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Thursday 11 April 2013

Dear LIB readers: I think my wife likes women

From a male LIB reader:
I would like to know if there are other men out there who think their wives are into women? I think mine is. I went through her blackberry the other day and I couldn't believe the BB chat I read between her and someone I thought was just her friend. Another married woman for that matter. Their chat was of a sexual nature, something you would expect between a man and a woman. This lady even sent photos of her boobs and private parts to my wife.
I eventually confronted my wife about it and she said they were just joking around. Who jokes around with p**sy photos? What should I do now?
LMAO at who jokes around with vagina photos. No, nobody does! So what should he do, other than ask for a threesome? Lol. *kidding*
at 4/11/2013 05:19:00 pm

220 comments:

  1. mama akpos11 April 2013 at 17:26

    as simple as that...ask for a threesome,that is if the other woman is preety..

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    1. Unknown12 April 2013 at 05:52

      Hehehe#--na so mama-akpors,philo and papa akpors do born akpors??##

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    2. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 11:49

      Lol @mama akpors, philo and papa akpors

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  2. ★★PRINCE CHARMING™★★11 April 2013 at 17:27

    LMFAO! Linda I love your wild mind, a naughty husband would wanna take advantage of the situation and ask for a threesome.
    Now to the husband, I wouldn't say much, screw her brains so well and she wouldn't ever consider the body of another woman if she gets all the satisfaction from you, I am sure you are lacking in the bedroom department, upgrade if need be. Some people could be bi-sexual though.

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:44

      If u like,screw a lesbian from night till morning,she'll remain a lesbo. She'll still crave another woman's touch n caresses. Nothing go change. Instead na ya d..k go suffer. So it aint all about "lacking in d bedroom"

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    2. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:43

      Y I'm I thinking d chat was with a man? Women can b very crafty when it comes 2 cheating in a relationship. My advice 2 u is that make your research well. Have u met dis friend of hers? If not,tell her u wanna meet her and see her reactions.

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    3. Unknown12 April 2013 at 05:56

      If it was a man--u wld sure get "dick photos" and not "pussy photos"---point is a lesbo is a lesbo..i av met a couple of dem and realy ad a tete-a-tete wif dem on y dey go into it#and almost all of dem started frm secondary school--dey started dier sexual-life wit LESBIANISM and it bcame an habit-- it only takes a MIRACLE for dem to sTop##--so, OGA!..u av to GRIN and BEAR it##

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    4. Paul12 April 2013 at 09:37

      Didnt you read that the lady sent nude photo's to his wife?How can a man send photo's of boob's and p**sy?She's a lesbian,i once dated a lady of same attitude.i had to breakup when i got to know.

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  3. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:28

    =D=))˚°♒ђåª•ђåª•ђåª♒˚°=D=)) ..S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ funny lah..D̶̲̥̅ɪ̣̝̇ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ Ȋ̝̊̅§ Ω̴̩̩̩̥ confirm les fin naaa..Ȋ̝̊̅§ S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ obvious

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  4. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:28

    Gbege

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  5. Dame T11 April 2013 at 17:29

    Linda my love you are teaching me bad bad things...

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  6. @segunsd11 April 2013 at 17:30

    I think your wife is bisexual o. But nothing you can do than to tell her to stop it and never get involved in such again.

    I heard John Dumelo and Majid Michel get honoured by City of Philadelphia

    and that Tonto Dikeh called bloggers SHITHEADS Is she okay?

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:58

      Well Linda that's cool I think I like the woman would love to meet her,that's if she is pweety ad rich I could give her what she want from that woman,Winks lol.

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  7. Labisi Baby11 April 2013 at 17:31

    What d'u wanna do?Ok,tell her to stop whatever it is with women and if she must flirt,it must be with Men

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    1. wealth11 April 2013 at 19:08

      @Labisi baby, u are so like dat with such advice. Com'on nau!bad leader

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    2. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 23:51

      Ode flirt with men bawo ? Na woman better to flirt with na.

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    3. Unknown12 April 2013 at 06:01

      Flirt wit MEN??--huh??..so dat Him first PIKIN go resemble him OGA at d TOP, him second pikin go resemble GATEMAN, his 3rd pikin go resemble him LANDLORD and his last go look like HOUSE-BOY and DRIVER??

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  8. jayjay11 April 2013 at 17:35

    Linda u're right, I tink he shud ask 4 a threesome or a foursome since d wife's frnd's married too...lol. Post my comment, 1st time here.

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:57

      U all are hypocritical fools if she talked about gays now, u all will open ur smelly mouth and lambaste Dem. Now u guys support threesome. How wonderful fools. U guys shud leave dis gays and lebians alone. Homophobes

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  9. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:35

    Wen life throws u mince meat...
    Make a damn good lasagne!...
    Dats my personal quote!!
    Life has thrown u a woman who loves women...
    U beta request a 3SOME as her purnishment!!
    A lot of men will secretly like 2 b in ur shoes...
    Lesbians r more appealing dan GAYs..
    Ders noffn u can do abt it honey..
    I say ENJOY it...
    Billie jean

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 08:39

      Billie,is that u?????
      Its like u have really engaged in threesome B4........wowo
      Its alright
      ........Sassy

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  10. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:37

    Linda Linda Linda, I like you a lot but you just need to find a balance. Some things are not humorous. You don't want to discourage people from writing in and asking for advice. I am befuddled why anyone would choose LIB for advice anyway but having said that, this matter is serious to the "sufferer" and you cannot trivialize it by you "LMAOs" and "Just Kidding" Maybe you should put it out there that this blog does not double as an advice column, then people like me will definitely have nothing to hold against you. Just friendly advice sister. Ima na ibu nwannem and I will not see ihe adironma and keep quiet.

