Dear LIB readers: I hate the way my girlfriend dresses...
From a male LIB reader
I so much hate the way my girlfriend dresses. I've complained over and over again but it seems I'm not getting through to her. She doesn't think a woman can be sexy without showing body parts. Her clothes are skimpy, trashy and disgusting. They are all either too short, too tight, breast on display, her favourite are transparent clothes. Those kinds of clothes are fine if you're standing on the streets but not when you are going out with your man. I get very uncomfortable when we go out. She likes all the attention she gets from people when we go out but I am embarrassed. I do not want to be seen in public with a girl dressed that way but because I care a lot about her I still haven't broken up with her. What can I do about this lady? I really want her in my life. Minus the dressing, everything else about her is perfect. My kind of woman. Please advise.
One good thing about relationship, is that ur woman can be watever u want her to be, and ur man can be watever u want him to be, just correct, him/her, a woman or man DAT love u will listen, and will adjust to please u
The girl @ the display is so Catchy!!! But she needs some clothes...@Poster, let her knw u dislike her attire and if she persist, take the available wheel and go your way!
it sounds like that what was attracted you to her in the first place, why do you want her to change now? people always think they can change others... just leave her alone and take her as she comes lil miss sexy
My broda u don't av much of a choice, if she doesn't want 2 listen to u. Walk away from d relationship. She shud respect ur opinion dats why it called courtship
she does nt love u, cos if she does she will do wt mkes u happy....nd she wont want other guys attention cos dts d obvious reason she wears those trashy clothes #BeWise
What yu are to do ryt, simple... Tell her directly yu dont like the cloths she is wearing. When i said directly i meant with words and action but concentrate more on the action..... But seriously, u are in a way encouraging her, bcos u go out with her in public when she is wearing the cloth.... Just avoid going out with her anytym she wears such cloth, blieve me, she myt change..... . . ***CURRENTLY IN THE SUN***
Dude, sit her down and explain how you truly feel about her dressing. I'm sure if she knew her wardrobe could jeopardise a potential marriage, she'll change. Besides, have you considered financing her wardrobe change..? ;)
I quite feel your pain broda,in as much as I'll love my gf to dress sexy and good. revealing sensitive parts of her body is a no no. To me my gf should be someone that is qualified to walk down the aisle with me in no distant time and not living for the moment kinda girl.
Slap the fuck outta her or pay some dude to sexual abuse her when you not there or sit down and talk to her or gather some guys to attack her and pretend they want to rape her (so many ways) THINK! Infact call her mama and papa. ♥
Dats a tough 1, if u say she's perfect in all other areas but in dressing she's zero den stop talking out for occassions maybe dat will make her retink..
Perhaps you should pray about it. If she dresses that bad and you've complained and she's not listening, maybe she's not for you? This is 2014 I wonder why people are still going all out to be sexy by being almost nude. You can be covered and still get it. Just pray.
Next time u ve to go out with her and she dresses in decently, jabo her... tell her point blank she can't go with u dressed like that and go alone, don't even tell her to go change. if u do that to her 3x and she really loves u she will cover up when next she's going out with u
Does she dress that way when u guys first meet If yes......I won't mind u burning all d clothes in her presence. Then take out for shopping and buy clothes for her.........if she still doesn't listen to u. Tell her to chose either u or the way she dresses....if she chose d way she dresses that means she doesn't love u anymore.
Come nd date me ill wear gown, wrappers nd hijab's 4 u. No be wetin she wear wen u c her say u like her? Abi 4 d ist few weeks nd months of d realationship u no notice her dress sense??? My guy u like wetin u c na I'm u enter, so u either dey dere or comot abi dem tie ur placenta dere?
Dude what is your problem?...if everything else is good den enjoy having a lady who enjoys being sexy around you...if she wanna look trashy people can look and talk but thats all...stop letting it get to you afterall didnt you see how she dressed before you asked her out?
Guy keep talking τ̅o her one day she realize what you я telling her sexy doesn't mean when your expose your body it means the way you parkage your self. A̶̲̥̅♏ happy one I love looking sexy but not expose M̶̲̅y body it all about parkageing, keep talking guy she change one day
Eeeek !!didnt she dress dis way b4 u started dating her ?u knw u weren't going to b comfortable wit her dress sense but u still shuk head !! Wat most pple fail to understand is dat u cant change somebody frm dier normal way of lyf bcos ur nw dating!!! deal with it
Sit her ass down and talk to her, if she doesn't listen then it's either u leave or live with it shaken!!! If she loves you for real she will listen but if not then she's not afraid of losing you so you know where you stand... Linda I still love you tho - Baby face
Hehehe , did you not see this before you asked her out? But true some girls just want attention and want to be the best dressed everywhere so u don't avert your eyes at other women and enjoy the comments your friends give, try taking her to the mall, and Single handedly pick and Buy the decent tops and dresses there, and still pass your message that you would want her to wear that on a Particular date or this when coming to ur place, she should understand clearly...if not, take a break, if she is willing to change she will come back, if Not set her free to keep exposing and carrying out her jezebel moves, she will find what she's looking for.
Propose to her. Facts has proven that when human's take up responsibility it tend to change them. Either for good or for bad. If you really like her, that is one risk I advise you take.
Pray for her. We more often than not underestimate the power of Prayer. Book a date and Take her to someone she truly admires to talk with her while u are not there
Pray for her. We more often than not underestimate the power of Prayer. Book a date and Take her to someone she truly admires to talk with her while u are not there
Eeya...kpele o. Talk to her well...tell her hw serious u wnt to get wit her and hw her dressing is d only thing u dislike abt her.Pray abt it too .God'll help u to change her.
If she doesn't change,...u might choose to cope wit it since u love every other thing abt her.
I guess she's still a kid, that's d effect of Dstv and social media, they all wanna belong. If she truly loves u 2 and respects u, she Sud change her dressing. I can c u truly luv her, some girls these days don't know what dev got til it's gon, d funi tin is that if u end it wit her, her next guy wud just c her as a fuckin tool bcos the way u dress in front of a guy matas , if her new guy now starts demanding for sex , she wud start sayin d guy just wanna sex me but that's what she portrays . Young girls pls hold on to d guy that truly luvs u bcos love is sooooo difficult these days. Guys just wanna fuck and run. If d girl is reading this now, pls change. I made the same mistake wen I was young and an paying for it now. Am a pretty like model but guys don't take me serious after some months of dating . I lost the very guy that truly loved me. True love comes once in a life time , that's if u are lucky. Guys don't send if u are very pretty these days bcos cheap pretty girls are everywhere these days and more are still coming up. I lost my bf 8 yrs ago , nw am 28. Still searching for a good heart. I hv money nw but trust me am nt just happy and I regret livin him
Hmmmm! Sad tho.. I think if she really loves and cares for you she should cut down on all those excesses. My girl friend ususally loved skimpy, eye poppoing mini-skirts and stuff like that and I made her realise real women dress classy not sexxy. Unless you're still searching. You can't come to my parents home for visits dressed like that. She listened and apologised and said 'cos she truly loved me , respected my judgement she was gonna change. A year passed she still looked that way plus being a fly dude I told her I was gonna call it quit. She cried her eyeballs out, went to her room packed up all (I mean) all her skimpy and mini stuff and handed it over to me to be burnt(that of cos meant that I hadda take her shopping to get decent outfit) she called later on and asked if I had burnt 'em I said I was about to. She said burning them isn't an issue as she had made up her mind by surrendering all of 'em but when we get married won't I mind having her wear them indoors for only me? That ws some hardcore question so I told her when we get to that bridge we gonna cross it. Truth is, men don't mind having their spouse looking erotic indoors for them but outside the buiilding is a complete No! No! Besides it was her dress sense that also tickled your fancy among other things as u said that's the only issue. So in my suggestion , if she loves and respects u be a man and do the needful. Unless, it will cause trouble in the nearest future. Trust me, we men have some randy friends who will begin to make passes @ her and that forsure u won't like. My dear, draw the line!
