Ifeoma Ojiakor whose husband beat her and attacked her private part with a broken bottle on Dec. 24th (read
here) took to Facebook to tell her sad story. Read below...
This is unacceptable
This is my Ifeoma okeke Ojiakor story.
Saddest Christmas ever!!!
Lying down in pains on my hospital bed I'm writing this with tears flowing my eyes. I could remember on d 24th night I made a post on facebook sending out special greetings to everyone with d hope of having a merry Christmas with family,friends, and loved ones
My husband by name Mr Victor ojiakor was always fond of hitting me at any slightest provocation and this issue has been resolved at so many police stations..whenever I report d beating escapades they wud settle us at the police station and he wud be asked to sign undertaking never to hit me anymore.He has even hit me at his village in d presence of his mother and father then reason being that he accused me of having an affair with his brother..His parents settled it after which he promised never to hit me again we reconciled mostly because of the kids ..after we returned back to lagos he hit me again while I was pregnant for our third child that I began to bleed.i was rushed to the hospital by neighbours before my mum was called to d hospital ...the case was reported at the ministry of women affairs at alausa ikeja where he was invited and there promised never to repeat such again...now the height of this happened on d 25th of December he came back home at about 6.30pm and started accusing me of sleeping with his boy (a 16yr old boy...can you imagine?)he didn't even wait for me to say a word he pounced on me and started beating me up with sticks,machete, bottle,e.t.c he said he was going to kill me and nothing would happen ..he also stabbed the said boy with a machete don't knw d boy's where about now...after beating me up for a sin I didn't commit he locked me up and held me hostage seizing my phone for 2 days. .nobody knw wat was happening to me I collapsed honestly I taught I would never survive this..I just kept pleading with him each passing day to pls tk me to the hospital before I die he refused telling me that he wanted to render me useless I jst kept crying until I told him to tk me to a pastor that was when he pushed me into his car n drove me to a place it was there that I pleaded with d prophetess to help me ..the prophetess on seeing my condition then adviced him to take me to d hospital for immediate treatment that was how I was taken to d hospital on getting there I pleaded with d doctor to use her phone to call my sister who in turn informed my mum and they started rushing to the hospital. .at d hospital immediately he sensed that I might have reached my family he started dragging me,removed d drip from my hand I was crying out for help immediately my mum entered d hospital he ran away ..at the moment I am in my mums place with my 3 kids. ..2 boys and a 3months old baby girl...d matter was charged to court and he was granted bail of 250,000naira...why I am left to wallow in pains for no offense I committed all because I married a heartless man and was enduring all these because of my kids and the society who kept telling me to forgive that he is my husband and he would change ....look at my life now!how I wish I left this marriage since!Happy new year everyone!
This is not but a pure wikedness and it seems our judicariy is also soppurting domestic vilonce... So sad!
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Story! Please where is the photo of the private parts own huh?YES IS TRUE THAT THE MAN WENT TO FAR BUT THE QUESTION IS ARE U SLEEPING AROUND WITH HIS BROTHER AND BOY HUH?u never tell us the truth o.With all the beating and accusation u claim he did what stops u from quitting the marriage huh? Or is ur destiny tied there huh?even if the man na bill gate brother and his doing all these to u in this civilized world and ur claiming is because of children oo tell that to almajiri .MY DEAR U NEED TO ADD MORE SALT AND SWEET IN THIS UR STORY BEFORE FREEBORN WILL BELIEVE U for thE court to bail him out shows that THESE ur story NA READY MADE.
ReplyDelete#sad indeed
Senseless talk, do you ever reason freeborn? What's wrong with you and your mum Linda Ikeji, who still encourages and posts all your stupid and insensitive comments!
DeleteIts obvious you got no brains at all. Idiot
You are just VERY Stupid. When this happens to your sister, or daughter, or female cousins, you can ask them all these yeye questions. IDIOT!
