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Question of the day: What's the most important thing in a marriage?

What's the most important thing in marriage, love or financial stability?
at 10/10/2013 01:18:00 pm

314 comments:

  1. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:20

    Back in d days, it was love but this days, it's financial stability

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  2. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:20

    Trust

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  3. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:20

    RESPECT AND COMPROMISE ALSO FORGIVENESS AND PATIENT,

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  4. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:23

    If you aint financially "stable", Stable here means you have a job, house, mobility... why fall in Love?, your conscience should "prick" you especially with the type of economy we live in atm.

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  5. E~Pearl10 October 2013 at 13:23

    Ahh Lily, ₪a̲̣̣̣̥ ℓ♥√ε O°˚˚˚ ,, ℓ♥√ε covers all. After ℓ♥√ε, its da chess meehhnn..

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  6. ST. KIZITO BOUTIQUE IG: @stkizitoboutique10 October 2013 at 13:23

    Financial stability. Once the man is broke, hell is let loose..........SKB

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  7. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:24

    Love,tolerance,undastanding,financial stability above all GOD

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  8. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:24

    Love should be the foundation of any relationship,but let's be sincere financial stability is also very important. You must not be a billionaire but your family should be able to have the basic necessities of life.

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  9. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:24

    Love linda,love.. Ntin in dis world equals being loved n lovin sum1 .. anyoda tin is 2nd to love! LOVE! *ONYX GODWIN*

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  10. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:24

    God,Communication and friendship. Love is important but the above is key.

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  11. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:24

    LOVE LOVE AND MORE LOVE....

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  12. ★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★10 October 2013 at 13:24

    Both love and money play vital roles. Love should be the foundation of marriage, but financial stability is paramount too! I bet you that there is no way you can grow more in love with a man who is not providing your needs, and privation can lead to a lot of unthinkable things in marriage.

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  13. Ifyody10 October 2013 at 13:25

    Love is d most important. Sometimes couples may be financially stable but find it difficult 2 weather storms. If there is love they can manage their financial instability till they re ok

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  14. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:26

    Friendship and sweet love♥

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  15. maydebz10 October 2013 at 13:26

    Love

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  16. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:28

    Love and understanding.

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  17. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:28

    Love, no doubt!

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  18. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:28

    financial stability ofcos. without financial stability there is nolove

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  19. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:28

    Trust

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  20. Chinedu10 October 2013 at 13:28

    Children and financial stability

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  21. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:29

    Love is the most important. It endures all. *vote Andy ubah*

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  22. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:30

    Love is important. But sometimes, love is not enough.

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  23. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:31

    love

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  24. BLAZER10 October 2013 at 13:31

    FINANCIAL STABILITY, it will give d man his well desired respect nd will make d love grow, they knw dey chop love

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  25. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:31

    Both! They both work hand in hand. They can't do without each other. If there is no money (not necessarily millions) it shakes d foundation built on love, before u know it d marriage crumbles. If d money is there n no love, that one too Na wahala.

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  26. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:33

    Both love and financial stability matters a lot. one can't do without the other.

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  27. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:33

    Companionship, issues and to fulfill all rightousness.

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  28. Priscy10 October 2013 at 13:33

    both!

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  29. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:33

    For me there are both important.cos I aint gon marry a poor man bcos ov love and I won't marry a wealthy man and be unhappy!...linda it took me time do write this be kind to post it.

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  30. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:33

    Both would be great. I remember a good friend of mine once told me. Love does not put food on the table or pay your children's school fees.

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  31. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:34

    No money no love

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  32. HATERS-SLAYER10 October 2013 at 13:35

    Lindiway I no go lie love does exist,buh love without money go catch fire. Infact e don burn finish.

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  33. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:36

    No money no love

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  34. Amaka10 October 2013 at 13:36

    Love SLASTYLES.

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  35. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:37

    Money is important but I feel love should be d basis of any marriage then other things can follow.

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  36. jokey10 October 2013 at 13:38

    MONEY

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  37. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:38

    I think it's love, although money plays a greater role. Especially for women/ladies of this days.

