Last week, Aisha Laar's Instagram post went viral after she accused her friend Farida of snatching her fiance, Junaidu.
In an exclusive interview with Northern Hibiscus , the student of Bayero University Kano, talked about the 'snatching' allegation, converting to Islam, her friendship with Farida, relationship with Junaidu and how she found out that her two closest friends betrayed her. Check out the interview below:
H: Hello, can we meet you?
AISHA OC: My name is Aisha Laar. I am from Kaduna state kafanchan to be exact. I am a student of Bayero university Kano, and i am in my 20s
NH: from all the comments flying on social media we saw that you converted to Islam. please could you elaborate on that.
AISHA OC: yes i was a christian, i was born in a christian home and yes my parents and siblings are all Christians. i had so many Muslim friends and every time they prayed i was mesmerized. i wanted Islam. i knew when i tell my parents they might not agree so i ran from home, I went to a relative who later sent me to Dr Ahmed Gummi. i went to his office boldly and told his aides that i had an appointment. I was a very young teen!
He was amused, he saw a very young girl with so much energy so he sent for my parents. They came and they agreed for me to convert and they later took me home. They got me malams that helped me with every thing and i entered a near by islamiya! He wanted to name me khadija but i choose aisha because i liked the name so much. My name was Katherine but now i am proudly AISHA!!! ALHAMDULLILLAH
H: I am itching to dive into the matter. but first when did you meet junaidu and farida
AISHA OC: First i met farida in KD very nice lady and we clicked instantly
we have been friends for a while, we both are schooling in Kano
so we are always together, i sleep in her house sometimes she sleeps in mine, We eat from the same plate, that's how close i am with Farida. She knows my every move she knows all my secrets.
Junaidu, i met last year precisely 25th of February 2016
we clicked instantly. He is a very caring person and would put you over him self. He is very selfless and i fell hard. He is a passionate person and he has sacrificed a lot for me. He said :Aisha i love you and i want to spend the rest of my life with you, i can't waste time" i was so excited and on the 16th of july, junaidu met my parents and paid my bride price!! he paid N100,000 sadaki and N50,000 kudin gaisuwa. i was over joyed! They fixed 26th of december for the wedding fatiha! Every body that knew me knew junaidu.
H: Is he a wealthy man, dan i don't see why 2 friends would be fighting over him
AISHA OC: Lol as i said he is very caring (yana da rufin asiri ALHAMDULLILLAHI) not money but his nature i think,. and mind you we didn't fight over him. I never knew they were dating.
NH: So what happened afterwards why didn't you get married on the 26th of December
AISHA OC: Every thing was fine up until he started having trust issues. He felt farida (his bride) was influencing me and he wanted our friendship stopped. the strong head girl inside me wouldn't bow to that. Farida is my friend and she is a nice person, i see nothing wrong in being friends with her. He became paranoid. Every time i go out with friends he became super uncomfortable. We fought constantly. clearly he had an informant close to me. I wouldn't lie and say i didn't have male friends. but when junaid came and stated his intentions i did away with them. and he knows! i wanted to marry him. Junaid is the clingy type who would call you 10 times a day ( i loved that about him) So after one major fight we had he went mute for a whole week!!! It felt pretty strange. and I WAS heart broken, i missed him but kunsan jan aji i didn't call. We later came back together but the relationship has been strained! We unanimously shifted the date to 2nd week of February 2017
NH: So how did junaid and farida meet?
AISHA OC: They know each other. when he visits me, we go out together.
when they started dating , that i don't know.
but what keeps coming to me is ,i think i am not sure wo!
Junaidu has a habit of when ever we fight, he calls my friends to complain to them about me, they call me talk to me and we get back together. so i am thinking that's how they started talking. i might be wrong. (ALLAHU YA ALLAM)
NH: When did you last see Farida?
AISHA OC: I saw her when we were going on holiday December, and we had a brief convo. she asked me when our marriage was holding since we shifted it and i told her its some time in February, she now told me her sister is getting married around that time she hopes it doesn't clash. We said our good byes and left. that was the last time i saw her.
i called her a few weeks after then to go to a birthday dinner which we later canceled.
NH: Take us through what happened afterwards. How you came to know
AISHA: Early march, i got a whats app message from a friend of mine
the massage stated that farida was getting married and her aso-ebi is N6000. I was so upset and disappointed how is it that farida would be getting married and not tell me, i was so bitter i didn't even bother calling her, but i replied the massage "ALLAH YA SANYA ALHERI"
Almost immediately farida sent a broadcast massage to every one
stating she is getting married end of march, i didn't care to ask who coz i felt we were friends i just sent ALLAH ya kaimu
After a few days a friend of mine called me, she asked did you hear farida is getting married, i said yes we are painting KD black and blue soon!
any way you better sit down for what i am about to tell you. people have been hiding it, but i cant hide this from you. kawai my heart started beating faster! what is it!
