And she is very correct. Unfair world indeed, especially to women as regards re-marrying after the death of a spouse. Women (widows) most often turn their affection and attention to their kids.
Its not the women but society. Even our follow women will ask why are you getting married again. Families dont encourage their sons. Men wants to take advantage of them. It is an unfair world in Nigeria
You an idiot sometimes. I wonder why you write something's. It could happen to you as a woman but i dont wish you that. Think before you talk. No one knows tomorrow
Dont blame dem bro! They are thinking normally.....d way a responsible woman wud think and talk. Honestly life is not fair! All the same Happy Married Life Dad!
Yes it is the truth, many women who are widows at their 30's and 40's ain't married or Are not allowed to marry bcos of cultural and traditional predicament so to me it's not good, the world is just unfair to some women
This woman is a trouble maker o! How does that concern this mans wedding,she's just an attention seeking bitch.wrong timing to say this abeg.so is oshiomole the one that made those women not find love again? How does it concern this wedding?
Abeg can they forget all forms of Negatively and just congratulate him!!! Yes he re-married, and he won't be the only man, and also I know some women who have remarried after their spouse demise.....
I love how she passed a message without offending anyone. It's true...A lot of widows out there wish they could remarry without society crucifying them.
Come on Oby... Just let the man be. Ok, I also know a few Widowers who never remarried nor loved any other, but instead turned their love to their offerings. But in the interim, this your comment or tweet is absolutely not necessary.
True about that. I'm a proof to that statement, been a widow for 6yrs now with 3 kids but I just focus on my kids and trying to manage the business I just started. I'm 36 yrs but look much younger cos I work out. I just feel my kids need me more that's why I've turned down all marriage proposals. Sacrifices we make for our kids...God is our strength.
Madam please remarry, ur kids needs a father figure. Wish I knew half of what I know now, my mum won't have died a widow, unless you are happy this way else, ur kids needs u more is no excuse.
Culturally or morally my own tradition doesn't prevent either gender not to remarry. its a matter of choice. Although I understand the point she's trying to make.
Oby are you a woman or man? I am confused here. You failed to see nothing wrong in what Adams did. What of all the Nigerian girls he has been with since the demise wife, he found non suitable abi? I don't blame Edo people, they can like foreign things. Including their women. Aisha Buhari said so
It's an unfair world all around Linda, culturally or otherwise, but what is important is, the comrade found love again and it's his moment so let's celebrate him. Epa enjoy
anu ofia..everything must be a competition of some sort for you...you wldnt even let d shine be on ur "friend's" wedding,u needed to bring in gender equality and all those crap dat come with you into d scenery.. are u an empirical evidence of transferring ur love to ur chidren after ur hubby died?and if dat be d case,den us ound like u regret it
Madam oby wetin concern you if oshoo baba remarry, @least he try pass all other people wen there wife die wey remarry sharp sharp @ least we knw say him no keep illicit affair like others who did not wait up to one year. Abi u dey eye am So park well,
Ma i understand your points..its a man's world although the bible does not frown about it... its only upon a spouse's death one can re-marry.. am happy for him i hope its true love...
Would anyone call this true "LOVE"... These are tons of 40-45-50 years old widowers who are better looking but just because they don't have solid financial base can not find LOVE, but a 63 years old rich gov can PULL the prettiest woman on the continent. Congrats!
WE ARE IN THE MENS' WORLD MA THAT IS THE NOTION ESPECIALLY IN AFRICA....ATLEAST HE EVEN TRIED WHAT OF SOME OTHER MEN THAT CAN STAY UPTO SIX (6) MONTHS....#JUST_THINKING_OUT_LOUD
Don't mind d stupis women let them be fooling themselves there.well thank GOD things are changing drastically come and see widows getting married after 1yr of their husbands passing away
There are sometimes it is very good to keep your opinion to yourself.Some choose to re-marry ,some choose to mess around,and pretend they are single.So don't play the gender game.
