From a female LIB reader
I am writing this to you now in tears, please post this and let LIB readers
advice me. I am just sixteen years old writing my WAEC. My step father had
sex with me against my will. I lost count of how many times we did it
already. I told my mummy about this and she was actually OK with it, she
did not even believe me. Now as am typing this, I am being beating up by my step
father because I refused to have sex with him anymore. He even threatened to
kill me. Please make this public so that everybody will know that not all men
of God are truly men of God because he calls himself a prophet. Got these
photos to back it up.
She sent me photos of her alleged abuser...but because she didn't give me her own photo, real name or any details about her, it's hard for me to post photos and accuse someone of sexual abuse. I've tried to reach out to her but it's been...but there's a pic of her alleged injury after the cut...
EVILLLLL DOERSSS
ReplyDeleteGet across to project alert
DeleteYou should look for an NGO that can help you take him to court, also report to the police
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Bt its a one side story....... cud be true or false.
ReplyDeleteMaybe when someone have sex with you against your will and torture you as well, maybe you will have sense. Will the culprit send a message to linda that he did it? Learn to reason with brain...
DeleteYou are very stupid Zenith. ... very very stupid. I rest my case... Ewu.
DeleteFrom your DP.. to even think you have a daughter... shame on you for that statement. Don't vex me this morning ooo..... GOAT.
DeleteMy dear you are right. Its a one sided story and its gud 4 pple to be open minded and nt myopic and abusive. As for the writter of the story,if ur being truthful den find ways to get evidence to use against him. Der are many who will be willing to help.
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ReplyDeleteCan't really say much, we only hv her word for it(and am not saying her story ain't true), n so little details. Keep trying to reach her, ait?
ReplyDeleteLinda, always post what you are convinced about. Doing that we enabled LIBers to give concrete advice.
ReplyDelete99 percent of straight men are rapist and perverts.they will raped underage girls even when they are married to beautiful ladies, let's not forget they also rape their own daughters.
ReplyDeleteOh my Gosh. You are a monumental nonentity. I feel like strangling you
DeleteCos ur father and uncles raped you doesn't mean all me are like that..... Very ignorant talk supported with stupid statics.
DeleteWow!!!! so it runs in ur family? So sorry about ur ordeal , ur dads a real kicker then
DeleteOde,seems u dnt read or watch d news shey?cypril(d uk former mp)was gay nd he molested countles boys frm age 6 to 12,der ar thousands of gay men wu molest kids including priest nd thousands of staight wu also molest kids so don't go tinkin bin gay is aiit.if its aiit den y did God destroy sodom nd gomora,its in d bible nd d Quran dat God made Adam nd Eve in d bible nd Adam nd Awahu in d Quran not Adam nd Steve or Eve nd Eva
DeleteAnon 9:06, abeg where did you get your data from? Poster, you need to contact an NGO. Try project alert.
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Anon 9:06, abeg where did you get your data from? Poster, you need to contact an NGO. Try project alert.
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Pls, approve and post above comment. Have a good one!
ReplyDeleteOMG! Lindiway am sure she sent you some other details on how to contact her.
ReplyDeletePlz this shouldn't ho unpunished. I'm ready to contact an organization that will take up her case.they've done it for many girls like her and they will be very willing to help her get justice and closure.
~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA LUMIA
If your mum won't believe you then report the issue to an NGO. The scumbag needs to be reported and made a public show of. Pls don't die in silence, he might be infected with an STD or HIV
ReplyDeleteAnyone who need my nude picture hit mai name
ReplyDeleteYou never tire? No ones interested. Jeeez....... angel of doom
DeleteIdiot
DeleteQuick question...ur nude picture for what? Sweetie u need 2 get a life!
DeleteIn fact the man needs to be killed.
ReplyDeletelinda what part of her body is dat,so i will know how to start giving advice.meanwhile that man is a beast,gosh!.
