Ewo! Choi. The curses were so much I had to edit some out..:-). From a female LIB reader
My sisters husband just sent her packing from their home. It will not be better for him and other useless men like him. After eight years and three children, he sent her packing because he saw some texts on her phone from another man. So a married woman should not have male friends? This is the same useless bastard who has girlfriends all over Abuja. A nincompoop that has kept two mistresses for the past two years but because he thinks my sister is cheating on him, he asked her to leave his house but kept their children. He even withdrew the car he bought for her and locked her boutique and asked the security not to allow her in the premises. All this based on suspicion and hearsay. All you men that are not fair to your significant others God will punish all of you. Unfortunately this country doesn't side with women in domestic issues like this but we are taking the matter to God and this man and all men like him will start to feel the wrath of God. Oloshi people!
Ur crazy
ReplyDeleteAmakadarlyn@yahoo.com
She's not the first something like this has happened to my dear n it also happen to men too. Cursing men won't solve ur sis's problem. Ubanagum
DeleteDrama queen.. just shut up.. what male friend was your sister looking for.. aba.. she neva get female friends finish.. na male friends remain.. A male friend her hubby dont know about.. Get a life and stop being paranoid.. Idiot
DeleteSo he caught her cheating and you are hear ranting? What is a married woman doing with another man and what kind of stupid friendship are they doing? Tell your sister to tell you the truth about the content of the text messages in her phone. The husband certainly wouldn't chase her a way if the text messages were about church program or business deal. The text might have contained some love / feeling expression. Your sister thought since her husband cheats, she could also cheat init?? Her husband might have even hired a private detective to monitor her without her knowing. Pele, it's a man's world, so suck it up.
DeleteMy ϑε̲ãr, take it easy. Anger does not solve any problem it only worsens it. Marriage is complicated pls deal with the issue with calm minds.
DeleteSmh... Nigerian men and their wahala
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Farabale dear.. I think the man can't live to hear or notice his wife may or could cheat.. He's insecurity pass Nigeria Wahala...
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a journey of a thousand mile Begin's with T-FARE!!
men!!...neccesary evil!
ReplyDeleteWomen..... woe onto men.
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ReplyDeleteNow sipping green tea.
Delete@lwkmd_naija
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honestly, yea right. it won't be better for me personally , it will be best for me. who will want to settle for better when best is the ultimate. cheers. Engr Emy
ReplyDeleteGbammest my brother. The best or nothing.
DeleteLiar! He caught her red handed. As a woman, you need to work hard and earn ur money so incase this type of thing happens to you, you blame all me for it.
ReplyDeleteShut up ur mouth ther,its useles men lik u thy r talking about here,oloshi
DeleteShut up ur useless mouth Ufomski. Is pple lik u dat wil b married wit 3kids & still kip male frnds u wil sleeping with. Serves ur flirting sister ryt.
DeleteUseless girl @ufomski if u like cheat cuz ur husband is cheating.Ashawo!!
DeleteIt is funny how domestic violence, child support and more dont work in Nigeria. It is a shame. Old people ruling us always thin from olding days. There thoughts are never with the present nor the future. Stop voting for old people, Nigerians protest for irrelevants and dine on bullshits everyday
ReplyDeleteYou are so unintelligent.
DeleteUr English ll land U in trouble my dear. Olodo. Ubanagum
DeleteMehn speechless is all I am cos to me d truth of d whole story is yet to be revealed
DeleteLolz...wicked
DeleteDear LIB Reader, Devil gladly Punish u too o....
ReplyDeleteMmm!!! This is serious.. Why didn't your sister delete the messages?? Its has cost almost every thing including the kids.
ReplyDeleteHer sis started cheating too. Two unwise people can't live under d same roof
DeleteHmmmm #word#
DeleteI ve this kind of struggle too. If I ve nothing to hide y should I b bothered to delete my text? Been married 4 15 years with kids & my husband insecurities has not reduced. It is really frustrating & d annoying part is that he goes around with old women & all his friends do d same. I am a pretty lady I could cheat if I want to but I fear God. D most painful part of this story is what d kids are going through cause of d mans madness & greed to eat his cake & ve it. Most men when another woman has taken over there sense of reasoning they tend to use that as an excuse to carry out there wickedness. I ve seen it happen around me. It's sad & unfortunate.
