Dear LIB readers: Who do I report my husband's excess demand for sex to?
From a female LIB reader
My husband's sexual libido is so high that as his wife, I am exhausted and tired. He demands for sex from me like every other day and my refusal has caused issues between us. It is not like I am trying to run away from my marital duties but sometimes I just need him to understand that the rigors of work and taking care of our three little children takes its toll on me and sex is sometimes the last thing on my mind. I might just want to rest and as hardened a he is, even when he sees that I climb the bed by 11.30pm and I am to wake up by 5.30am to start preparing the children for school, he doesn't care and still demands sex from me. I am Tired. Now I am thinking if I should talk to my Pastor or his Father so that they can talk to him for me. Is this a right or wrong move?
Hahahah...idiat.finally she for kukuma drop the man digits for the girls them.Buh honestly Oga need orientation sha,some local men can demand sex for ages,lol.report him to his papa,he won't be comfortable with the pastor knowing this.he needs orientation before him kill you for midnight,Buh make sure he can comprehend before he starts coming home late sha
You better go get some real energy boosters and aphrodisiacs to make sure u are up to it Cos its ur conjugal responsibility. ..wyl you are it you can be praying for him.
Maybe be meets and sees lotsa hot women during the day but holds himself believing that his wife has a duty to put him out of his conji.
1 man's fud is anoda man's poison, if u allow him go out he wl never come bk home. Talk tins out btw d 2 of u, gv each oda day n tym. It can b done in d weekend
Dnt try dat idea o,its wrong,try sit him down nd explain tins 2 him..cos I feel ur pain dear,bt in dis case it's takes wisdom nd undastanding wit more patient..beta seek a counsellor..
Talk 2 ur father inlaw? You must be outta ur mind! Do u knw if he inherited it frm his dad? Pls call ur hubby quietly n hv a heart 2 heart talk wt him. Mk him uunderstand u a'int runnin frm ur responsibilities but jst explain in a matured way
Let me tell u, what other women are begging for your here complaining, see your first move that is wrong is to even make it open. . For your own interest no need to talk too much, just keep giving him sex..women sha, everything na issue for una
I might not be married, , but I don't think reporting him to his father or pastor is the right move. Because he might feel embarrassed and then take it the wrong way.. just sit him down and talk to him and make him see reasons.. U guys can probably come up with a sex schedule or something lol #okbye *runs*
Madam sharrap and open ur legs or another woman will open her legs for him. Women too dey complain, if he doesn't fuck una go talk, if he fucks too much una go talk. Well different strokes for different folks
I feel ur pain, but reporting to his Pastor or Father might be the worst thing ever. You should thank your husband he's all over u for sex and not demanding it outside. I'll advice you don't argue with him each time he needs it cos having sex wit you @ anytime he wishes is his right so don't argue as he might go get it from somewhere which might be a bigger problem for you. My 2cent.
Please learn to enjoy and report to nobody. You should be thanking your God he still wants you after 3 children.
Sex is your only duty he can't get someone to do for you. You should get a nanny, househelp and even work woman that will do your office work for you so you can do your primary duty as a wife.
Please learn to enjoy and report to nobody. You should be thanking your God he still wants you after 3 children.
Sex is your only duty he can't get someone to do for you. You should get a nanny, househelp and even work woman that will do your office work for you so you can do your primary duty as a wife.
N do you know how he satisfied his whims, common, the fact is its natural to feel the urban n thus he married, I am talking from experience here, my uncle had same issue and as work carry am Waka na pikin he carry come. Oya choose one now, u n ur kids or extended battery, just saying, lik someone suggested draw a schedule for it, it works, that way you both look forward to it, *runs off*.
You have to find a good time is during partying or church activities to talk with him. Make him see how much you love him while presenting your challenges. I believe that slowly but surely he will change. Reporting to the Pastor or his father may make him engage in clandestine romantic activities. Be wise!
My dear, dnt go about discussing such issues with people uhn, u shuld b happy he is always asking frm you,so u have always prepare ur mind towards that. Am sure u don't want him to go outside uhn!
DON'T REPORT HIM TO ANYONE OUTSIDE YOUR MARRIAGE OR ELSE YOU WILL BE ADDING FUEL TO FIRE. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS SIMPLE BOTH OF YOU SHOULD SIT AND HAVE A HEART TO HEART TALK. LET ME KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND BOTH OF YOU NEED TO REACH A COMPROMISE. YOUR HUSBAND HAS ISSUES WHICH MAKES HIM TO DEMAND FOR SEX. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND HIM AND GENTLY HELP HIM TO OVERCOME IT. HELP HIM TO OPEN UP TO YOU AND FIND ALTERNATIVE WAY TO EXPRESS HIS PASSION. ALSO WITH UNDERSTANDING... I LEARNT THIS FROM A MATURED AND EXPERIENCED WOMAN, ALL YOU MAY NEED TO DO IS TO MASSAGE HIS EGGPLANT AND NOT NECESSARY SEX. BE PATIENT MADAM AND LEAD HIM ON INSTEAD OF RESISTING HIM. WHAT YOU MAY THINK IS A PROBLEM IS WHAT SOME OTHER WOMEN WANT... A HUSBAND THAT MAY WANT THEM.
U can also tell GOD dont let it be ur pastor and father inlaw alone, mumu woman, u better accept ur faith for GOOD and grap ur husband for LIFE this is what some women are praying and looking for in their marriage, i advice ur to apply WISDOM and adjust ur life and SEX life so their wont be issue in ur home, men DONT JOKE with sex i pray God will see u through.
You are a big fool if u tell ur pastor anything of such,they swear for Nigerians with Pastors? I don't get it! Talk to him and or keep having it,its good for the body and u r lucky he finds u attractive to sex.
Endurance is the name of a happy marital life. You need to endure more. Try all means by which you can adapt to the pressure of sex from your husband.
Men who do not play away matches always depend on their wives to satisfy them sexually. Sorry about your schedule of duty and other pressures, but you must find the means of pleasing him. He is your little god.
Remember, he will be there always for you if you are in need. If he is caring and loving, hold onto him and never allow him an inch of opportunity to get those girls to please him. The day that starts, you and your marriage may be in trouble.
Last note, do not report him to his Father, Pastor, sister or any of your relations. It will never help, rather it will open a wide crack in your marital life. A word is enough for the wise.
Please don't put your marriage out there for any reason. Do your matrimonial duties with happiness and simply talk to him by yourself alone. Issue like this can be devastating when a third party is involved. If you wanna take happiness away from your home, do it.
Beside that's your man's nature, have you ever thought of what will happen if you deny him that? There are many gurls out there that will be happy to give it to him for free...you know what that means?
I totally understand dis lady. It's very annoying wen ur hubby wants Sex n ur not in d mood. Just sit him down n discuss it with him. Make him understand u luv him a lot bu not physically ready at d time. I always use d phrase"d spirit is willing bu d flesh is weak " 4 my hubby. God Ll help u
U are a tertiary Phool, so wen he starts cheating u will send anoda lib letter. Better start taking high energy rich foods nd perform ur duty as a wife..nd no don't tell anyone Madam no sense.
