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Wednesday, 18 March 2015

Egypt honors mother who dressed as man for 43 years to provide for family

A 64yr old widowed Egyptian woman, Abu Daooh (yeah, that's a woman pictured above) has been honored by a Local government in Egypt with the 'woman breadwinner' award after it was discovered she disguised as a man for 43 years so she could operate as a shoemaker and fend for her family.

Daooh lost her husband 43 years ago while she was pregnant with her only child, a girl. She said she decided to disguise because her community frowned at women who work. Daooh who wore a “jilbab” and a male hat known as a “Taqiyah” and black masculine shoes around, said she decided to disguise as a man so she could work and earn a decent living rather than beg on the streets.
"I preferred working in hard labor like lifting bricks and cement bags and cleaning shoes to begging in the streets in order to earn a living for myself and for my daughter and her children. So as to protect myself from men and the harshness of their looks and being targeted by them due to traditions, I decided to be a man … and dressed in their clothes and worked alongside them in other villages where no one knows me.”she said
She said she had at some point stopped working and married off her daughter to a man but that the man took ill and she had to continue working so she could fend for her daughter and grandchildren.

103 comments:

  1. Omg..... mum is d best gift ever,

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    1. And the ones that are witches?

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    2. Chai.wht a sweet mother, women r born great!!am so proud to b a mother
      #nothankyoui'llratherbeselfmade

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    3. @Iwkwd_naija -follow on Instagram u are a big fool men too can be witches haven't u heard of some who kill their children. If my mum is a witch but provides for me I will love her and not call her/ anybody call her witch na man dey make women turn to witch

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    4. May God strengthen her. More grease to her elbow

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    5. Oh my!!! What's wrong with her children and husband? 43years? Weren't they old enough and ashamed of themselves. Anyways, she deserves to be honoured.

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    6. So u didn't read the entire thing...oshi

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    7. Anon 2.07 can't you just read the story and stop saying rubbish

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    8. YOU are the problem with Nigeria. Read you cannot read and you'll join them to laugh at Patience. Smh

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    9. Wow! Honour well deserved.

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    10. Lol, problem with people, they dont read and end up judging with their smelling mouth . anonymous 2:07 u be mumu iti bori bo.....

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  2. Ma sha Allah


    meenah_wakil on instagram

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  3. Awww I am really touched, #ShoutOutToAllTheGoodMotthersOutThere

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  4. WOW! Great woman. This Arabs and their culture. I thank God for Nigeria.

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    1. Nigeria is becoming a full blown islamic state. Wit thes muslim South west and north dat feel nigeria is their birthright

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    2. low key transgender......

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    3. low key transgender......

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    4. low key transgender......

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    5. Loooollll. Afi low key transgender

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  5. SHE RILI LUK LYK A MAN....TOMJERRYSWIT

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  6. Awww! So thoughtful of them.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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    1. She's masculine tho, dats mothers love dat can never b compare wt any oda love, d only original n genuine love in d life of children. Blessed r we mothers. #amsoblessed2bateamwomanblessedmotherngr8wife#

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    2. You have an habit of "stalking" Bonario recently and commenting on his post.... Bonario is taken... Lol.

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  7. Ehyaaaaa* ur indeed a MOTHER

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  8. Awwww the heart of a mother..this is a lessons to us..its better to work with ur your hand#teamindependent

    www.glowyshoe.blogspot.com

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  9. "the man took ill and u had to fend for your daughter and grand children".. Na talk be dat.. Ur daughter no fit work while u stay @ home with ur grand kids, anyways dats Egypt, I trust naija women..

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    1. Exactly my tots. Watyn do her dota hand wey she no fit work?

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    2. Lol. Someone must see the opposite .You cracked me up!

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    3. Guess u didn't read the write up well. Women are not allowed to work in Egypt. Hence her disguising as a man

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    4. Dumbass read d post again....lemme break it down for you."They frown on women working"...by "they" I mean Egypt b4 u change that one too......so she lsacrificed" herself for her daughter and grand kids......that means...she did the unthinkable so her daughter wouldn't....because u never know what can happen if a woman is caught doing exactly what she did.......understood?.....if not,...well na u know

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    5. Block head, didn't u read "women r not meant to work" I wonder if sum lib readers read b4 commenting...

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    6. U no dey udastnd simpl sentence. Her dauta canot wrk bcoz dey Dnt allow women to wrk.

