"I have been dating my boyfriend who comes from a political family for
close to 4 years now. One thing that attracted me to him was the fact
that he was nonchalant about politics. He always maintained he wanted no
part of it. But late last year, after his older brother (who is the
first son) was ordained a priest, my boyfriend suddenly started taking
keen interest in politics. Last week, he finally told me he plans to be a
political figure and that he'll join APC when he clocks forty (I'm sure
his family pushed him into it after the family meeting they had). He
also said he plans to marry me next year after my NYSC service. I love
him wholeheartedly and I know he loves me but I know how murky and
dangerous Nigerian politics can be. I don't want to endanger the lives
of my family just because of the family I married into. I'm so confused
right now. What if I marry him and end up hating him in the future because
of the danger that might befall us? What if I turn him down and regret
it for the rest of my life? Please Libers I need your help.
Lol, you love him whheartedly good, all you should do is make sure he loves you too and Leave him be all you have to do is pray for him ceaselessly and consistently. You guys might be the next Jonathan and mama Peace, you never know....lol
Marry the motherfucker. You don't have any problem babe. People who ain't into politics even die before politicians. Who told u marrying a civilian guarantees long life and peace for your family. Everything is in Gods hands.
Marry him. If he loves you as much as you love him, you'll be his anchor to prevent his getting lost in the murky waters of politics. He will remain level headed because of you. Besides, how close is he to 40? Getting married and having children may change his political ambitions. If the love isn't so strong however, run for your life now.
Ma dear listen to ur hrt again...if you truely love him..i dnt think politics is a rzn to b afraid...cover ur family with the blood of Jesus..wat else do u hv to fear ......@candidcamzz
Come to think of it.What if he didnt inform you about his decision to join politics when he's 40? By telling you shows that he loves you. Another thing is that if you leave because of him joining politics,what assurance do you have that the other person you will marry wont join politics too? Sister,think well before you make a costly mistake o.
The best thing to do is for you to sit your guy down and let him know your take on the issue.Give him your reasons. Hopefully,he may have a change of heart.
Hehehehe and this is your own definition of problem? Some women like fight pass quarrel,so getting involved in politics will diminish his love for you? To me you don't have issue at all.
d answer is in u,cuz at d end of d day,u re d one going to make dat decision alone nd b left with d consequences or joy it brings....b wise..at d end love is all dat matters nd its hard to find dat dis days....
You are lucky you have him and he is also from rich home, dts what every woman's dream for. You better grab that man tightly b4 all these sharp husband hunters snatch him from u. You don't value what u hv until u lose it
What if what if? If you don't try you will never know. Life is full of ups and downs we can never predict the future. You can only try and Shape yours. All he needs us your continual love and trust, you advice and support and he will never go bad
Can you pray? Do you believe God can speak to you and give you directions? Prayer can fix it alll... go on your knees and God will send you his word! WWPian
Nobody can help u dear, only God, pray abt it. God alone knows what's best for u not anyone here knows what's best for u,any advice u get here is still somthn u hv to think abt b4 u decide, so pray! See ur pastor for counselleing
My dr protect ursef first okk....fear of unknown v led many astray,u no wot u wan .believe n it will cm to u, i dnt love naija politics sha, n for a man dat does v has own mind...hmmmmm ,danger sign ...welll dats jst one of d opinions u will get , howeva atlast it balls back to u...follow ur hrt...tnks,xoxolillyspring01@gmail.com
It all started from the beginning.. Why on this goddamn earth would you love a man because of just a Flauntating attitude??.. all the way,ask God..dnt ask Lib
That shudnt be an issue dear. If you understand the kind of person you are dating and trust him so as to spend the rest of your life with. Go ahead with the marriage plans. Its all about understanding and maybe you should let him in on your fears and watch his response. Best wishes dear. From Babes anonymous
See dis mumu... U betta marry him n deal wit d rest later! Men r scarce, u wana leave him n start from where again? U berra shine ya eyes n stick in there
He never propose yet , u shud b worried if his political family wud let him marry u b4 he does political marriage nd achieve dat dream with or without you .
