Dear LIB readers: I had a fling with a guy and he's now blacklisted me
From a female LIB reader
Have I made the biggest mistake of my life? Did I do something so terrible? I met this guy at my work-out place and found him
really attractive. I've never found myself making the first move but
in this case it was almost uncontrollable. I got his no and called him
and we met up, had drinks and I couldn't control myself either and it
all went down. He called me up for a second date and we had sex again. We
both agreed it won't happen again since he is in a relationship and
wouldn't want to mess that up. I see him everyday at the gym and we just
greet passively. I just realized he blacklisted my number on his phone. That hurts. It's not like I was stalking him. Please did I make such a blunder to follow my heart for the first time
ever? I'm just really confused here. Did I do something that's unacceptable?
U made a major whore move u dunce! How hard is that to comprehend? First of, u aggressively got into his pants and second of, u knew he was in a relationship. WHich man in their right mind will take u serious after that??
Abeg go and sit down my friend,who are you to judge her?people make mistakes joo....it's up to them to learn from it.....i'm sure if you were in her shoes,you'll do worse......mtchewwwww
Abeg go and sit down my friend...who are you to judge her?people make mistakes and it's up to them to learn from it....if you were in her shoes,i'm sure you'll do worse
The person dat sent in this post must be my ex ify,no1 is dat cheap except 4 her & she forgot 2 mention she's also in a relationship with some1 as well. WHORE!!!
Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice! Na me go even bone d guy sef! Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf. Move on girl, its no biggie! There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!
Чε̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊ђ sex is not love but most girls misunderstand DAT !! Ɖ guy is even nice 2 have told U̶̲̥̅̊ but some guys won't tell U̶̲̥̅̊ dey just keep forking U̶̲̥̅̊
Emmmm, she didn't say she's in love with him. She just wanted to know what it feels like to be the first to make a move to straff a man, she did it, so I don't know why she's cashing feelings now. Home breaker.
Lol @ cheerful giver...God loves a cheerful giver,in oda words, @poster,God loves u....deal with it babes,u r now one of his has beens/i-was-there.get over it.o ti fi obo se bonanza
I wouldn't dwell on it. Mistake number 1: HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP. Try to limit your hurt to your pride and not your heart then it is easier to let go of it. If he has blacklisted you that's even a good thing, otherwise he may be looking to make you a side chick and one day some Naija babe will come and pour gutter water on you and call you a man-snatcher. You don't need that drama. And I want to assume it was not your 'heart' you followed. It was your loins lol. Let it go, pray for forgiveness for messing with another woman's man and move on with your life.
So fucking what if he black listed ur number abegmove on with ur life,u probably stalking him if not how u know you were blacklisted ,u had a fling so forget it and move on
Anyaku I didn't blacklist ur numb, u deleted me from ur bbm nd blocked me on whatssap.. after reading this I knw its u, I stil tink about u everyday, saw ur Broda 2days ago wen I was drivin out from my house.. call me, I don't ave ur numb anymore on my phone.
Cheap how ?? Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice! Na me go even bone d guy sef! Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf. Move on girl, its no biggie! There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!
Na every girl be ashewo for una eyes! All of una wey dey open mouth call anoda pesin pekin wey u no know ashewo o, if u be girl, u too be ashewo, if u be married woman u be ashewo b4 marriage, if u r a guy dat means every female in ur house na ashewo! Except u r a virgin! Having feelings for a man now is ashewo tinz for ur own book abi?
Oh Sweety!!! Yes u messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold and you expect him to take u seriuosly?? You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. Just move on and when u meet someone new dont be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers
Yes u did! u were a whore...if u don't have respect for urself, why should he have respect for u...pple don't often treat things dat comes cheap well n dat includes cheap Pple too....duh!
U don't hv to complain dear....koz u really sold urself so cheap.......my advice 4 u is to 4get abt him n move on koz he aint gonna take u back......sowi!
very wrong n really really unacceptable.... he sees you as a cheap girl dat goes for every guy she likes.... moreover premarital sex is still sin it hasn't changed.
Wat were u actually expectin 4rm him.#strife u like a whore nd stil make u his gf#my dear wake u 4rm ur drmz.u made urself 2 cheap nd dat's d outcome.* u no behave like confam naija babe @ all*
Oh Sweety!! Yes you messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it.. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold.. You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. When you do find someone new do not be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers
its crazy, u followed ur heart bt u executed d plan in a wrng way.. Avin sex with a guy on your first date is like selling ur dignity for chicken change.. So as u see u've automatically lost d respect he'd had for u
Unacceptable is jumping rit on hs bed ma dear...u had alrdy blacklisted ur slf by doin dat, I don't think u wud tolerate ur boyfrnd avn sex wit anoda gal nd here u go doin it wit sm1's...u shld learn frm ur mistk dou
I don't get it,what kinda advice does she need here? Mtchwww i'm wondering if Linda must publish every cock-and-bull story people send 2 ha. ~AKWA IBOM'S FINEST~
U said U guys agreed to stop doing stuff so why all the extra? He doesn't want his gf asking who U are if U call him again (cos he doesn't want to lie to her... LoL). Babe U're thinking way too much abt this. Keep it civil and move on. Or go back for a taste from time to time. U're grown, act like it
Omo cee question? Babe your matter don pass the one way agbada dey hook wire o! U better leave dat amazing gy for the gurl that deserves him,lansense boifrnd snatcher #darlyn lara just spoke#
No be u give am yourself wen u kno fit control your self so wat do u expect that he should save ur name with Gold or my diamond. Get a life babe & move on as u have done after d fling EURO VOICE
You should feel ashamed sef, go get a boyfriend abeg if u know u cannot control yaself. So many guys out there looking for a relationship, u dey there dey give freely. Nonsense!!!!!
first of all how do you know he black list you? and secondly why are you bothered? hope you aren't developing feelings for him o? shit happens move on, you followed the congi feeling not your heart. all the best.
Well I will not say what you did was acceptable or not acceptable but you are just too cheap and only God know how many guys you have get down with. Any way just ask God to forgive you and forgive yourself BECAUSE YOU REALLY OFFENDED YOUR YOURSELF.
Onye ikpu 1 of Ndi okpara LGA. Weldone!!!! I hail oooo(bows with my hat off) . So, cuz he works out and has got packs, your cheap toto could not close again baa? And to top it all, you collected extra akpako for the second time consecutively and you sit there asking if you did anything wrong.... YES!!!! You did, you gave free gifts when it isn't christmas. Mumunatu!!!
My dear it waz neva ur fault so dat get ur self 2 b blamed aftall dis can apen 2 any1 n min yl u neva knew d guyz intentn bt jst mak sure dat it wult apen again.
You followed you heart the wrong way. Getting down on the first date doesn't put you in a good place with a man. Even if he was to choose you over his current girl, you just lost your chance. Hope the lesson has been learnt.