Don't get anyone involved in this if u don't want to ruin ur marriage.Just keep talking to him and get ur mind off the fact that he's over asking for it pls.Dis is important before u loose him to those daredevil whores out ther
My dear satisfy ur hubby biko, sex even helps relieve stress, sometimes u can take d weekend off with ur hubby without d children, u can also get a nanny too dat will help so u have more time. Biko have sex with ur hubby
Nawaoooo. be happy he still wants you after three children. Others only have one but they never get to sleep with their husbands often. Now if he decides to go somewhere else and get what you are not willing to give him, you will complain or say he is cheating. I'm just saying.
The only person to report it to is to him. Have you sat him down and really let him know that you can handle it so much. Set dates on the calendar that you can both live by and stick to them. Also tell him to masturbate in between, he can take care of his own needs too.
My dear its nt a wrong move, but it depends on d relationship betwn ur husband n his pastor or dad, n also try to sit and think on hw ur husband will act if u report him. Best of luck in ur marriage.
Talk to who Madam? Do u want to push your hubby to the outside Ladies that are ready for see 247?
Better find a way to adjust to his sex demands and get accustomed to it and your marriage would be great and fine. Don't even bother telling anyone, 'cause you would be selling your hubby out IMO. And if he gets to know, it might send a wrong signal to him and your marriage could start having frictions. So, my advice, adjust and get accustomed to it.
Wrong move. You. Don't have to report or take ur family matter with anyone. You can talk things over with him and pray he understands.besides it's his marital right to be satisfied by you and don't make him start cheating on u cos u wil also regret it. May God guide you.
Every other day you can mix a little sleeping tablet in his night food by the time you get to bed, he would have passed out lol. Before ya bia mebi cha ibongi gi lol
Hahahahahaha...Sowie sweetie Buh the bitter truth is this is what you have signed for...reporting him to ur pastor or his father is giving him free ticket to go out cus he might not want to bother u anymore...u should even be happy ur hubby still demands see from u so much after three kids...ask around men get turned off from see with their wives after just one child, some women literally have to beg their hubby for sex....dont report him just pray to God abt the sex issue...there isn't anything to difficult for God
Oh!left my Ex cos of this,his monstrous meat is bigger and long and I have severe r pains each time,he doesn't even cum in time.when he proposed I simply refused.i can't cope with the everlasting pain.I advice you sit him down and talk about it.
Wrong move......talk to no one abt ur sexual life....talk to him and pray he understands....if he refuses to understand and still demands for sex everytime/day...den pretend u re sick wen ever he cums.arund...shekina
Was it like that during courtship ? I can understand your pains and I feel what you feel like..you shall be fine, try to find out extensively why he's reacting that way
Eiyah.....Pray about it. Irony of Life...the way I pray for my hubby to love n demand for sex, another woman is tired. Anyways, too much of everything is not good.
I don't support the idea of you reporting your husband to either his Daddy or your pastor, you can amicably discuss the issue with your husband & hear what he will say, if his response is positive good, if negative still play your role & raise the topic from time to time but not 2 frequent.
The best response so far. I will say his inability to do other things except sex is what is bothering this lady not the sex itself. Women tend to get bitter when a man sits around n u do all the work then as soon as u climb ur bed to rest they pounce on u like a gorilla esp these days when the demands on the woman is high. Lack of trustworthy helps. The woman is also expected to work and contribute in the home. So before Pple begin to comment rubbish, make sure u get the whole picture.
B4 talking to pastor or father, pls talk to ur hubby. If the issue is exhaustion then suggest ways he alleviate the work load from u. Eg getting a reliable nanny or he helping out wt some house work or even dropping the kids wt grandparents while u take some days off from time to time.
You're inviting evil into your household o. Don't involve 3rd parties into your marriage: be it his father/mother, your own father/mother, his pastor or yours. Go ahead and satisfy your husband! Perform your marital duties without complain. You can only talk/pray to God. Be forewarned, darling. Thanks.
B4 talking to pastor or father, pls talk to ur hubby. If the issue is exhaustion then suggest ways he alleviate the work load from u. Eg getting a reliable nanny or he helping out wt some house work or even dropping the kids wt grandparents while u take some days off from time to time.
You are a terrible wife. IF your husband was getting one million dollars the next day. Whether na 11:30 or 3am you will still have energy to shag him. You just dont care about your hubby's sexual needs. Shame on you. Make the time. And if you cant make love to him...what happened to blow jobs?
As a wife before going to seek the advice of a third party, call ur husband aside, after treating him to a gud meal and tell him ur problem with his excess demand for sex..... You two should try and work thing out as a family instead of seeking the advice of a third party.
We both have the same problem. Don't report him to anybody, what l did was that l will accept sometime and denied him sometime too and let him Realise that l have children to take of and not only him.
Lol! Na now u know say ur husband like sex abi....dey there abegi......thats the thing with most ladies,they close thier eyes and sense of reasoning when dating,thinking they can manage the situation when they get married ,just because they want to answer Mrs by all means possible.
Okpo .....u make it sound as if what the husband is doing is bad or a side effect or a negative stuff......70% of marriage s are suffering from lack of sex, her this woman is just lucky, just that she's too blind to notice
Dear poster ur lucky mine has not touched me since December claiming he has a phobia for sleeping with a pregnant woman and then he will says his not cheating meanwhile always staying out of d house till day break ur lucky ooh
Lol! Na now u know say ur husband like sex abi....dey there abegi......thats the thing with most ladies,they close thier eyes and sense of reasoning when dating,thinking they can manage the situation when they get married ,just because they want to answer Mrs by all means possible.
I know it's some how difficult for you, but please discuss with your hubby so as to meet half way, i.e you can do the deed before going to bed. I can assure that you would sleep like a log afterwards.
Be happy he still finds you sexually attractive after three kids, cos some will abandon their wife and go get it outside. Please keep your home and don't go reporting him to anyone as doing so might not get you the desired result.
Get a housekeeper and/or nanny to help with the house chores. You need to give your husband the attention he needs before he starts cheating. You can also take the kids to their grandparents' for the weekend so you and your hubby can have some quality time together. You just have to find a way to make it work.
Hmmm...don't talk to any1 about it dear, the only person u should talk to about issues like sex is ur husband...and if he still doesn't listen...don't try to go out ur way to satisfy him especially when he isn't helping with the house affairs...have sex with him when u can, try ur possible best...but when ur body is weak don't do it. sex is meant to be enjoyed by two people who are married and not to be endured. Ring this in ur ear, all men cheat, so fucking him everyday won't keep him. Try ur best, but if u can't. Don't! The man is a bloody pervert and a dog
Don't mean to be rude but that your hubby must be a porn star in disguise. Try using sleeping tab once he's back from work b4 he climb you like a pet dog. Lol.
