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Friday 5 August 2016

Charly Boy replies Pastor Adeboye..Must You Marry?

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For the past few days, pastor Adeboye's advice to youths on marriage have been trending all over the place. I suspect that the good pastors yarns tells me that he is a man suspended in time, between old and new school. Don't get it twisted, in as much as I flow with his definition of a good woman, from his statement I see that the obvious way to his heart is through his stomach and of cause through prayers.
Good, No wahala. However our amiable pastor rubs it in when he starts to yarn Akpata, " Marry a warrior, if a girl cannot pray for one hour, don't marry her. Don't marry a girl who is lazy, who cannot cook. She needs to know how to do chores and cook because you cannot afford to eat out at all times"
Hmmm na wa! Really? Seriously? So if my wife to be can't rant, chant, shout and generally carry on as a prayer warrior, praying for a whole hour, the woman doesn't deserve a wife status. Abi? Oga pastor, that one na missyarn. Over praying does not make one a better husband or wife, because the world especially Naija is filled with Fake people and "Fakest" pastors. Does a man having a job guarantee that he will make a good husband? Does a woman knowing how to cook guarantee she will make a good wife? Haba. Ok I get it, The Nigerian god has an ear infection, so we must shout and pray for hours because that's the only way he may listen to our prayers, right? I know that a man is suppose to marry a helper and not a cook or a house girl. For the full article, kindly visit Charlyboy.me/must-you-marry/

82 comments:

  1. JOYOUS BABE,Linda Ikeji first Cousin5 August 2016 at 11:50

    the area father has spoken.

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    1. Bros, I respect you dy! Linda take note!

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    2. This days and age, people just hide behind their pen,phones whatever they use in order to destroy other people's image and reputation... This message wasn't for like they say its a thing of choice not force....but with what's happening in Nigeria now won't blame chally boy tho

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    3. Area father made sense abeg

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  2. Lol here coms d area father

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  3. He neva said u shud shout wen praying,or do u shout wen praying? U can pray 2hrs and not shout now. Abi Wat's dis rubbish u jst penned down?I dnt blame u sha,wen all ur body is paforated.

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  4. Well well spoken.
    Must u marry oooooooo ask am?
    HEAVENLY MAN U HAVE SAID IT ALL
    A WOrd IS ENOUGH FOR THE wise ONES.
    MR ADEBOYE OR WHAT EVER THINK THAT PRAYING TEN HOurs MAKE some ONE A CHILD OF GOD,THAT IS WHY U SEE A FORNICAtors,ADULTRAs AND CRIMINALS in their YORUBA CHURCHES SPEAKING IN TONGUE and many are prayer warriors WHY?BECAUSE THEY WERE TOLD TO PRAY AND NOt TO DESIST FROM EVIL
    ADEBOYE IS CONFUSE AS TERRORIST BUHARI
















    #sad indeed

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  5. Well well spoken.
    Must u marry oooooooo ask am?
    HEAVENLY MAN U HAVE SAID IT ALL
    A WOrd IS ENOUGH FOR THE wise ONES.
    MR ADEBOYE OR WHAT EVER THINK THAT PRAYING TEN HOurs MAKE some ONE A CHILD OF GOD,THAT IS WHY U SEE A FORNICAtors,ADULTRAs AND CRIMINALS in their YORUBA CHURCHES SPEAKING IN TONGUE and many are prayer warriors WHY?BECAUSE THEY WERE TOLD TO PRAY AND NOt TO DESIST FROM EVIL
    ADEBOYE IS CONFUSE AS TERRORIST BUHARI
















    #sad indeed

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    1. Don't say dt to him.remember he is a mere human being
      #nothankyoui'dratherbeselfmade

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  6. Okay o. A woman knowing how to cook does not guarantee a good marriage but it's always a plus for a woman to know how to cook.

    It's Friday guys, if you are a Muslim, log into this blog to drop ur Friday shutouts to your fellow Muslims in Nigeria and around the world..

    naijamuslims.blogspot.com

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  7. This is a counter argument thou. A woman knowing how to cook does not guarantee a good marriage but it's always a plus for a woman to know how to cook.

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  8. I think like him

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  9. haha
    -D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds

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  10. *****************************Charly boy must have a say********he must say somthing ******************* Nice one shaa ooo

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  11. *****************************Charly boy must have a say********he must say somthing ******************* Nice one shaa ooo

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  12. MORE TROLLS ON PASTOR ADEBOYE THO








    AUNTY LINDA 👩

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  13. Lolz






    #Somebody must to love me tonyt!!!

