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Friday 23 January 2015

Nigerian parents left their twins, 9, alone in the US and traveled to Nigeria

Nigerian parents, Jerusalem and Gladys Monday, have lost custody of their 9 yr old twins after they left them mostly to themselves in their New Hampshire apartment for four months and took their other three children to Nigeria. They left their twins in the care of an uncle who hardly visited. More of the story below from AP...
Manchester police said the uncle, 25-year-old Giobari Atura (pictured above), told them he would stop by every couple of days to drop off food, but when police got involved in November, they found no edible food in the refrigerator and only ramen noodles in a cabinet.
Atura was charged in December with one count of endangering the welfare of a child, a misdemeanor. He was freed on $500 bail.
Atura's older brother, Jerusalem Monday, left for Nigeria with his wife and three of their children in July, intending to return in August. They told police they were delayed by illness and passport problems.
The door at their apartment was ajar Thursday, but no one answered a knock; a telephone listed in Jerusalem Monday's name was not receiving calls. A neighbor, Christaly Garcia, said she didn't recall seeing the boys but noted they wouldn't necessarily stand out because there are a lot of kids in the well-kept apartment complex in New Hampshire's largest city.
The case came to light in November when officials at the boys' school told the state Division of Children, Youth and Families that the twins had been living on their own for months. The kids were getting themselves up and on the bus, then eating breakfast and lunch at school.
The boys were taken into protective custody and then placed into foster care.
Assistant Hillsborough County Attorney Michael Valentine said the parents returned home shortly after they learned the boys were being left alone. Because they left them in the care of a relative, Valentine said, they won't be charged. The boys are back with their parents.
In a police affidavit, Atura said he'd stop by the apartment on days that he went to work, but that didn't happen every day. He said he checked on the boys three days a week and told them to call him if they needed anything.
"It should be noted that no operable phone was located within the apartment," the affidavit says.
In an interview with police, one of the boys said "he felt lonely while staying at their own house because his mom and dad were not there and nobody was with them," according to the affidavit.
When police finally reached the parents, they said they had instructed Atura to stay at the apartment, and if he couldn't, they gave him the name of a family friend to contact. The parents said they stayed in phone contact with Atura, who assured them everything was fine.
His phone number isn't listed. His lawyer, John Stanzel, did not immediately return a call seeking comment.

98 comments:

  1. What kind of parents are these for goodness sake!

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    1. Are these people insane or something?!Na wa o.

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    2. I understand what happened here. The parents just simply trusted an idiot with their kids. But finally sha, they could have just taken d kids with them. If they couldn't afford it, they musn't go to nigeria.

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    3. That's very bad, only 9 yrs

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    1. Patience George you wan kill me with laughter here.

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    2. They r foolish they think they r in the lawless naija.


      @lwkmd_naija

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  3. But how would a parent leave his/her kids for that long..they didn't try @ all.

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    1. Girl you are so used to broken English

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    2. Lol. What makes u think that this is a "broken english" problem? I mean..most of y'all are so funny.

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  4. What a risk! Some people don't deserve to be parents! They have forgotten they are not in naija

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    1. They really don't!, and I can't believe they let them off with those flimsy stories...4 good months whatt!!!!for what in nigeria?? u abandoned ur children, a few years now we would hear that a nigerian boy killed his parents, when all these absent nigerian parents don't give their kids love and attention and don't realize the power and effect of it..smh

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  5. Wonders shall never cease to happen. 9 years old?.

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  6. Why leave the twin? And take the other kids to 9ja?.


    "Heaven on earth!!! Wonders without end,that's my new realm"



    @Galore

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  7. Na them sabi. What are they thinking self.

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  8. That was risky! Leave ur kids in care of sum1 For months in obodo oyibo' no na... and they didn't speak wt d boys during d period? odikwa risky o

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  9. Na wa o...smh

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  10. Na wa o...smh

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  11. Some ppl can b so daft.smh

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  12. MR EDDY said this harmattan is sponsored by MTN. It is everywhere u go.

    Wicked being! Atura Abi na aturu. poor kids. Thank God nothing bad happened to them.
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    ^™THAT EDO BOY.COM~wishes u happy new year.