That is the problem most of the girls are having these days, they felt that over exposing means being sexy. Since you love her so much, you can sit her down and talk to her about it and how disgusting you feel about the whole thing. Just try and mold her to what you want since you are toeing the right part. Samsung for the first time shuns Android OS in their latest device just unveiled
This is totally unGodly,hw on earth wld a lady walk the streets like this,Men wld only look at u jst to satisfy there eyes n still laff at u dear.ur body is the temple of God and so shld be well kept.
Have a heart to heart with her now (pls don't call her trashy while you're at it), choose your words carefully. Let her understand how it makes you feel and more so why at this point in her life she doesn't need the type of attention dressing like that brings...
This is totally unGodly,hw on earth wld a lady walk the streets like this,Men wld only look at u jst to satisfy there eyes n still laff at u dear.ur body is the temple of God and so shld be well kept.
One last thing.... Probably her age also gotta do with it. A matured, marriage ready, God fearing Nigerian lady who attends church with u won't dress seduactively. Who is she tryna seduce? Think with ur head not ur dick...
Mhen my guy Ur on a very long thing I tell u. why is she dressing to get all that attention from other men if she doesn't want to go to bed with dem? See am 100% sure that Ur not the only guy that she is fucking. #FACT
sit her down n just tell her all u said here. Hw u feel abt it.let her knw u want somthing serious out of d r/ship. if she is ready 2 be a wife she will improve. be ready 2 change her wardrobe tho.
Kpel,she needs fashion police,pple dat think they dressin gud when actually the r makin pple disrespect dem,my own question 2 u what attracted her 2 u?was it her body?or her dressing?did u meet her like dat?den u hav 2 give her conditions she has 2 change or u guys can't b no more or take her shopin nd select tins u want her 2 b wearin.
Break up with her, and tell her d reason is d way she dresses, if she really wants u then she would change and if she leaves, then u guys are prolly not meant to be
your woman is an attention whore and will do anything for it.These types do not change as they derive their self confidence from all the attention and feeling like the hottest female specimen on the planet.She has deeper image and self esteem issues she should deal with.I know a 35 and a 48 or something year old that behaves this way.I gathered from our interactions, they grew up being put down and severely criticised by their own mothers in favor of their ²perfect ² sisters and so the attention gathered from skimpy dressing makes them feel worthy and precious.Take time to know her backdround and relationship with her mom.
This is totally unGodly,hw on earth wld a lady walk the streets like this,Men wld only look at u jst to satisfy there eyes n still laff at u dear.ur body is the temple of God and so shld be well kept.
Keep loving her for who she is...obviously she has a low self esteem about her looks so all u need do is to keep reassuring her about her pretty she is....she will change......#SeunLondon
Take her to Jeannie Mai on how do I look *StylTv* maybe then she will know how horrifying she looks in those clothes. Else u just gotta manage, maybe wen u marry her n she goes to d pain of pregnancy she'll respect her body as a woman she is. BGM
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Chichidodo is a name of a bird which loathes excretion with passion, but only feeds on maggots which interestingly grow healthy in the lavatory. So brotherly u say she is ur kind of woman and yet u detaste her way of dressing? Wow!
Burn all them clothes yu don't want and take her for shopping.she can still be sexy and appealing without showing off her assests.am sure she will change.
Its only a matter of time before she starts cheating. Mine started like that and I complained but later kept quiet, until I found out she was cheating. Once you notice these early flaws which she doesn't wanna change, kindly leave her now oo bcuz u might end up crying later. I am telling you from experience. No responsible woman will wanna dress half naked when she is not looking for something outside.
I will advise u still talk to her and also pray for her,bcos dis will conderm ur image as a person and people will tink u are nt talking to her,pls be patient wit her,if she den refuse. Threaten her and tell her u will leave her,if she still pay deaf ears bros go ur way oh,bcos she will bring bad name to u and I don't tink u can introduce dis kind of person to ur family as a wife u want to marry,so be wise and look well,there are many other girls wit dis kind of material u are looking for in a woman,so take ur time and tink
Here's what my boyfriend did to me one day. He showed up for a date looking like a motor park tout!His jeans were so dirty and the shirt he wore was brownish white and a bit undersize.There were other good looking couples at the spot and I knew people were wondering what a girl like me was doing with a tout.I was embarrased beyond words.I didn't even hide it. He totally spoilt my evening that day. Later, when I complained, he made me understand that was exactly how he felt each time I dressed like a mini prostitute. He really passed the message across to me. Perhaps you could try it with your girl. Embarass her too with your dressing. If she has any brain in her head, she will get the message. Thanks.
Mehnn u jst av 2talk 2her if she truly luvs,she wud change..dnt rili c y she shud b exposin her body especially wen goin out wif u..she can dress decent nd stil luk sexy
Grow up, if you are not happy, you can always leave her and move on with your life- nobody asked you to stay with a woman who dresses in a trashy manner. I'm taking it you are already have sex with her as well? No wonder you can't stand her dressing! But quit complaining, man up, dump the trash and move on!!!
Hmmm,you have to make her see reasons with you.Let her know d way she dresses makes you feel uncomfortable & embarrassed....Let her know you really wanna spend d rest of ur life with her,maybe she feels you aint serious or somefin,PROPOSE to her.......Make her feel ur love,she'll change.
Maybe unlike u, she's nt ready to settle down else she won't be seeking other men's attention wen she has urs. U shud ask her wat she rily wants, u or d skimpy clothes n attention from other men.
This is what I call gobe... Some guys out there are on a look out for that kinda person, but wait ooo nor be like so she dey dress wen u met her so why then are you complaining now?
Threaten to break up with her or was she like dat when u met her? If not then try 2 talk sense 2 her cos if she wears things like dat what is she going 2 impact on ur children, tell her 2 portray moral and decency
No be yhr woman? U shd knw hw 2 penetrate her. Me dunno d kinda advice u wnt frm us o.... except she dsnt feel d same way u feel abt her odawise, u are d man in d relathnship and u shd show dt u are d man!!!
please leave her for me...am joking! but our elders have said that dog that chooses to get lost would never hear a haunters' whistle. dude, you should move on her bride price has reduced
Some ladies are just so in love with themselves that they've lost every sense of respect for others. Am. Not sure if the girl in the pic is the girl in question, but there are limits to these things now!!!! Seems she's sick of the limits though....nice body,but no shame.. @kunledosunmu
I fink, dressing like dat makes her comfortable.. And also she's an attention seeker... I don't fink she has any bad thought 4 her to b putting on such clothes...she jus feel relaxed and she expresses herself by puttin on such clothes, buh it up to you to handle her, put her in the right part, talk to her, let her know you r always embarrassed whenever she dresses like dat.. Let her know u don't like her mode of dressing, and also put her in prayers, and I pray God changes/touches her... And if she doesn't stop/change, u can end the relationship, cos if you mistakenly marry her, the marriage won't last, cos there will b lot of argument and misunderstanding...