It is an unfair world indeed. Well, things have to change. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Women, do not mind what people will say. If you find love after a divorce or the death of your hubby, go ahead and marry.
women need to show society that things ought to change,what works for a man should work for a woman,i don't see why a woman won't remarry if she lost her spouse to the cold hands of death, that's old school
That's because they have chosen that path ma'am. I really don't understand why there's always a need to "conform" to people's/society's so-called expectation of you, especially in our part of the world. Ladies, if you do find love, after your spouse passes and you feel you are ready, why not? They will call you a bad mother? Ashewo? Desperate? Ehen? My motto is..."They" will also move on and find the next person to gossip about.
WTF does this even mean? Must she comment? You either celebrate, keep quiet or hate, do NOT confuse us...even d female folk are lost ede.ozed@yahoo.com
For your information, Adam did not find love, he found infatuation and a trophy wife. He's a clear cut case of one finding himself a trophy wife for show purposes and personal aggrandizement. There's no love of any sort here, except may be the love of money on the young girl's part. Period.
Dear Mrs. Oby, the man can't just keep his third leg from 🚶, so instead of doing it everywhere and with everyone he is better off married 💑. Too bad its not fair. But life goes on. So many women also remarry. They mostly look for who will help train their kids.
What's even wrong with this oby, Amebo? Adam didn't he see all d edo girls rushin to Italy and marry one to reduce their Number? Dis is the true colour of APC, fake.
It's usually a matter of choice on the side of the women to direct all the love towards their children .There is no cultural or religious barrier. Guess they want a peaceful ending because getting hooked up with another guy will open up a whole lot of events they never know
Yes, Oby. Plus, what does one make of the monumental age difference between a wrinkled, old groom and a much younger bride fit to be his grand-daughter? So, why won't these "men" marry women in their same generation with shared cultural values/life outlook? Or it's all about feeding on young blood with no substance behind it? Now, I appreciate Mandela even more bcos both his personal and public lives merged harmoniously.
You Linda, sometimes I wonder how people on this platform or should I say, on social networks think, reason or act. Some of these people are either half-baked or lack education in its ramifications bcos, an wondering how any sane person would read what Ma'am Oby Ezekwesili said here and misinterprete her? It's a shame majority are busy calling her names instead if digesting and assimilating proper, the message embedded in her write up. It's a shame
Here, women are always at the receiving end. My dad died when my mum was 32 but with 6 children. So, who will marry a woman of 32 with her 6 children? Will she even consider marrying an option? Bt for the men, even wit 69 children and at age 78, women will agree to still marry him regardless and instead of some people reasoning with their heads, they choose their anus for thinking. It's a man's world as its popularly said and Nigerian women are always at the receiving end.
Men and women are wired differently. A devout woman can stay without re-marrying. If a man does that, know that he's doing a lot of hideous things bad in public eye. We are not of the same physiology and build. Imagine God set his merciful eyes on Adam and saw that it was not good for the type of being he created to be alone. That was the notion of our maker from the word 'Go"
We see..
ReplyDeleteAnd she is very correct. Unfair world indeed, especially to women as regards re-marrying after the death of a spouse. Women (widows) most often turn their affection and attention to their kids.
Delete#TeamBlessed#
On dis she is way so wrong moreso its a personal choice if d female wants to remarry or not.
DeleteSo let her stop drumming d drum where its not necessary.
It's nigerian women that do it to themselves na. Who is asking them not to marry. Forever concerned with what the next person thinks.
DeleteShe's vry correct
DeleteIts not the women but society. Even our follow women will ask why are you getting married again. Families dont encourage their sons. Men wants to take advantage of them. It is an unfair world in Nigeria
DeleteThis woman sef
ReplyDeleteMadam zuzout plz! Who asked u? Nwanyi akpu obi mtchew!
ReplyDeleteLolzzzz
DeleteYou an idiot sometimes. I wonder why you write something's. It could happen to you as a woman but i dont wish you that. Think before you talk. No one knows tomorrow
DeleteTrue talk here but are you saying that Adams should have turn his love to his children and forget about marrying again
ReplyDeleteTalking about children, were his children present at the wedding? I hope they are in support
DeleteIt's a man's world madam oby.
ReplyDeleteShe is blowing hot, and cold. Pls someone tell me wht she is trying to send across. Biko send ur congrats msg, and tak d exit door madam.
