Let me phrase this question in a simple manner. So, you're dating someone, you get engaged, start planning a wedding and they tell you that before your traditional/white wedding - you and your spouse will be taken to a shrine where you will swear an oat before the gods that you will die just a day after you cheat on your spouse. There's no going back; you cheat and you die the next day. How many of you will still go ahead with the wedding? Think very seriously before you answer...lol (especially the men)
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1 – 200 of 224 Newer› Newest»BeforeGodAndMan I won't go ahead with the wedding * wearing my boxers*
Never.
I just might...
However people aren't always who they seem to be. I prefer the till death does us part than anything fetish just cos I'm a devout Xtian
*** mynameisSkelewu
Well i'll go. Ahead cos m nt gon cheat. On ma husband
I no do
This is a good one
Yes!!!!
I will not go ahead with the wedding. Not that I intend to cheat but I don't the circumstances life might bring during the course of the marriage.
Lol...i'd beta remain single, cheat and live.
i pray neva to cheat on my wife but i cant swear to no damn oath
could get raped u kn *winks*
Linda are u even suppose to cheat after marriage ?
Not me...not becoz I won't to cheat on my husband but becoz it's again my doctrine....to even tink of all place a shrine. God forbid
1st n foremost... CNT swear...d bible is against it!
2ndly...if der is lack of trust.. Dats wen pple go ahead swearing! If ders trust n mutual respect den nobody swears
Linda, tx God u said d men shld think well, cos me i'l go on wiv d wedding!
I can't cheat but going to shrine I can't either
Well, I won't swear to any oath but I know n I'm certain dat I won't cheat
Waiting to hear from men..promisuity resides in them..
Because its a shrine, I wont swear but in the legal way or before God I would gladly swear IF divorce is allowed cos apart from infidelity, they are other factors that can break a marriage. Kyla
I wont swear by anything.That doesnt mean i intend to cheat.I dont need any sort of proof to show how much i love my husband to be or how faithful i will be.The purest magic is in the heart
Some men would stupidly take the oath. Knowing fully well that they would cheat. They Don't mind to die. Cheating is in a man's DNA.
Hian! If its that hard, some nsukka women would have been dead long long ago...linda choooo news naa
YEA!
Why should I go ahead with such wedding. Who wan die
Have never been a fan of anybody that cheats, most times I talk to my friends about †Ñ’ξ issue of double dating... If its you am dating, I will cool down αи∂ if its over between us, we call it quits b4 I start poking my eyes elsewhere...... What am I looking for in another man that my man no get?
There's no justifiable reason for cheating, I hate ppl that are not honest in relationship or marriages, not like am a saint, aint no saint buh atimes, its good to do †Ñ’ξ right thing.... Just do †Ñ’ξ right thing
To answer ur question Linda, I wouldn't have any issue with going ahead with d wedding. Its better I file for divorce if we are no working again, than stay married to him αи∂ still cheat on him... Doesn't make sense at all
#ITwillONLYgetBETTER
#itMUSTendINpraise
This is actually very funny. But all the same, there is need to critically define "cheating" in the most unambiguous manner. This is because these so called deities (god) are so useless that they may misunderstand a common peck on the chick of a woman as cheating or worst still a suiting hug. So, I have to be careful with such oath. Linda take note.
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I would av answered, until ur biased mind said especially d men...
Oh nooo waytin b dz ????
Hehehe... the idea of shrine alone is discouraging.. I wnt cheat on him and am not gonna swear be it tradition or watever it is... d man shoud be sensible enough and take me to a Rev Fr/Pastor
Speechless 😷😷😷
I just can't do that shit, simple!
Jesus is Lord.
Linda ooo when I no dey mad
Nop, i ain't going with such wedding, temptations come at different times n in different forms.. U can't guarantee anything in this life.. That oat is 0 chance...
