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Dear LIB readers: My boyfriend is always turning down my sexual advances.. should I be worried?

From a female LIB reader
My boyfriend of six months is a super gentleman who respects women a lot, a trait that endeared him to me but I am getting irritated with his over gentlemanness. I have approached him for us to get down countless number of times but he keeps telling me he wants to respect me and my body and that he has the tendency of loving me less once we have sex. I have understood with him for 3 years now but it's beginning to give me concern. I love this dude I want him to have me, to scatter me, for him to Peter me up and down (his name is peter) but he is refusing. Says I'm his queen. Should I be worried?
You should be! Very very...lol. Men hardly turn down sex. How much more from someone they 'love'. Turn down for what? Hehe. What say you, people?
at 2/21/2015 12:51:00 pm

298 comments:

  1. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:53

    He his a Perfect Gentle Man but could be Impotent!!
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    .NOTE: Raise Your Words, Not Your Voice. It Is Rain That Grows Flowers, Not Thunder..

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    1. AbokiDaWarriBoy21 February 2015 at 14:44

      This gyal na ashi, make she rest jorr

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    2. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:54

      Turn down for what? Lol

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    3. luvlyn21 February 2015 at 14:57

      Ur boifrnd of six month or 3 years which 1?

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    4. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 16:01

      I remember when I was in love with my first girlfriend, I felt the same way, but she wanted me to use are anyway. I had to comply since I ain't gay and I didn't want to lose her. Now, I have learnt my lessons, (Not all but must girls do not want you to respect their bodies, they only need your assurances).

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    5. NaijaDeltaBabe21 February 2015 at 16:13

      It doesn't follow joo. He might just be a very gentleman. There are very few men like dat

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    6. Davido's driver21 February 2015 at 16:24

      He dun use he tin do money

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  2. @MEETD®EALEVANS™21 February 2015 at 12:53

    His gay....run for Ur dear life...3 years, not even 3 weeks

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  3. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 12:53

    Ashawoooooooooooooooooo..peter u koor, pan u ni..ashawoooooooo..

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    1. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:33

      Are you stupid or you are pretending to be stupid?let me trace where your stupidity is coming from!

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  4. Walata21 February 2015 at 12:54

    Hahaha @ linda's response here You should be! Very very...lol. Men hardly down sex. How much more from someone they 'love'. Turn down for what? Hehe! Wtf dat dude na confirm mumu

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  5. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:54

    She should be very worry nd at dsame time be careful

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  6. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:54

    Is he born again?

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  7. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:55

    #shoroniyen

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  8. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 12:55

    He doesn't 'like' u,don't even talk about 'love'...

    Best advice? look for someone that appreciates you!

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  9. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 12:55

    Please, give him my contact details and refer him to me.

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  10. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:56

    He respects U.........Maybe he wants to wait till date perfect time...Under d right ceiling..........


    Moye says so via BB Passport...Courtesy LIB....

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  11. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:56

    I tot u said bf of 6months, hw cme 3yrs again!!!

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    1. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:55

      I thought I was the only one who saw this

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    2. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:09

      I thought it was only I that was confused there

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    3. *Minxy*21 February 2015 at 16:43

      My thought exactly.

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  12. obiora21 February 2015 at 12:56

    Akwuna kwuna.

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  13. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:56

    Me? Ogini?? Turn down for kini??

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  14. Unknown21 February 2015 at 12:57

    I dont know anything about dis sex tin....over to d adults

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  15. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:00

    Has he kissed her and smooched her if yes he isn't gay. If she no want let her leave. Is He a Godly man. Some men just have principles

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  16. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:00

    Seriously u should because he might be sm problems he doesn't want to share with u and he's afraid dat if u dose u might leave im

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  17. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:00

    Lol, turn down for. Why my guy dey dull now

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  18. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:00

    You should be happy he's turning you down madam, fornication is a sin. I wish my bf will do same, at least he gave u a very good reason... chill abeg.

