Dear married men, powerful messages from pastor Tony Rapu to you
Popular Lagos pastor, Tony Rapu of the Present House Church Lagos, took to his Twitter account to give profound advise to married men. It's a must read! See more messages after the cut...
My best part is if u use up all d water in the tank and leave none for ya wife Dats not love n also all ur prayers bouncing back from d cieling.....lol..... lots of married men in lagos r so guilty of this.....
I just wish my husband could read this. He has made me a depressed pregnant woman. I want out but all i tink of is how my unborn child's life will be without a father
God bless this man for me,married men in Nigeria,has lost thier sense of direction selfish,ungrateful unforgiving fellows,they all lack fear of God and wisdom of the holy spirt,it's by the grace of God so many women are still married to thier husbands,the tears so many married women are shedding,it's only God that can comfort them
If you are surrounded by Nigerian men with no sense of direction, unforgiving and lack the holy spirit, lady, You need to change your location. If you are stuck with one, pray for him. No need to generalised
And women are saints? May b yu hv bn hurt dats y yu sounded kinda bitter... Well, d pastor said it all though buh d women hv their roles too.. Very key roles @ dat..
The tin is basically I blive 9geria Men 2 be precise knows wat and how 2 do all of d above cuz dey did sum of it while dey were courting wit deir paternals. Dey automatically stop after marriage, rizons best known 2 dem, Sum ll say cuz dey don't want 2 lose d respect 4rm deir wife,odas even think is acceptable 4 a man 2 cheat and treat d wife as he pleases and only 9geria women can tk deir sh*t. Sad buh true
Looks like U're in love with Bonario and donKt know how else to express it. That can be the only explanation why his name pops into ur mind as soon as the word "man" is mentioned. If U quit being nasty to pple, he just might begin to take U seriously. Tongue out!
You are very correct my dear, words in the Bible are very easy to read, but to put into practise is not that easy. All these story are very easy for Mr Tony to write, but ask him weather He is doing all as he stated them. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
My thoughts exactly, its easier said than done, giving advice you don't adhere to, n if the man does all this, what's ur advice to the women? Respect her father n she shd disrespect urs? Park well jare
dear husby,I know u r a frequent liber. ..pls read&digest all dat your fellow man has said...else u won't believe its d same naive girl u married some years ago!!!
Lol, na so my husband do me sotey i advice myself. His so surprised and keeps saying ur no longer d naive girl I married, and I keep telling him dat ders a limit to ones endurance. Do me I do u God no go vex.
Have you been to a typical Muslim home before?, Muslim marriage is one of the best, because it does not say have babies outside and keep cocunbines but marry upto 4 if you have the means. A typical Christian marriage is full of deceit, baby mamas, the woman lives in pains and sadness because divorce is not allowed. A Muslim woman have a right to ask to be divorced if she is not happy at all. Check the adulterers mostly they are christian men and women, I rest my case.
You are so wrong. A true Muslim that understands the faith and practices it as it should has the utmost respect for his wife and family. Ignorance is what makes people like yourself think Islam is backward and violent. And I don't blame you. The likes of Boko Haram has not made it easy for people like you to see beyond your nose. But maybe one day.......
Anonymous 12.54,you must my silly for this your comment, how dare you? I won't say much, I guess you are sick. Run along and go get some dogoyaro water to help save your bitter soul.
U r just senseless directing these to the Muslims. It is said in the Qur' an that ALLAH curses any 1 who disrespects women bcos they r described as fragile beings. We have many christains who do not respect their wives.. it's not all about religion but the mindset and upbringing of an individual. It's so obvious that you are part of who dis pastor is reffering to cos u Av shown that u lack manners and respect..
A fool and a coward like you is jst the biggest impunity of Nigeria......if we continue to have a religion tyrant tout like u, than sorry for Nigerians coz pple like u are jst obstacles to peace success.......for God sake what has this go to do with Muslims........am not only talking bt to also all the Christians fools who are like u
Lindaaaa if you're waiting for a man that will do all these for you hmmmm you no go marry ooooh bikonu... Lol... Lovely messages but some if it are never gonna be possible for Nigerian men. I love the part "Don't call your wife mummy she's not your mum" cracks me up badly.
Most men will read these and assume he is writing in Swahili. Men, the best way to enjoy your home is to treat your wife as you would your best friend. You may fight, quarrel or exchange angry words but it dose remove from the fact that you don't only love her, you actually like her- bad habits and all. Don't be her boss, be her friend.
I guess there'll be a Part 2 of this - for married women. Cos the worst thing a man can do is marry the wrong woman. Even if u do all these things Rapu has said and more, she will still push u to the edge of insanity. A man's tendency to do all these things is to an extent, a function of his wife and the environment she's created in the home.
well said!!! i wish my father can just see read this, kai most of these Nigerian men dont fear God in this life.. mtcheeww I dont even want to spoil my mood this evening.. It is well God please bless my Sister and I with great and God-fearing Husbands Amen.
the truth is it doesn't cost you anything to do all this u will feel more at peace in doing all the problem with our men is pride if I do all that she will not respect me,just try it u spend ur eternity together happy iaminat60@yahoo.com
In other words become a dummy for ur wife , A female above called men on this blog fools and whoever her husband to be should adhere to all this ba , Park well for one side mr pastor u aint done half of all d bull u mentioned in ur tweets. Btw marriage isn't for everyone so dnt be fooled .