I don't ve issues with politics.. but I will sure be scared if my man wants to be part of it.. but dear it really has nothing to do with ur love for him and happiness ... but we all definitely hv a few list of wat we want n do not want in marriage.. so its really left for u to decide
Joker.. keep deceiving yourself lol.. who doesn't want to be hon's wife lol.. Linda pls start screening these questions before you post them on here.. we ain't jobless to be answering foolish questions jare.. aba!
Nne sorry oh bt dis one is jamb question oh...its ur call to make,urs alone meanwhile my spirit dosent just agree with dt party called apc,weneva I hear apc d only tin dt comes to mind is boko haram
Mtcheew! Wat a story... Linda and all this her funny stories. dis one dnt nid any advice na shez d one 2make d decision nt us 'sighs' #onelovefromSnow#
sometimes u take risk n it fall in place while u might not be fortunate but put it in prayers n get God direction n am sure u would be fine, cos politics it's not bad as people thinks... GOD BLESS NIGERIA!!!
I'll advise you marry him cos serzly politics is a dirty game but life its self does not promise you a living without hiccup. Moreover as dirty as politics is, it comes with everything you need to protect urself and loved ones, like security, Money and all. You have access to it all. The security is at finger tip, the money to do anything that would atleast keep you safe. So go on. If JONATHAN who had no shoes now worths N16.4billion naira today tell me what else would hold him from keeping his family and relation from harm. They say anything money cannot do, only God can do it.
If u v him as u claim u do n u are suo e lovs u 2 DAT much, tok him in2 NT going in2 politics n if e says no, I tink u shud stil marry him n always pray 4him NT 2get in2 trOuble DT wil tear ur future apart cs I bliv Love conquers all things.
You just want advice to feed that attention hungry monster you have become. You already know what you want but here u are acting like a true politician wife already Asking the masses what their opinion is and then go on ahead to do what you initially set out to do... I have no idea what to advice u about, sorry dear.
In grave news, they are trying to bann kpomo! Oooo!!!
It is your choice,decide for yourself so that if you do not marry him, after he must have made it years after ,you will not blame any one or curse anyone e.g your lecturer like Ashimolowo's wife after all,former president Obasanjo is some womens' husband and he is alive and will remain alive as long as God wishes him to be.
The ball is in ur court. If u love each other, marry him and put his political ambitions in the hands of God. You will be a happy couple. 4yrs is not easy to throw away so far he has no bad temper and he is not beating u up and womanising. Go girl
The ball is in ur court. If u love each other, marry him and put his political ambitions in the hands of God. You will be a happy couple. 4yrs is not easy to throw away so far he has no bad temper and he is not beating u up and womanising. Go girl
You should have a serious discussion with him. What you told us is a good of enough reason why you think your hubby shouldn't venture into politics. If he starts to get passionate about this, make sure that is a devoted man of God and conducts fasting's regularly because he will DEFINITELY need it in Nigerian politics.
Lol..NYSC service..pls let him do what he wants..stop making things up in ur head en dont try choosing what en what you'd prefare him to be..after all when d money comes yu'll be happy..
You know you are going to marry him so why are you asking. You have big eyes and are thirsty that is why you agreed to date him in the first place. Date and marry uncomplicated people if you want an uncomplicated life.
Love Is the most important thing... Since u r sure his family convinced him about going into politics... U Can as well do your part by trying to change his mine, its obvious its not his call to do into politics.... From now till next yr play Ur part bu trying to let him ses how dangerous it Is to go into Nigérian politics!
wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
You are not serious, leave him you will see millions of girls queuing to marry him the next seconds, you see man with greater view wan marry you you dey select and make yanga, go marry recharge card seller cos that one no go get political view.
You are just childish and not even mature for marriage. What is wrong with him being a politician? When you begin to enjoy the wealth that comes from politics, you will not ask us to advise you. Abeg park well joor
wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
Abeg dis one no b issue to debate on nah.....haabaa, allow d guy to go get him own national cake. Others playing d game, dem don die finish? If he play his game well, he will live long. For ur infor, nah politics nd oil dey give mega money for naija oh
will advice you to marry him bcoz he doesn't want it but now he chooses to be into it,so there is a reason for that....at same time pray and follow your heart dear coz marriage is not an easy thing to conclude on or rush into
Please does anybody know about the Grail movement,how do they worship.Am planning of marrying this guy who is into the Grail movement and am a Christian so my family strongly advice against it as we are Christian.Please friends what do I do.Thanks
What if you marry him and it turns out all right? What if you marry him and he ends up saving so many lives and doing well? What if you marry him and he becomes another Fashola whom so many people pray for today? Im trying to say it could swing either way. None of us knows what the future holds. This is where God comes in. HE is the only one who knows what the future holds. Why don't you ask HIM instead of asking bloggers? My candid advice
I believe the best way for you to get your answer is if you go to God. If God told you his your husband , then go ahead and marry him if he brought you to it, he will surely take you out of it. Good luck love.... pray he answers.
