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Wednesday 29 January 2014

Toni Payne finally addresses cheating rumours, says she never cheated on 9ice

Four years after her 2010 separation from singer 9ice amidst cheating rumours, publicist and spoken word artist Toni Payne has finally addressed the rumours that has followed her for years. Toni & 9ice got married on July 17th 2008 and by January 2010, a year and a half later, the marriage was over. There were several reports at the time that she was caught cheating. 9ice actually started the cheating rumours by making a song where he said his woman cheated on him with a friend. People assumed he was referring to his wife and a rapper friend, who he later seriously quarreled with in the media

In a post on her blog yesterday, Toni said she never cheated on her ex-husband. Her words below...
To those who still believe I cheated on my ex. I am sorry to disappoint you, I never cheated on my ex hubby. Its not who I am, it will never be who I am. Tell yourself 1 million times, Toni Payne cheated, it will never make it true. Nobody caught me in any lie, or in any bad situation, nobody slept with anyone he was close to. Yall need to put a full stop to that bullshit. Its old!. Sometimes, men want their freedom, and the fact is you cant force them to stay. Same goes for women. Everyone wont have a perfect relationship, not everyone will stay married forever, we can only aspire to. Even those that have been married 10 years and are busy judging others, do you know your tomorrow? naaaa you sure don’t so curb it abeg. We can only pray, work, and hope for a good union. Continue...
Anyways To address this my ex said this or that issue. Let me just say He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of cheating. He has NEVER for once opened his mouth to accuse me of sleeping with anyone he knows. If awon alaiye baje wanna use our situation then to sell their crap, how is that my fault? The same media controlling the remote to say I think cheating is ok, are the same who controlled the remote back then to say his song was about me. Nobody ever called him to verify or ask before publishing. Ill admit that we both did not handle the situation well back then, It was the first time we would experience such. The tension was plenty and emotions were everywhere. We should have sorted it privately. which we did try to do but one rubbish headline and emotions go buckwild again. I don’t wanna sounding like I am defending him, cos he is responsible for himself, but in all fairness to him, and because I have a conscience that serves me well, not for once did he tweet, fb, email, interview anything of the sort. Our issues had absolutely nothing to do with what the media were speculating. People took a song he did and turned it upside down. My crew MIXED AND MASTERED the song. If it was about me, why would I allow him release it. God gave all of us sense naa.. Some just chose not to use theirs and chose to believe anything they read even when the facts are there to sort through.

The only thing I have blamed him for, was not coming out on time to refute the claims and allowing it to escalate to that level, he has since apologized SEVERALLY, we have discussed it privately as we should have from the jump. I have accepted and moved on. I have also apologized for losing my cool on twitter, he has since accepted and moved on. Really, what more is there. I am not sure what people want from me. Should I hate him forever? Should I tie him to a post and flog him mercilessly? Should I be a wicked person and deprive him of his son? If I remain bitter and upset, please what value will it add to my life? Wo, my life is much more simpler than all this. Those who know me well, know this. Those that dont understand me are the ones who will be forever outside looking in, speculating crap. I am truly tired of this topic but since it seems to keep popping up, i felt it is best to finally address it properly. If anyone decides to hang on to the lie after this, that is their own cup of tea. I have a talk show to record, poetry to write and a child to raise. I don talk my own. FIN!.

135 comments:

  1. Hahaha these people self! We don tire for una joo. Aunty lie good morning. Gosip center blog

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    1. Y she just dey tell us now...she dey coma b4?
      *vanchuks*

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  2. Wetin concern us abeg?

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  3. After all said & done,she simply want 9ice back in her life.

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  4. issokay o!.."we haf hear ya robust response"

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  5. Don't mind them, you are better than the useless alapomeji with his stunted growth. With all his money, he still looks scrawny.

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    1. Nonsence talk...look at ur booby sef d stuff is starting form ya neck

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    2. I no blame u this rat eze vincent. Na Social median phone cause all this rubbish. Small pikin like u dey come abuse person here. Whn did u stop sucking ur mums breast sef? Mschew

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    3. U cant even spell

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    4. LoIz.............laff tired.

