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Thursday 19 June 2014

Lami Philips gives profound relationship advice to young girls

I 100% agree with her! Very apt!

170 comments:

APPLE said...

Well said my dear.

Anonymous said...

I kinda agree with her though!

Unknown said...

A round of Applause for Lami!

mimi pearl said...

Very true. I agree too

Anonymous said...

I totally agree.

Unknown said...

Noted!! Linda you have decided to block my post a comment box, God will judge u!

Eugenia Ekeji said...

Nice one there.

bluemagic said...

Word!!!!

Cynthia Iyede said...

What a nice piece. 10x lami

mimi pearl said...

Yes yes yes!

Nana said...

True talk!

BONARIO NNAGS said...

Plz dear sisters, don't mind her. You Only Live Once (YOLO) get the boy and help him become a man character wise. (evil grin) loooolz

~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA

Anonymous said...

OMG! Lami, muah!!!!!! (NO HOMO) She's absolutely right.








CoolDiva speaks!

Unknown said...

Keeping it 100%,

Anonymous said...

Another insecured woman giving insecured advice. As a man, I do not agree with her.

DOBY DOBY said...

Shes truly ryt.. Smtims u may play excess hard to get nd lose ya chances tho I dnt mean avn sex. .

Unknown said...

70% Wrong, 30% Right... she's only sharing her own experience.

Anonymous said...

rubbish...na today..she will be the first to pick up booty calls when they come through at night..fake ass idiots giving advice..why not let your actions and relationship speak for itself. Na so una go dey preach and dey collect long tinz for night..nonsense...

Anonymous said...

Spot on

Anonymous said...

Spot on

Anonymous said...

Lol@bonario.some people won't get the humor in your response.
Yes @yolo

Unknown said...

yea true,i concur to that

Lucy chibuike said...

Perfect! I agree, girls don't be a fool.

@lucy

Alloy Chikezie said...

True! Girls need to be very careful, especially the younger ones, because guys are very tricky and are liars also, its in our gene to lie, and its in the gene of ladies to love lies and wants to ear sweet lies from guys, that makes the world go round


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Anonymous said...

I think this is the truth,people most especially girls need to zip up and not allow strange men in there live

Aphrodite said...

I totally agree with her, WOMAN, KNOW THY WORTH!

Anonymous said...

Wetin be her own for the matter. Why she go dey drink agbo for other people fever. Who send am? Mtcheeeeew.

Anonymous said...

Truth! A real man calls his girl to checkup on her as often as possible(nt bbm/whatsap)..if he doesn't take care of yu,treat u like a queen or make u feel important.Dump him lyk a piece of rag..Dont settle fr less all in the name of love! My 2cents

TheBeautyEagle said...

BONARIO your not serious. lol
She speaks the truth:)
The Beautiful Eagle

Anonymous said...

teebee --- hmmn, wot an advice

Unknown said...

The words in the bible are very easy to read but hard for practicality. You ve spoken my sister and we don hear. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

niffyt said...

And the foolish ones will only catch what Bonario said

Anonymous said...

If he really loves you he wil not stop cherishing nd caring for u...No excuse ladies,dnt b deceived..He mite b doing it for som1 else dnt b d fool!No time to waste

Anonymous said...

Bona bona! Am seconding you on this one.

Anonymous said...

Work to be beta for yourself not for a man cos no matter hw gud or beautiful u are..you won't b gud fr a man dat isn't in love wit u..WC

HOT-STEPER said...

Sis ur very correct, Men! Tek'em serious & u've signed ur death warrant. Ride-on baby dey feel u 100%

Thermopolis said...

She's absolutely right and I couldn't agree with her more! Its time for some of us to wisen up.

Anonymous said...

She has a really good point

Anonymous said...

Hehehehe

Anonymous said...

Easier said than done..kimora

Anonymous said...

You ain't serious Bonario..LOL.i concur 110%.very apt..Ladies heed!!!..

Anonymous said...