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  19. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:00

    So have u been with him 6 months or 3 years..which one?doesn't he at least get a hard on when u guys try it on? Its very unusual for a man to have dat much self control...anyways, dude is gay! N u r just his beard...lol

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  20. Josh Atuanya21 February 2015 at 13:01

    Not all men are Sex freaks...
    I'm a living example...
    This is d same way my ex left me cos I refused to BROWSE her...
    D truth is dt I hated d girl bfr her immediately after sex...
    He may have true feelings for u
    Instead of begging him to SCATTER u
    try and bring up marriage talks gently,smartly and marturedly so u will know his TRUE STAND

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  21. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:02

    PETER IS GAY. Sorry.

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  22. Oly Nwanma21 February 2015 at 13:02

    Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay. Yup he's gay bitch!

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  23. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:02

    maybe you should get a guy that you both can have sex in his presence then he will come up.lol
    my opinion




    nikky say so

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  24. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:02

    U shouldnt be.some men are like that.

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  25. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:02

    Maybe u stink downstairs.....check well

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  26. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:02

    Is sex ur problem, maybe he has his own reason y he is turning u down, it is two things, maybe he is seeing somebody or he doesn't love u.

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  27. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:02

    That's what I call genuine love and not lost. It obvious he's not after ur body. Such men are rare tho

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  28. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:02

    Hahahaha, Linda had to voice her opinion on this...my dear, its either ur man is impotent, has no dick(which is impossible), has a very small dick,is hermaphrodite, or GAY and down low. .*evil grin*

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    1. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:54

      So u get mouth call someone a gay? U wey dey cry here cause they are calling u a gay in fact u be cigarette

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    2. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 15:45

      Hez gay so u can apply abi?

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  29. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:03

    For 3years?!! You sure say the bros can "DO" ok oooo...

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  30. Rubylicious21 February 2015 at 13:03

    Your story is contradictory, his he your bf of 6months or 3 years? Anyway, you should be very worried. If he isn't a virgin which I doubt he is, he is definitely getting his groove on from someone either male or female.

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  31. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:03

    Hehehehe. Peter me!!! lol. what about paul..?? Nne linda has said it all we gentlemen rarely say no to that.. So dear You should be so so worried. At the same time if peter is waiting till the trumpet sounds to do the shag my dear try paul..

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  32. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:04

    Calm down dear

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  33. Olawale21 February 2015 at 13:04

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  34. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:04

    see contradiction of the highest order boyfriend of six months, understood for 3 years. Anyways it's possible that guy is my elder bro. People can love less with sex involved.... OBSEQUIOUS

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  35. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:05

    I don't think she should be worried. My hubby did the exact same thing. It was frightening at first because we all know guys want it. But looking back now, it was a unique thing to do and theirs no shortage of it now that I'm married to the same man.

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    1. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:07

      Glad to have a positive impact on this sinful generation...... Nice!!!

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  36. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:05

    see contradiction of the highest order boyfriend of six months, understood for 3 years. Anyways it's possible that guy is my elder bro. People can love less with sex involved.... OBSEQUIOUS

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  37. Ijeluvlybabe21 February 2015 at 13:05

    Maybe he s a virgin or castrated lol

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  38. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:06

    My dear no matter how Godly he is there is something wrong
    And he is not even telling you that let you guys wait till marriage but he may love you less
    What he marry you then won't he have sex with you
    He is either GAY or IMPOTENT
    Run o
    Isay Run

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  39. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:07

    Hmmmm...a tricky one ...3 years !!! wow .. that's a very long time...

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  40. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:07

    Women are unsatisfied......if he's a rough man that demand for sex more , they will say he's a sex addict and now his a gentleman and ure still complaining...........women wahala too much joh


    ::::::::::::::::::::::::::QUEENMAYA:::::::::::::::::::::

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  41. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:07

    Lol... Linda u self.... Lol... Maybe he is impotent or he tin 2 small

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  42. BONARIO NNAGS21 February 2015 at 13:08

    Nawao! Is sex food? Wait till you marry, your man is a pious man, don't bring enmity between him and his God.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

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  43. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:08

    If you ask me, nah who I go ask?

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  44. Juleslouis21 February 2015 at 13:09

    Be worried ϑε̲ãr. Turn down? That kin play no reach that his "i respect women" story o. U just have to find out if d eggplant is functioning o.