DeleteErrm would her ranting bring her sister bck to the house? Call a family meeting enough alridi* ur sister s married having a male Fwend texting her inappropriately ain't rite! If her husband whores around isn't an xcuse for her to do same!!!
DeleteMEN! MEN! MEN! They won't want their ladies, gals, wives to cheat on dem! But they r prof(s) in d game! Tufiakwa!
ReplyDeletePay our bride price then.
DeleteKeep quiet, what do U know? Ubanagum
Deletelmao @sunny
DeleteDia re three sides of a story Chidalu, ur own side, d truth nd diaz.
DeleteNo curse again but amen to d ones u said
ReplyDelete#Ise Aye all d way#......but Madam you no tell us the kia text msg wey her hubby see 4 her phone oo.....
ReplyDeletemen!!...neccesary evil
ReplyDeleteHalf of our problem is caused by women. Ubanagum
DeleteMen! Smh
ReplyDeletelolzzzzzzz.............take ur family matter to family plxxxxxxxx...Libers wont help U
ReplyDeleteThank u,obviously Ur sister was keeping a man,look let me tell u,being a girl might be normal to u guys but being a mother and a wife demands a lot of sacrifices,don't say the man is cheating let me cheat,you are cheating on ur children,in this world in as much as we want gender equality,in reality we can never be equal,it can only be moderate,a stupid man can marry however he likes,it's either u divorce or live with it,stop letting what u read deceive you,this is family we talking about,you don't even own Ur own business,I doubt you even work and u wona do wat he does...am not supporting this guy but you women should learn to respect ur families irrespective of wat ur husbands do.And you women should know the kind of Man U marry,don't jump in cuz he's rich.stop arrangee marriage,if he cheated during courtship don't marry him,plus get a job doing so u won't have to swear like this lady's sister
DeleteShe's pained. Lol
ReplyDeleteBut that's too harsh from the man na. Just text? Common!
Make she explain what kinda msg it now
DeleteMen are always jealous and she needs to take this to God in prayer. So God would change her husbands mind set. She knows d kind of man she married. So she needs to be very careful and avoid such problems.
ReplyDeleteEEEWoo!!!!
ReplyDeleteShey your sis didnt no d man is irresponsible be4 she marry him...make una dey tackle am 2geda
ReplyDeleteSee What this Man is Busy Doing with a Lady in an Uncompleted Building
Crazy Things Uniport Babes Do in their Room when they ‘re Bored.
Why would she texted another man... Married women for that matter, good for her.
ReplyDeleteNo married woman should have close male friends & vice visa....cos nothing can happen
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There are more corrections e.g text not texted.
Delete*texted nkor...Bruh just hapuba writing,open shop,sell spare parts!!
DeleteHahahah...don't you just love auto correct
DeleteLolzzzz @ sell spare parts Libers una no go kill person with laugh
DeleteWhat's the true picture of this story.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe there is a smoke without fire.
B4 any conclusions its only wise hear from both parties involved.
Although, this sister na Aproko sef!
Sorry ooooo...But instac of praying for God wrath on him, pray for God to bring him back to his to your sister!!!
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ReplyDeleteDepending on d kinda test d person sent. Advice 2women, dat ur hubby is cheating doesn't mean u should do dsame cos if dey catch u na u get d disgrace by going bk to ur father's house while d man ll ask 4 forgiveness n 4 sure u ll forgive.
ReplyDeleteAmakadarlyn@yahoo.com
Stupidity...
ReplyDelete..And you think it's a right to cheat on you husband and to compete in cheating..
Truth is, there is no justification to cheat on a cheating partner, you don't right a wrong by wrong..
na wa oh, them no do court marriage?
