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'Kara Palmore, a US based woman shared these photos of her face swollen
up after her husband of a year beat her blue back following a
disagreement. She wrote
"I decided to
snap a pic of my face today... Not for sympathy because I don't need it!
As ugly as I may feel right now, I know that the feeling is only
temporary and after having a few conversations with my family and
friends I was forced to remember who and whose I am!
The beauty in my face was altered but NOT in my heart!!! Yes I am still
angry because the man that I trusted with my life and my heart was
determined to KILL ME!!! My spirit and heart was BROKEN but the more
that I think about it the more that I feel led to share my story! I will
be married for a year on the 28th of this month and the man that I
chose to spend the rest of my life with was not who I thought he was! Do
I love him? Absolutely and because I love him I was blinded by the
signs that he had already given me! When someone shows you who they are
BELIEVE them! I wanted to see the good in him, I wanted to help him
shake whatever it was that had a hold on his mind but a person has to
first want that for themselves! As hard as it is I have to forgive that
man regardless of what he did to me! I refuse to allow this situation to
hinder my growth and all the blessings that are in store for me! I
trust that God will get me THROUGH this situation and I will come out on
top!
I AM AGAINST DOMESTIC VIOLENCE and NO one should EVER have to go through
what I went through! If you are in an abusive relationship GET OUT OF
IT... Trust GOD!!! And #LIVE".
This is really bad
ReplyDeleteSorry dear...
ReplyDeleteHmmm,this is serious oh. May God help us!
ReplyDeleteLol mumu
ReplyDeleteYou cannotm I repeat. Cannot change a man. When he shows u signs take it as God's gift and run!
DeleteStay away from abusive men/marriage.
ReplyDeleteOkbye.
Jesus christ! This is bad..my dear just pray to God and he will turn things around the devil wanna destroy ur home pray against it..for d rest of us still single, if u have an abusive partner, my dear run for ur life o
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ReplyDeleteIf this is what marriage is all about then I don't want, what happen to the love they profess when coming to ask for your hand in marriage? #TeamSelfLove🙌
ReplyDeleteIf this is what marriage is all about then I don't want, what happen to the love they profess when coming to ask for your hand in marriage? #TeamSelfLove🙌
ReplyDeleteSo bad. A man is nt suppose to hit a woman no mata wat.
ReplyDeleteI wonder what people do during courtship? Have fun & fantasize? I'm sure the violence signs were there but she ignored it, thinking she could change him or he could change.Most women are victims of violence because the first time the man threw his tantrums, raised his hands like he wanna beat em but held himself, they taught him that it was ok to do that.
ReplyDeleteGosh!!!
She dey tongue out join???lmao
ReplyDeletewe ladies like ignoring the warning signs and that is why we fall victim of this kind of things............pls ladies out do not ignore warning signs no matter how little it may look. you cant change a man unless the change comes from within.
ReplyDeleteIt's only a cowardly man that hits a woman.
ReplyDelete#LIB ADDICT#
WTF! Changing of beauty
ReplyDeletewhere is she from self. a pity u. just want to be married and nothing more.
ReplyDeleteThank God for ur life and the forgiveness. But please why is it that is only on the face men like hitting woman
ReplyDeleteToo bad
ReplyDeletePOPULAR LIB READER!
Will Keep on saying This Men who raise up their hands to Beat up their Wives Will not Live Long , They will not Fulfill their destiny . Am so Sorry for sounding like this cause have seen people close to me going through the same thing and I know how heart breaking it Is .
ReplyDeleteHow will a sensible upright Man beat up his Wife ontop waytin ??? You will beat ur Wife and u expect Blessings from above to Follow You ?? HELL NO na Divine Course from the Pit of Hell go be una portion to all husband's way dey beat their wife .
If u feel like fighting why not go fight Boko haram or go to the Garage and fight with the thugs .
Damolia.DEW
Oh wow!
ReplyDeleteHusbands haff nau gone mad o..