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  45. kidykuz21 February 2015 at 13:09

    Dat dude is gay

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  46. dazzlinstar21 February 2015 at 13:10

    With stories like these you just feel really sad for some people. I ask the question; where is the decency of abstaining from sex until marriage? Here you find someone who at least respects you and your body and you're complaining. Like seriously? where has it gone wrong for the singles of our generation? i try not to be too surprised though as the Bible has mentioned that in the last days evil will abound like we're seeing already. Be wise make the right decision to turn to Christ and be saved. You're not too ungodly that He can't take you back. He loves us dearly because he paid our debt with blood. Cheers!

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  47. ary21 February 2015 at 13:11

    First question: Is he a church type? If he is, then maybe he wants to wait till you are married. If he is not, then he is either scared of sex, gay or getting some from some place else.

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  48. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:11

    sweery u need to be worried cos his definiately hiding some thing from u or dont u watch movies ？ is obvious sometin is fishy

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  49. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:11

    Mayb he z impotent,ma word ov advice z u shdnt get married 2 him wifout gettin down wif him 2 avoid another story on LIB

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  50. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:14

    looool......dis wan na serious gobe ooo, I think he should go for checkup..

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    1. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:38

      Babe you better be very careful, keep love aside, this guy might be infected that is why he is avoiding sex with you or he don't just love you.

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  51. PRETTY GIRL21 February 2015 at 13:14

    I know some of you hypocrites are going to come on here and start quoting the bible,let me clearly state that I know what the bible says about pre-marital sex and i don't need any more lectures on that,thank you.... Now to the poster,first you said "my boyfriend of 6months" and later you said "I've understood with him for 3years" ...WTF you saying? Well let me say this anyways....you actually have a lot to worry about because 'if' you've been with this guy for 3 years without having sex, except he's a virgin, means he's been having some elsewhere because I pretty much doubt a man who's sexually active will stay without sex for 3 years unless he's incapable of getting an erection. ..I dont want to talk about love now,but my darling it actually seems like you have more to worry about than your sex'less' relationship life #respect your body kor,regard your body ni

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  52. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:15

    Turn down for kini.... may your pussy is smelling may be

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  53. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:15

    if he has sex with u and does not marry u or leaves u, u will be the same person complaining

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  54. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:16

    Maybe he doesn't want sex outside marriage but really can't tell you or he'll sound uptight. Believe me it's not easy 2 tell sm1 u love them but can't screw them. You're lucky but you don't know it. Then again, he might be gay.. Lmao and Lin What say u? I say no 2 fornication, maybe makeouts will do. ----C21

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  55. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:16

    Well, though am not advocating for sex before marriage i'll tell you to be weary of dat guy. The last guy who said dat to my friend turned out to be gay,poor thing found out after their wedding. However on d other hand we women sef, six months n ure complaining dat he doesn't want to sleep with u, you want him to have u, scatter you. Whatever happened to keeping yourself for marriage? Ordinarily you should be glad to have found a guy like dis n be complaining after say a year then u know there's a problem cos in my experience a guy keeps away from sex to show you respect for up to a year. If he's born again he'll keep away longer then propose, if he's not big on God things after a year he'll want to scatter you whenever he sees you till you give in. Solution to ur problem? Wait a Lil longer see d vibes you get from him- is there any chemistry? Does he have a hard on when you kiss or cuddle? Does he call u often? Hold ur hand or smile at you lovingly? If no, move on he's def gay.

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  56. CHERRY21 February 2015 at 13:16

    Lol be worried oh mrs peter Lmao!

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  57. Juleslouis21 February 2015 at 13:18

    There's more to this story than what he's tellin u. A man in his full flesh and blood can't always refuse na. Girl u need to find out if that eggplant is functioning.

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  58. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:18

    Call me.........#080888888888888888888888888888

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  59. Neymar21 February 2015 at 13:18

    He could b gay ma dear! Watch ur back.

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  60. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:18

    Their is fire on d mountain.its either he is Gay or their is somethin wrong.meanwhile have u seen his D**k Before?.sirslim

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  61. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:18

    No comment nest

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  62. Capt. Planet21 February 2015 at 13:19

    LoL @ "I want him to scatter me"
    My dear, you should be worried o. 3 years una never tidy, na wa

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  63. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:19

    3 years no action? Either he's asexual or he has a disease he doesn't want to give you.