When you get to that brigde, you will definitely cross it. Stop beating yourself over nothing. Get married first. Who knows he might change his mind before turning 40 or somehow u may develop love for politics so wait till then. You can ask the question again when you get there
I think that's a wrong direction of thought, its not about you but about God in the union,and it is with him your answer lies. 4yrs is a long time to throw away for fear of an unknown. Ask God ? And trust his answer. May God be with you and give you direction. Phil 4:13
wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
Why are so concerned and worried about the future? His plan to join politics is a matter of at least 10 years time my dear. Anything could hsppen before then. If you really love him and you have prayed very well, don't let the fear of the unknown worry you.
TAKE A CHANCE ! FOLLOW UR HEART . U SAID U LOVE HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY, SO U MUST STAND BY HIM and SUPPORT HIS AMBITION . IS NOT EASY ANYWHERE , POLITIC OR NOT POLITIC.
Unfortunately there is no easy answer to your question my suggestion is that you sit and discuss your concerns with him after all this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. With this and a lot of prayer, you should have more clarity on the right steps to take. Good luck
Why are you concerntrating on the evils in the society. I advise you focus on the positives and positive people in politics. Its a call to serve, be relevant and make change: which is all life is about. Ask Fashola's wife.
Better leave now if ure not sure, another girl is ready to weather d storm with him , and also enjoy d benefits later. I wud have said pray abt it but u don't sound as if ure ready for d challenges dat come with marraige be it politics or not.
Its your call. You know what you want.
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Ogbeni marry him nd stop looking for attention.
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DeleteLol, you love him whheartedly good, all you should do is make sure he loves you too and Leave him be all you have to do is pray for him ceaselessly and consistently. You guys might be the next Jonathan and mama Peace, you never know....lol
DeleteMarry the motherfucker. You don't have any problem babe. People who ain't into politics even die before politicians. Who told u marrying a civilian guarantees long life and peace for your family. Everything is in Gods hands.
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My friend are you a learner? Marry him and stop blabbing biko.
ReplyDeleteFollow ur heart o jare and pray about it u might date him and then he becomes a governor like fashola that will better nigeria
ReplyDeleteMarry him. If he loves you as much as you love him, you'll be his anchor to prevent his getting lost in the murky waters of politics. He will remain level headed because of you. Besides, how close is he to 40? Getting married and having children may change his political ambitions. If the love isn't so strong however, run for your life now.
ReplyDeleteMake i hear word o jare. Vote Linda Ikeji as the Most Active Blogger of the year. www.socialmediameritawards.com
ReplyDeleteWhat if he becums d President and u d 1st lady? U go still hate him? Biko rikpuo na ime onu ebe isi puta! Na akogheri......ijiro okwu hia
ReplyDeleteMa dear listen to ur hrt again...if you truely love him..i dnt think politics is a rzn to b afraid...cover ur family with the blood of Jesus..wat else do u hv to fear ......@candidcamzz
ReplyDeleteMschew,ask goggle.
ReplyDeleteI advice you to marry him, pray for him n make him see d good side of politics..u can be a good impact on him if u want to..
ReplyDeleteTalk to him madame.. make him see reasons.. whatever he says will determine ur next move. Talk to ur mom about it too.
ReplyDeleteDon't try I ooo
ReplyDeleteThe choice is yours....
ReplyDeleteThe choice is yours.....
ReplyDeleteThe choice is yours.....
ReplyDeleteMeaning your cant marry a politician?
ReplyDeleteCome to think of it.What if he didnt inform you about his decision to join politics when he's 40?