"do you know who farida is marrying "
no i told you i dont know any thing!
toh she is marrying your Junaidu!
what!!!
I became numb! every where turned black, my tongue dried.
Fareeda and Junaidu no! you must be joking!!!
That day i couldn't sleep i couldn't eat i couldn't function.
NH: When you called him what was his excuse, did you call farida?
AISHA OC: I have not called him, i would leave him with his deed
I didn't call farida either i have left them with the Karma that would catch up with them.
NH: Sorry but personally if this happened to me i would want to see him or at least talk to him and her her as well
AISHA OC: People have been pressurizing me to call or confront them, but for what?
NH: But you kind of confronted them on Instagram with the infamous post that went viral
AISHA OC: Yes kind of. i was upset, dry and i wanted to tell the world my pain. how my 2 close people betrayed me. I just posted to get some sort of relief. I had no idea it would get the attention it got. that said day, walahi i got over 500 calls. I was overwhelmed. my friends where calling me from all over, i felt loved, i was happy.
NH: What does the future hold for you Aisha
AISHA OC: I am a strong person, i didnt know i would be able to handle it but i have and life goes on! I pray to get a fantastic GOD fearing man that would loves me with all his heart lol! I am a hopeless romantic!!! you can understand how crushed i am!
NH: Do you have any message for junaidu and fareeda i know they might come across this.
AISHA OC: duniya ce, ta ishi kowa riga da wando (Karma)
NH: Thank you so much for granting us this interview
AISHA OC: I should be thanking you for making me beautiful lol Thank you so much i feel like a celebrity.
In an exclusive interview with Northern Hibiscus , the student of Bayero University Kano, talked about the 'snatching' allegation, converting to Islam, her friendship with Farida, relationship with Junaidu and how she found out that her two closest friends betrayed her. Check out the interview below:
H: Hello, can we meet you?
AISHA OC: My name is Aisha Laar. I am from Kaduna state kafanchan to be exact. I am a student of Bayero university Kano, and i am in my 20s
NH: from all the comments flying on social media we saw that you converted to Islam. please could you elaborate on that.
AISHA OC: yes i was a christian, i was born in a christian home and yes my parents and siblings are all Christians. i had so many Muslim friends and every time they prayed i was mesmerized. i wanted Islam. i knew when i tell my parents they might not agree so i ran from home, I went to a relative who later sent me to Dr Ahmed Gummi. i went to his office boldly and told his aides that i had an appointment. I was a very young teen!
He was amused, he saw a very young girl with so much energy so he sent for my parents. They came and they agreed for me to convert and they later took me home. They got me malams that helped me with every thing and i entered a near by islamiya! He wanted to name me khadija but i choose aisha because i liked the name so much. My name was Katherine but now i am proudly AISHA!!! ALHAMDULLILLAH
H: I am itching to dive into the matter. but first when did you meet junaidu and farida
AISHA OC: First i met farida in KD very nice lady and we clicked instantly
we have been friends for a while, we both are schooling in Kano
so we are always together, i sleep in her house sometimes she sleeps in mine, We eat from the same plate, that's how close i am with Farida. She knows my every move she knows all my secrets.
Junaidu, i met last year precisely 25th of February 2016
we clicked instantly. He is a very caring person and would put you over him self. He is very selfless and i fell hard. He is a passionate person and he has sacrificed a lot for me. He said :Aisha i love you and i want to spend the rest of my life with you, i can't waste time" i was so excited and on the 16th of july, junaidu met my parents and paid my bride price!! he paid N100,000 sadaki and N50,000 kudin gaisuwa. i was over joyed! They fixed 26th of december for the wedding fatiha! Every body that knew me knew junaidu.
H: Is he a wealthy man, dan i don't see why 2 friends would be fighting over him
AISHA OC: Lol as i said he is very caring (yana da rufin asiri ALHAMDULLILLAHI) not money but his nature i think,. and mind you we didn't fight over him. I never knew they were dating.
NH: So what happened afterwards why didn't you get married on the 26th of December
AISHA OC: Every thing was fine up until he started having trust issues. He felt farida (his bride) was influencing me and he wanted our friendship stopped. the strong head girl inside me wouldn't bow to that. Farida is my friend and she is a nice person, i see nothing wrong in being friends with her. He became paranoid. Every time i go out with friends he became super uncomfortable. We fought constantly. clearly he had an informant close to me. I wouldn't lie and say i didn't have male friends. but when junaid came and stated his intentions i did away with them. and he knows! i wanted to marry him. Junaid is the clingy type who would call you 10 times a day ( i loved that about him) So after one major fight we had he went mute for a whole week!!! It felt pretty strange. and I WAS heart broken, i missed him but kunsan jan aji i didn't call. We later came back together but the relationship has been strained! We unanimously shifted the date to 2nd week of February 2017
AISHA OC: They know each other. when he visits me, we go out together.
when they started dating , that i don't know.
but what keeps coming to me is ,i think i am not sure wo!