Makes sense small buh it seems she doznt knw wt shez tryin to say. Wt hz nt falling 4 a boy but a man got to do wit wen a guy wil send a msg to see which olodo wil fall 4 it. Lyk rily, cnt d so called man do dt too? Meeting d ryt guy is jst luck nd God's Grace irrespectiv of weda hez a boy or man...
Secondly, who is Lami Phillips

Anonymous said...

Yes is true. I pity my fellow girls n dats one reason why men cheat. Said by #Amynwa#

Anonymous said...

True talk

Anonymous said...

Soooo true, exactly what i was telling a friend yesterday....girls be wise, she just said my mind. Work on urself, be a good man's dream. U cannot be looking for an awesome guy while u r all messed up, u must have something to offer.

Anonymous said...

True...

Anonymous said...

Lami, your analysis is one-sided, have you thought about ladies going through their BBM list for guys and funk with them also? I think we have more ladies funking with guys than guys funking with ladies. Advise we guys also so we take you serious cos it seems someone just funked with your little heart... sorry tho
- CHQ

Amarachukwu. said...

True talk.

Anonymous said...

But Wait..Bonario Or Wat Is úr name..Du u hav a job? Pls speak up, Du u need help? Like Du u need a job? We cud help u,,Its incredible How a Fully grown man keep tabs On a bLog 24/7..Somtyms i Cant help But Wonder If Bonario Is Linda n Linda Is Bonario..How Du u Du Dat? Its freakin Annoyin..Am sad For you.. GET A LIFE BONARIO,macky says So

Anonymous said...

Lami on point. If only they'll read dz, ponder over it n come out strong n wise.

Anonymous said...

Girls shld stop depending on men for money! money!! money!!! always

Anonymous said...

True talk sis...I hate my ex

#King said...

God bless u bonario..I don't knw wat dis lady is talking about..preacher..so no luv for yung guys?? Only men abi?? Girls abeg don't listen to dis madam..Like she didn't date boiz wen she was younger................................#KingOfKings

www.eclecticstyle.me said...

Beautifully said!!!
www.eclecticstyle.me

Anonymous said...

If they (girls) know their worths, then they won't let any guy hv dem cheap.

Anonymous said...

I soooo agree with her! 100%

Anonymous said...

Girls shld stop depending on men for money! money!! money!!! always

Anonymous said...

Bona shut up there!

janyoldschool said...

I totally agree with her. Wise saying

Anonymous said...

Rapu fa kafa na ezuzu_@ the end of the day, it's still a man's world

@MEETD®EALEVANS™ said...

Okay let's see who she touched with those words, signify by raising up ur hand...

Anonymous said...

Correct girl!





this post made my day. you guys would thank me later

Unknown said...

So true unbiased and straight to the point

Livvsreamblog said...

This month of June on Linda blog is all about relationship.....our ladies are not smiling again

Anonymous said...


This applies to women of all ages.

dhobiz said...

Some girls make themselves so cheap i cry for myself as a woman

Debbie Chelsea said...

I ♡ dis....she is so so ryt

Unknown said...

Yh I think she's right too

Unknown said...

Very good advice to the single ladies out there!

Anonymous said...

Lol I do dat sha.

BOOTYLICIOUS said...

well she is very very right

Unknown said...

Agreed

Anonymous said...

I agree 101%

Unknown said...

Wow.... I so mch agree wth her. She said it all

Anonymous said...

Bonario, who are to advise ladies? You should understand only a woman feels what a fellow woman goes through... There is nothing wrong in what she said and you know it. No matter what it is a lady that feels the pain at night. A lady that has been through it would not watch others go through without saying something. Please give wise comments sometimes.

Anonymous said...

'scroll down on bbm/whatsapp and send to 3 ppl'...works always! Lol...before u rush and take her advice remember dat character make up is not the same as urs and d ppl u ve met aint the same as hers either! So experiences and outcomes will neva be the same as urs too...live ur life!

Braska!

Anonymous said...

Stupid comment

Anonymous said...

True talkkkkkkk!!!!sis linda post my comment for the first tym nah!

Shovey said...

I definitely agree with her but the issue there is that some girls will still not learn(even when you tell them your life experiences) until they get their fingers burnt. #learningthehardway #experienceisthebestteacher @ Bonario that your advice strong o!

charles said...

