I would like to report a rape case. I considered going to the police but I'm sure the rapist might be able to pay his way out and no action will be taken. I'm a youth corper serving in Ondo state. On the 8th of January this year, I traveled to Edo State with a fellow corper whom I trusted very much. We were friends in camp and fortunately we got posted to the same local government, so it seemed like it was a plan arranged by heaven. So on the evening of Jan. 8th, we were in his friends room off campus and I slept off watching a movie on his laptop. Some time later I woke up and found him touching me.
I resisted and he forced himself on me the first time. Although I tried fighting him off the first time, he easily overpowered me because of his size. After the first time, I cried for a while while he apologised profusely. Because I didn't have anywhere to run to and he held me down, he had his way the second time and didn't even bother apologising or anything. He just slept off and woke up begging and begging. I searched online for places I could report rape cases to that weren't the police, but I didn't see any.
The guy is Serving in Odigbo Local Government, Ore, Ondo State. Batch B, Stream 2.
He is a UNIBEN alumni and was a past SUG president and is popular in the school. I want justice to be exerted promptly. I think his father has a military background which could pose a problem. I would like to remain anonymous where ever this letter is used as my parents would be furious if they found out I left my PPA to attend a wedding in Edo State.What do you advice this lady does?
Same old shit.
ReplyDeleteWild flowers!
Excuse me!
DeleteIts dis type of person dat encourage rapist to continue in their act's all in d name dat u don't want to b link wit it.
Biko she is simply trying to use dis as threat to him or either milk him if not she should openly come out and report d case to d police.
If she doesn't report dis case 2d authority/police dat means she encouraged d act and should forever b silent.
Advice to d ladies, biko if u don't hav any r/ship attachment wit d opposite sex b caution wit where and wht time of d day u hang out wit him.
Those who hav ears let them hear for a word is enough 4d wise.
2bad
DeleteAll dis her excuse's for not wanting to report dis case 2d police r flimsy and unacceptable.
DeleteBiko if she wants justice she should report dis case 2d authority for d law is not respecter of any person.
I don't understand why some people are blaming this poor girl. What happened to her can happen to any girl..she's a youth for crying out loud and, wants to explore life.. If the guy wants to eff, he shld av checked-in at the nearest ashawo corridor.. That bastard shldn't go scot-free.. Poster, contact me and I'll tell u wht to do.
Deleteend of time
DeleteLind take note
No ex sug president is serving atm, so get ur fact. Maybe the guy is an executive in d sug.
DeleteShe can't be trusted lailai. Bbf raped u. Ok. Asap
DeleteNawa oh... Conji na bad thing oh.... Sorry my dear.... Sometimes those you trust may be d one to kill you
DeleteAlso Check Vabadon's Blog
Aunt Linda, I need to see the pix o. Chai. Ex SUG president UNIBEN, I could know him o. If it's true that he's guilty, whether I'm also a Uniben alumni or not, he should be punished.
Delete#LIB ADDICT#
Abeg leave matter. He raped u 1st time he begged & u listened to him, u didn't leave.mumu ode
DeleteTo me this isn't a rape case, bcos u traveled together with him, u were with him in the same room on the same bed. I'm very sure u were putting on bum short.
DeleteI agree with you. He did 1st time and begged, did 2nd time, slept woke up and begged again haha the guy tie am rope abi she no get leg to run and voice to shout, home movie.
DeleteDefinitely, like I used to say gal n guy can't be friends for too long it's either he's saving her for a day like this, no be every guy u fit friend zone my dear
DeleteRape Rape everyday..next
DeleteMy view not urs!!!!
She should leave it to God....!
ReplyDeleteSo if they rape your child,you'll tell her to leave it to God?
DeleteLeave wetin to God nd tomorrow d guy will do same to another lady? D truth is,we ladies often cause dis,how can u follow a guy u met in camp u just few mnths bck to Edo state,wat ever happened to d Word. CAUTIoN
DeleteLIB ADDICT#just paSsing#
Nice response 4rm Don Jazzy's driver..she shud leave it 2 God
DeleteY is she complaining 2 u..re u a police officer or her guardian..she shud remain anonymous until d worst will happen...stupid corper..
Lindaz in-law(my brother's wife)
This chic must b a dumbass bitch...how on earth will u sleep with a guy in d same room,on d same bed and u expect nothing to happen..gosh..I don't support rape but sometimes common sense ain't that common like they say...Firstly,u don't trust anyone and secondly u got what u were looking for so take it like a lady and move d fuck on!..wise up next time.
DeleteThis chic must b a dumbass bitch...how on earth will u sleep with a guy in d same room,on d same bed and u expect nothing to happen..gosh..I don't support rape but sometimes common sense ain't that common like they say...Firstly,u don't trust anyone and secondly u got what u were looking for so take it like a lady and move d fuck on!..wise up next time.
DeleteThis chic must b a dumbass bitch...how on earth will u sleep with a guy in d same room,on d same bed and u expect nothing to happen..gosh..I don't support rape but sometimes common sense ain't that common like they say...Firstly,u don't trust anyone and secondly u got what u were looking for so take it like a lady and move d fuck on!..wise up next time.
DeleteShe was raped and wants justice, but doesn't want to go to th police. How is is to attain the justice,
DeleteA least his details here would have been a first step...thats not an accusation, rather an allegation, and If t story is as sh put it, then would be eager to hve u identity out there.