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ReplyDeleteWow dats some really strong actions by d man bssed on hearsay.......... seriously sister!!! u sure he hasn't somehow got evidence? He can't act like dat without confirmations wen he is not a FOOL. Abi kileni mo so.
ReplyDeletemen are always right lol...he will have babes but his wife shouldn't talk to any man..choiii! meeen!
ReplyDelete#GodblessNigeria
This story is just somehow..why ddnt u tell us the contents of the texts? Seems ur sister is cheating too.
ReplyDeleteNawaoh...God is there shaa
ReplyDeleteLol, ds is nt a laffin mata, some men sha
ReplyDeleteI only hope you are telling, the whole truth because you are not everywhere with your sister. if she is innocent God will fight for her.
ReplyDeleteFinally the curses plenty sha... Bt on a serious note, its very wrong... #that is why I ll always advocate for a court marriage, human beings re unpredictable!
ReplyDeleteCourt marriage,what if u dint contribute to the development of his business,u won chop where u no work,Ole oshi.will share half of ur worth with a man! Don't go and get rich be waiting for him
DeleteOH FADA LORD OYA LET MY SINGLE GOD FEARING SUBMISIVE YOUNG BOLD RICH SINCERE N BEAUTIFUL DISEASES FREE WIFE PING ME NOW BY FORCE N FIRE SHE MUST NEVER KNOW ANY PEACE NOT UNTIL SHE FIND N KISS ME FOREVER INJ AMEN.
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Lol...see aggression!
ReplyDeleteLwkmd its not funny but d curses though
ReplyDeleteHer hubby overacted sha,but u guys shld pray harder does mistress outside used jazz oh
ReplyDeleteSure you can take him to court so ur sister can get all that belongs to her back and many more but in this country a woman does have any right to cheat. Hmconcept2000@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteMadam im sorry to say but ur sister is not wise! No woman goes into marriage with her closed anymore. Wen u are in marriage secure urself! Have properties in ur name. Her boutique should be in her name d car in her name(even if he bought it) bankacc solely in her name! If they are in her name den she can head to d authorities to get dem back! I pray God restore her marriage.
ReplyDeleteIt's well
ReplyDeleteYou Must not generalise..even though the man should not have based his decision from hear say..
ReplyDeleteFactoDeLaw
What can. I Say. Shit happens
ReplyDeleteHmmm!!! Dunno what to say sef but the decision he took on his wife is too harsh nah
ReplyDeleteThe woman dey paranoid lol. Easy ma'am u nor talk Wetin d text contain way make d man sack the woman b4 all the insults, let's judge who is wrong or right . Rozay talking
ReplyDelete@SHB.. O'gbu Ma anaghi ekwe mma la ya na azu..
ReplyDeleteWomen, before u start cheating on ur husbands, get ur own house, buy d car urself, open ur business urself, feed and pay children fees urself, feed and buy ur clothes urself. U can't work in Shell and expect ur salary from AGIP.
ReplyDeleteThank God you said some
ReplyDeleteLong live LIB™
So sad some Men Though,dey'd rather they cheat Than have their women cheat on dem,hw sickening
ReplyDeleteI don't judge from one side of a coin.
ReplyDeleteLady-curser, I'm a bit disappointed. How has this changed the man's stand? You called him all sorts of names, what if all these start acting on him and eventually, your sister and him get back together.
Think girlfriend. You are a lady for crying out loud. Pissssssssss
David (dave_gino)
Well, if your sister is a cheat that is to be expected. The Nigerian society dose not favour women. A married woman that doesn't even have her own money and is not in control of her home, now that she has destroyed her home she can go and marry her lover or lovers.
ReplyDeleteI don't believe this story.cus ur husband is cheating doesn't justify urs. Why didn't she tell us the text msgs so we cud understand better weda its a normal msg or not. Abeg make una carry una matter go jor. Am very sure she too was cheating on her husband.
