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Dear men, would you be friends with someone who dated your ex-girlfriend?

Is there anything wrong with being friends after you both dated the same girl? The discussion has been up since Joe Jonas and Wilmer Valderrama met up this week for lunch. They both dated Demi Lovato. Thoughts?
at 10/02/2016 10:37:00 am

91 comments:

  1. Davido's driver2 October 2016 at 10:38

    Bros over hoes

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    1. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 23:51

      So u refer to your gf / wife as a hoe?? How smart of u!

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    2. Unknown3 October 2016 at 08:54

      Lol..... Bro code!!!!
      Bros over Hoes






















      SCARFACE

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  2. Davido's driver2 October 2016 at 10:38

    Son of mercy!

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  3. AbokiDaWarriBoy2 October 2016 at 10:41

    Why not? Ex na ex,your past!



    ~glo rule your world~ cos I do•

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  4. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 10:41

    Dats to tell how men reason,quite different from women,if it were to be us women,d querral and fight begins,lets love ourselves,stop the fight,gossip,jealousy.

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  5. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:42

    Yes i will. Is that not ex huh?
    Bitches got what so ever thing they get.
    MEN ARE BETTER THAN WOMEN BECAUSE THEIR HEARTs ARE AS PURE AS HEAVEN THAN BITCHES THAT GET THE UNFORGIVING HEART OF TERRORIST BUHARI.

















    #sad indeed

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  6. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:43

    Yes i will. Is that not ex huh?
    Bitches got what so ever thing they get.
    MEN ARE BETTER THAN WOMEN BECAUSE THEIR HEARTs ARE AS PURE AS HEAVEN THAN BITCHES THAT GET THE UNFORGIVING HEART OF TERRORIST BUHARI.

















    #sad indeed

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  7. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:45

    I see nothing wrong in it. Its a free world.

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  8. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:46

    The girl's sexual prowess will be the center of the discussion.. That's the only problem here.... It sucks for girls, but for boys, it's fun















    ........... Liber maniac...........

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  9. Ohiren Erimiakhena2 October 2016 at 10:50

    Well,been friends with someone who dated an ex-girlfriend can only tell you the girl was not worth it,that she was valueless or you guys are of a feather.

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  10. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:50

    As long as we don't talk about the girl... dee

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  11. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:50

    They both probably don't love her...just wanted to test her

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  12. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:53

    There's nothing wrong with that cus my best friend and I dated same girl and we're still best friends.. It's all about understanding . mostly importantly we don't about discuss her

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  13. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:53

    I didn't see anything wrong with it oo
    i don't need to tell but you need to see what happen here

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  14. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:54

    WHY NOT







    AUNTY LINDA 👩

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  15. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:54

    heheh
    -D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

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  16. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 10:55

    Nothing bad there,my best friend dated my ex just six months after we had problem but to me is nothing and me and my guy are still best of friends ..no lele. Since she is my ex I don't bother in who she dates.

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  17. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 10:56

    OF COURSE YES.IT WOULD ENABLE US COMPARE NOTES AND SHARE EXPERIENCES.THE FORMER BOYFRIEND CAN ADVISE THE NEW ONE ON THE GIRL'S EROGENOUS ZONES AND G-SPOTS,MEANING THE GIRL WOULD ULTIMATELY BENEFIT SEXUALLY FROM THE FRIENDSHIP.

    ANONYMOUS

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  18. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:57

    Lolz oya over to our Lib Men

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  19. Unknown2 October 2016 at 10:59

    For me I can't

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  20. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:01

    Yes I will

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  21. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 11:05

    Sorry lol but guys have this kind of code.... 'Bros over how's That's why they don't fuss about dating same girl.

    Obasanjo writes Buhari An Open Letter

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  22. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:10

    Not bad.....

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  23. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:10

    I actualy hav a frnd who got married to som1 his frnd dated n dey r like best of frnds til now but dnt knw if d other frnd visits or dey meet only in joint or clubs. I respect da guy die cos I swear I no fit.

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  24. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:13

    For sure... my frn is my frn

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  25. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:13

    Yes,that word ex means past,old things have passed away,she can mingle with anyone she likes to mingle with ,that's her headache,compromising my relationship with my nigga because of my ex doesn't sound mature to me.
    The perfect ways on how to maintain your relationship with your partner

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  26. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:13

    Woman can never separate me from my frn

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  27. bells2 October 2016 at 11:15

    I did and we still friends... them girls be the sore loser thereafter.. even fell in love with the girl before I realized she's got such a high libido making her wanting sex from every available guy out there. Glad it never worked out

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  28. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:18

    Certainly can still be friends

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  29. Alloy Chikezie2 October 2016 at 11:19

    Deffinately we'll be friends. What's the big deal, life is really not that complex. The lifestyle of men is quite simple.

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  30. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:21

    Seriously I don't see anything wrong in be friend with someone that is dated my ex...if she is good for me she will not be my ex

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  31. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:23

    Lol... Yes, so we can slander her and talk about how bad she is on bed

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  32. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 11:26

    at least they have something in common

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  33. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 11:27

    Yes i can, but depend on how me and my ex girl friend end our relationship.

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  34. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 11:31

    I don't see anything wrong with that .

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  35. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:31

    "The enemy of my enemy is my friend"

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  36. Lanre2 October 2016 at 11:31

    Girlfriend, no big deal. Wifey ex, never ever.