I am sorry for the victim, victim, ladies, this is a pointer to be careful where you go. Th rape was avoidable, and acts like dis keep encouraging rape
Choi... Nawa oo
ReplyDeleteEnugu's second shoe designer
I dn't even know what to say to her,my advice to ladies pls let us be careful whr we go.
DeleteExactly! I don't like random waka up and down... why wud u travel wit a guy to anoda state in first place. I am not condoning rape and I tink rapist deserve a life sentence but ladies ought not to put themselves in positions like dis.
DeleteShe. Shuld forward dey case 2 dey police station joooor
ReplyDeleteTosisochukwu! Marry me
!brightosman aka fake phyno .#gerarahere
I don't understand why some people are blaming this poor girl. What happened to her can happen to any girl..she's a youth for crying out loud and, wants to explore life.. If the guy wants to eff, he shld av checked-in at the nearest ashawo corridor.. That bastard shldn't go scot-free.. Poster, contact me and I'll tell u wht to do.
DeleteWhat's with the space! Are you alright up there ?
DeleteWhat's with the space! Are you alright up there ?
DeleteHmmmMmm this is serious but try n get justice..Go to d ministry n report him
ReplyDeleteWickedness in high places , this is people that give men bad names
DeleteExcuse me!
DeleteIts dis type of person dat encourage rapist to continue in their act's all in d name dat u don't want to b link wit it.
Biko she is simply trying to use dis as threat to him or either milk him if not she should openly come out and report d case to d police.
If she doesn't report dis case 2d authority/police dat means she encouraged d act and should forever b silent.
Advice to d ladies, biko if u don't hav any r/ship attachment wit d opposite sex b caution wit where and wht time of d day u hang out wit him.
Those who hav ears let them hear for a word is enough 4d wise.
Royal p.
DeleteIs ur conscience reminding you of your past actions?
Are you trying to justify rape because u are guilty of it?
No woman deserves to be raped..no matter what!
If a man wants sex,it has to be consensual.
She might have gone to the mans house..so what?
Lady....keep hope alive!
Optimistic lady thank you jarey. Some people talk like they don't think. Okay so the first was a mistake from the guy, what about the second? At that time of the night in Edo state, where was she supposed to run to? Abi we can't have people we can trust ever in life? All because some men can't be sexually discipline? Stop judging her and help her if you can, it could be your child or sibling in her position. Ejor
DeleteConji na bastard
ReplyDeleteIf she went to the hospital to get cleaned up and theres evidence, I mean documents duly signed by the hospital that she was raped then I think there are organizations that look into stuffs like this. Linda, u can help but I think it won't make sense without evidence as he has backup to escape already
ReplyDeleteReport to the police immediately don't consider if his father is in d military unless ur self worth will b lost
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteshe should report to the right Authorities...or she hope to get help on lib,let her drop her details.
ReplyDelete#XENO-FABIAN
I know she would be reading this page
Delete1. U said u had trust for him during NYSC camp...did u know him from home n what does it take to establish trust
2. U said u followed him to Edo state...what was d reason he told I to follow him to Benin n what was ur reason for accepting the offer
3. You slept off while watching a movie with his laptop...what where iu wearing n what level of freedom did iu exercise?
Babe, have u not dated before?
When u guys where in camp did u guys kiss or act like couples?
Cos I served in Ondo state...ikare ahoko camp abi no be there?
You see guys n girls dat have not seen each other forming couple thereby sending wrong signal to each other
Babe if u had not sent a wrong signal to him, he would have not invited u to Edo state cos dat invite n ur acceptance showed u wanted to be clingy to to him n he responded by making love to you (dats not rape)
He apologised the first time cos u did not make him know u felt raped so he felt bad for not touching u well hence a second time to let u know he can f**k well yet u did not like it yet you still made love to avoid hurting his feelings
Am a lady oh so I understand some of all this bullshit
During my NYSC I met a guy in my choir whom I thought like you did n slept in his house
He forced himself on me n pleaded n still made love to me again cos I cud not go out at 2a.m to my house
Babe I gree make e don am so I don't walk with scars
Girl if I too had stayed in my house e for nor enter the place n d mistake I made was dat I never knew he could not hold his panties around a lady
I learned late after d deed
So babe no be rape na stupidity on ur part n mine back den...leave this matter my dear I was once a victim like you
I can never trust a guy to the extent of sleeping in his house on the same bed cos not every man can control their sexual urge...u can trust dem in other ramifications not to the extent of sharing bed with dem
Hope u have learned from this experience cos I learned too after much tears n feeling dirty den
If no be my boyfriend or husband I can never share bed even if the guy na my childhood friends
People change
Sorry dear just move on like I did
My dear sorry oh but just know dat d world we live in blamed d woman cos a woman has a stronger will to resist sex n stay longer without having sex dan a guy
DeleteThe world will blame you but leave him for karma or get gay guys to burst his yansh
Anon 10:46 lmao..God bless you for speaking the truth which some can't say
DeleteAnon 10:46 am, u said it all nd u re very right!
DeleteGuy in d choir.... Wow Trust no one.....
DeleteWow...sad...Mrs Tommy
ReplyDeleteFor fuck's sake! Why do ladies put themselves in harm's way like this??? Which kyn yeye trust? She was just fucking naive. The most she can hope for is to name and shame him then prepare for the backlash that will inevitably follow. Being a spawn of a military officer and a past SUG president, he wields considerable power and influence amongst society's unsavoury elements, cult groups et al.