ReplyDelete>>>>> Men thinks cheating is okay for them alone, which is not a perfect balance. <<<<<
ReplyDeleteMy dear take note: you don't have to cheat on your husband because he is cheating on you. Men's world and women's world are not the same. Men can cheat and get away but women don't. Promiscuity in married women is getting out of hand. After marriage their eyes are still out side. A lot of women are not married for love so they cheat. Why would a man send an sms to your sister that will lead her hubby sending her away. Especially Abuja, Lagos and Portharcourt women married to so called big boys. Married women should stop complaining coz they also sleep with single ladies boy friends.
ReplyDeleteMadam I need not make comments again after yours. Comments like yours can calm a raging man.
DeleteWomen! stop equating yourselves with men. A woman has what it takes to tame even a beastly man if she wants to. Stop competing with a man and fighting for your yourself. Stand by him and make him look foolish, stupid and miserable for not defending and living for you too.
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Great comments both of you,Agatha please signal by saying Aii if u ain't married yet...a bro wona propose right here..take this seriously plz
Deleteas a married woman,except for your business partner that your husband trustfully knows about,you are not save keeping any other male friends.Man can be affectionately jealous
ReplyDeletefirst of all, this mwrriage was not built on trust. seeing text message is not enough sending ur wife away ,but what was the content of the message wnyways?
ReplyDeletemost man r xo useless agnesodey10@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteBut y would a married be hAving suspicious messages frm a male Friend.
ReplyDeleteNa so we see am for dis world,what can one do
ReplyDeleteMen's world they say *pity
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm na waoooo d matter serious oh
ReplyDeleteEnough alridi d insults won't gt her bck to d Huz! Wud it? Call a family meeting#end of story#
ReplyDeleteSee, i am tired of women insulting men all the time. As the face is different, so is the mind, character and life style of men are. You better shut the hell up and pray God gives you and her better men. Rubbish!
ReplyDeletePeople of this world are very greedy, both men and women. They are never contented..always going after what is not theirs. #FEELING PISSED. www.agathachibuike.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteThe man is wicked oh,is there not any means to resolve their issues?than sending her packing
ReplyDeleteWhy dint she build her own house then turn it to a date house Whr lovers can exchange text messages to married women.that case no one would kick her cheating ass out.eii?
DeleteThe man is extremely wicked. God will help your sister if she has never cheated on her husband. But this your curse no be here o!
ReplyDeletelol!! men of his type be warned!! or u will receive d wrath of God.
ReplyDeleteLike they say. Men are polygamous in nature,they thinks that they are the only ones who have the right to cheat buh once the women cheats its an abomination.
ReplyDeleteFaceoflib.
The greatest revenge to a man who sleeps with ur wife, is to drop ur wife for him. From that point, it will be his money, time and energy to maintain her. A wife should not work in SHELL and expect salary in AGIP.
ReplyDeleteSome men are just useless and irresponsible, my girlfriend dat has been dedicated 2 her marriage just had 2 run away frm her marriage cos her hubby is nothing 2 write home about, dis girl has endured everything en durable in d hands of this man yet he does not appreciate her one bit. He cheats on her, hits her, disrespects her and even calls her mum and sisters on d phone 2 insult them, I pray God perfects all dat concerns my friend cos she does not deserve what she is going through now, may God see u through my dear friend, pls ladies be careful b4 marrying any man, most of them are irresponsible and marriage cannot stop them rather it worsens it..
ReplyDeleteThe man that did that is insane an he is the worst person hypocrite is not evil for my wife to have a male friend but is a matter of understanding an jealous man in another way .
ReplyDeleteIt is well . GOD knows best.
ReplyDeleteWhy didn't your sister leave him when she found out he was cheating and has two mistresses ?