These are d type of pastors dat makes ladies tink these qualities are achievable. Let us be practical as pastors and tel women dat submission and tolerance plus d luv of God is d tonic needed to make a home work
Bragging about your wife keh?? With all the groupie stories and all. You dont want to brag about your wife in public and get thrown down when someone relives a bad story. Love her, do everything else but PLEASE AND PLEASE don't brag oooooooo!
Bragging and getting your ego thrown down when you are proved wrong is something nobody wants. All other tweets remain good!
So true, it's not easy to do all he said especially when one is angry, fustrated and when der's lack of money in the house but by God's grace it's achievable; and to wilheminna mose, it was wrong of u to mention bonario's name cos u don't know him well enough to accuse him of such.
Women never show u anything this man, hoes aint loyal, its always about them, u r always about her n she is always about hers, na wa o, so what happens to d guys r dey not suppose to listen to us too?
NEVER TRUST ANYTHING THAT CAN BLEED FOR FIVE DAYS N WONT DIE
I wish my husband could read this.... at least the first few. Me and my kids are the last on the list unless he wants to pose and claim that we are priority while that is not the case. Feeling unloved :(
anon 12:54 pls get a copy of the english version of a quran nd read. The quran even have a whole chapter of over 100 verses for women (an nisa) pls be enlightened before u start running dat hole u call a mouth. Am a woman nd we av alot of men in islam who love nd respect women so much. Remember we r all human nd we tend to become whoever we want to be cos its our choice, a man maltreating his wife is nt jst in islam bt in all tribe, race nd religion. Get over ur hate for islam. Linda pls post my comment
Pple can say some senseless things eh! Who says Bonario hates women? I beg to differ, his comments show me that he respects women a great deal! P.S: I don't know him o! Just saying what I perceive. Meanwhile, Pastor Rapu, may God bless you, I wish all husbands would heed to these words of wisdom. I like that bible verse o (1 Peter...). well, my hubby respects and loves me. I can't complain. Hehe!
That is a whole lot of do's and don't, but they are all considerable and nice. Not married though, but still wouldn't hurt to try out. So over to you married men.
I AM A MAN AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH PST RAPU. B UT HERE'S THE DIFFERENTIAL THING. 99% OF WOMEN WANT THIS BUT MAJORITY FORGET TO PUT THEMSELVES IN THE FORMAT THAT ALLOWS THIS TO HAPPEN. EVERYTHING PST RAPU HAS SAID (IF YOU RE-READ CLOSELY) ARE REACTIONS OF EXPECTANCY FROM THE WOMEN BUT WHAT OF THE ACTIONS THAT LEAD TO THEM? I AM A MAN, I LOVE LOVE & I LOVE THE GOOD THINGS OF LIFE ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE'S A TRUTHFUL & FAITHFUL WOMAN TO GO WITH IT. WE MEN ARE NOT AS SMART AS THE WOMENFOLK WHICH IS WHY WE REGRET A LOT OF MISTAKES IN THE LONG RUN. A WOMAN CAN MAKE A WEAK MAN STRONG IN PLACES HE HIMSELF NEVER KNEW BUT THESE DAYS, ONE HAS TO PAY A MINIMUM FEE OF "BRAZILLIAN HAIR" B4 SHE EVEN CONSIDERS HIM (I MIGHT BE WRONG THO') BUT IN SUMMARY, WOMEN SET THE ACTIONS FOR THE REACTIONS PST RAPU HAS MENTIONED FOR MEN.
Would the men we have in this part of the world agree to all this? In their minds it would make them feel small and less of themselves but still dey luv to be worshipped! My shall ands would treat me way better than this in jesus name! Amen.
Ladies favourite shaa,i believe it has conditions. When u dont treat ur hubby well,pls dnt expect much.when u treat him like a king,u'll be treated like the queen. This is only for the good n Godly wife,no be agbero wife.
Gbam!!! I keep saying this is one of the few good Pastors we have in Nigeria, I work for him and everyone in the office knows his wife is key. No daddy n mummy this, u either say pastor or do first name. God bless this man. All men should read this
This is just to score cheap popularity points with the ladies. As a man you should know every marriage is different, what works for you might not work for me. Moreso, every marriage has problems, including yours. So pls focus on your own wife and leave me to focus on my own. Can't just assume buying my wife jewelry is what will make her happy cos it works for you.
#Gbam nd God bless u more pastor bt Nigeria men ve no single bone of romance in dem.they wil foolishly tel u is a man's world nd dey r incharge......rubbish men dat r stil weak inside bt intimidate women.
Okay pastor if u said don't call her mummy cos she ain't ur mummy then don't also call her baby cos she ain't ur baby too! Lol pastor calling her mummy ain't mean shit dats also a pet name
Thank you pastor. God bless you. A lot of women are suffering all in the name of marriage. Some couple do not speak to one another. The only thing keeping them together are the kids. A lot of women do not love the men they are married to because their husbands do not treat them well. A word is enough for the wise.
I respect Pastor Tony Rapu but some of his ideas do not make any sense. A marriage is not a slave situation, husband and wife should find out what works for each other with the challenges of the world today
Wot it means is find out wot works well for u both, Pst Tony Rapu says it like it comes bt dt doesnt mean u take everything he said.. Ow dumb can u b, find out wot works for u n ur wife.