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  64. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:20

    Haah 3 yrs u should be worried oh it's not just normal sha if u guys are not married den maybe he doesn't want to commit a sin

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  65. koya kay21 February 2015 at 13:20

    If he is not ready and your cunt needs it, my dear don't worry yourself there are lots of great dude out there that is ready to give you to the fullest. Sorry sweetie.

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  66. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:20

    I feel your pain "sister"...my boyfriend of 8months is an extreme over aged single gentleman. Very gentle and respectful to everyone yet sucessful. He finds me attractive yet He hardly sex me up (maybe once a month). I don't know if he's gay. I have checked myself but I swear I am intact, and clean. I honestly don't know what to do

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  67. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:23

    Just leave de dude alone, am available if you want who will scatter you..............or may be you get sttaphylochochos. Sorry

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  68. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:24

    Peter u up and down.............lol

    He is born again that is why he dont want to commit fornication.

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    1. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 15:21

      If you don't want to fornicate,u court for maximum a year and marry the person. As born again u are sure Holy Ghost is directing u so no need to wait.

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  69. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:24

    Linda u said it all jare.

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  70. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:24

    Gay tinz

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  71. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:24

    my case is d oda way round...my bf wants d sex I ave bin denying him of for 3yrs....in 2wiks I might cum nd tell u guys abt our break up....story story- story

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  72. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:24

    Be more than worried sister. It's not normal. Abeg o

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  73. SR21 February 2015 at 13:25

    Is that the aggrieved girlfriend pictured? If yes, let her call me. If No, unto the next

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  74. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:25

    Oga o,different strokes for different folks...... it depends on what u believe,if u think sex is a yardstick to measure a man 's love for u,go get yourself another man who would prolly screw the life out of u and still dump u.......

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  75. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:25

    U ursef said he is a gentleman n u still want him to get down on u,na food n even if he has another person he is respecting u so as not to hurt u but ur own food na sex.Abeg biko leave him alone if u no get shame he get.

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  76. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:26

    CHECK IF HES A REAL PETER DOWN SIDE CUZ IF HE IS HE SHUD NOT ONLY SCATTER U DWN BT BATTER,SHATTER N PETERPAUL UR DWN COAST...ABSTINENCE IS D BEST THOUGH'....TOMJERRYSWIT

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  77. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:27

    If he rich,check him well,there must be something behind his reasons.he might just be trying to protect you from smth.don't look at d ordinary,but d extraordinary.

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  78. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:27

    Do you really know him? I think you should find out if he masturbates, watch pornography or addicted to something! No man refuses a good time of sexual pleasure with the girl he loves especially if she is the one making advances except he is a "bro".

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  79. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:27

    No comment for now.

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  80. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:27

    baby ask am wella ok na pure lie gentle waytin? go ask my girlfiend na she dey run haba....

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  81. CHYNELL21 February 2015 at 13:29

    Sweety HE'S GAY, sorry but its true, run as fast as ur legs can carry. Guys wey be say once u flash dem boobs dey don follow u lyk fly, hehehe, overworry should b worrying u sef.
    #WHICH WAY NIGERIA#

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  82. CHYNELL21 February 2015 at 13:29

    Sweety HE'S GAY, sorry but its true, run as fast as ur legs can carry. Guys wey be say once u flash dem boobs dey don follow u lyk fly, hehehe, overworry should b worrying u sef.
    #WHICH WAY NIGERIA#

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  83. Daminho21 February 2015 at 13:30

    LO....boyfriend of six months and u have been dating for 5 years, who is drunk?

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  84. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:30

    First....."my boyfriend of six months".....then...." I have understood with him for 3 years now...."

    Linda, plssssss!

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  85. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:31

    Choi!! worried ke.. you should be more than excited oh... he Still even respects you after bringing yourself than low... But thinking again you should oh cause he could have sexual issues... who knows #shrug

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  86. Daily diet tv21 February 2015 at 13:31

    Don't think he's into women lol

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  87. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:31

    Turn down for what??? She should make him do o. What kind of respect is that??? We must test, even if na only once sef.


    @SOPHIA STEPHEN

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  88. Goziem Oh LORD21 February 2015 at 13:31

    Just find out if he is ok if yes then no need to be worried ok.