ReplyDeleteLmao, Amen to ur prayer Sistah
ReplyDeleteTwo can play the game, ur sister just got owned in d game. A lesson to other cheating wifes
ReplyDeleteTalk is cheap,I tink u shud hear ur in-laws side of d story b4 running ur mouf n makin a nuisance out of urself.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm na waoooo d matter serious ooh, it's nt gud 2 found test msg frm A man 2 another married woman phone oh
ReplyDeleteLol.. Thats how we roll.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm na waoooo d matter serious ooh, it's nt gud 2 found test msg frm A man 2 another married woman phone oh
ReplyDeleteUr sis is a cheat, swallow d bitter pill. Instead of raining curses on men, tell ur sister that cheating on a cheating husband is not a way out. Better go and beg him to take her back. Imagine, bec u think he keeps mistresses, ur sis has d right to cheat or keep love messages from other men.
ReplyDeleteHe saw a text message on ur sister's phone ? What's the content of the message ? Every other man will react same are you sure your sister is innocent
ReplyDeleteLol.... Thank GOD she used the word "some". (•͡.̮ •͡ )
ReplyDeleteSome men are not just it at all, they always feel their wives cheat as they do and that's why they are too suspicious of every movement. God is watching oh. esebeauty21@yahoo.com
ReplyDeletenawa o! Why d thing come dey pain u pass ur sister? Or are u d one? Meanwhile,what's d content of the text her hubby saw? I want to believe the text message was suggesting she is having an affair. So she wan begin do competition with d man in d cheating department,bah? Na see her fate! This is african society and at d end,d woman looses out. She should just go and apologise to her husband,then with prayers and love,win d man's hrt again.
ReplyDeleteSad news, I no fit talk o since I don't know the whole story.
ReplyDeleteThe tale sounded one sided as the heaux did not disclose the content of the text that led to dude takin some hard decisions which ultimately led me to suspect that the married thot is prolly creepin behind the troll's back. I think the dude shld just let her off with a stern warning as he ain't no saint in the bizness either. Ladies, ya all got to knw that its a Man's world out n the r/ship can never be equal.
ReplyDeleteWow I can feel her pain. My God some men deserve to b castrated
ReplyDeleteOH FATHER LORD UNTO YOUR HAND I
ReplyDeleteCOMIT MY SPIRIT
LIB´S ABEG SEH SINGLE BEAUTIFUL YOUNG GODFEARING
BABE LIVING ABROAD NO DEY
COME THIS LINDA IKEJI POST NI ?
GOD WHY ALL THIS WAHALA
WHEREVER MY WIFE IS PLEASE LOCATE
HER AND DRAG HER WITH HER SO CALL
HUMAN-HAIR FOR WHERE DEY DEY
JOLLY OR IF NA GO SLOW OR TRAFFIC JAM DELAY HER
LET WIND CARRY HER PHONE FROM HER
BAG TO PUT IN HER HAND SO SHE GO FIT PING ME RIGHT
AWAY SO SHE WOUNT WASTE MY TIME
HEAR ME OH FADA LORD
LET PEACE BE FAR FROM HER NOT
UNTIL SHE LOCATE ME SHARP SHARP
SO SHALL IT BE IJN LIB SAY AMEN
TO THIS PRAYER IF YOUR OWN GO
BETTER B$ END OF DIS YEAR
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Ehen!her too what was she doing leaving such texts on her fone. U know what they say, " cheating is cool until u get caught. "
ReplyDeleteYou Sister Should Have Bell The Cat Before Her Husband CaT Her Bell! So I Think Your Sister Is More Stupid For Not Doing That.
ReplyDeleteP.S: She's Cheating Maybe As A Payback For What Her Husband Has Been Doing With Abuja Girls..
So Nemesis Caught Up With Her #SeFiNi
Amen! God punish them all, they will know no peace, miserable piece of shit!
ReplyDeleteGbam!
ReplyDeleteGet a good lawyer nd sue his sorry ass to court! Dats y I like whites, u no go try dis kind nonsense for ther!
ReplyDeleteThe man was just sending texts abi?
ReplyDeleteThere was no response from the woman.
The man just got angry 'cos he saw unreplied texts from a man.
Okay.