DeleteLinda u should block this Aboki man freeborn or wotever his name is... he is just a bitch n nuisance on here
DeleteHe never makes positive comments... frustrated fool
So na so e take happen thunder fire dis man idiot see fine girl way you wan useless
ReplyDeleteStory! Please where is the photo of the private parts own huh?YES IS TRUE THAT THE MAN WENT TO FAR BUT THE QUESTION IS ARE U SLEEPING AROUND WITH HIS BROTHER AND BOY HUH?u never tell us the truth o.With all the beating and accusation u claim he did what stops u from quitting the marriage huh? Or is ur destiny tied there huh?even if the man na bill gate brother and his doing all these to u in this civilized world and ur claiming is because of children oo tell that to almajiri .MY DEAR U NEED TO ADD MORE SALT AND SWEET IN THIS UR STORY BEFORE FREEBORN WILL BELIEVE U for thE court to bail him out shows that THESE ur story NA READY MADE.
ReplyDelete#sad indeed
This freeborn you are nothing but a useless homosexual fool.... You think I don't know who you are ?idiot shame on you
DeleteSenseless talk, do you ever reason freeborn? What's wrong with you and your mum Linda Ikeji, who still encourages and posts all your stupid and insensitive comments!
DeleteIts obvious you got no brains at all. Idiot
This is dishearting, in this age and time husbandS still hit their wives this is unbelievable, but how come he always accuse you of infidelity, first it was with his brother now it's a 16 year old boy that means you been living a messed up life.
ReplyDeleteYour deduction is so stupid. He is just jealous and looking for an excuse to beat her up. It's a psychological disorder. He suspects everyone around her even though she's innocent.
DeleteEven if she was guilty. It's no reason to beat up a woman or ur wife for that matter. It really silly for women to remain in abusive marriage thinking what will d society say. Now she is in hospital now and society are enjoying holiday eating chicken with family. This animal be found and put behind bar without delay.
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oh God wats wrong wit our men...seriously her case is discouraging alot of ladies from getin married...hapi survival dear nd wishing u a quick recovery...hapi new year
ReplyDeleteChibuike na every topic u dey comment put? Opinion? This na new year get busy bro.
DeleteChibuike na every topic u dey comment put? This na new year get busy bro.
DeleteHmm!Those who run away live to fight another day.....
ReplyDeleteGirls for the last time, runnnnnn and don't look back the first time a man hits you. It rarely gets better,more often it gets worse. It's better to save your life to be able to look after your kids with or without your husband.
Above all, ladies should learn to be independent. Life may be rough without a husband,but it will be manageable if the woman is not a full time housewife.
May God heal her body and soul.
Eyaa.. ..sorry
ReplyDeleteMadam please don't go back to that monster ever again. Except you want to be late Mrs Ifeoma. God forbid. A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteGod is a Good God. can a breast feeding mother still have sex outside her matrimony? anyway there is nothing hidden under sun that wont be exposed. God forgive this man and give him a change of heart, else if true might land him in hell. Single ladies beware of Men dont go for money, keep yourselves from immorality a lady intact before marriage cant be accused by the husband.
ReplyDeleteIntact. MA parcel you marry?
DeleteYou married a heartless man that's correct
ReplyDeleteThose kids are his too, you should've left long before this stage
Permit to say he's nothing but a beast
say no to domestic violence!
ReplyDelete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Don't stay in an abusive relationship. Forget what people would say. If you die, the kids you are enduring for would get a new step mom in no time. Ladies and men be wise.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't marry a heartless man, you married a mad man. It's a shame how much society pushes women to endure situations that endanger them. In many cases, they don't know when to say it's enough until it's too late. Aggression in relationships is very dangerous. A single slap, push, pull, fall can cause death yet women keep going back after surviving the first one.
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life. Wishing you speedy full recovery. May God fight for you and guide you aright so you and your children will come out top. Your husband is not well and he needs to be locked up, restrained in straight jacket and have himself straightened up. Hopefully, he can be useful to his children in the future.