U better come to grasps with it, if he doesn't demand sex its trouble, now you complain he demands too much, you better satisfy him or another woman out there'll do it for u. Besides, u're the woman what happened to just lying down and let him have his way? It'll be over in 10mins tops.
Lying down n allow him have his way? Yuck! U dunno rape happens in marriages abi? Or u fink till Shez crying n struggling dat it's rape. If she dosent want it and she keeps lying like a log 4 him to satisy himself, she'll end up being an emotional wreck.
My advice for you is to give him sex whenever he wants it, he's your husband and deserves good sex amongst other things to sustain the marriage. Except you want him to go outside.
Very wrong if u tell his father believe me he will addivce him to some time go out side to fullfil his libido and if u tell ur pastor it will bring shame to him so is better I try to do it will him most times and let him know that some times that u are tied ok
Lol. He is your husband and I'm sure that's one of the things that attracted you to him. Get a help that can do chores so your stress is reduced, that way u can satisfy him all year round. Talking to his father or pastor....that's embarrassing.
You are a disgrace to women. You even showed Yr face! This is an issue u ought to have discussed with yr husband or Pastor. Did u think of the effect this will have on yr children by posting such a vulgar complaint? Aren't u a married woman? Must u post this! U are not a virtuous woman. Ask God for Mercy.
Please just shut ur trap! You think that's her pic like seriously!!!....what's ur IQ? Plus how's she not virtuous by discussing a pressing issue anonymously? ? Ur so judgy!
Ur ignorance is appalling... u judgemental idiot! Who told u that d pix up there is dat of d poster? Someone has a genuine marital concern and she comes to seek advice from fellow human beings like her and and all u do is sit in judgement and condemn her...u think she didn't think it thru b4 posting it? Oya since u know too much use that pix up there and Identify her now? Miss virtuous!
My dear talk to your hubby both of you could reason together cos no man like their wife tell there pastor or father about there matter unless you are don with the marriage only you can make your marriage work
I tell u. We in d same shoes @ mine doesn't ask yet nothing seems like he's cheating,just seems like one of d few dats just not into sex. Yet I wish he would do me everyday
U sef !!! Instead of dragging his legs out take it 2 God in prayer,1 day he ll wake up & won't touch u till after few months hopefully u won't complain..
No don't ever report him to anyone but a therapist. If you can't communicate with him , no one can. Woman talk to your husband or seek professional help and if your pastor is not a professional then don't.
It's really sad, u should hv known d sex habit of his during courtship b4 marriage, has it suddenly increased after d 3 kids or u are making excuses, sorry I hv to ask
Hey dear, dont involve a third party yet? Would kill es morale... V u tried talking to him, if not u should do, if yes try again. good luck with dat **
It's really sad, u should hv known d sex habit of his during courtship b4 marriage, has it suddenly increased after d 3 kids or u are making excuses, sorry I hv to ask
marraige is for better for worse,my advice to you is that take it to God im prayer,God created us all and he knows us better.Tell God what you want and see it come to pass.
U re silly for calling her a disgrace do u tink is easy my dear talk to ur husband nd God nd if u keep refusing he would go outside b a lil patient wiv jim
My dear, you have to be giving him ni oh. steady! u sud even be glad tht after three kids he still hammering like never before. Dont try and change his appetite cos you will just drive him outside. draw out a plan that will help reduce the stress. Mehn you must one hell of a hot woman for your hubby to be hitting you everyday.
My dear its a wrong move oo to tell anybody . Bcus it can only encourage him to do it outside. Just talk to him and tel him hw u feel. U can try n take ur huz chores gradually. Make out dates for washin of clothes to reduce d stress of evryday work. U can chose mon, wed n probablly fridays so dat u can dedicate sun, tues, thurs n sat nits to him at least it wil ease d tention. Am talkin frm xperince. God is ur strenght
Sorry dear... My husband has an extremely high libido too and for 5years of our marriage i went blank....like he just has to cool down. But i must tell you the truth, i doubt if you have so much of a choice.... It is possible to develop yourself to meet his standards.... I had to do that....This is our 6th year and i cant even believe d days of argument because of sex is over.... He is always satisfied and shows it... My dear... First you must take your mind off sex and try love making. Dont let him ask before giving it to him and ensure u do a lot of smushing and things that feel like u are trying to bang each other but make sure he longs for you before you then give it to me. Finally stop letting him do d job... Do it . BELIEVE ME..... he will become suddenly crazy about u and one round can sustain him for a week or even more.. No let office babes take over your husband because of your lack of libido.. If i could. Then u can.... I went from 4times a year to.... I am always ready....be mindful of thinking your husband has high libido... It could be your libido that is low and you need to work on it.
My dear tlk to him calmly about voz talkin to ur pastor abt it or his father wud be sooo embarasiing ooo he wud b so maaad,clmly explain tinz or use the sleeping pills method.
Some men are selfish sha, always tinking of demselves wtout putting d feelings of deir partners in2 consideration. My dear, reporting him 2 anybody is a very rong move. U have 2 have a heart 2 heart discussion wt him, and make him undastand dat ure nt a machine.
Hmmmmm, this man loves you and veru faithful too. How would you feel if he stop having it with you. Pls dont distroy your home. let him know you lobe him if ypu do anyway. Sex brings you closer by the day. 3 kids and he's still attractes to you sexually. Keep on thanking God daily. Find time to satisfy him. He is your love handle him with care.
Sorry dear but u have no choice now he is ur husband and u must satisfy him so that he won't go outside but u need 2 talk 2 him and tell him how u feel and then the both of u can work things out
All these people who are saying "YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY IS STILL WANTS SEX WITH YOU AFTER THREE CHILDREN" is he not meant to be sleeping with only her in the first place KMT! Thats what marrriage is; for better for worse smh such ignorance
Different strokes for different folks. You are complaining about the thing other wives are fasting and praying for, na wa o! God go lead you through on dis anyways. Linda take note!
Different strokes for different folks. You are complaining about the thing other wives are fasting and praying for, na wa o! God go lead you through on dis anyways. Linda take note!