ReplyDeleteShe said it all,her parents would be furious if they found out she left her PPA In Ondo state to attending a wedding in Edo state...how could you?,some pple sha..nawa o
ReplyDeleteIt's part of their NYSC program, idiot.......... Let's go Linda
ReplyDeleteSoooo sad but she shud leave him to karma if she's nt ready to come out. D guy also has military background wch also poses a threat. Sorry dear, be kia ful next time!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm what a world.nice one Linda for not posting it who knows.
ReplyDeleteShe should blame bahari that is what he learnt in a....p......c meeting.
#sad indeed
You allow a guy to sleep wit u twice n u call it a Rape?. Anything can happn btwn two friends Sis
ReplyDeleteIf she get solid evidence make she follow up the case, if not make she just forget everything for BROS j, baba go vindicate am.
ReplyDeleteAJ MAIN BOY...
All dis corper girls won't cover their legs...u trusted him just for 1month and u followed him 2 his frnd's house hmmm...I wish u all d best in searching 4 who will help
ReplyDeleteSorry dear,GOD will fight for you.#Abi linda#
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
ReplyDelete.
Congi don catch the idiot.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
With evidence of rape, she should contact a civil society/NGO who take up such cases seriously and I bet her the guy won't be able to pay his way out of this.
Deleteand u dont want ur parents to know... well i wish u d best
ReplyDeleteGirl, ur room no do you?..
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DeleteRape victims and other victims of brazen injustice in our society don't get justice because WE ALL are in a tacit pact to look the other way for each other while we go about our unscrupulous activities, chop I chop tinz. Doggedly pursuing even one case of injustice will open up a can of worms and no one wants to upset the apple cart cos we'll all be sent sprawling. WE'RE ALL GUILTY.
ReplyDeleteIn Nigeria you dont attach to some senseless guys. They will think you want something from them. Sorry babe
ReplyDeleteThank u for saying my.mind, ,,dont attch urself to a guy that isn't ur fiance
DeleteTrust no one,some men are devils working around with penis
ReplyDeleteexpose his name....and full details. .LIB readers are all over ...so he would definitely be caught
ReplyDeleteSorry dear,,buh we as young girls have to be more careful,,the guy in question u knw him in camp and u trusted him on wat basis? Is he ur brother or ur fiance ? We girls love attaching ourselves to guys that is the plain truth, we get so attached to the point that we won't be able to do anything without our supposedly male friends, I am quessing u like him very much and that's the reason u didn't scream when he was about doing it and he even did it the second time,ahbaa u really gave him the impression that it was OK FOR him to feel free with u.i have male friends close ones but they know I am a no nonsense taker.and I don't ever make the mistake of spending the night with them coz it's wrong.the penis they say has no brain so wat it wants it gets.sorry it happened but pls let's try and avoid unnecessary event from happening, I know it can happen to anyone no matter how careful one is but one has to be extra careful.
ReplyDeleteAh! U are sooo on point!!!!
DeleteOdikwa very risky, Ask your family ooo
ReplyDeleteMOST LADIES SPEND THEIR YOUTHFUL AND SINGLE DAYS LYING TO THEMSELVES....THEN SPEND THE REMAINING PARTS OF THEIR LIVES FACING THE TRUTH......
ReplyDeleteTHE FIRST ONE HOUR YOU SPEND WITH A PERSON CAN REVEAL SO MUCH ABOUT HIM OR HER...( HIS OR HER VALUES ETC)...WELL SORRY SHA... NEXT TIME DON'T BE IN A HASTE TO SOCIALIZE AND MAKE FRIENDS. SORRY.
Useless girl... She knew quite well that he will sleep with her. How can you follow a guy to sleep in his friend's house and expect nothing?
ReplyDeleteShe went to watch a movie on his laptop,maybe they were watching Spartacus..lol..sorry dear hope the dude will be brought to justice
DeleteLmao...Spartacus indeed...well konji na bastard
DeleteQuestion No.1, on what capacity are u trusting a guy whom u just met in camp that u had guts to go over to his house let alone feeling so comfortable to hav slept off. ?
ReplyDeleteI'm not supporting a rapist but I belive u hav a very bad case which even if u take to court u will loose woefully, cos the question will be why did u go to his house and it will be tagged a clear evidence that u needed the sex and afterwards u want to sabotage him.
Even when we pray for God to lead us not into temptation, it's important we stay away from being tempted.
For crying out loud ur a graduate and not some puppet without exposure.
@Lindaikeji No. I FAN
Amen my brother
DeleteUseless girl... She knew quite well that he will sleep with her. How can you follow a guy to sleep in his friend's house and expect nothing?
ReplyDeleteU are stupid. May it happen to u or ur sister too.
DeleteNa wah for u Linda. u say u no wan reveal identity, yet u mention name of school, position held and current NYSC positing plus papa occupation sef. She shd report the case to police if truly there is a case. The guy might have a different story to tell. Besides why travel n be in a room alone with a guy when u do not also have any intentions??? Guys shd also learn there is a thin line between playing hard to get n not interested
ReplyDeleteUseless girl... She knew quite well that he will sleep with her. How can you follow a guy to sleep in his friend's house and expect nothing?
