extremely happy to have my wife club with me. Unfortunately, she doesn't like clubbing. We hang out together and it's very lovely. Clubbing is fun. There's no harm in sometimes going with ur wife.
I am not a woman but of course.
ReplyDeleteMust you answer,haba. The question was directed to women. Are you a woman somehow? Must you answer, MUMU.
DeleteCan't even marry anyone who loves clubbing. Any man who's a club lover should turn responsible as soon as he ties the knot.
DeleteLong live LIB
yes ooo both of u shd have ur going out time at least 2ce a, week..if he is d clubbing and hanging out time u cant totally stop him from hanging out with his male crew but dia shd be a balance...
ReplyDeleteand if he Insists on not taking u at all den dia is a problem..make d woman sit up!.
Yeah.......he should go to clubs with me tagging along
ReplyDeleteTnk God my husband dnt do all dt...vry indoor type,calm n reservd.spendin tym wit d kids,watchn movies in hs bed,hvn fun wit hs wyf..yet hs gud lukin n earns well....nw I undstnd wt my mum meant wen she said d hip hop guys aint d best wen it cms to marraige.i earn a gud 6 figure pay yet he doesnt let me spend my money,tks gud kia of me..always quick to apologise to me,puts me 1st..yes it sounds 2 gud 2 b tru.ds man hs gvn me peace.n I wish ds kind of husbnd to evry woman.God bless hm
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteGood to hear all dat but am sure the hip hop guys won't like ur type
DeleteI seriously tap into your blessing sis. I have been loosing sleep cos of this matter about husband. God bless me with a husband like this. Amen
Deleteamen..
DeleteSounds wonderful, but have you asked yourself what you give him in return for the love he shows selflessly? I sense the 'I, me, myself' thing here!
DeleteNyc one sis, happy u found ur type. My type is turning up & wit hubby ders always smwhere 2 go 2 & he doesnt let me spend my money unless i really hav to & i'm d queen in our kingdom.
DeleteWho ask you all this one you talking?
DeleteYes naa. Somethings have to change..no be only me go change. I can't be wife and maid at the same time with no enjoyment. If I'm not going, he's going nowhere. Thank God, he no get money now, so he gentle for house. He doesn't have a choice than to sit at home! #married 7 years #mother, #wife.
ReplyDeleteGod blessed me with a hubby that doesnt like to club ,hangs out once in a blue moon etc.He aint perfect but at least i dont have that to worry about
ReplyDeleteContinue to pray for him. Marriage is like a sealed envelope. When you get married, open it and see the content.
ReplyDeleteYes who's he meeting at the club, not to talk biz. So better to avoid trouble.
ReplyDeleteIf you r expecting that, Oyo for you my dear.
ReplyDeleteMine said.oh how many of my friends did u c bringing there wives to clubs and to think am just 22.it sucks been married!
ReplyDeleteMarried ladies oya leggo
ReplyDeleteIt isn't far fetched when it is said "birds of the same feather flock together", "the way you prepare your bed is how you lie on it".it all boils down to how, where and what manner you met your better half.
ReplyDeleteWell said
DeleteIt will definately reduce...wether u like it or not...abi u wan dey breastbaby for club...
ReplyDeleteSorry breastfeed baby****
ReplyDeleteMy husband clubs without me, if I insist on going out with me it will turn into a big quarrel and he will end up staying out late, said I caused it
ReplyDeleteAww! Take heart dear. Look for cooler ways to unwind. Take yourself out to the movies. Give yourself a good treat. Visit the spa. Buy good books.. update yourself intellectually. Do whatever to uplift yourself spiritually, emotionally, financially and mentally. Watch what happens next.
Deletethe women need to start asking questions during courtship.
ReplyDeleteSilly question tho... Does your life remain the same when you give it to Christ? Can a wife still peck and hug all her male friends the way she used to before getting married? if no then no its not okay for a husband either.----C21
ReplyDeleteyes na
ReplyDelete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Hmmmmmmmmm.
ReplyDeleteHe has to.....
As a woman you have to have your own me time and allow your husband have his time with his friends too. Every married woman must know how to allow their man to spend time away from them. It good because it gives you things to catch up on when you meet by gisting each other how you spend your time away.
ReplyDeleteAnd women too should ensure they have their time with their friends or timeout with the kids if you have kids. It's always strengthen the marriage.......
CHOICES!
ReplyDeleteCHOICES. Life's all about CHOICES. Never compromise your happiness by unmanageable choices. Marriage is a choice too. Don't be pushed by society. Push yourself.
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ReplyDeleteFunny how some husbands quarrel with their wives for offering to club with them. I will be extremely happy to have my wife club with me. Unfortunately, she doesn't like clubbing. We hang out together and it's very lovely. Clubbing is fun. There's no harm in sometimes going with ur wife.
ReplyDeleteWithout me, he wunt reduce it, he'll STOP IT....bt wit me, we r turning up evry weekend lyk kilode!!🙌🙌
ReplyDeleteToo many people are getting married for the wrong reasons!
ReplyDeleteIf you met at a club or a party, do not expect a change after the wedding!
If you met in church and turned up together regularly, do not expect a change after the wedding!
Marriage starts after the wedding. Whatever is done BEFORE the wedding will follow after it.
Plus, too many guys get married due to social and family pressure - not because they really want to and/or are ready for MARRIAGE itself.
***Lush