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:00

      What is ur problem sef? If u dnt lyk some of d topics Linda posts,simply dnt comment! Dem beg u abi dem force u *confused face* personally I lyk every single topic she posts on dis blog. Oya go n bang ur head against a wall.

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    2. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:04

      True talk dear. I see Linda as a poorly civilized individual, not well read, and enlightEned! So I just ignore all her careless mishaps. Na money miss road group she follow!

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    3. Unknown11 April 2013 at 21:34

      Yeah I support u on that..making a serious matter a laffn tinga aint right cos dis factor might cause them their marriage...

      Now u've noticed that in ya wife,I tink u nt doing something right per sex tinga..try to finger/suck ha purry wella nd stop 4 a while when shez already dere b4 u dig "ya tinga"nd see how she reacts..if she reacts more to da fingering nd suckn..then u guess is as good as mine...

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    4. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 22:03

      Get a life

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    5. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 23:21

      Miss Goody Ten shoes.

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    6. @AnnahWithAnH11 April 2013 at 23:25

      Y is ur entire imagination dis stony? U need to cool dwn n cut urself sum slack! Life is too short not to enjoy every bit of it........pls cool it n enjoy d essence of life n not jes carry every topic on ur head like ur hawking pepper n onions. Its meant to be fun + not every response is a joke.
      BTW, ogbeni....its wise to discuss d isshh wiv ur wife n make sure u take total control of her entire brain which leaves no room for anoda being(woman).

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    7. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 23:59

      My inner most tots

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    8. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 07:16

      Y'all need to chill out u kno?! I tink anyone who sendz a story or picture to LIB knows exactly what he/she is bargaining 4? Afterall d man is clearly a follower of dis blog n @ such knows tht even in d saddest of situationz ppl wud still comment mean stuff or be struggling for "first to comment" on an RIP page. More dan 50% of lib readers are MEAN cyber bullies, some r attention cravers, some r plain stupid. So u guyz relax, d man no dey complain.. He knew dis b4 he sent in his plight

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    9. Unknown12 April 2013 at 09:30

      Shaaaaaarrrrrrrrrraaaaaaappppp

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  11. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:38

    How old is their marriage? She might just have married for her parents sake. Is he cheating on her? Secondly, is he performing his ' bed' duties?

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    1. MissT11 April 2013 at 22:57

      Mr man! So who do u really expect to answer all these ur rhetorical questions?

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  12. Unknown11 April 2013 at 17:39

    Linda you just said exactly what I wanted to say, request for a 3some. The more the merrier,right? ;) .STDs at your own risk though.



    PS: I am not in support of adultery.

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  13. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:40

    They are definitely getting it on sir. So, ask the other lady and her hubby if he has found ' funny pics' too. Sorry o. Not pleasant.

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  14. Zinny11 April 2013 at 17:42

    First why did u go 2 read tru ur wife's bb? Secondly, she can actually be chatting dirty with her girlfriend, and I don't see anything wrong with that. Thirdly, you should know your wife better than us! So advice urself and don't loose ur marriage cos of mere assumption!

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:55

      @Zinny,sorry oh but u don't have sense,who chats dirty wit a friend to d extent of sending private pictures?
      For u to see it as normal,I feel sorry for u!

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    2. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:33

      @ zinny u must be on either cheap or expire drugs.....that's all

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    3. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 22:57

      I do, I n my besty talk n chat dirty sometimes , we send pix (nude) n criticise n laff over it, its no bad ting cos we both love our hubby's dick like crazy! We chat abt d wild n crazy sex we've had wiv our spouses abeg no big deal jor

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    4. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 23:19

      @zinny or what did u call urself I think u are les also y on earth would u send ur nude pix. To ur co call friend abeg wake up

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    5. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 05:02

      10:57 U lesbo. Ur spouse may be the one writing. My own mammie ain't since this twat in over 3 decades. Whateva!

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  15. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:42

    #JÆMES says > cooL As LoNg As She BriNgs Them Back To D Bedroom ««KiLLiNg Two Birds wiTh ONE BaNaNa»» ;-)

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 07:18

      Nd typing like dis makes u a boss huh

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  16. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:43

    am nt suprise @ all,d world is coming to an end.

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  17. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:43

    Let me meet your wife pls. I will fuck her. I'm a woman and I love women. But in not a lesbian o. Hahaha!

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:53

      Denial!u don't ve to deny it.jst don't throw it in pple's faces!the biggest form of deception in life is lie to self.

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    2. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:57

      Continue like this and u'll end up in a very hot place!

