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Dear LIB readers: I found out about my man's other woman via BB

From a female LIB reader
It started about two months ago. There was this contact on my BB who updated her status based on what was happening with my man. One day she updated 'my boo is back, so happy'. My boyfriend had just returned from a trip to Europe. I didn't think much of it until she updated her status again saying she was in Port Harcourt. My boyfriend had left for Port Harcourt two days earlier. Then on January 22nd, she wished her boo a happy birthday. January 22nd is my boyfriend's birthday. Then on Val's day, she updated her status wishing her man a happy val's day and said she wished he was in town so she could spoil him. He was in South Africa with me. We returned on the 17th of February and when I checked her status, she'd updated with 'my boo is back' with love emoticon. I knew then that we were dating the same man. I confronted the idiot and he denied it so I decided to chat with the lady on my bb to find out more though I didn't let her know I was with the same man. She didn't mention his name but everything else she said proved it was him. He's been dating the lady for about 9 months. I've been with him for almost 2 years. Well, I have decided to dump his ass. I will not share a man with a cream seller. I buy my body cream from this lady and that's why she's on bb, not because she's my friend. So she can keep him seeing that he has no class. And you ode, I'm done with you.

395 comments:

  1. Men..selfish specie

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  2. Don't be in a haste to take drastic decision. He might not be as serious as u think. Just pray about it.

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  3. Wow lady, dats nt hw its done, u av bin datin dis guy b4 dis gurl came in, y dnt u confront him n show him all ur evidence so dat he wuld knw n if aftera dat he countinues den u can brk up

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  4. Yea, they can be like that...lol @ dat pic up there. Linda.

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  5. Get ur fact rite before u dump him.

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  6. U sound really immature! Wats bad if she sells cream ??ur immaturity probably pushed ur man to d "cream seller".. who looks stupid nw ?work on ur pride woman !d cream seller statement described ur personality

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  7. This is deep, hello sister, before you go ahead and dump his ass. Why don't you ask yourself this question; what has she (the cream seller) have that i don't have... Most probably the way to take care of a man!

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  8. Ahh see gobe but dis lady u are very smart woman I like how u tracked very single update from her and pls dnt touch dat cream seller I bet ur man is a cheater that's why he's been dating the cream seller for 9 months smh but pls sit ur guy down n knw whether he loves u or not cos he's a playaaaa ahh guys we too much

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  9. U are d fool go and ask hilarry cliton she will educate u. If d cream seller is not good enough its shows how u be so dats ur worth too dats where u can buy cheap cream? Ur mates know where better store dey

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  10. hahahahahhahahahha. *in tears*. From the story to the accompanying picture. Rotflmao!

    Naija girls have officially gone nuts. Lmao @share my man with cream seller and ode.

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  11. And wat should we do about this info??? long hiss!

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  12. She shld @ least investigate a liTtle b4 dumpin him............ Lmao dat pix is funny

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  13. Lasgidi babes Weldone

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  14. You are the main chick. You have no worries obviously it's you he loves and he's just messing around with the woman.. I say you are over reacting, just talk and sort things out with him if you love him but if you don't you might as well dump his sorry ass

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  15. good girl!! and to all those bitches who think u can mess around a man when u know he has a woman already here is the news for you he will still mess around ur sorry ass and dump u cos karma is a bitch and u men who do stunts with other women when u know u got a good woman, u r just digging ur own grave... its just clear how a lot of men would rather live with trash than to make it work with a good woman.
    long sigh

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  16. Wow.. crazy as story... sorry poster but shii happens. get on with ur life and dump his sorry ass

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  17. Wetin again we go talk, lolzzzzzzzzzz @Ode

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  18. LMBOOOOOO. MOST LADIES DATE FOR MATERIAL THINGS ANYWAYS... NO LADY WANTS TO START AFRESH WIV A MAN WHICH IS NOT TOO GOOD... SO LADY, CARRY UR CROSS... ONCE A CASANOVA IS ALWAYS A CASANOVA.... AND IF U LIKE, STUPIDLY MARRY HIM AND SAY HE WILL CHANGE, HE GO CREATE LOCAL GOVT JUST LIKE TU BABA SAID.. LOLZZ..

