forgiveness is key...people have worst story but they let go....GOD is love and love is GOD...God has forgiven him talk more u...if u have the nature of GOD in u,its easy to forgive..if u hold sometin on the floor then u ar on the floor with that tin..if u refuse to forgive then u ll not b forgiven...
just forgive. do yourself a favour and forgive him. u have a similar story with Joyce Meyer, pls get her book on forgiveness,"Do yourself a favour and Forgive by Joyce Meyer". pls
Doo God bless you for this divine response and matured answer to a difficult and complex question. God bless you. You are called by God to counsel lost souls. Even though I don't know you your words touched my heart deeply.
Hmm! I think the question is what kind of evil posed the Father to do such a disgusting thing and why do the father allowed himself to be use by such Evil??? In my opinion, such father doesn't deserve forgiveness. He should be left alone to die with Guilt. Just cross him out of your life. I don't take rape lightly
DM is direct message @precious, Forgiving your father that raped you can only be done by Gods grace and healing..it might be difficult but it is possible
Wow,forgiveness is not as easy as people think...its one thing to forget and then its another to forget especially if u've got to keep facing this person every time.its like having a scar on ur face and having to look at a mirror everyday.. U'd never forget how u got that scar especially if it were caused by someone..first thing first,confrontation.. Confront ur dad and forgive him..let him know ur the better person telling him the forgiveness is not for him but for yourself... Then you give urself the best love u can give and move on with ur life...
Yes, you can actually forgive him for your own peace of mind, just accepting that some people are mentally deficient and unfortunately, one of them is your dad. Believe it many psychiatric cases like that are some people's dad. Your case is not unique so learn to rise above all that sense of guilt that you may have. However, his ass needs to be in jail, he needs to be straightened out properly even if he swears now he is changed or remorseful. There is no better way to show remorse than for him to submit himself for punishment and deterence so others who have no moral sense and responsibilities can be aware there are consequences. The shame is his. You my sister are a champion. Wish you God's love and peace.
Forgiveness, its not easy.but d best u can do for yourself.the father might ask for forgiveness from God and move on.and u also need to move on.dont house anger for long,its dangerous n unhealthy
Hi dear, am a social worker and a counsellor. The truth is you have to let go. Please talk to a counsellor. Its very hard but for your sake and for you to heal and move on with your goals in life you have to let go.
Pray to God and ask for the heart to forgive, then act normal with him as if nothing happened. With time, God will give you the heart to forgive and forget completely
By giving him space to think anout what he has done. Chances are, u can't even stand the sight of him. U might end up killing him if u are not careful.
By giving him space to think anout what he has done. Chances are, u can't even stand the sight of him. U might end up killing him if u are not careful.
I was raped by my Mum's younger sister(aunt) for 4 years, started when I was 7 years old. I told no one in the family till now. but I found peace the moment I forgave her, Now she is late. I pray my story helps you heal....
What about when it's worse than rape. Your destiny is being diverted to your father, your marriage is tied, your life is basically covenanted in what you know nothing about and the only thing that breaks it is your father has to die. So many pastors tell you same thing. They basically say this can be broken if he comes to deliverance but he refuses. Every time you take a phone call from your father , something goes wrong. You observe it. Happy Father's day ko! Some daughters are in deep shit and need Divine Intervention. Rape is a soft issue if that is the only crime. Some daughters have so much money, no husbands, husbands, no money, and some, no money, no husbands, some have both and no kids. Very cruel world. Some don't even know what's wrong!!! Iffy.
U just have to forgive so you can move on.....except this is number 70x7 offence then u can move on without forgiving him but If it has not gotten to that yet then it means u have no choice than to forgive him...its scriptural...