WOMEN SHOULD WORK ON THEMSELVES. They seem to be so preoccupied with men these days.

charles said...

WOMEN SHOULD WORK ON THEMSELVES. They seem to be so preoccupied with men these days.

Anonymous said...

Lmao! Even the so called real man will still scroll through a long list of female contacts.

Babes we just can't help it.

Unknown said...

Tell dem o

#############GOD punish########################################devil

Unknown said...

@Bonario Nnags -Help him, what if he wants to remain Obi is a boy everyday?....lolz

Anonymous said...

Getting a good guy isn't easy o,am 25 and no boy has asked me out since last year,dunno if I should bleach my skin

Unknown said...

Lami dear tell them!

Unknown said...

Nice one.no dulling.

Anonymous said...

Who is she sef? Baby girls don't dull yourselves o. Forget her and enjoy urself. After she has enjoyed she is now advising you people. Imagine?

Anonymous said...

It's like everyone is a relatioship expert these days.

Unknown said...

True comment. Do what gives u peace and makes u happy, not to make him happy. True love will always show itself up with the right person.
And d message can be reversed for guys also. Most babes think that guys are after a fine face and how good she is in bed. Wrong!!! Sex and beauty is important, but is not all that. Guys don't want a dumbo as a bride, but someone who adds value to him.
Just my thots.

Anonymous said...

LoL i d blv u bona #Guyz add me up on facebook @ (zina sabigal peter)

Unknown said...

True comment. Do what gives u peace and makes u happy, not to make him happy. True love will always show itself up with the right person.
And d message can be reversed for guys also. Most babes think that guys are after a fine face and how good she is in bed. Wrong!!! Sex and beauty is important, but is not all that. Guys don't want a dumbo as a bride, but someone who adds value to him.
Just my thots.

Unknown said...

True comment. Do what gives u peace and makes u happy, not to make him happy. True love will always show itself up with the right person.
And d message can be reversed for guys also. Most babes think that guys are after a fine face and how good she is in bed. Wrong!!! Sex and beauty is important, but is not all that. Guys don't want a dumbo as a bride, but someone who adds value to him.
Just my thots.

Anonymous said...

Linda,any girl wey follow this advise no go get husband.She go wait tire till she reach menopause.For this time wey husband material scarce?Girls make una grab any available man.

Unknown said...

Evil Bonario hehehe, I agree with her tho 101%...

Sophie d said...

Thank you very much,help me tell them,especially single ladies,everywoman should strive to work hard and become better not chasing after hopeless boys and married men,who only need them to satisfy thier sexual urge!

Anonymous said...

to some point this is true am a guy and that is what we do on social network

Anonymous said...

Wish I had dis advice before I fell for d "funk" as she put it!!! Boys r useless best bet is a real man...@least they call u b4 dey dump u instead of gisting bout u wif deir fryndz over a bottle over beer N beef

Anonymous said...

Ao every twitter message is a hoax???...and btw is she married????...girls listen up!!!...whatever/whoever rocks ur boat...this thing no get formula, if u doubt ask Dr HITCH. different strokes for diff folks...

Anonymous said...

Alright

Anonymous said...

So true! Wud prefer to be single dan to be any1s booty call. Afta usin u, dey wil go bk to d "innocent" 1s...bin dr bfr!

suzydiva said...

So true Lami, girls gotta wise up n try their best to b good...

suzydiva said...

Bonario pls hook me up wiv ur Sis aii, want her to come help ma bro become a man. Cheers

Anonymous said...

But i agree with u Bonario, what works for A may not work for B, i dnt believe in generalising dis her thought.

I'm d truth said...

Of ur sisters ie ur mom n dad's daughters lol *wider evil grin*

Anonymous said...

Olodo mtchewww

Bunny said...

Nice

Anonymous said...

She said wot is ryt

Anonymous said...

U are on point girl

Unknown said...

She must be talking from experience lmao.

Anonymous said...

Bona, let your sister do character building for a man while other ladies you better not take on any man as your project, cause you go old there.