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  19. Men ehn
    #MzEmerald

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  20. Talk to †ђξ guy, unless U dnt love/want him. 2yrs ₪o be 2days.  tins, dp/pm wahala

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  21. Lol @ "bt u re jst an oloriburuku"

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  22. Lol where u go come dey buy cream

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  23. Your boyfrnd must av bin cheatin on u due to som of ur attitude I trust... Ur story ws touchin but yet, u talk wit so much pride. U ar makin us to understand dat u cnt share ur man wit an ordinary cream seller, wuld u av shared him wit a lady of higher class?? *jst sayin

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  24. Lool! Go girl...Everyone deserves better!

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  25. wow this one is tough.....eleyin gidi gan!!!! since you didnt ask for our advice i wont give any. but would say try get the name of the dude from the lady, you just might be wrong.

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  26. Yeah you did justice to d matter . he's a retarded he-goat.

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  27. No 1 questn: who is d ode? No be 2 of u hin chop??? D winner in ds case is ur cream seller miss ode! Free browsing for cream seller#caseclosed

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  28. Why say she is a cream seller and too low?

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  29. U go girl, y are some guys so brainless abeg. Evil beings, God will bring some 1 betta. Dat dude is oviously a dum-dum
    ***A-BELLE****

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  30. Mia dear dats a gud decision d guy dnt deserve you#Gem saiz so#

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  31. I was reading and feeling bad till I got to this part "I will not share a man with a cream seller. I buy my body cream from this lady and that's why she's on bb, not because she's my friend. So she can keep him seeing that he has no class. And you ode, I'm done with you."............Boss lady, thats probably why you can be cheated on. Do you think you are better than a cream seller?...as you call it. Is your idea of a successful relationship a class thingy?....Boss lady, humble yourself yeh....then maybe your man wont think of cheating on you...Ewotago? Plus your message dont got no point...i.e what is the message?. Keep it to yourself unless your trying to make a point...Ewotago?.......Obientin

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  32. Lwtmb@ cream seller. Don't mind d foolish bf

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  33. You are a very funny person. Are leaving youur bf becos he cheated on u or u r leaving him becos he is going out with a cream seller? Pls think twice. Men will always cheat and the cream is a woman and not a man. Every business that is legal is a good business, in as much as she gets her income. By the way urself what do u do? Don't look down on anybody pls. Go and recouncil with ur bf properly tell him what is going and he has to make his choice now. But I think he loves you for Bn with u on d val's day. Anyway go confront him. Men will always cheat my dear and stop looking down on people. Pls

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  34. I like u jore!!!! Some girls will see ds n still put up with his lies n nonsense, bye bye 2 brother ode.

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  35. Don't leave him yet...poison him plus! The type that kills slowly. Comic relief...lwkm. #dontpoisonhim oh! Let go jare. You'll be fine.

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  36. #Yimu...Sips Moet et Chandon (he who fights n runs away, lives to fight another day!)...puffs off me CIGAR

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  37. Since u have moved on why bother linda with this nonsense Olodo...e dey pain u

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  38. Wow......r u really sure u wanna keep him. The cream seller like u said might be a lil bit dangerous and violent o. But first confront ur man about it, if he denies it.....u all need to sit down and talk about it, I mean u three.

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  39. I hear u. *««*CROWD PULLER PLEASER*»»*•

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  40. LWKM... I just love the conclusion here; 'cream seller'...too funny!

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  41. My dear sister, thank God u never marry him. So u still have chance to tell him wat u want and wat u don't. Let him understand dat are already know about that cream seller girl. So he should choose from both u without wasting time. Then from there u make choice. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

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  42. All this while he has been using you #bright bravo#

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  43. So cream sellers are not created by God?.....

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  44. Linda, how this one take concern me now.
    #TeamThinkForme

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  45. Judging frm ur action, i just ranked yu the number one looser....
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    ***CURRENTLY IN THE SUN***

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  46. U just sold urself out dear. Am sure this is exactly y he is keeping another girl. No man likes a girl dat talks and look down on pple below them and dats exactly wat u just did here. Don't be surprised wen dat cream seller marries ur man and u high class chick will still be single at 40. Wish u luck!! Ode!!!