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  6. My dear people will always talk.. Na dem get their mouth.. Just move on... I wish u all the best and ur son...

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    1. My dear in anything you do, people will still complain. Live is to short to worry about, so forget it and move on.

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  7. Eyah. I dnt even knw what to say sef...

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  8. live your live gal, i dont kw why people dont just mind their own bis

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  9. Medicine after death and it took her how many yrs again to finally address it? afta d damage's bn done..so 2what end's ds superstory now??i guess anoda man's showin interest in her and is afraid she'd cheat agn...hence,ds epistle.

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    1. Stay there and be wearing nysc uniform ur mate has worn five years ago. What's ur business if she decides to address the issue ten years after. Its ur type that keeps dewelling in the past that made her want to put a stop to the rubbish. Stupid d**khead

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    2. Being less negative wouldnt kill yah... just saying

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    1. Its mature response, #thankmelater#

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    2. Oluku ohafia! Go back to your village and learn more if the city ιƨ hard for Ʊ to cope.

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    3. Bia gloria, keep selling market wit your flat yansh, don't go and learn. Monkey Calabar!

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  11. I Just love dis babe..... Dis is what we call maturity even though its coming late... I wish you guys all d best!!!

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  12. Campaign after election, I don't espect dis from toni anymore since how many years? Just take it as lesson for u and some other people too. ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥♡thanks ⌣̊┈̥-̶̯͡»̶̥ 

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  13. Na una sabi o. None of my biz.

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  14. Story story stoooory


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  15. haters can keep talkin. media should stop posting trash abt pple's private life confirm bfre u tel us all d lies, move on with your life gurl and take care of ur son

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  16. Pain ....Payne.... She had better go and change that name and infact quit talking about the relationship if shez over it as she claimed! She owes nobody any explanation, its her private life!

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    1. You are a big fool headshrinka were u brought up in a remote village?, y did u decide to show ur stupidity to d whole world? by tlking crap?

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    2. And how is it any of your bizness what my opinions is? If you like read am, If u like vex an pluck out ur eyeballs! The Headshrinka has spoken! Otondo like you!

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    3. It really beats me how people like u get thru life with so much hate. If you dont wanna know abt her private life.. close Linda Ikeju blog and go and face your own private life na...

      Otherwise...be rest assured thay the negativity won't take u very far

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  17. Na dem get their mouth

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  18. madam go rest abeg.... ogini de all of a suddenly u want to be in the news....

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  19. Love her disposition very matured.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  20. this comment is abt the weed boy dat dey caught at the airport..dat guy is a student of regent university...

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  21. i knew ds woman didnt cheat on mr nice. he just wanted to explore and he walked away, but adding a serious allegation of 'cheating' to d injury was totally uncalled for. now his life and career is in a mess.

    nobody is perfect, we only look to God for perfecton.

    It is well.

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  22. Blah blah blah U really sound pained miss payne if you still love 9ice there is still an opportunity 4 u. Just take a deep breath then call him and tell him u want 2 see him, U won't know if he wants u back untill U try

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  23. Why she no talk am since, abi is she jst waking up from sleep!? biko seen, Lynda give us anoda gist neeeeeeexxxxxxttttt...

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  24. Whether she likes it or not she feels the pain... Stop d pretend game unless u never loved 9ice from the start. No perfect relationship, Yes, does not mean relationships or marriages cant get better to perfect.

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    1. So what have u said now? Didn't she just say they both didn't handle it properly back then? What's the pretend game you're talking about? Must you comment? Abegi, park well joh!

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  25. Why she no talk am since, abi is she jst waking up from sleep!? biko seen, Lynda give us anoda gist neeeeeeexxxxxxttttt...

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  26. Mehn.... The note too long abeg...... But the damage is already made.....

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  27. But wish una two come back....

