Getting married is not so easy oo, staying married will be a lot easier if men and women involved will keep this rule of God that says "marriage is honourable, marital bed undefiled". If both keep to this, I bet you a lot of marriages will be saved. But longer throat will not let people. I'm not saying this is the only cause of marital failures, but it is the major cause. Both men and women who are guilty this and has opened the access road for the devil to creep into their marriage.
Getting married is not so easy oo, staying married will be a lot easier if men and women involved will keep this rule of God that says "marriage is honourable, marital bed undefiled". If both keep to this, I bet you a lot of marriages will be saved. But longer throat will not let people. I'm not saying this is the only cause of marital failures, but it is the major cause. Both men and women who are guilty this and has opened the access road for the devil to creep into their marriage.
Loving each is not what matter. What matters is are u both parties ment for each by concerning God, did God approved u both or it is the WILL of God for both to marry.nooo it not how far we are ve been in relationships that qualified us all to ment for each other. U can be in relationship for 3 or 4 yrs that doesn't gives u a strength to go ahead with the person. weather, u are female or male. I wonder hw some pple says am still studying that lady or that guy. That's is how foolishly some pple are even u ursf as person hve I study ursf finished know... That is why we see millions of divorce here and there today. Round the universe. Even to make it worse some carry there mother at home which is powerful more than you as person. We all fall into the out look of human beings. I blvd that's is human beings major problems entirely. But if God shows u the inside part of that person spiritualy that u so called ur wife or husband. U will run nd even never want to see him in ur entire life.. my point is just that to go into marriage is not even by anyone approved but God a sign. Means it is god willingness for this marriage to be done. And for both parties to be together till God says yes... God can bring someone u 've never seen in ur entire life to be ur wife or ur husband.. as far it is from above.. so shall it be. And am telling u that they will enjoy peace in all there life time..
The reason why most marriages fail in Nigeria is very easy. 1)... Promiscuity. If a husband and wife can determine to remain faithful to each other and not soil their marital bed, i tell u most marriages will survive. 2)... Gone are the days women were slaves in marriages, our parents marriage lasted cos our mothers endured domestic violence and other abuses silently. And most men go into marriage expecting their wife to be as quiet as his mother and take all the crap he brings. Dear men, time has changed, women are empowered everyday and are more wiser, u hardly see a woman who will take wat ur mother took from your father. So i think if people change their perspective of wat marriage used to be be and focus more on becoming a man or a woman u want ur daughter or son to marry will help bring down the divorce rate by at least 20%.
When I see things like these from this man I respect him more. Not when he gets into the ugly partisan mode that blinds him so much. Really nice advice.
Marriage requires lots of sacrifice.. its for the men and not for boys. It's better to be a sperm donor than to enter into marriage and fail..
ReplyDeleteHe's absolutely correct.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately, many marriages couldn't last longer than courtship. It is good to marry because of where we are going and not for where we are.
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Marriage is patience and tolerance,if u don't have both u can't stay in marriage
ReplyDeleteNice one.
ReplyDeleteGetting married is not so easy oo, staying married will be a lot easier if men and women involved will keep this rule of God that says "marriage is honourable, marital bed undefiled". If both keep to this, I bet you a lot of marriages will be saved. But longer throat will not let people. I'm not saying this is the only cause of marital failures, but it is the major cause. Both men and women who are guilty this and has opened the access road for the devil to creep into their marriage.
ReplyDeleteGetting married is not so easy oo, staying married will be a lot easier if men and women involved will keep this rule of God that says "marriage is honourable, marital bed undefiled". If both keep to this, I bet you a lot of marriages will be saved. But longer throat will not let people. I'm not saying this is the only cause of marital failures, but it is the major cause. Both men and women who are guilty this and has opened the access road for the devil to creep into their marriage.
ReplyDeleteThis guy may not make sense ALL(100%) of the time(..by the way, WHO does?),
ReplyDeletebut he sure makes sense MOST of the time. Reno Omokri- worth listening to.
Reno is the best writer in Nigeria. I don't care about the enemys or the opposition, he has a lot of wisdom.
Deleteone of the few things uve written that make sense.
ReplyDeleteLoving each is not what matter. What matters is are u both parties ment for each by concerning God, did God approved u both or it is the WILL of God for both to marry.nooo it not how far we are ve been in relationships that qualified us all to ment for each other. U can be in relationship for 3 or 4 yrs that doesn't gives u a strength to go ahead with the person. weather, u are female or male. I wonder hw some pple says am still studying that lady or that guy. That's is how foolishly some pple are even u ursf as person hve I study ursf finished know... That is why we see millions of divorce here and there today. Round the universe. Even to make it worse some carry there mother at home which is powerful more than you as person. We all fall into the out look of human beings. I blvd that's is human beings major problems entirely. But if God shows u the inside part of that person spiritualy that u so called ur wife or husband. U will run nd even never want to see him in ur entire life.. my point is just that to go into marriage is not even by anyone approved but God a sign. Means it is god willingness for this marriage to be done. And for both parties to be together till God says yes... God can bring someone u 've never seen in ur entire life to be ur wife or ur husband.. as far it is from above.. so shall it be. And am telling u that they will enjoy peace in all there life time..
ReplyDeleteNice one bro
ReplyDeleteThe reason why most marriages fail in Nigeria is very easy. 1)... Promiscuity. If a husband and wife can determine to remain faithful to each other and not soil their marital bed, i tell u most marriages will survive. 2)... Gone are the days women were slaves in marriages, our parents marriage lasted cos our mothers endured domestic violence and other abuses silently. And most men go into marriage expecting their wife to be as quiet as his mother and take all the crap he brings. Dear men, time has changed, women are empowered everyday and are more wiser, u hardly see a woman who will take wat ur mother took from your father. So i think if people change their perspective of wat marriage used to be be and focus more on becoming a man or a woman u want ur daughter or son to marry will help bring down the divorce rate by at least 20%.
ReplyDeleteWhen I see things like these from this man I respect him more. Not when he gets into the ugly partisan mode that blinds him so much. Really nice advice.
ReplyDeleteMarriage is a thing, they said those in it want to get out and those that are not in it want to get in.
ReplyDeleteWhat qualifies this man to speak on any subject! Spits!!!
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