This is the dumbest Pastor I have seen in a very long time... I am very sure he's one of those deceivers out there and most likely not to have a peaceful home. Going on picnic or resort for the weekend is way better than Hotels with your wife. And who says its bad to sometimes greet your Child before your Wife? Stop fooling women abegi, you're so dumb a Pastor. Linda, please don't be used by the devil to deceive the world all in the sake of pulling traffic to your blog. I hope my woman stops sending me these miserable links from your site. Nigerians, please wise up abeg. Alien RAPU.
U r a fool, honestly u dont av sense dts wot ur comment shows, some pple read bt dey dont understand. Mr Biddie or wot ever u call ur sense, u really do av very low IQ.
Hotel is more or less a resort here in naija. So out of all the pastor points. na only 2 point u critisize that makes u call him dumbest. U b d dumbest for warning ur wife not to send u links for things she think could improve una life
pastor Tony thank u so much, some so called pastor/men of God only focus on prosperity and forget to face the problem that leads to high rate of divorce
Nice 1 pastor. Funi enough it doesn't take anytin away 4rm men 2 do dis. On d part of leaving ur phone. It's also means don't cheat men,so u can leave ur phone witout fear
walahi i almost felt like i was reading one of those my unending universities courses.......the thing long no be small..what about learning how to summarize things Mr pastor...u almost make me hate ur writeup like i use to hate those my universities lecture notes.........#NA ME TALK AM COME BEAT ME#
God Bless Pastor Rapu, A lot of men do not realize that when they make their wives happy and treat them like the queen they are the wives in return will definitely treat and respect them.(like a maiden to her master) #treatherright
Doing majority of this to a submissive woman isn't a big deal but the pastor himself cannot do all and its even in the bible that our wife's are not our equals,so pastor if you are trying to beg your wife over an offence you committed,Please sir,with all due respect,beg her in private....Na so dem go dey write wetin dem no fit do...
Thank you Pastor Tony for this wonderful message. I'm single and not married but when i see married men especially young married men who are suppose to behave in a more modern way, rather are worse than our fore -fathers.
I get to see more married toasters more than single guys and they would proudly tell you 'I'm married but she (i.e wife) is not as sexy as you are". My goodness, its unacceptable for a married man, to say such about his wife abeg.
Yesterday after work, went to hang out with my guy and i saw a married man with a little girl between the age of 18 -21yrs old enough to be his daughter.
They should leave the single ladies alone for the single guys to unite and take heed to the pastors advise. it is the best that can ever happen to you and your future.
Difficult to most men but very very true.a woman plays a great role spiritually in d life of her husband.her words n joy in her heart can move a man 4ward 2 levels so great n her tears n sorrow can reduce him from a king 2 a pauper.I learnt both from personal experience n d xperience of others n vow 2 teach my sons wat is right.he who has ears let him hear
This write up is short sighted, as it applies to women as well. Does he not know about aggressive women? Manipulative women? Or wine who listen to their mums and not their husband? Or women who want you to be like their father not knowing u are their husband? This is a cheap stunt which is misguiding to our young women, leading to so many divorces. Pastor think we'll before speaking, don't just be aiming to increase the female congregation in your church
Wonderful message Married men please take note. In the layman's view, marriage is usually called "the last busstop" Every good thing learnt while single should be inculcated for a long lasting relationship rather than the other way. Most women who want out can't coz of their children except for the brave and bold. (respect to single mothers) Praying mine will be a blissful union.
How i wish the man im married to would read this. Im at my lowest point again as usual. I wish i could walk away and never return to the 5 horrible recent years of my life in the home of this monster who never sees any good in me but constantly shout n hurls hurtful words at me. Sex? i laugh, dosn't exist in my marriage, but for the 2wonderful kids i've been blessed with, there's no reason living on. on days like today i wish i could end it all, i dunno maybe i will one day but i wont be leaving my angels behind. its a lonely world, to those who've found love, i wish u all d very best cos love is indeed beautiful with one who appreciates you but for now it dosnt exist in my world. Hate, shame, resentment is all i see daily. God please save me. "crying"
How i wish the man im married to would read this. Im at my lowest point again as usual. I wish i could walk away and never return to the 5 horrible recent years of my life in the home of this monster who never sees any good in me but constantly shout n hurls hurtful words at me. Sex? i laugh, dosn't exist in my marriage, but for the 2wonderful kids i've been blessed with, there's no reason living on. on days like today i wish i could end it all, i dunno maybe i will one day but i wont be leaving my angels behind. its a lonely world, to those who've found love, i wish u all d very best cos love is indeed beautiful with one who appreciates you but for now it dosnt exist in my world. Hate, shame, resentment is all i see daily. God please save me. "crying"
GBAM!!! God bless u Pastor those who v ears let dem hear
ReplyDeleteMy best part is if u use up all d water in the tank and leave none for ya wife Dats not love n also all ur prayers bouncing back from d cieling.....lol..... lots of married men in lagos r so guilty of this.....
DeleteI just wish my husband could read this. He has made me a depressed pregnant woman. I want out but all i tink of is how my unborn child's life will be without a father
DeleteGod bless u pastor,tell dem!simple quarels r inevitable,d heart 2 4give is wat makes a marriage'....i so love dis piece jor!thumbs
DeleteThis got tears rolling down my eyes. His wife is so lucky. Baby I hope ur reading this n I hope u change.