Babe! For real u messed up. U knw most guys aint matured to dat level of girls making d 1st move, he probly think u cheap forget dat he's in a relationship dat nt d point. Most guys in a relationship still av flings here and der so no biggy.. D best gud u'l do urself is jst to forget it, him, and evry oda tin u'v had togeda. Not easy but dats d best. D guy aint matured enof to handle it so move on. All d best
It was wrong for you to hit on a guy for only just wanting a piece of him but then we all have made some silly mistakes in our lives. Dust yourself up, change your gym and move on with your life. But have some self worth next time. Guys are programmed in a way that the moment you sell your self cheap for them, they lose all respect for you. xxx
Lol. I know people will come at you with their usual holier than thou verbal abuse... Anyways, I believe that what you felt for him was purely sexual and since you met him at the gym, I'm guessing you had the hots for his physique. Why then are you looking for more? You don chop...clean mouth and move on sister.
I like that guy, he did well. I do that a lot when girls play hard to get. As most Naija girls like to do shakara even when they fancy a guy, so can a guy use and dump una. The ladies i want to warm in my bed 2014 are Yvonne Nelson,Linda, Genevive, Ebube.
I just think he took some precautionary steps, since he is presently seeing someone and doesn't want to mess things up. However, I'll suggest u don't give urself a hard time. Just live life and try to be happy....u'll be surprised he may come back begging.
Lwkmd@1st 2 commenters.give me 1 reason y u shudnt be backlisted babe!afta being father christmas or rather shud l say moda theresa.u nid 2 clean up ur mess.
Easy come, easy go babe...count ur loss, next time learn some self control!...if u want to get back at him though, u need to totally ignore him, as in not angry or anything but act like uve neva seen him before in ur life..that should get his attention n if he dares to ask why tell him he's really crap in bed n u reli can't over the fact dat he was that bad....
Mumu did I hear you say he's in a relationship? Mumu leave him alone. Go and find someone else to screw. Ukwu-nnu like you. You're not even ashamed of yourself. How I wish it was my guy you were making a move on, then I will tear your skin with razor. Rubbish!
Hey girl, it has "happened" meaning 'past' so it belongs to there and let it go. Move on with your life and dont let it bother you. Please dont stop going to ur workout place because of dat. Better still be more cheerful like never before. The good thing is dat you have realised ursef i mean who you are and keep being 'you'. Cheerup girl and keep smiling to the world. Dont be negative about ursef for any reason, cos mistakes are made to make u a better person. so see it as u are becoming a better person. Plase go on and conquer d world.
Hahahahaha..anyway,my dear na six packs wey u see blew u off ur fit abi...u didnt do wrong things bcos since ladies of nawadays sees those things as trend or fashion and not keeping fit things again.it has happened it has happened ooo,but next time check out for d content and not d packaging.. Emegwedi ife furu
babe ........... wait would u like continue ?unless uer nt a complete retard pack ur shoes and were it it will lead u to the right person one day.by the way let me give my pin maybe i might be lucky and am attrctive too o
i know this girl, she has a baby for a guy and there are planning to get married soon and she is still opening her public toilet for every tom, dick and harrod. well done ashewo, when will you learn and change, funny thing is this guy knows her fiance and this story is bound to get out soon, African whore of Europe, you won the award, bravo for you, oloshi.
i wonder why you will post such a story on this blog when you knw the way libers are they will trash u with comments well i'm sorry for what happend to u ooh and i think you should move on... why are u even surprised he blacklisted you didnt uguys agree never to do it again? cos of his relationship?.
My dear wat u did was bad,erase every feeling you have for him n stand tall,you can't kill yourself over him besides he has a girlfriend.Linda post my comment or
once you open your kinni for any guy who already knows you are in another relationship, then girl, nothing for you, talkess of respect, you might get fucked over another couple of times but nothing for you, talkless of respect, you are just the laughing stock and object of ridicle, sorry!
you're cheap and easy...he has a girlfriend and you were aware of that YET you made him go ahead and sleep with u...you deserve to be blacklisted...he probably feels bad!!imagine if u were his girlfriend and your boyfriend is doing things like that
the girl na wa for you, how many times, you are not only humiliating yourself but also your family and your fiance and father of your baby, when you know the guy knows your husband already, so cheap, we know you well,well, and you are not suprised things are working out how it should be, whorest
People make mistakes. People move on. You wanted something and you went out for it. U might have given it too early but hey! Its ur life, your body ur decision . SO dust your shoulder, keep your head and move on to the next one. Only this time you would be wiser.
emm, move on? clearly he dont want anything to do with you anymore. And please, for all the saints that have commented here, i can clearly sense the virginity in all of y'all. he who is without sin..... You dont have to be a whore to see what(who) you want and go for him...
You are very stupid to ask this question , Y can't you ask your brain before u fell at love attractin by the time u requested for man's no $ later 1st $ 2nd sex, I'm sure d two were unprotected sex with somebody you aproached urself , I'm also sure u would be the one paid 4 d drinks $ d accomodation. The outcome will teach you a great lesson rather it serves you right 4 being a disgrace to urself $ womanhood
Haha, these days terrible things just pass for "well what do you think, Is it bad? I always wonder if senses are still right in our generation. Sorry girl, you really had a fling
Oh shut up you guys! later, ya'll will be the one saying women should not over think things when it comes to love.YA'LL BLAME WOMEN FOR KEEPING "IT" WHWN THERE ARE SO MANY WOMEN OUTSIDE. AND SAY THAT'S THE REASON THEY ARE SINGLE. NOW THIS WOMAN DECIDED TO LIVE A LITTLE AND PUT HER HEART OUT THERE. NOW YOU ARE BERATING HERE...TAKE A SEAT JOO
not only blacklist, very soon he will pass your number round to his friends who will start calling you saying you guys met somewhere you cant recollect and you should meet up, knowing you whorish ass you will obliged after your normal feeble resistance, then gbosah again, anyway your are a just a recycled shit!
Lol lmbao, Shai You gave OSHO FRee, Didnt he know he was in a relationship before he "Dadubule" Babe you need to kiss and tell on this fool He used! used!! you, Its not entirely your fault so spill the bean to his girlfriend. You never know you might win him in the end
Abeg d guy is a big fool! D gal did wat she felt was right and will make her hapi all of u judging her I don see una expensive pple rubish! My dear 4get d guy he can't handle a woman like you. Gbam!
oh puleez, yall acting so holy, abeg quench the matter abeg. please ignore this man as well, count this as one of those bad decisions we all make. move on with your life abeg, you cant erase the fact that you did the deed with him
In life we all at some point make unbelievable blunders. Yes everyone! The question/advise I av for u my dear is 1. Did he use protection? 2. Go for HIV test. 3. Pick yourself up, Move on quickly.