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  13. Common sense isnt common
    Thank God, they are able to survive


    #Commenting thru Glo 4G LTE

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  14. So many parent in Nigeria would lose custody of their kids if Nigeria were to be the US.Negligence by parents is so alarming in this country.Maybe poverty has a role to play but its still no excuse .The pix of that little girl crushed by a trailer still haunts me

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  15. Dear Lawd, some Parents tho

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  16. And this is why everybody is not meant to be a parents
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  17. That was negligent on all counts for all involved.

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  18. But that was careless sha! But thank God nothing happen to them!!!

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  19. This is wrong on so many levels. Wetin paper dey cause if not, why weren't they taken to Nigeria too.
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  20. a.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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    I wish na naija dem dey this story for nobi like this i swear.... Lord please visit me o.....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***

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  21. Those governments are always keen to take people's kids away from them.... Why are they trying to make the kids' life even more miserable by making them grow up without their parents??...

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    1. The question is why did d parents leave them?They r minors...Anything or anyone with evil intentions cld hv befallen dem!!Well.....i rest my case

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  22. Some parents no dey try at all, why not get a female relative to care 4 d boys if dey must be left behind, na young man wey no get tym dem lev children 4. Mcheeeeeeeeew! Linda take note!

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  23. Some parents no dey try at all, why not get a female relative to care 4 d boys if dey must be left behind, na young man wey no get tym dem lev children 4. Mcheeeeeeeeew! Linda take note!

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  24. Some parents no dey try at all, why not get a female relative to care 4 d boys if dey must be left behind, na young man wey no get tym dem lev children 4. Mcheeeeeeeeew! Linda take note!

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  25. Some parents no dey try at all, why not get a female relative to care 4 d boys if dey must be left behind, na young man wey no get tym dem lev children 4. Mcheeeeeeeeew! Linda take note!

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  26. The article says "The boys are back with their parents."...but Linda Ikeji is saying in the headline that the parents have lost custody of the boys!!!

    Linda, the Tatafo Aproko of Africa. Your job na do dey Lie Lie pants on fire everywhere!!!

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  27. U carry ur children leave wit "aturu" wat do u expect? Aturu is a sheep!

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    1. Hahahaha, you made my evening. Aturu must always be aturu. Lol..

      Shalom in Nigeria, Amen.

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  28. Why didn't they take all five of them down to Nigeria..nigerians can do shit @ every presented opportunity

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  29. This their guy man uncle sha,advantages of women

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  30. Are they crazy???they should have taken them along!if they cnt take care of their kidz they shouldn't av had them,close ur legs people!

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  31. Some people just ain't meant to be parents

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  32. Good for them...
    The children r not important to them if not they wouldn't try what they d.

    Shame on to them.

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  33. I blame the younger brother and both parents. How can full grown adults mismanage a situation that could have been curtailed.
    They will learn and work extra hard to reclaim their kids.

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  34. They dont deserve to be parents at all.

    Miss indomie says so.

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  35. Dat uncle is a badt uncle




    *oparoescalade*

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  36. Dat uncle is a badt uncle




    *oparoescalade*

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  37. I blame the younger brother and both parents. How can grown adults mismanage a situation that could have been curtailed. They will work extra hard to claim them back.

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  38. Eyah parents sorry o but una no try which kind parents go travel leave their children for house

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  39. Hmmm...I sense something wrong with this story...I mean Can this be totally true?

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  40. am not surprise my sister left her son of 9years to travel from Lagos to Umuaya with her apprentice this last December. its crazy

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  41. Why Aturu now? They for find better person abeg!

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    1. Buhahahaha this is too funny LWTMB

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  42. Why Aturu now? They for find better person abeg!

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  43. Talk about deadbeats!

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  44. check very well na yoruba pple..............................#KingOfKings #6God

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  45. Na waoo
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    @Mr Endowed via Lumia phone

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  46. Enebechi Constance23 January 2015 at 16:54

    Those two aren't serious at all...I mean the parents of those kids.

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  47. God forgive me, but for me, they're not worthy to be parents. Irresponsible adults. I feel like slapping them right now.