By telling you shows that he loves you. Another thing is that if you leave because of him joining politics,what assurance do you have that the other person you will marry wont join politics too?
Sister,think well before you make a costly mistake o.
The best thing to do is for you to sit your guy down and let him know your take on the issue.Give him your reasons. Hopefully,he may have a change of heart.
Ode Oponu....
ReplyDeleteHehehehe and this is your own definition of problem?
ReplyDeleteSome women like fight pass quarrel,so getting involved in politics will diminish his love for you?
To me you don't have issue at all.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
d answer is in u,cuz at d end of d day,u re d one going to make dat decision alone nd b left with d consequences or joy it brings....b wise..at d end love is all dat matters nd its hard to find dat dis days....
ReplyDeleteLmao....40!!! ur eyes af tear ooo.Man friend or "sweeter daddy" as ibu calls it...nt boy friend Biko...loool. be belittling our sweeter daddy anyhow..
ReplyDeleteTsew!
ReplyDeletedo what you think that is right !
ReplyDeleteBut if he eventually becums d president and u d 1st lady, will u still hate him? Abeg go sleep jee jee for gutter!
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky you have him and he is also from rich home, dts what every woman's dream for. You better grab that man tightly b4 all these sharp husband hunters snatch him from u. You don't value what u hv until u lose it
ReplyDeleteSupport him, and pray for his protection.
ReplyDeleteA beg rest ur case, I think people have bigger problems than this.
ReplyDeleteTo see husband now marry na beans?? Marry him and pray God protects you and your family, cause only God protects us all# JustJay
ReplyDeleteFollow your heart dear damij@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteMy dear go n kill yoself! Haba!
ReplyDeleteYes marry him
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I dont know if ur problem is stupidity or u are just confused . If u love him stick with him politics or no politics
ReplyDeletefollow ur heart gurl buh for me.....politician is a no
ReplyDeleteask god to lead u d rite way. And luk 4 an old woman and ask. She wil advice u
ReplyDeleteWhat if what if? If you don't try you will never know. Life is full of ups and downs we can never predict the future. You can only try and Shape yours. All he needs us your continual love and trust, you advice and support and he will never go bad
ReplyDeleteCan you pray? Do you believe God can speak to you and give you directions? Prayer can fix it alll... go on your knees and God will send you his word! WWPian
ReplyDeleteAsk God to give you direction. You need to pray about it. One thing I know with God all things are possible
ReplyDeletecome marry me, i will never like politics and you won't have any reason to regret because i am very loving and caring.
ReplyDeleteIts your decision do what u want to do.
ReplyDeleteNobody can help u dear, only God, pray abt it. God alone knows what's best for u not anyone here knows what's best for u,any advice u get here is still somthn u hv to think abt b4 u decide, so pray! See ur pastor for counselleing
ReplyDeleteMy dr protect ursef first okk....fear of unknown v led many astray,u no wot u wan .believe n it will cm to u, i dnt love naija politics sha, n for a man dat does v has own mind...hmmmmm ,danger sign ...welll dats jst one of d opinions u will get , howeva atlast it balls back to u...follow ur hrt...tnks,xoxolillyspring01@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteIf you love him, then marry him.
ReplyDeleteBut if you hate politics so much let him know, if he insist on it then let him go. Gbam!!!
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Go ahead n marry him,politics is never a barrial to love.u v nothing to fear.
ReplyDeleteIt all started from the beginning.. Why on this goddamn earth would you love a man because of just a Flauntating attitude??.. all the way,ask God..dnt ask Lib
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Abeg follow ur hrt
ReplyDeleteHe is deff an igbo boy
ReplyDeleteThat shudnt be an issue dear. If you understand the kind of person you are dating and trust him so as to spend the rest of your life with. Go ahead with the marriage plans. Its all about understanding and maybe you should let him in on your fears and watch his response. Best wishes dear. From Babes anonymous
ReplyDeleteDo what makes u happy,,what u feel is ryt
ReplyDeleteSee dis mumu... U betta marry him n deal wit d rest later! Men r scarce, u wana leave him n start from where again? U berra shine ya eyes n stick in there
ReplyDeleteJust follow ur heart..