You Guys are Harsh oh! Truth is without doubt , she messed up and she hopes someone will say otherwise! Truth is my dear, there is nothing otherwise to say. He sees you as cheap and doesnt want you to ruin his relationship! Let him be and learn from this.
Well, I don't tink u did wrng by makin passes at a guy u like, tho I tink sleepin wit him was a lil overboard tho shit happens, don't drool over it..I think I understand where he's comin from, but sis, u av to man-up nd get over ds dude. Ure worth more dan ds ;)
That's what you get when you throw yourself @ a guy,first impression matters & u've already given the impression that you are cheap so what do you expect??? Dude won't definitely take you serious.
just move on, he might have a relationship to protect and not knowing how to handle this situation. He has conscience and he does not want to continue taken advantage of you.Is not better than you.
never make the first move.............not every guy can handle it..............probably one in a billion can appreciate the fact that you made the first move and still hold you in high esteem.........
men are natural hunters and unless the suffer sometimes, dey wont appreciate wat they have.........
not an excuse but fact.............sorry u had to go thru dat
Your mistake was following your heart. All that stuff you hear on TV and Movies etc is total bull. Use your head theres no harm in approaching someone you find attractive, however theres everything wrong with jumping into his bed just because you find him attractive. If you act as a slut you get treated as such. Plain and simple. Sorry you had to find out this way.
never make the first move.......never go after someone in a relationship except he comes after you and its for the long term....................probably one in a billion can appreciate you making the first move.............
men enjoy the thrill dan the prize at the end........few enjoy both equally.............sorry u had to go thru dat
I really think things like this is luck am 23 i met my fiance last year it was even my colleagues in the Office that drew my attention to him hes really attractive,he was wit his neice so i talked to her so i would nt say i Made d First move n the next Day i tried kissing him he refused me.then we started dating n not long we Had Sex now we getting married next year by God's Grace...
Hey Libers why una de always form saint ehen wen most of u r worst, She asked 4 Advise not witch hunting and condemnation *Shiiiooorrr*. Sweety life is Beautiful,GOD IS MERCIFUL. Delete His Number and Move on ok.*Hugs*.
U didn't do anytin wrong., it jux dat tinz didn't work out d way u thaught. Cheer up gal ur urnt d first and certainly won't b d last! dats part of findin d right partner....till u find one. Forget d sex ur are CHEAP!!!
y'all are too damn judgemental !! shit like this happens, sometimes the chemistry can"t be ignored, she made a mistake and hopefully she has learned from it. as for him blacklisting you well its called cause and effect he's in a relationship and it was just sex ! blacklist him too and move on .#we live ...we learn
See all of them....SAINTS..please close your mouths let me hear word..you are criticising her just because she had the boldness to confess....have many of you have confessed of your evil deeds before?please leave the poor girl alone jooo..
I cant believe the comments i am reading here, are people so bitter within themselves. My dear please i just want to ask you a few questions........... 1 - How was the sex 2 - Did he make you go gaga.... like hope you really enjoyed it.
There is absolutly nothing wrong with going after what you want, as long as you enjoyed yourself with multiple orgasim. If he blacklisted you then forget him, let him think over and over about how great the sex was..... he will definatly contact you but dont go back there. Let him remain as a booty call for a much needed massage. No sweat, no need to be embrassed for every girl does this, only a few admit it. I met my fiance on day 1, day 2 we were at it like animals and we were engaged 3 months later.
some of y'all here should actually shut up! its not by force to comment. why must nigerians be insultive? you all just want to say something, i know y'all might have done worse, even the stupid boys with STD here would open their gingivitis ridden mouths to talk shii. Hypoctrites.
same happened to me, i had sex with this guy cuz i find him attractive and he hasnt called me since.he text me a few times after that night and i thought we were cool but he just suddenly went cold, i was high as fuck, i keep trying to replay that day in my head but cant remember d whole scenario and i regret that day everyday.
YOU MADE NO MISTAKE HUN, IT WAS A FLING RIGHT? FLING IS THE SAME AS TOSSING A COIN, IT CAN EITHER LAND ON HEAD OR TAIL. TO HAVE A FLING YOU SHOULD EXPECT THE WORST POSSIBLE. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT MOVE ON YOU GOT THE SEX YOU WANTED WHY WORRY YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR POSITION IN HIS PHONE. HE S TAKEN YOU SAID SO YOU DONT ACTUALLY WANNA KEEP HIM SO MOVE ON, ITS DONE ITS DONE EXCEPT YOU ASKING FOR MORE THEN IN THAT CASE YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. GIRLS FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT SEEING A GOOD LOOKING GUY AS GUYS SEEING A PRETTY GIRL, THE TROUBLE IS THAT ONLY MATURED GUYS RESPECT A WOMAN STRONG ENOUGH TO WALK THE WALK FIRST. YOU MET RAY J IN THIS CASE (KISS AND TELL) AND THAT IS THE THING WITH WRAPPED UP GIFT, YOU NEVER KNOW WHATCHU GETTING. ONE LESSON LEARNT LIFE MUST CONTINUE AND FCUK ALL THESE PEOPLE CURSING HER OUT ON HERE, YA ALL BED MARRIED MEN AND YOU ARE HERE THROWING STONE AROUND. SHE ASKED FOR ADVICE, YOU GOT ONE DROP IT RIGHT HERE AND IF YOU AINT GOT ONE SHIT THE FK UP AND KEEP MOVING. LINDA POST THIS O
You got want you wanted. so my dear move on and forget it happened....!!!! it must have been worth the risk for you to go for a second time. Don't flog your self it was great S.. you had so again move on.
Babe you shoulda been more careful.love is kind, patient ,is not boastful of wrongs, does not seek its own:see where im going with this you certainly didnt love him nor yourself.however when life shows you pepper, omote, make peppersoup.dont dwell on the past the sun will definitely set and shine again.move on and let go .make better choices next time.
I use the gym too! How do you gals do that? For me before I will f#ck a man, I have thought of the worse that can ever happen, so when it happens I don't feel it, Bcos I wasn't forced! I did it willingly, so if he feels like a pro, it's for his pocket!
Nigerians and their mentality.... U guys don't need to criticize her or use abusive words on her... Juz advice and let her knw whr she went wrong... Well I think she was only deceived by her mind... Juz try and forget about that and move on... And never make such mistake again... We are all learners! We learn lessons from one thing or the other!
YOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY MISTAKE , AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FRUSTRATE YOURSELF, LIFE IS A GAMBLE, AND A TREASURE HUNT, YOU ARE A HUNTER, SO YOU NEED TO BE A SEARCH MACHINE AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE, PLEASE IGNORE HIM, AND MOVE ON , I CAN ASURE YOU THAT SOMETHING GOOD IS LYING AHEAD FOR YOU
girl why you worried, you were good pussy and he was good dick, dont even sweat it. I hope you used a condom? cause that will not be funny if you get preggo or an STD.