As a man, I will not accept such. Firstly, I'm a christian, going to the shrine is against the ambiance of the norms and value I subscribe to. Secondly why would I cheat on my wiife, where would I cheat that I won't meet. And I think you (linda) has always been scared of marriage, cos of fear of being cheated on and yes this post has everything to do with Toke makiinwa
Hmmm
NEVER! Which kind nonsense jazz is that! I can never marry into such a fetish family. My decision has nothing to do with if I would be faithful or not, but agreeing to go to dt shrine and into that marriage is a very big security risk. It means that anybody, including that your spouse, can poison you and claim that it is the shrine that killed you.
Linda, please don't take the oath. Everyone cheats. It is harmless as long as you do it safely ie with condom and you are not caught.
There are 2 many beautiful girls out there. It is boring fucking the same toto every day of your life
I will go ahead
Ko Jo... Make she hold her self, kilode
Why not all hole na hole
Why not all hole na hole
Why not all hole na hole
Why not all hole na hole
I will go ahead
I will go ahead
Cheating aside, why on earth will I go to the shrine for oath.
As a lady I will go ahead with d wedding coos I dnt ve intention of cheating on my husband.bt what kind of stupid tradition dat one ve to go to d shrine.
Very sincerely,i wud drop d idea of getting married to dat person,cos it seems d relationship is Nt built on trust.
Personally if I know dat I will still cheat when I marry him,i don't think I will go ahead with d wedding.
Nah!!!! Datz crazy stuff. If datz d condition to get married to her, I'll pass gbam!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Haba esan women dont cheat. Ask them why
I wouldn't go. Period!! There are still enough girls in the world to marry.
Dragging seat,orijin and Pringles. ..
Yes!
But most men wouldn't dare
Nooo! I'm human, and no one is infallible.
Anything can happen, if there were no sin, there wouldn't have existed forgiveness.
Plz I Kent.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
Hmmmmm....even u linda no go gree swear dat kain swear....Wetin!!!...am not saying omo boy no fit hold body buh in an event wey temptation com pass power, I do and die jst like dat...Mbanu...marriage gbakwa oku dia biko.....arada hav baby mamas all ova....at least na de trend now sef....
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*ah mk her cum first...den ah folo de lead*
Why especially the men because women don't cheat too? Emotional or otherwise all na cheating. And yep I would go ahead but if I do decide against marrying her, it won't be because I am afraid to die, it is why she is comfortable in front of a shrine.
Cheating is relative, define cheating first.
Marriage is a sacred union many have entered without proper knowledge of what they are getting into.
The vows exchanged during the ceremony is binding on all parties involved. The reason people break this vow is because they don't see the immediate consequence. Delayed judgement is not justice denied.
For those that wish to enter this union called Marriage for the glam, please consider the consequences.
For those that enter the Union cause of wealth, please consider the consequences.
For those that enter cause of everyone's getting married, please don't enter into a union until you know what you want.
For the crowd pleaser, you case is a dissertation on its own.
Am a woman and I won't go ahead with such a wedding
I will but not before a shrine that I am far greater then. I will just ask them to leave the God of justice to justify me anytime a cheat.
Is d men dat needs dis question n it will b great to have all men swear
People are more afraid of the visible than our great invisible God. The truth you actually diethe day you cheat on your spouse. It might not be a physical death,but the hedge has been broken and whosoever break the hedge the snake shall bite. You promised to be faithful before God and man.
I wudn't go on wit d marriage.A tym'll Cum dt i'll've2take same oat2send ma relatives out of ma hus.Any1who does it's under a spell though.
ofcos...why not!!! ,i will go ahead......in my dreams lolz
Chai! Pls give me 3 months to think about this question. E no easy I swear.
A child of God don't swear...so I won't take the
name of God in vain......christianity thing! Lol
I will!!!
I won't take the oat!
Oath*
Hmmmm y nt but its nt possible
Dis isn't new to me cos its a law in our custom, buh mhen..dey took it too far!! Shrine?? Haba!!!
Lool....I will end the relationship before our wedding cus man can fall into temptation at any time of is life.
The swearing tin befor Wic gods?I dnt like. Wnt do it ooo nt dat id cheat on my husband
I'm a lady and I won't even go ahead with the wedding... HELL NO!!!