Thanks for this comment . The Man is Mad
DeleteEnter your comment...my heart bleeds for you dear sister..your husband must be a beast from outside space..take your kids and get out of his life for good before he kills you ooo
ReplyDeleteThis is really disheartening... Hope that monster pays dearly for his cruelty, devil himself! Speedy recovery Mam... #Sad
ReplyDeleteuseless woman! shame on you and all the bitches who cheat! Any bitch who cheats would share her fate. As a wife, you must unequivocally submit to your husband and pledge to his rules. This is what happens when feminism enters a society; it turns into an immoral abyss
ReplyDeleteAnd wot is ur point lara.
DeleteLara am sorry to disrespect you but you sound like someone with a rotten pigeon brain. What has feminism to do with cheats? And why would he beat her like that! Where is his evidence! If she really has been cheating you think such a man would still allow her in his home?? Think before you write...senseless dumb house wife..##you are the ugly bitch!
DeleteAs a sensible man, if your Wife cheat n u can't bear to see her. File for divorce, instead of beating her as if she is an Animal.
DeleteI blame your rant on madness. Lord have mercy
DeleteI blame your rant on madness. Lord have mercy
DeleteU r a fool lara ilara,olosi d same will happen to u IJN useless fellow
DeleteThe fact that your name is feminine is sickening... I pray that this happens to you.. You are a fool and will die from beatings. Mark my words.
DeleteLara Ilara, if you'received from Ilara Mokin, I know a few women from that side, well bred and decent. Many men will be lucky to have them as wives but you are a disgrace to humanity for your comment.
DeleteDon blame Lara. From the way she spoke u will know that she is Muslim girl/lady that's been brainwashed with wrong doctrine which capitalize in suppressing women and their views in the society. It's just a shame they think that way
DeleteKnown anonymous
I guess those advising you to stay back are helping out with the bills? A violent marriage should not be endured no matter what, every other thing can be managed, but violence is a NO NO.
ReplyDeleteHaaa what a heartless man, it should have been better if u have left before now or else he might kill u, is better u leave than to die talking from experience, sorry sis
ReplyDeleteSo sorry
ReplyDeleteIt is well o
ReplyDelete...merited happiness
God, plz mek dis heartless man die for prison. Sorry for the pains madam
ReplyDeleteYou are very lucky to still be alive now.This is your last chance and any body advising you to return to such a marriage if your statement here is correct, may he or she or their daughter be married to this kind of animal. Don't preach religion on this as it has got nothing to do with it.
ReplyDeleteYour story is pathetic .Its unfortunate.I think your people need to take a realistic stand on this issue before you loose your life,it has no duplicate.
ReplyDeleteit is well
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...medicine after death
ReplyDeleteHe's sick and the earlier you run for your life the better for you!
ReplyDeleteMy dear, if not for those children, i could have asked you to suspend that marriage for now bcos a man that can treats his own wife this way can kill her one day all in the name of marriage. Am so sorry dear....
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This is your story we need to hear your husband side of the story we need to know whatever you did that provoked him to beat you up. Until we hear his side of the story we reserve our comment. I wish you quick recovery and a happy new year. Stay blessed.
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't matter what she did she didn't deserve this kind of treatment.I hope that basterd roots in hell!
DeleteIf this was your child, what do you suppose she could have done to warrant this treatment? Man, unless you hit your head bad as a kid, please utilize more percentage of your brain. Too much is lying fallow.
DeletePretty sad story but look at how u hv exonerated urself completely from any blame cos it's just ur side of the story now. I know some men are idiots but sometimes there is often a provocative action that leads to d beating. By the way where did he get machete from? Was it in ur kitchen or what??
ReplyDeleteAnno 00:18 and 00:21, the height of your stupidity knows no bounds! What a stupid thing to say.. Regardless of there being another side to the story, NOTHING justifies a beating of this magnitude.. He shouldn't be putting his hands on her PERIOD. Knock it off with the sexist mysogonistic ideology. What sort of rubbish approach is that ... I don't blame either of you since you were reared in the backwoods of zoo. Abegi, oshisko!