Junaidu has a habit of when ever we fight, he calls my friends to complain to them about me, they call me talk to me and we get back together. so i am thinking that's how they started talking. i might be wrong. (ALLAHU YA ALLAM)
NH: When did you last see Farida?
AISHA OC: I saw her when we were going on holiday December, and we had a brief convo. she asked me when our marriage was holding since we shifted it and i told her its some time in February, she now told me her sister is getting married around that time she hopes it doesn't clash. We said our good byes and left. that was the last time i saw her.
i called her a few weeks after then to go to a birthday dinner which we later canceled.
NH: Take us through what happened afterwards. How you came to know
AISHA: Early march, i got a whats app message from a friend of mine
the massage stated that farida was getting married and her aso-ebi is N6000. I was so upset and disappointed how is it that farida would be getting married and not tell me, i was so bitter i didn't even bother calling her, but i replied the massage "ALLAH YA SANYA ALHERI"
Almost immediately farida sent a broadcast massage to every one
stating she is getting married end of march, i didn't care to ask who coz i felt we were friends i just sent ALLAH ya kaimu
After a few days a friend of mine called me, she asked did you hear farida is getting married, i said yes we are painting KD black and blue soon!
any way you better sit down for what i am about to tell you. people have been hiding it, but i cant hide this from you. kawai my heart started beating faster! what is it!
"do you know who farida is marrying "
no i told you i dont know any thing!
toh she is marrying your Junaidu!
what!!!
I became numb! every where turned black, my tongue dried.
Fareeda and Junaidu no! you must be joking!!!
That day i couldn't sleep i couldn't eat i couldn't function.
NH: When you called him what was his excuse, did you call farida?
AISHA OC: I have not called him, i would leave him with his deed
I didn't call farida either i have left them with the Karma that would catch up with them.
NH: Sorry but personally if this happened to me i would want to see him or at least talk to him and her her as well
AISHA OC: People have been pressurizing me to call or confront them, but for what?
NH: But you kind of confronted them on Instagram with the infamous post that went viral
AISHA OC: Yes kind of. i was upset, dry and i wanted to tell the world my pain. how my 2 close people betrayed me. I just posted to get some sort of relief. I had no idea it would get the attention it got. that said day, walahi i got over 500 calls. I was overwhelmed. my friends where calling me from all over, i felt loved, i was happy.
NH: What does the future hold for you Aisha
AISHA OC: I am a strong person, i didnt know i would be able to handle it but i have and life goes on! I pray to get a fantastic GOD fearing man that would loves me with all his heart lol! I am a hopeless romantic!!! you can understand how crushed i am!
NH: Do you have any message for junaidu and fareeda i know they might come across this.
AISHA OC: duniya ce, ta ishi kowa riga da wando (Karma)
NH: Thank you so much for granting us this interview
AISHA OC: I should be thanking you for making me beautiful lol Thank you so much i feel like a celebrity.
47 comments:
The other side of friendship
... Merited happiness
Hmmmmmmmmm it's well oooo
Her ex got married to dt person to hurt Aisha, when he asked u to stop being friends with certain set of people, he has started banging dt person..my dear, relax ko? God will send u a better mAn.
Hmm, nawa oo
Nothing is what holding unto, except ur Lord and savior. Aisha it's a very good thing that you hv forgiven them. But pls Aisha remember it is written' I am the way, the truth and the life, no one shall see God except through me' the words of Jesus. Ask God why this had to happen to you.
Aisha you shot yourself on the foot,due to stubbornness, you wouldn't be licking your wound now,had you listened and cut off Farida, when Jinadu advised you to do so. Next time try to be wiser,for now, that's the price of your foolhardiness.
such a wonderful personality...you will definitely find yours Inshaa Allah..leave them to their deeds,it might even be a blessing in disguise...thank your God u didnt even marry him
Na waaa o! I always tell women to be wise! Stop telling your friends about your Man or whatever he does for you or about your relationship! Don't take your friend on a date that should be for u and your spouse-3 is a crowd! Stop involving ur friends in ur relati ship issues! Please ladies receive sense and learn from this particular story! Some friends are evil!
TeamNoFriend.....
Neeyo Linda Ikeji Birth Mate
Aisha, You are facing Karma for turning to Islam.... ntoooooo
Wow!!! The reason I don't introduce my friends to my man. Karma!!! karma!!! They will roll on the floor and beg you. But they should fear this Aisha's silence o.
That was betrayal in all ramification. Take heart, every disappointment is a blessing in disguise.
a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Is easy to say that this aisha lady is a disturbed soul... Gud to knw dude gat away and went for someone with brains...