I have 2 answer in Indian. "Nahii"
This is Edo tradition sha
Most ladies will do it, most men though? Heheheheh....now that would be a problem.
Nt bad,cos men cheat a lot so dey die first
*lib's namesake*
Linda, please correct this, it is let me re- phrase the question.
Hahahaha. No biko. So many temptations out there.
Hahahaha. No biko. So many temptations out there.
Lol... Please cancel the wedding
No, I won't... No one knows tomorrow. Buh wt ds dis ma First Love, I can do dat... sure, he will too
* * * Linda's 1st Daughter * * *
Question is, why would i agree to go to any shrine in the first place? If however, it was God who spoke through a proven man of God that if i cheat on my spouse i would die, i would still go ahead with the marriage.
As long we both swear the oath then no biggie... Tit for tat!
Men Oya ooooo. This question is for u ooo. Make una give us sincere answer.
I can never go ahead with such....
should u cheat on ur spouse in the first place... its not a discussion.. smh
I will go no wahala
Beautiful Ada
I can hardly think of any man that will go ahead with the wedding. Most men are unfaithful, this is something I find really hard to grasp. Only a few of them can be faithful.God help us women and shield us any STDs, baby mama drama and emotional pain, Amen.
I can't cheat on my husband but at d same time I can't go on with d marriage bcus of the fetish things. But if we can swear with a bible or a queen, then I can go on with d wedding but swearing in a shrine! No way. Capital NO. Linda u hear me so? Me no fit oooo I can't take d baggage. It too much of a baggage.
******Laughing****** This will be like suicidal for most men.
Let Thy Yes Be Thy Yes .. Why the hell will you start a relationship or marriage with gods rather than GOD!
Hehehehe! I would gladly go ahead cos I trust myself die. The question should be directed to the men. Linda take note!
Hmmmmm.... wait first... I dey come back
To come go find out say my spouse can't do nko?
The question first should be will I even subject myself to a shrine and take an oath? Never! I don't intend to cheat but I certainly will never take any oath.
Chio! I don't think i'd still marry oo. Forget all dem ladies dah complain abt cheating husband. Once another D**k is in!. Ur deading
imma just sit back and watch the comments roll in.
To be honest i cant cheat in my marriage, even before marriage i never did. But why i wont go ahead is bc am going to be married to a wrong man cause a man who still believe in shrine and its kind is ungodly and ungodliness is not good for my system lol.
Yes I would, and it will be a good remedy to stop guys from cheating
I will not marry ooooooh, as much as I trust my self,I really don't trust my self loool,i'm faithful but now that it involves death and babalawo bikonu i'm out abeg
Lol. . .hell no!!! Though I don't plan on cheating on mai pumpkin buh the truth is dah i know i wud defnitly noh go ahead wt d marriage.
God bless Nigeria!!!
Define cheating???
Maybe in china bt in africa such tins re nt for men.... Shaa am nad going ahead nt dt i plan to cheat bur am stil a human prone to err
No i will not go ahead with the wedding
OYO is their own! Which kind oath be that ps am out jare.
I can't marry with such condition, I will rather quite nd find someone else.
I can't marry with such condition, I will rather quite nd find someone else.
First of all, I won't go to any shrine and swear and oath because my religion and faith doesn't support it but if my husband to be insist, I won't go ahead with the marriage. Is not cheating is about is my faith.
Fuck now... Clean after wedding so yes.. I go ahead... But i aint doing shrines
Linda i go fit do swear swearing any day/time; no be all of spoil oo.Most of us spoil finish before marriage, so nothing to go look for outside anymore. Ultimately, with God all things are possible.
Hmmm i do not subscribe to cheating while married but what happens if i got raped while married, so i would just die like that when its not my fault? Hian. NoooooNoooooNoooo!!!
If he is the right person why not?
A woman like me dnt gv a fuck abt cheatin on my man,common relatnship I no fit try am...not to talk of marriage
Linda what are u up to this rainy Sunday...lol
If the sex has been tested and verified to be worth it, yes i will go ahead, else i back out sharply.