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  14. True talk.......I don't agree with the pastor saying a wife 2 b has 2 pray 4 1hr.....nop....I bluntly disagree

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  15. I don't expect a miserable monkey like Charley boy to understand spiritual and moral matters. When Men of God like ADEBOYE speaks on such issues, they speak out of wisdom and experience. They are in the best positions to comment on such cos they get to settle countless numbers of issues arising from today's marriage. And besides he was talking to genuine Christians and not immoral and irresponsible looking people with no authority over them like charlie. Not every message from such men of God is for everybody. So he should take note.

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  16. Ogbeni move on already,the Word wasnt for all!!! #Muva

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  17. Lol Crazy man..

    Na me talk am!

    Long Live Lib!!!

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  18. It's jst dat these pple dat call demselves christians dnt know nd undastand anytin abt God nd dis world,,in Islam,God said I created man nd jinns ONLY 4 dem 2 worship me,,d angels in paradise av no oda duty dan 2 worship Allah,so Y shudnt d pple of dis world worship God,,u tink u are in dis world 2 leave ur life d way u like,dat God hasn't place any rules nd regulation,bt I weep 4 u..,Go in search of knowledge,d devil is always ready 2 put meaningless,evil tots in ur mind,nd marriage is important,bt remember dis popular proverb dat state:a man who can't cater 4 himself shud nt boda 2 marry a wife,bt if u love her nd u av faith in God,trust me,God wud bless dat marriage nd make it blissful.

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  19. It's jst dat these pple dat call demselves christians dnt know nd undastand anytin abt God nd dis world,,in Islam,God said I created man nd jinns ONLY 4 dem 2 worship me,,d angels in paradise av no oda duty dan 2 worship Allah,so Y shudnt d pple of dis world worship God,,u tink u are in dis world 2 leave ur life d way u like,dat God hasn't place any rules nd regulation,bt I weep 4 u..,Go in search of knowledge,d devil is always ready 2 put meaningless,evil tots in ur mind,nd marriage is important,bt remember dis popular proverb dat state:a man who can't cater 4 himself shud nt boda 2 marry a wife,bt if u love her nd u av faith in God,trust me,God wud bless dat marriage nd make it blissful.

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  20. You are evil and that's what u are. I hate your personality with passion

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  21. 'Charly Man' u no go kill person ooo. Good points though

    Eva Da Diva...

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  22. Oga get lost ur jst a big baby ur d one yarning akpata..must u comment? Ewu
    Ur looks are very irritating!

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  23. Charly boy..am not suprised seeing your write-up. You are meant to be an elder in this country but obviously you are so retarded that wisdom has completely eluded you.

    I pity you and the people who look up to you as their mentor.
    Shameless she-man.

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  24. Charlie man keep ur write Ups coming,I always look forward to it. You hit again.

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  25. These folks are still draggin' this? Oga e don do jor! Haba

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  26. Pastor Adeboye Message on Marriage: Don't marry a man without a job and a girl who can't pray,cook and lazy.
    The truth behind the statement revealed.
    https://goo.gl/LX83Lw

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  27. You used the word misyarn may God forgive u. U Dnt have to comment.How many men have time to pray it's a woman (wife) that should pray bcuz all men think abt making money for the home.I hope you have heard the adage that the way to a man's heart is his throat (food). If the statement from Daddy is not okay for u read and walk away.pls post my comment

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    1. Wow! So God created a woman to pray!? God created man to serve him! Not think about money! So women don't think about money too? All the food that your
      Moniker cooked will you say your dad didn't cheat?? Look at your stupid question! How many men have time to pray!??? Do you read your bible at all? So you are to pursue the things of the flesh because you don't have time for your creator? On the last day will you tell God that your wife prayed for you? Will you tell God 'how many men have time to pray' ? You're a disgrace to Christianity, that's if you're one. You judge without common sense just to pick sides cos you believe a man over God in heaven!

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  28. Seriously!!!!any time I come across the post,it's quite painful....it's not dat ur wife will not cook 4 the hubby but the main objective or reason for you getting married to her shld not be bcus of food!

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  29. true talk. I concur. all this nowadays pastors, preaching upside down. abeg o. engr Emy

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    1. So, for ur own stupid mind, Pastor Adeboye is a 'nowadays pastor'? Goat!

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  30. Do you know marriage can either make or mar your destiny.
    Read the truth behind Pastor Adeboye Message on Marriage in the post on
    https://goo.gl/LX83Lw
    Are you wise or foolish?

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  31. Charly,I respect your views but in this case I wish you were more polite.

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  32. PASTOR ADEBOYE IS AN ORACLE OF GOD,YOU NEED TO WATCH WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT THE MAN OF GOD AS HE IS SPEAKING IN THE SPIRIT AND YOU ARE SPEAKING IN THE FLESH THE WORD OF GOD STANDS FOREVER CIVILIZATION OR NO CIVILIZATION .REPENT AND DON'T LET THE WRATH OF GOD COME UPON YOU CHARLYBOY.