DeleteI blame her parents who have been witnessing this beatings and dey have not come to pack her load since!!Sometimes African tradition can be bullshit..Once Ur married u stay DIA and endure rubbish .If she was dead will d mother be able to house her ND d kids now?
ReplyDeleteI mean what's wrong with Ppl! He beats u once twice thrice and countless times u keep forgiving!!t u crazy woman ! Is he d only man in DS world ?Take Ur kids ND run.
He is a devil and he will meet his Waterloo in front.she should leave him to God to handle and heal properly .A lesson learnt not all men are human .If a man slaps u cos of an argument leave d relationship if Ur married get help if u think he will change .If beating is getting too much it's not a mistake again leave.must u die and give Ur family grief!
Ppl giving advise dat u stay ND endure r crazy.be alive and Ur extended family will take care o u ND d kids...Instead of Ur face turned into panda something mschew God dey
I see your point but it's too easier said than done. The problem most of the time is based on economics. Because it will get to a point, pride and shame will wear off but the common sense of economics like where would I go? What would I eat? If there are kids involved? How do I take care of the kids? If he takes my kids away from me (according to Nigerian law, he is likely to be given custody if they are married), how can I survive not being with my kids? And a host of other challenges especially if the husband is wealthy and influential?
DeleteThese are one of the reasons the Gender Bills must be passed but many haters including women themselves will start cursing those who support this Bill. They will curse feminists, women will dissociate themselves from them as if feminists are the ones making their lives miserable. If feminists are women who struggle so I as a woman can have a better life, treated better, and given a fair share of opportunities to progress then I am a proud feminists and I appaud others who promote this struggle. I owe nobody any apologies for it. No reasonable, self-respecting human beings will promote injustice on his person.
So women do really have a huge part to play by standing together and working with the few progressive men who understand justice, equity and fairness, those who appreciate education and not the ones with PhDs but will never rise above their bias. Then women must learn to not only be mentally emancipated but economically as well. The age of dependence on men for survival must end. You must have your own thing as well because when a man feeds, clothes and does everything for you, he is inclined to view you as his property that if you misbehave, he will treat you like his bad child rather than an adult. Having said that, women who find themselves in unhealthy relationships should make it priority to get out and find means of surviving. There are several help centres. They just need to reach out. Marriages should be given some serious attention these days because it's not just about the men and women, there will be innocent children that would be brought into this world and they deserve better, so much more than we can give them. So let's try to get it right at least.
My sister you endure no be small, what! the first signs would have told you what to do, when you are in a relationship and a man starts beating you the best you should do is to quit that relationship before it get deeper, but the man is a beast let him run the hand of the law will soon catch up with him. Men raising your hand to beat up a woman is an act of cowardliness, it is very dangerous to marry a jealous man or woman, pls if you wan marry shine your eye well well
ReplyDeleteHe just came back at 6:30 pm on December 25th and started acusing you of sleeping with his boy, really? I don't buy that story. In as much as I'm against domestic violence, there is a twist to this story. He must have seen something that made him suspect both of you. After all he's been living with the boy since, why now acuse you and him that day. He may have caught both of you red handed the reason why the boy fled and the painful injuries he inflicted on you. Whatever be the case, I advise people to leave an adulterous partner, instead of applying violence. It may cause death, or something fatal.
ReplyDeleteHe just came back at 6:30 pm on December 25th and started acusing you of sleeping with his boy, really? I don't buy that story. In as much as I'm against domestic violence, there is a twist to this story. He must have seen something that made him suspect both of you. After all he's been living with the boy since, why now acuse you and him that day. He may have caught both of you red handed the reason why the boy fled and the painful injuries he inflicted on you. Whatever be the case, I advise people to leave an adulterous partner, instead of applying violence. It may cause death, or something fatal.