Me as a woman won't go for the marriage.cos men can really push you into seeking happiness elsewhere wt der stupid attitudes.
I dont need to swear jor...haba
Fidelity is a thing of d mind
Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB......
Why not.is it too hard to be loyal
I will go ahead with d wedding cos am a sure girl!
I would go ahead with the wedding!
No I wouldn't because I am a Christian
No I wouldn't because I am a Christian
I won't go ahead with such marriage biko
am a christian, i dont do that shit. she cn go to hell for all i care
Yes i will go ahead wit the wedding. I dont need to take an oat in a shine befor am sure not to cheat on my spouse. Its just a self decision and dicipline.
Yes i will go ahead wit the wedding. I dont need to take an oat in a shine befor am sure not to cheat on my spouse. Its just a self decision and dicipline.
Mmmm is kind of difficult. But I think I can do it
I cant swear an oath in any shrine just to get married. But if its a natural thing about where he comes from like in some places, if a woman cheats she dies, I can marry him bc dat I can handle
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Oh C'mon ! Where are the Feminists? Lindolites and Ikejilites?
Make this Juicy Please, This is my first time here!
Regards,
KC.
Why d men Lindodo, women are worse cheaters
Why d men Lindodo, women are worse cheaters
I will go ahead and get married, a husband and wife is expected to stay faithful and committed to eachother and if it so be that there is something to keep them in check i think i will adopt that!!!
For those who visit the shrine.
I wouldn't even marry a someone who thinks like that to start with
Yeah dat benue state tradition. But d difference is neither u nor ur spouse would be taken to any shrine to swear. Rather wen u marry their men u dare not try or attempt to cheat or flirt with another man. If otherwise., den d woman is calling for her death
Shrine sha????? No way!!!!!
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No man ll take such oath but some women could.
Yes, I will, but not in a shrine, and also if my husband to be will do d same thing
Yes I will, cheating will always be in the side of men is rare for you to see a man that doesn't cheat....there re so many ways you tackle cheating instead of refusing to wed.
Yes I will
They won't because they make up their minds to cheat even before the wedding. I think the problem is Karma. It takes too long to catch up with people these days.
Hahahhaah
For where?. If the girl insists we must do that then she is not ready for marriage yet.
Marriage should be based on mutual trust not on some fetish vow of fidelity.
Will I or will I not... No won't sign to that .... Our generation is filled with evil minds who do not know the meaning of marriage vows......
Jalivez..........
If ha hear lie lie not me God forbid. #THAT AKWA IBOM BOY #
Why the phrase 'especially men'?
Back to the question. Well I kno more now than wen I was still single or when I was about getting married so I might not go ahead. Back then, I wld have gone ahead without thinking twice bt reality is, cheating on ur spouse goes beyond they way we see it. So many things happen by chance than by planning
I will go ahead cos I know I'll never cheat on my husband for any reason
Infact will be the number one to swear an oath seriously am a sincere lady in my relationship. Infact the question should be directed to the guys.
Hmmm..Capital NO"am not Jesus
Enugu Ezike things.
When the woman cheats, the men die, the women run mad. When the man cheats, the Gods kind of understand.
That's cheating but, common, the gods are men!
Happy Sunday!
Pkay
Lol no way that will happen cos cheating is not only when you do the do but when you start enjoying someone's else attention and a lot of women are guilty of this and funny enough they think is men that always cheat. Smh
hi linda,I came from a town in the eastern part of naija where the forefathers took an oat that If there wife cheat on them that the person will run mad.then on the process of being mad u will confess or u die it u don't.so for us we are use to bring loyal to our spouse cos u know the consequences.
why will i hve to go ahead with any wedding that requires me to swear an oath in a shrine before going to the alter... thats hypocrisy i cant do that. as for the shrine and the oath, anything a native doctor does hve an antidote. it cant be a strong proof that ppl wil not still cheat
I am a woman and I would not go ahead not because I plan to cheat but it's evil. I wouldn't even let my husband swear to such,I don't want him to die and leave me because of a foolish shrine covenant. I don't wish death for a cheating husband, I'd rather leave him
I will never ever go ahead with the wedding..thats like a marriage with bondage and fear.