Hmmm madam story teller, u have no idea how lucky you are. I've been married for 3 years now with 1 child and sex is like on a monthly basis. And once every 3 or 4 days when we are trying to conceive. I used to have very high libido until I got married. My husbands libido is almost non existent to th point that sometimes he feels there is something wrong with him. After having our child my libido went down drastically, so did his. So for me now I'm just not interested. Even all d ex toys I bought still dey were dem dey. So u r having it good like dat. Thank ur God. I wish mine was like that too. But God dey sha! B4 I got married ehn......my sex life was Greeeaaattttt! Maybe dats why I being punished now...lol. Oh well!
it is a very wrong idea for a wife to refuse her husband sex,and i ll advice that you just let go of ur excuses. please try and keep ur marriage intact for ur husband not to look else were for what you ar refusing him.be warned
You should get a nanny, house help and even a fine woman that will be doing your bed duty secretly for you, it will work like your magic,your Husband will not ask u for sex again and he will be very happy and your good self will be free from sex duties,to sweeten the potten, change all house help and nanny every six months,God bless you as follow my instruction - Sia
Hmmm sum men dnt evn care if dier wives r tired. And am sure u noticed hs constant demand for sex while u dated hm, am so sure u ignore dt part of hm sayg he'l chng. Reportg to pastor or hs father does nt solve d problm cuz he might slow dwn for a day or two or he get himself sum1 outside de home. So i advice u get a maid, she report vry early, help prepare d kids, clean d huz, go to mrkt, help u prepare food items, wash dn she leav wn she s done or u get a huz boy bt be careful of ur female children, ds will help u relax n be able to satisfy ur man. Dtz ur job swthrt
Am so very sure, she does not enjoy sex. Because if she do, she should have realised that good sex is actually a therapy for rest, after a hard days job. Perhaps the husband is so selfish, that he satisfies him self and then goes to bed, otherwise you need is to sleep well.
Ashawo...@anonymous. You want his number so you can help her to service him. I feel sorry for you. It shows you have been shaging married men. Madam, please get some assistance with the chores so you won't be too tired. Person fit die from exhaustion so try and get some help so you will be rested for your selfish husband who acts like he can't tell you are tired. Try get a tired husband to make out. Na only women de drink Egovin.
Lwkmd oooo!! LIBers sha. They have said it all o!It's sex for pete's sakes. Enjoy it. It will even help u relax and sleep better after a hard days work. Look forward to it instead of seeing it as something u must do. If hd ain't putting u in d mood b4 he goes all Messi on u, discuss it with him. U r both meant to enjoy it . don't be shy. Talk to him about it. Linspiration used ur pic as my dp n all d guyson my contact list were about to chew my neck off for an introduction. Even my boyfriend was admiring your beauty (jealous) Lol u to fine.
Go n learn woman
ReplyDeleteSmh... and some are complaining of their hubby micing dia d*ick,women ona too complain haba!
DeletePlease give me his number let me help you and service him since you are always tired. Ewunama
DeleteNot good in this aspect so I'll just say you should talk to him...... discuss the main issue afterall he's YOUR husband
DeleteIf he has money you can share him with the Runz Gehs of Lagos and Abuja... Don't worry they are there to unburden you from such marital duties.
DeleteHahahah...idiat.finally she for kukuma drop the man digits for the girls them.Buh honestly Oga need orientation sha,some local men can demand sex for ages,lol.report him to his papa,he won't be comfortable with the pastor knowing this.he needs orientation before him kill you for midnight,Buh make sure he can comprehend before he starts coming home late sha
DeleteSome people r just lucky yet they don't know. Lindaobserve
ReplyDeleteYou better go get some real energy boosters and aphrodisiacs to make sure u are up to it Cos its ur conjugal responsibility. ..wyl you are it you can be praying for him.
DeleteMaybe be meets and sees lotsa hot women during the day but holds himself believing that his wife has a duty to put him out of his conji.
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1 man's fud is anoda man's poison, if u allow him go out he wl never come bk home. Talk tins out btw d 2 of u, gv each oda day n tym. It can b done in d weekend
DeleteWrong move
ReplyDeleteTry nd sort it out with him
And Talk to God about it too
Talk to him, or find one olosho
ReplyDeleteTo me.
ReplyDeleteAre u a learner???? Did u not know his middle name was SEX before u married him? Abeg park well
ReplyDeleteHmmmm.dont make him go look for it elsewhere..i'd rather u talk to him urself
ReplyDeleteabegy,as if he has nt bn goin out,he's just selfish
DeleteHmm *clears throat* Cute G get in here lolz
ReplyDeleteIf i ask me ,na who i go ask ????
ReplyDeleteSweets u had beta talk to him ursef..dnt rport him to nyone.its an intimate mata.
ReplyDeleteI wonder y she is crying foul when she already knows who d hubby has b frm onset. Take heart, and manage him.
ReplyDeleteHmmm
ReplyDeleteIt is a Wrong Move.
ReplyDeleteMehnn na big case b dz oooo
ReplyDeleteMadam, Sex is Sweeter When Your Tired...
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talk to him before thinking of talking to his pastor
ReplyDeleteLool stuff like ds amuse me. Oya libers answer her oo
ReplyDeleteLool stuff like ds amuse me. Oya libers answer her oo
ReplyDeleteDon't report ur husband to any. You just have to express yourself politely. talk to him, let him understand.
ReplyDeleteSee question, come and tell me
ReplyDeleteHMMMM, WOMAN HE HAS PAID DE BRIDE PRICE, LET HIM SUCK U DRY..SORRY..TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteif you no give am anoda woman go give am. your choice.
ReplyDeleteBerra get used to it. Dis is wt sme wives are craving. U shud b happy he's cmin 2 u dnt let him go else whr
ReplyDeleteDnt try dat idea o,its wrong,try sit him down nd explain tins 2 him..cos I feel ur pain dear,bt in dis case it's takes wisdom nd undastanding wit more patient..beta seek a counsellor..
ReplyDeleteUr too sweet.lol
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm! Lips sealed!
ReplyDeleteThat's why he married you if he goes out now you'll say his chest. Always prep up for your husband and don't wash your linings our okay.
ReplyDeleteTalk 2 ur father inlaw? You must be outta ur mind! Do u knw if he inherited it frm his dad? Pls call ur hubby quietly n hv a heart 2 heart talk wt him. Mk him uunderstand u a'int runnin frm ur responsibilities but jst explain in a matured way
ReplyDeleteWords to go by...Hope she do just way u just said
DeleteLet me tell u, what other women are begging for your here complaining, see your first move that is wrong is to even make it open. . For your own interest no need to talk too much, just keep giving him sex..women sha, everything na issue for una
ReplyDeletewell, i just you can bare it if he gets it somewhere else then. pele
ReplyDeleteThat's why he married you if he goes out now you'll say his cheating. Always prep up for your husband and don't wash your linings our okay.
ReplyDeleteWell you need to speak to someone who he listens to,and would not be embarrassed taking an advice from..you better speak up fast..
ReplyDeleteI might not be married, , but I don't think reporting him to his father or pastor is the right move. Because he might feel embarrassed and then take it the wrong way.. just sit him down and talk to him and make him see reasons.. U guys can probably come up with a sex schedule or something lol #okbye *runs*
ReplyDeleteMadam sharrap and open ur legs or another woman will open her legs for him. Women too dey complain, if he doesn't fuck una go talk, if he fucks too much una go talk. Well different strokes for different folks
ReplyDeleteI feel ur pain, but reporting to his Pastor or Father might be the worst thing ever. You should thank your husband he's all over u for sex and not demanding it outside. I'll advice you don't argue with him each time he needs it cos having sex wit you @ anytime he wishes is his right so don't argue as he might go get it from somewhere which might be a bigger problem for you. My 2cent.