Since you aren't getting through to her and she care less about any opinion you might have,let her be and find you an obedient and decently dressed woman
Bros, if u really don't like the way ur girl dresses and After so Much complain she refused to change. there are two things involved, is either u comply with her or u call it quite. Shekana! ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
If evry oda tin is perfect den U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt have a problem,make her see reasons why is neccesary 4 her 2 cover up properly as a woman,keep tellin her,dnt give up on her!U̶̲̥̅̊ dat girl sef,ah ah
If u trully luv her and u wnt 2 spend d rest of ur life with her ,call her 2 oder, if she didn't change den pick a fight wiv her, pretend as if u breakin up wiv her, den wait &c her reactions may be she can change tru dat if she luvs u
You sound confused and insecure man! Did I hear you say your kind of woman? A woman that hardens her heart to your voice of reason is perfect!? Man, deal with it.
Quit going out with her then, since you say you are embarrassed by her way of dressing. Seems you have not really instilled it enough in her. By the time she dresses like you say and you end up leaving her behind, I think she will really understand it. Cos she too gives you a bad name seeing her in your company.
Naija men kill me. So when you were toasting her and following her around you did not know. You were probably attracted to her show of skin and overlooked the decent dressers. The typical thing is you all get someone with the intent that they will change (women do it too sha).
You saw her that way and went for her cos you think she's sexy... Well,since you complained and its not getting to her,don't complain again..TALK TO HER..heart to heart... What you feel and what damage it can cause in the relationship(maybe you opting out),then if she no come change,my guy just leave her like that or you break it off for real telling her your reason... Shhhhhhhh*looks around *...you can go to her house and burn those clothes and get her classy but yet sexy clothes....she go just vex daz'all then you kiss and make up....lol
Dis is an issue of serious concern. However, set examples 4 her by buying d kinds of clothes u like, also choose d clothes she wears when u r goin out 2geda.
Talk to her about it and make her see reasons why trashy clothes are a big no no.... bcos am very sure u've never talked to her about it before.... try it and u will be amazed.... ok coming from another girl u can take her shopping and buy her classy, sophisticated yet sexy clothes #winks.... good luck
Maybe you need to sit down with her quietly and have a heart to heart. if she still doesn't listen, maybe she really doesn't care what you think and does not see a future with you cos if she knows how it makes you feel, then she should reason with you. What attention is she looking for if you're giving her all the attention she needs. Or does she want to add ashawo to her job description? If she won't change, I advise you to take a break from the relationship. Both of y'all figure out what you want from there cos I don't see how you can spend the rest of your life with a woman who does not regard you or has absolutely no respect for you dressing in such a shameful manner.
I seriously don't understand why some women like to show so much flesh. What do they really gain from it? Any way dude if u intend marrying her and u are not comfortable with it lay ur cards on the table let her know u don't like her dress sense. Well if she choose not to change n u can manage torr, but I won't advice u to manage in a relationship or marraige. Sweet anonymous.
Com na by force plnty decent women dey out der dey lok 4 who go lv dem u dey mumu urslf huh.u nvr fill embarrased no leav r u hear stay mk u dey hunt 4 advice.
you really need to sit her down and talk sense into her head, if she also cares about you and doesn't want to lose you as well, i beleive she would listen and change gradually.
To be candid with U, u the man, u should know perfectly how to run ur home, study her weak point, study her flaws, get in to her through that, am sure she'll listen to U, plead wif her, I won't advice u to break up wif her because u don't know what the next girl u wanna date might do, just stick to her. And I pray for a Fruitful result.
Lol, there are certain things about a person that cannot be changed. I'm guessing when you met her she dressed like that. You shouldn't try and change her now you are together. Accept her for who she is.
Sally p said give correction in love n some day it will get tru to her.my advice to you is to take her on a suprise shopping to change her wardrope....if she dosent change then u just av 2 accept her the way she is.that's wot love is abt...
Your story touches me, I feel for you bro. keep talking to her, advice her the more since she's your kind of woman means she's perfect for you, don't give up on her since she enjoy the attention she gets from people and you feel even with that she's still a good girl and wife material. Keep advising/praying for her, she will change before jesus comes....I see no reason why a woman should expose her body.
Lol..when there are men out there searching for girls they can show off with. Some guy is here lamenting on the way his, dresses..maybe you should go for girlfriend swap..this is very funny need to go update this on my blog and see replies.
In likes der must be ones u can do witout.....u can't get a perfect woman or man but der re ones u can tolerate....since wat she can't do witout is wat u can't tolerate My dear Bounce..... Cos dressing issue is an every day tin....
Am sure she was dressed like that the very first you met her, but you did not mind her dressing. Why not continue that not minding what she puts on, then may be by the time she has one or two issue/issues she will change. If not you keep bearing with her. No human is perfect. You can not get every thing you desire in a person.
Guy chop sugarcane jor. Her dressing wasn't a problem when you met her abi now insecurity wan kill you dey complain lolz... why you nor go look for Gf for deeper life church ode..
Wasn't this the kind of dress she wore the first day you saw her and asked her out? I guess she should be more than 15years, and she haven't seen anything wrong with her dressing. Guy for now allow her be herself till it's dawn on her to change. And please don,t tell her to choose from her dressing and you because that will be selfish jor. Manage am or back out for love.
My frnd u jst hav 2 be diplomatic wit wat u want, 4 d fact dat u dnt lyk d way she dresses u shuld go ahead and mak her change her dress sense, but if she refuses 2 change, I guess u shuld quit
It is well, take her the way she is, there is always a key to a womans hrt, take uym to knw her key, take ur tym to talk to her, if she rili care abt u as well, she wil definitely change.
Wasn't that what caught your attention when you first saw her? Or did she just start dressing this way after you met her? OK so why don't you try dressing her up the way u would like by buying her clothes? You could take it gradually - not move instantly into granny mode.
Wasn't that what caught your attention when you first saw her? Or did she just start dressing this way after you met her? OK so why don't you try dressing her up the way u would like by buying her clothes? You could take it gradually - not move instantly into granny mode.
Wasn't that what caught your attention when you first saw her? Or did she just start dressing this way after you met her? OK so why don't you try dressing her up the way u would like by buying her clothes? You could take it gradually - not move instantly into granny mode.
If she's still hawking her commodities,then she doesnt have a customer yet. From a woman's point of view,that girl isnt yours cos who's she still trying to be sexy for if really,you're her man?