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  28. NKAN TOBA WUN ANYBODY LOLE FI ENU WON SO. NA UR EX SING HAM, SO LIVE UR LIFE ND LET DEM SAY. SHIKINNA

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    1. No this is unacceptable, oh my God. What in the hell is 'consine'. It is concern. Ahhh o ga o.

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  30. We aint interested. After how many years. Live ur life woman.

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    1. Madam/Oga... she posted it on her own blog... doesn't your common sense tell u that it isnt or wasnt addressed to you? So no one really cares if u are interested or not. Ita called.... TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN... e.g Linda Ikeji

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  31. Issokay pain abi Payne o, d lord is ur strength

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  32. Only losers keep explaining. Your explanation dat didnt com years back cant change the lie or truth of the matter. you had pride too. no man wants to be bossed by ant woman. thats not the original plan even if you had money, fame or power than he does.... so stop explaining.. and just move on

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    1. Your logic and thinking is just upside-down. Only losers explain? R u sure u have brain cells like this? Have you heard of child molesters and murderers being caught and sent to jail 10 to 20 yrs after they committed their crimes bcos sm1 decided to be bold and speak up? How can you say the truth/lie can't be changed bcos she didn't speak yrs back? So if some1 dsn't speak immediately, all wrongs and evil shld be left as they r and never get corrected? Any1 can decide to set the records straight at anytime, besides she wasn't attacking her ex in her statement, she even defended him to a degree even tho his song added more fire to the rumours. And u're here talking rubbish. U better go and elevate ur thinking b4 ur leaders completely render u underwater with that mentality of urs.

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  33. Why she no talk am since, abi is she jst waking up from sleep!? biko seen, Lynda give us anoda gist neeeeeeexxxxxxttttt...

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  34. But this media sha has destroyed lots of relationships, ya"ll should repent, the damage is too much.

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  35. LARA ADEYEMO (MRS)29 January 2014 at 10:50

    I don't no hw dis wil happen,but pray u guy wil come back. AMEN

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  36. But on a second thought.. Ever since 9ice enter politics this woman come they disturb for net... Mehn, seriously i dey reason say this madam no say money and power full politics so she come dey join body with 9ice again so that both of them go enjoy the national cake..... Infact i no dey reason am, na the truth..... Madam i don catch yu.....

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  37. LARA ALADE ADEYEMO(MRS)29 January 2014 at 10:52

    I don't no hw dis wil happen,but i pray guy wil come back.AMEN

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  38. So @camila are u dating nice or what? Why r u hating on her? Lol.. And to dos crazy bloggers dt jes publish nonsence dey need to be sued to learn dia lesson in hard ways... I think to dos who doesn't know what really happened btw Seun payne and nice , if u don't believe what she is saying then go fuck yourself and am sure d idiots complaining are fucking different men apart from dia man... Seun Payne live your life jare

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  39. Hmm... But u only told us wat did not cause d break up. Wat of d real issue dat caused ur break up? I mean d real gist; d truth *winks*

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  40. Anon 10:47 you can call me whatever u want o, I don't know u and I don't give a hoot who u are. Av dropped my opinion just like everybody and if u don't like it, lag - ibadan express way is there, kill ursef!

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    1. LMAO @Lag - ibadan expressway. Lol

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  41. Why didn't u say it since? People will always talk,na them get their mouth.

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  42. Woman put every thing IN̶̲̅» gods hand he has the final say

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  43. The thing is people will leave their lives and yours too! They want to have opinions about their lives and yours too. That just sucks! That said 9ice and Co never really did provide concrete proof, just cooked up beef with ruggedman

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  44. M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dear put evry thing IN̶̲̅» gods hand he has the final say

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  45. Woman put every thing IN̶̲̅» gods hand he has the final say

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  46. Even if you cheated you will deny, we don't expect you to admit that.

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    1. Shut up Guava or whtever ur name is, she explained frm the vry start of the breakup.... tht you didn't have access to internet or bb isn't any1s fault. If u had bb 4yrs ago when we paid 5k for subsc u wld have read abt it. Didn't u listen to Ruggedmans recorded convo with 9ice confirming he wsnt referring to he nd his wife. I bet you were writing Junior WAEC then.