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  47. My dear, manage and continue, the fact that he spends quality time with you and takes you out on such occations, means you are the main one and she is just a side chic, my advice is hold the one you see and don't trow him away all in d name of the is cheating with someone u feel is nt in same class wit u.

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  48. LOL
    Oya libers over to you while i drink my zobo

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  49. Ur bleaching cream abi?

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  50. Linda I jus hope say ds tory no concern u o, Lol. Brother ode, she is through with u since u ve gat no class, Lol. @cream seller, this babe must really have bad mouth, hahahahahahahaha.

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  51. Thank God it's not one of them girls that sell paraga at Oshodi market. Useless guy! Dump his sorry ass biko. Thank God for social network, it is easier to catch them cheaters now, both male and female. This is so funny, lmao

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  52. Your guy didn't try at all by cheating on you but on the other hand class don't matter when it comes to love ok.that classless cream seller may end up being ur guys dream woman n wife.so keep class aside!

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  53. If a man can take u to south africa with him know surely that he is in a serious relationship with u......and according to the story ur man can deny everything u mention becos no evidence....but since u av concluded already good luck with that

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  54. So cream sellers are not created by God?

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  55. Don't b stewped! She's d side chick

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  56. Wetin cream seller come get to do with anything? Wehrey

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  57. My dear sister, thank God u never marry him. So u still have chance to tell him wat u want and wat u don't. Let him understand dat are already know about that cream seller girl. So he should choose from both u without wasting time. Then from there u make choice. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

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  58. Now I know that dude is a liber read. No doubt about that

    nollywood news and gossip

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  59. Ok so what was d essence of dis..since uRe done wiv him na...hian!!...and linda is like u have too much traffic bcos u don't post ma comments..ok oOo...keep it up...

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  60. U don't need to leave ur man cos of anoda lady, confront him first then frm his response make ur decision.

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  61. Choi wonders. Men una no go kill us ooooooooooo. Its just that God has set in motion this man and woman thing, if not u guys deserve a hi five in the face with a chair. All u do is meet a woman, make her fall and before she would understand what is happening.....off u go. Funny enough, Good girls suffer more........Nne biko dump his ass without an announcement.

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  62. Y hating a cream seller? She be woman like you and she most be loving ur bf well. Hahahahah

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  63. Dis story is not real,4 those dat wnt 2 insult me,is jst 4 ur weekend entertainment.But what wuld u do if it was real? Hahahaha.

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  64. U should have asked for picture of them together. Doesn't make sense that u dump him like that without any proof

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  65. u bi sure babe jare,no let some stupid boy mess u up...

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  66. y will you call the lady "a low class".isn't it obvious that you think so high of yourself???and that might be the reason why he's dating another girl?
    LMK

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  67. I can't help but laugh @ "I will not share a man with a cream seller". Would u rather share him with a banker or a doctor...lol. On a serious note, MOST men are the same. U will keep dumping their ass, if u continue that way & will never settle down. Only pray for God to give u, ur own man. All the best.

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  68. Lmaooooo @ ode! Go gal!!

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  69. i refuse to share my man with some girl that uses body cream (toning cream)..

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  70. Dump his sorry ass. Good riddance to bad rubbish.
    «Teeshow»

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  71. ma dear leave his ugly ass

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  72. Ure just an ode, dumping ur man cos of a cream seller, Do all u can to make sure he ends d relationship with the creame seller.

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  73. LOOOL, NICE ONE!!

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  74. Lol...u shouldn't share ur man with anybody cream seller or nt bt Im thinking u might wait till u catch him red handed since she's never said and "My boo is nw with me" which means he hasn't gne 2 see her. Mayb they are jst friends n this lady is pretending. U no sme women alwyays intrested in what aint theirs bt my advice is no hasty cnclusiOns. Mayb its planned by her or a friend of urs 2 mke u react this way. Hw come she's never put up a pictures n all that + she updates erritin cnstantly. Who does that? Nw men cheat bt I like 2 blive there are good faithful men 2----C21

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  75. Don't hurry into conclusion yet b4 u lose ur investment of 2yrs ooo!!!!!!