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  18. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:43

    My dear, there's nufin yu can do. Yu can just pray abt it n don't let it get 2u. Yu'r alrdy married. If she's into women well, its beta dan being into men other dan yu her husband. The thot of it sucks bt really wat can yu do? Pls I hope am first to comment

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 07:20

      Sorry 2 burst ur bubble swedie, ur not b :p

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  19. Ahoy11 April 2013 at 17:44

    Dear linda,
    I hope you are not making this story up, if not, tell the guy his wife is definitely into woman

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:45

      Make up ke? Such stories are real o! Some men "runs" girls for their wives for their veiwing pleasure or threesome....*Ada Nnewi*

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  20. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:45

    Lol.... U should b happy she does'nt like men

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  21. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:45

    he shld taunt her by sleeping with a dude too that way they would be even.... *SHRUGS*

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  22. bitchplis11 April 2013 at 17:45

    Ask ur wife to invite her friend over...den fuck d lesbian devil out of their lives.

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:57

      Y'all thinks it works that way?have sex wt her from munin till nyt,she will still prefer women!a guy once told me that he dated a lesbian and dt the girl is still a lesbian!this guy is so hot dt u wld want to change ur sexuality for him.that was wen I knew dt its beyond a lot of tns.if after havn sex wt dt chic a lot wt his hot body and amazing john thomas and she still didn't change,then sex aint the solution!

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  23. Unknown11 April 2013 at 17:47

    It might jst b a joke, I guess u shld study re more

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  24. ohis11 April 2013 at 17:47

    Aunty linda I know u will not post this oh, cos u neva do, but why is the man bringing such a sensitive issue to a public domain, its childish and insensitive,so he is expecting libers to give him advice on how to solve problems with his wife,pls sir give ur wife some respect and setlle ur issues privately, that's why it is called marriage.thats what u should if aunty lili agrees to post this

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:42

      Oversabi, did Linda put up his name or did he mention his wife's name? Madam Ma fi lo mi dasi

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  25. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:47

    Haaaahaaaahaaahhahaahha I no fit shout ooh

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  26. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:47

    I think she's been fcukin your wife for a long, long time. Cheating is cheating. I almost married a girl i thought was the woman of my dreams. I was with her for three years. She spent all her summer holidays with me in London. On her last visit, I saw a (old) love letter in her handbag. The letter was addressed to her. It was from another girl. The girl was in the same basketball team with her at University of Ilorin. I asked her about the letter. Women are always asking her out - that I knew and we used to laugh about it. I didn't think, suspect or know she's bisexual. What would my my parents think if their son married a fanny l!cker? We talked about the letter and why she kept it if it meant nothing. She said it meant nothing and that she forgot the letter was in her bag. Without her knowledge, I decided to "close the door" on her. Cheating is cheating. Life's too short. Her holiday was over, saw her off to Heathrow airport for her flight back to Nigeria and never spoke to her or her mum ever again. That was over five years ago. I moved on like a MAN.

    Move on.

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 00:03

      Pele o, ejo to BA e. U for dive enter concrete na. If woman like her, what u want a woman to do pls? U not a MAN that's y ur ass couldn't handle the heat so u didn't move on like one my dear.

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  27. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:48

    I'm female also... I guess its common is every woman... Ask Linda she'll confirm my claims

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  28. Unknown11 April 2013 at 17:49

    Ur wife is a lesbian! Take her to ur pastor, she need deliverance

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  29. GLAM ME PRO11 April 2013 at 17:50

    Lmao @ asking fr a threesome, but linda iji ya there. He shud ask d wife wot led her into d act if she hz neva been dt way, cz he might even be the one dt made her decide to do women instead of men being that she is married. #couple mata no be here#

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  30. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:50

    Am a married female and I think am attracted to females, but have never acted on it. And my hubby doesn't know oooooo, make dem no go chase me comot for husband house. Lol

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  31. @jaylicioussss11 April 2013 at 17:51

    Chaii linda u don spoil aswear, anyway my dear ur wife eats cunts dats wat it means,dere r women like that, she mite hav bin a 'Bi'all d while or she is jst experimenting and bin adventurous (wch sucks by the way), *hope u've bin nacking her well?(Jst asking) pray 4 her shaa

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 01:30

      its not always about knacking my dear ... If u like fuck the girl from today to tomorrow . To be bi , feelings dey involved. The person she's pinging might be her ex gf but they both got married cause of our culture but they are still in love

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  32. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:53

    I once saw explicit sms between two of my female friends. They were talking about how they can't wait to touch,suck each other's breasts and vagina.

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  33. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:54

    Hmnn she's most likely bisexual. This is the in thing with women married and single these days. They are doing men and women and its nothing to them esp the married ones. And worse, the husbys can not suspect a thing. God help us o!

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  34. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:54

    Advise to you, if you all don't have kids abegi ditch her and don't ever look back bro.But if you do have kids what ever decision think of your kids first. If truly she is "one of them" she will always love an eve better than a steve no matter the sexing so why punish yourself bros think am!! Press refresh button on that part of your life and start all over .There are a lot of naija girls out their who only want it stevie stylee all the way. Mehn, bros thats some horror movie u got at your hands. A man's worst nightmare. My nigerian wife a lesbian? Have mercy!! I rebuke it!!. Best of luck.
    The good nigerian.