ReplyDeleteUseless girl... She knew quite well that he will sleep with her. How can you follow a guy to sleep in his friend's house and expect nothing?
ReplyDeleteIf she's concerned about her parents reactions, she can't report or win the case cos her parents will be very involved in the investigation. Secondly, WHAT THE HELL WERE YOU DOING IN EDO STATE WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW. adventure?
ReplyDeleteAsk her oooo. If a man said this, they'll say it's rape culture, why put yourself in risky situations???????
DeleteHelp me ask her ooo...
DeleteEnter your comment...I hope she went to hospital after d event for examination to collect specimen for proove.if not I don't see her prooving that she was raped cos d guy will deny penetrating her
ReplyDeleteHian! I'm Speechless
ReplyDeletewaoooooo,she has to go to the police station niiii,why wait sef,thou the police men can be funny n say she pushed him to do it by sleeping in his room or she is just lying.if i were her,she shud v gone to d hospital,they will check her n hopefully ,if there is semen in her and signs that she was raped,thats prove,a report is written,then back it up by visiting the police,and also telling the head at the nysc camp there.to be honest,her case might become public,if she wants justice,but if she scared bout the publicity,just deal with it on ur own and hope that karma catches up.
ReplyDeleteLINDA PLS NOTICE ME OOOO
The story does not seem true. How you go wan report come remain anonymous.
ReplyDeleteFirstly,i'd like to sympathise with u on this unfortunate incidence. My dear,u ve taken the right step by coming on this platform.For heaven's sake when will guys STOP raping? It is actually indecent and uncivilized to gain forceful entrance into a lady.I pray the guy be fished out. And punished severely to serve as warning to guys who do this often.GUYS CONTROL UR SEXUAL URGE AND RESPECT URSELVES
ReplyDeleteI really dont know what kind of boys our mothers are raising these days...
DeleteHow can you ask what she is doing in a room with a guy?
Is there anything wrong with that?
Cant peeps stay together without sex involved?
Are guys that much into sex that they can't stay with a lady without raping her?
I'm sure there are still responsible men out there.
If you are asking this lady silly questions,its obvious u have raped a woman ....stop it.
You will pay somehow,somewhere.
Lady.....keep hope alive.you are not the criminal,you are the victim.
Its not your fault at all.
What sort of boys are pur mothers raising I ask?
You ought to have mentioned his name. You enjoyed it joor.
ReplyDeleteShutup!may ur daughter be raped too.
DeleteHow could trust someone u just met for d first time like dat? Would you blame d guy?
ReplyDelete...merited happiness
You ought to have mentioned his name. You enjoyed it joor.
ReplyDeleteI think so too
DeleteU see, there is nothing wrong in making friends while in camp, ,but again u will say u are friends with someone and u will so much glue urself to that person to the extent that people will start having the impression that u guys are dating, ,its very wrong. There is a limit to being one's friend. I was in camp too one point in time and I had friends buh I didn't get too close to them. Friends should start behaving like friends not the other way round.girls girls girls stop hiding under the umbrella of friendship whereas it's not wat u want or have in mind, friends don't have sex with each other coz it will ruin the friendship,
ReplyDeleteSounds to me like she wasnt raped
ReplyDeleteShe went for Netflix and chill.
DeleteYou ought to have mentioned his name. You enjoyed it joor.
ReplyDeleteMy advice is that next time if dem post u go place sit down there cos I too served in Akure south local government and our witch boss Mrs Omoloye is a supporter of bad things ask ur friends in that place I did my PPA
ReplyDeleteI feel good reporting her
Back to ur matter corper
You where the cause of ur problem
U had feelings for the guy if not he would not have had d mind to rape u or make love to you
U knew u guys where gonna share one room what do u expect
Firewood???
Babe just take this as one of those things ehn move on
Exposing him here makes do difference
You where the architect of ur problem babe...
U know ur dad will be kill u if he knows u lef ur PPA so lockup n revenge later
Silently
Two wrongs cannot make a right
Enter your comment...hmm if you had known,, u wouldn't have trusted him
ReplyDeleteshe should find a Tamasarc center around her or DFID Justice4All, they will pick up the case as far as she has evidence. if she can't be bold enough to handle it
ReplyDeleteThis is painful.
ReplyDeleteI hope the law takes this rape issue into great consideration.
That boy is a monster!
Kai.
Nne just be strong..and hope he gets what he deserves.
The likes of Stephanie okereke's brother..
Women,lets stop putting ourselves in risky situations please.
His father may have been, or his d chief of army staff but no one is above d law. Report to d police.
ReplyDeleteHmmm honestly, it could be her fault considering she claimed she trusted him. She may hv put herself in that situation so any advise from me? She shd tk heart and forgive him.
ReplyDelete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
WOW! Aren't women their own worst enemies
DeleteI can't believe the women coming out here to insult this girl as if they've never done anything stupid b4 or trusted a guy b4.i spent d night in a guy's house that I trusted and nothing happened! He was a decent guy and we weren't dating.
DeleteU are one hell of a silly tart Vivian, u must be very wicked in real life... I guess u don't know what it means to be raped.
DeleteExcuse me!
ReplyDeleteIts dis type of person dat encourage rapist to continue in their act's all in d name dat u don't want to b link wit it.
Biko she is simply trying to use dis as threat to him or either milk him if not she should openly come out and report d case to d police.