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She fine pass the Farida but with my understanding of the story they were not together when farida married man. They kept shifting the wedding date. If I may ask why didn't they marry ending of Feb as planned? One thing I know is that if the man wanted u and farida, he would have married the both of u. The man sef mature, I tire for the matter. There is still a part of the story that has not been told.
She fine pass the Farida but with my understanding of the story they were not together when farida married man. They kept shifting the wedding date. If I may ask why didn't they marry ending of Feb as planned? One thing I know is that if the man wanted u and farida, he would have married the both of u. The man sef mature, I tire for the matter. There is still a part of the story that has not been told.
I go crazy over Hausa as a language but Wen mix with English I am over the moon I really like this lady alot women should be strong and have healthy relationship any man who can get a go at your best friend is not husband material my dear you jos dodge a bullet he is capable of having a go with your sister or even you mother please for me it's good remdy to bad rubbish.
See one who betrayed Christ talking about karma!
He might Later make u d second wify. From Christianity to Islam I don't pity u @ All . I think Karma caught up with you. I wish d new couple a fulfilled married life.As for u Aisha or whatever go n ask God for forgiveness
The only thing Dino maleye can do to make me like him again is to marry this beautiful gal!
Tons dey happn
Tins dey happn
I Can relate with dis story..very painful I swear..dat is y I dont keep close friends,let alone best friend
Honestly, with all amount of sincerity, I would love to marry that Aisha!
Idiot
Clown.lol
This has nothing to do with religon just as you are not a perfect christian.mind you,am a christian.
Exactly!
He was already banging her, that's why he told his fiance to stop being friends with her.
Humans sha... smh
Hold up Aisha. I might not know u but right now where I am I am sending u a big e-hug. It's not palatable for a woman to know a woman is in a man's world and u allowed him. I don't want to use the word snatched.
The pain is not an easy pain. It hurts like hell. Thank God u went on twitter to rant and did not bottle it in.
God is watching and in due season he will give u a good man and fight fight for u in a way you can't imagine. May God be the judge.
That silence is scary I tell you.
This story doesnt add up...what happened all d while between her and Junaid when she last saw her friend in December?...Did she even try to visit Junaid in between December and March? i'm not saying what the friend did is okay but Aisha also has some of the blames. Her stubbornness made her lose him
Wen u betrayed ur Lord saviour bcos of a man wat u expect,now see ur self d man is gone.
Na wa , I love me! No home friends keeping it real @ office/ colleaguee parole I no fit shout...Aisha may God strengthen you allah walahi e no easy
Exactly....she said farida knew all her secrets...so am suspecting she told on her n d man had a chnge of heart...its stil betrayal thou cos birds of dsame feather flock togeda...who knws wot d farida has done too...bottom line is,secrets are for u alone
The most painful part of this story sef is the man in question is old,he is confuse to me,some old men are senseless
The most painful part of this story sef is the man in question is old,he is confuse to me,some old men are senseless
You are not wise... He was already banging the friend and thats why he asked her to stop being friends with her. The man is even an old man that will soon join his ancestors.
I can relate with dis story cos same thing happened to me. Just as if am reading my own story. But have moved on.
Just one side of the story ......whatchout for the other girl's( lady's).
U are so wrong when he asked her to end her frndship....that was wen he was trying to resist the temptation mm..its normal wen u star havingg relationship issues don't share it with ya friends (females especially) cos one of those friends of urs who had eye for ya guy will start acting liike an angel before you knoww it ur partner wil start seeing her as a beta pson than you....she wil start doing right, everything u did wrong just to convince him..
Word!!
Mumu
Hmmmmm,so sorry about dat aisha,u are too pretty to brood over an old man cus he is generous nd caring as u say,it's obvious he has other wives,I tell u hun,u are too pretty for dis man,so many young men out there dat Wil love u whole heartedly,move on and let dem be.God knows best u Wil thank him later.
Katherine/Aisha, you should be very glad God kept you from something that He hasn't planned for you. It's not too late to retrace your steps back to Him. Jesus is the ONLY way. Come home, sister and enjoy what God has in store for you.
Aisha please know that as a Muslim convert you are despised and discriminated against by "original" Muslims which Junaid and Farida are. To them you are inferior before Allah compared to themselves. Therefore Junaid marrying Farida is a superior option to yours.
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I wonder when Nigerians will learn to respect the fact that religion is a personal choice. My respect is for God fearing people regardless of whether they are Muslim or Christian. Those of you who are saying this is karma for her converting to another religion, look at yourself in the mirror and then ask yourself if you have no sins. Nigerian Christians and Muslims are always secretly or openly doing what their religions forbid and then they come out hypocritically to claim they are better than each other. Judgement is for God Almighty, not for man.
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