Wowwwww dis babe rily hav som nice curve nd she is showin it 2 d world in her own sexy way. But she looks like a hooker, a night worker but a vry sexy 1
@poster there's notin we can do abt dat o,buh there r 2 tins u can do abt dat 1- talk 2 her n let her knw how u feel abt her way of dressing, u shd give her genuine reasons n not jst dat u don't like it. Afterall u met her dat way 2- go shopping 4 her, go buy her very fine n sexy clothes dat doesn't look trashy,n mk her see dat sexy clothes can look decent,sofar u nor buy her "mama tie me belt"lol Good luck
U want someone dat dont listen to u in ur life??I dont know wat i will tel u,but be very careful wit her and always pray for her since u like her very much.watch it!
U want someone dat dont listen to u in ur life??I dont know wat i will tel u,but be very careful wit her and always pray for her since u like her very much.watch it!
Talk to her about it and if she doesn't listen to u, then she's not submissive and there's no point still dating her. You can talk to someone to speak to her too.
My candid advice 2 u is this: tell her 2 move in with u, wen she does that, @Night wen she is sleeping, bring out all those nonsense she calls clothes, set them ablaze (all of them) then take her 2 a matured boutique d next day she shop 4 proper clothes with under ur supervision, also get a professional stylist who will complete d magic. Women remember, LESS IS MORE, THRASHY IS SLUTTY, AINT SEXY.
My guy when you met her was she dressing like that? Is that what attracted you to her? So why did you think it will change all of a sudden because she is with you now?
Its not the dressing, its the mind set. She has to understand that she's beautiful without does clothes because she really is. May God help you o, pray for her dow.
Maybe you should go shopping on her behalf, buy her stuff you like that are decent and classy and very flattering for her figure, compliment her when she tries them on and tell how how perfect she looks in them... That'd most likely encourage her to dress more decently
You are in a Relationship with her. You are not Married yet.. If she is not willing to change.. Then you can take a walk.. Is not by force cause that's who she is..
So before u asked her out did u not know she dressed d way she dressed? Abeg u either leave her or pipe dwn, u Cnt have everything....deal wit it or go as she no wan chng.
One good thing about relationship, is that ur woman can be watever u want her to be, and ur man can be watever u want him to be, just correct, him/her, a woman or man DAT love u will listen, and will adjust to please u
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The girl @ the display is so Catchy!!! But she needs some clothes...@Poster, let her knw u dislike her attire and if she persist, take the available wheel and go your way!
ReplyDeleteShe needs to take her meds.....
ReplyDeleteDidn't you meet her that way? Now shut up
ReplyDeleteit sounds like that what was attracted you to her in the first place, why do you want her to change now? people always think they can change others... just leave her alone and take her as she comes lil miss sexy
ReplyDeleteUr best is not enough try more she wil stop dat kind of dressing
ReplyDeleteKeep voicing ur discomfort till she listens since u can't leave her... some pple's ides of being sexy tho... different strokes for different folks
ReplyDeleteGive me her no make I help u talk to her.
ReplyDeleteMy broda u don't av much of a choice, if she doesn't want 2 listen to u. Walk away from d relationship. She shud respect ur opinion dats why it called courtship
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ReplyDeleteŸ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ don't have choice rather dan to give her break almost 3 months, ℓ̊ think she will change...
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ReplyDeleteIf you don't like it... Talk to her about it.... If she doesn't change.... Break up the relationship
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she does nt love u, cos if she does she will do wt mkes u happy....nd she wont want other guys attention cos dts d obvious reason she wears those trashy clothes #BeWise
ReplyDeleteWhat yu are to do ryt, simple... Tell her directly yu dont like the cloths she is wearing. When i said directly i meant with words and action but concentrate more on the action..... But seriously, u are in a way encouraging her, bcos u go out with her in public when she is wearing the cloth.... Just avoid going out with her anytym she wears such cloth, blieve me, she myt change.....
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Didn't u knw b4 u strted datin ha?abeg mke we hear wrd jare
ReplyDeleteDude, sit her down and explain how you truly feel about her dressing. I'm sure if she knew her wardrobe could jeopardise a potential marriage, she'll change. Besides, have you considered financing her wardrobe change..? ;)
ReplyDeleteI quite feel your pain broda,in as much as I'll love my gf to dress sexy and good. revealing sensitive parts of her body is a no no.
ReplyDeleteTo me my gf should be someone that is qualified to walk down the aisle with me in no distant time and not living for the moment kinda girl.
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Man, u just spoke my mind!!..but i already broke up with the gurl..
ReplyDeleteSlap the fuck outta her or pay some dude to sexual abuse her when you not there or sit down and talk to her or gather some guys to attack her and pretend they want to rape her (so many ways) THINK! Infact call her mama and papa. ♥
ReplyDeletedont be a fool....the handwriting is on the wall, you better leave her.
ReplyDeleteDats a tough 1, if u say she's perfect in all other areas but in dressing she's zero den stop talking out for occassions maybe dat will make her retink..
ReplyDeleteU got 2 tolerate it buddy. I think datz d only tin dat gives her joy provided she doesnt cheat on u.
ReplyDeletePerhaps you should pray about it. If she dresses that bad and you've complained and she's not listening, maybe she's not for you? This is 2014 I wonder why people are still going all out to be sexy by being almost nude. You can be covered and still get it. Just pray.
ReplyDeleteThreaten her wif breakup, mayb she'll change.
ReplyDeleteKip advicing ha still she stops.......
ReplyDeletePray for her
ReplyDeleteThen leave her for your type cos u CAN'T change her.
ReplyDeleteNext time u ve to go out with her and she dresses in decently, jabo her... tell her point blank she can't go with u dressed like that and go alone, don't even tell her to go change. if u do that to her 3x and she really loves u she will cover up when next she's going out with u
ReplyDeleteDoes she dress that way when u guys first meet
ReplyDeleteIf yes......I won't mind u burning all d clothes in her presence.
Then take out for shopping and buy clothes for her.........if she still doesn't listen to u. Tell her to chose either u or the way she dresses....if she chose d way she dresses that means she doesn't love u anymore.
Come nd date me ill wear gown, wrappers nd hijab's 4 u. No be wetin she wear wen u c her say u like her? Abi 4 d ist few weeks nd months of d realationship u no notice her dress sense??? My guy u like wetin u c na I'm u enter, so u either dey dere or comot abi dem tie ur placenta dere?
ReplyDeleteDude what is your problem?...if everything else is good den enjoy having a lady who enjoys being sexy around you...if she wanna look trashy people can look and talk but thats all...stop letting it get to you afterall didnt you see how she dressed before you asked her out?
ReplyDeleteGuy keep talking τ̅o her one day she realize what you я telling her sexy doesn't mean when your expose your body it means the way you parkage your self. A̶̲̥̅♏ happy one I love looking sexy but not expose M̶̲̅y body it all about parkageing, keep talking guy she change one day
ReplyDeleteEeeek !!didnt she dress dis way b4 u started dating her ?u knw u weren't going to b comfortable wit her dress sense but u still shuk head !! Wat most pple fail to understand is dat u cant change somebody frm dier normal way of lyf bcos ur nw dating!!! deal with it
ReplyDeleteSit her ass down and talk to her, if she doesn't listen then it's either u leave or live with it shaken!!! If she loves you for real she will listen but if not then she's not afraid of losing you so you know where you stand... Linda I still love you tho
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Nah one u go take oh...brossince she doesn't want to change, nah so she go dey dress if u marry her..
