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Friday 14 February 2014

BBA winner Dillish Mathew's boyfriend confirms their break up

For weeks now there have been speculations that BBA 2013 winner Dillish Mathews and her boyfriend Stephen Gaeseb have broken up. Dillish even went as far as deleting all his pictures from her instagram page. Stephen did same too. There were reports that the longtime lovers broke up because Stephen was expecting a child with another woman.

Well, after much speculation, Stephen has finally reacted to the reports. In an interview with a Namibian Sun yesterday, he confirmed that he'd split from Dillish but denied he's expecting a baby with another woman. He admitted exchanging flirtatious text messages with a Nigerian woman but says he didn't cheat. He confirmed they split in December 2013.

He defended Dillish by saying people who claimed she was gold digger, who became rich & dumped him, were wrong about her.
"It wasn't about money. It's just that we both agreed we were better apart. Dillish isn't just physically beautiful, she's amazing and I respect her" He told the paper
"While Dillish was on the show, there was a Nigerian woman who was helping to campaign for people in her country to vote for her. I was in contact with her because I helped with the campaigning. We flirted via text messages and so on. I mean all guys flirt, it doesn’t mean you intend on acting on it. She then sent a snapshot of our conversations to a friend of Dillish, who eventually sent it to Dillish. We had an argument about that, which led to an argument about other things and we both said some things that we wish we didn’t. After that we decided to break-up and haven’t been together since December.”
"The pregnancy and the cheating rumours are all ridiculous. I was shocked when I heard that I impregnated another girl and that I have many other kids. I have a ten-year-old boy. This alleged pregnancy is just untrue." Stephen said

156 comments:

  1. Hmmmm don't know what to say sef..

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    1. Too many heartbreaks everywhere....i cover my heart with d blood of jesus!!!!

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    2. Linda ur aproko too much...we've run out of comments...

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    3. No matter how beautiful, Rich, great in bed, sexy u are. A man who will cheat will cheat. She should hav 4given him. They've been 2geda so long and it's not better out there. D next boo will still cheat

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    4. Diilish, melvin ιƨ still available. Shine your eye. *Cagey*

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    5. Melven is a jaw man ,so local ,imagine that beautiful dilish he couldn't tost her .he was just laughin and smiing around like an idiot.whr is from self wey no fit yan woman

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    6. That Melvin na Mumu of d century!

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  2. Na wa Oº°˚˚˚°ºO. Break up here; break up there

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  3. Nigeria girls dnt play

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  4. Ohhh I love dis girl..M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ time to attack!!!

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  5. ehyaa!....got diz feeling Dillish is d happier of d two,cuz now she go awol wit flavour

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  6. Kk,matured response,am not surprised,tiwa n nepabillz nxt,if u dnt post this ehhn linda,all ur val gifts go catch fire oooo

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    1. You are so evil and full of shit. Olosi omo. You are waiting for Tiwa's marriage to break, you will wait till you die. Miserable low life.

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  7. What happened?
    I guess Flavour happened after Ikwokirikwo.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  8. Is far clear that he still want her back! Anyway, dillish should plz marry Melvin the docile guy or any other nigerian guy even if she's a namibian

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    1. Never melvin. Pls take her to your brother if na so you like am reach

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    2. Na she and Flavour dey happen these days. Having dinners in expensive restuarants.

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    3. Melvin na Mumu of the Century!!!!

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  9. Ğoº°˚°ºϑ 4 dem if datz wnt D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ wnt, hook up with anoda Đ‎​‎‎​​ąτ̲̅ sute ɣ☺υ β€ţţ€я

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  10. Enov of d breakups...Dillish oya go meet Flavour.

    Najo_sleek™

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  11. And ladies, take this as a warning also. If a man can cheat on a woman like Dillish (annoyingly beautiful + rich) and you just have your foundation layered face and red lipstick going for you... complete the sentence. Don't let cheating brothas bother you, they will ALWAYS cheat. Whether na pre-cheating, almost cheated or the actual cheating.

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    1. Sighs dumb comment ever, if a man can cheat on preety and rich Dilish bla bla u are a mumu.

