Confront him with what you have in mind. He can't know except you tell him. If he truly want you for a wife he would make your understand why he hasn't proposed. Linda take note!
PlanA or B, doesn't necessarily mean promiscuity cos someone already sleeping with only one partner without marriage=promiscuity 4both sexes. STOP CALLING EVIL GOOD.
From a husband point of view: I saw my wife, within two weeks I knew she was wife material. I put d ring in it. No Moni for my pocket Oo but she believed in me ad where my vision will take us.
Na small boy she dey date, em still dey mature...Abeg dump am...no waste time....Na small girl e go last last marry. I can't deceive u.
Well the truth of the marter is that you haven't seen someone better than him for now, I don't believe girls expecially in Nigeria wait for no body, c of o goes to higher bidder.
Well the truth of the marter is that you haven't seen someone better than him for now, I don't believe girls expecially in Nigeria wait for no body, c of o goes to higher bidder.
Well u cannot talk marriage when d relationship has not started bcos that is wat u want, there uncertainties that must be resolved wen courting which to a Large extent determines marriage proposal. Be patient and check ur ways
Lol I don't even understand why we are busy sugar coating the matter. How many boyfriends or should I say 'plans' would she gather on her quest for marital settlement? Lack of real communication is the reason for a lot of rubbish going on, what are u doing there for 3 years really? Babe, communicate with ur bobo and if u guys are honest with each other the truth will pave the way for your next move.
I agree with Linda on not breaking up n having a plan b! For me 3 years is long enough time for him to know wat he wants ! So my take is keep Frds , go on dates too but not necessarily sex oh n see how it works! Best wishes
Linda, Don't encourage promiscuity/ unfaithfulness. The lady should sit the man down and have a heartfelt discussion with a few to finding the reason he hasn't proposed as yet.
Ur choice baby girl follow ya heart and do what makes u happy but if u ask me I will tell u never ever put ya head in one basket and be prayerful oooshamo
Hi Linda, "plan B" you say? what could "plan b" be? Another guy on the side? or she joins a catholic choir so she becomes celibate if the dude doesn't marry her? Answers to matters like this are often given by those in the relationship for a fact. she should know her man. Is he a family type guy? does he discuss having kids someday? does he treat her with love, care and respect? is he a cheat or a womanizer? Answers to all this questions plus patience will help her know if to stay or leave.
Be prayerful nd wait, if he is d one God will open his eyes and fasten his moves. At times d devil uses our patience to push away good tins in our way. Be patient ok.
These men can be funny ,my ex after dating /in a relationship with him for 3 years ,woke up one morning and told me he is not healthy for me . That I should be going out,lol what a way to break up .
Fast forward to his failed marriage to a lady he meet in the same month and proposed to her ,he's crawling back to toast me back . LOL
These men ,just stop any sexual relationship with him and open up for a good relationship that will come your way .
To be honest you never know with these men best advice for you is to keep living your life, he will eventually know what he's missing out on,most importantly have a plan B I case this doesn't work out...
To be honest you never know with these men best advice for you is to keep living your life, he will eventually know what he's missing out on,most importantly have a plan B I case this doesn't work out...
Well if he hasn't proposed after three years he won't after 5 years.a man knows wgat he wants and 1 month us enough to say yes.truth is bitter but dear He is just passing time with you till he finds his queen.guys like this end up marrying the next girl within weeks.
PLAN B?? hmmmmm Me I don't agree ooo. That would be cheating on him plan A. What if he finds out? What is plan B find out he is only a B and there is an A somewhere? What if each finds out about the other? Biko ask him what sup with you guys n where you are headed Listen to what he says and the ones he does not say. Then decide your next line of action. But berra don't be desperate.
There are many reasons why your man may have not proposed yet. It could be that he isn't ready financially or otherwise or perhaps it is you who isn't ready yet. However you should talk to your man. Linda, if someone like you is telling woman to cheat on their men, then there is a big problem.
LINDA IS RECOMMENDING PLAN B.YET SHE ALWAYS RANTS ABOUT HOW MEN CHEAT.AS IF ONLY MEN CHEAT.IF PLAN B IS NOT CHEATING,WHAT IS IT? LINDA PLEASE TRY AND BE MORE BALANCED.,MEN ALSO READ YOUR BLOG,REMEMBER. ANDY
MY SISTER, When a man or woman sees her life partner, u will definately know but my advice to you is not to have a plan b that's called cheating, if you feel he is not talking about settling down with u, i support your break up with him but tell him d truth why u broke up with him. if u are dating a man who doesn't have future plan with u, all he will do is to tie u down making other serious men think u are not available. pls be prayerful and try not to be desperate in your next relationship. Men are scared of desperate ladies. i wish u God's favour and direction. Amen
Biko leave him jare. 3yrs is enough 4 him to know what he wants. That dude is not serious. He's using u to pass time and don't be surprise he will propose to someone he met within 1month. Men are deceitful.