ReplyDeleteHe just came back at 6:30 pm on December 25th and started acusing you of sleeping with his boy, really? I don't buy that story. In as much as I'm against domestic violence, there is a twist to this story. He must have seen something that made him suspect both of you. After all he's been living with the boy since, why now acuse you and him that day. He may have caught both of you red handed the reason why the boy fled and the painful injuries he inflicted on you. Whatever be the case, I advise people to leave an adulterous partner, instead of applying violence. It may cause death, or something fatal.
ReplyDeleteGo and get all your money back from the schools you went. They cheated you big time!
Delete@ anon 14:19, you are a bloated mumu.
DeleteOne sided story! No man can be that beastly to do this to another human for no reason, something must have provoked him
ReplyDeleteI will take this as ignorance, what happens to other options of settling issues? I can't believe some people are justifying such beastly act.
DeleteThis has got to stop! Fuck society!!!!!
ReplyDelete@ Lara llara pls wat are u saying???? Like seriously, people like u end up doing worse tins. so judgemental and saying nonsense, Wat happened to letting her leave ur house instead of trying to kill somebody's child. Even if she sleeps with d world, d best option is to do dis to her rite? We women are indeed our problems sha.
ReplyDeleteThis is very troubling because no woman deserves this kind of barbaric violence. The man needs proper deliverance. I pray she heals fast and also completely embrace God so all these accusations will end. From her normal picture her eyes ain't good. Im in a guys house now and I know he can't just begin to accuse or hit me if he hasn't seen or noticed something.
ReplyDeleteLadies try to be faithful or stay single if you are not ready to be faithful. Brothers never you raise your hand on a woman, it only shows you are a weak man. If you have an adulterous wife, leave her fast because even spiritually she is dragging you down.
From your logic, men who sleep around too are spiritually dragging their wives down too. Oho, no wonder many of these wives have such low spirituality.
DeleteThis is sad. Meanehile madam has started with pRick and t*to stories in 2017. Yet she wants girls to use their brain to make success. What a contradiction.
ReplyDeleteFirst I really condemn the beating, a man shouldn't get violent with his spouse. But here is a part of the story you guys ain't clearly looking at. The part where he locked her up and she begged him to take her to the hospital, he refused but he didn't waste no time to take her to a pastor when she requested and he eventually took her to the hospital when the prophetess asked him to. Here is the thing, am sure the lady has been cheating like he claimed and whenever people and her family try to settle it, they make it seem like it's a spiritual problem, so am sure when she requested to be taken to a pastor, he did so cos he felt it's a spiritual problem. She has always refused to go see a pastor but decided to when he locked her up that's why the man quickly rushed to take her to a prophetess. Am sure my point of view is near correct. #stopdomesticviolence
ReplyDeleteMan, you already gave yourself away. Your hashtag is dishonest. You are so desperate to declare this woman guilty of infidelity based on your illogical conclusion. You do not raise your hands on anyone especially adults. If a spouse cheats, there is no trusts and compromise cannot be reached, go your separate ways. Never raise those cowardly fists. If you feel like fighting, pick on someone your size.
DeleteI agree with you to an extent...but I think he's been brainwashed by the prophetess and that's why she has so much influence over him cos when the wife asked to be taken to the hospital he refused but when the prophetess told him to take her to the hospital, he obeyed
Deletesister,u must. have done something to warrant dis incredulous breach of trust.try adjust and prayer harder to change ur life and ur man's.Though, he shouldn't have gone dis far sha
ReplyDeleteKarma is a bitch! Soon, it would come close to home and you will remember this day you made this thoughtless comment.
DeleteHnnn! My dear, its a pathetic one, your husband went far, as much as I Dont support a man beating a woman, I like to tell you that some of us have been provoked that point in the past, I am one and apparently I preferred living single to being provoked to beating her. I read carefully to know perhaps he is a drunk but you never mentioned that. The two cases you cited were cases of suspicion. I beat mine up the day she made calls in my presence and told me she can keep relationships because I meant nothing to her anymore. If he accuses u of infidelity, you did not tell us how far you have tried to convincing him that you are faithful to him. Dear you have a good part of the blame. Its either that man is mentally sick or you are truly a cheat. To have beaten you to this extent and was heartless enough to keep u locked, you did some baf stuff or he is mad. My suggestion is that the marriage be terminated for sake of life. We quietly terminated mine. We are happier now. Its better for those kids to grow up under a single mother in race then to raise them in a violent home.