DeleteGod bless this man for me,married men in Nigeria,has lost thier sense of direction selfish,ungrateful unforgiving fellows,they all lack fear of God and wisdom of the holy spirt,it's by the grace of God so many women are still married to thier husbands,the tears so many married women are shedding,it's only God that can comfort them
ReplyDeleteDaris God oooo
DeleteAll of them? #carelessTALK!
DeleteSo true.
DeleteIf you are surrounded by Nigerian men with no sense of direction, unforgiving and lack the holy spirit, lady, You need to change your location. If you are stuck with one, pray for him. No need to generalised
DeleteSpeak for yourself..don't say married men....some married men would be a better word to use...
DeleteNot all married men dear; mine's a Godsent. If you marry a lively and God fearing man, you'll enjoy all of the above and more..
DeleteAnd women are saints? May b yu hv bn hurt dats y yu sounded kinda bitter... Well, d pastor said it all though buh d women hv their roles too.. Very key roles @ dat..
DeleteThe tin is basically I blive 9geria Men 2 be precise knows wat and how 2 do all of d above cuz dey did sum of it while dey were courting wit deir paternals. Dey automatically stop after marriage, rizons best known 2 dem, Sum ll say cuz dey don't want 2 lose d respect 4rm deir wife,odas even think is acceptable 4 a man 2 cheat and treat d wife as he pleases and only 9geria women can tk deir sh*t. Sad buh true
DeleteYou've just hit the nail on the head! #Gbamest
DeleteHe's correct #men una hear#
ReplyDeleteWe don hear, but not all we can put into practice. If you give woman 2 chances, she ll ask for more 5. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
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ReplyDeleteNice one pastor! Tell dem fools! Likes of bonario! Whoelse on dis blog hates women??????? Eerrrm! None......so take note son! Good advice joor!
ReplyDeleteIs Bonario ur husband? God bless u Pastor!
DeleteBitch! Do u have to point a finger?... u rag
DeleteLooks like U're in love with Bonario and donKt know how else to express it. That can be the only explanation why his name pops into ur mind as soon as the word "man" is mentioned. If U quit being nasty to pple, he just might begin to take U seriously. Tongue out!
DeleteAba Wilhelmina why picking on Bonario, d dude is a perfect gentle man. Don't mind his saying on dis blog, nice write-up but not all is perfect.
DeleteJust hear yourself, n u want a man to treat u like a queen, sorry u go wait tire
DeleteBona hates women? Since when?
DeleteNice words
ReplyDeleteDeep words! He who has ears let him hear.
ReplyDeleteI would take some of your words and leave some. All the same you try! But this your name sef .. RAPU !!!! !???
ReplyDeleteWhat is so hard about what the Pastor said? Lazy, weak ass naija man. Always coming up with an excuse to be useless
DeleteNike abi like, if you only u have brains, then you will assimilate what I wrote there. Not every word you take in you take out.
DeleteNa dis kind thing mk Linda neva marry. Pastor abeg park well. As if u dey do all these.
ReplyDeleteYou are very correct my dear, words in the Bible are very easy to read, but to put into practise is not that easy. All these story are very easy for Mr Tony to write, but ask him weather He is doing all as he stated them. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
DeleteYou are so unwell.... Re you God to decide when Linda should get married? Make Man of God Park well abi? I pity you....
DeleteMy thoughts exactly, its easier said than done, giving advice you don't adhere to, n if the man does all this, what's ur advice to the women? Respect her father n she shd disrespect urs?
DeletePark well jare
Ow dare u say that, if he is doing it or not shudnt b ur prob, its actuali bigger judgement for one who preaches without doing wot he preaches...
DeleteHa,Leave ur mobile phone ke abeg no cause war.some pipo say couples shld hv they own privacy.
ReplyDeleteAlways read and understand...he doesn't mean the husband should leave his phone for his wife to go through.
DeleteYou didn't get what he said there. He meant that men should let go of facebook, twitter etc when they are at home and focus on their wives.
DeleteDid u even read that place well? Ppl like u don't just read. Leave ur fone n pay attention to ur wife, man.
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Deletedear husby,I know u r a frequent liber. ..pls read&digest all dat your fellow man has said...else u won't believe its d same naive girl u married some years ago!!!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha....
DeleteHe will. Hugs
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DeleteLol, na so my husband do me sotey i advice myself. His so surprised and keeps saying ur no longer d naive girl I married, and I keep telling him dat ders a limit to ones endurance. Do me I do u God no go vex.
DeleteWell said. Hope male pastors that have been disrespecting their wives (COZA) take heed to this addvice.
ReplyDeleteNice 1
ReplyDeleteIntelligent words, funny enough, this cost these Men nothing to do, it is easier to be good to your wife, u have inner peace and all.
ReplyDeleteMuslims won't knw d meaning of all these as women are inferior to them....and that's y they are backwards always, Animals!
ReplyDeleteHave you been to a typical Muslim home before?, Muslim marriage is one of the best, because it does not say have babies outside and keep cocunbines but marry upto 4 if you have the means. A typical Christian marriage is full of deceit, baby mamas, the woman lives in pains and sadness because divorce is not allowed. A Muslim woman have a right to ask to be divorced if she is not happy at all. Check the adulterers mostly they are christian men and women, I rest my case.