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  35. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:54

    Hehehehhehehe. Well, its only a lesbian that leaves the photos of boobs and pussy in her phone. If he is uncomfy with the situation, let him confront her. If he is into threesome, let him ask for it. And Bia Linda, post my comment ooo

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  36. bubu Endowed11 April 2013 at 17:54

    Linda u are rite,Ask for a twosome cos there is nothing like threesome.

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  37. Nono bekee11 April 2013 at 17:55

    ahhhhhhh Linda "3some" ???? lmao. the guy should give his wife a query letter...lol

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:04

      I can confidently tell dis oga 70% of married women re in2 girls!its a pity though.sum men might like it bt sum few are out der like u dat find it offensive,tell her2end it with d woman n take her2church 4prayers!lol pele

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  38. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:57

    Perhaps she is lacking something in your relationship..your time or something. Better woman than man abi? The tin taya me o

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  39. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:57

    O boy eeeeeeeerrh

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  40. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:57

    ahhhhhgghhhh linda na wa..."a 3some'??? lmaooo

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  41. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 17:58

    Women can anything except money.

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  42. Leerato11 April 2013 at 18:00

    Pray for her and hope she changes. Because lesbianism is spiritual and should be handled spiritually. She needs you, so be there and help her through it(what ever it is). Goodluck

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  43. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:01

    You should do what you would have done if it was a man, and i'm not talking about beating her up.

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  44. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:04

    Thats some bad news. But its very possible. Many women are like that. She probably may have been a lesbian as a single and the hubby neva noticed it until now. Well, Im sorry dude, nothing can be done: u'll have to live with it, except a supernatural power changes her. #MySympathy

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  45. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:05

    his wife has a girlfriend, he should be de happiest man on earth.....otapiapia siGns Out

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  46. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:06

    Na wa.the world is truely coming to an end.I don't get why all these same sex feelings are becoming the other of the day.God help us all.Linda don't joke with married people and threesome is absurd.

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  47. Unknown11 April 2013 at 18:06

    E be like say your wife na bisexual....

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  48. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:07

    ...8-|
    <▽> ђм̅м̅м̅....
    _/ \_ She may jus b a bisexual mbok he shud bear wiv her *strollz away*

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  49. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:08

    Lin lin u can't be redeemed. Threesome

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  50. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:08

    Eya pele. It happens.@ least she won't cheat on u wit anoda man. Lol. Just sayin...

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  51. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:09

    Wah kinda bullshit is dat?! He shud beta query his wife oooo! Or else?

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  52. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:09

    Dts crazy. Linda u better post my comment. Or else. Anyways it's nt new so, d world we live in today ehn. Ewwww

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  53. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:10

    Hahahahah....linda u badt Gaaan, buh seriously wat do girls find in othergirls sef talkless of a shameless married woman,that mins its in her blood....Dear husband take her back to her parents

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  54. Chimka Melvis11 April 2013 at 18:10

    "other than ask for a threesome" linda choi we suppose check your head lol... Mr. first of all you have to check if your wife sent similar pix to her, you probably need to read the chat again that's if its still available to check if the conversation was even or one of them was into it more than the other person, then study your wife maybe play a mind game with her when asking question don't be too serious joke about it, study the other woman regardless of her marital status. There must be a clue somewhere that will lead you to the promise land.

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  55. GlamNotchApparels 11 April 2013 at 18:10

    Lol!

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  56. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:11

    If na me I will jst go 4 3some joor

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  57. Djebah11 April 2013 at 18:12

    The wife in question just has to come out clean on sexual nature. If i were the man i would report the matter to the husband of the other woman. A threesome? Out of it!

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  58. MRS MADUKA11 April 2013 at 18:12

    Maduka ur a goat for bringin my matter here!!

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:33

      Buhahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah #LaughDonKillMeDead

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    2. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:46

      Ah! Are you his wife? Men are goats anyway,they push women to the wall and expect us not to retaliate

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  59. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:12

    Hmmmm. I know of somone too she's been married 8yrs and her hubby doesn't know she's a hard core lesbian. This def is a hard thing to take in.

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 01:59

      Have bn with my boo for 6 yrs and I love women but don't always act on it cause of guilt but I truly love women and love only him as a guy

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  60. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:12

    Haa! All them three shud doit together naa, funky something..

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  61. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:14

    Na waa ooo. Well let him counsel her n pray for God's help. Engel Tony.

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  62. joy11 April 2013 at 18:14

    Hmm this one pass me! linda but I think linda advice is not bad at all

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  63. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:15

    Alot of married women are into girls

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  64. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:15

    Not news, there are soooooooo many married lesbian women. I know just too many in dis lagos. Oga nothing wen u fit do o, sorry.

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 08:22

      Ehyen....abeg, How i go meet them nah, send me some of their numbers i wan meet dem mek i try too

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  65. Oma...11 April 2013 at 18:16

    Odikwa risky....lolzz

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  66. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:17

    Choi am seeing tinz

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  67. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:19

    Naw oo! Go and deliver her and also pray for.

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  68. chubbytj11 April 2013 at 18:19

    Hmm, sumtyms women talk about intimate things, body and all but I don't really understand d photos and d kinda discussion dat shld ensue btw a man and woman. She myt b bisexual, he shld monitor her closely and try to be very loving.