AS LONG AS WE ARE BOTH TAKING THE OATH. PLUS AS ALONG AS WE CAN REVERSE THE OATH IF A SITUATION CAUSES FOR A SEPARATION. ......THATS COOL
What's the point of getting married if there is no trust? Going to the extent of taking an oath of death if one cheats rubbish the institution of marriage.
Oath ke? I wont do it sorry.
I will
Marriage is an oath binding on them already...
Going to swear another one is rendering the marriage vows null and void...
Women cheat more than men this days...I won't swear in a shrine,but can make a vow to God not to cheat.
Me I go run pass Bolt for this one. Hehe
While the ultimate power of saying NO resides with the women. If all women decide to say NO, then there wont be any such thing as cheating.
See u and see ur death
Wot if ur man has a small D and can't fcuk u well.........if Alex frustrate u, u go even cheat with a goat
The vow u make on ur wedding day is not enough?
Rape nko
Hmmmmm.if my hubby is there for me n he has everything I wanted in man. Y will cheat ...Linda to b sincere I won't swear. In some part of Nsukka dis tradition still exist n d effect is only on women n d men r feel,u see dats rubbish I must say.
It's not God will for spouses to go to shrine and swear. Learn to trust each other. Shekinah
Not right
Am getting married in a couple of weeks time nd I av bin told dat in my fiance family if a woman cheats she dies. Oath I can't take but am not planning 2 cheat so am going on with the marriage. Cheating in marriage is a curse already so why take an oath again?
D truth is that both men and women r all cheats....even dose dat feel dey can take d oat will not wen is practical time...mm so make una sharap...After all women cheats more Dan men now....am a living testimony
Things like this is bad. It's better not to swear.
Toke has blessed you with this question. .. Owk Shrine no.. I can try in front of my lord Jesus dat during the course of my marriage I won't cheat.
I won't swear o nt bcos I wl cheat bt cos I don't wnt 2 build my marriage foundation on idols
There are some places that has some fetish cultures.where I am married to,u dare not cheat or u loose ur partner through death.yes is my answer
Don't mind that person above u, he/she can fear shrine but not God. Stupidity at the highest order
Nice one.
Why will I make that silly oath? Never will I go ahead.
I cannot do that rubbish farewel to the wedding
Olivia... I jus fell in love wt you for this comment u made... best so far.
Nah, I won't dare it, nt cox I plan to cheat buh cox it's nt a gud tin to take a fetish oat.
How many times would she kill me ? cos i can do with cheating .
JOOR O, WHAT DO U THINK UA DOING IN CHURCH, NO B SWEAR U DE SWEAR THERE, THE TIN IS TO SWEAR TO DIE IF U CHEAT..OK GO TO THE SHRINE AND SWEAR IN JESUS NAME, SHEH GOD SEES THE HEART NI? WAYO PPL
So what about him?
Rubbish
I won't go ahead wt the wedding
Also Nsukka. I was to marry a guy from there wen he told me about it I disappeared. I wasn't going to cheat but anything can happen like rape abeg... I no fit Shout..
Y shud I swear nooo I won't go ahead
Shrine is not a good idea though
No No No!!! Error
We need to be more enlightened as regards to the issue of oat. The truth is this, when an oat is taken of which most are blood binding it doesn't END @ the both of you that took the oat, it transfers to the subsequent generation. So I wish we really take time to think before we answer .
Question for d gods. Not for Christians
For what!!...i'd rather remain single, anyways, ders no way i'll go into a marriage dat involves shrine/juju watever.
I am a christian so i will not dabble into anything fettish. Moreover, death is not of God. Let God in heaven be the judge is they cheat.
I am a christian so i will not dabble into anything fettish. Moreover, death is not of God. Let God in heaven be the judge if they cheat.
humans eith male/female dont fear God because they know he is slow to anger. there is no difference whether traditional,church or islam, an oath is an oath. why promise what u cant fulfil?
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