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  89. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:33

    No my dear you dnt have to be worried is normal thing

    #Biafra

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  90. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:34

    In linda's voice 'turn down for what?' Dear u should be worried. Perhaps his manhood is not working.


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    1. Anointed21 February 2015 at 14:19

      He must be impotent,cause guys will never turn a girls offer wen it comes to sex,so be wise. #linda am here o#

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    2. Anointed21 February 2015 at 14:20

      He must be impotent,cause guys will never turn a girls offer wen it comes to sex,so be wise. #linda am here o#

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  91. knowurway.com21 February 2015 at 13:34

    Hmmm 3yrs can u imagine? Better leave him oh, he maybe Gay

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    1. AbokiDaWarriBoy21 February 2015 at 14:22

      Smh... 9ja mentality, so if man choose to b responsible now turn gay?? I weep 4 ur brain!

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  92. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:34

    Lol,must u have sex? Na food? Its possible nothing is even wrong with the man sef,some people are that disciplined in relationship. I know some will say his manhood ain't working,but you never can tell!

    #i am proof that God answers prayers! God is the ultimate! Accept Jesus Christ today!#

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  93. sexy Nora21 February 2015 at 13:34

    Yes u should be

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  94. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:36

    U shudnt b worried, I tink dat guy really luvs n respect ur body so much. R/shp is not all abt sex

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  95. @Osirmah21 February 2015 at 13:36

    Eyaah! Ur boyfriend z now a bonified Christian.....lol

    FF on Twitter n IG @Osirmah

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  96. Jenny21 February 2015 at 13:36

    It is possible, there r still @ least very Lil percent dat r still lik dat, Linda don't talkk lik dat, now we dey make these guys think say na their right to hv sex wiv us outside b4 we r married. Jus imagine wat u r saying. As for me as far as we hv gud communication, menn I dnt care if he is not into d sex with me o, n if he is deceiving himself, sorry I dnt care either. My point is I loose nothing.

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  97. NMaa21 February 2015 at 13:36

    Good for u. Nne go nd marry. Wen he wll scatter u finish nau u wil say he broke ur heart. Sex is nt love ooo. After scattering na u go cry ooo.

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  98. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:36

    might be he is a born again and it is against his believes. is he taking marriage? and doesnt believe in pre marital sex. Lastly eyes closed , he could be... uhm gay?

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  99. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:37

    My dear u shld really be worried..it's either he is gay or has erectile dysfunction.i honestly think u shld find out d category he belongs to.

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  100. VICTOR EKEANYANWU21 February 2015 at 13:37

    Yessoooo my sister. Be very very worried. If he's not a strong born again, be very very worried. Then take ur time to get a close look at his best friends


    Thank me later.
    Hyke

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  101. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:38

    Nawa o,there are three ways to look at this,it is either your boyfriend is gay and he's using you to cover up, or he is impotent and,or, he is a born again christian but even me doubt that one.If he loves you as he claims,hmmm temptation must dey o but him dey lie for u sha.If he is as gentle as he acts then am happy for him

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  102. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:40

    3 years? You sure he is straight.

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  103. Chy 🌹21 February 2015 at 13:41

    Hian...Linda are u supporting fornication???
    She said boyfriend ooo...not fiancee or husband.
    Well,poster I think there's no reason to get worked up...Just be sure he isn't gay.

    Sex has a way of messing up tins...Most ladies who have decided to be celibate are looking for sex -free relationships. The reason being that their previous rships laced with lots and lots of sex,overdoses of romance and intimacy never worked out...

    Well this is a clear case of "one man's meat being another man's poison".
    If u keep pressurising this man and he decides to "peter u up and own", "scatter u" and suddenly he loses interest cos he don finally enter jerusalem,Hope u won't come crying about hw ur boyfriend used and dumped u?

    Like I said earlier,if he isn't gay...pls relax.
    If I were u..i'll be happy...
    Moreover if he decides to marry u,its to ur advantage...
    Except u suspect he's getting the candy shake elsewere...

    Chinwenmeri.blogspot.com

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  104. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:41

    Lol.....i would have replied dis but..
    Im a cathecist and knows little or nothing about sex education. ..