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    2. Hold your Horses now darling. Don't go cracking those foundationS on your pretty face. And yes, it's spelt P R E T T Y. I just gotta ask, ever heard, seen or was taught how to properly use punctuation marks and correct sentence construction? Really.

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    3. I love u Soul.. Spot on

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    4. True ! Word ! I love you Soul. Very smart and brilliant Comment !

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    5. True ! Word ! I love you Soul. Very smart and brilliant Comment !

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  12. Real man if is all dos mumu men dey wil 1st condem her lik timaya bigest fool ever

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  13. I saw it coming but dis d chance for her to pick 1 of d hot naija dudes

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  14. Breaking up is not a new thing #bright bravo#

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  15. That's not possible becos I luv seeing them 2geda.

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  16. Is β€ţţ€я Τ̅☺ break up if D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ cnt get along cos marriage is Τ̅☺ b enjoyed nt Τ̅☺ b endure, †ђξ ealier †ђξ beta Ψȋ§ȟ both of dem well.

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  17. *Grabs Pop corn and Coke* to think I know the Nigerian woman who Stephen exchanged a flirtation text with shame on her.

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  18. And as she amazing and fine reach,you couldn't stop yourself from flirting with another woman.after she kept herself for 91 days.nob say you fine sef.fat mofo!!

    9months will soon be complete.the truth will come out.onyara!

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    1. Yes ooo. In 9 months time, we will come visiting.

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    2. Hahaha..that stephen dude is just too old,shapeless,fat and ugly for beautiful dilish. He is d cause of the break- up. Dilish is a pretty girl and she wil just be fine. Someone else wil come her way

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  19. I just dey feel for Stephen his next and I feel sorry for his next babe.

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  20. Pls am I d only one who didn't receive any gift today Feb 14, 2013? Is that normal not even a flower. #GodDon'tWatchMeLikeThis

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    1. No sugar. I didn't receive any but I went out and gave myself a treat. Here's what I did. I took myself out to the movies, then to the stores and then to dinner. #selflove boo.

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    2. No baby. It's not just you. I didn't get one either but I went out and gave myself a treat. Here's what I did. I took myself out to the movies, then I went to the stores to splurge, then went for a two hour fun body massage and scrub at the spa, then took myself to dinner and in a bit, I'll be getting some loving from my inanimate brown sugar I call Idris Elba. LMFAO. #selflove boo.

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    3. No dear,you are not.Didn't even get an sms,but it's well.THE LORD IS MY SHEPHERD....ODIGHI IHE KOROM!

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    4. I really like Soul ! Is she new on the Blog ? Where have you been Darling ? Your Comments are always on point !

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    5. Soul,are u male or female?female I think.men don't make intelligent,impartial comments.i hope you are into women cos I like you.I'm bisexual but prefer women.

      O ya,let the bashing begin.

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    6. Otondo....you are unto a very loooooooong thing! You need deliverance from the spirit of valentinelessness.....buhauahahahaha

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  21. I thought they were drunk in luv when he bought her a car after winning the bba show..Dillish is everywhere in Africa nowadays am suspecting they don't spend much tym together lyk they used 2,the guy is cool,he's still defending her after breaking up,that shows his love and respect 4 her,shit happens sha

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    1. It's not as if Dilish wasn't flirting herself with all the parties her governor took her to. I think the boyfriend is just defending her cos that chick has been flirting in person around Naija while her guy is just flirting via SMS. #gud guys like him are hard to find#

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  22. And we care because.....?

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  23. Melvin dis is ur chancn, use it well..

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  24. I can sense the guy is at fault.

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  25. Their headache. When will Osho baba take Dilish to alter? And I'm sure Osho baba will be happy with this news.

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    1. U just talk sense now , I even feel say osho baba been dey fire the thing in between , who be Stephen where osho baba dey??? Besides why do I think I know u ????

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  26. Am sure dey departed fr good anyway.

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  27. Melvin where are u?it's time for u to continue frm wia u stopped.

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    1. Melvin is slow. He's there forming good boy. Dude hasn't heard that bad boys get it all. He'll be there Dillish will date three more guys. Onoro ebe ahu.