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  69. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:19

    Hmmm make he give her chance na. Since na les she want. Lol. Linda u don't like posting my comment Y?????????

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  70. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:21

    Linda u no well.

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  71. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:23

    Linda is a bad girl...who is f***king Linda in Lagos? please i need to know asap

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    1. Census11 April 2013 at 19:36

      Me,him n her(the ones i know of)

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  72. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:23

    Linda, what is 3some? i have no idea ooo

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  73. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:24

    This guy's wife just sounds like a horny, mischievous and curious wife. So clearly the guy is not doing something right. If he was satisfying her, she probably won't be getting all riled up with her friend. Guy needs to remind her why he's a man, and quell those desires.

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  74. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:26

    She's definitely interested in women!KD

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  75. Unknown11 April 2013 at 18:27

    Linda ure just too vulgar...u don spoil finsish

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  76. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:29

    No let him monitor her first

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  77. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:32

    Dis gay tin is getting out of hand. Mr man,u really need to act fast if u really love ur wifey.

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  78. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:35

    She is a confirmed lesbian, buh she herself has not come to terms wit de issue.

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  79. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:38

    Baby Linda ti yayakuya sha, onisokuso oshi, can't u give good advice for once? Na wah for u ooh. Anyway, how u dey sha? Great job. Keep it up.

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  80. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:39

    Pleasse let them enjoy.instead of her cheating wit a man.

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  81. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:40

    Mssshheewww...Mumu man!!u av probabli bin starving ur wife of the D..beta tell her to invite her frend over..DICKTATE to dem both and set dem straight..ThankMeLater..Lin lin!Post my comment OR ELSE..#EvilGrin..

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  82. D'taliban11 April 2013 at 18:41

    Its kinda absurd,he shld jst wait 2 discover a more credible evidence.This is a good reason 4 him 2 ask 4 a divorce.

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  83. NahMeBiko11 April 2013 at 18:42

    You hit the nail on d head, Linda. Go 3 d hard way. Methinks if more people trend like Will Smith and wife, who agree to an open marriage, issues of trust would reduce. So long as both are discreet and practice safe sex. The need to lie till one is blue in the face would evaporate. Me sha won't stand for it o! Anyone wey enter my wife's open haven go find imself open to all sorts of elimination techniques plus wicked arrows flying by nite.

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  84. Xan Signature. Call for all your Affirm Products. 081-1111-555111 April 2013 at 18:42

    Oh geez..... I can feel his confusion. At least she ain't messing around with no nigga. She is sexually frustrated that's all and you as the husband is not satisfying her. Her friend must be giving her what you as a husband ain't giving. You need to ask yourself some serious questions and also discuss these findings with your wife. She is obviously a freak ( I like her ;)

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  85. Justme11 April 2013 at 18:42

    *disgusting*

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  86. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:42

    ermm as a very very bi sexual lady they are defo fucking and its not a new thing these days.and i can very much bet on it thats she's been doing it way before dey even got married.As at this moment ma bf of over 7years doesnt know i do other ladies so he should jst suck it up and ask for a 3sum like Linda said

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 02:03

      Sound like me ... Geez . Have bn with my bf for 7yrs too and he doesn't know I have acted on it . He Jus thinks I av loads of bi friends

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  87. Christabel11 April 2013 at 18:42

    My brother dont waste time, visit Mountain of Fire sharply and carry her go oh. pray brother

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  88. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:43

    You think what LIBer says here changr anything.I don't think you are serious,Linda I beg NEXT!!!!!

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  89. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:44

    Na waa ooo dis world is truly coming 2 an end

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  90. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:45

    If d guy truly loves his wife he shudnt give her a "query letter"#in nonye's voice. Lol....he shud try and mk her stop d act

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  91. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:45

    #cray man............. She may be right tho.*linda :) #smh*

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  92. Fearless!11 April 2013 at 18:46

    Ur wife is bi-sexual,deal with it or move on
    Sorry sha

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  93. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 18:46

    Isn't it what we've being dying for?

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  94. www.emekamacdonald.blogspot.com11 April 2013 at 18:47

    hehe 3some ke,well i think he should try to talk her out of Lesbianism,that'all.

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  95. Shadow11 April 2013 at 18:48

    My friend, you have stumbled upon what will gnaw at your heart till it stops bleating! Who asked u to poke ur nose in her wetincall? No be curiosity kill d cat? To say na so you dey poke ur wetincall into her wetincall maybe she for nor align with those who think that only a woman knows how another woman wants to be touched.

    The reality is that there are waaay too many women out there who swing both ways, or used to back in their school days, and who wish they could continue such acts.

    Men married to such women should look the other way, just like women do when their men cheat but think they aren't aware of it.

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    1. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:25

      Bleating ke??? His heart na goat ni...lmao

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  96. Apple11 April 2013 at 18:56

    Them they do each other. So it is up to you, if you wan stay you stay, if you wan walk, you walk.

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  97. Fearless!11 April 2013 at 19:01

    She needs help!no one chats with the same sex and send nude pictures,I can't do it wit a man,least of all,a woman!
    He needs to help her!