Pretty, u didn't do anything wrong, just that d guy is in a serious relationship. Love to know u more. U can add me on dis bbm 282514F8 if u don't mind. Thanks
U made a major whore move u dunce! How hard is that to comprehend? First of, u aggressively got into his pants and second of, u knew he was in a relationship. WHich man in their right mind will take u serious after that??
ReplyDeleteAbeg go and sit down my friend,who are you to judge her?people make mistakes joo....it's up to them to learn from it.....i'm sure if you were in her shoes,you'll do worse......mtchewwwww
DeleteGbamest!!! Baby girl sowie, u ddnt do bad. Buh you should deal with that cos he's in a relationship and you are aware of that. Sowie again
DeleteAbeg go and sit down my friend...who are you to judge her?people make mistakes and it's up to them to learn from it....if you were in her shoes,i'm sure you'll do worse
DeleteThe person dat sent in this post must be my ex ify,no1 is dat cheap except 4 her & she forgot 2 mention she's also in a relationship with some1 as well.
DeleteWHORE!!!
U shldnt feel backlisted cos u got what u want! Move on abeg! He didnt promise u anything!
DeleteIt was jst a fling!
Well, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice!
DeleteNa me go even bone d guy sef!
Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf.
Move on girl, its no biggie!
There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!
Abeg shut up there... Did she say she wntd d man to tk her serz? If a man can hunt, y cant a woman?
DeleteDear writer, wats ur own problem sef? U wntd d hot bod, u got it nw its time to move on joor. Abi are u wanting more of wat u can't av?
what if he's married? what do you want him to do ? Move on - why must women attach unnecessary feelings to sex? Do it and move on.
ReplyDeleteNne I tire o......
DeleteЧε̲̣̣̣̥a̶̲̥̅̊ђ sex is not love but most girls misunderstand DAT !! Ɖ guy is even nice 2 have told U̶̲̥̅̊ but some guys won't tell U̶̲̥̅̊ dey just keep forking U̶̲̥̅̊
DeleteLife's a bitch,it's ur mess so deal with it..
ReplyDeleteLife is a bitch yea? Well...they rape bitches in my neighbourhood..
DeleteMadam ruth of life, his thing must be sweetening u ....
ReplyDeleteno u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.
ReplyDeleteno u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.
ReplyDeleteno u did not do anything wrong but becareful next time. Move on with you life.
ReplyDeleteWell done, clap for yourself *claps*
ReplyDeleteGo ahead girl, do your thing
He's got sth good and doesn't wanna mess with it! Move on and change your gym kapish! Oh and ask God to forgive you while @ it..
ReplyDeleteNo my dear. U didn't commit any blunder. But u re obviously in love with d wrong person. So I urge u to shove him off n move on. Life goes on #Ozi
ReplyDeleteEmmmm, she didn't say she's in love with him. She just wanted to know what it feels like to be the first to make a move to straff a man, she did it, so I don't know why she's cashing feelings now. Home breaker.
DeleteYr heart lied to u for the first tym. Linda wts up! Kel
ReplyDeleteWELL DONE CHEERFUL GIVER, YOU DONE SO WELL. YOU NEED TO GIVE TO MAYOR OF LODON AS WELL. BITCH DONT KILL MY VIBE
ReplyDeleteAsheeewooooo! Don't use 'follow my heart' to cover it up. Ashewo an ashewo. Smh
DeleteFollow your heart? And you were okie with a fling?
DeleteLol!
Ok
Lol @ cheerful giver...God loves a cheerful giver,in oda words, @poster,God loves u....deal with it babes,u r now one of his has beens/i-was-there.get over it.o ti fi obo se bonanza
DeleteAunty Linda, please create a machanism where we can 'Like' a comment that we LIKE, I so LIKE @AnonymousNovember 11, 2013 at 4:59 PM's comment
DeleteHehehehe @bitchplis comment.
DeleteBuhahaahaha! Bitchpls, oti lu ni jibiti obo.. #coversface
DeleteWell done, clap for yourself *claps*
ReplyDeleteGo ahead girl, do your thing, share the love
I wouldn't dwell on it. Mistake number 1: HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP. Try to limit your hurt to your pride and not your heart then it is easier to let go of it. If he has blacklisted you that's even a good thing, otherwise he may be looking to make you a side chick and one day some Naija babe will come and pour gutter water on you and call you a man-snatcher. You don't need that drama. And I want to assume it was not your 'heart' you followed. It was your loins lol. Let it go, pray for forgiveness for messing with another woman's man and move on with your life.
ReplyDeleteSo fucking what if he black listed ur number abegmove on with ur life,u probably stalking him if not how u know you were blacklisted ,u had a fling so forget it and move on
ReplyDeleteAnyaku I didn't blacklist ur numb, u deleted me from ur bbm nd blocked me on whatssap.. after reading this I knw its u, I stil tink about u everyday, saw ur Broda 2days ago wen I was drivin out from my house.. call me, I don't ave ur numb anymore on my phone.
ReplyDeleteLmDo!!!!!!!!!!
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DeleteWhat are u for real, but since u have a woman why would she call u
DeleteLmaO! Who the hell's Anyaku and who da hell's dis niggur dat typed dis shii!...
DeleteIt serve's you right! He just feel's you are a cheap whore! You knew he was in a relationship didn't you?? The guy don chop clean mouth..LOL.
ReplyDeleteCheap how ??
DeleteWell, na d poster they make herself look cheap cos if its me, i wont even bring up dis issue cos i was attracted to him, had him twice!
Na me go even bone d guy sef!
Attraction no mean love! N knowing fully well he have a gf.
Move on girl, its no biggie!
There is nothing cheap in her approaching d guy first abeg, we all r humans n have feelings too!
Loool sorry
ReplyDeleteWhat is the big deal here?u too blacklist his number on your fone
ReplyDeletehmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteHw cn it be acceptable?. Wen u knw he is in a relatnship. Serves u right...
ReplyDeleteMy friend,to him you did the unthinkable, do the maths! So what? pls move on jare and stop beating yourself over trivia issues.
ReplyDeleteDats exactly wat suites u..learn to control ur TOTOmeter!!
ReplyDeleteYou are just a whole. That is not our culture, i mean here in Nigeria. If say u be my junior sis, i would have slap u 10 times. Ashawo.
ReplyDeleteShattap dere....acting Lyk ur life is all perfect.... We all go astray sumtymz
DeleteDo u mean whore, thank me later
DeleteNa every girl be ashewo for una eyes!
DeleteAll of una wey dey open mouth call anoda pesin pekin wey u no know ashewo o, if u be girl, u too be ashewo, if u be married woman u be ashewo b4 marriage, if u r a guy dat means every female in ur house na ashewo! Except u r a virgin!
Having feelings for a man now is ashewo tinz for ur own book abi?
What! She'z just a 'whole' .... This week, by God's grace it should be called off.. Chai!