I can feel your pain ..is well
ReplyDeleteU don't come up here and insult men, caution ur sis clit ode.... Oloshi
ReplyDeleteMy God
ReplyDeletebut u did not tell us what txt he saw in u sis phone
ReplyDeleteWOMEN..KNOW GOD..THAT IS ALL..V D FEAR OF GOD AND YOUR MARRIAGE WILL WORK..NOT PAYING BACK YOUR HUSBAND FOR CHEATING ON U..OFFCOURSE D MAN SAW SOMETHING THAT MADE SURE OF IT....SO RELAX SISTER
ReplyDeletelinda, my husband s also included in dat curse. Very soon he wud meet his match
ReplyDeleteThis is annoying, he ought to know his wife better nah.....i don't like people that conclude issues without real investigations#notfaironthefemalefolks
ReplyDelete#abbytohxoft
nawa oooooo diz mehn sef
ReplyDeleteUnfair..and the douche bag that sent ur sis d msg doesn't know his foolish lust for ur sis has landed her in trouble ..it is advised that couples should often initiate the security lock system on their private devices
ReplyDelete-First, I sympathize with your sister.It is a bad thing to be separated for from one's family.
ReplyDelete-But we don't know the full details.
-Unfortunately in Nigeria its a man's world.If the message indicates cheating then your view about the man cheated counts for nothing!
Take him d hell to court... Nigerians are so ignorant... I wish I could give a number of cases where d women won and took half of their husband 's property... U guys just draw conclusions... get a great lawyer...Rubbish
ReplyDeleteSily sista,supporting her sista for sleepin wit anthr man coz her husband is doing same. She's doin the judgement instead of leavin it for God..yeye ladies!
ReplyDeletehmmmm
ReplyDelete**BOOTYLICIOUS
Another Dino Malaye saga
ReplyDeleteI like dat
ReplyDeleteSharap dia .. When she knew he was cheating all along , why didn't she chase him out and keep the children na ?
ReplyDeleteHeya, men, sooo selfish
ReplyDeleteYou did not say d content of d text mssg!!!!..u just dey insult ur in law,am suspecting u nd ur sister
ReplyDelete-------#AUNTYLINDAgoddaughter#
4 a man who opened a boutique for her and bot her a car and married her to just chase her away on hear-say!!!woman even u knw dt ur story is as dumb as d curses u rained on him...please nne,u knw dt seat wey dem take dey sell iced fish for village market,go buy am den go to d back of d lane and collect ur position...yeye foul
ReplyDeleteMy Dear, You don't need to throw pity Party. Your sister should go to court through the ministry of women affairs if she is indeed legally married to that Man. Nevertheless She can still make amends through love that is from the heart.
ReplyDeleteEvery woman should insist on court marriage for protection.
Don't generalize all Men co's my wife is the happiest woman on earth by marring Me. I make sure she is happy every second of her life.
Remain Blessed
Obioha
I used to say it any women that want to compare herself with her husband base on cheating will end up losing everything,cursing him will not change anything
ReplyDeleteThat's why it's very important for a woman to have her own money and not depend on a man, if she that boutique and car was her sweat would he ask the security to stop her from earning her money? Or rather she will have what to fall back to.. Anyway too badt for her shaa... She dint play her games well.
ReplyDeleteI wonder what you were thinking when u posted this message, why on earth will a married woman be having/receiving text messages from other men for.
ReplyDeleteThe man is so so right even if he sleeps with all the women in Abuja.
You sister got what she deserves period.
There is no place in the african history for maried women cheats
How can a woman be long married to a man and all property is solely his when divorce ensues? He shouldn't be able to "pack his wife out" without any responsibility to her or their children. Nigerian women are conditioned to believe that God hates divorce because they have no rights when they happen in the country.
ReplyDeleteThat u think ur hubby cheats do not give u the odacity to do same no matter what. Lib reader ur Jst chanting nothing happens to d man. D txt must av indicated cheating I presume
ReplyDeleteKeep ranting. Ode oshi
ReplyDeleteMen will alwayz b men!
