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Saturday 7 January 2017

"If that woman you want to be with is messing around, it's because you aren't her priority"- Tonto Dike

Nollywood actress took to Instagram to share her thoughts on love, friendship, self worth, career, and relationship. Read her powerful message, it sends a clear message that you should value yourself. Read it after the cut...

Most people are pretty obvious with their actions.
I rarely get my hopes up, not because I am a pessimist but because I am a realist.
Actions prove why words mean nothing, from relationships to work, from work to parties.
Intentions that aren't acted upon are just ideas, and ideas without action are just thoughts.
So if that woman you want to be with is messing around, it is because you aren't her priority.
If that guy doesn't call you for two weeks, he doesn't like you as much as you like him.
If that important meeting keeps on getting rescheduled, it means it is not that important to the other party.
If the government fail the people they are supposed to be representing time and time again, it means that they aren't really representing you, or they just aren't bothered.
The people who always text and call to ask how you are, these are the people who care.
The people who email you back straight away and the people who do things to help. These are the people you should invest your time in.
Remember your happiness starts with you.
Not with your relationship.
Not with your friends.
Not with your job.
But with you.
Things outside of you won't fix problems on the inside.
Love yourself properly and people will love you.
Don't echasee after people/Things who are running away, if it is meant to be it will be.
If not, there are plenty more fish in the sea x
Everything is everything 💐 #Peace #2017 #GOOD #MORNING MY NEIGHBORS #chkbrs #POKOBARS

22 comments:

  1. Poking baby... true word. Unfortunately people like people that do not care for them....hahahahahahahahaha

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  2. I really needed that..tnx tonto

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  3. Always loved Tonto. I knew there was more to her than the whole crazy demeanor she displays. She always seemed like good vibes to me. This is more like a constant reminder to everyone. invest your time wisely. Oguchago!

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  4. Tonto you really wonderful. I never knew you're wise lady.

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  5. Spoken like a retired ho

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    1. Cant take the words of a former lekki runs babe/actress serious. A golddigger who hopped from rich dick to rich dick especially on the island, now all of a sudden wants to become a marriage counselor. I feel like slap ur stupid face with my black d. Get da hell outta here! Tonta (traducelo en espanol)

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    2. Whoever yout are, this is mean and unnecessary.You sound bitter and jealous. Tonto is beautiful inside out. Just watching her act or looking at her picture gives me joy. Whatever you may feel about her, please get over it and find peace to get on with your life.#wise words from beautiful heart# Love Tonto

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    3. W.dee u are a big fool

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  6. Nice words from her. Really encouraging

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  7. Thank God for marriage and her child. It has brought out the much better person in Tonto.

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  8. Joyous babe,Linda ikeji first cousin7 January 2017 at 10:42

    Totolet the marriage adviser.

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  9. She has become very philosophical of late, the changes that comes with motherhood it is one experience that should happen to every woman you won't remain the same. Well said tontoletz

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  10. STFU
    -D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

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  11. W.dee or whatever your name.everybody has there past learn how to give respect when is due. Tonto keep up a good job.

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  12. Inspiring. Dont care who is preaching . wat matter is wat she s saying

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  13. Tonto! since when? you aint been in it long enough to advise PULEASEEEEE

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  14. True talk Tonto. Wise words from a beautiful person!

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  15. Doubt that I can take any advice from her..

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  16. You have said the correct thing, thanks Tonto

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