DeleteOh Sweety!!! Yes u messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold and you expect him to take u seriuosly?? You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. Just move on and when u meet someone new dont be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers
ReplyDelete*thumbs up*
DeleteYes u did! u were a whore...if u don't have respect for urself, why should he have respect for u...pple don't often treat things dat comes cheap well n dat includes cheap Pple too....duh!
ReplyDelete@anon 5:07 One of d pretenders!
DeleteU don't hv to complain dear....koz u really sold urself so cheap.......my advice 4 u is to 4get abt him n move on koz he aint gonna take u back......sowi!
ReplyDeletevery wrong n really really unacceptable.... he sees you as a cheap girl dat goes for every guy she likes.... moreover premarital sex is still sin it hasn't changed.
ReplyDeleteI really don't get what your point is?
ReplyDeleteU hooked up and u both agreed it ended?
from what i get here, u are not over it? cause how else would u no of even care that he blacklisted u?
This is the problem with women, its called a one night stand……not a night to plug in your emotions….move on madam!
hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh
ReplyDeleteWat were u actually expectin 4rm him.#strife u like a whore nd stil make u his gf#my dear wake u 4rm ur drmz.u made urself 2 cheap nd dat's d outcome.* u no behave like confam naija babe @ all*
ReplyDeleteWhat else do u expect, he already told u he's serious with someone else... This is a sign that you need to move on with your life.
ReplyDeletehahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh
ReplyDeleteNop, absolutely nottin wrong wt dt, trust me curds been worse ... Atleast it ended early enough..
ReplyDeleteLOLZ! You acted thirsty sha. Anyways it is allowed. Best is, gv hm his space. To him u were just gd enough 4 d fun and dats it.
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hahahaha did your heart tell you to have sex with him? someone you are not even into any serious relationship with.Girls of nowadays shaa...smh
ReplyDeleteOh Sweety!! Yes you messed up big time.. Time and time again women are told to make men work for it.. You gave him ur body on a platter of gold.. You were the other woman and he is only treating you as such.. When you do find someone new do not be in a hurry to have sex.. Cheers
ReplyDeleteGirl,u have to control urself. yes u made a mistake,but it's time to move on,so don't get stuck in self pity,it won't do u any good
ReplyDeleteto me is not bad sha.but always control ur emotions
ReplyDelete#olobothingz u have done nothing wrong baby don't mind that evil thot wanting to make u feel bad
ReplyDeleteOde
its crazy, u followed ur heart bt u executed d plan in a wrng way.. Avin sex with a guy on your first date is like selling ur dignity for chicken change.. So as u see u've automatically lost d respect he'd had for u
ReplyDeleteCommon Girl! Trust me, am attraticve too and I need some freebies...crap!
ReplyDeleteYou acted cheap. Forgive yourself and move on!
ReplyDeleteLearn to control your lust
You acted cheap. Forgive yourself and move on!
ReplyDeleteLearn to control your lust
Unacceptable is jumping rit on hs bed ma dear...u had alrdy blacklisted ur slf by doin dat, I don't think u wud tolerate ur boyfrnd avn sex wit anoda gal nd here u go doin it wit sm1's...u shld learn frm ur mistk dou
ReplyDeleteSorry hon. You shouldn't have done it in the first place, knowing he had a girlfriend. Follow your heart, but always carry your head along.
ReplyDeleteI don't get it,what kinda advice does she need here? Mtchwww i'm wondering if Linda must publish every cock-and-bull story people send 2 ha.
ReplyDelete~AKWA IBOM'S FINEST~
U said U guys agreed to stop doing stuff so why all the extra? He doesn't want his gf asking who U are if U call him again (cos he doesn't want to lie to her... LoL). Babe U're thinking way too much abt this. Keep it civil and move on. Or go back for a taste from time to time. U're grown, act like it
ReplyDeleteNeed a mature lady for intimate relationship. 08063619110
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ReplyDeleteU are a real ANIMASHAUN *hiss*
And all U hipocrites. Free the babe
ReplyDeleteu need more practice girl...u prolly ddnt put it down on him right
ReplyDeleteEya sorry o
ReplyDeleteOmo cee question? Babe your matter don pass the one way agbada dey hook wire o! U better leave dat amazing gy for the gurl that deserves him,lansense boifrnd snatcher
ReplyDelete#darlyn lara just spoke#
No be u give am yourself wen u kno fit control your self so wat do u expect that he should save ur name with Gold or my diamond. Get a life babe & move on as u have done after d fling
ReplyDeleteEURO VOICE
You should feel ashamed sef, go get a boyfriend abeg if u know u cannot control yaself. So many guys out there looking for a relationship, u dey there dey give freely. Nonsense!!!!!
ReplyDeletefirst of all how do you know he black list you? and secondly why are you bothered? hope you aren't developing feelings for him o? shit happens move on, you followed the congi feeling not your heart. all the best.
ReplyDeleteWell I will not say what you did was acceptable or not acceptable but you are just too cheap and only God know how many guys you have get down with.
ReplyDeleteAny way just ask God to forgive you and forgive yourself BECAUSE YOU REALLY OFFENDED YOUR YOURSELF.
Onye ikpu 1 of Ndi okpara LGA. Weldone!!!! I hail oooo(bows with my hat off) . So, cuz he works out and has got packs, your cheap toto could not close again baa? And to top it all, you collected extra akpako for the second time consecutively and you sit there asking if you did anything wrong.... YES!!!! You did, you gave free gifts when it isn't christmas. Mumunatu!!!
ReplyDeletePLS AND PLS THE GUY IS CHILDISH LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO LISTEN TO SOME FOOLS TALKING FOLLOW UR HEART AND MAKE URSELF HAPPY PLS,,,,,,,,,,,U DID UR PART
ReplyDeleteMy dear it waz neva ur fault so dat get ur self 2 b blamed aftall dis can apen 2 any1 n min yl u neva knew d guyz intentn bt jst mak sure dat it wult apen again.
ReplyDeleteYou followed you heart the wrong way. Getting down on the first date doesn't put you in a good place with a man. Even if he was to choose you over his current girl, you just lost your chance. Hope the lesson has been learnt.
ReplyDeleteI pity u my dear ,but don't do that man are animal
ReplyDeleteanon 4:59. I guess u r not better dts why u critise
ReplyDeleteStupid girl, where u wearing coke bottle before
ReplyDeleteWhat gym is that pls? I might get lucky as well. *tongue*
ReplyDeleteBabe! For real u messed up. U knw most guys aint matured to dat level of girls making d 1st move, he probly think u cheap forget dat he's in a relationship dat nt d point. Most guys in a relationship still av flings here and der so no biggy.. D best gud u'l do urself is jst to forget it, him, and evry oda tin u'v had togeda. Not easy but dats d best. D guy aint matured enof to handle it so move on. All d best
ReplyDeleteIt was wrong for you to hit on a guy for only just wanting a piece of him but then we all have made some silly mistakes in our lives. Dust yourself up, change your gym and move on with your life. But have some self worth next time. Guys are programmed in a way that the moment you sell your self cheap for them, they lose all respect for you. xxx
ReplyDeleteFollow ur hrt anywhere it take...