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  76. Haha..cream seller! Some men really have no taste. And out of curiosity what exactly do you do my dear?

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  77. Guys sha...we no dey respect ourselves!

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  78. Na u b d iyalaya ode, nd u knw wat! u go old! U dint catch dem red-handed nd he denied it, obviously, u either neva valued yo relationship nd he aint worth fightin 4, or yo jes seekin an excuse 2 dump him. So wat r u nw tellin us 4? Cos I dnt gt hw dis is our business, apparently ud come 2 a conclusion, no advice seeked or anythn like dat? Oh pls, grow up!

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  79. Hiohiohio.lolllllsssssss

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  80. My dear! Wise move, but I think u should have told her oh. Make d 2 of una knw say d guy na bastard not just you! Anyway, some girls re so stupid to d extent she might knw and still thank u for leaving d guy for her finally! Lol! #menareuseless #dumbdumb #idiots #ashewo #turngoodgirlsintosidechicks!

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  81. My dear take heart smtyms i wish men neva existed truly,my bf slip wit everytyn he sees n ask dem out both ugli n fyn n wen u ask he deny wit his life n even get angry, i even knw our relatnshp wnt work cos d guy is dubious,take hrt my dear dat men 4u if u tink dat any man wnt cheat pls wake up,it onli 1 man dat i ve eva seen to b faithful to his gf my neighbour im shocked fyn n rich guy yt so faithful im so tired of tyns called men

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  82. Just let him know why you are dumping him

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  83. This simply states that yu dont love ur man at all.... like i said, u are a big looser and that was yu are. Seriously, yu should be ashamed of urself that the only prove u have is BB updates. For godsake this dude spend his val with yu..... Ur post should be hw to win ur man back and not the other way round. I knw u are happy yu kicked his ass first and yu sounded like is a competition.but is not suppose to be so.... My advice, go back and make things ryt b4 yu regret it.....
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  84. This is hialrious! Lol @ cream seller..

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  85. Seriously,why do we av to read this...

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  86. Do you mean Dancia (whitenicious) does not have a class? as she is a cream seller as well

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  87. Pls do not leave him for d cream seller .. wat if u were married.. He is always with u .He was with u on vals day... listen do not leave him. Ignore them n do not put ur mind on him if u r considering marriage

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  88. Due 2 what you hv told us here, u still ain't sure if he's actually dating her. I fink it's something dt could hv been worked out with proper communication. But no, d girls of nowadays ain't gat no patience to even tryna go through thick and thin wid a man. They all want a perfect man forgetting dt infatuation is finding some1 who is absolutely perfect, but love is realizing dt dr partner aren't and it doesn't matter. It would surprise u dt such are d girls dt would still be single in their 40's desperately looking 4 a manageable life partner, whn they would hv been patient and tryna work things out wid dr man. So ladies, ya'll need 2 hv more patience if u kno deep inside u dt u r having a good man. Take a clue frm 2face and Annie's relatnship. Yall saw wht Annie went tru but @ d end of d day, now dy r happily married. So ladies and gents, patience is a virtue!

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  89. Did you send this story to Miss Linda to seek for advice or you sent it to her to let people know you've broken up with your Boyfriend? You don't sound like someone who needs advice from LIBers.

    Well, Let me tell you some things that might help you in Ʊя next sojourn:
    (1) Sometimes People fall for someone who is way Below their class. Remember a certain Queen or is it even princess of England falling for an Egyptian Guy? So don't think a lady below Ʊя class cannot take Ʊя Man away from you.
    (2) There's no excuse for a Guy/Lady to cheat in a Relationship. Your Man was wrong to cheat on you but before you hurriedly "Dump" him, make sure your Hands are clean.... I.e you were not also cheating.
    (3) You seem to be a Rude and Arrogant Fella. Try and adjust Ʊя choice of words. It will sure help you in Ʊя next relationship.

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  90. hahahhah😃. She haff vex o

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  91. Lmaoooo @ ode!! Go gyal!