I don't know why people think that forgiving someone always means you have to carry on as if nothing happened. NO. I can relate to this because I've had the same experience. Forcing yourself to act like nothing happened all in the name of forgiveness will only aggravate the pain, infact it kills you inside. It's very normal to be angry at him because he violated you. Don't listen to anyone that tells you not to be angry. If you can,please put a space between you and this so-called father and PERMIT yourself to heal. See a counsellor or talk to your pastor's wife and surround yourself with people who love you and value you. Study God's word and meditate on His love for you always. Learn to love yourself. Don't allow any feeling of guilt, it's NOT your fault. You'll gradually begin to heal and it's only when you start to heal and let go that you can forgive your father. The pain won't go away easily but God is faithful.
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Just try n let it go, let God deal with him
...merited happiness
You don't forgive him,he's already "dead" to you, just forget he ever existed.
Just because it is called forgiveness, you just have to forgive. It's divine....... ask God for the strength.
Forgiveness won't be the issue for me because I fear God but trust will be impossible. I pray the Lord helps the person in question to forget somehow.
U have to forgive him. So that u can move on.
One can forgive, just to get rid of the bitterness but can't forget. Linda take note!
Though forgiveness is cheap,but honestly i won't forgive d bastard.
Hmmmmm this one hard oo
This is a tough one but it will take the grace of God only. One will forgive so that one can move on with life.
My dear no idea
the only way I can forgive him is if he disappeared from the surface of the earth.
I won't lie to u,i can never forgive such father mbok
By killing him
Signed
#LibBadBoy
Forgive bawo?disown him..gbam
forgiveness is key...people have worst story but they let go....GOD is love and love is GOD...God has forgiven him talk more u...if u have the nature of GOD in u,its easy to forgive..if u hold sometin on the floor then u ar on the floor with that tin..if u refuse to forgive then u ll not b forgiven...
Abeg abi novice for this one o! Which one is DM?
just forgive. do yourself a favour and forgive him. u have a similar story with Joyce Meyer, pls get her book on forgiveness,"Do yourself a favour and Forgive by Joyce Meyer". pls
You don't
Send him to hell and ask devil to make him the chief corner stone in hellfire. That's a nice position in hell.
Forgive
Ladies share ur thought
DM means Direct Message.
Kill him , den forgive him at dead.
Doo God bless you for this divine response and matured answer to a difficult and complex question. God bless you. You are called by God to counsel lost souls. Even though I don't know you your words touched my heart deeply.
Google is ur friend, anyway it means direct message girl.
Direct Message on Instagram
Go ahead and forgive him still because he's not year father. He can't be.
Hmm! I think the question is what kind of evil posed the Father to do such a disgusting thing and why do the father allowed himself to be use by such Evil??? In my opinion, such father doesn't deserve forgiveness. He should be left alone to die with Guilt. Just cross him out of your life. I don't take rape lightly
Anyhow!! Just forgive
You pray sincerely and God will you the type of forgiveness that Jesus had to have prayed for mankind after they crucified him.
U can't. SIMPLE
Damn, this is hard
DM is direct message @precious, Forgiving your father that raped you can only be done by Gods grace and healing..it might be difficult but it is possible
The reason she DM'd you was bcuz she wanted it to be kept between u and ha.....
Direct message
Forgiveness deferred. The end of the road.
The only reason that beast should be forgiven is because of God.
Cos is fathers day that's why ur sending dis..girls re jes evil
Direct message
Is hard to forgive, but don't forgive if you will not forget.
Wow,forgiveness is not as easy as people think...its one thing to forget and then its another to forget especially if u've got to keep facing this person every time.its like having a scar on ur face and having to look at a mirror everyday.. U'd never forget how u got that scar especially if it were caused by someone..first thing first,confrontation.. Confront ur dad and forgive him..let him know ur the better person telling him the forgiveness is not for him but for yourself... Then you give urself the best love u can give and move on with ur life...
That's tough one
Me I nor go forgive that man oooo lele
Creepy Question for the ladies
It's really terrible and very difficult to forgive such a monster,except by the special grace of God.