ReplyDeleteEhya! Too bad I feel her pains tho but that is not applicable to all men dear. There are lots of good men out there that knows how to treat a lady like a queen. Pele my sister take heart the insult won't do you or your sister good either #onelovefromSnow#
ReplyDeleteIf na me na desame tink I go do how dare my wife cheat on me if me no do her mak she tell mak I buy her toy as far as dis world is concern cheatin will remain a normal tin for men!!!!!!!lol!!!!!!from de badest boy in Aba!!!ladies ping only 324136a7 lin pls post dis biko
ReplyDeletego and take some seats,ur sis is a ho
ReplyDeleteHe is a complete man, why will a married woman be keeping male friends? she is now free to do her rubbish.
ReplyDeleteBut Aunty ''CURSER'' it will be nice for you to tell us if the text he saw on your sisters phone was enough to get him that angry then we can decide to either help you pray or just say '' SAME TO YOU' for all the abuses you have poured out from your mouth
ReplyDeletehmm, smh*
ReplyDeleteY would a woman have a man friend? Be it casual or otherwise. Its not right!
ReplyDeleteWomen shld stay clean n clear away from cheat.
Olatee
Men are entitled to marry more than one wife, but women are not allowed to hand more than one husband in religion and cultural contexts of nigeria. Is better for husband to have more legal wives than to be illiciting with women outside his wedlock, this is a cheating to women if such act is happening, likewise women should not have sex outside their wedlock too because it is a cheatting too... mjabdulk@gmail.com
ReplyDeletethats so bad the man went too far..thats y as a woman u nid 2 get something doing n neva depend on any man..she should take it 2 GOD in prayer..
ReplyDeleteGOD BLESS NIGERIA
lets be sincere, most likely your brother in law had warned your sister on that issue before but she wont listen. there is no crime without a loophole. you can't tell how long he was watching and monitoring your sister. there is a saying...you can't eat your cake and have it. your sister would one day confide in you that she did it.
ReplyDeleteAmen ooooo
ReplyDeleteMy ex hubby was very wicked to e too but today nko, he is reaping it double fold!!! What goes around, comes around... Give him time,God will judge him hard as long as your sister is innocent.
ReplyDeleteA married woman shouldn't entertain so kimd of text messages from other men,whether abroad or in nigeria..I dont knw wat the content of the message is ...so I'll drop my pen her.
ReplyDeleteYesoo some men are foolish
ReplyDeleteEven if she was cheating. ...has he not been cheating??? Some men ehn
ReplyDeleteFor all those women who think we are mates, una don see. If I see ordinary text for wify phone, I will collect the kids, the car, the shop, send her packing and even disinherit her, after conducting DNA to find out if the kids are mine. If she catch me, make she come send me commot make we see. This is Africa... smell the coffee
ReplyDeleteLmao
ReplyDeleteClose ur mouth jare! Na u e go beta 4? Just say dat ur husband caught u red handed!
ReplyDeleteC my dear,dont b childish,ur sis hubby cnt c a season or appreciatn txt n send her out,pls dnt compare ur self wit ur man n dnt bliv anoda man is beta dan urs,so b careful n pray 4ur sis n urself.
ReplyDeleteI think before judging, the content of the text should be known
ReplyDeleteI don't condone cheating in a man or woman for that matter! But if she knew that he was cheating, why didn't she start making plans for a rainy day, why stay with a cheating man? Yes I understand she might have stayed because of the kids, but is that working out for her now? Moreover, why in God's name will she leave an incrimating text in her phone! She dey learn?! Haba!!
ReplyDeleteStop cursin sue him rada go 2 office of d public defendant if u don't ve moni u ve som right 2 b accorded ur children & som pay if truely he accuse u wrongly stop makin noise fight legaly
ReplyDeleteim the best guy in the world.ask linda ikejiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
ReplyDeleteCant say anything till the contents of the texts are displayed, this is Nigeria baby, women should respect themselves in their matrimonial homes, why keep close friends after marriage? Btw the abuser surely cannot make a good wife
ReplyDeleteCOMMENT.