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  38. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:38

    financial stability brings love. A broke man is an angry man.
    www.trendyrammy.com

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  39. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:40

    Love

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  40. darlah10 October 2013 at 13:40

    Financial stability is very very very important and am even tempted to say it is the most important buh true love really supercedes all. Oh, i just love love.

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  41. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:40

    1, Good head. 2, Good Sex 3, Combination of both.

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  42. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:40

    i think money and love go hand in hand. im married, so i speak from experience, even the man wuld always feel frustrated nd
    less of a man if he cant provide for the home no mata hw much love the woman shows him.

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  43. tee baby10 October 2013 at 13:41

    Dis dayz its financial stablity cos I'm not sure real luv exist,how many married people are so happy deep down,I'll rada cry in my big world dan luv a wretch.talking from experience

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  44. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:41

    Communication!

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  45. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:41

    It's mostly communication...

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  46. pearls10 October 2013 at 13:41

    both!!!

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  47. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:41

    Both oooooooo

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  48. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:42

    Finances come and go but love should be steadfast for a marriage to last. I should know, I've been married for 20 years.

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  49. pearls10 October 2013 at 13:42

    both!!!....1st to commento...#dancingantenna!

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  50. pearls10 October 2013 at 13:42

    both!!!....1st to commento...#dancingantenna!

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  51. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:42

    Both of them oooo very important

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  52. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:43

    Both ooo

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  53. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:43

    Good sex! LOL!!

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  54. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:43

    trust n patience

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  55. lary10 October 2013 at 13:43

    Understanding is the most important thing.

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  56. Nicki Posh10 October 2013 at 13:43

    Financial stability........! o_o

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  57. Livvsreamblog10 October 2013 at 13:44

    We should not be fooling ourselves both are really important..

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  58. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:45

    I would go for both... But financial stability make sense *winks*

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  59. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:46

    Guys want steady sex n women needs financial security...period!!!

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  60. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:46

    Love is the most important. God sees where there is love and all other doors open. Just last year i married my hubby wit no penny in his account but today we are happy and financially stable. God is doing more for us. Just believe is him.

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  61. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:46

    It's Love(duh), buh financial stability comes a close second and cannot be overemphasised

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  62. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:47

    Love oooo.

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  63. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:49

    Financial stability is very important and with it,love can grow and be nurtured unlike love without money which is the bedrock rock of frustration in marriage,hatred and accusations. Pls,If u have tried love without money,u will never want it

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  64. BONARIO NNAGS10 October 2013 at 13:49

    Love
    love
    love.
    But these days u can buy love with money.
    women love it like monkey loves banana.

    ~BONARIO~saya so via NOKIA3310

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  65. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:49

    TRUST! TRUST! TRUST! It's neither love nor financial stability. Not even communication. And don't get me wrong, all those are very important but with trust, life tastes really good in marriage!

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  66. bex10 October 2013 at 13:51

    Hummm linda dey work hand in hand o!

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  67. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:51

    Love First

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  68. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:51

    @ linda

    what is needed most in a relationship or marriage first is LOYALTY.
    Loyalty goes far beyond trust. Someone that is loyal is ready to do anything.
    Loves still have a place in relationship. You can love someone but might not be loyal to the person.

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  69. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:51

    Both

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  70. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:51

    Well all are important , but love should be first not just for the individual u intend to marry but for God, cos there will be times u wont even remember the love u have for the fellow, but if u have real love of God in ur hear then things will work out, money is important but sometimes there could be financial crises, if there was no love initially then trouble begins. Meanwhile i would really want u to do a post on religion if it matters , cos i really love this guy who attends a different church ,i dont mind cos i belive we were all created by the same God,but my parents disgree, they believe that anyone who isnt frm my church is not serving God, i m really frustrated, i m even considering singleness for life.thanks.

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  71. Unknown10 October 2013 at 13:53

    Both

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  72. mimiliscious mimi10 October 2013 at 13:53

    Quadraplet!!

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  73. wemimo10 October 2013 at 13:54

    Both na..

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  74. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:55

    Love nah.