Unknown said...

She must be talking from experience lmao.

Anonymous said...

You re right.I pray the girls listen

Olubukola Ozone said...

Bonario, u no try @ all o. Lolz. Thanks for d btiful piece @Lami

Anonymous said...

BONARIO, U are just a fool for ur comment hahahah!... you should have put "jks" tho, so that ppl will know u are joking, cus u know that some ppl dont have a good sense of humor...

But the girl is right though.

Anonymous said...

Dis Bonario self! Mechie onu gi a e ji eri ji mmanu! Lolz! But on a more serious note, as a guy I think she is spot on! And dat "work on urself" part waz dope! Trash flow wit trash nd u wudnt expect class if u r trashy! "all men r dogs" is wat gals will b ranting after 10 relationships, have u seen were a dog attracts a sheep? *ask urself*





#GozManuel Says#

Anonymous said...

The very pretty models think that with their beauty men will fall , yeah sure they will fall till they have that constant taste of you bfor they relegate you to the finer ones . Young girls should be smarter . Finding love is very difficult these days

Anonymous said...

WTF is she saying?WHat does she know?

Anonymous said...

What do you expect from these naive young Chics , all they want is a rich guy to pose wit and they end up being used and dumped

Anonymous said...

Mumu

Anonymous said...

Odesiri, evil bastard. Keep up with your bad character and go straight to hell

Anonymous said...

Bonario,,God bless you plenty,,,she has no point @ all

Anonymous said...

Gbam! Well said sis. I hope he read this and understands the fact that I am nt just forming no sex b4 marriage bt trying to make him a real man. Dnt care if u kip getting ur tinz done outside n clean ur mouth. U just de do ursef big time.

Okoro said...

Yimu

Anonymous said...

She is sounding pained! Bonario your advise is good, get a boy and make him a man. Beside two things cannot be the same . The fact that one person has it a certain way does not mean others would have same. Beside Bbm/whastapp is a form of communication.

yooh said...

YOLO no dey bring life back..'In Ice prince' voice'

Anonymous said...

Bonario shut up already

Anonymous said...

i agree with her. if you settle for less you will end up with regrets. @bonario the boy must be willing to become a man before a woman can help him.

Anonymous said...

Lol true tlk bona "u only live once"

Anonymous said...

I don't agree with "a man will cherish what he nurtures". How do you explain physical and verbal abuse after years of marriage? How do you explain a man becoming "weird" after he spends so many months of wooing you and becomes someone else after getting you to date/marry him?

Anonymous said...

This is a load of crap.

Unknown said...

Well sed.

Adetola said...

True talk!! Use your head..

Anonymous said...

She's right # wen u wrk hard, its d oda way rd# I choose who I fuck cos am loaded. LOLZ *i take care of Dem wit FUD, wine etc, so dey run 2 me wen I call* I pity gals who allow Dem selfs 2 get used. A man will give u 15k,10k etc, remove ur transport n stress 2 dat place, wat will be left? My Frd ws fucked real hard by 1 man just bcos he gave her money 2 buy BB. Gals start up a business, no matter d amount, I started going 2 onitsha wit 15k, nw am loaded dat I bless even my frds n dey still envy me.





Mrs DAvido

Mab said...

Lol ur jonzing

purity said...

Lami u just spoke ur own heart but know that we all are not desame the way u will handle ur relationship is defference from he way I will handle mine so well gud thought any way

Anonymous said...

Tnx dear, after everything i tried for my girlfriend to be saying the truth but is getting worst, d wey she always lie is making me to hate her. I tried to build my future wt her but i cnt get truth from her, she jst change to worst after making her wat she wanted to be.....Women are wicked they can forget so soon....i beta be a player...Linda i will give new update soon....so dat others will learn lesson

Anonymous said...

Of course you won't! Ashawo somebody!

Anonymous said...

Whoeva u are, God will bless u 4 dis comment, my motto 4rm day 1 ( dnt settle 4 less) and neva eva waste time in DUMPing him if he is less.

Janelicious said...

Wowwwww real well said

leecia B said...