DeleteYou are so wrong. A true Muslim that understands the faith and practices it as it should has the utmost respect for his wife and family. Ignorance is what makes people like yourself think
DeleteIslam is backward and violent. And I
don't blame you. The likes of Boko
Haram has not made it easy for
people like you to see beyond your
nose. But maybe one day.......
may God frgiv u
DeleteAnonymous 12.54,you must my silly for this your comment, how dare you? I won't say much, I guess you are sick. Run along and go get some dogoyaro water to help save your bitter soul.
DeleteThat's an insult cos I see u're local,muslims are movers & Shakers of wonderful stuffs shhhh,u only know but a few. . .
DeleteU r just senseless directing these to the Muslims. It is said in the Qur' an that ALLAH curses any 1 who disrespects women bcos they r described as fragile beings. We have many christains who do not respect their wives.. it's not all about religion but the mindset and upbringing of an individual. It's so obvious that you are part of who dis pastor is reffering to cos u Av shown that u lack manners and respect..
DeleteU're extremely stupid and daft..pray for wisdom..ode!!
Delete....that is an unnecessary comment.
DeleteA fool and a coward like you is jst the biggest impunity of Nigeria......if we continue to have a religion tyrant tout like u, than sorry for Nigerians coz pple like u are jst obstacles to peace success.......for God sake what has this go to do with Muslims........am not only talking bt to also all the Christians fools who are like u
DeleteThe name "RAPU" sounds Indian
ReplyDeleteI know say many ladies go comment full plenty for this one. Chai..
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DeleteLindaaaa if you're waiting for a man that will do all these for you hmmmm you no go marry ooooh bikonu... Lol... Lovely messages but some if it are never gonna be possible for Nigerian men. I love the part "Don't call your wife mummy she's not your mum" cracks me up badly.
ReplyDeleteShut up dere!its all possible,wats difficult in dis?a man who is wise will treat his wife rite,dat way..peace will reign
DeleteWeak naija man!!!! That is why most of you are miserable
DeleteThat mummy calling tho highly irritating *phew*
DeleteI am keeling over in laughter at the 1Peter 3:17 verse. No be small bouncing of prayer. All you men, make una hear well well!!
ReplyDeleteMost men will read these and assume he is writing in Swahili. Men, the best way to enjoy your home is to treat your wife as you would your best friend. You may fight, quarrel or exchange angry words but it dose remove from the fact that you don't only love her, you actually like her- bad habits and all. Don't be her boss, be her friend.
ReplyDelete# WORD. So very true. Am a living testimony..
ReplyDeleteI guess there'll be a Part 2 of this - for married women. Cos the worst thing a man can do is marry the wrong woman. Even if u do all these things Rapu has said and more, she will still push u to the edge of insanity. A man's tendency to do all these things is to an extent, a function of his wife and the environment she's created in the home.
ReplyDeleteYeye dey smell.. this pastor no dey do half of what he listed. Abeg jare
ReplyDeleteU r a loser
Deletewow.nice. word!!! many men are rather dictators than been real husbands!!!
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well said!!! i wish my father can just see read this, kai most of these Nigerian men dont fear God in this life.. mtcheeww I dont even want to spoil my mood this evening.. It is well God please bless my Sister and I with great and God-fearing Husbands Amen.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful message.
ReplyDeleteThe problem really isn't that the Man doesn't love his wife, its the INTERPRETATION of that love by the woman that matters!
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ReplyDeleteWomen are part of the problem who knowingly run after married men.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 12.54, your ignorance knows no bounds. Hope your rant has sated the deep hatred for Muslims eating up your soul? Take banana shogbo.
ReplyDeletethe truth is it doesn't cost you anything to do all this u will feel more at peace in doing all the problem with our men is pride if I do all that she will not respect me,just try it u spend ur eternity together happy iaminat60@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteGod bless this pastor, so many married men have become worthless.
ReplyDeleteIn other words become a dummy for ur wife , A female above called men on this blog fools and whoever her husband to be should adhere to all this ba , Park well for one side mr pastor u aint done half of all d bull u mentioned in ur tweets. Btw marriage isn't for everyone so dnt be fooled .
ReplyDeleteNaaa nt dummy but instead he wud b called HERO
Deletei wont be surprise if this man "Rapper" or Rapu did not practice 2 of all he preaches.
ReplyDeleteBe slave to your wife #marriedmen
ReplyDeletePls Pastor send this message to NTA so that Nigeria men will hear
ReplyDeleteIn one word #beautiful
ReplyDeleteReally nice
ReplyDeleteWell said...
ReplyDeleteThese are d type of pastors dat makes ladies tink these qualities are achievable. Let us be practical as pastors and tel women dat submission and tolerance plus d luv of God is d tonic needed to make a home work
ReplyDeleteBragging about your wife keh?? With all the groupie stories and all. You dont want to brag about your wife in public and get thrown down when someone relives a bad story. Love her, do everything else but PLEASE AND PLEASE don't brag oooooooo!
ReplyDeleteBragging and getting your ego thrown down when you are proved wrong is something nobody wants. All other tweets remain good!
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ReplyDeleteSo true, it's not easy to do all he said especially when one is angry, fustrated and when der's lack of money in the house but by God's grace it's achievable; and to wilheminna mose, it was wrong of u to mention bonario's name cos u don't know him well enough to accuse him of such.