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  92. You're just a very foolish bleaching cream buyer!this your gist doesn't add up..so you mean to tell us that you've not been updating your mans pictures even on his birthday?(except he isn't on bbm)...and you said you both travelled to South Africa to spend Val's day,while she was here in nigeria updating(cause that's what she knows how to do best)well,you never know what you have until you lose it..maybe you let him go cause you stopped loving him....so babe,you're just a fish!

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  93. Lol....cool story...so wat do u need from us? Comments? Likes? Tweets? Wats the moral lesson please?

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  94. y wud u leave ur man for a cream seller.....Its not done nah! fight for wat belongs to u dear if u truly luv dis guy.

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  95. wow... i wonder why he did it?
    you deserve so much better

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  96. Abeg joor its normal!
    ~D great anonymous!

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  97. Good for u girl..dump his sorry ass!!!Once a cheat..always a cheat..!

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  98. Would you share him with a Bank MD pr a Dangote's daughter?

    Seems you are focused on the wrong stuff if your decision about your relationship is based on what the other woman does for a living. Remember, class does not guarantee any relationship success.

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  99. If he spent valentine wit u & not her it should tell u she's jst a side chick nothing more. It is difficult to find a guy who doesn't hv a side chick. Dnt let him go. Cream seller my black ass lol

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  100. You must be a bamboo,how can you leave a relationship of 2yrs for a cream seller, danm!!! That means u are not even capable of keeping ur man, your guy may jst want to have fun and keep you but you jst want to fast forward everytin. There are not real men anywhere o, so dis one that you have jst keep am tight. Olodo....jst boost the girls bubble and continue with hime joor.... First to comment... Linda No use my comment chop akara o. Publish am pls.

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  101. No direction.XTY.

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  102. I'm a woman like u and I love d courage and speed in ur decision so far ur not married to him. There are other good guys out there that will value u more than that cheat!!!

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  103. Lmao...cream seller.

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  104. Haaaa!and you think is best for you to leave him?well I don't think so!

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  105. #Classic....sounds funny tho bt where do ppl see all des kind of men that av little or no regard for women.
    I grew up seein my mum as a queen even tho we werent rich. My father practically worshipped her and so were we al made to.
    All the men that av made it to come so close to me in ma life av held me in high esteem too...for some reasons the silly ones dont make it past casual friends wt me cos der wl just b some things we dont agree on ...and I do nt compromise my standard for any man.
    I do not mean to sound 'holier than thou' bt av got 3 brothers who cant even double-date and also almost worship d girls in der life.
    My elder bros fiancee is younger than me by 7 yrs bt I av to respect her so much cos of the respect my bro has for her.
    Women pls lets purify this generation...lets be standards ourself so we can raise men who r responsible and worthy.
    Together we can do this...cos the world cos round n our daughters wl benefit frm this.
    Thumbs up girl
    ..good riddance to bad rubbish.

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  106. LOL I like dis gal oohhhhhh

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  107. this ia a typical exzmple of are you your boo's boo......loooooool ladies be wise

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  108. Very ridiculous... Thou u need to be very sure b4 u will end ur relationship with ur guy. Good luck

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  109. I love this lady's attitude!

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  110. but you would have been able to share him with her if she was doing some other business...." i cannot share my man with a cream seller" was so unnecessary...what has that got to do with anything..lolzz. any way i admire your level of observation...and for the guy i hail him ooo. some guys tho....smh

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  111. My dear dump his ass.......he doesn't deserve u @all.......he doesn't even knw wht he wants #poko#

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  112. My sister, that is men for you. I don't know why they are like that. No matter how nice you behave or pet them, they will still cheat on you.

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  113. She no serious. Let ha nt stay nd fite 4 wat is hers.coward

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  114. Buh u wouldn't hav minded sharing if she was a chartered accountant with an oil coy? Just wondering. If u hv decided to dump his "classless ass" why is dis post here? Nyiny's view

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  115. My dear ride on!!! No time for iranu!

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  116. Oh! You won't share? where did you think she got his PIN from?