ReplyDeleteAs long as it wil b fun
Lol. I know people will come at you with their usual holier than thou verbal abuse...
ReplyDeleteAnyways, I believe that what you felt for him was purely sexual and since you met him at the gym, I'm guessing you had the hots for his physique. Why then are you looking for more? You don chop...clean mouth and move on sister.
I like that guy, he did well. I do that a lot when girls play hard to get. As most Naija girls like to do shakara even when they fancy a guy, so can a guy use and dump una. The ladies i want to warm in my bed 2014 are Yvonne Nelson,Linda, Genevive, Ebube.
ReplyDeleteI just think he took some precautionary steps, since he is presently seeing someone and doesn't want to mess things up. However, I'll suggest u don't give urself a hard time. Just live life and try to be happy....u'll be surprised he may come back begging.
ReplyDeleteLwkmd@1st 2 commenters.give me 1 reason y u shudnt be backlisted babe!afta being father christmas or rather shud l say moda theresa.u nid 2 clean up ur mess.
ReplyDeleteMUMU OF LIFE..... Such a cheap item like u
ReplyDeleteYou followed you heart wrongly, you just ended up making yourself a cheap article. Hope you've learnt your lesson... Cheap Ass Chick!
ReplyDeleteEasy come, easy go babe...count ur loss, next time learn some self control!...if u want to get back at him though, u need to totally ignore him, as in not angry or anything but act like uve neva seen him before in ur life..that should get his attention n if he dares to ask why tell him he's really crap in bed n u reli can't over the fact dat he was that bad....
ReplyDeleteMumu did I hear you say he's in a relationship? Mumu leave him alone. Go and find someone else to screw. Ukwu-nnu like you. You're not even ashamed of yourself. How I wish it was my guy you were making a move on, then I will tear your skin with razor. Rubbish!
ReplyDeleteHey girl, it has "happened" meaning 'past' so it belongs to there and let it go. Move on with your life and dont let it bother you. Please dont stop going to ur workout place because of dat. Better still be more cheerful like never before. The good thing is dat you have realised ursef i mean who you are and keep being 'you'. Cheerup girl and keep smiling to the world. Dont be negative about ursef for any reason, cos mistakes are made to make u a better person. so see it as u are becoming a better person.
ReplyDeletePlase go on and conquer d world.
MUMU OF LIFE..... Such a cheap item like u.... Abeg linda post ma comment o
ReplyDeleteIn M.Is voice "Kelechukwu clap for urslf welldone!!!"
ReplyDeleteGivers never Lack.. No worri more guys re coming..
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha..anyway,my dear na six packs wey u see blew u off ur fit abi...u didnt do wrong things bcos since ladies of nawadays sees those things as trend or fashion and not keeping fit things again.it has happened it has happened ooo,but next time check out for d content and not d packaging.. Emegwedi ife furu
ReplyDeletebabe ........... wait would u like continue ?unless uer nt a complete retard pack ur shoes and were it it will lead u to the right person one day.by the way let me give my pin maybe i might be lucky and am attrctive too o
ReplyDeletei know this girl, she has a baby for a guy and there are planning to get married soon and she is still opening her public toilet for every tom, dick and harrod.
ReplyDeletewell done ashewo, when will you learn and change, funny thing is this guy knows her fiance and this story is bound to get out soon, African whore of Europe, you won the award, bravo for you, oloshi.
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ReplyDeletei wonder why you will post such a story on this blog when you knw the way libers are they will trash u with comments well i'm sorry for what happend to u ooh and i think you should move on... why are u even surprised he blacklisted you didnt uguys agree never to do it again? cos of his relationship?.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind these hateful people. He probably feels bad since he has a girlfriend. He might fin you irresistibly attractive thus the avoidance.
ReplyDeleteMy dear wat u did was bad,erase every feeling you have for him n stand tall,you can't kill yourself over him besides he has a girlfriend.Linda post my comment or
ReplyDeleteHOE
ReplyDeleteonce you open your kinni for any guy who already knows you are in another relationship, then girl, nothing for you, talkess of respect, you might get fucked over another couple of times but nothing for you, talkless of respect, you are just the laughing stock and object of ridicle, sorry!
ReplyDeleteTake the next available flight to Oblivion.
ReplyDeleteyou're cheap and easy...he has a girlfriend and you were aware of that YET you made him go ahead and sleep with u...you deserve to be blacklisted...he probably feels bad!!imagine if u were his girlfriend and your boyfriend is doing things like that
ReplyDeleteCAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER TOO. WILL GIVE YOU SO HARD YOU WONT HAVE TO GIVE BACK :)
ReplyDeleteAnother one bites the dust? Pele, it is happening to Oyinbo people too!
ReplyDeletethe girl na wa for you, how many times, you are not only humiliating yourself but also your family and your fiance and father of your baby, when you know the guy knows your husband already, so cheap, we know you well,well, and you are not suprised things are working out how it should be, whorest
ReplyDeletePeople make mistakes. People move on. You wanted something and you went out for it. U might have given it too early but hey! Its ur life, your body ur decision . SO dust your shoulder, keep your head and move on to the next one.
ReplyDeleteOnly this time you would be wiser.
Just passin by
ReplyDeleteU are cheap...ode oshi
ReplyDeleteTWO WORDS.... YOU'RE A HOE. OH SORRY THAT WAS THREE. DEAL WITH IT AND MOVE ON!!!
ReplyDeleteDon't worry my dear he'll be calling you whenever he wants some free pussy
ReplyDeleteemm, move on? clearly he dont want anything to do with you anymore.
ReplyDeleteAnd please, for all the saints that have commented here, i can clearly sense the virginity in all of y'all. he who is without sin.....
You dont have to be a whore to see what(who) you want and go for him...
You are very stupid to ask this question , Y can't you ask your brain before u fell at love attractin by the time u requested for man's no $ later 1st $ 2nd sex, I'm sure d two were unprotected sex with somebody you aproached urself , I'm also sure u would be the one paid 4 d drinks $ d accomodation. The outcome will teach you a great lesson rather it serves you right 4 being a disgrace to urself $ womanhood
ReplyDeleteHaha, these days terrible things just pass for "well what do you think, Is it bad? I always wonder if senses are still right in our generation. Sorry girl, you really had a fling
ReplyDeleteOh shut up you guys! later, ya'll will be the one saying women should not over think things when it comes to love.YA'LL BLAME WOMEN FOR KEEPING "IT" WHWN THERE ARE SO MANY WOMEN OUTSIDE. AND SAY THAT'S THE REASON THEY ARE SINGLE. NOW THIS WOMAN DECIDED TO LIVE A LITTLE AND PUT HER HEART OUT THERE. NOW YOU ARE BERATING HERE...TAKE A SEAT JOO
ReplyDeleteSorry is ur surname....y on earth wud u av sex on a first date? Smh 4 u ooo
ReplyDeleteJust be your self things like this do happen just forget him and move on
ReplyDeletenot only blacklist, very soon he will pass your number round to his friends who will start calling you saying you guys met somewhere you cant recollect and you should meet up, knowing you whorish ass you will obliged after your normal feeble resistance, then gbosah again, anyway your are a just a recycled shit!