ReplyDeleteWomen never show u anything this man, hoes aint loyal, its always about them, u r always about her n she is always about hers, na wa o, so what happens to d guys r dey not suppose to listen to us too?
ReplyDeleteNEVER TRUST ANYTHING THAT CAN BLEED FOR FIVE DAYS N WONT DIE
Mayb u shud stop dating hoes4 a change
DeleteOooooo my ☑ Lord,i ♡ dis....God bless u pastor
ReplyDeleteWoooow serious food for thought. Makes life easier once you love your spouse the ideal way.
ReplyDeleteSo loving this pastor....He's so truthful...
ReplyDeleteGbam!!! Well spoken! I hope dey hear o
ReplyDeleteI wish my husband could read this.... at least the first few. Me and my kids are the last on the list unless he wants to pose and claim that we are priority while that is not the case. Feeling unloved :(
ReplyDeleteTrue talk pastor
ReplyDeletewell said pastor Tony Rapu...abeg tell our husbands let them hear...*God dey o
ReplyDeleteI agree with all but that football own ,no way abeg.
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ReplyDeleteanon 12:54 pls get a copy of the english version of a quran nd read. The quran even have a whole chapter of over 100 verses for women (an nisa) pls be enlightened before u start running dat hole u call a mouth. Am a woman nd we av alot of men in islam who love nd respect women so much. Remember we r all human nd we tend to become whoever we want to be cos its our choice, a man maltreating his wife is nt jst in islam bt in all tribe, race nd religion. Get over ur hate for islam. Linda pls post my comment
ReplyDeleteVery good advice from a great man of God...
ReplyDeleteWowwww
ReplyDeleteNice one pastor Rapu
I pray he reads this today and that God will touch his hardened heart.
ReplyDeleteAt anon 12:54,u re a big fool. what has this got to do with being a christian or a muslim. Idiot
ReplyDeleteU forgot to tell OUR WIVES to give Us Blow Job 2times daily, it will make us Run home Aftr work -ConcernedHusbands
ReplyDeleteAna ma chi. Ife ni yi bu versace. Ehen
DeleteI feel so blessed with dis words. Tnk u Pastor tony
ReplyDeletePple can say some senseless things eh! Who says Bonario hates women? I beg to differ, his comments show me that he respects women a great deal! P.S: I don't know him o! Just saying what I perceive. Meanwhile, Pastor Rapu, may God bless you, I wish all husbands would heed to these words of wisdom. I like that bible verse o (1 Peter...). well, my hubby respects and loves me. I can't complain. Hehe!
ReplyDeleteThat is a whole lot of do's and don't, but they are all considerable and nice. Not married though, but still wouldn't hurt to try out. So over to you married men.
ReplyDeleteNd he said jus said it all... lovely message
ReplyDeleteThat makes a lot of sense
ReplyDeleteCooldavoe@yahoo.com
IS THIS MAN 4REAL? I AM SURE HE JUST WANNA BE HEARD. ITS BEING A WHILE TONY RAPU MADE THE NEWS SO WHAT BETTER WAY THAN KISS WOMEN'S ASS!
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ReplyDeleteI AM A MAN AND I TOTALLY AGREE WITH PST RAPU. B UT HERE'S THE DIFFERENTIAL THING. 99% OF WOMEN WANT THIS BUT MAJORITY FORGET TO PUT THEMSELVES IN THE FORMAT THAT ALLOWS THIS TO HAPPEN. EVERYTHING PST RAPU HAS SAID (IF YOU RE-READ CLOSELY) ARE REACTIONS OF EXPECTANCY FROM THE WOMEN BUT WHAT OF THE ACTIONS THAT LEAD TO THEM? I AM A MAN, I LOVE LOVE & I LOVE THE GOOD THINGS OF LIFE ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE'S A TRUTHFUL & FAITHFUL WOMAN TO GO WITH IT. WE MEN ARE NOT AS SMART AS THE WOMENFOLK WHICH IS WHY WE REGRET A LOT OF MISTAKES IN THE LONG RUN. A WOMAN CAN MAKE A WEAK MAN STRONG IN PLACES HE HIMSELF NEVER KNEW BUT THESE DAYS, ONE HAS TO PAY A MINIMUM FEE OF "BRAZILLIAN HAIR" B4 SHE EVEN CONSIDERS HIM (I MIGHT BE WRONG THO') BUT IN SUMMARY, WOMEN SET THE ACTIONS FOR THE REACTIONS PST RAPU HAS MENTIONED FOR MEN.
ReplyDeleteWhat other is better than football abeg?...
ReplyDeletePastor please all women are not theesame..........
ReplyDeleteWould the men we have in this part of the world agree to all this? In their minds it would make them feel small and less of themselves but still dey luv to be worshipped! My shall ands would treat me way better than this in jesus name! Amen.
ReplyDeleteGod bless this Pastor ooo
ReplyDeleteDOES HE DO SAME? ABI NA DO AS I SAY AND NOT AS I DO?
ReplyDeleteLadies favourite shaa,i believe it has conditions. When u dont treat ur hubby well,pls dnt expect much.when u treat him like a king,u'll be treated like the queen. This is only for the good n Godly wife,no be agbero wife.