    Poor guy!

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  98. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:06

    D woman is sexually starved.i hv a friend dt turned to a lesbian cos d husband stopped making love to her .

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  99. blog troll11 April 2013 at 19:11

    Ghen Ghen! Oya d homophobes n hypocrites come out n do ur thing! For moi sha,d guy shld tlk 2 her,find out y she's attracted 2 d odr woman.mayb bcos he doesn't giv it 2 her..gud thing its nt a guy she's havn d affair wit.

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  100. Daniel's Chronicle 11 April 2013 at 19:26

    She is just having fun, get yr mind outta that, its nufing bt a piece of sht..

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  101. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:27

    Surmoun ur wife n her friend in private n ask d both of them to suck each others boobs n pussy in ur presence since ur dick no satisfy her

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  102. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:29

    i think it's normal for a woman to like women i love women! wish i could come out free as a lesbian in nigeria

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  103. ij cute11 April 2013 at 19:31

    Mr man re u treating her right, do u satisfy her well,do u make her feel loved n wanted,do take ur time to make love to her, ve u asked her what she likes n how she likes it,ve u been cheating on her? etc am sure she is just being nice to u by being with a lady instead. Treat her nice n she will forget her female lebs

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  104. Sam Oracle11 April 2013 at 19:42

    Talk to God.

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  105. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:42

    the only way you can save ur marriage is a threesome,lets not lie

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  106. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 19:48

    U she be prayerful about the situation. Dese days people take joy in trying new things for the fun of it.




    e4pr.blogspot.com

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  107. nini11 April 2013 at 20:06

    Linda,u is KINKY...I like *wink*

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  108. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:13

    If this story is true, lovingly but sternly warn your wife to desist from such an act if she has started it and if she hasn't tell her not to try it. As a family move closer to God.

    It is not a joking matter, u have to be weary of the consequences, so that she doesn't bring God's wrath upon ur family. Try these steps:
    1. Pray on ur own asking for God's guidance on the best and most effective approach.
    2. Communicate using the instructions impressed upon u by the Holy Spirit
    3. Pray together asking and thanking God for His intervention.
    4. Keep serving God as a family

    Churchy as it may sound, we as human beings must learn to acknowledge God in the seemingly most ordinary things.

    Don't forget faith though, it can move dis mountain in your life.

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  109. Rockstar11 April 2013 at 20:14

    I will be a bit intellectual here and hope you pardon me my long response.

    People talk about being faithful et al in relationships, which of course is an ethical thing to do and a very good virtue. So much emphasis on traditional monogamy. One Man One wife.

    The template for our parents' generation is to meet, marry, move into a home and build a wall around any relationship that might allow sunlight and oxygen into the can. They put the relationship in a gated empty can and punch holes in the lid, causing all other relationships, opposite sex friendships and otherwise, to die. Often, the relationship dies as a result.

    In today's world, having a marriage without a side attraction every once in a while is like dating a garden hose.

    Before you begin to condemn or criticize me, take a deep breath and think... Do you honestly think you’ll be with one person for the rest of your life and not develop an attraction with another person?

    One thing I know for certain is that one person can not be absolutely everything to any other one person - which is why, half of all married men/single men and a third of all married women/single ladies have cheated in their relationships.

    Don't get me wrong, am not advocating Cheating or betrayal in relationships/marriage. But if the one you are truly in love with, is attracted to another person, what would you do? What would be the outcome of your relationship?

    1. Would you encourage her / him to explore her/his object of attraction to get it out of her/his system, knowing full well that most of these attractions aren’t even meant to be sexual and that there could be lessons to be learn from that attraction?

    2. Would you get angry, jealous, over-react and break up with him/her?
    3. Would you think that maybe you aren't good enough for her/him and therefore explore any route that involves transparency, communication,talking about what she/he saw in this other person and what she/he hoped to gain from the connection?

    So my man,when you critically assess this, then you can get the answer you need.

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  110. Miss Turner11 April 2013 at 20:16

    She needs quick deliverance

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  111. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 20:37

    I'm so sorry about this, I know u must be sad especiallywith all these insensitive advice, well I think u should pray for God guidance and help and then try have a good conversation about this with your partner, try to avoid fights it will make it worse, remember u have respond to it in a way it will save your marriage and your family, if she really loves you she will adhere. Just pray hard and also see a counsellor rather listening to these bubble brains talk.

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  112. danny11 April 2013 at 20:48

    U shld tank God its wif her female frnd,my dear e 4 worst if na man.pray 4 her,she'l def change

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  113. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:19

    Am very certain this man lives in Enugu. The rate at which enugu women sex themselves is incredible. Not talking about single ladies o, talking about married women doing other married women. I had a colleague like that, extremely disgusting.
    Dear man, give her an ultimatum if she does not stop, you can divorce her and take ur children. Even God does not condone infidelity, how much more when its with the same gender.....tufiakwa.....aru.

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  114. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:22

    Theres not much you can do abt it.
    She is glad you've found out,as she married you out of pressure to conform.
    At least you know,and can find a middle ground.
    Women plenty wey dey do am 4nijah nowadays.
    I had a g/f stolen too,so I know how u feel.