ReplyDeleteI don't encourage taking ur marital issues outside. Why not discuss it with him, he may understand u more than when someone else talk to him.
ReplyDeleteI don't encourage taking ur marital issues outside. Why not discuss it with him, he may understand u more than when someone else talk to him.
ReplyDeletePlease learn to enjoy and report to nobody. You should be thanking your God he still wants you after 3 children.
ReplyDeleteSex is your only duty he can't get someone to do for you. You should get a nanny, househelp and even work woman that will do your office work for you so you can do your primary duty as a wife.
Entered comment...a right move for u to tell his father and not ur pastor
ReplyDeletePlease learn to enjoy and report to nobody. You should be thanking your God he still wants you after 3 children.
ReplyDeleteSex is your only duty he can't get someone to do for you. You should get a nanny, househelp and even work woman that will do your office work for you so you can do your primary duty as a wife.
Tell your native doctor... Jor oh
ReplyDeleteMY DEAR, PRAYER, PRAY HIS JOB TAKE HIM OUT OF TOWN. WORKED FOR ME! I dey rest now...
ReplyDeleteN do you know how he satisfied his whims, common, the fact is its natural to feel the urban n thus he married, I am talking from experience here, my uncle had same issue and as work carry am Waka na pikin he carry come. Oya choose one now, u n ur kids or extended battery, just saying, lik someone suggested draw a schedule for it, it works, that way you both look forward to it, *runs off*.
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ReplyDeleteYou have to find a good time is during partying or church activities to talk with him. Make him see how much you love him while presenting your challenges. I believe that slowly but surely he will change. Reporting to the Pastor or his father may make him engage in clandestine romantic activities. Be wise!
ReplyDeleteIs it bad for the man to help with house chores? It will make it easier for both of u.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, dnt go about discussing such issues with people uhn, u shuld b happy he is always asking frm you,so u have always prepare ur mind towards that. Am sure u don't want him to go outside uhn!
ReplyDeleteDON'T REPORT HIM TO ANYONE OUTSIDE YOUR MARRIAGE OR ELSE YOU WILL BE ADDING FUEL TO FIRE. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS SIMPLE BOTH OF YOU SHOULD SIT AND HAVE A HEART TO HEART TALK. LET ME KNOW HOW YOU FEEL AND BOTH OF YOU NEED TO REACH A COMPROMISE. YOUR HUSBAND HAS ISSUES WHICH MAKES HIM TO DEMAND FOR SEX. YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND HIM AND GENTLY HELP HIM TO OVERCOME IT. HELP HIM TO OPEN UP TO YOU AND FIND ALTERNATIVE WAY TO EXPRESS HIS PASSION. ALSO WITH UNDERSTANDING... I LEARNT THIS FROM A MATURED AND EXPERIENCED WOMAN, ALL YOU MAY NEED TO DO IS TO MASSAGE HIS EGGPLANT AND NOT NECESSARY SEX. BE PATIENT MADAM AND LEAD HIM ON INSTEAD OF RESISTING HIM. WHAT YOU MAY THINK IS A PROBLEM IS WHAT SOME OTHER WOMEN WANT... A HUSBAND THAT MAY WANT THEM.
ReplyDeleteI wish I had your type of. Husband lol
ReplyDeleteU can also tell GOD dont let it be ur pastor and father inlaw alone, mumu woman, u better accept ur faith for GOOD and grap ur husband for LIFE this is what some women are praying and looking for in their marriage, i advice ur to apply WISDOM and adjust ur life and SEX life so their wont be issue in ur home, men DONT JOKE with sex i pray God will see u through.
ReplyDeleteU must be a sexy woman oo..
ReplyDeleteYou are a big fool if u tell ur pastor anything of such,they swear for Nigerians with Pastors? I don't get it! Talk to him and or keep having it,its good for the body and u r lucky he finds u attractive to sex.
ReplyDeleteWagbayii!nice 1
DeleteEndurance is the name of a happy marital life. You need to endure more. Try all means by which you can adapt to the pressure of sex from your husband.
ReplyDeleteMen who do not play away matches always depend on their wives to satisfy them sexually. Sorry about your schedule of duty and other pressures, but you must find the means of pleasing him. He is your little god.
Remember, he will be there always for you if you are in need. If he is caring and loving, hold onto him and never allow him an inch of opportunity to get those girls to please him. The day that starts, you and your marriage may be in trouble.
Last note, do not report him to his Father, Pastor, sister or any of your relations. It will never help, rather it will open a wide crack in your marital life. A word is enough for the wise.
Correct!wise sayin
DeletePlease don't put your marriage out there for any reason. Do your matrimonial duties with happiness and simply talk to him by yourself alone. Issue like this can be devastating when a third party is involved. If you wanna take happiness away from your home, do it.
ReplyDeleteBeside that's your man's nature, have you ever thought of what will happen if you deny him that? There are many gurls out there that will be happy to give it to him for free...you know what that means?
I totally understand dis lady. It's very annoying wen ur hubby wants Sex n ur not in d mood. Just sit him down n discuss it with him. Make him understand u luv him a lot bu not physically ready at d time. I always use d phrase"d spirit is willing bu d flesh is weak " 4 my hubby. God Ll help u
ReplyDeleteU are a tertiary Phool, so wen he starts cheating u will send anoda lib letter. Better start taking high energy rich foods nd perform ur duty as a wife..nd no don't tell anyone Madam no sense.
ReplyDeleteDo not wash your dirty linen outside. Face your home woman.
ReplyDeleteLinda I said so..
It is a wrong move. Engage your hubby in a proper discussion so that he can see reasons with you.
ReplyDeleteAlso, ensure that he does not watch much porn or other porn related articles.
They'll only tell you to manage your time well so that you'll have the strength to meet your husband's needs.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm don't ooo, better pray about it.
ReplyDeleteDon't get anyone involved in this if u don't want to ruin ur marriage.Just keep talking to him and get ur mind off the fact that he's over asking for it pls.Dis is important before u loose him to those daredevil whores out ther
ReplyDeleteHmmmm don't ooo, better pray about it.
ReplyDeleteMy dear satisfy ur hubby biko, sex even helps relieve stress, sometimes u can take d weekend off with ur hubby without d children, u can also get a nanny too dat will help so u have more time. Biko have sex with ur hubby
ReplyDeleteNawaoooo. be happy he still wants you after three children. Others only have one but they never get to sleep with their husbands often. Now if he decides to go somewhere else and get what you are not willing to give him, you will complain or say he is cheating. I'm just saying.
ReplyDeleteHe has paid for it, so y are you complain!
ReplyDeleteThe only person to report it to is to him. Have you sat him down and really let him know that you can handle it so much. Set dates on the calendar that you can both live by and stick to them. Also tell him to masturbate in between, he can take care of his own needs too.
ReplyDeleteMy dear its nt a wrong move, but it depends on d relationship betwn ur husband n his pastor or dad, n also try to sit and think on hw ur husband will act if u report him. Best of luck in ur marriage.