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    2. Lol @ anonymous' comment to apple

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    3. Payne why are you coming under annonymous to attacke every1 who airs their opinion? C'mon it'S a free world ni, u don't expect evry1 to agree with your tales. Grow up already

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    4. Lol @ anonymous' comment to apple

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  47. Her husband was out cheating making babies with another woman. He didn't care, so whatever. Blood courses through her veins. A woman has needs.

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  48. Toni bloody move on already! Gosh!!!

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  49. We knw d story so bounce,if u knew all this u hv tweeting for days, u wud hv still been married but no u went otherwise, abegi!!!

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  50. Rumour Will jus make u popular...u should be less concern......that's how they said i was Dating Nicky Minaj...xoxo flynnrules

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  51. Old story, they've both move on.

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  52. Dem just dey run dia mouth like water#inchidinma'svoice# FIRST TIMER!

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  53. How do we believe what she saying is true #brigh bravo#

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  54. The denial was too late in coming,over a matter that has to do with infidelity in marriage.

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  55. Lool, isn't it funny some people won't just use dia common sense before talking! Well, common sence isn't common... Toni Payne dear, pls just move on with ur life jare.. All dis while she hasn't talked, they were like she is guilty now she finally talked and dey r still like she shld shut up! Lol, fools everywia! Sm1 said" we knw d story" how many of u knws d story? Ode! Se 9ice told u d story himself or payne told u? Fools... And am sure dos ones saying rubbish are more useless dn dogs

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  56. Story story...stoooory.

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  57. you people no dey vex when this same media is praising and hyping you o
    whatever situation u find yourself on media it's better you just tie your "gele mawobe"

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  58. Toni Pain or Payne..............go and reconcile with ALAPOMEJI first before ranting rubbish on your blog.

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  59. Y dint u come out n say all dis den? Well, i don't bliv dis ur story... U sha cheated wit rugged man. E just pain me say abolore no b outspoken person if not shame for catch u for dis crap u put here now.... Bounce!

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  60. Amaka Chioma Dada29 January 2014 at 11:49

    My dear, move on with your life and forget about Talk Talk people, u owe them nothing..

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  61. Whtz all dis story all about, guess u think u ar narrating dis super story to a dumb ass like u meanwhile y av you choose to keep quite over the issue whn it was hot nd wht has now made u talk about it now whn every thing is cool. Abeg u dis lady take a bow nd waka pass

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  62. I give u 0/10, why cant u address d rumour in first time. Olodo osi.

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  63. Kk u sef wey dey listen 2 dem get tym,leave dem na mke dem tlk wen dem tire dem go shutup...awon o lo shi

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  64. Hmmmmm! It is well, but you knw wot is good for u both! God does nt support divorce, so restitute before its too late! Toyin Kakulu

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  65. Wonder why she kept quiet when it happened, but 9ice has not granted an interview till today to say his wife cheated so i'm taking sides with her

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  66. this babe is always deep. i admire her a lot

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  67. And how many girls did 9ice have sex with while he was married? men get away with alot of bullshit

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  68. Toni i understand how u feel.... just ignore them. ur ex hubby got u into this mess and has not cleared ur name till today

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  69. pls linda n libers from oda tribe exception of d yorubas,plz link me up wit any good make up artist in abuja or close to abuja,outside abuja his or her transport fare wil be taken care of .my weddin is early nxt month in abuja,so plz anybdy dt knws one shd drop his or her contact here for me.DARREL.

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  70. Happy M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ dear put evry things IN̶̲̅» gods hand he has the final say

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  71. Ermmmmm! You were quiet for four years...why speak up now? You should've let it slide woman. People will still believe what they want to believe anyways#Now Breathe






    PRETTY GIRL

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  72. Sowie mam, buh d guy don forget u na

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  73. Put evry thing IN̶̲̅» gods hand he has the final say

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  74. Since Ĥ♥̸̨W̶̲̥̅̊ many years ago?
    9ce don born twins nah like he cares! Ɣ☺u are matured buh late! Ur talk came l8 so move on Dear!