My dear anony,no be only u d reason dis bano guy,God will help him

Anonymous said...

I agree wit woman working on their self, but some how or most time rather I don't agree when men are being criticise about looking for a girl to F**k, we have guys like dat but we also have some gals dat really need to grow, and the grown up ones to sit down and tink about how dey want their life to look like. I respect most of my gal frds even though dey no fine much say too much, dey stil dey form wetin I no know. Choi...

chidimma said...

I agree

Anonymous said...

Why do women always come out with these senseless topics and head lines. I have one question for all women that believe in this NONSENSE! SO WHAT IF THERE WERE NO MEN IN THIS WORLD??? Please rather than come out here and talk about good women, good men blah, blah!! WOMEN NEED TO GO AND EMPOWER THEMSELVES. WHY MUST YOU ALWAYS NEED A MAN TO VALIDATE YOUR EXISTENCE?

Anonymous said...

Here take handkerchief..........

Anonymous said...

But why z d lady spoiling a niggaz business?...... By @successralu

Unknown said...

she's so right,
but wil dy tk d advice??????

Anonymous said...

She doesn't know how to speak English sef! Na wa o

Anonymous said...

Tell em and keep it coming

Unknown said...

Lami you nailed it...only for the wise

Unknown said...

Nice 1 lami...you nailed it

Unknown said...

Lami you nailed it...only for the wise

Anonymous said...

Mrs G!!!

Anonymous said...

women lie and play too, even more than guys so what's the big deal? if someone has dealt with you and ravaged your provinces... take heart, it shall be well

Anonymous said...

Yes lami Philips, you have said yours (20%) . Girls just be prayerful to God because it is by that you'll not fall into a wrong hand and lean not on man's understanding but God. I care (1world♥)

Anonymous said...

Are u a guy?
$$k@y$$

Anonymous said...

All the ladies are shouting yes, good point, spot on. Who are the ladies that then do this booty call? Some of you supporting the Lami Philips post here will scroll through your phones(that's if you bought the phone and not a many gigolo bought it for you)looking for the next man to sleep with to get some money from. Nonsense post!

CLICK ME NOW said...

Some advice here.

B.O.B. said...

anything relationship jo matter the type, the doors swings both ways. the same way a man might want a casual short affair with no strings attached women do too and in fact women are better at it. the only advice i have for ladies is to thrive to gain legitimate financial independence because whether we like it or not in Nigeria most young ladies base relationship decisions on getting paid

Anonymous said...

Excuse you anonymous 8.53pm! Do you know Lami personally? I suppose you don't. Do not say what you don't know. Lami went to top-notch schools both in naija and abroad and she also does not come from a poor home. The fact that she adds slangs to her statements does not mean she can't hold her own. #fact #dontjudge

Anonymous said...

Working for it oooo or not working for it, eventually a guy will still decide if you are worth taking serious or not when he gets to know you better.

As for me, women want to be equal to men so they too should go and work and have fun with their money and not looking for any man to save them.

Then only will women be respected.

Unknown said...

Nonsense and nonsensical...who are you to lecture someone like me? What's your pedigree?

Unknown said...

Nonsense and nonsensical...who are you to lecture someone like me? What's your pedigree?

Unknown said...

Nonsense and nonsensical...who are you to lecture someone like me? What's your pedigree?

Anonymous said...

Like seriously! WHO IS BONARIO?

Anonymous said...

Are you working? and you have the time to always login and read Bona's comments. You must be working in d local govt. in ur village. Pot calling kettle black you are a bumpkin that reads without getting d message and of course doesn't know what to comment. Bona is one of d sensible and humorous commenters, and that is d fun of it, d blogs n d comments. So don't diss him deal with.

Anonymous said...

Lami, totally agree with u

Anonymous said...

Nice words of wisdom

Anonymous said...

Rukky Sanda you don't hear, Find a real man QED

Anonymous said...

Checkout all the women that have applied too much logic in what relationship should be or what they want endedup spinsters for life...the ones they consider fools are the ones enjoying their relationship/marriages.See they can't beat God on this.

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