If she doesn't report dis case 2d authority/police dat means she encouraged d act and should forever b silent.
Advice to d ladies, biko if u don't hav any r/ship attachment wit d opposite sex b caution wit where and wht time of d day u hang out wit him.
Those who hav ears let them hear.
Nawa oooo
ReplyDeleteI think that lady is a big fool,u were rape the first time he begged u,he also penetrate again the second time what were you still doing in his place did he glued you..I think she was also enjoying it but the price they bargain on the guy refuse to pay she now came online to rant..linda observe carefully
ReplyDeleteDis story is not true,how cum she just followed him to edo state,dat he was able to rape her twice?I tink der is more to it
ReplyDeleteLINDA NOTIFY DBANJ
LI
My dear, it's quite unfortunate wat the guy did. Now my prompt counsel is first things first go ND buy postinor 2 it's an oral contraceptive so as to prevent pregnancy. Then inform ur parents about the issue and ur field inspector about it. Then u can go to ayo lawyer and seek advice concerning the issue on ground
ReplyDeleteI think is better she inform the police since there is a law embacking any case of rape...and I will also advice young ladies dat they should be very careful of the people they mingle wit.
ReplyDeletehmmmm, i doubt this story oh
ReplyDeleteHmm. Hope its true.
ReplyDeleteRapuluchukwuifenineadigommakings@yahoo.com
Reporting from Delsu.
He had his way d second time?he did the first time and you still remained in the same room? Lady yo have no case...it's either you're an attention seeker or just dumb.
ReplyDeleteDo u know what time it was?idiot!
DeleteI gues is better she inform the police since there is a law embacking such action...I think if she make a report there will be justice to it...#Buari eraund no man is above law
ReplyDeletena wa oooh, nobody is to be trusted this days. my advice to u is if u r sure of wat u r saying then report to the police, also be ready to get a good lawyer.
ReplyDeleteI believe you, dear.
ReplyDeletethe lady in question is an idiot. when will some girls learn to apply common sense followed a fellow corper all the way to edo and you barely know him. linda tell the girl that she is insane. she was looking for fun and shez got it.
ReplyDeleteHave his way first and second there is more to this story,I rest my case for now (jumbo
ReplyDeleteThe story doesn't really so real to me. How come there's no police station around d neighborhood or even scream for neighbors to hear or probably run out of d house while he was sleeping? Maybe she's only trying to tanish d guy's name.
ReplyDeleteThe stigma might be much for you when what u want to be done is actually done. I advice u jux take your calm and report him to God....... I really feel your plight. Sorry about that.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, this is a clear case of stop it I like it. I'm not supporting no rapist but he can't possibly overshadow you that much. You can bite him so do something really hard to him.
ReplyDeleteNo mr focus.
DeleteIn rape situations,it's adviced you stay calm to avoid being killed.
Yes,be calm recieve it all.
Come out alive and report.
But here in my motherland,if you report you are tagged the fool,the idiot and the criminal is vindicated by the court of public opinion.
Its well.
Lady ....keep hope alive.
You are responsible for your predicament, why did you go with him? Even to sleep in the same room
ReplyDeleteThe guy in the act is a coward, but according to your report you are the one that put yourself into the mess in the first place. Because if you had faced your assignment the guy would have not messed you up.
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it she claimed she trusted him meaning she may have put herself in that situation, turned him on and when the time for the deed came she became sister mary. let's be honest in making judgments.
ReplyDelete-D great anonymous now as Vivian Reginalds
Llok @ ur mouth " u̶̲̥̅̊ feel asleep in his bed and he waz now touching me" d other bby in SA said "she jumped naked in2 d shower wt d guy n he raped her" rubbish...- tink dis damm females A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ trying 2 paint us bad dis days.
ReplyDeletePoint of correction, "it was not a plan arranged by Heaven" mind ur words.
ReplyDeleteSince u r raped in his friend's house, I think u r 2 b blamed.
Y did u go there at d first place?
Hvnt u heard that, If u don't hv anything 2 do with d devil, don't go 2 his shop.
I advise u 2 lay off d case and learn from ur mistake. After all, it is never a mistake 2 make a mistake but it is a great a mistake 2 repeat a mistake.
I nùgo?
Babe this your story dey somehow ohhh...I for believe u but when u say he slept with u d second time...na time I no say e b like say d tin dey sweet u.....anyway sorry oh...
ReplyDelete~make I go take one bottle of beer~
Not even the first name of the perpetrator was mentioned.
ReplyDeleteNawaooooh. Sorry girl
ReplyDeleteOkayy,if this story is true....am sure this girl attended a private university,where they treat them like secondary school boarders...No sane girl,likes of us that attended that UNIBEN,will travel with a guy u dnt want sumtinn with....my sincere advice,forget this story...I Pray you get over it...next time,Trust Nobody Even Your Shadow.
ReplyDeleteDis OSINANL is a big fool....so because she slept in his house, dat is the ultimate warranty for him to rape her right? I'm sure you are a rapist from the way you talk too...There is no excuse for rape, if the urge was much for him, he shud have gone to anoda room....Ladies are so quick to trust generally, let truth be told....we all need to be careful.....The best way to punish a rapist is to get gays to burst his arse for him....shikena! cos police go change am for you if you report.....THE BLUNT BEING!