    Harnikky.

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  75. Move on payne,its well wit u nd ur son.

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  76. Pple should learn to let pple be. Don't drag pple into mess. So many of us v issues with our lives,families,friends,colleagues,boss,fiancé, marriage,name it.

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  77. she should have cleared herself since na.It's too late.

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  78. Kool story miss,we done hear una

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  79. *yawns* yeah yeah dont get pained honey u shud knw u were making ur matter public when you married a celeb

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  80. Don't know this lady but she has got a good head on her shoulders.

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  81. TO all celebrities..the so called model of nowadays..married today divorce tomorrow...u guyz shuld check the will of GOD for marriage before venturing into it...wonder what u guyz model..!...LINDA...E KU ISE OOOO

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  82. What I don't understand is how ppl keep on attacking each other on this blog such things make me laugh but it aint funny tho, mrs payne its not ur fault I can feel ur pain I guess u needed dat niqqa nice

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  83. @DARREL.........U SABI FIND TROUBLE OOOOOOO. lol.
    Wetin yoruba ppl do u???

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  84. why now? after all these years...
    Always want to be in the news!!!
    TP... we never forget you o!

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  85. @DARREL.........U SABI FIND TROUBLE OOOOOOO. lol.
    Wetin yoruba ppl do u???

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  86. Its appalling how wen men cheat its shoved down & 4gotten..
    D twin girls nice just identified with, didn't he have dem in d cause of hiS marriage? RUBBISH

    Maam face ur life n take of ur kid, U really don't owe people any explanations. TALK IS CHEAP

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  87. @darrel u av crious issue, u av allow ur past to hunt ur future whc wil also affect dat ur weddin u r makin noise abt...i sorry for ur generation to come...dis tribe r d most poweful nothin u can do abt it...ur case is a sorry case.

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  88. Very well said. Well written. Every part of it. There is nothing people love more than believing a woman is cheating on her man.

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  89. before u remove the speck in a persons eye, first of all remove the log of wood in ur own eye, toni dear, never mind what some jobless Nigerians r saying, only God knows the truth of the matter, but all i will say is that, let go of the past and lean on what the future holds for u and ur lovely son. but still i am gonna blame u for not looking before limping, u thought 9ce was d perfect match for u, well only God know if he really is, but from all signs and current views, he's actually not ur match, my advice is, just continue in wat u have been doing and never let ur past hunt u. good luck in life dear. 4rm Brenda Amah.

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  90. Sounds to me that this TONI PAYNE is guilty of leaving it to the last minute to come our with her version of the truth. Four years too late in fact. The world has moved so my dear you do too!

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  91. Toni Payne well done babes... matured response to awon olshi alaigborun eke jati jati

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  92. LINDA.... please, there should be a spot where we can reply to pple's comment.. or don't you think so? cos the pple wey dey comment for blogs self can be annoying..

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    1. Hahan r u blind? Or r u new here?

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    2. I just replied u now .... got it? ..... there is "reply" at the bottom of every comment it means u can click it and reply the person's comment

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    3. I just replied u now .... got it? ..... there is "reply" at the bottom of every comment it means u can click it and reply the person's comment

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  93. one thing I have noticed about some comments on blogs is that those commenting as ANNONIMOUS are same people or persons that are associated or related to d story. Who is fooling who. reason why I don't post comments often. TONI PAYNE u re an intelligent woman and I do luv ur Blog and poems well inspiring but regarding this issue I think this response was unnecessary as it has opened a lot of issues that most people has forgotten. like u said it's ur personal issue so I feel it should be seen and addressed as such.

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  94. well the reason i believe she is responding now is because her baby daddy wants to run for a political post, so in order to clear all the cobwebs in the closet so as not to taint his image she had to address this issue... i believe the timing and event all match.

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  95. y did she wait till this time? after all said and done... life goes on

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