    Man Arrested For Having Sex With A Goat In Jigawa

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  117. So funny. No comment

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  118. Sorry girl dumping him is not d best besides No body is righteous,girls are the worst perpetrator of this crime.

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  119. Lolz! Do more confirmation she's really dating same guy with you before you take a decision to dump.

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  120. thats a very good move. u shld probably deal with him for messing up so badly

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  121. Lol! U shld sing ur own vision of usher and r kelly song... Same guy. Lmao

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  122. A good choice. They r not worth d headache! smsh.......

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  123. So you buy bleaching cream from her init?? Hmmm you are now feeling like one super woman abi?? I pity you. The guy has nothing to lose, he can have any kind of woman he wants. He is obviously tired of fucking you that's why he decided to change pussy. I hear that sometimes all these local girls are sweeter than the so called tush girls. Maybe I will give it a try one day.

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  124. Good for you cos antihypertensives re expensive

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  125. Im a guy bt girl i like ur guts n ur self respect. .sure he doesnt deserve u..I wish more more ladies could emulate ur style..if he wants to b eating two pussies..he shud b ready to the consequences...@itam

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  126. Well u ve made ur decision but, make sure u decision doesn't hurt u in future, cos to me u should have tried to iron it out with him first instead of rushing into a hasty conclusion. Tread softly oooo

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  127. Im a guy bt girl i like ur guts n ur self respect. .sure he doesnt deserve u..I wish more more ladies could emulate ur style..if he wants to b eating two pussies..he shud b ready to the consequences...@itam

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  128. Girl... I support you. A womans intuition is never wrong, it is God given. If you strongly feel your man is cheating, be sure that you are probably 99% correct. I dont know how or why, so I place that intuition at the feet of God. For you classless boyfriend, chai, some men sha, they sure know how to rub dirt on a girl. Someone that cant even clean your shoes much less look you in the eye now is sucking the same dick as you. But sweety tho, she didnt give a name, this might be a coincidence o, how many millions of people are in Nigeria that travels pretty regularly? You have never entered an airplane and its only you on board, especially if its not chartered. Meaning, other Nigerians travel too, so this could be a coincidence. But id do the same, id rather have peace of mind than to go around feeling my boyfriend is playing skelewu on my intelligence.

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  129. Are you f**king kidding me? you are going to dump him?
    How old are you again? 12?
    Did you catch them together?
    Wetin dey worry you girls of nowadays?
    Siddon with am Joor.
    See men that are not disciplined are cheats.... Nothing can be done about it.
    How are you sure,the next guy isn't going to cheat on you. Just sit your ass down in that relationship dear.

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  130. Lol you sounded funny, the best thing you do is to find out if he loves you, for you to spend most time with him and take you with him while he travels means you are his favourite unless you are the one spending on him if not then don't leave him for your cream seller. All men are like that, some men will even go to the extent of telling you that the are not married while they are or their wife is dead while she lives so talking of that little cheat my dear you just have to handle it wisely

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  131. If u r foolish leavhim. Marriage is better for worse. Make it work. Stop been a coward once in your life. Nothing is perfect. Use ur head.

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  132. Chai... Do take hrt. Men r so shameless. What a Dog

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  133. Well, u obviously don't love him. Men r bound to cheat. Its like a second skin. Pls wat if d next u date does same. So u keep dumping rit? Then u don't know wat u want. If u want him fight 4 him. The gud tin is if he isn't urs he isn't . Ask God to guide u in d rit direction.

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  134. Na wa 4 all these men oh!

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  135. dumb ho...abeg ur man has to play away match

    pls yall beeshes act like u know

    u got free trips to SA and Dubai etc...

    let ur man fuck whores jor

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  136. When you knw you are done with him,shy did you now bring the ish on here? baseless!

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  137. Y is it dat I don't get to see my comments anytime I post a comment?Linda na wa ooo

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  138. Story Story Story

    Once upon a time, time time.

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  139. Some men are idiots

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  140. Am sure the nigga has more babes, more on jor



    Alleged topless photo on Tonto Dike hits d web

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  141. Much Ado about nothing.Mtchew!