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  37. Lanre2 October 2016 at 11:33

    Girlfriend, no big deal. Wifey ex, never ever.

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  38. Linda's childhood friend2 October 2016 at 11:36

    Nothing is wrong with that. I had similar experience.

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  39. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:40

    To me there's nothing wrong with being friend with someone who dated ur ex...oya over to men

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  40. Makjesty2 October 2016 at 11:47

    I'm cool with that, as long as we are peaceful!

    Long live the Queen...
    (Linda Ikeji)...

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  41. Makjesty2 October 2016 at 11:47

    I'm cool with that, as long as we are peaceful!

    Long live the Queen...
    (Linda Ikeji)...

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  42. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:47

    of course! That's why we are men

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  43. junia2 October 2016 at 11:54

    Nothing wrong pls, pple are too jobless n judgemental

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  44. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:55

    Nothing new under the sun


    OKORO UPGRADED

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  45. Yinx2 October 2016 at 11:58

    She was an ex-, so she's free to date anyone except my biological brother.

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  46. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:59

    If I were to be the one, I wouldn't

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  47. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:59

    Yes wats there! If u like/love them. There's no constitution depriving one from doing so. Even when it comes to siblings thing...

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  48. Unknown2 October 2016 at 11:59

    No big deal...shit happens.

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  49. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:02

    People have put a cluase to this relationship tbing because they ve had sex with them. The more reason we should abstain. Which most people can't and won't.

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  50. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:03

    Yes Ofcos, it's not even a strange tin,its our Nature.

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  51. Flora2 October 2016 at 12:18

    Na dem sabi

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  52. Mrs I2 October 2016 at 12:20

    Not good jor..

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  53. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:27

    Demi have gat good taste in men....two handsome men! Anyways, it's weird but men will always be men.

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  54. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:30

    Of course, why not?women are like movies,u watch,u give your friend to watch.

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  55. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:34

    They have both chop and clean mount nah.

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  56. World Tech2 October 2016 at 12:37

    Yes Is not bad

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  57. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 12:38

    It can only happen in obodo oyinbo

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  58. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:44

    Nothing wrong with it if u ask me.

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  59. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:46

    Guys pls answer...

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  60. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:46

    Yes

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  61. Mab2 October 2016 at 12:47

    There is nthn wrong with that

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  62. Unknown2 October 2016 at 12:58

    Well... I am guy.. Ion see nothing wrong with that... Infact we can be best of friends.. What are friends for actually..

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  63. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 12:58

    there's noting wrong with dat

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  64. Unknown2 October 2016 at 13:11

    Why not. Everything in life happens for a reason.

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  65. OSINANL2 October 2016 at 13:19

    Why not?

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  66. dewlite2 October 2016 at 13:27

    No and yes depending on the perspective. If it happened after breaking up on good terms, then there is no issue but if he was part of the reason for our break up or they dated before, it will be hard for me.

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  67. bro julius2 October 2016 at 13:27

    Why not

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  68. Unknown2 October 2016 at 13:27

    Men oya get in here pls...

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  69. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 13:36

    Absolutely yes. The way God mad men are diff from women

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  70. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 13:51

    yes, yes, and yes again. as long as the girl is a already an ex to both of them...

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  71. Unknown2 October 2016 at 14:10

    Chei,am sure they would have tabled her issue well nd as for that question,maybe the guys should answer













    Lib addict#just passing#

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  72. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 14:20

    Yes Linda, all of us guys can. What is there? shuooo

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  73. Unknown2 October 2016 at 14:39

    Why not! U said my ex n not my wife or girl.

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  74. Unknown2 October 2016 at 14:47

    Men ain't Women...We don't unnecessarily complicate our lives...

    Incredible India

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  75. Unknown2 October 2016 at 14:53

    Guys ngwanu make unu answer. Linda take note!

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  76. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 15:23

    Guys do it alot *current situation*

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  77. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 15:39

    Yes
    Dere is nothing wrong with dat,itsnormal

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  78. jamund2k2 October 2016 at 16:14

    my two best friends not only dated the same girl, but were sexually active with her. And all 3 of us are in a "clique". I find it very weird, but it seems they don't. Although they were not close back then but they knew each other (both guys and the girl all attend the same church)

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  79. Eddy Ogbunambala 2 October 2016 at 16:26

    Yup!

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  80. Eddy Ogbunambala 2 October 2016 at 16:26

    Yup!

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  81. Unknown2 October 2016 at 16:34

    Yes of course

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  82. Unknown2 October 2016 at 16:34

    Nothing wrong biko

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  83. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 18:14

    At last I saw freeborn's comment. That guy is so hilarious. He is Linda's first son. Well, he makes visit your blog. Hahaha

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  84. LAWBREAKERS 2 October 2016 at 19:29

    I dey craze?

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  85. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 19:37

    Hiann

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  86. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 21:38

    I don't understand why this uestions... Men have been going out with their ex-girlfriend boyfriend, and we've developed great friendship with them,including supporting them.

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  87. Anonymous2 October 2016 at 21:41

    I don't understand why this uestions... Men have been going out with their ex-girlfriend boyfriend, and we've developed great friendship with them,including supporting them.

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  88. Unknown3 October 2016 at 13:48

    Hell yeah! We're team mates

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  89. Unknown3 October 2016 at 15:20

    A very stupid question

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