ReplyDeleteRead in between the lines of her statement... That they are "good friends and found themselves serving in the same local government, like it was arranged from heaven." Statement from a heart full of passion.
ReplyDeleteShe should please tell us why she wants to destroy the image of that young man. Also, is this the first time they are having sex or this particular one is without her consent? reason being that, anyone she could leave with for Edo state is not just anybody to her.. They share some level of intimacy...
Some girls can be senseless and irrational sometimes... i feel she is not telling us the truth... If she is so pained the first place to go is the Police and not telling us she is looking for any Authority that treats rape cases.. Listen Oh" He went in the first time and beg and also went the second time and was begging and begging" Bullshit!!! Nonesense...
I feel the guy man is done with her and is seeing another girl, this is relationship issue... they should go and resolve it...
Read in between the lines of her statement... That they are "good friends and found themselves serving in the same local government, like it was arranged from heaven." Statement from a heart full of passion.
ReplyDeleteShe should please tell us why she wants to destroy the image of that young man. Also, is this the first time they are having sex or this particular one is without her consent? reason being that, anyone she could leave with for Edo state is not just anybody to her.. They share some level of intimacy...
Some girls can be senseless and irrational sometimes... i feel she is not telling us the truth... If she is so pained the first place to go is the Police and not telling us she is looking for any Authority that treats rape cases.. Listen Oh" He went in the first time and beg and also went the second time and was begging and begging" Bullshit!!! Nonesense...
I feel the guy man is done with her and is seeing another girl, this is relationship issue... they should go and resolve it...
story for the gods....angelmakiz@yahoo.com
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ReplyDeleteMy dear friend, considering your account of the whole issue, in all fairness to you and you Friend (the alleged rapist), I think you should just move on with your life. Forget about litigation. It's in you both's best interest. Good a thing he did not invite his friend to the party. Lessons gotten. Trust is very expensive. Be wise my dear friend.
ReplyDeleteThis is serious..when girls full every where
ReplyDeleteIt's not ur fault dear! Some guys are demons. U trusted him so much. Just been friends on camp is not enough for u to know or trust a guy. The people I trust with my all are my childhood friends, I know them inside out. What has happened has happened but u have to let ur parents know if u want him to pay 4 his crime or u 4get and move on with ur life. Pls visit d hospital ASAP. I wish u all the best in whatever you decide on. Take care of u datz all that matters.
ReplyDeleteGo to the police.
ReplyDeleteShe is as stupid and dumb as dat Kenyan girl WU claimed she was raped afta bathin wit d guy. Awy cud u stay in his aos afta he raped u d 1st tym let alone a 2nd tym, it wasnt raped, t was based on mutual interest or he dint pay her well afta 3days. Ion even know if I bliv dese stories anymore and I always bliv Linda o
ReplyDeleteI don't understand why some people are blaming this poor girl. What happened to her can happen to any girl..she's a youth for crying out loud and, wants to explore life.. If the guy wants to eff, he shld av checked-in at the nearest ashawo corridor.. That bastard shldn't go scot-free.. Poster, contact me and I'll tell u wht to do.
ReplyDeleteLet me understand dis, u met him as a corper, dont know him before, dont know his past. yet u chose to sleep in d same room with him, probably with your nighties.
ReplyDeleteAnd u re accusing an animal for being animal. den after he did it d first time, u didn't scream, or run outside to probably alert his neighbors or any passerby.instead u stayd and waited for him to have anoda hard on, and yet u call it rape. Hmm.. wat do i know am just a wonderer.
...d great wonderer
Whoever you are my dear, this isn't rape, you both enjoyed yourselves, if you were actually raped, heavens what you will do. Maybe it because the man he arranged you didn't show-up again and you feel cheated that's y u doing this. My opinion but trust me, isn't rape.
ReplyDeleteMy dear pls keep quiet and stop telling us false story
ReplyDeleteSorry this not a rape case to me. Firstly y did she travel to edo state all the way from ondo state wit a guy (sum1 u met @ d camp) not even a lady. Sorry to hurt ur feelns young lady, dis not a rape case. U got wat u asked of. U r mkn me feel u are angry cos he didn't apologize for d 2nd round he did. Dis no case abeg.
ReplyDeleteHey hun . People ll judge u just like they are on this thread
ReplyDelete. U need to report this. A rapist should not be allowed to go. Report to the police. The social media is also a powerful tool but u need to report it.
You too is at fault even though I detest the act of rape on ladies.. You don't smell what forbid eating. You slept with him in the room and you expect him to just look at you through the night because you are his younger sister? And then you said you trusted him. You don't trust anyone man who is not your husband with things like that. This is konji we're talking about here on... It can arise at any time.. So pls learn ladies. If you've been raped sorry... If you haven't.. Pls learn these mistakes.
ReplyDeleteLinda we are still friends even though I didn't get any giveaway from you last year.
hmmm,Rape kwa? my fellow corp member.I don't think dt's rape. he made love to u & slept off and u were still in d room wt him.u had every chance of hurting him or rather escaping.but u gave him a second chance probably u guys had fun.pls try another case if u wnt to hit on him for any reason. but as for rape,no no no!
ReplyDeleteChai !!! Jibiti OBO
ReplyDeleteThats not rape ooo the guy tried his luck nd she sawcome to it oooo
How can you go to his house,slept over night nd you expect him not to try his luck?