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Gbam!!! I keep saying this is one of the few good Pastors we have in Nigeria, I work for him and everyone in the office knows his wife is key. No daddy n mummy this, u either say pastor or do first name. God bless this man. All men should read this
ReplyDeleteI was married to an idiot that called me mummy. When I wouldn't mummy him anymore he stole my mummy and ran . Failure of a man/child .
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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All this things for one person, i swear married men they try bdat.....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
This is just to score cheap popularity points with the ladies. As a man you should know every marriage is different, what works for you might not work for me. Moreso, every marriage has problems, including yours. So pls focus on your own wife and leave me to focus on my own. Can't just assume buying my wife jewelry is what will make her happy cos it works for you.
ReplyDeleteThis just shows ow lame u r
DeleteGod bless you Sir, pls continue screaming out till they hear
ReplyDelete#Gbam nd God bless u more pastor bt Nigeria men ve no single bone of romance in dem.they wil foolishly tel u is a man's world nd dey r incharge......rubbish men dat r stil weak inside bt intimidate women.
ReplyDelete~@iamJbankz Olamide's PA~
tell them ooo, Men don't always cherish what they have until they have lost it.
ReplyDeletewhy belittle your own family,and make your wife family number one...some ladies have no regards from where you come from once the dowry is paid
ReplyDeletewhy belittle your own family,and make your wife family number one...some ladies have no regards from where you come from once the dowry is paid
ReplyDeletewhy belittle your own family,and make your wife family number one...some ladies have no regards from where you come from once the dowry is paid
ReplyDeleteOkay pastor if u said don't call her mummy cos she ain't ur mummy then don't also call her baby cos she ain't ur baby too! Lol pastor calling her mummy ain't mean shit dats also a pet name
ReplyDeleteHaba most ladies wud rather b called baby dn mummy, mummy aint cool. Id rather b my man's baby dn his mummy.
DeleteNice!shea una don hear men. Nice1 pastor may God continue 2 bless urr ministry
ReplyDeleteIf I hear say I attempt up to 50% of all these stuff he ranted here. #mtcheww......
ReplyDeletePassion of christ
DeleteThank you pastor. God bless you. A lot of women are suffering all in the name of marriage. Some couple do not speak to one another. The only thing keeping them together are the kids. A lot of women do not love the men they are married to because their husbands do not treat them well. A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for the words of wisdom
ReplyDeleteI respect Pastor Tony Rapu but some of his ideas do not make any sense.
ReplyDeleteA marriage is not a slave situation, husband and wife should find out what works for each other with the challenges of the world today
Wot it means is find out wot works well for u both, Pst Tony Rapu says it like it comes bt dt doesnt mean u take everything he said.. Ow dumb can u b, find out wot works for u n ur wife.
Deletetrue talk
ReplyDeleteAwesome! Thank you pastor
ReplyDeleteThank God finally somebody is rooting for us not "what a woman can do to keep her marriage" all the time guys una hear?
ReplyDeleteWe are also waiting for #MarriedWomen from the pastor
ReplyDeletePREACH!!!
ReplyDeleteAll rightly said. Can't shout.
ReplyDeletewell said!!
ReplyDeleteThis got tears rolling down my eyes. Baby I hope u r reading this. N I hope u change.
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DeleteGOD BLESS U PASTOR TONY.IT IS ONLY THE YOUNG EDUCATED MEN CAN DO THIS.AND NOT THE OLD ILLITRATE ONES.THEY DON'T HAVE TIME FOR PETTING.
ReplyDeleteChineke
DeleteThank you so much Pastor Rapu
ReplyDeleteGod bless you real good
Nice one pastor, ao I wish all men could do dis. It takes d grace of God anyway
ReplyDeletewell said, i hope and believe my sweetie will read and follow oo
ReplyDeleteThis is the dumbest Pastor I have seen in a very long time... I am very sure he's one of those deceivers out there and most likely not to have a peaceful home. Going on picnic or resort for the weekend is way better than Hotels with your wife. And who says its bad to sometimes greet your Child before your Wife? Stop fooling women abegi, you're so dumb a Pastor. Linda, please don't be used by the devil to deceive the world all in the sake of pulling traffic to your blog. I hope my woman stops sending me these miserable links from your site. Nigerians, please wise up abeg. Alien RAPU.
ReplyDeleteU r a fool, honestly u dont av sense dts wot ur comment shows, some pple read bt dey dont understand. Mr Biddie or wot ever u call ur sense, u really do av very low IQ.
DeleteI believe
DeleteHotel is more or less a resort here in naija. So out of all the pastor points. na only 2 point u critisize that makes u call him dumbest. U b d dumbest for warning ur wife not to send u links for things she think could improve una life
Deletepastor Tony thank u so much, some so called pastor/men of God only focus on prosperity and forget to face the problem that leads to high rate of divorce
ReplyDeleteWow..very intersting and funny too..God bless yu mahn!. Oyindamolaharvey@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteI agree with you sir. God bless you!
ReplyDeleteNice 1 pastor. Funi enough it doesn't take anytin away 4rm men 2 do dis. On d part of leaving ur phone. It's also means don't cheat men,so u can leave ur phone witout fear
ReplyDeletewalahi i almost felt like i was reading one of those my unending universities courses.......the thing long no be small..what about learning how to summarize things Mr pastor...u almost make me hate ur writeup like i use to hate those my universities lecture notes.........#NA ME TALK AM COME BEAT ME#
ReplyDeletei know normally when a thing like this is posted all the ladies here will like to comment on it.