Plan B could be for u to close those legs of ur, Until u are sure of where this fuckrelationship is heading to, people and Dirty mind" Linda said plan B not necessary means Cheat, pls take ur mind out of Gutter.
Well,if he hasn't proposed after 3 years,he is passing time wit u.he there just for d sex.move on my dear.but do it without drama.he will come for you if he truly cares abt u.linda biko post my comment ooooo.
One year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
One year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
One year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
One year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
One year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
One year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
You have to talk it over with him in order to know the true definition of your relationship. Time waits for nobody,especially women.
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And by plan B, you're saying it's ok to cheat out of desperation while keeping one guy at bay and using both men at the same time till one is serious huh? She would just be inviting more heartache to her life. My advise, if u think the relationship is going nowhere, dump him and move on with ur life. Or stay and see how it plays out. Ur choice.
I don't know why our people like to immitate oyinbos. What is marriage proposal for crying out loud. Go ahead dear, if you are both meant for each other, the marriage will happen naturally.
She knows how well or bad her relationship is going. Look deep into your relationship to know if is leading somewhere or not. Breaking up is not the best thing to do. Who knows what he has in mind. Just be patient and watch while planning for another way out.
Yeah I re right linda.. hv a plan b. Don't put all eggs in one basket
ReplyDeleteConfront him with what you have in mind. He can't know except you tell him. If he truly want you for a wife he would make your understand why he hasn't proposed. Linda take note!
DeleteKeep waiting o!you hear?he might just decide to propose in another 3 years time...
DeletePlan B? Linda be teaching ladies promiscuity
Delete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Linda be encouraging unfaithfulness,isn't better to talk to the guy?
DeletePlanA or B, doesn't necessarily mean promiscuity cos someone already sleeping with only one partner without marriage=promiscuity 4both sexes.
DeleteSTOP CALLING EVIL GOOD.
From a husband point of view: I saw my wife, within two weeks I knew she was wife material. I put d ring in it. No Moni for my pocket Oo but she believed in me ad where my vision will take us.
DeleteNa small boy she dey date, em still dey mature...Abeg dump am...no waste time....Na small girl e go last last marry. I can't deceive u.
The gods are wise ad can't be blamed.
Gab2shoessaysso
There is really no need to dump him for now. Just ask him questions.
DeleteDint even know what to say to this mofo
ReplyDeleteLinda u r d bomb, plan B is perfect
DeleteMost beautiful gal on linda ikeji's blog
Yeah.dont leave him just yet.find a plan b
ReplyDeleteHere is Linda advising bitches to double date
DeleteJust hold on while looking for plan B.
ReplyDeleteContinue waiting for him until you turn automatic waitress in the relationship!
ReplyDeleteFind Toke & ask her that!
ReplyDeleteWell the truth of the marter is that you haven't seen someone better than him for now, I don't believe girls expecially in Nigeria wait for no body, c of o goes to higher bidder.
DeleteWell the truth of the marter is that you haven't seen someone better than him for now, I don't believe girls expecially in Nigeria wait for no body, c of o goes to higher bidder.
DeleteI will comment again if you speak the truth.
DeleteWell u cannot talk marriage when d relationship has not started bcos that is wat u want, there uncertainties that must be resolved wen courting which to a Large extent determines marriage proposal. Be patient and check ur ways
ReplyDeleteLol.. Its a mandate sha. Break up and come and live with me.
ReplyDeleteLeave these hoes. All so desperado to marry.
Deletei see desperation only and thats why he has not proposed yet,may i never get to this level in my life as a lady....moving on
ReplyDeleteConfrontation is the best,ask him if he is for you or against you... Marriage palaver lmao!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with your advise... With these men, u never really know... PLAN B, get another boyfriend who shares same intent to marry with u.
ReplyDeleteBreak up, he is not ready for marriage
ReplyDeleteLol I don't even understand why we are busy sugar coating the matter. How many boyfriends or should I say 'plans' would she gather on her quest for marital settlement? Lack of real communication is the reason for a lot of rubbish going on, what are u doing there for 3 years really? Babe, communicate with ur bobo and if u guys are honest with each other the truth will pave the way for your next move.