    #on ma way to d stations of d cross jaree

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    1. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:06

      Scatter you indeed lmaoooo my dear Eis gay just rest!!! Those cock and bulls story is for d GODS

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  105. Blunt Fuck21 February 2015 at 13:44

    Linda, how you take know say men hardly turn down sex? Try me! If you offer me l go turn you down. Unless my name nor be Mr Blunt F..k. Hehehe.

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  106. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:44

    Pls be oooo,hardly see guys lik dat#u re kinda of luck shaaaaa

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  107. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:45

    Maybe you are not sexy enough

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  108. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:45

    Pls be oooo,hardly see guys lik dat#u re kinda of luck shaaaaa

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  109. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:45

    Dis linda na ashawo ooooo. U go like prick wellaa no wonder u so obsessed with eggplant. Well babe they guy loves u n why he won't defile d bed till u guys are married wen he'll peter u badly... dee

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  110. Blog It With Olivia21 February 2015 at 13:46

    Hmmmmmmm.
    I comment my reserve











    *******she's Olive*******

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  111. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:47

    Probably gay

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  112. bola21 February 2015 at 13:47

    i feel ur pain, may be u shuld recommend a therapist for him and uve got to endure a whole lot.

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  113. Dat*Ibo*boy21 February 2015 at 13:48

    Gay alert! ..run b4 u discova madam!

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  114. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:49

    Hmmmmm men of dis days hardly turn down sex. If he claimed he is going to love you less when he has sex with you, then what happens when you guys eventually get married. Does he ever get any erection? U need to watch out babe b4 you end up with an impotent man. You guys need a bit of practical.

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  115. Princess G21 February 2015 at 13:49

    No comment biko. Fornication things mtwwwwwww

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  116. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:50

    You should be o. It's either he's gay, he has other babes, or he's impotent. Do your research.

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  117. Tina Collins21 February 2015 at 13:50

    maybe b d guy is impotence.................

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  118. knowurway.com21 February 2015 at 13:51

    After a gud 3yrs nothing like let me show her love ones, hmmm, as I said elia leave that guy oh! His a Gay, or peter joy stick is not functioning that's why he always give such excuse

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  119. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:51

    that guy have not say what the truth is,she better find-out before is too late for her.




    pls get all the test happening and achievements of people and nations @ achieversdiary.com

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  120. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:51

    that guy have not say what the truth is,she better find-out before is too late for her.




    pls get all the test happening and achievements of people and nations @ achieversdiary.com

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  121. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:51

    He is " OKOBO", cos no man will wait dat long b4 doing it, especially wen u are pushing him dat much...run for ur dear life.

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  122. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:52

    He is " OKOBO", cos no man will wait dat long b4 doing it, especially wen u are pushing him dat much...run for ur dear life.

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  123. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:54

    I would ❤ to say that you are lucky 🍀 but I don't know 😞 why u want it so bad. On another 📝 find out from his ex or friends if he can actually do and please 🙏 well. God has all the answers.

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  124. BLAQ21 February 2015 at 13:55

    Lol, ur bf can't get it up lol

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  125. eka21 February 2015 at 13:55

    seriously suspicious,
    maybe down-town is faulty
    anyway; what do l know

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  126. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:55

    sorry swthrt, he is gay.... very deep chronic gay...d type dat can't even pretend & enjoys masturbation more than female touch. don't just worry, run, run, run.....

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  127. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:56

    impotency dey smell for here.

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  128. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:58

    Lindodo mama no use ur kobalise d young girl oo........my dear d bible is against sex b4 marriage and bliv. Ur one lucky girl to hv such a guy like me.

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  129. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:58

    If he hasn't had sex with you before, then that's serious concern.. 3years? fuck it! he's impotent

    buh if you've had sex before, then he's either gay, doesn't really sex or he's telling you the truth about loving you less when he screws u often...

    buh my question now is: what if that's the truth den u get married, will he love u less cause there would be lotta fucking then or will still do the same shit ?

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  130. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 13:58

    There are so many oda traits u have to consider. Is that d ONLY tin he's doing wrong? Is he proud of u? Does he call often? In 3years have u met any of his family members, does he eat ur food? How many oh his friends knows u're together? If he's doing doz tinz right then go ahead but if not leave NOW dat u still can. #24C2086A

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  131. Tokis for real21 February 2015 at 13:59

    Mmay b he's sexually blind or can't just perform as a man. Watch him very well

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  132. Unknown21 February 2015 at 13:59

    U said he is ur boyfriend of 6 months and u're also saying u've understood wit him for 3 years. Pls if u want to lie, let d lie be reasonable. Many of us lib readers are very advanced.