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    2. what do you mean by he will be there dillish will date three more? You pipo are jus so dumb, make she go date na, fine girl don finish? Him no want him no want. Get it into your heads

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  28. How does one exchange 'flirtatious messages' with a woman who isn't your lover and you say its not cheating????!! Cheating starts from the moment you imagine it, contrary to the general belief of sexual intimacy...! can she exchange flirtatious messages too? would you mind? thank you for clearing the air about her not being a gold digger though.kemisola

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  29. Oshiomole!!! The power of a Nigerian 'D'

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  30. hmmmmmm em don break up after she dance ikwokrikwo

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  31. hmmmmmm em don break up after she dance ikwokrikwo

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  32. Whatever rocks their boat. Linda Next pls

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  33. Good riddance to bad rubbish.I never saw them as a compatible pair anyway.Dillish's eyes is in Nigeria.I won't be surprised if she hooks up with a Nigerian.Flavour or Melvin or anyone

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  34. Hmmm! There seems to b to much break ups. Y cant pple manage eachoda like our grandparents.

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  35. Sori o,pls I tot they got married last year.Or was that a fake wedding?sm1 does undy all this news we read everyday sha

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    1. It was someone else's(Sonia's) wedding. She wsnt even in a wedding gown.

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  36. Trust naija guys to corrupt her na

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    1. Corrupt her how? She be pikin?

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  37. Nigerian women I hail thee!

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  38. This is wat I call maturity;taking responsibilty for ur actions nd accepting ur wrongs. Most Nigerian guys will capitalize on ppl's speculations nd try to make her look guilty. But u guys should try nd reconcile cos true lov is hard to find these days. And Dillish, if u truly u re dating or flirting wt Flavour, then just kno dt u re sitting on a long thn

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  39. Men! They wll never change frm cheating,Dillish pls biko face ur life dnt be bothered u wll find ur real man

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  40. Anytin is bound to happen* end of story*

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  41. Oh dear,my delicious dillish! How I prayed and fasted for u to win.lol..well nothing lasts forever so they say.all d best in their future endeavours
    ......gee d piranha

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  42. Naso Melvin lose for this matter

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  43. omg, it's really his loss. i just don't get it when guys choose to be stupid when they've got such a beautiful person. i'm sure all those who want to toast her are happy LOL

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  44. Congratulations Melvin lol

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  45. Their reasons are best known to them, abeg make the guy go enjoy him bike, wish them the best in their seperate life



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  46. Abeg both of them nor fit.. I trust my 9ja brodas will start sending their application.... So babes make you nor dull yaself ooooo....

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  47. WOW! i thot they could make it thru anything. na wah

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  48. Nawa for all these celebs. They do dey do, break up here, break up there. Tomorrow they will start to dey regreat.

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  49. Am not surprised I expected that, sorry stephen but dilish deserves a better looking guy u look like her father. Dilish oya run to melvin now..

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  50. Any ways i expected the break up #mouthsealed#

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  51. Dis is so sad! They were good 2geda!

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  52. Na wah ooo! Whatevr rocks their boat..

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  53. "he didnt say why they broke up" Linda pls read the story again, abi re u looking for a particular reason?

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    1. Read the story well again my dear

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  54. Linda chopping comment don't post @ very angry with.

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  55. Hmmmm, na both of una sabi.

    *adefunke*

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  56. No wonder,shez now with melvin in nigeria,,,,,even took a picture with melvin's mum...hmmmm,,,cute couple(melvin and dillish)

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  57. Dillish is havin a nice time in nigeria, n guess wat? Dillish + flavour = yummy. Dillish broke up wit him to b wit flavour.

    #GIFTEDhands

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  58. Ok, we yaff hear. We saw it coming after the visit at Oshiomole's Villa, Next Pls!!!

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  59. All Stephens r players and liars,trust me I met one late last year,he luvs gals more than himself,and lies like Satan.

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  60. Nah wah o.its one of dose tins u xpect frm a relationship.pray 4 a 2nd chance

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  61. Awww, so unfortunate!