If u cant forgive, carry d pain for d rest of ur life and see who suffers more
Direct message!
well I think it means (direct message)
Yes, you can actually forgive him for your own peace of mind, just accepting that some people are mentally deficient and unfortunately, one of them is your dad. Believe it many psychiatric cases like that are some people's dad. Your case is not unique so learn to rise above all that sense of guilt that you may have. However, his ass needs to be in jail, he needs to be straightened out properly even if he swears now he is changed or remorseful. There is no better way to show remorse than for him to submit himself for punishment and deterence so others who have no moral sense and responsibilities can be aware there are consequences. The shame is his. You my sister are a champion. Wish you God's love and peace.
Forget about the past
NEVER
Forget about the past
************************************no be I'm papa be dat*********d man knws
Same way Jesus while on the cross forgave those who nailed him to the cross
Direct message
Forgiveness is the answer to it.
says, Genevieve.
'direct message'
Direct message
Hmmmmm....dis is a tough one though
Huh? HMMM! That's a Very Tall ladder
Forgiveness, its not easy.but d best u can do for yourself.the father might ask for forgiveness from God and move on.and u also need to move on.dont house anger for long,its dangerous n unhealthy
Direct Message
Freddie says xo......
Kill him
...You no get data ask Google!
Direct message (private)
After ur dad realizing his wen deeds I guess u should kip it as secret and forgive him mental and physically and get closer to God always
Hi dear, am a social worker and a counsellor. The truth is you have to let go. Please talk to a counsellor. Its very hard but for your sake and for you to heal and move on with your goals in life you have to let go.
Pray to God and ask for the heart to forgive, then act normal with him as if nothing happened. With time, God will give you the heart to forgive and forget completely
I urge u to do a DNA test. there is a 95% chance he isnt your biological dad.
Direct message is dm
By giving him space to think anout what he has done. Chances are, u can't even stand the sight of him. U might end up killing him if u are not careful.
By giving him space to think anout what he has done. Chances are, u can't even stand the sight of him. U might end up killing him if u are not careful.
How can your own father even think of doing such evil to you..
OKORO UPGRADED
The thunder that will fire you in nuclear powered.. I go shoot the guy..
The thunder that will fire you in nuclear powered.. I go shoot the guy..
I was raped by my Mum's younger sister(aunt) for 4 years, started when I was 7 years old. I told no one in the family till now. but I found peace the moment I forgave her, Now she is late. I pray my story helps you heal....
What about when it's worse than rape. Your destiny is being diverted to your father, your marriage is tied, your life is basically covenanted in what you know nothing about and the only thing that breaks it is your father has to die. So many pastors tell you same thing. They basically say this can be broken if he comes to deliverance but he refuses. Every time you take a phone call from your father , something goes wrong. You observe it. Happy Father's day ko! Some daughters are in deep shit and need Divine Intervention. Rape is a soft issue if that is the only crime. Some daughters have so much money, no husbands, husbands, no money, and some, no money, no husbands, some have both and no kids. Very cruel world. Some don't even know what's wrong!!!
Iffy.
U just have to forgive so you can move on.....except this is number 70x7 offence then u can move on without forgiving him but If it has not gotten to that yet then it means u have no choice than to forgive him...its scriptural...
I don't know why people think that forgiving someone always means you have to carry on as if nothing happened. NO. I can relate to this because I've had the same experience. Forcing yourself to act like nothing happened all in the name of forgiveness will only aggravate the pain, infact it kills you inside. It's very normal to be angry at him because he violated you. Don't listen to anyone that tells you not to be angry. If you can,please put a space between you and this so-called father and PERMIT yourself to heal. See a counsellor or talk to your pastor's wife and surround yourself with people who love you and value you. Study God's word and meditate on His love for you always. Learn to love yourself. Don't allow any feeling of guilt, it's NOT your fault. You'll gradually begin to heal and it's only when you start to heal and let go that you can forgive your father. The pain won't go away easily but God is faithful.
Difficult but possible
Eva Da Diva...
shoot him
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