ReplyDeleteYou met her like that....so why complain now
ReplyDeleteu Will be the first to complain when u marry her and she starts dressing matronly...
ReplyDeleteHehehe , did you not see this before you asked her out? But true some girls just want attention and want to be the best dressed everywhere so u don't avert your eyes at other women and enjoy the comments your friends give, try taking her to the mall, and Single handedly pick and Buy the decent tops and dresses there, and still pass your message that you would want her to wear that on a Particular date or this when coming to ur place, she should understand clearly...if not, take a break, if she is willing to change she will come back, if Not set her free to keep exposing and carrying out her jezebel moves, she will find what she's looking for.
ReplyDeleteSimply buy her the kind of cloths you what her to wear.
ReplyDeleteTake all of me. .. or have nine of me!
ReplyDeletePropose to her.
ReplyDeleteFacts has proven that when human's take up responsibility it tend to change them. Either for good or for bad. If you really like her, that is one risk I advise you take.
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But you saw her like that and approached her. Why do you wanna change her now? What you don't wanna eat, don't take it close to your nose.
ReplyDeleteWas she dressing like that when you met her? If so, then you can't teach old dog new trick. Break up or learn to live with the way she dresses.
ReplyDeleteTalk to her that if she is not ready to change Ɣ☺u'll break up with her cos Ɣ☺u hate bitches.... Talk to her&her response will let Ɣ☺u know what to do
ReplyDeletePray for her. We more often than not underestimate the power of Prayer.
ReplyDeleteBook a date and Take her to someone she truly admires to talk with her while u are not there
Talk to her. If she no gree i beg port
ReplyDeletePray for her. We more often than not underestimate the power of Prayer.
ReplyDeleteBook a date and Take her to someone she truly admires to talk with her while u are not there
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ReplyDeleteTalk to her well...tell her hw serious u wnt to get wit her and hw her dressing is d only thing u dislike abt her.Pray abt it too .God'll help u to change her.
If she doesn't change,...u might choose to cope wit it since u love every other thing abt her.
Was that how you saw her when u asked her out.at least you must have seen her a couple of times
ReplyDeleteI guess she's still a kid, that's d effect of Dstv and social media, they all wanna belong. If she truly loves u 2 and respects u, she Sud change her dressing. I can c u truly luv her, some girls these days don't know what dev got til it's gon, d funi tin is that if u end it wit her, her next guy wud just c her as a fuckin tool bcos the way u dress in front of a guy matas , if her new guy now starts demanding for sex , she wud start sayin d guy just wanna sex me but that's what she portrays . Young girls pls hold on to d guy that truly luvs u bcos love is sooooo difficult these days. Guys just wanna fuck and run. If d girl is reading this now, pls change. I made the same mistake wen I was young and an paying for it now. Am a pretty like model but guys don't take me serious after some months of dating . I lost the very guy that truly loved me. True love comes once in a life time , that's if u are lucky. Guys don't send if u are very pretty these days bcos cheap pretty girls are everywhere these days and more are still coming up. I lost my bf 8 yrs ago , nw am 28. Still searching for a good heart. I hv money nw but trust me am nt just happy and I regret livin him
ReplyDeleteHmmmm! Sad tho.. I think if she really loves and cares for you she should cut down on all those excesses. My girl friend ususally loved skimpy, eye poppoing mini-skirts and stuff like that and I made her realise real women dress classy not sexxy. Unless you're still searching. You can't come to my parents home for visits dressed like that. She listened and apologised and said 'cos she truly loved me , respected my judgement she was gonna change. A year passed she still looked that way plus being a fly dude I told her I was gonna call it quit. She cried her eyeballs out, went to her room packed up all (I mean) all her skimpy and mini stuff and handed it over to me to be burnt(that of cos meant that I hadda take her shopping to get decent outfit) she called later on and asked if I had burnt 'em I said I was about to. She said burning them isn't an issue as she had made up her mind by surrendering all of 'em but when we get married won't I mind having her wear them indoors for only me? That ws some hardcore question so I told her when we get to that bridge we gonna cross it. Truth is, men don't mind having their spouse looking erotic indoors for them but outside the buiilding is a complete No! No! Besides it was her dress sense that also tickled your fancy among other things as u said that's the only issue. So in my suggestion , if she loves and respects u be a man and do the needful. Unless, it will cause trouble in the nearest future. Trust me, we men have some randy friends who will begin to make passes @ her and that forsure u won't like. My dear, draw the line!
ReplyDeleteThat is the problem most of the girls are having these days, they felt that over exposing means being sexy. Since you love her so much, you can sit her down and talk to her about it and how disgusting you feel about the whole thing. Just try and mold her to what you want since you are toeing the right part.
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This is totally unGodly,hw on earth wld a lady walk the streets like this,Men wld only look at u jst to satisfy there eyes n still laff at u dear.ur body is the temple of God and so shld be well kept.
ReplyDeleteHave a heart to heart with her now (pls don't call her trashy while you're at it), choose your words carefully. Let her understand how it makes you feel and more so why at this point in her life she doesn't need the type of attention dressing like that brings...
ReplyDeleteThis is totally unGodly,hw on earth wld a lady walk the streets like this,Men wld only look at u jst to satisfy there eyes n still laff at u dear.ur body is the temple of God and so shld be well kept.
ReplyDeleteOne last thing.... Probably her age also gotta do with it. A matured, marriage ready, God fearing Nigerian lady who attends church with u won't dress seduactively. Who is she tryna seduce? Think with ur head not ur dick...
ReplyDeleteMhen my guy Ur on a very long thing I tell u. why is she dressing to get all that attention from other men if she doesn't want to go to bed with dem? See am 100% sure that Ur not the only guy that she is fucking. #FACT
ReplyDeleteNa wa o! can someone be so bold to dress like dis! wahala wa!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteAm sure her mode of dressing attracted u then, y complaining now......it's either u let go or accept her like that
ReplyDeleteLeave her she go tire one day smh
ReplyDeleteHey God has made u beautiful so y show off all this huh. Men love ladies who r decent
ReplyDeleteDump d ashawolistic materialistic self centered uncultured wana-bee. Abi na
ReplyDeletesit her down n just tell her all u said here. Hw u feel abt it.let her knw u want somthing serious out of d r/ship. if she is ready 2 be a wife she will improve. be ready 2 change her wardrobe tho.
ReplyDeleteKpel,she needs fashion police,pple dat think they dressin gud when actually the r makin pple disrespect dem,my own question 2 u what attracted her 2 u?was it her body?or her dressing?did u meet her like dat?den u hav 2 give her conditions she has 2 change or u guys can't b no more or take her shopin nd select tins u want her 2 b wearin.