ReplyDeleteGhen ghen dis one na gobe
ReplyDeletePls Marry him if u lve him..dnt politician get married??fear of d unknown,,tmorrow will definitely take kia of itself!!
ReplyDeleteFollow ur heart. If it backfires, lib readers will not be there to cry wt u.
ReplyDeleteIf u love him marry him!
ReplyDeleteSorry dear but u av to decide on ur own..take ur time
ReplyDeletelife is all abt choice..and we are victims of our own choices!!
Good night people
Think with ur head not ur heart.....n also pray 2
ReplyDeleteLike seriously? Linda what sort of story is this one nau? Like u really need advice 4 this one? Smh
ReplyDeleteMy only advice for you is to pray about it .
ReplyDeleteHe never propose yet , u shud b worried if his political family wud let him marry u b4 he does political marriage nd achieve dat dream with or without you .
ReplyDeleteI don't ve issues with politics.. but I will sure be scared if my man wants to be part of it.. but dear it really has nothing to do with ur love for him and happiness ... but we all definitely hv a few list of wat we want n do not want in marriage.. so its really left for u to decide
ReplyDeleteChoose wisely,he can be the change in politics
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Joker.. keep deceiving yourself lol.. who doesn't want to be hon's wife lol.. Linda pls start screening these questions before you post them on here.. we ain't jobless to be answering foolish questions jare.. aba!
ReplyDeleteHmm mm just go to God in prayers he has all the answer you seek and he will even show you a vision and direct you
ReplyDeleteBreezy-p porting soon to???
Nne sorry oh bt dis one is jamb question oh...its ur call to make,urs alone meanwhile my spirit dosent just agree with dt party called apc,weneva I hear apc d only tin dt comes to mind is boko haram
ReplyDeleteBitch go and die
ReplyDeletePls dnt marry him n stay single for d rest of ur life u hear...buh plss advice him to join PDP the winning party!!!
ReplyDeleteThis issue is not worth posting linda abeg, when I saw topic 'should I marry him" , I was thinking maybe d guy was an armed robber sef
ReplyDeleteMtcheew! Wat a story... Linda and all this her funny stories. dis one dnt nid any advice na shez d one 2make d decision nt us 'sighs' #onelovefromSnow#
ReplyDeleteIt's ur decision to make but, pray about it. I don't mean call ur pastor oo, pray and ask GOD to show u d direction he wants u to go.
ReplyDeleteFollow ur heart for me I don't see anything wrong with that
ReplyDeleteMay d Lord guide u
ReplyDeleteMumu question,so all d politians wives and kids are dead ba?is it not pple dat married politicians?everytin dey'll ask
ReplyDeleteMa dear..love over politics oh...LOVE SURMOUNTS ALL THINGS!!
ReplyDeleteNo please don't.. *please remain single.
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sometimes u take risk n it fall in place while u might not be fortunate but put it in prayers n get God direction n am sure u would be fine, cos politics it's not bad as people thinks...
ReplyDeleteGOD BLESS NIGERIA!!!
Marry him. All is well
ReplyDeleteI'll advise you marry him cos serzly politics is a dirty game but life its self does not promise you a living without hiccup. Moreover as dirty as politics is, it comes with everything you need to protect urself and loved ones, like security, Money and all. You have access to it all. The security is at finger tip, the money to do anything that would atleast keep you safe. So go on. If JONATHAN who had no shoes now worths N16.4billion naira today tell me what else would hold him from keeping his family and relation from harm. They say anything money cannot do, only God can do it.
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ReplyDeletePray over it then follow ur heart afterwards
ReplyDeleteIf u love him.....marry him, wats der?....Al u need do is 2 be steadfast in prayers.
ReplyDeleteIf u v him as u claim u do n u are suo e lovs u 2 DAT much, tok him in2 NT going in2 politics n if e says no, I tink u shud stil marry him n always pray 4him NT 2get in2 trOuble DT wil tear ur future apart cs I bliv Love conquers all things.
ReplyDeleteTry to talk sense into him
ReplyDeleteOda ppl dat married politicians nko? Ar dey all dead? Jus sha decide
ReplyDeleteI don't see any reasonable line on this ur jack story ,
ReplyDeletejust pray for d will of God to b done on dis matter.
ReplyDeletePray for God's direction...