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  133. lucybings amebo21 February 2015 at 14:00

    Jst d type am looking for, my dear u've known this guy for 3yrs now I guess by now u shld knw if he has heaalth issues or not. If his clean thank ur stars cos u're a lucky woman indeed. The Bible says our body is d temple of the Lord. Respect his decision relax and enjoy ur relationship.

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  134. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:00

    You shouldn't be worried, some men actually view premarital sex and degradation of womanhood hence percieve it as hurting their Lover but you should be careful and stop forcing Him cos he will repel you so that he won't hurt u but even if he has sex with you he won't be able to forgive himself hence finding u so detestable..

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  135. bayoula21 February 2015 at 14:01

    YOUR RIGHT LINDA,
    BUT THIS MIGHT BE ONE OF THOSE GOOD GUYS THAT WANT THE BED UNDEFILED. GOD BLESS HIM FOR THAT. ...

    THANK BEING SAID , OH GIRL SHINE YOUR EYES IN-CASE HE IS STERILE ;)


    :) lOVE GOD

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  136. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:01

    Another reason your stories aren't true! Linda!..."My boyfriend of six months is a super gentleman... THEN " I have understood with him for 3 years now....

    Which one do we pick?

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  137. bayoula21 February 2015 at 14:03

    YOUR RIGHT LINDA,
    BUT THIS MIGHT BE ONE OF THOSE GOOD GUYS THAT WANT THE BED UNDEFILED. GOD BLESS HIM FOR THAT. ...

    THANK BEING SAID , OH GIRL SHINE YOUR EYES IN-CASE HE IS STERILE ;)


    :) lOVE GOD

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  138. Okowright Balaxy21 February 2015 at 14:04

    If he's active and doesn't want to do it, he's a principled man. Besides he's not married to you yet, maybe he's among the few guys that doesn't support sex before marriage.

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  139. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:06

    Perhaps he really want to wait for marriage before he gets down. Does he get an erection when you touch him? Look out for that to know if he is not gay.







    Busy Fingers.

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  140. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:07

    Get naked in front of him. And see what will happen..




    OKORO UPGRADED**

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  141. Flora21 February 2015 at 14:08

    Dude is gay....

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  142. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:11

    Linda...na wa o. 1st you said its a boyfriend of six months, later she claim to have been with him for 3yers. Abeg which one be true?

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  143. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:12

    girl some tin is fishy linda why is my comment not appearing

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  144. QUEEN B21 February 2015 at 14:13

    Hmmmmmmmmmmmm! Run for ur life! He's definitely gay or his joystick isnt........!

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  145. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:15

    His a gentleman just drug him jor n get over with

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  146. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:16

    #Boyfriend for 3years #gentleman #seduce. Chai! Which face u use seduce am? Hmmm. The guy something no de work u de call am gentle man, issokay. Boyfriend for 3years no kondo, na God go judge u.

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  147. ogbewe godfrey.21 February 2015 at 14:21

    Hmm hmm,

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  148. uwa21 February 2015 at 14:22

    3 year you said ?
    Right ?
    Really ? Sweetie, he's a closet case .
    I hope you have insurance in your life with another guy ?
    UNLESS HE HAVE THE HIV VIRUS and don't wanna infect you and want you by his side .

    Ask around, are you his first girl ?
    What happened between him and the girls if he did date girls ?
    What about male friends ? how close is he to them ?
    For me, please be worried . Be very worried and move on .
    Let me tell you , Something is wrong with your Peter . If you end up marrying him? there might be trouble in your paradise .

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  149. chyoski21 February 2015 at 14:24

    My dear, sex doesn't make a relationship especially when u are not married. Christianity shuns sex before marriage and u have a man willing to wait and yet u complain. If u r a christian hun, then be patient and wait..and u can tell when a man is turned on to assuage your fears on his being gay

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  150. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:31

    THis is it,Did you guys talk about sex, what is his predisposition to premarital sex? Does he believe in premarital sex? If yes why is he turning you down? if he dosnt believe in premaarital sex then that's the answer. On the issue of impotency. does he have erections when you guys play? erections that stays throughout the play? Note that Premarital sex is a sin.