ReplyDeleteThis is the definition of a perfect man....but that is a fantasy!
ReplyDeleteNo its not, its making it work
DeleteIt depends. Whereas my wife's destiny is tied to me, my destiny is not tied to her.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless Pastor Rapu, A lot of men do not realize that when they make their wives happy and treat them like the queen they are the wives in return will definitely treat and respect them.(like a maiden to her master) #treatherright
ReplyDeleteHe nailed hell outta the matter... I'm so saving/bookmarking this page!!! God bless Pastor Tony Rapu and Linda for sharing!
ReplyDelete@BOBO_EDO
Powerful words, where r the married men to hear these words. God bless u Pastor Tony Rapu as many homes need healing, may these words heal them all.
ReplyDeleteOn point
ReplyDeletetru talk....keep talking d talk...future hubby pls take note
ReplyDeletePastor pack well,all these for women?believe me some of them are not worth it joor.
ReplyDeleteDear Future Husband, I pray God puts all these qualities and more in u.Amen
ReplyDeleteDoing majority of this to a submissive woman isn't a big deal but the pastor himself cannot do all and its even in the bible that our wife's are not our equals,so pastor if you are trying to beg your wife over an offence you committed,Please sir,with all due respect,beg her in private....Na so dem go dey write wetin dem no fit do...
ReplyDeleteThank you Pastor Tony for this wonderful message.
ReplyDeleteI'm single and not married but when i see married men especially young married men who are suppose to behave in a more modern way, rather are worse than our fore -fathers.
I get to see more married toasters more than single guys and they would proudly tell you 'I'm married but she (i.e wife) is not as sexy as you are". My goodness, its unacceptable for a married man, to say such about his wife abeg.
Yesterday after work, went to hang out with my guy and i saw a married man with a little girl between the age of 18 -21yrs old enough to be his daughter.
They should leave the single ladies alone for the single guys to unite and take heed to the pastors advise. it is the best that can ever happen to you and your future.
Ola
This is not for just da "married men"..it goes out 2 d real men..and nt da players... God bless u pastor..
ReplyDeleteDifficult to most men but very very true.a woman plays a great role spiritually in d life of her husband.her words n joy in her heart can move a man 4ward 2 levels so great n her tears n sorrow can reduce him from a king 2 a pauper.I learnt both from personal experience n d xperience of others n vow 2 teach my sons wat is right.he who has ears let him hear
ReplyDeleteThis write up is short sighted, as it applies to women as well. Does he not know about aggressive women? Manipulative women? Or wine who listen to their mums and not their husband? Or women who want you to be like their father not knowing u are their husband? This is a cheap stunt which is misguiding to our young women, leading to so many divorces. Pastor think we'll before speaking, don't just be aiming to increase the female congregation in your church
ReplyDeleteDear Hubby, I know u read LIB regularly please stop disrespecting my family whenever you are angry and stop reporting me to your mother.
ReplyDeleteHmm! Well said, a word they say is enough for the wise....
ReplyDeleteWonderful message
ReplyDeleteMarried men please take note.
In the layman's view, marriage is usually called "the last busstop"
Every good thing learnt while single should be inculcated for a long lasting relationship rather than the other way.
Most women who want out can't coz of their children except for the brave and bold. (respect to single mothers)
Praying mine will be a blissful union.
#PICCANTO#
lausmithuj@gmail.com
And to all the wives pls DO the same to your HUSBANDS. Period!
ReplyDeleteKevin
How i wish the man im married to would read this. Im at my lowest point again as usual. I wish i could walk away and never return to the 5 horrible recent years of my life in the home of this monster who never sees any good in me but constantly shout n hurls hurtful words at me. Sex? i laugh, dosn't exist in my marriage, but for the 2wonderful kids i've been blessed with, there's no reason living on. on days like today i wish i could end it all, i dunno maybe i will one day but i wont be leaving my angels behind. its a lonely world, to those who've found love, i wish u all d very best cos love is indeed beautiful with one who appreciates you but for now it dosnt exist in my world. Hate, shame, resentment is all i see daily. God please save me. "crying"
ReplyDeleteHow i wish the man im married to would read this. Im at my lowest point again as usual. I wish i could walk away and never return to the 5 horrible recent years of my life in the home of this monster who never sees any good in me but constantly shout n hurls hurtful words at me. Sex? i laugh, dosn't exist in my marriage, but for the 2wonderful kids i've been blessed with, there's no reason living on. on days like today i wish i could end it all, i dunno maybe i will one day but i wont be leaving my angels behind. its a lonely world, to those who've found love, i wish u all d very best cos love is indeed beautiful with one who appreciates you but for now it dosnt exist in my world. Hate, shame, resentment is all i see daily. God please save me. "crying"
ReplyDeleteBeautiful message ,I like
ReplyDeleteWith the type of ladies in Nigeria now, that is Suicide.Stories for another day
ReplyDeleteHe without sin cast the 1st stone. I hope the advicer heeds to his advice
ReplyDeleteIf u treat ur wife well, things will work out for u.
ReplyDeleteGood advice
ReplyDeleteBeautiful!
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ReplyDeleteA word is enof for d wise..
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