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  10. chia! women dey suffer o... wat a strong woman.

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  11. Awwww !!! A mother's love..may God continue to strengthen her..

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  12. WOW WHAT A GREAT WOMAN WITH A GREAT VIRTUE.

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  13. She must not have had big bosoms cos it would have being hard to cover up! But her bravery should not be looked down on and that award is well deserved.

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  14. She must not have had big bosoms cos it would have being hard to cover up! But her bravery should not be looked down on and that award is well deserved.

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  15. awwwwwww...She deserve d award and even more.......What a brave heart.....May God in His own way lift her up above poverty......










    Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....

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  16. What a great woman with a great Virtue

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  17. Awwwww....chai!!! Can u imagine??? So inspiring.

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  18. What a great woman with a great Virtue

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  19. Well deserved, I admire her courage. Not many women can do what she did. Linda take note!

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  20. Well deserved, I admire her courage. Not many women can do what she did. Linda take note!

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  21. Well deserved, I admire her courage. Not many women can do what she did. Linda take note!

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  22. Well deserved, I admire her courage. Not many women can do what she did. Linda take note!

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  23. that is what i call a hard working woman. God has finally bless her hustle

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  24. Wow! Mother of the year award. She deserves to be on the cover of TIME magazine.

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  25. The things a good mother would do for her children. ----C21

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    1. Supermom indeed. God bless her and her family.

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  27. There is dignity in hard work. Brave woman who does not want to be a burden to other people. Indeed, she deserve the honour. This is a lesson to others who would prefer to
    to be beggers. Bravo!

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  28. Such stories are an inspiration to me. Phenomenal woman.

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  29. Your labor was not in vain, God has remembered you. Good woman.

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  30. If she were in Lagos or Ibadan, she will be begging by luxurious and interstate buses, Hardworker,more power to your elbow mama

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  31. Wow! Good. So proud when women work hard to fend for themselves. I'm female and gratified to be one.

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  32. Wow! Good. So proud when women work hard to fend for themselves. I'm female and gratified to be one.

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  33. Wow! God bless her abundantly and she wil reap d fruits of her wrk. Thumbs up to her and more power to her elbows.

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  34. Wow, she truly deserves the award. Such a hard worker and an example of a homemaker. May God bless and keep her to reap the fruits of her labour.

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  35. Things mothers do to keep the family going

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  36. so what in Gods name has the daughter been doing?

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  37. Or she is living as a crossed dresser or identifies more as a man than a woman!! This is 2015 sha

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  38. infact,she should b given an international award...like Mo ibrahim n co....

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  39. Chai!!!
    She try jare
    She deserves it

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  40. Reminds me of the novel fortune is a woman

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  41. Chai, she really deserves that award

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  42. She really deserves the honor

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  43. She really deserves the honor

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  44. Ogechi@ afakos@yahoo.com18 March 2015 at 12:02

    Great woman indeed. She is brave and deserves the award. Congrats ma.I hail.

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  45. Dude jst develop a soft spot 4 this GENIUS Woman.

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  46. My mother would have done just that or anything even more that this to put food on the table! RIP mum! Your family misses you so bad!

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  47. A mother is mankind's best unappreciated gift

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  48. I don't get it.. women cant work in Egypt?

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  49. Kudos to d good mothers

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  50. Wow...I love this woman, she's just too much.

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  51. OMG! No love like a mother's. God bless all the good moms out there.

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  52. Egypt honors her for treating women like second class citizens? It should be ashamed of itself.

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  53. Awwwwwwww! What a great mother....I aadmire her courage. She really deserves the honor

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  54. She deserve the award. She is a brave woman, God bless her.

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  55. she deserves more awards. this is a real virtuous woman!

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  56. Very honorable. Well deserved award.

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  57. wow a mothers love, cant be bought with the finest rubies cos it is priceless.

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  58. Awww... A mother indeed! God bless her beyond this honoor.

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  59. Bravo madam. A mother's love is unconditional.

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  60. Wonderful woman. God bless her. She's strong

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  61. God bless our mothers all over the world who put us first before themselves

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  62. She's a super woman, mothers are priceless...

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  63. And people will say they engage in vices for what again? Unemployment, bad govt, social or cultural hindrances? Abeg. Hustle well and one day, god will bless u.

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  64. What a strong woman. God has blessed your hustle.....weldone

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