ReplyDeleteIt's hard taking that decision but she needs to come out clean if she really need help
ReplyDeleteHaaaa... Dis one pass me!!! Sorrry kid!!!
ReplyDeleteLyk re u 4 real,ur mum is kk wth it?swty pls reprt 2 d police or women affairs pls...
ReplyDeleteMoron! Stop writing like a retarded girl. Kk ko, qq ni.
DeleteLolz @Girl lmao... Kk qq.. bu ha haa
DeleteOMG! What is happening? What kind of inhumane act is this? Lord help us in this country! Lindodo pls find a way to reach her o. I feel so sorry for her!
ReplyDeleteThis is so terrible.What is this world turning to for God sake...shameless step father having sex with a secondary school kid writing waec exam.This man has already receive an eternity curse that will be pass from all his generation...But why cant the girl expose the man name...so that he will be disgrace.May God help us all...different this are happening in this world ooo
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Linda, please you dont need to post this comment, kindly share details with us at advocatingthroughmedia@gmail.com. We are interested in this case as we work on child protection as a registered organisation under the Federal Ministry of Women Affairs. Thanks and God bless.
ReplyDeleteLinda you get it right by not accusing someone that you are not sure off .......first to comment
ReplyDeletePlease dont post her details or identity. Its not ethical. Let's just take it up.
ReplyDeleteIncomplete story. . I tink shes scard dat her step father myt kill her dats y she didn't snd her pix to u.. dnt worry dear. God will fight for you
ReplyDeleteThanks Linda for not taking side.
ReplyDeleteShe sent a pic of her abuser but not of herself, wow.
If she's being honest, I think the best is for her to speak to other relatives and possibly go live with them.
If it's in another country, I'd say she should report to the authorities...in naija, hmm.
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If she's been honest abi,u dnt have to comment u knw
DeleteIf she's been honest abi,u dnt have to comment u knw
DeleteIndeed not all men of God re real, cos some were called by there self. Well dis is touchin, nt d first time we havin bein hearin such n l askd can a normal father did this to his daughter.# So disgusting#
ReplyDelete~CYNTHIA~ commenting from my TOYOTA CRICKE
Some woman are a disgrace to womanhood imagine a mother consent to her husband sleeping with her daughter what a wicked world
ReplyDeleteHello Linda, can you advise her to report to a relevant NGO who will take up her case and give her temporary accomodation? Please help this young girl in any way you can
ReplyDeleteAwwww! So sad! But wait oh! Wat part of her body is dis? Na d toto?
ReplyDeleteA big sorry for U
DeleteYou're just an idiot! You so much disgust me! You know this is a minor we're discussing here, right? She's still in high school. Go and borrow some sense if you don't have any, you this wilheminna of a fool! How can you make jest of such a situation? Numbskull!!
DeletePRORHET?? IS HE CELE??!! IF HE IS CELE...... GOD HELP US ALL!
ReplyDeleteArrrrrrggggghhhhh.....diz is jes bad, stuffs lyk dz mk u wonda wu is rly serving God.
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Linda pls advice her to report to a relevant NGO that can accommodate her and help her get justice. You can try to get in touch with her through the same means she used in getting in touch with toy. Please do all in your power to help this young lady
ReplyDeleteJust don't know what the world is all about
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I've got tears trickling down my eyes as I read this.
ReplyDeleteThat man needs to be locked up and the keys thrown away. The mother as well.
Nigeria's system is really bad. No social services to take this up. Police would do nothing..no point going to them.
Please LIB, or Linda do you know any organisation that can help this innocent child?????
Chinny
Wow! Pls follow this up Linda
ReplyDeleteLinda pls advice her to report to a relevant NGO that can accommodate her and help her get justice. Pls do all in your power to help this young girl
ReplyDeleteHey Chineke,let this world come to an end already. I don't even know what to say to her,I'm so flabbergasted...I pray God intervenes for u.