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  142. Lol @and you ode. Dumping his sorry black ass is the way to go.I hate liars,if he had owned up to his cheating ways and pleaded you'd consider forgiving him,but lie about it?mm mm no way.

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  143. Why u nor call d ode name? Plsss is d's nt a real blog ehn lili? Real names Plsss. So shit will gt real all up in here. Guys sha. Gosh I hate d's bbm era. Na wa o. No better brother again. All na lie lie. Anyways my dear u kwa dey fake 4 buying cream frm her instead of super market like oda original gehs do. #kkbye

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  144. Busted, as for me i get another secret BB fone for my second chick, i keep it in the office, coded...

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  145. Ma dear, stp blaping!!

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  146. Her selling cream that you buy is irrelevant and does not make her classless. Its that dumb arse attitude thats making himcheat... ntooo

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  147. Wahala dey for nigger no be small LOL

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  148. LMAO wat a way to find out ur man is cheating.... funny

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  149. Ok... u broke up with ur boo... why announce it on Linda Ikeji's blog. So we pity u or insult the 'boo'. I don't get

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  150. Pele my dear,do d same in ur nxt relationship and see who is loosing.

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  151. Caught my boyfrnd cheating in almost d same way like ur's and I dumped his stupid ass.I'm blessed 2day wit d most luving boyfrnd any gal could wish for.My dear leave dat fool,he doesn't deserve you.

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  152. I think the lady knew what she was doing cos I expected to read that the lady changed her DP to hez on vals day. Since that didn't happen I guess the lady knew what she was doing and was tryna play safe in a childish manner. Grandee

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  153. Stupid girl, what's wrong with a cream seller. Bleaching thing, ain't you a customer ?

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  154. You are not serious, what do u mean by "A cream seller" is that a reason for her to be considered a low class, leave him and go find another unfaithful man. U lack excuses.

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  155. Lobatan
    #MzEmerald

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  156. Side chics be winning thanks to maryjane and olivia pope

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  157. Hehehehehehehe...lwkmdo...men sha..smh

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  158. Fleece the maga before you flee. Fleece him.

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  159. My dear sister - it's not about her being a cream seller it's about your EX being a cheat, but girl you don't need any advice you've got everything UNDER CONTROL. These are the type of women needed. Once a cheat always a cheat and 9 months?? honey thats a tragedy waiting to happen thank God you got off the train.
    Its better to wait for the right man for you (not the perfect man) than hanging with someone that isn't for you a.k.a a donkey - shey you never want to see happieness in your life??? Some people rush things and they get old too quick and die of bp or even run mad because of rushing

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  160. Don't look down on this lady. She probably has no idea that her "man" is a two timing idiot. She is not your enemy, your loose pants man is the guilty party. Thank goodness you are not trying to fight for him. I am encouraged when I hear women not trying to sit and fight for a man. You don't ever fight for a man EVER. The minute you start to do that, then you know he is not worth it. He probably has other girls around, let him be and wish them the best. Go and get tested too, if you have not. I can't understand human beings and being deceptive. Just watch and see once you dump him, he will start begging and saying he didn't know or some stupid nonsense that men do when they have been caught. Just know he is sorry he got caught not sorry that he has been cheating.

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  161. Oops. Sorry. Well, good riddance to bad rubbish.

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  162. Loooooooooool @ cream seller

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  163. Lmfao!!!! OMG!!!! I cnt just stop laffin hard!!!!! My dear sum guys are like dat!!!!! Dere is one of my friends dat told me of her 2 friends (d 2 gerls dnt know each oda) updated on her bbm status *i ♡ my boo* den used d same man as dere dp's!!! Cnt stop laffin sha

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  164. Hahaahhhahahaha, Am sorry 4 laffing buh D story is kinda funny. If he was with u on vals day then I think D other lady is just D side chick. That's wat I think sha

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  165. Two timing idiat. Got me thinking and worrying though.

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  166. You're such a proud bitch, No wonder ur man is cheating on u. If you ask me u don't even deserve him or anyoda man for dat mata.