ReplyDeleteBaba General
You are a self-confessed woman beater! Congratulations!
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DeleteNo sweeties... The story might be true! My ex bf was so jealous that anytime I talk to a guy...that pratically means am screwing him..then after the beatings he would blike pls am sorry!! JEALOUS MEN EVRRYWHERE...
ReplyDeleteAnd finally he will come begging you with friends, pastors, relatives and colleagues crying and saying for the children's sake come back. You will end up going back to that marriage. End of super story
ReplyDeleteLikely outcome.
DeleteNo matter the offence, abuse against a woman is never an option.
ReplyDeleteOnly weak & insecure men resort to physical abuse against women.
If you are in an abusive Relationship or Marriage, save yourself, cos there is Only One Life. Don't Waste It on another human.
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This should a lesson to ladies who is looking forward for a marriage and those who are in marriage experiencing this kind situation ,study the man u want get married to , any man that has been beating before mariage you have to run from it.and if you are passinvg through same situation pls the earlier the better dont wait tilk you are almost kill ,people will say forgive him fpr how many times , please run from it.
ReplyDeleteThat man needs to be arrested and fast before every man just pounce on his wife... After all it's a free country... Abeg oo
ReplyDeleteTori owo fe Alahji.... Money makes you attractive but money won't give u peace.... Message to all d ladies who will marry any animal if pepper rest.
ReplyDelete@ lara and freeborn, may you both suffer a worst faith than she did. Idiots. @ freeborn, you are a perverted soul, asking to see the picture of her private part. Idiot!
ReplyDeleteThis is wife battering is getting toouch, Nigerian men are becoming glorify cowards in human skin and women thus is what you get for marrying for all the wrong reasons especially those who marry for plump sized dick like Chizzy, don't complain when you get battered for breakfast, lunch and dinner because what you ask is what you get, anyway wet in concern me let me go and enjoy my ancestral dick with peace, compatibility and rest of mind while I lounge with my sexy Victoria secret lingerie and gucci flip flops😂ancestors dicks are peaceful dicks!!!!
ReplyDeletepls no matter the offence of your wife ,she must not be touched men should learn to be patient ,i am not defending the lady,but please for God's sake men should never touched their wives, if it is that bad return her to her parents for questioning, the world has changed for an Igboman to beat her wife in this manner shows that he didn't pay dowry,is ABOMINATION, HE SHOULD GO TO HIS KINS MEN AND DO PROPER EXPLANATION.he is a disgrace to our culture values.for igbo race no 1 value is never touch your wife no-matter the offence,this may be one of these lagos marriage that never cross our Niger,VICTOR i jikwa anya gi ogini?
ReplyDeletepls no matter the offence of your wife ,she must not be touched men should learn to be patient ,i am not defending the lady,but please for God's sake men should never touched their wives, if it is that bad return her to her parents for questioning, the world has changed for an Igboman to beat her wife in this manner shows that he didn't pay dowry,is ABOMINATION, HE SHOULD GO TO HIS KINS MEN AND DO PROPER EXPLANATION.he is a disgrace to our culture values. victor ijikwa anya gi O gini?
ReplyDelete1. You this woman, what do you do for a living? you didn't say but i am sure having this kind of mad man for a husband made you a house wife. when a woman is empowered, she will never take this madness for one minute, gut yourself empowered.
ReplyDelete2. Any man, woman that tells you to go back to that madness will die before you even go back there and if you chose to go back on your own, know that death awaits you, just count your days from when you get there.