ReplyDeleteBaby girl don't give up, It really gets better. Don't LET THIS DIFINE YOUR FUTURE BECAUSE TRUST ME YOU ARE DESTINED FOR GREAT THINGS BEYOND YOUR IMAGINATION . DON'T LET THIS MAN MAKE YOU ANY LESS CLOSER TO GOD OKAY? TRUST ME! IT MIGHT SOUND CHEESY BUT TRUST ME WHEN I SAY GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU. JUST PRAY, KEEP PRAYING AND ALL WILL BE WELL.
ReplyDeleteYoung lady am sure you have a phone.
ReplyDeleteWhen next he ccomes for sex, make sure you record the conversation.
Really really wise.... concrete evidence is d key... young lady guess u should start from there, bcos, trust me, u'l need smtym worth more Dan jst ur words against his!!!!!!!
DeleteA lot of amorous behavior and activities in today's society, I wonder has it always being like this or is it just new media bringing hidden sins to the fore.
ReplyDeleteFeel sorry for her .. Men!Men!!Men!!! Life would have been easier without them *Nkey*
ReplyDeleteDis kind story ehn? Some women can b so stupid. Kai!!!
ReplyDeleteLinda, you thought well. That was wise!
ReplyDeleteI suggest you report to your father as soon as possible. Further abuse can cause you deep rooted damage that will seep into the next generation.
ReplyDeleteCan dis be real?
ReplyDeleteIf she needs real help, she shd come all out. It might be hard to do, but that's the only way to be free!!!
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Victims of abuse need not give their name or photo.
I hate hate HATE it when they report rapes / abuse cases or rescue trafficked people especially when minors are concerned and show the names & pictures of the victims.
They should be protected from the media and be allowed to continue their lives in anonymity.
Linda she can give you her name but you by no means need to publish it nor her picture!
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Prophet indeed!
ReplyDeleteBeing a single mother that will get married soon, am scared of taking that step becos of my girl and these sad stories of teens being raped by their step dad,uncle, father and all. May be I should just remain single and watch my girl grow to be a what she want to be. Hmmmm pity that poor girl.
ReplyDeleteSmart thinking Linda...don't post alleged abusers picture o..until u get her own too cos people are vindictive!! If she is willing to share her step dad's picture then she shouldn't shy away about hers cos one can put 2 together..
ReplyDeleteLol at the picture....what is that?
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DeleteHer misfortune and shame is not for your entertainment !!
Her name and picture do not need to be released.
Victims of crime do not need to be tagged to their ordeal !
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Lindo well done. Your blog is an eye opener!
ReplyDeletejst accept dat u re a secon wife since ur mother did not do anyting about it.#THAT AKWA IBOM BOY#
ReplyDeletePlease linda put more efforts and get in touch with her..i imagine what she is passing through now....This is evil...
ReplyDeleteLinda pls advice her to report to a relevant NGO that can accommodate her and help her get justice. Pls do all in your power to help this young girl
ReplyDeleteLinda pls try again&again till u get across to her.so sad!!!!
ReplyDeleteBia linda, When she's ready for a case we wil know.....poster, send ur name $ number so I can put d idiot behind bars.
ReplyDeleteThere must be some1 in your family that will believe u dear so u av to report him.Set a trap for him.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmm she might be telling the truth but then again she mayb lying as i don't think Nigerian women play with their children (referring to her saying her mother is okay with it) but she should reveal her self only to you so that you can help her further.
ReplyDeleteHey Were is Nigeria police oya get dis bastards arrested fast fast, God will continue 2 expose them one by one dis year, no peace 4 d wicked
ReplyDeleteHey Were is Nigeria police oya get dis bastards arrested fast fast, God will continue 2 expose them one by one dis year, no peace 4 d wicked
ReplyDeleteHey Were is Nigeria police oya get dis bastards arrested fast fast, God will continue 2 expose them one by one dis year, no peace 4 d wicked
ReplyDeleteHey Were is Nigeria police oya get dis bastards arrested fast fast, God will continue 2 expose them one by one dis year, no peace 4 d wicked
ReplyDeleteMy heart bleeds! Zuriel
ReplyDeleteNo be small thing..Are you sure that woman is even your mum? The woman you called your mum no try at all o..I suppose you inform one of the elders around or extended family member.......Best wishes!