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  115. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:27

    Its possible she is a lesbian, solution prayer n deliverance. Hope U̶̲̥̅̊ don't cheat on her and your good in bed too.

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  116. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:28

    O ga oh!

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  117. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:32

    Mrs Maduka will kii Mr Maduka 4 exposing her lik dis!!!!hehehhehehehe...let d war begin

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  118. oneblackboi11 April 2013 at 21:34

    *sigh, so its a taboo when its two openly gay people but not a married man, his wife and another married woman.... Wtf is wrong with you sick people...

    Dude, she says its nothing.. Then its nothing, don't let your insecurity end your marriage bro

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  119. Flavour11 April 2013 at 21:35

    lmao... @ ask for a threesome...
    www.flavour360.blogspot.com

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  120. Flavour11 April 2013 at 21:35

    lmao... @ ask for a threesome...
    www.flavour360.blogspot.com

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  121. oneblackboi11 April 2013 at 21:42

    *sigh, so its a taboo when its two openly gay people but not a married man, his wife and another married woman.... Wtf is wrong with you sick people...

    Dude, she says its nothing.. Then its nothing, don't let your insecurity end your marriage bro.

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  122. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:43

    SHUT UP Y'ALL... YOU ALL GET MAD WITH GAY/LESBIAN UPDATES, RANTING ABOUT HOW THEY ARE FROM THE DEVIL... YET, YOU ARE PROUD TO TALK ABOUT HOW YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED BUT SLEEP WITH GIRLS/BOYS.... as the case may be. WHO SAID FORNICATION, STEALING, LYING, KILLING, ADULTERY, ETC ARE SINS LESSER THAN HOMOSEXUALITY? FROM THEY BIBLE AND QURAN THAT I KNOW, ANYONE WHO DOES ANY OF THEM AND OTHERS ARE ALL GOING TO THE SAME HELL AS GAYS. STOP JUDGING OTHERS BECAUSE YOU SIN DIFFERENTLY FROM THEM, LOOK INWARD AND TRY TO CORRECT YOUR OWN WRONGS. HYPOCRITES!

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  123. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:46

    YOUNG BOYS BRAG ABOUT FORNICATING, THEY SAY IT AND THE SOCIETY ACCEPTS THEM... TELL ME HOW SUCH BOYS ARE BETTER THAN GAYS IN THE SIGHT OF GOD? WE ARE ALL SINNERS, STOP JUDGING OTHERS BECAUSE THEY SIN IN A DIFFERENT WAY THAN YOU... THOSE WHO FORNICATE, GAYS, THIEVES, KILLERS ETC ARE ALL GOING TO THE SAME HELL... FU+KING SHUT THE F UP ON JUDGING GAYS.

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    1. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 07:34

      Yes we r all going to d same hell fire....buh Bruva it is a sin....y nack d same sex ehn....dat z y God destroyed godom n somarah....nt judging....but it z nt right...God created adam n eve nt steve n adam or eve n jane.....dis Gay shit z too much in 9ija nd its annoying.......d day God ll vex z coming

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  124. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:51

    YOU ARE NOT MARRIED AND YOU JUST HAD SEX,(FORNICATION) AND YOU ARE ON THIS PAGE TALKING TRASH ABOUT HOW GAYS ARE POSSESSED AND FROM THE DEVIL... PLS EXPLAIN TO US WHERE YOU READ IN THE BIBLE THAT YOU ARE BETTER THAN GAY PEOPLE IN THE SIGHT OF GOD?

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  125. BLOGLORD (MVBM)11 April 2013 at 21:53

    things are happening! linda which kain advice be that? eyesrolling

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  126. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 21:53

    YOUR FATHER IS IN GOVT AND HE STEALS, YOU WORK IN A COMPANY BUT YOU SOMETIMES PLAY SMART AND YOU STEAL... TELL ME HOW YOU AND YOUR FATHER ARE NOT DISGUSTING AND NOT FROM THE DEVIL BUT GAY PPLE ARE? STOP JUDGING OTHERS... FOCUS ON YOURSELF AND CORRECT YOUR WAYS... MAY GOD FORGIVE US ALL AND HELP US TO LIVE RIGHT.

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  127. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 22:01

    Lindalistic Lindodo you are such a bad bad girl.....you need to bleach your mind out!!!

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  128. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 22:04

    The Threesome will be best when he catches her red handed, so it will be their dirty lil secret. But Can He continue?

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  129. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 22:10

    Me I will ask for a threesome ooooo... This guy dey dull big time sha... *passing by

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  130. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 22:20

    ... WHAT IF IT WAS THE OTHER WAY ROUND,A WIFE FINDING SAME ON HER HUSBANDS PHONE ... WILL YOUR WORDS STILL BE THIS KIND???

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  131. creamy11 April 2013 at 22:44

    Hmmm na Wa ooo,3some is d best solution.. Creamy

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  132. Unknown11 April 2013 at 23:05

    its no big deal,deal with it bro

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  133. Unknown11 April 2013 at 23:07

    men are worse

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  134. lulu11 April 2013 at 23:07

    Abeg do threesome..or gang tin..2 on 2..I'm in..hehehe

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  135. Anonymous11 April 2013 at 23:21

    the best thing is to stay in d marriage and try to make it work because if yot were gay, she would stay with you all the way.
    This is what happens when our society rejects reality and prefer to live under illusions.