ReplyDeleteHow was she dressin b4 u approached her, #take several seats
ReplyDeleteBuy her the cloths you want her to wear anytime she is with you #Mankind
ReplyDeleteBreak up with her, and tell her d reason is d way she dresses, if she really wants u then she would change and if she leaves, then u guys are prolly not meant to be
ReplyDeleteTry d 'false breakup' see if she'll change to have u back.. If she doesn't, maybe she doesn't want u sef.
ReplyDeleteyour woman is an attention whore and will do anything for it.These types do not change as they derive their self confidence from all the attention and feeling like the hottest female specimen on the planet.She has deeper image and self esteem issues she should deal with.I know a 35 and a 48 or something year old that behaves this way.I gathered from our interactions, they grew up being put down and severely criticised by their own mothers in favor of their ²perfect ² sisters and so the attention gathered from skimpy dressing makes them feel worthy and precious.Take time to know her backdround and relationship with her mom.
ReplyDeleteThen she's nt a wife material.
ReplyDeleteIf ds is d way she dress...den lemme say she's sexy but nt CLASSY
ReplyDeleteThis is totally unGodly,hw on earth wld a lady walk the streets like this,Men wld only look at u jst to satisfy there eyes n still laff at u dear.ur body is the temple of God and so shld be well kept.
ReplyDeletewhat was she wearing when you met her and before you asked her out?
ReplyDeleteDear poster do the needful
ReplyDeletenever judge people by the thngs they wear .
ReplyDeleteKeep loving her for who she is...obviously she has a low self esteem about her looks so all u need do is to keep reassuring her about her pretty she is....she will change......#SeunLondon
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ReplyDeleteMay be she stand's on the street at night. If you want a girl that dresses well, dump her.
ReplyDeleteTry more 2 convince her! Change is constant!!!!!
ReplyDeleteTake her to Jeannie Mai on how do I look *StylTv* maybe then she will know how horrifying she looks in those clothes. Else u just gotta manage, maybe wen u marry her n she goes to d pain of pregnancy she'll respect her body as a woman she is. BGM
ReplyDeleteTry staying off her F☺я̩̥ A̶̲̥̅ while σηð̀́ when she ask why, just let her know you can be without her, with dǻ†̥ she might change βut if N̶̲̥̅̊Φt brother ǚ Ђά̲̣̣vέ Τ̅☺ carry ǚя̩̥ cross.
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Chichidodo is a name of a bird which loathes excretion with passion, but only feeds on maggots which interestingly grow healthy in the lavatory. So brotherly u say she is ur kind of woman and yet u detaste her way of dressing? Wow!
ReplyDeleteLeave the bones to the dogs except u want the flash and the bones all alone! Put ring on her hand and see a a big change in her life! Cya
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Burn all them clothes yu don't want and take her for shopping.she can still be sexy and appealing without showing off her assests.am sure she will change.
ReplyDeleteIts only a matter of time before she starts cheating. Mine started like that and I complained but later kept quiet, until I found out she was cheating. Once you notice these early flaws which she doesn't wanna change, kindly leave her now oo bcuz u might end up crying later. I am telling you from experience. No responsible woman will wanna dress half naked when she is not looking for something outside.
ReplyDeleteI will advise u still talk to her and also pray for her,bcos dis will conderm ur image as a person and people will tink u are nt talking to her,pls be patient wit her,if she den refuse. Threaten her and tell her u will leave her,if she still pay deaf ears bros go ur way oh,bcos she will bring bad name to u and I don't tink u can introduce dis kind of person to ur family as a wife u want to marry,so be wise and look well,there are many other girls wit dis kind of material u are looking for in a woman,so take ur time and tink
ReplyDeleteHere's what my boyfriend did to me one day. He showed up for a date looking like a motor park tout!His jeans were so dirty and the shirt he wore was brownish white and a bit undersize.There were other good looking couples at the spot and I knew people were wondering what a girl like me was doing with a tout.I was embarrased beyond words.I didn't even hide it. He totally spoilt my evening that day. Later, when I complained, he made me understand that was exactly how he felt each time I dressed like a mini prostitute. He really passed the message across to me.
ReplyDeletePerhaps you could try it with your girl. Embarass her too with your dressing. If she has any brain in her head, she will get the message. Thanks.
Did u just call her a lady? Lmao
ReplyDeleteTry changing her. Give her time and if she still doesn't change I guess Ɣø̲̣u just have to break up with her.
ReplyDeleteSexy....can she cum n visit me???!!lol
ReplyDeleteMehnn u jst av 2talk 2her if she truly luvs,she wud change..dnt rili c y she shud b exposin her body especially wen goin out wif u..she can dress decent nd stil luk sexy
ReplyDeleteGrow up, if you are not happy, you can always leave her and move on with your life- nobody asked you to stay with a woman who dresses in a trashy manner. I'm taking it you are already have sex with her as well? No wonder you can't stand her dressing! But quit complaining, man up, dump the trash and move on!!!
ReplyDeleteShe is def too young, retarded or a prostituute # gbam
ReplyDeleteHmmm,you have to make her see reasons with you.Let her know d way she dresses makes you feel uncomfortable & embarrassed....Let her know you really wanna spend d rest of ur life with her,maybe she feels you aint serious or somefin,PROPOSE to her.......Make her feel ur love,she'll change.
ReplyDeleteMaybe unlike u, she's nt ready to settle down else she won't be seeking other men's attention wen she has urs. U shud ask her wat she rily wants, u or d skimpy clothes n attention from other men.
ReplyDeleteThis is what I call gobe... Some guys out there are on a look out for that kinda person, but wait ooo nor be like so she dey dress wen u met her so why then are you complaining now?
ReplyDeleteExposin her body doesn't rili spik well of her,make her undastand..if rili luvs u,she wud stop since she kno u dnt lik it
ReplyDeleteKeep trying bro, someday she might change
ReplyDeleteThreaten to break up with her or was she like dat when u met her? If not then try 2 talk sense 2 her cos if she wears things like dat what is she going 2 impact on ur children, tell her 2 portray moral and decency
ReplyDeleteMy dear,all U̶̲̥̅̊ need do is to work on her mode of dressin,doe it will tek tym bt she will surely change if she truly loves U̶̲̥̅̊.goodluck
ReplyDeleteSorry to say but she is from a bad home #bright bravo#
ReplyDeleteNo be yhr woman? U shd knw hw 2 penetrate her. Me dunno d kinda advice u wnt frm us o.... except she dsnt feel d same way u feel abt her odawise, u are d man in d relathnship and u shd show dt u are d man!!!
ReplyDeleteIs this the girl friend pls?
ReplyDeleteWell, it may be a sign of oda bad aspects bout her, try to dig deep
ReplyDeleteGirl R*ped bY 30 men for 6 hours
linda why use Irene's picture?? wat makes u think she wont get to see dis and sue ur ass somehow??
ReplyDeleteplease leave her for me...am joking! but our elders have said that dog that chooses to get lost would never hear a haunters' whistle.
ReplyDeletedude, you should move on her bride price has reduced
How was she dressing when you met her ?