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  151. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 14:31

    This is a fabricated story.........first paragraph says your bf of six months......... in the middle you said, he has turned down your sexual advances for 3 years........ How come?

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  152. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:43

    At Linda,responsible men due turn down sex
    Am perfect example, once am not in mood
    If u like go naked,or play with my stick, I won't even shake.
    Seems ur man is p..sy sucker

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  153. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:56

    Guess you are less attractive to him

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  154. Unknown21 February 2015 at 14:56

    My dear no be all men dey jump into a woman like that oooo I have a friend his married now the girl he got married to he told me if he ever sleep with the girl he we not marry her , so relax your mind and hold body unless those boys that we tear u as e dey hungry u after all them go waka commot

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  155. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:05

    He's cheating simple!!!!

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  156. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 15:07

    How 6months cme turn 3yrs beats my imagination, dis story na tales by moonlight

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  157. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:13

    don't worry he's impotent





    #Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

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  158. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 15:26

    I fink d gal shld listen 2 wat d guy z sayn bcos he nos himself better and he alone understands himself.

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  159. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:27

    a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
    .
    Baby 4get it, ur boy na gay abeg.....
    .
    .
    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  160. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:27

    Bae if that guy turn down me I will turn up,jst page me nothing much

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  161. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:30

    Ur boyfriend of six months....n u'v understood wt him 4 3yrs!? Aunty, u n Lyndie r high!

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  162. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:31

    Have read all d comments here..and am so ashamed how Nigerians and you LInda has fallen to morality...he is not married to you and u expect him to fornicate and maybe after d act he begins to act funny and u come here with a different complain...girl if u shud be worried about something pls worry him about marriage..you cn always go for a test to confirm his potency and all..neva assume anitin..cos u might just loose d best husband on earth.#peace

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  163. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 15:33

    please check his hiv statues and potency as a man

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  164. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:38

    3 years that too long he should get an award for being too gentlemanly or he's getting it else where

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  165. prettiyz21 February 2015 at 15:42

    First of all does he have an erection,secondly have u guys ever been romantic like kissing and others if no then my dear run as fast as u can

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  166. Unknown21 February 2015 at 15:43

    Its funny what the world has turned into,he has sex with you,he's not "Godly" he doesn't ve sex with you n u re asking if u shld b worried? When he dumps u now u will start saying he has used u n dumped u! Nonsense....

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  167. funesh21 February 2015 at 15:56

    HE HAS HIV AND SINCE HE LOVES YOU DOES NOT WANT TO TRANSFER TO YOU GBAM!

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  168. ADA21 February 2015 at 16:07

    HE IS A GOD FEARING GENTLEMAN. Is that so hard for this generation to understand?

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  169. mary nwa mama21 February 2015 at 16:09

    my dear, its either he is gay or impotent. it can't be far from these two. use your tongue to count your teeth

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  170. Anonymous21 February 2015 at 16:27

    Ladies want sex before marriage yet they complain about infidelity. Is sex before marriage right and infidelity wrong? Both are wrong and if you wants a guy that can sex you before marriage, then don't complain when he sex other ladies too. After all you are not yet married.

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  171. Unknown21 February 2015 at 16:32

    Abeg dat your story na lie, it is contradictory so I choose not to bliv it. Linda take note!

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  172. Unknown21 February 2015 at 16:32

    Abeg dat your story na lie, it is contradictory so I choose not to bliv it. Linda take note!

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  173. Unknown21 February 2015 at 16:32

    Abeg dat your story na lie, it is contradictory so I choose not to bliv it. Linda take note!

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  174. HAWT TALk WITH TOSAN21 February 2015 at 16:38

    He may be gay> # years? No way

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  175. Unknown21 February 2015 at 16:46

    Surely he loves you, he might has some sickness he wouldn't want to share with you because of his love for you, knowing you are his queen.I advice you both see a counselor to give real advice on this; remember, sex and love are two different things, take you time and know him.

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  176. AZEEZ RIZQAH21 February 2015 at 16:48

    Iffa hear say werin? Guys hardly turn down sex not to tok of with sum1 dy love.
    Davido's GF

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