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  136. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 00:10

    Mr man meet ur pastor for counselling not Libers or r u a learner?

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  137. seunLondon12 April 2013 at 00:24

    y do most Nigerians act like the whole country is straight??? sigh

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  138. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 01:14

    Three-some bruv! No dull am...or else,the other woman go collect ur wife o!

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  139. Aduke12 April 2013 at 03:06

    Abeg nothing new here, nothing strange n definitely not a big deal! There's sooooo many bi girls/women out there. When ur into it, u'r just into it simple! It won't change! U shud be thankful its not with another man or even numerous men sha. And trust me no amount of mind blowing love making/sex, most banging p$?y eating ever n what not from u will change that feeling. She loves n enjoys the touch n feel of another woman once in a while too as its in her period!

    Sometimes too, some men can make some women turn to this from their constant n numerous sleeping around with anything in skirt.

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  140. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 05:13

    This is not funny, because if the shoe was on the other foot and the wife had discovered her husband having conversations like that with another man everybody would be up in arms.

    @ Sender you need to sit down and have a long, serious talk with your wife. You are absolutely right in your estimation, nobody sends nude photos to another as a joke especially if they have been having sexually laced conversations. Get to the bottom of this, and make a decision for your future. Nobody wants to be blindsided that the person they married is homosexual or bi-sexual. I really feel bad for you. Wish you all the best.

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  141. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 05:53

    Why do some of yall talk like u live in a cave!why cant men accept that two women can have a hot,steamy mind blowing sex without needing a fu*king c*ck? LOL! yall think a good alpha male fu*k will 'straighten' her up!???? seriously?! lmao yall crack me up! a lot of u need to be educated but as it is most of yall want to stick to what you know!and when it comes to things u dont understand, na chaos o!. u find lesbian sex hot and freaky, suddenly a 3some idea poped in ur nasty hairy minds. if it had been d other way around, na sodom and gommorah una go dey shout! such double standard.

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  142. Gbemi12 April 2013 at 06:19

    Oh a lil addition...Mr Poster. lemme jus break it down to u simple. One, your wife cud b bi-curious (i mean with d whole lgbt thing floating in the air) homegurl might creaming to know wht the ish is abt. if thats d case, then let her explore d phase shes going tru. shel definately come around NO one can turn gay unless they already are. So breath.
    Now d Bad news, since d lady in question is d one sending erotic pics to ur wife, hmmmm that means ur wife na the dominant one o. and if she is then chances are: she is a lesbian. she might stay, she might go. (depending on hw rooted she is in d naija norms and/or what gender she leans towards d most)If u ask her for a 3some, its gonna turn her right off! if a woman wants to get kinky, she will purpose d idea to u. u jus stay open, gay friendly give her some clues u tht ure kool with her chioces.she'l warm up u'll see.Goodluck

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  143. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 06:41

    THAT FUCKING WOMAN IS FUCKING DEMONIC, THROW HER OUT OF THE WINDOW BEFORE YOU GET INFECTED....so says freeOrgasm Giver to Ladies

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  144. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 07:17

    U all should knw d woman might be bored wit d same routine every day so instead of cheating Cus d husband won't understand a picture of a naked man on his wife fone so she turns to a female. What's d big deal like every body don't cheat or fantasy once in a while.

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  145. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 07:33

    *Linda* I don't know o...... I would prefer my GF or wife cheat on me with another woman not a man o

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  146. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 08:30

    A threesome wouldn't be a bad idea. Add spice to their sex life. That's my own sexual fantasy, if only my wife will concur. Just wishing he has my wife and i had his. Life is not fair.

    #GrimReaper#

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  147. Chimah Ikechukwu12 April 2013 at 09:08

    *in davido's voice* see Gobe!!

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  148. Chimah Ikechukwu12 April 2013 at 09:50

    *in davido's voice* see Gobe!!

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  149. Shelly**12 April 2013 at 10:23

    I have my man whom I luv soo much and yes I do women too. My man doesn't know about that n really no need to as I'm not in luv with any woman but just luvvvv n enjoy girl on girl! Mehnnn that ish is sooo damn sweeeeet can't even lie! Hehe...It's just different n soo sexy! Just the thought of it now *instant wetness* :p


    P.S. Don't f*cking judge me! All u "Holier than thous!"

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  150. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 10:36

    Linda, I dey suspect you!

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  151. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 10:37

    Sleeping with a girl is not a big deal jor, so the young man should let his wife be.. Me i like women with big boobs and nice thighs.

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  152. Jeny-alorah12 April 2013 at 12:52

    its very normal abeg...yes its obvious she is, and wats wrong with dat?
    U shuld thank yur stars she is evn into women nd not men.
    Pls Mr Oga shut up nd flow with the trend.... Or ARE U A LEARNER ?

    **BB Eyes Rolling**

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  153. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 12:53

    Your wife needs counseling, send me her bb pin

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  154. Anonymous12 April 2013 at 13:18

    They say a lot of married women are into this. They say it's not cheating. Ha.

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