3. for anyone condemning her, like that shit hole Lara Ilara, may Gods judgment come down on you now, not later o, may you and all your generation rot in hell. You freeborn, i have always known you think from your ass but may her woes befall you a million times.
4. even if she is a cheating wife, abeg is it by force for the man to also keep her? even the bible allows divorce on the grounds of adultery.
All you shit charge and bail lawyers coming here to ask questions that even you have no answers to, keep on judging.
By the way, why are men so afraid of feminism??????? Well, not all men, only those sick ones that are not even sure they are men, probably having their asses fucked by other men and still pretending to be men in their homes.. SMH for all of you.
Find out now, if she is truely cheating, the husband's dick not functioning well and how old is the girl? small girl that her libido is 1001 percent functional. Mr wife beater, please divorce that girl and take care of your children let her go and find a functional man biko.
1. You this woman, what do you do for a living? you didn't say but i am sure having this kind of mad man for a husband made you a house wife. when a woman is empowered, she will never take this madness for one minute, gut yourself empowered.
ReplyDelete2. Any man, woman that tells you to go back to that madness will die before you even go back there and if you chose to go back on your own, know that death awaits you, just count your days from when you get there.
3. for anyone condemning her, like that shit hole Lara Ilara, may Gods judgment come down on you now, not later o, may you and all your generation rot in hell. You freeborn, i have always known you think from your ass but may her woes befall you a million times.
4. even if she is a cheating wife, abeg is it by force for the man to also keep her? even the bible allows divorce on the grounds of adultery.
All you shit charge and bail lawyers coming here to ask questions that even you have no answers to, keep on judging.
By the way, why are men so afraid of feminism??????? Well, not all men, only those sick ones that are not even sure they are men, probably having their asses fucked by other men and still pretending to be men in their homes.. SMH for all of you.
Find out now, if she is truely cheating, the husband's dick not functioning well and how old is the girl? small girl that her libido is 1001 percent functional. Mr wife beater, please divorce that girl and take care of your children let her go and find a functional man biko.
I think humans are losing their humanity in them. We all should be mindful of our companions
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that some men's jealousy is a psychological problem.their head is always telling them their spouse is cheating.the insecurity in them makes them feel any man around u is fucking u.alot of mental cases are really neglected.some men are just sick upstairs.madness hav so many degrees.one must not b naked to b seen as a mad person.
ReplyDeleteA man should not in any way raise a hand against a lady.it doesn't make sense at all.but ladies should know d type of men they got married to.so if u married D jealous type just like d lady,u shouldnt give him any reason to suspect.u shouldn't be too open to ppl in d name of being social.jeolous types need their wives to be the conservative type.so ladies should know this,to curb this kind of Wahala.
ReplyDeleteBefore coming across the advice on http://lucasreunitingexspell.webs.com my marriage was in serious danger of heading towards divorce. Now we are in a better place than we ever were before! I feel very lucky and blessed that we were able to turn our marriage around like this. My husband used to spend as much time as he could away from home. Now we are so in love and its funny now he had to go away for the week we have been talking on the phone every day. We can't wait to see each other again! If you want to stop your divorce, you totally can!! Don't give up on love!
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When marrying a rich dude is what u always wanted BT forget to pray for a good man with a good heart.....my dear leav the marriage no by force before u die before ur time.
ReplyDeleteI feel sorry for you madam, but the point is if truly you are sleeping with everybody in your neighbourhood , then you are a plague to womanhood something has to be done about that, am sure though the man maybe mentally sick but also you have to be purged
ReplyDeleteanother social media hoax...have anyone tried checking the said name"ifeoma ojiakor" on facebook? how true is this story? lots of holes in this said story. in the space of 5 days this woman was battered by her husband,locked indoors for two days,taken to a church on the third day,and from there to the hospital. the husband charged to court and granted bail all in the space of one week. remember that the 26th and 27th were public holidays. when did the police arrest her husband before charging him to court and also granting him bail all in the space of 3 working days of that christmas week? another ikeji hoax.
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