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  75. Janelicious10 October 2013 at 13:55

    loveeeeeeeeeeee is the most important then others follows.

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  76. Janelicious10 October 2013 at 13:55

    loveeeeeeeeeeee is the most important then others follows.

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  77. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:55

    Both....you must love who your married to.....and money, I mean money...makes the marriage beautiful.

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  78. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 13:56

    Let's forget aw its meant to be or the paper definition of LOVE..to be realistic love doesn't keep us together in marriage bt friendship does.....so coming bk to ur question, my dear its money u need most to keep u goin. Love can't do it....come, is it love dat will put food on ur table? Or take u to those beautiful places? Abeggi..hmmm u dnt wana imagine thgs money can do. Money will create d atmosphere for love to manifest not d oda way round. Mba!

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  79. DoubleV10 October 2013 at 13:59

    L♥√ع and procreation.

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  80. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:00

    LOVE!!

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  81. dinky10 October 2013 at 14:01

    sex, sex and more sex.

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  82. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:01

    Love! When You Love eachother,and u both faithful.. WHY and HOW wont God look at that and provide all u both need?!

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  83. Unknown10 October 2013 at 14:02

    Love and financial stability

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  84. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:03

    TO BE FRANK with you: Financial stability, whether u like it or not Love will come into play
    If theres love and no financial stability there will be problems but if theres financial stability but no love, the absence of love will not be noticed.

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  85. MANDY10 October 2013 at 14:03

    love!

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  86. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:05

    Love is D most Important tin cos iF dere's no love & dere is money, d marriage will break wen d money finishes bt wen dere is no money & dere's love, d love will become stronger wen d money comes.

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  87. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:06

    Both.

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  88. Kayne10 October 2013 at 14:07

    Love is the most important thing....cos with Love, a N25k bank account could seem like a N25M bank account. Love conquers all.

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  89. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:07

    BRIDE PRIzE

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  90. Chychy10 October 2013 at 14:09

    Both are very important 4 marriage 2 work.Love w/out money may nt last n money w/out Love is rubbish.

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  91. Ayoade10 October 2013 at 14:10

    LINDA! It's money that fans the ember of love. Some people wouldn't tow this line but the bitter truth is, there is no love without money. No woman wants to suffer in the name of love. Maybe our parents have been a victim of love in the past but thing has metamorphosed this 21st century. God help us.

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  92. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:10

    Love is the most important but money is like icing on a cake. It makes it sweeter and better

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  93. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:12

    they are both important biko. for a marriage to be successful, there must be LOVE AND FINANCIAL STABILITY

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  94. Unknown10 October 2013 at 14:13

    Ever heard of NO ROMANCE without FINANCE.. They are both Important.

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  95. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:14

    Of cus is LOVE!!! I love Love, wen tins become difficult love sustains u,wen dat money finish, Love helps u nt to realise its finished, Õoooº°°ºh love, kai i love love

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  96. Dr. Rukevwe10 October 2013 at 14:15

    Both...

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  97. Unknown10 October 2013 at 14:15

    Both are vital period.

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  98. nma10 October 2013 at 14:15

    I tink love will come before financial stabiliTy...

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  99. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:15

    I think it's love, although money plays a greater role. Especially for women/ladies of this days.

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  100. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:16

    I'm not the type that would place one above the other. Then again, when there's financial stability there's usually
    a "form" of love attached to it. Saying basically that financial stability brings a form of love. But does love bring financial ability???

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  101. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:16

    I think it's love, although money plays a greater role. Especially for women/ladies of this days.

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  102. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:16

    ¶ think Love is the most important. Bcos even if there's money,¶ can't guarantee a happy marriage. Only poor minded people will choose money over love. Cos at a point ,a woman will realise its not money she needs. She needs affection,care, satisfaction etc. And also ¶ chose love bcos, a man who loves his wife can't let her lack, he'll try †o hustle for her. And there's no way a hard working man will end up poor. - ASTRO™

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  103. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:17

    First...Luv
    Next...bàbànlà financial stability.

    Scales hav falling off my eyes.
    Poppy luv ends at boyfriend and gelfriend levels.