ReplyDeletekill ur mother, pour ur step father acid
ReplyDeleteNa wa 4 al dis fake men of God o... Jst go and report him 2 d police
ReplyDeletePlz my dear report to an leader person around u apart from ur mum.. go to a nearby police station as soon as possible and may Allah grant us his protection.. Amin Amin
ReplyDeleteOjai says" this molestation of young gals is really getting too much. Why? Am so sorry dear, bt u really need to talk to someone. Since ur mum is taking it for granted
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her why can't she put her face for pple to judge why the man alone she might want to frame him up may be something go wrong between them now make her want to implicate the alledge man.
ReplyDeleteNa in power be dat as he de sleep with u
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of music do we play to this gbedu?this sexual assault has really eaten deep into our society and is only God that can help this generation. Every brain-washed mother I pray God delivers you from that bondage ijn
ReplyDeleteIf dis is true oo,ur stepfather infact even ur mother na oloriburuku,I wonder ow sum parents acts not animals
ReplyDeleteSleep with him back... khlas!
ReplyDeleteHe's a pervert who deserves to rot in jail
ReplyDeleteStretch marks..
ReplyDeleteContact me thru ♏Æ” email. dudangel2005@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteWonders shall neva end
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God, ur mum needs to be jailed and ur step dad killed..... Pls i will advice yu poison his food so that he will chop poison and die..
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Nigerian women because of their insecurity to be with a man she would destroy her kids. Some Nigerian women can kill their child just to please a man. Disgusting. What stops the mother from investigating what her daughter told her? My Dear please keep saying No and pushing him away, if he likes he should kill you but make sure you defend yourself against this monster!
ReplyDeleteLord Jesus,i can't wait for Your return. A lot is going wrong. Please heal our land and purge our hearts
ReplyDeleteLinda darling, i must commend your good work on issues bothering on domestic violence and issues relating to same. But i believe you should contact this girl on a personal front so we can know the extent of this abuse and deal with the perpetrator of this sick act!!
ReplyDeleteMy dear u need to come out open So that People can help u. Becos u don't know if your being used for ritual Since ur mom is not saying anything.let shame be for them not u take a bold step $come Out. . . The only TAMI & SWITS COLLECTION(Looking gud is my business)
ReplyDeletethis is wickedness,well i am happy that you took a decision not to have sex with him,please my dear hold on to that and God will honor you unlike the girl on my street who enjoys sleeping with her step dad and in the process her mother cursed her.
ReplyDeleteHa ! Nah wao! She should send her pic also if she want's you to post his pic.
ReplyDeleteGood idea Linda, as much we sympathize with her, you need to get more info from her. Just incase someone is trying to setup someone. I wish her the best though.
ReplyDeleteHow evil can people be for God's sake? Permission granted to cook his food with rat poison pls.
ReplyDeleteHn. Nigeria is turning into what? Another America. In what other country is step-incest the order of the day? Why do men keep damning themselves?
ReplyDeleteMwaha.
Quite sad! Linda you make me proud!
ReplyDeleteNa wah o... A prophet my ass!
ReplyDeleteFirst,she must send her own pix, her address and every possible contact detail so the idiot can be tracked down,I always say that most of these so called "men of god" are so devilish! He's a goat!
ReplyDeleteEzenwa via Samsung c3222
Dat man is an idiot, a looser, ur mom is wat I dnt knw. Babes u need 2 leave dt house
ReplyDeleteMy dear pls find ur way fast to mirabel centre LASUTH ikeja. It will be taken up from there. May God help u honey.