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm huge decision but you should know politics changes people
ReplyDeleteYou just want advice to feed that attention hungry monster you have become. You already know what you want but here u are acting like a true politician wife already Asking the masses what their opinion is and then go on ahead to do what you initially set out to do... I have no idea what to advice u about, sorry dear.
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ReplyDeleteIt is your choice,decide for yourself so that if you do not marry him, after he must have made it years after ,you will not blame any one or curse anyone e.g your lecturer like Ashimolowo's wife after all,former president Obasanjo is some womens' husband and he is alive and will remain alive as long as God wishes him to be.
ReplyDeletebabe, left to me i'll say marry him bt lemme jst say pray abt it cos he myt nt b God's will 4 u and if he is, God will help keep ur family safe
ReplyDeleteMSCHEW NANSENSE HISS
ReplyDeleteY are. U scared of the unknown
ReplyDeleteYou no wan chop d moni ni? Abeg, sit down jor
ReplyDeleteExactly.. I second that
ReplyDeletemy dear young lady follow ur mind.
ReplyDeleteThe ball is in ur court. If u love each other, marry him and put his political ambitions in the hands of God. You will be a happy couple. 4yrs is not easy to throw away so far he has no bad temper and he is not beating u up and womanising. Go girl
ReplyDeleteThe ball is in ur court. If u love each other, marry him and put his political ambitions in the hands of God. You will be a happy couple. 4yrs is not easy to throw away so far he has no bad temper and he is not beating u up and womanising. Go girl
ReplyDeletePray about it the Holy spirit will direct u
ReplyDeleteWeigh the advantages and the disadvantages and the one that is more beneficial, you convince your heart and mind that its right.
ReplyDeleteWhat's she saying.. Is that an excuse or question.. My friend go and sit down jare..what if nothing happens to him..negative mind..
ReplyDeleteTake it to God in Prayers
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteVery few comments says it all.
ReplyDeleteYou are an idiot
You should have a serious discussion with him. What you told us is a good of enough reason why you think your hubby shouldn't venture into politics. If he starts to get passionate about this, make sure that is a devoted man of God and conducts fasting's regularly because he will DEFINITELY need it in Nigerian politics.
ReplyDeleteThere are so many what ifs in life.pray abt it, if u don't ve peace, forget it.
ReplyDeleteLol..NYSC service..pls let him do what he wants..stop making things up in ur head en dont try choosing what en what you'd prefare him to be..after all when d money comes yu'll be happy..
ReplyDeleteYou'll find peace if you seek peace regardless of who and what your is.
ReplyDeletegirl u better dont leave him.
ReplyDeleteYou know you are going to marry him so why are you asking. You have big eyes and are thirsty that is why you agreed to date him in the first place. Date and marry uncomplicated people if you want an uncomplicated life.
ReplyDeleteWetin concern us? Ashawo
ReplyDeleteIf u don't no wat to do plz kindly send his number 2 me lemme help u out. I promise u won't regret it!
ReplyDeleteLove Is the most important thing... Since u r sure his family convinced him about going into politics... U Can as well do your part by trying to change his mine, its obvious its not his call to do into politics.... From now till next yr play Ur part bu trying to let him ses how dangerous it Is to go into Nigérian politics!
ReplyDeletewow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
ReplyDeletereally??....so wait...u wan leave am......ladies shaaa
ReplyDeleteYou are not serious, leave him you will see millions of girls queuing to marry him the next seconds, you see man with greater view wan marry you you dey select and make yanga, go marry recharge card seller cos that one no go get political view.
ReplyDeleteYou are just childish and not even mature for marriage. What is wrong with him being a politician? When you begin to enjoy the wealth that comes from politics, you will not ask us to advise you. Abeg park well joor
ReplyDeleteSweetheart, this is probably one of the lamest excuses I have ever read.
ReplyDeleteKindly do what ever you want. If you don't need him I'm sure there are countless ladies who will rush and grab him.
As if the job of an electrician (no pun intended) is not also dangerous.
If every good man runs from politics becos of their Lilly-livered women, who will sanitize the place
Biko, on to the next
Communication is key.....talk to him explain your fears and hopefully he will understand
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ReplyDeleteOnly you deep down know which decision is best for you. Do you prefer the "had I known regret" or the "what if disappointment" ?! Choose wisely lady.