Ladies, take the advice and leave sympathy in this..
Good to know dat she's back to her senses. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteLadies, don't wait to leave him in death. Leave a violent man today!!!!
ReplyDeleteGod will see u thru
ReplyDeleteOh nooo!!! Thats terrible
ReplyDeletejamilashaibu15@yahoo.com
Seriously...that is wickedness in some men. Where is the love at the begining.(www.noozyesblogspot.com)
ReplyDeleteMadam watin you do your husband wey make am beat you like this.however,nothing can justify this.this is too bad.
ReplyDeleteAnd she is still posing.
ReplyDeleteAm seriously against abusive relationship but its not that easy to get out of it. Esp wen the guy always come back to apologize. God bless all women.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure in ur bid 2 get married because of your age, just like u rightly said, u ignored d signs. Well d earlier u get out d better. You hv a beast as a husband. Besides why d tongue out in d second pic.
ReplyDeleteThis is no right, men who beat woman should be castrated.
ReplyDeleteEiyah, sorry ma, dat man is a beast. Linda observe!
ReplyDeleteAnd she still dey marry
ReplyDeleteChai pele. glad ur eye don open
ReplyDelete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
I hope she dumps his ass
ReplyDeleteRun before he kills you.
ReplyDeleteRun for your life, he will not change
ReplyDeletePity her condition but God will she her thru. Linda take note
ReplyDeleteThe woman still dey snap selfie with tongue out lwkmd! Just go confront the woman now she will tell you I still love him.
ReplyDeleteit's ok....the problem is he must have been giving you the signs before marriage paradventure you refuse to see it which is still the way you think right now.Love is not blind, if before marriage you can't change this very aspect quit the relationship.
ReplyDeleteThe name self. Jankara means joke. Why would they make p up these names?
ReplyDeleteNawa o,this man I s an animal.too bad.
ReplyDeletewhy are some men wild animal? this is very bad. she is right wen u see the signal run for ur life at times we try to see the good side and forget the bad side. pele Ma. it is well and those in an abusive relationship better run for ur life before its too late.
ReplyDeleteits a pity all these are happening. we have to join hands together to build a violence free world with equity and justice.
ReplyDeleteCOURTESY: SDI
Nawaooo Abeg run for your life
ReplyDeleteMadam u fit die for his hand ooO find ur way. i no wan watch horror graphic tomorrow.
ReplyDeleteMy question is why can't these women fight back violence is not the answers but if a man should lay his hands on me am so ready to hit back and fight with all I have got, I watched my dad brutally beat up my mum and u know what, she would just lay down there crying! I think men do this a lot cos in there mind women are weak, such men can't stand to fight their fellow men am telling you, the moment women learn to defend them selves these weak men will learn to control their stupid temper
ReplyDeleteIf you try to fight back be readu to lose life an enraged man has the urge to kill. Id rather the woman tries to remove herself from the scene. However, if she can physically defend herself. Then by all means she should.
DeleteChia there is God oooooooo.
ReplyDeletehow can a man beat his wife like this.
Sorry dear.
ReplyDelete#FINEST
Na form men de form! Often times they are not in love only in lust and when the euphoria of early marriage wears thin they begin to show their true colours. If you truly love smone you will not manhandle d person peiod
ReplyDeleteGod punish the devil. Usually wife beaters show there skills from day 1 of their marriage. I just wonder why there could be any justification for that.
ReplyDeletethis is a lesson for her, next time she will know how to talk to a man. Have you learn a lesson?
ReplyDeleteChoi.. Pure evil frm d horse-band
ReplyDeleteEnugu's second shoe designer
So bad
ReplyDeleteI wonder wen domestic violence will be a thing of the past!so some men are still backward and stupid enough to hit and batter women!isokay!God will catch all of U soon!
ReplyDeleteShe. Should just flee. Period! God please make her utilize her common sense and run run for dear life o.Amen! Cos -I'm cock sure shes still gon stick her ass in the bloody union.
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