ReplyDeleteWhy Did He Marry You @ First? For Decoration? Abeg Zip That Shit And Let Him Have His Way Biko.
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Report him to God....... LOL!! One man's meat.......
ReplyDeletePlease Support "Saving Father"
Lol endure...tlk to God
ReplyDeleteTalk to who Madam? Do u want to push your hubby to the outside Ladies that are ready for see 247?
ReplyDeleteBetter find a way to adjust to his sex demands and get accustomed to it and your marriage would be great and fine. Don't even bother telling anyone, 'cause you would be selling your hubby out IMO. And if he gets to know, it might send a wrong signal to him and your marriage could start having frictions. So, my advice, adjust and get accustomed to it.
Wrong move. You. Don't have to report or take ur family matter with anyone. You can talk things over with him and pray he understands.besides it's his marital right to be satisfied by you and don't make him start cheating on u cos u wil also regret it. May God guide you.
ReplyDeleteEvery other day you can mix a little sleeping tablet in his night food by the time you get to bed, he would have passed out lol. Before ya bia mebi cha ibongi gi lol
ReplyDeleteKeep complaining... he will leave u alone very soon wen he starts getting it elsewhere.
ReplyDeleteI don't see any big deal in wat u are doing...
Talk to him, I blv u can work it out without any interference.
Hahahahahaha...Sowie sweetie Buh the bitter truth is this is what you have signed for...reporting him to ur pastor or his father is giving him free ticket to go out cus he might not want to bother u anymore...u should even be happy ur hubby still demands see from u so much after three kids...ask around men get turned off from see with their wives after just one child, some women literally have to beg their hubby for sex....dont report him just pray to God abt the sex issue...there isn't anything to difficult for God
ReplyDeleteOh!left my Ex cos of this,his monstrous meat is bigger and long and I have severe r pains each time,he doesn't even cum in time.when he proposed I simply refused.i can't cope with the everlasting pain.I advice you sit him down and talk about it.
ReplyDeleteWrong move! It's part of your life contract. Get used to it honey.
ReplyDeleteWrong move......talk to no one abt ur sexual life....talk to him and pray he understands....if he refuses to understand and still demands for sex everytime/day...den pretend u re sick wen ever he cums.arund...shekina
ReplyDeleteMoye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....
Very wrong to involve others, talk, keeping talking and show that you can not cope...
ReplyDeleteNo talk to ur friends n give them all the freaking details, mayb they will help u out
ReplyDeleteIf he starts frolicking with numerous babes you will still complain..
ReplyDeleteGOD will help u sha
Was it like that during courtship ? I can understand your pains and I feel what you feel like..you shall be fine, try to find out extensively why he's reacting that way
ReplyDeleteU r tired abi? Don't complain when he starts cheating on u ooooo. Gbam!
ReplyDeleteWrong move.
ReplyDeleteLinda, at this juncture i hv run out of idea.......hmmmmm....don't know what to say.......Lindaobserve
ReplyDeleteEiyah.....Pray about it. Irony of Life...the way I pray for my hubby to love n demand for sex, another woman is tired. Anyways, too much of everything is not good.
ReplyDeleteSame hia o.talk abt one man's meat....
DeleteYou should discuss with your hubby first when he is in a good mood and try to make him see reasons why you reject his advances at times.
ReplyDeleteMe!
ReplyDeleteI don't support the idea of you reporting your husband to either his Daddy or your pastor, you can amicably discuss the issue with your husband & hear what he will say, if his response is positive good, if negative still play your role & raise the topic from time to time but not 2 frequent.
ReplyDeleteSpeak to him about it first
ReplyDeleteReport to your pastor or God
ReplyDeleteMy dear count your blessing and suck it up! You are a lucky woman who has a man that desires her. The opposite is worse.
ReplyDeleteIf u can't give him when n how he wants, don't blame him for going out to get it...
ReplyDeleteTell him to help more around the house. It'll make him sexier to you and he'll be a little more tired as well so you'll both be closer in mindset.
ReplyDeleteThe best response so far. I will say his inability to do other things except sex is what is bothering this lady not the sex itself. Women tend to get bitter when a man sits around n u do all the work then as soon as u climb ur bed to rest they pounce on u like a gorilla esp these days when the demands on the woman is high. Lack of trustworthy helps. The woman is also expected to work and contribute in the home. So before Pple begin to comment rubbish, make sure u get the whole picture.
DeleteB4 talking to pastor or father, pls talk to ur hubby. If the issue is exhaustion then suggest ways he alleviate the work load from u. Eg getting a reliable nanny or he helping out wt some house work or even dropping the kids wt grandparents while u take some days off from time to time.
ReplyDeleteYou're inviting evil into your household o. Don't involve 3rd parties into your marriage: be it his father/mother, your own father/mother, his pastor or yours.
ReplyDeleteGo ahead and satisfy your husband! Perform your marital duties without complain. You can only talk/pray to God.
Be forewarned, darling. Thanks.
B4 talking to pastor or father, pls talk to ur hubby. If the issue is exhaustion then suggest ways he alleviate the work load from u. Eg getting a reliable nanny or he helping out wt some house work or even dropping the kids wt grandparents while u take some days off from time to time.
ReplyDeleteLol wen he start goin out wit other women, ,,,,na u sabi.....
ReplyDeleteYou are a terrible wife. IF your husband was getting one million dollars the next day. Whether na 11:30 or 3am you will still have energy to shag him. You just dont care about your hubby's sexual needs. Shame on you. Make the time. And if you cant make love to him...what happened to blow jobs?
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ReplyDeleteAs a wife before going to seek the advice of a third party, call ur husband aside, after treating him to a gud meal and tell him ur problem with his excess demand for sex..... You two should try and work thing out as a family instead of seeking the advice of a third party.
ReplyDeleteWrong move
ReplyDeleteVery very wrong..
ReplyDeleteWe both have the same problem. Don't report him to anybody, what l did was that l will accept sometime and denied him sometime too and let him Realise that l have children to take of and not only him.
ReplyDeleteLol! Na now u know say ur husband like sex abi....dey there abegi......thats the thing with most ladies,they close thier eyes and sense of reasoning when dating,thinking they can manage the situation when they get married ,just because they want to answer Mrs by all means possible.
ReplyDeleteOkpo .....u make it sound as if what the husband is doing is bad or a side effect or a negative stuff......70% of marriage s are suffering from lack of sex, her this woman is just lucky, just that she's too blind to notice
DeleteDear poster ur lucky mine has not touched me since December claiming he has a phobia for sleeping with a pregnant woman and then he will says his not cheating meanwhile always staying out of d house till day break ur lucky ooh
DeleteLol! Na now u know say ur husband like sex abi....dey there abegi......thats the thing with most ladies,they close thier eyes and sense of reasoning when dating,thinking they can manage the situation when they get married ,just because they want to answer Mrs by all means possible.