ReplyDeleteDont blame dem bro! They are thinking normally.....d way a responsible woman wud think and talk. Honestly life is not fair! All the same Happy Married Life Dad!
Delete#Word
ReplyDeleteSubtle shade.lol
ReplyDeleteYes it is the truth, many women who are widows at their 30's and 40's ain't married or Are not allowed to marry bcos of cultural and traditional predicament so to me it's not good, the world is just unfair to some women
ReplyDeleteWe need to make amends because in the North, especially among Muslims, such occurrences are minimal.
DeleteBros not the world. Is African mentality .
DeleteHmmm. Na death find trouble ooo
ReplyDeleteThis woman is here again to display her stupidity
ReplyDeleteAm still asking, Is this love?
ReplyDeleteYes it is. The question should be is it for the man or his money? I guess you can answer that, Abi?
DeleteNope na money o
DeleteMunji
ReplyDeleteSo true
ReplyDeleteWhy ruin a friend's happiness with such campaign for women? Be happy for him and move on.
ReplyDeleteThis woman is a trouble maker o! How does that concern this mans wedding,she's just an attention seeking bitch.wrong timing to say this abeg.so is oshiomole the one that made those women not find love again? How does it concern this wedding?
ReplyDeleteBecareful gal what you say. Think before you write. The B word Why are you using that. Do you know your tomorrow
DeleteIt's a man's world so they said
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
She is saying the truth but this is a mens world incase she has forgotten.......
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Mens world?? When u won't leave social media n face ur school!
Deleteshe got a point tho
ReplyDeleteI seriously Agree with dat Nigga. Olohun #Lobatan
ReplyDeleteThat is d society dat we live in.....The male gets everytin dey want...but females dont...
ReplyDeleteMoye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....
Oby Ezekwesili tho..., always having something to say. Got her message still
ReplyDeleteAbeg can they forget all forms of Negatively and just congratulate him!!! Yes he re-married, and he won't be the only man, and also I know some women who have remarried after their spouse demise.....
ReplyDeleteVery Unfair world!
ReplyDeleteKeep runin ya hustle
ReplyDeleteI love how she passed a message without offending anyone. It's true...A lot of widows out there wish they could remarry without society crucifying them.
ReplyDeleteAre You A One Minute Man?
It is well. Wish them a blissful union. God is the husband of the widow @Oby
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeletethis is not the platform for her to bring this up, not today not now not after congratulating him.
ReplyDeleteBitch pls.
ReplyDeleteI just love dis lady, always on point! She spoke my mind! God bless U lady u are my role model
ReplyDeleteCongrats to Gov Osho baba.
ReplyDeleteInappropriate headline, typical of bloggers, columnist and journalist!! Misleading the people since 1500BC
ReplyDeleteShe never truly talk wetin dey her mind oh.
ReplyDeleteDis one no be congrats matter.
She never truly talk wetin dey her mind oh.
ReplyDeleteDis one no be congrats matter.
Come on Oby... Just let the man be. Ok, I also know a few Widowers who never remarried nor loved any other, but instead turned their love to their offerings. But in the interim, this your comment or tweet is absolutely not necessary.
ReplyDeleteWe are in a misogynistic society which tends to favour men more than women. We hope for a better society for women... *HeForShe
ReplyDeleteTrue
ReplyDeleteShe is right!!!
ReplyDeleteTrue about that. I'm a proof to that statement, been a widow for 6yrs now with 3 kids but I just focus on my kids and trying to manage the business I just started. I'm 36 yrs but look much younger cos I work out. I just feel my kids need me more that's why I've turned down all marriage proposals. Sacrifices we make for our kids...God is our strength.
ReplyDeleteMadam please remarry, ur kids needs a father figure. Wish I knew half of what I know now, my mum won't have died a widow, unless you are happy this way else, ur kids needs u more is no excuse.
DeleteDid anyone ask u not to remarry???
DeleteMy Mom is one!!! and i applaud her for that. She gave us education!!! Women are the great...I love them
ReplyDeleteLIKE MY MUM, SOMETIMES I WISH SHE REMARRIED. SHE IS SO LONELY NOW. ALWAYS EAGER TO SEE US OR HER GRANDCHILDREN. MAY GOD CONT TO BLESS HER 4 ME.