Deletewill advise you get a plan B co all this men are unpredictable
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will advise you get a plan B co all this men are unpredictable
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The question 'how long' have they been dating should be answered first, then I'll know what advice to give
ReplyDeleteSweetheart 3years.
DeleteFor me the lady has been talking of marriage from the inception of the relationship, Most every relationship lead to marriage.
Ike nsi Sweetheart, she said 3 YEARS" inugo?
DeleteI agree with Linda on not breaking up n having a plan b! For me 3 years is long enough time for him to know wat he wants ! So my take is keep Frds , go on dates too but not necessarily sex oh n see how it works! Best wishes
ReplyDeleteGirls and pressure on guys to marry them! Nawaoo! Nigga can't date without fear of d marriage talk
ReplyDeletemummy Linda...
DeleteLinda,
ReplyDeleteDon't encourage promiscuity/ unfaithfulness.
The lady should sit the man down and have a heartfelt discussion with a few to finding the reason he hasn't proposed as yet.
Ur choice baby girl follow ya heart and do what makes u happy but if u ask me I will tell u never ever put ya head in one basket and be prayerful oooshamo
ReplyDeleteYour not wrong my dear leave him for good
ReplyDeleteBecause you guys might still date for 8years and yet he wunt propose.
Most men are dubious You know
Your not wrong my dear leave him for good
ReplyDeleteBecause you guys might still date for 8years and yet he wunt propose.
Most men are dubious You know
Like ur boyfriend abi...yeye girl
Delete@kunta be like say u knw wetin I talk self, her boyfrnd don use am clean em yansh throw am 4 trsh can
DeleteI agree with you @linda..
ReplyDeleteYou will never know with these men
Hi Linda, "plan B" you say? what could "plan b" be? Another guy on the side? or she joins a catholic choir so she becomes celibate if the dude doesn't marry her? Answers to matters like this are often given by those in the relationship for a fact. she should know her man. Is he a family type guy? does he discuss having kids someday? does he treat her with love, care and respect? is he a cheat or a womanizer? Answers to all this questions plus patience will help her know if to stay or leave.
ReplyDeleteU said it all!
DeleteGbagam!!! That's that.
DeleteBe prayerful nd wait, if he is d one God will open his eyes and fasten his moves. At times d devil uses our patience to push away good tins in our way. Be patient ok.
ReplyDeletePrayerful when both has been fornicatin, what does u guys take God for?
DeleteThese men can be funny ,my ex after dating /in a relationship with him for 3 years ,woke up one morning and told me he is not healthy for me . That I should be going out,lol what a way to break up .
ReplyDeleteFast forward to his failed marriage to a lady he meet in the same month and proposed to her ,he's crawling back to toast me back . LOL
These men ,just stop any sexual relationship with him and open up for a good relationship that will come your way .
Kikikikiki, Healthy kwa....ona ada akwukwu? What an excuse.
DeleteGet a back up.
ReplyDeleteIs it by force???
ReplyDelete3 years is a long time, tell that n*gga you ain't down for this no more.
ReplyDeleteExactly, hang on and devise a plan B
ReplyDeletedont break up. have a plan b. zip up for both of them. enjoy dem both n study dem more
ReplyDeleteFellow ur hrt.
ReplyDelete#FINEST
Linda b giving relationship advice whereas she's not even in one herself..Linda go and marry oooooo....no time!
ReplyDeleteU day sell Husband??? Receive sense Odeh.
DeleteChinelo I dey sell o if u wan know...mumu girl...e dey obvious say u go dey lonely again this valentine.. Lol..yeye girl
DeleteIs he or both of you financially ready for marriage?
ReplyDeleteTo be honest you never know with these men best advice for you is to keep living your life, he will eventually know what he's missing out on,most importantly have a plan B I case this doesn't work out...
ReplyDeleteTo be honest you never know with these men best advice for you is to keep living your life, he will eventually know what he's missing out on,most importantly have a plan B I case this doesn't work out...
ReplyDeleteWell if he hasn't proposed after three years he won't after 5 years.a man knows wgat he wants and 1 month us enough to say yes.truth is bitter but dear He is just passing time with you till he finds his queen.guys like this end up marrying the next girl within weeks.
ReplyDeletepls leave him joor...den if he is ready to settle down he can kal u bac foe cerux biz
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with Juliet Iwuno
ReplyDeleteU better walk away after 3yrs no proposal omo use ur head.
ReplyDeleteMy sister forget that man and move on with life unless you want to be baby mama.he is not serious...nuel
ReplyDelete...n
PLAN B??
ReplyDeletehmmmmm
Me I don't agree ooo.