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm story
ReplyDeleteWhen I get married and even now sef, I rely on nobody for love. The love I get from activities I enjoy are simply enough to satisfy me.
ReplyDeleteFrom an objective stand point, you were evasive as to the extent of your sister's culpability e.g. what was the content of the text, was their a trend etc. The fact that the man philanders does not mean your sister is justified to do same...two wrongs don't make a right...
ReplyDeleteGhen Ghen. ..
ReplyDeleteMarried women receiving text from male friends without informing their hubby is not advice able.
ReplyDeleteMen are jealous in nature
they say its a man's world
ReplyDeletemen sha.thinking they are our lord and saviour.dats y as women we've got to be independent.buy ur own car.get ur own shop.have a court marraige.take his cheating ass to court and sue for adultery.probably leave wit ur kids and half his money plus his house if ur lucky.dont let Nigerian men take advantage of u.dis is nt d 19th century.men arent our lords anymore.be wise.dont let love fool u o.a man dat claims to love u can turn on u d nxt minute
ReplyDeleted man is obviously retarded.wat a douche.Nigerian men sha.i tire for una.u cheat but dont want ur wife to do so.den y dont u stop cheating.jeez.Nigerian women need to be wise.seriously.dont take shit from any man all in the name of marraige
ReplyDeleteWell,a man like this is too insecure,having a male friend is nothing
ReplyDeletecourt marraige remains d best.u have rights as a wife.ur husband shouldnt treat u like rag den expect u to honour and worship him.dat was centuries ago wen women didnt have rights.its even in d bible.do unto others wat u want dem to do to u.
ReplyDeleteMen are dogs that's why most men here commenting are barking uselessly. @KARLSSON is making annoying comments and insulting ladies. Seriously what the man did is so wrong. Most of you don't have respect for women and that's bad. @Karlsson you are talking as if you won't marry a lady. Are you gay? Cos if you not, you should marry a man, since you despise ladies. She had just one text and all you guys are crucifying her. U men cheat n you don't feel anything at all. If you feel we ladies are useless or whatever insult u wanna pour on us Then for Pete sake tell the president to make Gay marriage possible in this country. Seriously we ladies can do without you guys but you guys can't do without us. Really think about all that have been happening around you, we helped make some happen. A woman gave birth to you, she kept you warm for 9 months, she clothed you, breastfeed you, showered you, always worried about you, always there, we leave our parents n become ur slave in ur house cos we are part if creation from you. We bear a lot of pain n you idiots don't even appreciate us. I don't care anymore, just leave us alone. And be a perfect man on your own, no woman at ur side.
ReplyDeleteI don't blame the man at all. Only God knows the content of the text.
ReplyDeleteDon't blame the man, only God knows the content of the text.
ReplyDeleteMadam go rest abeg! Stop generalizing.. Face your shii!!
ReplyDeleteSome men re bitch. he planed this with one of his so call mistress out there. Bt God is not Asleep after how many yrs with children. Yuh woke up one morning Nd send her packing na jazz? Even if na jazz it wouldn't work. #Maybe he has drunk the luv poison missed with period.
ReplyDelete=CYNTHIA=commenting from my TOYOTA CRICKET
to the Lady:why keep the text on your phone? put ur self in d man shoe what comes to your mind?
ReplyDeletehehe..females.. always the optimist...have u got to hear the other side of the story..
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Some woman are devil, my wife frustrate me always. She can't support any good things ur doing. Am building now n she earn wages but will never contribute. Am a full time pastor n she manage buss I build 4 her for d family. She fought until I surrender d buss. I collect loan n she won't assist with children sch fees,feeding in d house or anything at all. She will start quarrel when I delay in any responsibility. I pray,counsel her but no way. At times woman don't appreciate what they have n it takes God's grace to leave with them.
ReplyDeletewhat was ur sister thinking? i think she was cheating, and you want him to 4give her, who dey kill no dey let knife pass him back u knw knw?
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