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  167. Lubby d'elmagnifico21 February 2014 at 18:05

    The story is fake abeg, in all d 9 months she Neva posted his picture, is it dt she will b saying my boo is bk n wit no pics *mtchewwww

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  168. that your boyfriend must be getting his body creame for free kenan...but why cant men just stick to one lady at a time,must they be like dis alwayz

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  169. Pele miss class, is a cream seller nt human, u even lack manners sef, after all u are nt married to him yet. Dump him and she av him now.

    Says Temi

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  170. Lwkmd..........first to comment

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  171. Way to go girl! Proud of u

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  172. Meeeeeen!!! Don't know what to say cos I gat all boys...just pray they don't toil with women when they become men

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  173. Mschew...didn't she use his picture for dp all dose times???
    *lipsSealed* #bye

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  174. Ndi bleaching. It's only people that buy and use bleaching cream that have their cream seller on their BlackBerry Messenger contact. Lol. Anyway, if you took you to SA for Valentine's day and not the 'cream seller', my dear, you're the main chic and what you have to do is to sit him down and discuss with him. Let him know that you know what the deal is and that you're willing to forgive him if he stops seeing her or any other woman. And my darling, trust me, within a month, you will be engaged and planning your wedding. The man will be shocked to his bone marrows and will have a whole new level of respect and undying admiration for you. Because men will expect you to yell and scream and bring down the roof. But if don't give him what he expects, you will win his heart forever. If you leave that man, you don't know the next devil you will meet. Men will cheat regardless and you were just lucky to have been able to find this one out. Goodluck in whatever decision you've chosen to take.

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  175. Aren't u just a stupid bleaching ass

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  176. Dear LIB writer........ An adage says dat if ur in love 2 psns, u shuld go 4 d second 1 cos if truly u loved d 1st, u wont love d second. Meanwhile men are polygamous in nature. If truly u love hm, it wont be easy 4 u 2 let hm go. Think and re-think

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  177. It's good to know some ladies still gat class. N for those of you that are gonna scream, you never ready to marry, get yourself some class. There are plenty girls out there who get men the second they dump one. So it you are the dumb who takes rubbish becos of your fear of not getting another man. UPGRADE YOURSELF

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  178. Looooooooooooooool... hahhahahaahahahahahah... hahahahhaahhaahhaahhhaha... dunno y em laffin sha, weda na d endin part dy mk me laff. so, 2 of u dnt use yhr boo's as dp? Evn on vals day? Looooool... na wao, wat a small world sha

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  179. Lmao... This is serious ooo!!! But I guess you're the real boo cos he spent valentine's with you... U need to think about it though

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  180. So u passed Judgement based on all this circumstantial evidence? U don't deserve him

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  181. She must be a posh cream seller!

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  182. Babes 4rm ur story it seems u r d real boo while d oda 1 is d oloriBOOruku.dere's no excuse 4 cheatin bt wats d probability dt d next guy u wil date won't cheat on u.confront him wit evidence n hear wat. He has 2 say.mk d oda girl know wats up 2.his reply wil mk u know if u'l cont or not.if he's ready 2 stop any rship. Wit d said girl.except mayb d problem u hv is dt he's datin a girl lower dan ur standard cos 4rm ur write up u called her "cream seller"which I tink dts wher u r mkin a mistake.if u leave him dt "cream seller"will win n he'l probably marry her.cos mayb dt 1 is more accomodatin n lovin.so jst swallow ur pride n wrk on ur rship,dere's no saint out dere waitin 4 u.#shikena

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  183. I tried to sympathize with you until you mentioned "cream seller". You are so full of yourself and arrogant. what has the other woman's profession got to do with anything?
    what do you mean by you can't share a man with a cream seller? guess what he found something in the cream seller that you obviously lack. wake up and smell the coffee, the sun does not rise and set on your arse!

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  184. Ahh, smh for you guuurrrrlll...

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  185. Hehe think again o cos d lady will b just by d corner to move in fully.

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  186. lwkmd!, the man is an idiot, the lady being cheated on is a bigger fool!, "a cream seller"? abi this one is the oloriburuku woman, the lady is making money, she is a businesswoman no matter how small her business is...ODE!, leave the man now, and u'll get i.v in weeks time to come for the wedding.

    hoeloshi

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