ReplyDeleteWE HEAR U MADAM....TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteIt's their choice,its better to remarry than messing around.
ReplyDeleteShe is only interested in his money. its very obvious
ReplyDeleteShe is only interested in his money. its very obvious
ReplyDelete4 once I agree wif dis woman.. Unfairworld 4
ReplyDeletewomen
Lib freak
True talk....
ReplyDeleteOsho baba na wa u, u sure say na love this girl love u or ur money......anyway happy married life
ReplyDeleteNimelda said so.....
My thought exactly,i feel he should v married a widow...just as i feel this woman will b unfaithful... all in all i wish dem d best.
ReplyDeleteSad Indeed!!!
ReplyDeletehear hear!
ReplyDeletechauvinist pigs i say
if it was a woman that did the same, our society will accuse her of killing her husband
This woman is talking from both sides of her mouth.
ReplyDeleteAre you congratulating him or mourning?
Culturally or morally my own tradition
ReplyDeletedoesn't prevent either gender not to remarry.
its a matter of choice. Although I understand
the point she's trying to make.
hmmm so trueeeeee
ReplyDeleteGlory be to God
ReplyDeleteMa dear tell dem men men men. Now datz wot I call true love, lmao..... Plz osho try treck to prove say u trully love her.
ReplyDeleteMadam, have you finished sleeping with baba iyabo?
ReplyDeleteOby are you a woman or man? I am confused here. You failed to see nothing wrong in what Adams did. What of all the Nigerian girls he has been with since the demise wife, he found non suitable abi? I don't blame Edo people, they can like foreign things. Including their women. Aisha Buhari said so
ReplyDeleteWhich one come be your own? you congratulated him and castigate his decision at the same time! talkative!!!
ReplyDeleteI will remarry if it's me children or not we all need someone to comfort us and stand by us
ReplyDeleteseriously marriage after death of a spouse is not a bad thing..
ReplyDeleteWord!
ReplyDeleteHe tried after 5years. Some pastors own was after a year. No name mentioned.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk...I wish itz dsame wif women
ReplyDelete*LIB's Namesake
He has a point anyway
ReplyDelete...NA ZO
It's an unfair world all around Linda, culturally or otherwise, but what is important is, the comrade found love again and it's his moment so let's celebrate him. Epa enjoy
ReplyDeleteMadam, I know many widows who marry months after their husbands death too. My uncle lost his wife about 20 years ago and he's still single.
ReplyDeleteanu ofia..everything must be a competition of some sort for you...you wldnt even let d shine be on ur "friend's" wedding,u needed to bring in gender equality and all those crap dat come with you into d scenery..
ReplyDeleteare u an empirical evidence of transferring ur love to ur chidren after ur hubby died?and if dat be d case,den us ound like u regret it
This the Kind of wife Jonathan is suppose to have.Beautiful is the word
ReplyDeleteSadly the truth as men are wary of being saddled with children from other marriage, even more so of women whose husband's died mysteriously. Sad
ReplyDeleteThat's d world we live in.it's a man's world. Hmmmm. Just 5 years and he has forgotten her.
ReplyDeleteHaven't seen Oby this positive to something in a long time. She's always on the negative side
ReplyDeleteThis woman sef
ReplyDeleteWell, you cant change nature dear Oby. We are men and nature has made us that way. Please deal with it.
ReplyDeleteMadam oby wetin concern you if oshoo baba remarry, @least he try pass all other people wen there wife die wey remarry sharp sharp @ least we knw say him no keep illicit affair like others who did not wait up to one year. Abi u dey eye am So park well,
ReplyDeleteIts still a man's world, no matter how much of gender equality we delude ourselves to have attained.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeleteMa i understand your points..its a man's world although the bible does not frown about it... its only upon a spouse's death one can re-marry.. am happy for him i hope its true love...
ReplyDeleteMADAM DEY GO JOR.DONT SPOIL THIS HAPPY MOMENT.