When he is not an impotent. Nd you dont wnt to report to the police? She's lieing joor
Linda my wife no mind her
Lol guy jibiti OBO...lmao
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ReplyDeleteLINDA SHE NEEDED IT CAUSE THAT IS THE REASON SHE FELLOWING HIM TO EDO STATE.
ReplyDeleteHe rapped you 2 times? And that is a rape? It must have felt so good.davido's driver said.....'leave it to God' he is right. Lol
ReplyDeleteNetflix Chilling lol. Why would you travel with a guy you barely know, NYSC no be family membership na.. And then u slept in his friends house with him and you expect him to just watch you fall asleep #guardianangel. I see it as couple movie night. BTW what movie where watching
ReplyDeleteLinda is this even a Rape case? You followed him to his House, He had his way the first time, yet you stood there like a log of wood and it happened the second time, then He fell asleep, your stupid self still stood there...Miss Corper you're a pathetic liar. Are there no neighbors you could have simply reported to? did you even screem at all? Abegi leave trash for LAWMA.
ReplyDeleteLinda is this even a Rape case? You followed him to his House, He had his way the first time, yet you stood there like a log of wood and it happened the second time, then He fell asleep, your stupid self still stood there...Miss Corper you're a pathetic liar. Are there no neighbors you could have simply reported to? did you even screem at all? Abegi leave trash for LAWMA.
ReplyDeleteThat is what you want, this not rape is enjoyment for both of you, so Linda tell her not to go further cos she has the course to blame,when she live her place of assignment and travel with a guy and spend a night in a man house.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, kpele babe... But on what basis did u actually trust the guy? The Penis has no brain, so the moment you realise that u are a bit save. Most guys here criticising the guy would have tried it but not obviously go ahead if u say no because ur attachment wiv the guy will definitely water down ur judgement and is an indication that u may later agree if he persist. Even me I for advance ooo toh.
ReplyDeletemy lady, sorry; in this present time we are, its hard to trust people o. But you can report this to NGOs that handle such matters and the abound in this country. But you made a mistake by not going to the police, they would have refer you to a clinic for test to be conducted to ascertain if you were raped or not...please feel free to stand up on this, you might be saving another-would-victim. But why are most Corpers animalistic in nature, is that what they were thought in camp?
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I may sound disappointing but permit to ask, you met this guy in camp. And within this camp period you became trusted friends. Traveled out of your primary assignment area within your meeting him for one or two nights and you call yourself a decent girl?
ReplyDeleteHe had his way the first time and apologized only to have his way the second time without apologies? Which is more painful?!not apologizing the second time or having his way?
Plz Linda, you can actually open public advise and counseling unit. To all girls who want flexing, sometimes you gain sometimes you loose. This guy brain washed her with story of his family's influence and she followed him.
The story is a bit confusing, friends place, off campus, was it her friend or her friend's friend.The first time and waited for the second.
ReplyDeleteBut if it's true,or the act itself it's so condemnable.Ladies don't stay in the same room in a controlled or isolated environment with someone you don't ve a strong bond with, for no reason whatsoever, in the name of am a grown up woman.Animals re roaming in human like form.It better to be tagged strict than to be a raped victim
Linda I'm an alumni of the great Uniben and I just confirmed that no former SUG president is serving right now. So please investigate properly. Either this girl is lying or the guy in question must have lied to her that he was one time SUG president. As much as I am strong against rape, I would advise u get your facts right instead of spoiling the image of the office of the SUG president. Thank you
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ReplyDelete"I would like to remain anonymous where ever this letter is used as my parents would be furious if they found out I left my PPA to attend a wedding in Edo State.
What do you advice this lady does?"...
Why go against your parents wish for you???
If you had stick to that principle you wouldn't be telling this story.
Be very careful next time please.
Hope you have checked yourself for any STI,HIV and PT,before this complain because those tests will help you check thing on time!
I weep for naija.
The only thing I can say is girl u are stupid, he rapped u and u still stayed in the house without being tied up.lol that isn't rape
ReplyDeleteYou girls who like macho me, big men, men that can carry you, men that can fight for you.....well, I am so sorry for what you went through which I consider evil.
ReplyDeleteThe law of Karma is still on the land and will always work, try the Police normally and if they do nothing you just direct your complain to God because he is the only one that can fight for you.
Is so painful, one of those reasons why most Nigerian women wants to belong somewhere, have a family in time.
I think women should start going for kick boxing class to have some self defense skills.
Men hardly get raped, though anyone can be in such helpless situation... May God guide and protect us.
She should report to d police with evidence. Get a lawyer or human right.
ReplyDeleteNNE leave it to God........ next TIME the angels will guide u!!
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Why do pole talk senseless, a rape is a,no matter d numbers of times,how would u feel if she wasn't sis huh!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy do pole talk senseless, a rape is a,no matter d numbers of times,how would u feel if she wasn't sis huh!!!
ReplyDeleteD story no look real oooo.
ReplyDeleteI think she has enough evidence to nail the guy if she's being truthful. But again, i know what our Police men can do in situations like this, especially since the guy's family has military background. Still go ahead and press charges, if you didn't get justice, at least you tried. God then will take up your case. Its well.
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I think she has enough evidence to nail the guy if she's being truthful. But again, i know what our Police men can do in situations like this, especially since the guy's family has military background. Still go ahead and press charges, if you didn't get justice, at least you tried. God then will take up your case. Its well.
