During her speech at the launch of her foundation, Pamela Anderson Foundation, at Cannes Film Festival last week, glamour model and actress Pamela Anderson revealed how she was molested from age 6 and gang-raped by her first
boyfriend and his friends who decided it would be fun to rape her
"I did not have an easy childhood. I was molested from age 6-10 by my female babysitter. I went to a friends boyfriends house while she was busy. The boyfriends older brother decided he would teach me backgammon which led into a back massage which led into rape- my first heterosexual experience. He was 25 yrs old, I was 12.
My first boyfriend in grade 9 decided it would be fun to gang rape me (with 6 of his friends) Needless to say I had a hard time trusting humans. I just wanted off this earth. My parents tried to keep me safe but to me the world was not a safe place, my dad an alcoholic, my mom worked two jobs waitressing. My mom was always crying. Dad didn't always come home leaving us in tremendous pain and worry. I couldn't bare to give her any more disruptive information. I couldn't break her heart any more than it was breaking. I kept these events to myself. Sometimes, when you smile, it's not because you are happy, it's because you are strong" she saidKeep a close eye on your young children and the people around them. Children are getting molested every day...sometimes by family members...and people you trust!
Very sad,,mans inhumanity to man
ReplyDeleteThank God for her life and i hope other parents will learn lesson frm this....
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We never really.know why people are the way they are. Certain factors shape a man's destiny, childhood experiences is one of em. I make a conscious effort to.desist from criticising peoples life choices esp their sexuality cos u never know why dey do the things they do.
ReplyDeleteWhat has this got 2 do with what she jst said..hmmm----C21
DeleteEveryfyn Dumba**
DeleteC21, you clearly having comprehending problems
DeleteReally? Wow! U sure define senseless. Lol Smh
DeleteQuite heart rendering. Am happy she never allowed the cruelty of this world deter her from actualizing her possibilities.
ReplyDelete~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
What possibilities? Opening her legs for every cylindrical object in the full glare of cameras?
DeleteI've always said it!!! Pple involved in any type of porn either was molested or had rough childhood... Ud rarely see any "sane" person involve in auch
ReplyDeleteMeaning that she insane right? Making ur perfectly "sane" self a better human being than she is abi?
DeleteWhat about Lawrence Fishbourne's daughter?
DeleteFor once u talked like a "sane" person_am surprised! Keep it up boy
DeleteSee dis one,if u don't understnd wat onyx is trying 2 say,jus keep quiet already
DeleteSMH....What a wicked world we live in.
ReplyDeleteMoral lessons to *parents: Being there for your child/children is the best gift you can ever give them.
It's easy to bring them into the world; parenting them is totally a whole different ballgame.
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Liar
ReplyDeleteWhy won't she be a liar since you don't believe yourself how will you not feel everybody tell lies. Abunu ode
DeleteHmmmmm! Touching! See where she is today!
ReplyDelete#Pesty
And @ wht age did she get a boobs job?
ReplyDeleteExactly dear...Most tyms its pple u trust,nd dats very hrtbreaking
ReplyDeleteI feel for her.. sooo sad..
ReplyDeletesame with me. was molested by my cathizm teacher at 8yrs. Engr Emy
ReplyDeleteLinda no be matter of go come any body i catch molest any of my off spring be it boy or girl child that person go no say even though we agree to amnesty wickedness still runs in the average Niger delta mans blood simply put the perpetrator get ready to meet your maker and i will gladly do the time
ReplyDeletei simply cant understand why men will turn to beast and rape a female then why do we have brothels if they cant go there and quench their insatiable lust thunder fire them way dey do this inhumane act when dey jam really ogbologbo girl dey no go fit perform dey go begin depend on kparaga
Mhen learn to use punctuation, cos u made no sense after so much write ups.
DeleteWatched it on E! It's heart breaking to hear such things....just found out dat my frnd was physically and sexually abused by a guy she took as a friend, and she Cnt do anything bt it cos d beast comes from power and money. Ladies plz I beg u, be careful and dnt do "useless waka" all in d name of fun or wateva, and mothers plz be super attentive to ur children, both grown and little.
ReplyDeleteShut Ʊя dirty Trap! Your friend(or maybe you're even the one) was fucking a Rich Guy at a tender age. Bitchy Cow!
DeleteShe gives good advice about protecting children. Parents must be vigilant.
ReplyDeleteStupid men everywhere!
ReplyDeleteWith cheap sluts like you in every Hood in Nigeria, there will always be "Stupid men" everywhere.
DeleteAshawo 10kobo. It's Idiots like you that fuck 10 Guys in one street.
Sorry pam..
ReplyDeleteGod give this woman strength. No shrink in the entire universe can help her, just You. You let it happen, please fix it. Amen!
ReplyDeleteDID YOU JUST SAY SHE LET IT HAPPEN? fucking pig. May your kids not be molested. DAMN FOOL! AND YES IT IS PERSONAL.
DeleteYou means God. Thanks for d insult.
DeleteJeez that a lot for someone to go through in one life time! Things like this damages a person for life, thankfully she has led a fairly good life.