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  104. Unknown10 October 2013 at 14:17

    financial stability oh love cant put food on my table, pay my rent or put cloth on my back or even pay d bill when am sick

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  105. ify10 October 2013 at 14:19

    I luv shd b d first when its comes to marriage

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  106. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:19

    Its financial stability ooo. I'm talking from experience. Once u can make ur wife and kids comfortable to her own taste, then ur marriage will last forever. Wettin be love. Can anybody tell y a fresh babe will marry a man older than her father? Its not love, her needs just have to be met.

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  107. onize10 October 2013 at 14:19

    Both are important aspect in marriage wen u are financially stable,u feel more comfort and secured and that tend to help d love grow. And wen love n comfort are combined togeda it brings satisfaction and happiness.

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  108. ify10 October 2013 at 14:19

    Sry I ment to say love.

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  109. Unknown10 October 2013 at 14:24

    love and financial stability...hehe not greedy at all

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  110. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:24

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  111. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:25

    Financial stabilty!!!!! Cuz no matter hw much u wnt 2 lie 2 urself, without money there no love nd without love there's no happiness

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  112. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:27

    Financiai stability talking from experence.

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  113. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:28

    the most important thing in marriage is love.

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  114. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:29

    1. Financial stability
    2. Financial stability
    3. Financial stability
    4. Love

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  115. Mama10 October 2013 at 14:30

    All of d above

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  116. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:30

    Both n God

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  117. Helguera10 October 2013 at 14:32

    Financial Security.Them no di chop love.If nah soo like all the truck pushers,grave diggers park boys for don marry all the beautiful babes.#myopinion.

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  118. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:33

    Patience!

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  119. BLOGLORD (MVBM)10 October 2013 at 14:33

    Love, financial stability and children

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  120. BLOGLORD (MVBM)10 October 2013 at 14:33

    Love, financial stability and children

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  121. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:34

    Financial stability cus poverty kills love buh with good n basic financial life style, u can keep d boat rocking.* Wink*

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  122. BLOGLORD (MVBM)10 October 2013 at 14:34

    Love, financial stability and children

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  123. gozibe10 October 2013 at 14:35

    Love! With love both couples can withstand all, money is secondary to me buh its necessary tho buh should not be the most important thing in marriage.#myopiniontho#

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  124. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:36

    Understanding

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  125. OmoAkin10 October 2013 at 14:36

    Its financial stability ooo....if dia is no love,will dia be marriage @ll?

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  126. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:38

    Love is more important,cos wit love everytin works out positively, i mean true love,cos i hv seen couples wit money buh no peace.anyways the two dey important love n money.

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  127. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:41

    financial stability carries alot in marriage. luv without money is incomplete.

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  128. ericmars10 October 2013 at 14:42

    understanding

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  129. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:42

    what u need in marriage is to seek GOD first and all order thing will be added onto it.........u hear linda

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  130. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:44

    dat is wat make ladies to get old b4 dey got marry,wat dey want is money

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  131. udemezue10 October 2013 at 14:46

    Wat are u talkn,wen dia is luv in a marriage dia is hope,trust,undastandn and peace sum1 talkn abt financial stability wants 2 ruin ha marriage bcos luv cums b4 financial stability dats all.

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  132. #MsSize810 October 2013 at 14:46

    Communication and great sex . Honestly that's what keeps a marriage. And respect.

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  133. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:46

    no go marry .......linda,i day available ooooooooooooooooooo....but u will need to apply,interview.....than d rest is history

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  134. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:47

    Let love lead.

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  135. That African chic10 October 2013 at 14:47

    Money without love would leave you feeling empty inside. Love is the only thing that can sustain a marriage

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  136. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:48

    Both.
    ~D great anonymous!