ReplyDeleteShe's making so much sense
ReplyDeleteShe's so right
ReplyDeleteThis woman is just stupid
ReplyDeleteVery true
ReplyDeleteThis's the first time I like this woman
ReplyDeleteHmm this woman self! So he shouldn't have married Right?madam take am easy o
ReplyDeleteAwwww
ReplyDeleteOKORO UPGRADED**
Would anyone call this true "LOVE"... These are tons of 40-45-50 years old widowers who are better looking but just because they don't have solid financial base can not find LOVE, but a 63 years old rich gov can PULL the prettiest woman on the continent. Congrats!
ReplyDeleteUK Tog
WE ARE IN THE MENS' WORLD MA THAT IS THE NOTION ESPECIALLY IN AFRICA....ATLEAST HE EVEN TRIED WHAT OF SOME OTHER MEN THAT CAN STAY UPTO SIX (6) MONTHS....#JUST_THINKING_OUT_LOUD
ReplyDeleteShe's right......
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeleteI respect women
We men ain't loyal
She's right, I like Oby Ezekwesili, she's a fearless woman.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunate truth. It's a mans world as they say
ReplyDeleteWell said
ReplyDeleteDon't mind d stupis women let them be fooling themselves there.well thank GOD things are changing drastically come and see widows getting married after 1yr of their husbands passing away
ReplyDeleteWho asked for dis evil woman opinion? Birds of d same feathers.
ReplyDeleteWell spoken
ReplyDeleteThat's Africa for you.... Women have really suffered.... It's well...
ReplyDeleteThere are sometimes it is very good to keep your opinion to yourself.Some choose to re-marry ,some choose to mess around,and pretend they are single.So don't play the gender game.
ReplyDeleteTrue. Lost my dad when my mum was 40. She dare not dream of remarrying. #women
ReplyDeleteOby can support bad tin.So if her daughter decides to marry a man of Osho's baba age,she will agree to it?lies
ReplyDeleteAuntylindagoddaughter
I love the first tweet, but must she make this about women?
ReplyDeleteNot asif she's lieng thoe and linda the way you put it thoe
ReplyDeleteLOLZ
ReplyDeleteMmmmmm its alrite! My uncle wife got marriedooo afta his demise! #MBOK#
ReplyDeleteHmmmm she is ranting again very soon she will start asking for empirical evidence lmao
ReplyDeleteIt is an unfair world indeed. Well, things have to change. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander. Women, do not mind what people will say. If you find love after a divorce or the death of your hubby, go ahead and marry.
ReplyDeleteOshiomohle Likes yellow girls. all the yellow Girls in Edo state has been touched by him so he moved to ethiopia. Bite me!
ReplyDeletewomen need to show society that things ought to change,what works for a man should work for a woman,i don't see why a woman won't remarry if she lost her spouse to the cold hands of death, that's old school
ReplyDeleteTrue true talk. Women hardly remarry. They turn their love to their kids. Women and their kids.
ReplyDeleteMy dear no one tells the women not to remarry. Its their choice to remain single. Congrats adams and wife.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk!
ReplyDeleteI think I agree with her...
ReplyDeleteIt's true...very unfair
ReplyDeleteThat's because they have chosen that path ma'am. I really don't understand why there's always a need to "conform" to people's/society's so-called expectation of you, especially in our part of the world. Ladies, if you do find love, after your spouse passes and you feel you are ready, why not? They will call you a bad mother? Ashewo? Desperate? Ehen? My motto is..."They" will also move on and find the next person to gossip about.
ReplyDeleteShe is totally right.
ReplyDeleteVery true! i agree with her totally!
ReplyDeleteMadam Oby, abegiiiii free the man mbok, body no be ply wood, even pastor Kumuyi re-marry, how much more Osho baba..
ReplyDeleteWTF does this even mean? Must she comment? You either celebrate, keep quiet or hate, do NOT confuse us...even d female folk are lost ede.ozed@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteSo true! I pray I never become a widow. Watching my mother live without my dad was really tough for me. We all need someone.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeletethis idiot should shut up. she always sees oppression of women in everything. oby carry your sorry silly ass away.
ReplyDeleteE spikeeele ya,maka confusion madam oby!!Lol
ReplyDeleteFor your information, Adam did not find love, he found infatuation and a trophy wife. He's a clear cut case of one finding himself a trophy wife for show purposes and personal aggrandizement. There's no love of any sort here, except may be the love of money on the young girl's part. Period.