ReplyDeleteI know it's some how difficult for you, but please discuss with your hubby so as to meet half way, i.e you can do the deed before going to bed. I can assure that you would sleep like a log afterwards.
ReplyDeleteBe happy he still finds you sexually attractive after three kids, cos some will abandon their wife and go get it outside. Please keep your home and don't go reporting him to anyone as doing so might not get you the desired result.
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DeleteGet a housekeeper and/or nanny to help with the house chores. You need to give your husband the attention he needs before he starts cheating. You can also take the kids to their grandparents' for the weekend so you and your hubby can have some quality time together. You just have to find a way to make it work.
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DeleteTalk to your best friend and she can take it from there lady!
ReplyDeleteHmmm...don't talk to any1 about it dear, the only person u should talk to about issues like sex is ur husband...and if he still doesn't listen...don't try to go out ur way to satisfy him especially when he isn't helping with the house affairs...have sex with him when u can, try ur possible best...but when ur body is weak don't do it. sex is meant to be enjoyed by two people who are married and not to be endured. Ring this in ur ear, all men cheat, so fucking him everyday won't keep him. Try ur best, but if u can't. Don't! The man is a bloody pervert and a dog
DeleteDon't mean to be rude but that your hubby
ReplyDeletemust be a porn star in disguise.
Try using sleeping tab once he's back from
work b4 he climb you like a pet dog. Lol.
Sleeping tab..a no for me..
DeleteSleeping pill for ur husband, na ur type they poison husband
DeleteU better come to grasps with it, if he doesn't demand sex its trouble, now you complain he demands too much, you better satisfy him or another woman out there'll do it for u. Besides, u're the woman what happened to just lying down and let him have his way? It'll be over in 10mins tops.
ReplyDeleteLying down n allow him have his way? Yuck! U dunno rape happens in marriages abi? Or u fink till Shez crying n struggling dat it's rape. If she dosent want it and she keeps lying like a log 4 him to satisy himself, she'll end up being an emotional wreck.
DeleteMy advice for you is to give him sex whenever he wants it, he's your husband and deserves good sex amongst other things to sustain the marriage. Except you want him to go outside.
DeleteNa wa oooo.....talk to God instead of his dad or ur pastor
ReplyDeleteWhy go through the stress of reporting him to anyone. Simply encourage him to get a girlfriend.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for comments lol
ReplyDeleteThis one na family affair ,sorry dear is what u c in marriage, doh
ReplyDeleteVery wrong if u tell his father believe me he will addivce him to some time go out side to fullfil his libido and if u tell ur pastor it will bring shame to him so is better I try to do it will him most times and let him know that some times that u are tied ok
ReplyDeleteLol. He is your husband and I'm sure that's one of the things that attracted you to him. Get a help that can do chores so your stress is reduced, that way u can satisfy him all year round. Talking to his father or pastor....that's embarrassing.
ReplyDeleteYou are a disgrace to women. You even showed Yr face! This is an issue u ought to have discussed with yr husband or Pastor. Did u think of the effect this will have on yr children by posting such a vulgar complaint? Aren't u a married woman? Must u post this! U are not a virtuous woman. Ask God for Mercy.
ReplyDeleteWho is this one????
DeleteLol. Oponu! Internet dunce. And u typed English well yet u couldn't discern that it's a pseudo-image by Linda. Otondo person...lmao
DeletePfffffff.... righteous and virtuous anonymous, who told u dats her face???
DeletePlease just shut ur trap! You think that's her pic like seriously!!!....what's ur IQ? Plus how's she not virtuous by discussing a pressing issue anonymously? ? Ur so judgy!
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DeleteHaba take it easy..she needs advise,don't b quick 2 judge besides dts not her pix,u ask God 4 mercy as well.
DeleteUr ignorance is appalling... u judgemental idiot! Who told u that d pix up there is dat of d poster? Someone has a genuine marital concern and she comes to seek advice from fellow human beings like her and and all u do is sit in judgement and condemn her...u think she didn't think it thru b4 posting it? Oya since u know too much use that pix up there and Identify her now? Miss virtuous!
DeleteTalk to who for what. I advice u to condition ur mind. It does not last for hours. or are u permitting him to go out
ReplyDeletePastor??? Ok.
ReplyDeleteMy dear talk to your hubby both of you could reason together cos no man like their wife tell there pastor or father about there matter unless you are don with the marriage only you can make your marriage work
ReplyDeleteSome has head but not cap, mine doesn't ask for sex but. I wish, so pls endure
ReplyDeleteI tell u. We in d same shoes @ mine doesn't ask yet nothing seems like he's cheating,just seems like one of d few dats just not into sex. Yet I wish he would do me everyday
DeleteThis ur husband na Jacky Ooo! Shuo...
ReplyDeleteHe wants sex, complain
ReplyDeleteHe doesn't want sex, complain
He's good in bed, complain
He's not good in bed, complain
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Talk to who for what. I advice u to condition ur mind. It does not last for hours. or are u permitting him to go out
ReplyDeleteU sef !!! Instead of dragging his legs out take it 2 God in prayer,1 day he ll wake up & won't touch u till after few months hopefully u won't complain..
ReplyDeleteNo don't ever report him to anyone but a therapist. If you can't communicate with him , no one can. Woman talk to your husband or seek professional help and if your pastor is not a professional then don't.
ReplyDeleteHow did u cope all this while b4 n After d 3kids ?, what oda women r looking 4, u r complaining ( meemee ).
ReplyDeleteNa wa o, all dis kind marriage wahala sef, ask God to help U, tell no one.
ReplyDeleteLet dat man allow her 2 rest sometimes abi sex na food. At least weekend will be ok 4 dat
ReplyDeleteIt's really sad, u should hv known d sex habit of his during courtship b4 marriage, has it suddenly increased after d 3 kids or u are making excuses, sorry I hv to ask
ReplyDeleteHey dear, dont involve a third party yet? Would kill es morale... V u tried talking to him, if not u should do, if yes try again. good luck with dat **
ReplyDeleteIt's really sad, u should hv known d sex habit of his during courtship b4 marriage, has it suddenly increased after d 3 kids or u are making excuses, sorry I hv to ask
ReplyDeleteGet rid, life is too short to be telling a sex addict to behave himself.
ReplyDeletetell your hubby to chill na...e wan tear your nyansh..
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U should first tell him hw u feel cause he might not be happy u discussing his sexual life with his father or pastor
ReplyDeletePlease get a help so you can have less work load to enable you satisfy him pls.
ReplyDeletePut sleeping pills in his dinner so that he falls asleep every night lol
ReplyDeleteWhy is 'report to pastor' an aggrieved woman's default mode???
ReplyDeletemarraige is for better for worse,my advice to you is that take it to God im prayer,God created us all and he knows us better.Tell God what you want and see it come to pass.