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  137. fly guy10 October 2013 at 14:49

    most naija gals will choose financial stability

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  138. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:49

    My dear Lindowski na cash matter for modern marriages cuz last time I checked love isn't edible....LoLz

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  139. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:50

    Without finances love cant exist

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  140. chigal10 October 2013 at 14:52

    Honestly Linda if u had asked dis question in my mother's era I would confidently answer nd tell d world dat LOVE was it but in dis our era wey galz eyes don tear too much even d guys too na financial stability befr u bring in love cos money first then love CAN follow
    Like d saying money for hand bck for ground in another context oooo pls not sex

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  141. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:53

    From my own opinion, I will say above all things it is the fear of God as it is the beginning of wisdom but since it is between love and financial stability, i will say it's love because it conquers all things. Someone financially bouyant today can be financially handicap tomorrow whereas, agape love is an everlasting one.

    www.hollynolly.blogspot.co.uk

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  142. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:53

    Hi linda...for me, money is d secret of love. Love without financial stability cannot work. Love does nt put food on ur table o. #fact #Nelly pretty

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  143. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:53

    all join ooo....finance makes the love wax stronger...Linda abeg if u like ignore my comment

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  144. lokmak10 October 2013 at 14:53

    Obviously Finanacial stability,with that, luv will automatically come

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  145. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:54

    LOVE I SAY

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  146. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:55

    people often see money as the ingredient that ignites love. But in the true sence love is the most important factor that can keep a marriage going even at old age

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  147. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:55

    Undastanding and endurance

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  148. Unknown10 October 2013 at 14:55

    A combination of the two make a lot of sense cos luv and money re impt in marriage

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  149. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:56

    Financial stability goes a long way trust me am married when poverty steps in luv can't stand it let be real

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  150. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:56

    Love!!!!

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  151. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:57

    Financial stability witout love is crazy,hateful n deadly,trust me,if nt for my lovely son n sick mum I wld b divorced,money is jst consolation for a loveless home.LOVE is most important

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  152. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:57

    The most important thing in marriage to me is love n money

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  153. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:57

    Companionship

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  154. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:58

    Definitely financial stability na..I wonder why linda is still asking

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  155. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:59

    Both are important, but basically "Respect & Trust" settles it all bcos if ur spouse Respects u, he/she will not cheat on u or abuse u in any form & will not doubt or suspect u if he/she Trust u.
    ●●●MissP●●●

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  156. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 14:59

    SEX. Very good rough and wild sex!!!

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  157. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:00

    Love wtout money is incomplete. Agam ata love ata.

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  158. David olawale ogundele10 October 2013 at 15:00

    L0ve matters al0t.bec0z it aint all ab0ut m0ney,but understanin,nd good c0mmunicati0n

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  159. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:01

    Love is more important.with love,the couple can always think of ways of solving their financial problems bcos they'll always stick 2geda

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  160. Unknown10 October 2013 at 15:01

    Financial Stability

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  161. Oladayo Awe (dayson)10 October 2013 at 15:02

    how about money without love nko? i will always go for love anytime anyday. if you have all d money in d world and u keep divorcing cos theres no love, you will feel so frustrated. But if i have love, money will surely come cos we will encourage each other and be there for each other.

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  162. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:03

    There's nothing called love in marriage without financial stability, resposibility taken care of brings love. Love without money has no backbone and graduates to bitterness as it's exposed to more danger than security. Chimosky

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  163. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:04

    luv can not last without money.xo both of them is equally important.

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  164. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:04

    U are right! Both works to keep the relationship going.

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  165. Chitoo's diary10 October 2013 at 15:06

    Financial stability and love works hand in hand. Love can't stand without financial stability .

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  166. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:06

    Dis one no be question nah!! financially stable na d answer..abi Linda u no know?

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  167. KK10 October 2013 at 15:08

    Love. Beause Love Conquers all, even the bible said it.

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  168. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:09

    financial stability....it will make love grow

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  169. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:09

    financial stability....hiss (i just had to add that hiss) 4 years ago i would have said love

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  170. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:11

    I chose love wen I met my hubby over financial stability with anoda guy. Money later came and left but we are still waxing strong in love by God's grace. Its still like we just got married after 2 chilren, so I always advise for love and not wealth. Gives me peace don't know about every other lady. I pray money comes again cos we enjoyed and my man pampered me so much I felt like a baby.