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    1. No be only Oracle, Na SAP


      LOOOOOOL


      Gerrarahea men, shiii


      We are all humans.

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    2. No be only oracle,what of diety,or better still equatw him to God.gullible people brainwashed by religion

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  33. PASTOR ADEBOYE IS AN ORACLE OF GOD,YOU NEED TO WATCH WHAT YOU SAY ABOUT THE MAN OF GOD AS HE IS SPEAKING IN THE SPIRIT AND YOU ARE SPEAKING IN THE FLESH THE WORD OF GOD STANDS FOREVER CIVILIZATION OR NO CIVILIZATION .REPENT AND DON'T LET THE WRATH OF GOD COME UPON YOU CHARLYBOY.

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  34. Mr Charly whatever, please try n get the CD listen to it carefully and all the analysis of the man of God before judging then you'll have full understanding of what he's saying. A woman who can pray for one hour is just a way of saying when trouble comes I have a partner who will seek the right source and not people that will make matters worse or better still my wife can Intercede for me. Secondly how long will you eat out? Forever?. Again a woman marrying a man that has a job means her future and that of her unborn children is secured even in terms of saving for the rainy days. When anything happens she has hope that she didn't marry a lazy man,soonest things will work out for good. All this make marriage work. Pastor adeboye is only trying to say open your eyes so that you will not say nobody told me. Shalom

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    1. Mrs Peace, haven't u see a man DAT has job dat is not responsible ?, marring a man dat has a job is never a guarantee of a good husband or home 2 secure d future of ur children, haven't u see a woman dat is suffering while d husband is working ?, in d side of a wife, marring a woman who can cook & pray 4 1hr does not guarantee her a good woman, what if d woman knows how 2 cook & prays very well but has oda bad characters like stealing, adulterous life, quarrel some, no 4giving spirit etc, so who is she den ?, 4 me I don't agree wit dat pastor's advice bcos when I marry my wife I hav no job but after some yrs dat marriage open way 4 us and now both of us ar enjoying it bcos we work 2geda 4 d breakthrough, ladies or Girls if u like wait 4 already made husband na ur body go tel u, after 40yrs witout husband dat is when u will b moving from one prayer house 2 d oda asking 4 any one 2 settle down, dat is when day don break, remember u ar running ur own race not pastor's race, tank u.

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  35. if a man wants marry a woman who can cook, let him marry a food blogger or chef or better join a foodie group on FB. Simple!

    And if he wants a 1hr+ prayer warrior, let him go to/join MFM or white garment church simple!

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    1. U are stupid and ignorant show some respect idiot

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  36. Oga charlie man,sorry, charlie boy. chill, relax, think and research, ull understand what the man of God is saying, i already have. I know as a human being u will also criticize him if he says dont marry a prostitute or a thief. Its all about understanding sir

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  37. What concerns light and darkness? Tgis ogbanje man.

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  38. God bless you more Charly but everyone is entitled to their own opinion but as we all know from the Bible that our Lord Jesus never teaches us to marry a prayer warrior or not to marry a lazy woman that cannot cook or a man without a job. My concern is that so many Christians mostly in Nigeria today have been so much brain washed by their pastors that they even preferred to save and invest there monies and resource in the heavenly bank that is been managed by the pastor on earth. If men can marry women that has no job and open stores for them and establishe them into business i don't see any reason why a woman will not do same to a man if she is financially capable. Cooking and laziness is something you can change in a person so is not a reason not to marry her if you throughly love her. Thanks and more blessing from God

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    1. He also talks about keeping bears, what has keeping bears has 2 do wit what God requires from us?, open ur Bible from Genesis 2 Revelations u will not see were God said DAT keeping bears is a sin or meks u an unbeliever , brodas & Sistas when ar we going 2 tek God's words & instructions more serious Dan dos pastors DAT ar fomin dia own version, remember what d Bible said DAT a time shall come even d Elect wil b deceived, meaning DAT some of Dem who knows d truth will deviate from d truth, b wise, tank u.

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  39. Papa Adeboye could certainly not be addressing Charly Boy and gang. That is so sure.

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  40. Linda pls there are limits to things stop all this Pastor Adeboye this and that if it continues I will never visit ur blog again. It's disrespectful

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    1. Byeee, there are still millions of us here :)

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  41. Charly boy, respect anytime 4 u jare. U stand by the truth all d time, thanks 4 informing us as well dat we get plenty fake ass pastors in Nigeria dat miss yarn.

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  42. Valid points. Nigerians should stop idolising that servant of God.