ReplyDeleteBuy ota pia pia from d nearby street market and delete d idiot.............buh ope u aint d one seducing d old fool
ReplyDeleteMy dear pls report to mirabel centre LASUTH ikeja ASAP, they will take it up from there. May God help u honey.
ReplyDeletePlan, be careful and try to find someone who will help you dear. Praying you'll be safe soon.
ReplyDeleteMy dear this is a very serious matter and you must act immediately. Since your mother is unwilling to take up the matter I advise you to report to a senior member of the family so that the matter be brought to the immediate attention of the appropriate authorities including the Police. It is a criminal offence
ReplyDeleteto have sex with a girl your age and to make matters worse he is related to you so it is incest which is an abomination. Think of someone in the family,your grandparents or your maternal aunt or Uncle. Act immediately.
Linda please help in getting her the necessary help. The matter can be investigated and reported to the appropriate authorities. A lot of young girls suffer such abuse in silence due to fear and some may doubt people will believe especially
ReplyDeletesince even her mother did not believe. Please look into the matter. Bless you.
She did not send in her face shots cos of the public humilation she may face. And Linda, I applaud you for not posting his pics, it could be a set-up for all we know. If she needs help, she could go to relatives, or send in her pics.
ReplyDeleteI however am highly disappointed in her mom, but then again, idk her upbringing.
Only in Ogun state but I don't believe this story. Which mother dey share daughter with hubby? It's a different story if she don't know.
ReplyDeleteLinda pls dont your time and ours with this story. Look closely at that skin with stretch marks ..how can it be a 16 year old's? And if its true why didnt she send details? If she really needs help she would have sent details so its either its not true or shes enjoying the attention. She just wants to sit back and enjoy people comment on a figment of her imagination on "linda ikeji blog". I think people are now trying to turn this blog to nollywood script writers testing ground..Linda pls beware.
ReplyDeleteU need to report to pple ur step dad or ur mum respect
ReplyDeleteDon't you have any other relatives again in this life? Must u stay in that house? B www.theparot.com, read, comment, bare your mind on the side talk section.
ReplyDeleteI strongly believe her for kids dont lie about such. All you unbelievers are the reason while she has been dying in silence because to her nobody will believe her not even her mum. You only want to see her face,what for? to have a field laugh. Lina please find her and keep her identity anonymous.
ReplyDeleteYou are actually really extremely wise here.....Your decision not to put the man's pic online is wisdom..who knows, someone may be trying to frame up the man...
ReplyDeletealthough, most news agencies abroad wouldn't post the man's picture either unless a judge has found him guilty...but your decision to not put his pic is wise..
She needs to report to an NGO Asap! I wonder what type of world we live I̶̲̥̅̊n̶̲̥̅̊ today.
ReplyDeleteSweetheart,I want u to be strong! Ok? I know u hAve gone via lot,I know.I know how it feels too cos I hAve being Dere.my mom's boyfriends were always after me.was only 16 too and wenever I summoned d courage to tell her,she would beat and abuse me for days.I saw hell.she said I was after dem.n not dem after me.I endured.I prayed,I fasted.wasn't always easy cos I bought rat poison to kill myself one time buh I got home n changed my mind.sometimes she threw me out in d middle of night for an offence like not washing plates on time or seeing a stain on her clothes I washed.I held fast.dose nights she threw me out,strangers accommodated me for d night n dat was so scary cos I didn't know dem and was innocent.n feared being raped.I couldn't tell anyone Wat was going on though all our neighbours saw and knew.my dad was an only child so didn't hAve any aunty or uncle to turn to.I prayed.for GOd to liberate me.d tot of my late dad n my brothers must hAve made me change my mind about killing myself twicemy dad loved me and I always wanted to do him proud..and many years later,I am now happily married wIt 3 kids to a wonderful man.so sweetie,it might be raining now,buh d sun wil still shine.trust me.I hAve being Dere n my heart is broken.I can also take u in,say for 6 months til u figure what to do.let me know through Linda.for now ,I wil remain Mrs A.