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Royal priesthood am really disappointed in u, u sound like u know the boy already bco obviously u taking side. We all know how nigeria police work, u give them moni u are free. No mata the case. If it were to be your sister is this what u will say to her? Well i dont expect much from u bco na man like u did dat to a lady. Wot shame
ReplyDeleteI advice the lady to go and report the case to the police if she need justice.
ReplyDeleteAnd she should distance herself with the man and know where you go with an opposite sex.
This can happen to anybody.
And go for test and check incase of infection.
A graduate that should be an adviser to other ladies is coming here to tell lies.She loved the guy,they did it and the guy abandoned her, now she wants to get the guy jailed.Followed a guy you met in 2 weeks in camp.Traveled with him to have fun and now she is complaining because she was dumped.If he had agreed to marry her,she wouldn't complain..Tim28
ReplyDeleteLadies. Stop putting yourselves in precarious situations in search of wild adventures called 'fun'. It's imperative we remain cautious always. All these unnecessary waka May just get you in trouble.
ReplyDeleteLinda biko post the guy's pix and name....I wonder if any uniben past SUG president is still serving..... Maybe he wasn't a president. The ones I know are not serving anymore
ReplyDeleteLots of girls love sex, so I don't see any reason for a guy to rape a girl. If she turns u down leave her and spread ur net, u will catch anoda. Nawa ooooo
ReplyDeleteOne rape story to another... it's well oo...
ReplyDeleteThis girl must be stupid, the person you trust. Maybe the guy didn't do her well then it turn to rape, my foot. You follow a guy all the way to Edo from Ondo because he wants to go and pay your bride price or you people are going for Evangelism. Fool.
ReplyDeleteu be mugu,why wud girls neva listen, u hv no romantic intentions wit a guy, why are u following him to places, later u wil say he raped u. girls learn from dis, stop following guys to places, except u are willing to hv sex if he demands. useless girls, anoda guy go rape u, ur bf wont even know abt it. oloshi girls
ReplyDeleteSo sorry dear. Mirabel Centre in Lagos treats Rape Victim. You can look them up on Google or Facebook. I pray God heals you physically, spiritually and mentally.
ReplyDeleteU cried the first time and u still stayed for a second, u want to go to the police but u are scared!babe u followed the guy to edo for a wedding obviously and u got served. Young ladies if u can't give a guy sex willingly don't stay under the same roof with him.I don't know if I can call this rape, cos I've been there before, I'm wiser now
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...Trust no 1
ReplyDeleteTrash....I op u're learned 4rm ur stupidity and foolishness?
ReplyDeleteMore reason our female folks should be very careful during NYSC year. Many girls and even married women experienced this but couldn't report because they started it by going close to the male partners. My dear female friends, please becareful within this period, you can't get a husband in NYSC because only 2% of male corps member can marry their fellow female colleague. Please try and have sense, if this girl didnt go to watch a movie in his labtop, he wouldnt have had the chance to come close to her and rape her. As we pray that our constitution should make punishment for rape a life jail, I also beg my female friend to be very careful please.
ReplyDeleteWell not all guys are gentlemen but it was wrong for the guy to rape her.I have been in this situation before.A beautiful,endowed chrsiatian sister I was asking out come to my place in Lagos from Benin and slept over.I thought if I maintained my 'perfect gentleman' attitude she will date me,but lo and behold she treated me with contempt after playing the good christian brother role by not touching her.This guy probably felt she will think He is weak or impotent of He doesn't touch her.That's probably why he forced himself on her.
ReplyDeleteand u dont want ur parents to know... well i wish u d best
ReplyDeleteno one should blame the gurl for being too trusting, we all have different ways we react to long term and short term friends, the guy should be questioned for being unable to hold his urges too, nobody should try and justify him, cos you think its a man's world.
ReplyDeleteShe should report the case to her L.I or Z.I in d state of her deployment. With all necessary proof. NYSC WILL DEFINITELY ACT ON IT. she can also use d NYSC twitter handle. @nysc_ng
ReplyDeleteabegy make we hear word, are u sure this boy didnt break your hrt and u want to pay back, why will u travel for a wedn, and slept in a boys house when ur mates are serving the gov, what useless trust is that, 1st time and even 3rd time and u didn't dim it feet to travel back to ondo, are u a baby?..the advice I have for u is to let go and next time don`t trust becus u ur self created the conducive environment for the act
ReplyDeleteyou created the conducive environment for that act, how are we sure this boy didn't break ur hrt and u want pay back, why will u follow a boy to Edo State left ur PPA most u go for a wedn........
ReplyDeleteShe wanted a SERIOUS relationship with the guy! Then maybe dude has someone else! You'd be surprised that they laughed and probably had a meal together after that first round before dude went in again! Women are just funny!
ReplyDeleteMy dear dere is nothing like u can't report to the authorities. Then how do u intend to get justice?
ReplyDeleteApart from letting your story known thru social media the authorities are the best place for u to get justice. Social media only help to warn other ladies to be careful nxt time.
Nigeria is a lawless country that is why alot of cases such as this are either never reported or even when they are, the culprits most often escape justice. I am sure this guy has raped several ladies in the past and shld be punished so that he learns his lessons. Young lady, I encourage you to report him to the police. Linda, pls do all you can to support her. Peace...
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