ReplyDeleteU re silly for calling her a disgrace do u tink is easy my dear talk to ur husband nd God nd if u keep refusing he would go outside b a lil patient wiv jim
ReplyDeleteJust report him to ur HOT bestie and let nature take over
ReplyDelete*slygrin*
U can buy him a female mastiff Dog....or pitbull....so dat u make a time table for him na.
ReplyDeleteU can buy him a female mastiff Dog abi pitbull na.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you have to be giving him ni oh. steady! u sud even be glad tht after three kids he still hammering like never before. Dont try and change his appetite cos you will just drive him outside. draw out a plan that will help reduce the stress. Mehn you must one hell of a hot woman for your hubby to be hitting you everyday.
ReplyDeleteMy dear its a wrong move oo to tell anybody . Bcus it can only encourage him to do it outside. Just talk to him and tel him hw u feel. U can try n take ur huz chores gradually. Make out dates for washin of clothes to reduce d stress of evryday work. U can chose mon, wed n probablly fridays so dat u can dedicate sun, tues, thurs n sat nits to him at least it wil ease d tention. Am talkin frm xperince. God is ur strenght
ReplyDeleteSorry dear... My husband has an extremely high libido too and for 5years of our marriage i went blank....like he just has to cool down. But i must tell you the truth, i doubt if you have so much of a choice.... It is possible to develop yourself to meet his standards.... I had to do that....This is our 6th year and i cant even believe d days of argument because of sex is over.... He is always satisfied and shows it... My dear... First you must take your mind off sex and try love making. Dont let him ask before giving it to him and ensure u do a lot of smushing and things that feel like u are trying to bang each other but make sure he longs for you before you then give it to me. Finally stop letting him do d job... Do it . BELIEVE ME..... he will become suddenly crazy about u and one round can sustain him for a week or even more.. No let office babes take over your husband because of your lack of libido.. If i could. Then u can.... I went from 4times a year to.... I am always ready....be mindful of thinking your husband has high libido... It could be your libido that is low and you need to work on it.
ReplyDeleteYou hit the nail on the head. She's complaining he wants sex every other day. Most married men hardly touch wives after they've had kids.
DeletePls do not push r hubby out,though everything can be demanding as a wife a and mother,ask God for wisdom
ReplyDeleteMy dear tlk to him calmly about voz talkin to ur pastor abt it or his father wud be sooo embarasiing ooo he wud b so maaad,clmly explain tinz or use the sleeping pills method.
ReplyDeleteHave u prayed about it?
ReplyDeleteSome men are selfish sha, always tinking of demselves wtout putting d feelings of deir partners in2 consideration. My dear, reporting him 2 anybody is a very rong move. U have 2 have a heart 2 heart discussion wt him, and make him undastand dat ure nt a machine.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm, this man loves you and veru faithful too. How would you feel if he stop having it with you. Pls dont distroy your home. let him know you lobe him if ypu do anyway. Sex brings you closer by the day. 3 kids and he's still attractes to you sexually. Keep on thanking God daily. Find time to satisfy him. He is your love handle him with care.
ReplyDeleteWelcome to my world...I have a son n am 8 mnths preggy.....we have sex 5 days in a week if not 6. Pls try and enjoy it or talk to only him bout it.
ReplyDeleteSorry dear but u have no choice now he is ur husband and u must satisfy him so that he won't go outside but u need 2 talk 2 him and tell him how u feel and then the both of u can work things out
ReplyDeleteAll these people who are saying "YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY IS STILL WANTS SEX WITH YOU AFTER THREE CHILDREN" is he not meant to be sleeping with only her in the first place KMT! Thats what marrriage is; for better for worse smh such ignorance
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes for different folks. You are complaining about the thing other wives are fasting and praying for, na wa o! God go lead you through on dis anyways. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteDifferent strokes for different folks. You are complaining about the thing other wives are fasting and praying for, na wa o! God go lead you through on dis anyways. Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteHmmm madam story teller, u have no idea how lucky you are. I've been married for 3 years now with 1 child and sex is like on a monthly basis. And once every 3 or 4 days when we are trying to conceive. I used to have very high libido until I got married. My husbands libido is almost non existent to th point that sometimes he feels there is something wrong with him. After having our child my libido went down drastically, so did his. So for me now I'm just not interested. Even all d ex toys I bought still dey were dem dey. So u r having it good like dat. Thank ur God. I wish mine was like that too. But God dey sha! B4 I got married ehn......my sex life was Greeeaaattttt! Maybe dats why I being punished now...lol. Oh well!
ReplyDeleteit is a very wrong idea for a wife to refuse her husband sex,and i ll advice that you just let go of ur excuses. please try and keep ur marriage intact for ur husband not to look else were for what you ar refusing him.be warned
ReplyDeleteYou should get a nanny, house help and even a fine woman that will be doing your bed duty secretly for you, it will work like your magic,your Husband will not ask u for sex again and he will be very happy and your good self will be free from sex duties,to sweeten the potten, change all house help and nanny every six months,God bless you as follow my instruction - Sia
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Hmmm sum men dnt evn care if dier wives r tired. And am sure u noticed hs constant demand for sex while u dated hm, am so sure u ignore dt part of hm sayg he'l chng. Reportg to pastor or hs father does nt solve d problm cuz he might slow dwn for a day or two or he get himself sum1 outside de home. So i advice u get a maid, she report vry early, help prepare d kids, clean d huz, go to mrkt, help u prepare food items, wash dn she leav wn she s done or u get a huz boy bt be careful of ur female children, ds will help u relax n be able to satisfy ur man. Dtz ur job swthrt
ReplyDeleteAm so very sure, she does not enjoy sex. Because if she do, she should have realised that good sex is actually a therapy for rest, after a hard days job.
ReplyDeletePerhaps the husband is so selfish, that he satisfies him self and then goes to bed, otherwise you need is to sleep well.
Hire a nanny and a cook so u don't get tired.
ReplyDeleteFocus and fuck the hell out of ur hubby.....You are lucky o
Lyk seriously? Weren't u thought dat ur role as a married woman is 2 b a whore in bed, a chef in d kitchen nd a maid in d house???? Go nd learn hon.
ReplyDeleteAshawo...@anonymous. You want his number so you can help her to service him. I feel sorry for you. It shows you have been shaging married men. Madam, please get some assistance with the chores so you won't be too tired. Person fit die from exhaustion so try and get some help so you will be rested for your selfish husband who acts like he can't tell you are tired. Try get a tired husband to make out. Na only women de drink Egovin.
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ReplyDeleteLwkmd oooo!! LIBers sha. They have said it all o!It's sex for pete's sakes. Enjoy it. It will even help u relax and sleep better after a hard days work. Look forward to it instead of seeing it as something u must do. If hd ain't putting u in d mood b4 he goes all Messi on u, discuss it with him. U r both meant to enjoy it . don't be shy. Talk to him about it.
ReplyDeleteLinspiration used ur pic as my dp n all d guyson my contact list were about to chew my neck off for an introduction. Even my boyfriend was admiring your beauty (jealous) Lol u to fine.
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