ReplyDeleteAnd Linda,I understand why she didn't send pic of herself.dis is an abused girl.and stil only a child!what does she know? And again we r forgetting d stigma of such things.I hAve being Dere and many people don't know d kind of hell I lived in.I only started talking about it just about a couple of years back and to just my hubby and a friend or two.it's neverr easy dear...never easy.
Anyways i have seen lots of this cases.i have even seen a father that impregnated his own daugther some where in ikorodu. but for real this is the highest level of gross irresponsibility. the man should be arrested!! Insane!!
ReplyDeleteREPORT TO NAPTIP. Info@naptip.gov.ng or call 07030000203
ReplyDeleteWho knows mayb the woman is nt sexual type n use her daughter as hlping hand to avoid d man goin outside. You know things're happning
ReplyDelete~CYNTHIA~ commenting from my TOYOTA CRICKET
The type of comments and curses people write on this blog and still mention God is absurd. By this u'll know people are just wicked and can equally do what the alledged man did, If u believe in God you won't lay abuses or curses on someone with wicked comments on top. if God liked wickedness he wouldn't send his son to die for us he would hv wiped us all out. Pls my dears learn how to hold ur tongue so that u will be redemmed and not cursed #PEACE#
ReplyDeleteBeat her with marks that the wife would see? Something is fishy about this story.
ReplyDeleteGo and buy a small jack knife (about 150 naira) ... Put it inside ur pocket. When he tried to bug u next time, give his neck a bite with it.
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Linda dont mind this liar she said that she cannot even remember how many times they had sex with him, why is she still going back to him if she doesn't like it? let her change style abeg
ReplyDeleteClear case of attention seeker. Why did she refuse to submit her photo but was able to submit the photo of her alleged abuser. I won't be surprise if she is not using this blog to play on Nigerians emotions or better still get back at his alleged abuser for other issues and calls it sex offender.
ReplyDeleteWell, run away my dear. It is risky being in that house...please.
ReplyDeleteHi Linda,
ReplyDeleteI will like to plead with you to please ask the girl if it is ok to give her number to an NGO.
Let the NGOs contact and rescue her directly. Her mother is afraid of losing this marriage so she doesn't care about her daughter.
nt enuf evidence
ReplyDeleteMrs A....ur good.
ReplyDeleteThe 16yr old kid...be strong...and hope to see u shine
please public, let us not take this story with levity, what ever we can do to help this teenage will go along way before the mum and the evil man of God kill this little girl.this prophet is another Boko Haram within us.this issue should be blown open.
ReplyDeleteLinda, you made a good call. If you put the man's picture up, and he sues or anything happens to him who will you say sent such information to you?
ReplyDeleteLet the girl in question come out and identify herself or go to the authorities with her story, and let true justice be done. If the story is false, a young girl who hates her step father, you will be in trouble. Again you made the right decision (ask your lawyer).
Linda if dis story is really true pls reach me on apeace762@gmail.com.
ReplyDeleteLinda if dis story is really true pls reach me on apeace762@gmail.com.
ReplyDeleteWhen i was 17 my sisters husband almost tried something like diswith me.. i reported to other members of my family but as they were far away frm us .. they culdnt do anything but pleaded i dnt tell my sister so her marriage wont break.. at some point i culdnt hold it any more i told my sister ... funny enough she didnt belive me and was not in good terms with me for almost 4yrs.. after 4 long years of her calling me a home breaker and all sorts of names .. he exposed himself long story and she found out the truth.. till today my sister never apologised to me, but gave an excuse of how i shuld have told her earlier weather she belived me or not @least God believed me.. and i laugh.. at least i stopped it by moving out of my sister's place for this young girl ders no doubt in my mind dat shez nt believed.. and shez probably helpless.. so so sad what out men have turned into
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