That would be cheating on him plan A. What if he finds out?
What is plan B find out he is only a B and there is an A somewhere?
What if each finds out about the other?
Biko ask him what sup with you guys n where you are headed
Listen to what he says and the ones he does not say.
Then decide your next line of action.
But berra don't be desperate.
'ANONYMOUSLY MOI'
There are many reasons why your man may have not proposed yet. It could be that he isn't ready financially or otherwise or perhaps it is you who isn't ready yet. However you should talk to your man. Linda, if someone like you is telling woman to cheat on their men, then there is a big problem.
ReplyDeleteLINDA IS RECOMMENDING PLAN B.YET SHE ALWAYS RANTS ABOUT HOW MEN CHEAT.AS IF ONLY MEN CHEAT.IF PLAN B IS NOT CHEATING,WHAT IS IT?
ReplyDeleteLINDA PLEASE TRY AND BE MORE BALANCED.,MEN ALSO READ YOUR BLOG,REMEMBER.
ANDY
MY SISTER,
ReplyDeleteWhen a man or woman sees her life partner, u will definately know but my advice to you is not to have a plan b that's called cheating, if you feel he is not talking about settling down with u, i support your break up with him but tell him d truth why u broke up with him.
if u are dating a man who doesn't have future plan with u, all he will do is to tie u down making other serious men think u are not available.
pls be prayerful and try not to be desperate in your next relationship.
Men are scared of desperate ladies.
i wish u God's favour and direction. Amen
Biko leave him jare. 3yrs is enough 4 him to know what he wants. That dude is not serious. He's using u to pass time and don't be surprise he will propose to someone he met within 1month. Men are deceitful.
ReplyDeleteLook 4 plan B biko. The dude is not serious.
ReplyDeletey seek counsel, are you weavon, do you not know that even when he proposes, he can still dispose
ReplyDeleteMy dear give him more time
ReplyDeletePlan B if there is...
ReplyDeleteShe shld do the right thing
ReplyDeletePlan B could be for u to close those legs of ur, Until u are sure of where this fuckrelationship is heading to, people and Dirty mind" Linda said plan B not necessary means Cheat, pls take ur mind out of Gutter.
ReplyDeleteWorld People.
Well,if he hasn't proposed after 3 years,he is passing time wit u.he there just for d sex.move on my dear.but do it without drama.he will come for you if he truly cares abt u.linda biko post my comment ooooo.
ReplyDeleteOne year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
ReplyDeleteOne year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
ReplyDeleteOne year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
ReplyDeleteOne year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
ReplyDeleteOne year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
ReplyDeleteWhy are women so obssessed with marriage? Abeg wait joor
ReplyDeleteOne year is enof for courtship, anything other than one year is not advisable,expect if u stil wnt to av fun nd flex around, but 3 yrs for courtship??? see u gat to move on with ur life if u really wnt to settle, coz dt guy is not serious. plus a guy proposing marriage to u doesn't necessarily mean is ready to settle down, be wise so that he will not use a ring to tie u down for anoda 3 yrs. i pray God wil help u to take d rite decision.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmmm thanks Linda
ReplyDeleteYou have to talk it over with him in order to know the true definition of your relationship. Time waits for nobody,especially women.
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Babe chill maybe u sef no get the right attitude.... Bobo is probably still checking u out
ReplyDeleteLinda u are encouraging promiscuity...thats not the righr advice from a single old lady like u na..mba biko
ReplyDeleteAnd by plan B, you're saying it's ok to cheat out of desperation while keeping one guy at bay and using both men at the same time till one is serious huh? She would just be inviting more heartache to her life. My advise, if u think the relationship is going nowhere, dump him and move on with ur life. Or stay and see how it plays out. Ur choice.
ReplyDeleteWHO WILL BE MY VAL???
ReplyDeleteMy dear take several sits. No one likes an ultimatum.
ReplyDeletehahhakkk propositional to him naa?no be only propose.biko feel free,widen ur horizon,dont be stuck with blind thinking.wat is urs comes naturally.
ReplyDeleteI don't know why our people like to immitate oyinbos. What is marriage proposal for crying out loud. Go ahead dear, if you are both meant for each other, the marriage will happen naturally.
ReplyDeleteShe knows how well or bad her relationship is going. Look deep into your relationship to know if is leading somewhere or not. Breaking up is not the best thing to do. Who knows what he has in mind. Just be patient and watch while planning for another way out.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all you would want to force a man to propose to you. Because u re going to hear it for the rest of ur life.
ReplyDeleteYeah, she should find plan B
ReplyDelete