    *NiKi Posh*

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  62. If dis ain't a publicity stunt den it's has got our vry own flavour n'abania written all ova it. U can neva tell...

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  63. oshiomole see wt u af cos....too bad biko steevo take hrt inaanu pele

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    1. Little girl, use ur brain o. How did oshiomole cause anything? Did he tell Stephen to flirt with d Nigerian girl. Abi u no fit read to understand?

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    2. Little girl, use ur brain o. How did oshiomole cause anything? Did he tell Stephen to flirt with d Nigerian girl. Abi u no fit read to understand?

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  64. Am happy for Melvin cos they are together now dillish really love Melvin, to those of you that think dillish is with flavour u are dead wrong cos she did that video for him and she got her money, flavour has his long time girl that no one can come between them delish +Melvin =true love wish them well.

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    1. Stupid mellishians

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    2. Alert----->a maria fan (melarian) detected. I just knew u'll soon give yourself off. So anyone who supports Melvin and Dillish is a mellishian? well then 95% of Africans are mellishians. Sorry, melvin loves Dillish n Dillish loves him too. Get a life.

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  65. shebe dillish cheat on her bf with oshiomole too?osho baba no fit just dash her 10mulla like that na.who sai!
    *50/50cheatingtinz*

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    1. I think Dilish is even the cheating one not her boo but the guy is just covering up for her. Gud guy to me

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  66. Was 100 percent they cant make it after her win but never knew it will come this way. Good luck to everyone

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  67. the girl has touched money. so it will be hard to forgive

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  68. It's called the Flavour effect.

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  69. D true story neva comot. We still dey wait. No b today dat geh eye dey up

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  70. How come am d only one seeing their relationship staged 4rm d beginning sef? To me, either d had an open relationship or it was staged. Break up my ass!

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  71. With all the pics of her and flavor all over the web,i would be surprised if they start dating..the will sure have adorable children!

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  72. OMG!!flavour nabania,sharp shooter,no dulling!

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  73. Well flavour is ur chance,you said you don't have a girlfrnd and dillish has broken up with stephen,plus amazing chemistry on set and dinner dates...I see something coming!

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  74. This men re cursed i swear! Imagine......all men flirt. Must u send such msgs to a woman u aint dating. You guys re doomed! Pls pple shud stop giving dis men more power to misbehave by saying is in their nature to cheat. Gosh! Wetin carry u send such msgs if u no get intensions. Abegi. Nemesis will catch up with all of you, if u don't repent.

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  75. They will get back together. Break up to make up

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  76. Oya Oga Melvin relaunch your bid to win her heart sharp shap, bcos d way deh look flavour Nabania, he is on his way to win the trophy

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  77. Matthew is a fool, y wld u want 2 justify ursef, by sayin ol guys flirt, u had a motive. Do u just put on a condom wivout planin on usin it? Thnk God u got caught, nd as 4 Dillish I won't spare u, ol em Bba finalist hangin arnd 9ja, xcludin Elikem, anytin wey una eye see make una collect ooo.....

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  78. Now that's the definition of maturity @stephen.
    ~D great anonymous!

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  79. The only girl that campaigned massively for Dillish and started the Mellish rumor just to get Nigerians so interested in Dillish is @chilome_beyonce abi @chilomebeyonce...think the underscore handle is the more accurate one though. This girl started a campaign of calumny against Maria moved down to Beverly. Jettisoned Melvin at the last lap of the "race" worked on the Ghana public by extolling Elikem over Melvin. This girl is a Nigerian she had her group including @unclechidi and the rest but it was clear she was bought over by Dillish's camp anyways. She was stoic about her supporrt for Dillish saw no flaws in her swiftly knocked off all oppositions and mazes on her way and did all the votes stealing for her. @chilome_beyonce home wrecker you see your dirty life. You have succeeded in tearing something so good apart. I am 99.99 percent sure that @chilome_beyonce is the mole in Nigeria that Stephen Gaeseb was hcontacting directly. The others were under Chilome's employ. That girl is a rookie that has zero morals I mean what woman sells herself short that way and wouldn't want to take over completely. Stephen the lustful man thank heavens you felt the truth was the only way you could save yourself of some little dignity that you still possess. Marcia has spoken!!.