ReplyDeletewho's she tryin 2 deceive.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure being molested and gang raped at a young age made her become a playgirl and a semi pOR*star
GOD WILL PUNISH YOU. I really want to pray the same fate befalls you so you know how it feels. But nah! God knows how to deal with the reckless
DeleteShut the fuck up,u dumb asshole....comments like ur make me wish u went thru what she did,any abuse, be it verbally,physically or sexually is, can't find the word... take heart pam,i understand cus it also happend to me,and God will give us the strength to heal the pain,anger and gut wrenching sorrow we go thru....hmmm
Deletehnnmm even your ever smiling relative is not to be trusted with your little kid...talk more of your neighbour...God help us all
ReplyDeleteMay God heal ur wounds.
ReplyDeleteTruthfulness pays!
It's happening everywhere. N everyday.Parents OPEN ur EYES n EARS.teach sex education at home n let d kids b free 2 ask u anytin witout fear.it's beta 2 tell dem dan dey learn outside bcos if u listen to 8yr olds talk nowadays d tings dey pick from friendsin school u'll b amazed.even a boy child can b molested.some matured men I've talked 2 admitted dat dey were disvirgined by deir parents maid,some by deir aunties(incest yes but it is happening)mom's friend.I even read a report how a man was molesting a young boy.
ReplyDeleteParent has to be careful with there kids especially the female child
ReplyDeleteEven male kids,they get molested
DeleteI tell people that it really takes a heart to watch over other peoples kids, so I trust no one with my kids.
ReplyDeleteIn every 10 girls, 5-6 hv bin sexually molested frm the age of 8- 20yrs.. I'm a victim and 17yrs after its still fresh.. I hope to God I Heal.. I feel her pain..
ReplyDeleteThis is why they sell pepper spray n tasers. Take karate lessons, if u dont have money, train yasef in ur backyard. If u no get backyard. Do it in ur room. Build ur muscles. I will never be that helpless in jesus name and i will make sure my children can defend themselves. Both the boys and girls cus this BS is everywhere now
ReplyDeleteI feel 4 her....eya
ReplyDeleteSorry dear..so luv d part where she said"sometimes when u smile is not bcoz ur happy its bcoz ur strong" *fashionista LeOnOrA*
ReplyDeleteSorry for what happened to u.
ReplyDeleteWas dat why u turned out a whore n a pornstar?
ReplyDeleteAm sure you hypocrite subscribe to Porn
Delete@ugo 11:19 wat is the WOW! About? Some is talking about her painful experience u are there saying wow,must u comment? Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteI was molested by a relative of mine. He is a guy dat lived wit ma family for somtime. Am a guy btw.
ReplyDeleteQuite a pity she went through all that at her tender age. But why go to visit Ʊя friends's boyfriend? Why accept for a Guy you know little or nothing about to give you a massage.
ReplyDeleteShe is probably using all this as an excuse to justify her fucking about and opening her Nyash for every Man and woman that comes her way!!!
Woo what a sad story God help us all
ReplyDeleteI was molested at age 4 by my uncle nd it's still fresh.im married and you can imagine that he came for my wedding and had the guts to eat and drink and get involved with the marriage rite.he fingered me then with lots of petroleum jelly. The world is a wicked place o
ReplyDeleteMaybe if we get the courage to speak out more,there would be less of Paedophiles around,who knows if you say something you might be saving another kid,am sure this uncle is still molesting another kid,he should be locked up for good
DeleteNt evrybodi can b as strong as she is..... Lord save us al.in africa is an abomination 2 tuk abt t cos u wil b shamed evn by gals so is beta 2 die wif t.
ReplyDelete~@iamJbankz Olamide's PA~
Thanks for ur advice. I think u r a special creature on earth.
ReplyDeleteHa sorry about that.
ReplyDeleteThat's why never judge a book. Behind almost every person society views as promiscuous is a similarly horrifying story. Molestation and rape of our children are rampant. They can turn wild in their adult year. I thank God for parents and siblings who loved me that even while I was ashamed of what was done to me knew I was still loved by family and most of all God. That saved me from a life of indecency and I will go to the grave with my secret of horrible events in my childhood. It has not and shall not define me!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm
ReplyDeleteI realy dnt knw wat 2 sai cos molesting hz bcome a major problem in d wrld nd realy I fear cos mst parents dnt knw wat deir kids re goin tru in d hands of cusin,uncle's,step dad,tearcher etc.....nd mst folks dnt blieve wen deir kids tel dem Wats hpenin....may God hlp us all
Such is life
ReplyDeleteI was also molested by my cousins and step brothers, the saddest part of it all is no one ever believes ur story when u tell it as a child! Cause I did and I was labelled a liar, trying to spoil my brothers name bla bla bla. Come to think of it, at that age, I didn't even know anything as setting someone up with false accusations. Well the moral of my story is, the people closest to ur children are more likely to abuse them! I know cause it happened to me!
ReplyDeleteAnon 1.46 pm,its rather unfortunate that you cant read and understand. God open their eyes so they can see, You created them, fix them
ReplyDeleteAmen! If u still don't get it,then i give up!
You are evil,she was 12,but no matter the age there's no justification to rape
ReplyDeleteI was also molested at 12 by a 65yrs old man whom my dad trusted me in care for protection.The damaged done when i was 12 was the reason i cannot have a child even after 15yrs of marriage#crying#
ReplyDeletebut with breasts like that,you go don bad then...you na
ReplyDeletebad girl,bone the molesting story.
Don't blame her for the lifestyle she is living today, issues like that at an early age will most likely distort her views about the word and influence her behaviour negatively.
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