ReplyDeleteSome ladies are just so in love with themselves that they've lost every sense of respect for others. Am. Not sure if the girl in the pic is the girl in question, but there are limits to these things now!!!! Seems she's sick of the limits though....nice body,but no shame.. @kunledosunmu
ReplyDeleteI fink, dressing like dat makes her comfortable.. And also she's an attention seeker... I don't fink she has any bad thought 4 her to b putting on such clothes...she jus feel relaxed and she expresses herself by puttin on such clothes, buh it up to you to handle her, put her in the right part, talk to her, let her know you r always embarrassed whenever she dresses like dat.. Let her know u don't like her mode of dressing, and also put her in prayers, and I pray God changes/touches her... And if she doesn't stop/change, u can end the relationship, cos if you mistakenly marry her, the marriage won't last, cos there will b lot of argument and misunderstanding...
ReplyDeleteSince you aren't getting through to her and she care less about any opinion you might have,let her be and find you an obedient and decently dressed woman
ReplyDeleteBros, if u really don't like the way ur girl dresses and After so Much complain she refused to change. there are two things involved, is either u comply with her or u call it quite. Shekana! ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥
ReplyDeleteIf evry oda tin is perfect den U̶̲̥̅̊ dnt have a problem,make her see reasons why is neccesary 4 her 2 cover up properly as a woman,keep tellin her,dnt give up on her!U̶̲̥̅̊ dat girl sef,ah ah
ReplyDeleteIf u trully luv her and u wnt 2 spend d rest of ur life with her ,call her 2 oder, if she didn't change den pick a fight wiv her, pretend as if u breakin up wiv her, den wait &c her reactions may be she can change tru dat if she luvs u
ReplyDeleteHmmm!!! Girls that are addicted to attention, will do anything for it..
ReplyDeleteThat's that shii I don't like
if she doesn't wand 2 heed 2 ur advice...den fucking break up with her
ReplyDeleteShe will chang.just giv her time
ReplyDeleteLook 4 sum1 Shε respects to talk to her,give her an ultimatum or burn all d clothes.
ReplyDeleteSowi bro but juz keep talking to her nd one day she will change.
ReplyDeleteTake her shopping! 4 new clothes
ReplyDeleteYou sound confused and insecure man! Did I hear you say your kind of woman? A woman that hardens her heart to your voice of reason is perfect!? Man, deal with it.
ReplyDeleteQuit going out with her then, since you say you are embarrassed by her way of dressing. Seems you have not really instilled it enough in her. By the time she dresses like you say and you end up leaving her behind, I think she will really understand it. Cos she too gives you a bad name seeing her in your company.
ReplyDeleteNaija men kill me. So when you were toasting her and following her around you did not know. You were probably attracted to her show of skin and overlooked the decent dressers. The typical thing is you all get someone with the intent that they will change (women do it too sha).
ReplyDeleteGo and register her in "how do I look" and see all the public really views her. Lol
ReplyDeleteBurn d ones she has already nd shop for decent new ones or just let her be
ReplyDeleteYou saw her that way and went for her cos you think she's sexy...
ReplyDeleteWell,since you complained and its not getting to her,don't complain again..TALK TO HER..heart to heart...
What you feel and what damage it can cause in the relationship(maybe you opting out),then if she no come change,my guy just leave her like that or you break it off for real telling her your reason...
Shhhhhhhh*looks around *...you can go to her house and burn those clothes and get her classy but yet sexy clothes....she go just vex daz'all then you kiss and make up....lol
Go in prayer before God if u really care and see wat we happen , nothing is impossible in the sight of God
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ReplyDeletebuy her the kinda clothes you want her to wear....
ReplyDeleteDis is an issue of serious concern. However, set examples 4 her by buying d kinds of clothes u like, also choose d clothes she wears when u r goin out 2geda.
ReplyDeleteShe is bad pls manage her
ReplyDeleteTalk to her about it and make her see reasons why trashy clothes are a big no no.... bcos am very sure u've never talked to her about it before.... try it and u will be amazed.... ok coming from another girl u can take her shopping and buy her classy, sophisticated yet sexy clothes #winks.... good luck
ReplyDeleteMaybe you need to sit down with her quietly and have a heart to heart. if she still doesn't listen, maybe she really doesn't care what you think and does not see a future with you cos if she knows how it makes you feel, then she should reason with you. What attention is she looking for if you're giving her all the attention she needs. Or does she want to add ashawo to her job description? If she won't change, I advise you to take a break from the relationship. Both of y'all figure out what you want from there cos I don't see how you can spend the rest of your life with a woman who does not regard you or has absolutely no respect for you dressing in such a shameful manner.
ReplyDeleteDayum!!! Buy her new cloths ♌ɑ̤̥̈̊ħ
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I seriously don't understand why some women like to show so much flesh. What do they really gain from it? Any way dude if u intend marrying her and u are not comfortable with it lay ur cards on the table let her know u don't like her dress sense. Well if she choose not to change n u can manage torr, but I won't advice u to manage in a relationship or marraige. Sweet anonymous.
ReplyDeleteBuy her some good once , I fink doing dat will help
ReplyDeleteU. Knw wat is good for u go for it
ReplyDeleteBut Lover Boii......am sure that was what caught ur eyes in the first place. So now deal with it..olee
ReplyDeletePerhaps U should take her to a dressing doctor *Lols*
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Com na by force plnty decent women dey out der dey lok 4 who go lv dem u dey mumu urslf huh.u nvr fill embarrased no leav r u hear stay mk u dey hunt 4 advice.
ReplyDeleteSo dis somebody's daughter, all in d name to get attention and sell her vagina. I pity her parent and her generation
ReplyDeleteSimply buy her the kinda clothes ure comfortable with. That should pass the message to her
ReplyDeleteyou really need to sit her down and talk sense into her head, if she also cares about you and doesn't want to lose you as well, i beleive she would listen and change gradually.
ReplyDeleteStart by buying her clothes of ur choice as a gift.....mind u, the process has to be gradual, don't rush in achieving the aim...........SL££M
ReplyDeleteKeep correcting her and praying to God to change her
ReplyDeleteTo be candid with U, u the man, u should know perfectly how to run ur home, study her weak point, study her flaws, get in to her through that, am sure she'll listen to U, plead wif her, I won't advice u to break up wif her because u don't know what the next girl u wanna date might do, just stick to her. And I pray for a Fruitful result.
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Lol, there are certain things about a person that cannot be changed. I'm guessing when you met her she dressed like that. You shouldn't try and change her now you are together. Accept her for who she is.
ReplyDeleteYou are on your own. Follow what your heart tells you. Either you get married to an indecent woman or you call it a quit.
ReplyDeletePretty sure dats wat drew u to her in d first place.....y cmpln nw? Suck it up!
ReplyDeletewhen you met her how was she dressing? im sure it was the same ,you liked wat u saw right? now you want to change her
ReplyDeleteSally p said give correction in love n some day it will get tru to her.my advice to you is to take her on a suprise shopping to change her wardrope....if she dosent change then u just av 2 accept her the way she is.that's wot love is abt...
ReplyDeleteYour story touches me, I feel for you bro. keep talking to her, advice her the more since she's your kind of woman means she's perfect for you, don't give up on her since she enjoy the attention she gets from people and you feel even with that she's still a good girl and wife material. Keep advising/praying for her, she will change before jesus comes....I see no reason why a woman should expose her body.