ReplyDeleteBeauty and the beast.
ReplyDeleteMust she react to everything? This woman definitely gonna get an award from twitter.
ReplyDeleteBusy Fingers.
Na so madam. Dt is due process of life
ReplyDeleteHmmm... Did I smell a rat?. Hope he's not banging her cos all I smell is jealousy..
ReplyDeleteUr a very big fool and to think dat Ur a woman gosh! It's becos of women like U dat d society is unfair to women. Idiot anu npama
DeleteThe man get eye sha
ReplyDeleteYes dat true,women are just sooo loyal
ReplyDeleteDear Mrs. Oby, the man can't just keep his third leg from 🚶, so instead of doing it everywhere and with everyone he is better off married 💑. Too bad its not fair. But life goes on. So many women also remarry. They mostly look for who will help train their kids.
ReplyDeleteur opinion ma
ReplyDeleteTrue.
ReplyDeleteHer opinion
ReplyDeletemadam shhhhhh.......u no gt wetin 2 talk¿ whr is d #empirical evidence dt wt u said is tru?
ReplyDeleteIt's easier for a woman to live alone.
ReplyDeleteLIB readers cn b so dumb! You mean 90% of pips who made comments on this post didn't get her message
ReplyDeleteYeah my mama. He found true Lust.
ReplyDeleteIts sad how many people just choose to Misread what this woman is saying. We are the cause of our problems in this country
ReplyDeleteWhat's even wrong with this oby, Amebo? Adam didn't he see all d edo girls rushin to Italy and marry one to reduce their Number? Dis is the true colour of APC, fake.
ReplyDeleteWhat empirical evidence does she have to support this??😂
ReplyDeleteIt's usually a matter of choice on the side of the women to direct all the love towards their children .There is no cultural or religious barrier. Guess they want a peaceful ending because getting hooked up with another guy will open up a whole lot of events they never know
ReplyDeleteWe've "Culturally Accepted" the "Emperical Evidence"
ReplyDelete#Nanapearl#
Happy for him. Must have been lonely
ReplyDeleteYes, Oby. Plus, what does one make of the monumental age difference between a wrinkled, old groom and a much younger bride fit to be his grand-daughter? So, why won't these "men" marry women in their same generation with shared cultural values/life outlook? Or it's all about feeding on young blood with no substance behind it? Now, I appreciate Mandela even more bcos both his personal and public lives merged harmoniously.
ReplyDeleteAdams is happy, make yourself happier than he is by watching this comedy skit IYA AWERO BUKA BEANS COMEDY SKIT
ReplyDeleteYou Linda, sometimes I wonder how people on this platform or should I say, on social networks think, reason or act. Some of these people are either half-baked or lack education in its ramifications bcos, an wondering how any sane person would read what Ma'am Oby Ezekwesili said here and misinterprete her? It's a shame majority are busy calling her names instead if digesting and assimilating proper, the message embedded in her write up. It's a shame
ReplyDeleteHere, women are always at the receiving end. My dad died when my mum was 32 but with 6 children. So, who will marry a woman of 32 with her 6 children? Will she even consider marrying an option? Bt for the men, even wit 69 children and at age 78, women will agree to still marry him regardless and instead of some people reasoning with their heads, they choose their anus for thinking. It's a man's world as its popularly said and Nigerian women are always at the receiving end.
ReplyDeleteWhat you choose to do within the ambit of legality is solely your choice. So Madam Oby just be happy with him and dats all.
ReplyDeleteIt's a matter of choice. Some #women remarry after the death of there spouse. #ViseVersa
ReplyDeleteMen cannot do without sex, if not he is not suppose to remarry
ReplyDeleteMen and women are wired differently. A devout woman can stay without re-marrying. If a man does that, know that he's doing a lot of hideous things bad in public eye. We are not of the same physiology and build. Imagine God set his merciful eyes on Adam and saw that it was not good for the type of being he created to be alone. That was the notion of our maker from the word 'Go"
ReplyDeletePlease what do we mean when we say it's a man's world? This world belongs more to the women if you ask me?
ReplyDelete