    Linda pls choose love over financial stability bcos I know its your set time, it will give you an inner peace and may God grant you a loving husband in Jesus name. Amen

    Mimi

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  171. Unknown10 October 2013 at 15:15

    love will keep both couples together thereby making them see reasons why they need to work together in other for them to be financially balance. love is the most important thing in marriage, the money might be there but when there is no love one party will always cheat cuz their heart is somewhere else.

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  172. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:16

    A lot anyway, but the most is understanding

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  173. Jeremiah10 October 2013 at 15:16

    To me I hold understanding and good communication in high esteem than love or money in nowadays marriage bcos u see a boy dat doesn't even hve money gettin married to wealth lady

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  174. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:17

    Talking from experience,financial stabiliy is more important.

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  175. Unknown10 October 2013 at 15:23

    FINANCIAL STABILITY! POVERTY CAN SOUR ANY KIND OR AMOUNT OF LOVE.

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  176. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:24

    Companionship

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  177. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:25

    I THINK FINANCIAL STABILITY IS Important, LOVE WITHOUT FINANCIAL STABILITY WOULD GIVE BIRTH TO Something ELSE.TRUTH BE TOLD NO SENTIMENTS

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  178. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:25

    Financial stablility ma'am

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  179. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:27

    not fair!!!.....so you chose who's comment to post? na wa oh. i concur with anon 2:41pm sha

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  180. Liddieberry10 October 2013 at 15:27

    It is commitment and Love aaaannndddd of course, MONEY..... we aint sayn be rich like wale adenuga buh av a gud sorce of income

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  181. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:28

    understanding oooooo

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  182. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:28

    Both

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  183. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:28

    Abeg na money tins!!!!!!!!

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  184. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:29

    I think the most important thing in marriage is friendship. That's d only thing dat will remain ever green even when the romance is gone @ old age.

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  185. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:29

    Hia! Linlin am suprised @ u ooo.in dis mordern age wot is luv witout moni?gone are dose days wen moni can't buy luv,now moni can buy any and everythin.so be properly guided!

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  186. Uti Ediri10 October 2013 at 15:30

    Love. It conquers all

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  187. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:34

    luv i wld say would carry the marriage, till the unexpected happens.... ask Ms Fad Fad

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  188. XOXO10 October 2013 at 15:35

    U can't take one away from the other, they go hand-in-hand both are very important... If u must choose then genuine unconditional love is more important cos that will cover for more things than financial stability can cover for.

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  189. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:38

    Hmmmm,odika hard!

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  190. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:38

    Love is gud,but to me money lubricates d wheel of love.Mrs C

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  191. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:39

    Neither, COMMITMENT is the most important thing...

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  192. Daddy's Girl10 October 2013 at 15:39

    Financial stability, followed by love

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  193. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:39

    Strong LOVE! With dat,u will overcum any obstacle together,even financial crises.

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  194. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:40

    None! Understanding!

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  195. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:40

    it's LOVE,cus if a girl falls for a rich man bcus of his money wen dat man starts having financial issues blieve me her eyes wld b somewhere else,bt wen she goes for LOVE she's fully involved cus R KELLY.(When a woman loves... She loves 4 real)n MICHAEL BOLTON(when a man loves a woman,he wld do anything) bt sef must b involved o,9ja girls no know poor LOVE o....
    .......STAN......

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  196. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:40

    it's LOVE,cus if a girl falls for a rich man bcus of his money wen dat man starts having financial issues blieve me her eyes wld b somewhere else,bt wen she goes for LOVE she's fully involved cus R KELLY.(When a woman loves... She loves 4 real)n MICHAEL BOLTON(when a man loves a woman,he wld do anything) bt sef must b involved o,9ja girls no know poor LOVE o....
    .......STAN......

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  197. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:44

    Communication! #PrettyChadra

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  198. Anonymous10 October 2013 at 15:45

    Love! #PrettyChadra

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  199. sexy mama10 October 2013 at 15:46

    Financial stability....#smiles#,wot else if no b monie....it makes d world go round..soooooo,monie b d numba 1 bfor lov.

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