ReplyDeletePlease what does 'blacklisted' in this context mean mbok?
ReplyDeleteQuestion of life!!!
ReplyDeleteCHEERFUL GIVER, CHEERFUL GIVER, CHEERFUL GIVER...
ReplyDeleteYou have done so well my dear, please i am good looking too o, tell me where we meet so you can give me mine too.
ReplyDeleteDis is a warning to moi. Cant take my eyes off one young man where I gym in kpeyegi. I even dream of him kissing me.. fleees*
ReplyDeletePick another person and fuck. My guess is you were a lousy fuck. What did you expect? Relationship?? Lmao
ReplyDeleteHaaaa. She did so well. She followed her mind. It's not a crime. Let go of the guy. You used and dump him. Hope you enjoyed the sex anyway
ReplyDeleteU know aw it feels like to b on d other side of d road. When gals do dat to guys wat do u call dat..
ReplyDeleteSome guys hate it wen girls make d first move, and girl u didn't go after ur heart, u went after his pants
ReplyDeleteHaaaa. She did so well. She followed her mind. It's not a crime. Let go of the guy. You used and dump him. Hope you enjoyed the sex anyway
ReplyDeleteIt has happened alrdy move on, and all dos calling u names have done worst, jus say na who dem catch be d thief
ReplyDeleteYes my dear, u messed up big tym! Its sombody's boyfrend oo... So leave them let them be. Do unto others wat you lyk others to do unto you
ReplyDeleteIt has happened, jus move on. And dos pple that wld call u names do worst, jus that na who dem catch be d thief
ReplyDeleteLol lmbao, Shai You gave OSHO FRee, Didnt he know he was in a relationship before he "Dadubule"
ReplyDeleteBabe you need to kiss and tell on this fool He used! used!! you, Its not entirely your fault so spill the bean to his girlfriend.
You never know you might win him in the end
Abeg d guy is a big fool! D gal did wat she felt was right and will make her hapi all of u judging her I don see una expensive pple rubish! My dear 4get d guy he can't handle a woman like you. Gbam!
ReplyDeleteoh puleez, yall acting so holy, abeg quench the matter abeg. please ignore this man as well, count this as one of those bad decisions we all make. move on with your life abeg, you cant erase the fact that you did the deed with him
ReplyDeleteIn life we all at some point make unbelievable blunders. Yes everyone! The question/advise I av for u my dear is 1. Did he use protection? 2. Go for HIV test. 3. Pick yourself up, Move on quickly.
ReplyDeleteCee dis didirin o! U knw even cee beta place 2ask 4advice na on top LIB...you're on a longest tin cos dem go yab u die! shior
ReplyDeleteAm sure d guy must b very handsome dat y
ReplyDeleteYou Guys are Harsh oh! Truth is without doubt , she messed up and she hopes someone will say otherwise! Truth is my dear, there is nothing otherwise to say. He sees you as cheap and doesnt want you to ruin his relationship! Let him be and learn from this.
ReplyDeletego chop shit. when you dey fuck u nor call us yo join.now u need our advice
ReplyDeleteNawa
ReplyDeleteBabe its okay. ur not a whore. Guys do this all the time and get pass mark.
ReplyDeleteYour mistake is you're clingy. Stop clinging to the guy if you ignore him, he'd be the one pestering you.
He has to blacklist your phone so his woman will not know he has a new sidechick na.
U want make the guy lose his main squeeze?
U women need to be satisfied with side chick, play your position and stop blowing up ni**As phones 4real.
Well, I don't tink u did wrng by makin passes at a guy u like, tho I tink sleepin wit him was a lil overboard tho shit happens, don't drool over it..I think I understand where he's comin from, but sis, u av to man-up nd get over ds dude. Ure worth more dan ds ;)
ReplyDeleteThat's what you get when you throw yourself @ a guy,first impression matters & u've already given the impression that you are cheap so what do you expect??? Dude won't definitely take you serious.
ReplyDeletejust move on, he might have a relationship to protect and not knowing how to handle this situation.
ReplyDeleteHe has conscience and he does not want to continue taken advantage of you.Is not better than you.
never make the first move.............not every guy can handle it..............probably one in a billion can appreciate the fact that you made the first move and still hold you in high esteem.........
ReplyDeletemen are natural hunters and unless the suffer sometimes, dey wont appreciate wat they have.........
not an excuse but fact.............sorry u had to go thru dat
what did u expect ? ode
ReplyDeleteYour mistake was following your heart. All that stuff you hear on TV and Movies etc is total bull. Use your head theres no harm in approaching someone you find attractive, however theres everything wrong with jumping into his bed just because you find him attractive. If you act as a slut you get treated as such. Plain and simple. Sorry you had to find out this way.
ReplyDeletenever make the first move.......never go after someone in a relationship except he comes after you and its for the long term....................probably one in a billion can appreciate you making the first move.............
ReplyDeletemen enjoy the thrill dan the prize at the end........few enjoy both equally.............sorry u had to go thru dat
I work out too.why don't such ladies come to the gym where I work out too?*sad face*
ReplyDeleteI really think things like this is luck am 23 i met my fiance last year it was even my colleagues in the Office that drew my attention to him hes really attractive,he was wit his neice so i talked to her so i would nt say i Made d First move n the next Day i tried kissing him he refused me.then we started dating n not long we Had Sex now we getting married next year by God's Grace...
DeleteForget d fool
ReplyDeleteHey Libers why una de always form saint ehen wen most of u r worst, She asked 4 Advise not witch hunting and condemnation *Shiiiooorrr*.
ReplyDeleteSweety life is Beautiful,GOD IS MERCIFUL.
Delete His Number and Move on ok.*Hugs*.
U didn't do anytin wrong., it jux dat tinz didn't work out d way u thaught. Cheer up gal ur urnt d first and certainly won't b d last! dats part of findin d right partner....till u find one. Forget d sex ur are CHEAP!!!
ReplyDeletey'all are too damn judgemental !! shit like this happens, sometimes the chemistry can"t be ignored, she made a mistake and hopefully she has learned from it. as for him blacklisting you well its called cause and effect he's in a relationship and it was just sex ! blacklist him too and move on .#we live ...we learn
ReplyDeleteHehehehehehe! Abeg com collect my number too na... Anu ofia! Ikeyencha mu ibiakwa kenyen kwo my frnds kwa since afagi bu keziah...