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  43. I hardly comment of Linda's blog but ... Is this Charlie not rumored to be illuminati .. That aside ... We humans don't even know out real enemies.. We wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers.. If you defeated .. Would you know why?

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  44. The down side of this pastors advice is huge! Was discusinng Dis matter with my guys and talking from neutral point of view, baba got it wrong. Marriage advice should be simple and non baise. Don't state it like u are god giving 10 commandments. So an unemployed guy cannot marry? Wonder what Melinda gates thought of bill gates before she married is then broke ass who has now turned out to be d richest man in the world. If u want to advice on marrying an unemployed man, put it more subtly by saying that it is better not to marry a lazy man, a lazy man is one who when he is provided with opportunities just plainly doesn't want to work. But an inspiring hard working man may be handicapped for a phase of his life due to financial mistakes,not having the right connects, life's delaying ways. On the side of a good wife must pray and cook. Yes those are nice qualities but my dear what about teaching our Nigerian girls to become self reliant. Marriage is joint virtue not a woman's way to riches, cooking is an attribute that can be learnt, but manners is priceless. A woman who has manners and virtues of a good wife far outplays a wife who cooks well but disrespect and spites her man. Conclusively, baba adeboye is not a god and he too like any man has made a blunder by being stereotyped and one sided.

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  45. Charly is right, hmm no he's not.
    Adeboye is right. Hmm yes he is right


    Mr. Bob is your brother

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  46. @charlie, you obviously know that what pastor Adeboye said was true.You guys dont need to agree with what he said, but he is giving a warning which can be avoided now before somebody go say i no do again or commit suicide or kill the other person. Collect wisdom, when it see it.

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  47. One man's experience in marriage is not a yardstick for another person. Charly Boy I support you. Most marriages are in shambles today because of bad advice.

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  48. Charle boy, must you talk? u call yourself a grandpa, yet you insult a man of God. it means you children's children too can do worst things. i beg park.

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  49. Pastors and their "attention seeking preachings". They are only good at brain washing their congregation. We keep praying for more than one hour yet we don't display the basic Christian qualities.. SMH

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  50. Ruthiesruthless6 August 2016 at 08:27

    All of them saying d pastor is right must be redeem members. Blindly following d leader to pit. A 1hr prayer session does not guarantee u a gud woman,most of dem are hypocritices. Charly may be illuminati,devil or anytin u call him-but he made common sense! Peace out!

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  51. dude ur just mis yarning too old man... i didnt hear when he said they should shout while praying if you want go and marry a whore who will be wearing g string and climbing your bikes and be eating out even when your ancestors visit you guys she will buy food for them and not cook then you will understand what the pastor was saying....
    charly boy u done fucked up on this man

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  52. paryer is a + to every human life and by parying for 1 or 2hours that makes you holy, most words using this day in are making people to fair, because what i no is you and your God don,t let pastors or Rev miss lead you.Obviously God is the center piece of your marriage, but nothing besides the Lord is more important than your spouse. Not the kids, not church, not spreading the gospel, nothing!

    If you had one rope and you had to choose between your spouse or everything else in the world hanging off a cliff, you choose your spouse.|

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  53. paryer is a + to every human life and by parying for 1 or 2hours that makes you holy, most words using this day in are making people to fair, because what i no is you and your God don,t let pastors or Rev miss lead you.Obviously God is the center piece of your marriage, but nothing besides the Lord is more important than your spouse. Not the kids, not church, not spreading the gospel, nothing!

    If you had one rope and you had to choose between your spouse or everything else in the world hanging off a cliff, you choose your spouse.|

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  54. The word from E.A Adeboye is not meant for every man, It is meant for men who has identified God's purpose for their life and want to achieve them. And its just a father's advice to his son and his sons understands perfectly well what he meant by those statement. If Adeboye is not your spiritual father,please mind your business and stay off the advice.

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  55. The word from E.A Adeboye is not meant for every man, It is meant for men who has identified God's purpose for their life and want to achieve them. And its just a father's advice to his son and his sons understands perfectly well what he meant by those statement. If Adeboye is not your spiritual father,please mind your business and stay off the advice.

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  56. The message daddy G.O shared was for the wise, I mean the born again children of God. The word of God is foolishness to the unsaved. Charley boy or Charly girl or Charly father, pls give your life to Jesus if you must understand the word of God that is Spirit. We the true children of God understands what daddy G.O was saying bcos it is a word for the wise. God loves you,#repent genuinely #

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  57. There are some sense in his words though.

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  58. Nothing on this earth is perfect.if the so called man of God is saying that his wife is a good cook and a,prayer warrior.all fine and good,whatever floats his boat

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