ReplyDeletewow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
ReplyDeletePrayer is dey key, there is Noothing prayer can't do. Hand everything to God. He knws the end. From the beginning.
ReplyDeleteAbeg dis one no b issue to debate on nah.....haabaa, allow d guy to go get him own national cake. Others playing d game, dem don die finish? If he play his game well, he will live long. For ur infor, nah politics nd oil dey give mega money for naija oh
ReplyDeleteGo and ask God... LIBERS will only give you their opinion...but God has the right answer. it is well
ReplyDeleteWhat naive Horse shit is this...??
ReplyDeleteYes.. your desire
ReplyDeletewill advice you to marry him bcoz he doesn't want it but now he chooses to be into it,so there is a reason for that....at same time pray and follow your heart dear coz marriage is not an easy thing to conclude on or rush into
ReplyDeletePlease does anybody know about the Grail movement,how do they worship.Am planning of marrying this guy who is into the Grail movement and am a Christian so my family strongly advice against it as we are Christian.Please friends what do I do.Thanks
ReplyDeleteMarry him! Then as a wife make it your duty to prevent any murkiness. Simple. Again, it is your choice, your call.
ReplyDelete@Alloy Chikezie:EXACTLY!!!
ReplyDeleteAbeg follow ur heart and marry him,change is a constant thing in life,there's nothing wrong about politics and pls change ur mindset.
ReplyDeleteWhat if you marry him and it turns out all right?
ReplyDeleteWhat if you marry him and he ends up saving so many lives and doing well?
What if you marry him and he becomes another Fashola whom so many people pray for today?
Im trying to say it could swing either way.
None of us knows what the future holds. This is where God comes in. HE is the only one who knows what the future holds. Why don't you ask HIM instead of asking bloggers?
My candid advice
I believe the best way for you to get your answer is if you go to God. If God told you his your husband , then go ahead and marry him if he brought you to it, he will surely take you out of it. Good luck love.... pray he answers.
ReplyDeletePlz since u know what u want, n u able to spell it out better for u. Bcoz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeletePlz since u know what u want, n u able to spell it out better for u. Bcoz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeletePlz since u know what u want, n u able to spell it out better for u. Bcoz a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.
ReplyDeleteWhen you get to that brigde, you will definitely cross it. Stop beating yourself over nothing. Get married first. Who knows he might change his mind before turning 40 or somehow u may develop love for politics so wait till then. You can ask the question again when you get there
ReplyDeleteLol..what if u marry him and he later on becomes a governor or senator... hahaha kudi kudi. ..enough kudi go dey
ReplyDeleteI think that's a wrong direction of thought, its not about you but about God in the union,and it is with him your answer lies. 4yrs is a long time to throw away for fear of an unknown. Ask God ?
ReplyDeleteAnd trust his answer.
May God be with you and give you direction. Phil 4:13
wow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
ReplyDeleteCalm, it's really not that deep. marry him. p.s you shouldn't have been so specific about the party. FUCK APC AND ALL THEY STAND FOR
ReplyDeletewow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
ReplyDeleteWell girl follow you follow your heart
ReplyDeleteDon't marry him, if ur heart is not in it. Let him go.
ReplyDeleteGirl hop on that political money
ReplyDeleteRubbish question.
ReplyDeletePolitics is a pot of soup o, do you prefer him to be jobless or can you survive on his salary? You better support him, else you will regret o!
ReplyDeleteFollow your heart dear. You already know what you want
ReplyDeleteIn prayers you find answers dear,but in my personal opinion,I' say go ahead to marry him and pray him out of politics
ReplyDeletewow... its a real tricky situation girl. u're damn right in that question. what if you marry him and hate him? and even worse what if you don't marry him and then end up regretting it for the rest of your life. personally, i am a strict advocate of no naija dirty politics in my life but girl this is your life. in as much as you and i hate politics, would you rather do nothing and then keep on wondering for the rest of your life what would have happened if only you had... i think that would be a very miserable choice to make. babe, you just said you love him. isnt love supposed to cover all faaults? honey do you seriously think you can love someone else as much as you love this guy? what if you end up marrying someone you dont love? i know u will scream God forbid, its not my portion but lets be realistic here. you cant have your cake and eat it. no. my advice is that you be that dream woman that guy has always wished for and trust me he will do anything to make you happy, might even consider not joining politics when he finally clocks 40. its all in your hands girl, you just have to play the game right. after all love, they say, is all about taking risks. goodluck and of course i wish you God's amazing grace.