ReplyDeleteWell, if u can't change her, let her be.
ReplyDeleteLol..when there are men out there searching for girls they can show off with. Some guy is here lamenting on the way his, dresses..maybe you should go for girlfriend swap..this is very funny need to go update this on my blog and see replies.
ReplyDeleteu still keep telling her.....or pray for her
ReplyDeleteDnt b self centered, let others also see wat u saw in her before she became ur girlfriend, I mean what are brothers and sisters for?
ReplyDeleteArrange with someone and fake an almost rape scene. She will cover up immediately......
ReplyDeleteWell. Na u know. Please linda we need names na n real pics. Waz all d's sef?
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ReplyDeleteIn likes der must be ones u can do witout.....u can't get a perfect woman or man but der re ones u can tolerate....since wat she can't do witout is wat u can't tolerate My dear Bounce..... Cos dressing issue is an every day tin....
ReplyDeleteAm sure she was dressed like that the very first you met her, but you did not mind her dressing. Why not continue that not minding what she puts on, then may be by the time she has one or two issue/issues she will change. If not you keep bearing with her. No human is perfect. You can not get every thing you desire in a person.
ReplyDeleteGuy chop sugarcane jor. Her dressing wasn't a problem when you met her abi now insecurity wan kill you dey complain lolz... why you nor go look for Gf for deeper life church ode..
ReplyDeleteWasn't this the kind of dress she wore the first day you saw her and asked her out? I guess she should be more than 15years, and she haven't seen anything wrong with her dressing. Guy for now allow her be herself till it's dawn on her to change. And please don,t tell her to choose from her dressing and you because that will be selfish jor. Manage am or back out for love.
ReplyDeleteMy dear poster, i dont tik u have a problem. Continue talking to her abut it n with time she will change, Maybe wen u put a ring on finger.
ReplyDeleteMy frnd u jst hav 2 be diplomatic wit wat u want, 4 d fact dat u dnt lyk d way she dresses u shuld go ahead and mak her change her dress sense, but if she refuses 2 change, I guess u shuld quit
ReplyDeleteU better quit her oooooor
ReplyDeleteTell her parents
ReplyDeleteOga am sure u met her lk dat,infact dat ws wat attracted u 2 her,since u really lk her jst keep praying she changes.
ReplyDeleteIt is well, take her the way she is, there is always a key to a womans hrt, take uym to knw her key, take ur tym to talk to her, if she rili care abt u as well, she wil definitely change.
ReplyDeleteTell her to change d way she dresses. @ anizy
ReplyDeleteI criously dnt knw wat 2 tel u
ReplyDeleteWasn't that what caught your attention when you first saw her? Or did she just start dressing this way after you met her? OK so why don't you try dressing her up the way u would like by buying her clothes? You could take it gradually - not move instantly into granny mode.
ReplyDeleteWasn't that what caught your attention when you first saw her? Or did she just start dressing this way after you met her? OK so why don't you try dressing her up the way u would like by buying her clothes? You could take it gradually - not move instantly into granny mode.
ReplyDeleteWasn't that what caught your attention when you first saw her? Or did she just start dressing this way after you met her? OK so why don't you try dressing her up the way u would like by buying her clothes? You could take it gradually - not move instantly into granny mode.
ReplyDeleteIf she's still hawking her commodities,then she doesnt have a customer yet.
ReplyDeleteFrom a woman's point of view,that girl isnt yours cos who's she still trying to be sexy for if really,you're her man?
Wowwwww dis babe rily hav som nice curve nd she is showin it 2 d world in her own sexy way. But she looks like a hooker, a night worker but a vry sexy 1
ReplyDelete@poster there's notin we can do abt dat o,buh there r 2 tins u can do abt dat
ReplyDelete1- talk 2 her n let her knw how u feel abt her way of dressing, u shd give her genuine reasons n not jst dat u don't like it. Afterall u met her dat way
2- go shopping 4 her, go buy her very fine n sexy clothes dat doesn't look trashy,n mk her see dat sexy clothes can look decent,sofar u nor buy her "mama tie me belt"lol
Good luck
Linododo, he doesn't even need our advice. Urs is all he needs, because u are d epitome of decency. So advice d bro urself sweetie
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U want someone dat dont listen to u in ur life??I dont know wat i will tel u,but be very careful wit her and always pray for her since u like her very much.watch it!
ReplyDeleteI doubt if everything eLse is okay...quit lying to yourself man...as for what to do, if she won't bend, you quit the r/ship! She's not your wife.
ReplyDeleteU want someone dat dont listen to u in ur life??I dont know wat i will tel u,but be very careful wit her and always pray for her since u like her very much.watch it!
ReplyDeleteTalk to her about it and if she doesn't listen to u, then she's not submissive and there's no point still dating her. You can talk to someone to speak to her too.
ReplyDeleteBuy her †ђξ kind ☀f cloths U want to seeee on her nd make her understand ♓☺w important §hε̲̅ is to U. Maybe it will help
ReplyDeleteMy candid advice 2 u is this: tell her 2 move in with u, wen she does that, @Night wen she is sleeping, bring out all those nonsense she calls clothes, set them ablaze (all of them) then take her 2 a matured boutique d next day she shop 4 proper clothes with under ur supervision, also get a professional stylist who will complete d magic. Women remember, LESS IS MORE, THRASHY IS SLUTTY, AINT SEXY.
ReplyDeleteMy guy when you met her was she dressing like that? Is that what attracted you to her? So why did you think it will change all of a sudden because she is with you now?
ReplyDeleteTake ha 2 a yaba apa osi, mayb she don de crazy smal smal
ReplyDeleteLol, Linda is that the girl. MisGolfie
ReplyDeleteIts not the dressing, its the mind set. She has to understand that she's beautiful without does clothes because she really is. May God help you o, pray for her dow.
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should go shopping on her behalf, buy her stuff you like that are decent and classy and very flattering for her figure, compliment her when she tries them on and tell how how perfect she looks in them... That'd most likely encourage her to dress more decently
ReplyDelete#my opinion
Looooooool how hilarious!! I'm afraid you're stuck with it until she decides to change...pele!!
ReplyDeleteBros...look for another girl na.
ReplyDeleteYou are in a Relationship with her. You are not Married yet.. If she is not willing to change.. Then you can take a walk.. Is not by force cause that's who she is..
ReplyDeleteU need help? Call Jeanie Mai* How do I look* to help U.
ReplyDeleteOkpo!!! aya free her nau....
ReplyDeleteBurn all her sexy clothes @ midnite ...SHIKENA
ReplyDeleteDear poster! Is lyk we're both going 2ru d same wahala...U jst said a 100% of wat am going 2ru nw. "NT JUSTOK.COM"
ReplyDeleteKeep talking to her.
ReplyDeleteThat's probably the same way she got you and now you're mad. Please have several seats!
ReplyDeleteSo before u asked her out did u not know she dressed d way she dressed? Abeg u either leave her or pipe dwn, u Cnt have everything....deal wit it or go as she no wan chng.
ReplyDeleteDey dia dey complain u even manage get fresh gal as babe. If u tayad leave her 4 dem single guys na.
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