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  48. Nawa oooo... Thank God the kids are still alive... but Some people are really animal in human fresh





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  49. That dont make sense, why would you leave 9 year olds by themselves, some peeps are off their heads

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  50. Nawa oooo... Thank God the kids are still alive... but Some people are really animal in human fresh





    twenty4yu@yahoo.com

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  51. The parents are also to blame - not once did they ever ask to speak to the twins in those four months? Im nearly 25 years old and when I came to Nigeria with friends, my mother called me EVERY DAY!!! Parents should be jailed too

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  52. This happens a lot abroad. Few get caught. Someone once told me he and his wife left his 2 year old son alone in the house to go to work from 8 am to 3pm everyday for 2 weeks because they couldn't find a childminder.

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    1. Eh! That child can't be normal again. How will a 2 year old fend for himself for goodness sake? Can he feed himself? Can he ease himself? Or they put him in one diaper for half d day ? Won't he cry d whole day? He will definitely throw up the whole day. Whatever happened to daycare? Honestly if you don't care for kids pls don't have them. Forget about society and how barren women are ridiculed. It is really a choice

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  53. I must live in America... lol... what a traumatizing experience... tomorrow now the kids will grow up to be freakish loners and killers, then everyone will blame it on the devil...

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  54. Such irresponsible parents! Ah ahn. And some people are really seeking God's face for children, yet some are treating theirs anyhow. Life!

    B.

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  55. What an expensive risk. Thank God for the intervention of the police.

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  56. How could u have d heart to leave your nine years old children alone! Thank God nothing bad happened to them else they would have blamed themselves.....

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  57. Are the parents in Nigeria now? Will Nigeria investigate their family to see if they're neglecting their current children?

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  58. Serves dem right. #oneandonlynwa@gmail.com#

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  59. Who does this? Makes no sense whatsoever.

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  60. Ehya sorri ooo u wilffind dem by God's grace

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  61. Jerusalem Monday kwa....
    I bow for this kain name o. Igbo and their orisirisi names *blank stare*

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  62. Na wa for Nigerians o. Oya... Anyone whose parents has never left him/her with another person - relative, nanny, houseboy/girl, boarding school, raise your hand. Do you know if it was impossible for them to take the kids? Do you know if they had to travel? America is not Nigeria where kids can miss school without consequence. They did what many parents do everyday - left their children with someone who ended up showing his true colors. Unfortunately, many of us leave our kids in people's care because we have to. So stop calling them bad parents. It could happen to anyone. If the police thought they were irresponsible, they would be charged with a crime. They were not. Linda, abeg, stop sensationalizing stories. Get the full story.

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  63. Linda please can post news with the correct information. The parents left their twins in the care of a relative. They did not leave them alone. I enjoy reading you blog but it will be much better if you get more facts instead of trying to draw people's attention with your catchy headline. If I hadn't read the news on dailymail.co.uk, I would have been cursing the parents.

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  64. Confusing! Manchester and Hillsborough in the U.S.?

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  65. Please try an take good care of ur kids parent plzzzzzz

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  66. oh please please. As parents, they could have been more involved.

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  67. Linda, confirm your story. they didnt loose custudy of their kids. The kids were only taken to child services while the parents were away and were returned home when they got back to the states. You have names here and may build a slanderous reputation like I said confirm your reports if possible from multiple sources.

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  68. this isnt the full or correct story!

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  69. I wanted to curse out both parents and said uncle till I was the names Jerusalem and aturu which of course is a name to sheeps in my village .
    Sorry boys ,this is what happens when sheep takes care of human !

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  70. Both parents should not have traveled at the same time. A parent should have stayed behind or the twins should have lived with another family while their parents were away.

    No commenter should support child cruelty in any fashion. May we ask if the parents were on drugs because that is how irrationally such people think without batting an eyelid. Awon 'ika' parents.

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  71. catherine leema atura24 January 2015 at 12:21

    Am Catherine leema atura, biko free d guy jor. my uncle jerusalem was not suppose to live his kids 4 nigeria. my uncle Giobari tried his best by visiting d kids and remember he has his own responsibilities too, so u guys should free him and mind ur business.

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  72. you guys should just stop blaming the parent,the story says they got held back in nigeria bcos of passport issue and sickness,which means they stayed longer than expected,no reasonable parent will abandon their kids like that,moreso what if the parent die wld the kids not leave?

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  73. u guys should just stop blaming the parent,the story says they where held back in nija bcos of passport issues and sickness which mean they stayed longer than they expected or planed,no reasonable parent will neglect kids like that,moreover if the parent die the children no go survive.smehhhhhhhhhh

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  74. The parents are to be blamed.

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