ReplyDeleteThem de ask person dat kind tin? tina.agori@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteWhy are so concerned and worried about the future? His plan to join politics is a matter of at least 10 years time my dear. Anything could hsppen before then. If you really love him and you have prayed very well, don't let the fear of the unknown worry you.
ReplyDeleteStupid silly question. Politics or not, if you love him then marry him dumbo
ReplyDeleteLeave the kitchen if you cant take the heat
ReplyDeleteStory for the gods...do whatever you want to do. Its nobodys decision to advice you on issues like dis.
ReplyDeleteTAKE A CHANCE ! FOLLOW UR HEART .
ReplyDeleteU SAID U LOVE HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY,
SO U MUST STAND BY HIM and SUPPORT HIS AMBITION . IS NOT EASY ANYWHERE , POLITIC OR NOT POLITIC.
Sister pray for your husband ans supporT him
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately there is no easy answer to your question my suggestion is that you sit and discuss your concerns with him after all this is someone you want to spend the rest of your life with. With this and a lot of prayer, you should have more clarity on the right steps to take. Good luck
ReplyDeleteTalk to God abt it,if he is meant for u,either he becomes a politician or watevera. He will still be the best husband for u.
ReplyDeleteApparently You have no solid reason of not marrying ya bf ....Think positive lady ...notin wuld happen to ya family.
ReplyDeleteApparently , You have no solid excuse of not marrying ur man ....Think Positive joorrr ....Nothing would happen to your man
ReplyDeleteMonkey tale; story for the gods. You can add tales by moonlight
ReplyDeleteMarry him, be prayerful, Luke 1 vs 37 says with God all tins are possible.
ReplyDelete#Lolo lollion20@gmail.com
Risk 4 love
ReplyDeleteWhy are you concerntrating on the evils in the society. I advise you focus on the positives and positive people in politics. Its a call to serve, be relevant and make change: which is all life is about. Ask Fashola's wife.
ReplyDeleteBetter leave now if ure not sure, another girl is ready to weather d storm with him , and also enjoy d benefits later. I wud have said pray abt it but u don't sound as if ure ready for d challenges dat come with marraige be it politics or not.
ReplyDeleteDecide for yourself.....talk abt it with your parents...
ReplyDeleteAs far as am concern, U have already made up ur mind to marry him. So Goodluck to ya!
ReplyDeleteGo to God in prayers for more wisdom and understanding. .
ReplyDeleteJust follow your mind and your heart
ReplyDeleteAs far as am concern, U have already made up ur mind to marry him. So Goodluck to ya!
ReplyDeleteU no get problem
ReplyDeleteLove holds no bound politics or no politics wat wil b wil b,follow ur heart.
ReplyDeleteSmh is love not unconditional?...:(
ReplyDeleteDear....seek God for directions....God knows the heart of all human ok,..
ReplyDeleteComplete waste of my time..
ReplyDeleteAnd how is that am advice? Yam head.
ReplyDeleteAlloy u are very stupid. Must u comment.U are just a dull brain.Amimal like u.If u can't adive her u just keep quite.Anunpam
ReplyDeleteIf u can pray over it....Am sure God ll lead U right
ReplyDeleteFollow ur heart...there are lots of women married to politicians.If u can cope with the cheating,lies etc, den go ahead
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Secure your own future and marry him cos you know how hard d economy is. You can worry about that later
ReplyDeleteU don't need anyone's advice... cos you've got no issues
ReplyDeleteThis chic is just excited and wants us to know, we don hear...... But it's your call and congratulations 🎊 too......T.K from J
ReplyDeleteRabbish!
ReplyDeleteIts ur decision to make............ make it wisely...
ReplyDeletePls hw can I share my problem with my fellow kib,wan to send u my write up buh dnt kn hw? Text me hw to send it to u...
ReplyDeleteDo whatever your heart directs you
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