ReplyDelete***datigbonicca***
@Godiswatching @5:52 well said.not every guy can handle it...
ReplyDeleteWon ti lu e ni jibiti obo ( you have been defrauded sexually)
ReplyDeleteMadam u followed ur estrogen not ur heart. Get ur facts ryt. FYI if u were in his shoes u ld also blacklist his no.
ReplyDeleteSee all of them....SAINTS..please close your mouths let me hear word..you are criticising her just because she had the boldness to confess....have many of you have confessed of your evil deeds before?please leave the poor girl alone jooo..
ReplyDeleteI cant believe the comments i am reading here, are people so bitter within themselves. My dear please i just want to ask you a few questions...........
ReplyDelete1 - How was the sex
2 - Did he make you go gaga.... like hope you really enjoyed it.
There is absolutly nothing wrong with going after what you want, as long as you enjoyed yourself with multiple orgasim. If he blacklisted you then forget him, let him think over and over about how great the sex was..... he will definatly contact you but dont go back there. Let him remain as a booty call for a much needed massage. No sweat, no need to be embrassed for every girl does this, only a few admit it. I met my fiance on day 1, day 2 we were at it like animals and we were engaged 3 months later.
some of y'all here should actually shut up! its not by force to comment. why must nigerians be insultive? you all just want to say something, i know y'all might have done worse, even the stupid boys with STD here would open their gingivitis ridden mouths to talk shii. Hypoctrites.
ReplyDeleteFOOLS forming they are righteous ...una no dey do the same thing? Eyin oloshi ...
ReplyDeleteMove on my dear, e dey happen and you cant kill urself..
Bitch thats what you get. cheap things go like that VIAM
ReplyDeletesame happened to me, i had sex with this guy cuz i find him attractive and he hasnt called me since.he text me a few times after that night and i thought we were cool but he just suddenly went cold, i was high as fuck, i keep trying to replay that day in my head but cant remember d whole scenario and i regret that day everyday.
ReplyDeleteYou moved to fast.slow down next time..a lesson learned
ReplyDeleteYou moved to fast.slow down next time..a lesson learned
ReplyDeletedon't sweat it jo..move on..all you idiots calling her names, am sure you are all sex starved!!! hypocrites..
ReplyDeletea responsible girl wont act the way you did, u seriously need to learn frm your own mistake
ReplyDeleteYOU MADE NO MISTAKE HUN, IT WAS A FLING RIGHT? FLING IS THE SAME AS TOSSING A COIN, IT CAN EITHER LAND ON HEAD OR TAIL. TO HAVE A FLING YOU SHOULD EXPECT THE WORST POSSIBLE. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT MOVE ON YOU GOT THE SEX YOU WANTED WHY WORRY YOURSELF ABOUT YOUR POSITION IN HIS PHONE. HE S TAKEN YOU SAID SO YOU DONT ACTUALLY WANNA KEEP HIM SO MOVE ON, ITS DONE ITS DONE EXCEPT YOU ASKING FOR MORE THEN IN THAT CASE YOU ARE ON YOUR OWN. GIRLS FEEL THE SAME WAY ABOUT SEEING A GOOD LOOKING GUY AS GUYS SEEING A PRETTY GIRL, THE TROUBLE IS THAT ONLY MATURED GUYS RESPECT A WOMAN STRONG ENOUGH TO WALK THE WALK FIRST. YOU MET RAY J IN THIS CASE (KISS AND TELL) AND THAT IS THE THING WITH WRAPPED UP GIFT, YOU NEVER KNOW WHATCHU GETTING. ONE LESSON LEARNT LIFE MUST CONTINUE AND FCUK ALL THESE PEOPLE CURSING HER OUT ON HERE, YA ALL BED MARRIED MEN AND YOU ARE HERE THROWING STONE AROUND. SHE ASKED FOR ADVICE, YOU GOT ONE DROP IT RIGHT HERE AND IF YOU AINT GOT ONE SHIT THE FK UP AND KEEP MOVING. LINDA POST THIS O
ReplyDeleteany truelly responsible girl wont act the way u did, you just need to learn from ur own mistake
ReplyDeleteYou got want you wanted. so my dear move on and forget it happened....!!!! it must have been worth the risk for you to go for a second time. Don't flog your self it was great S.. you had so again move on.
ReplyDeleteBabe you shoulda been more careful.love is kind, patient ,is not boastful of wrongs, does not seek its own:see where im going with this you certainly didnt love him nor yourself.however when life shows you pepper, omote, make peppersoup.dont dwell on the past the sun will definitely set and shine again.move on and let go .make better choices next time.
ReplyDeleteYou didn't do wrong following your heart dear... your heart just did wrong leading you to the wrong person. He's attached for crying out loud!
ReplyDeleteThats what we call "DOH FREE".looooll
ReplyDeleteYou didn't follow your heart as it were, you were messed up by your emotions, you allowed it from the onset!..wake up! and smell the coffee
ReplyDeletei hate the fact that so many of u this foolish retarded people just open your mouths and talk trash its so unfair and stupid
ReplyDeleteI use the gym too! How do you gals do that? For me before I will f#ck a man, I have thought of the worse that can ever happen, so when it happens I don't feel it, Bcos I wasn't forced! I did it willingly, so if he feels like a pro, it's for his pocket!
ReplyDeleteNigerians and their mentality.... U guys don't need to criticize her or use abusive words on her... Juz advice and let her knw whr she went wrong... Well I think she was only deceived by her mind... Juz try and forget about that and move on... And never make such mistake again... We are all learners! We learn lessons from one thing or the other!
ReplyDeleteWat are Ɣ☺ΰ waiting for? Ɣ☺ΰ too Redlist his number na shoo..!
ReplyDeleteYOU ARE NOT MAKING ANY MISTAKE , AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO FRUSTRATE YOURSELF,
ReplyDeleteLIFE IS A GAMBLE, AND A TREASURE HUNT, YOU ARE A HUNTER, SO YOU NEED TO BE A SEARCH MACHINE AND CARRY ON WITH YOUR LIFE, PLEASE IGNORE HIM, AND MOVE ON , I CAN ASURE YOU THAT SOMETHING GOOD IS LYING AHEAD FOR YOU
One word girl, cheap! Keep sleeping around, then turn around to ask if you did blunders. Mtchewwwww
ReplyDeletegirl why you worried, you were good pussy and he was good dick, dont even sweat it. I hope you used a condom? cause that will not be funny if you get preggo or an STD.
ReplyDeletePretty, u didn't do anything wrong, just that d guy is in a serious relationship. Love to know u more. U can add me on dis bbm 282514F8 if u don't mind. Thanks
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