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  80. Hmmmmmm.........see comments seems Nigeria really wants Melvin n Dillish to hook up will be waiting to see Melish becomes a reality

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    1. Ode! Where dem comments dey naa. Stupid Mellishian!!!

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  81. Which nigeria? Una go wait carry white hair still dey wait.

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  82. @Soul, lmao. Inanimate brown sugar Idris Elba? Hilarious.

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  83. She shouldn't ave done dat. D devil u know is beta dab d angel u don't know. This cheat of a tin is everywere nd nobody is perfect.

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  84. Mevin God has answered your prayer. oya act fast.

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  85. The girl is childish biko! How come a flirtatious messages would break a relationship? The only and last thing to break a relationship is DEATH if the love is there. Any other thing that comes should be dealt with, not to think or consider break up. So, which means to them any small issue can also break their relationship apart from flirt SMSes? The girl is childish abeg, make she grow up! Acquiring wealth cannot be compared with one who is full of wisdom! Be wise! If she like go to another guy, she will still break cos it shows she only want a clean sheet. Have she forgotten we have pencil and eraser on a clean sheet? Well, if she can't read this, people should learn from this cos wisdom is the principality. #Note: Sarah never left abraham or abraham never left sarah cos he slept with a maid even though she forced him to. Till today, they're father and mother of many nations(the jews and christians). When there is error, correct it immediately and move on... *Drops Mic*

    @kayjavu

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    1. Wisdom is a principality? Erm na Wisdom is a demon you for write...Olodo like you!!

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  86. Eeeeyaaaa #melarianrevolt #cryofapainedgroupie. MELLISH IS REAL..........

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  87. In all Honesty i think Both of them should come back,if She truly Love Him She hv every reason 2 4give there was a statement she made on Instagram, How they used Stephen Car to sell yrs back.We all struggle with SIN nobody can boast n say i cant Fall into Sin Adam did, Peter did,even me myself did show me a man who is above sin??? Unless they broke up on other grounds::NEVER FAIL...EJK

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  88. Dillish Melvin is the idle man 4 you ooo no fall him hand now u dey single

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  89. Lol,power of ikwokrikwo!now I get the dinner pics.

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  90. The guy is a fish sha. Dilish respected him throughout her stay in the bba house, he couldn't do the same. He no fine sef so she should not bother herself.

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  91. Men men men, when will u stop cheating? No matter how beautiful u are, ur guy most still cheat on u. Ladies, we most take it in Good fate na dere way.

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    1. Must not most! Maybe you weave on is too tight thereby causing your brain to type wrong English... Hehehehe

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  92. i dont understand why some fat IDIOTS here are bringing melvin into this? he didnt toast dillish in de house,yes! dillish and stephen are no longer an item,yes! Question is what has melvin got to do with this? will u foolish goats now direct his paths? get a life you BIGGEST IDIOTS EVER LIVETH!!!

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  93. U know urselves..

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  94. linda make you post my comments ooooo

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  95. these sick delusional mellishians. will u guys ever stop? if u guys want to direct people on how to live their lives, go and give birth! forreal?? u want to come and force some adults to date? haaaa.. i neva see

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  96. As IK said...Stephen was dumb enough not to propose to Dillish on that finale day!!!! People should know cheating is not only having sex or kissing someone who isn't your bf/gf, hubby/wifey but once you start hiding texts and deleting texts from that "said person" then you are cheating.... once a guy can do that ,then as vulnerable as girls are their "trust bar" just goes down. We shouldn't conclude and say Dillish is dumb enough, we don't know what other things have transpired leading to their breakup . To every fire there's a smoke and to every smoke there's someone who fixed it.
    On the other hand,I say LOVE is a drug, if they are meant to be they will eventually get married. NO ONE SHOULD JUDGE THEM!!! BOth of them truly know why they broke up

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  97. It's a super storyyyy *singing. The story doesn't seem true. There's something fishy

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