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Question for the guys...

How long would you to date a lady before you expect sex from her?

1. A few days
2. A week
3. A month
4. Three months
5. Other (specify)

396 comments:

  1. Linda goan sleep..:p

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  2. Yawn yawn...... Linda these your sex starved questions and blog posts are getting old jare

    sex sex sex , please there is more to life than sex. Sex is a beautiful thing but not all life is about .

    You hardly post other enriching topics eg spiritual or family topics.....yawn

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  3. Depends on how we get along... if well from both sides.. A week is fine

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  4. Hmmm,
    They won't say the truth
    A nigerian man would even expect sex with you on a first date.
    Okay oh, let's hear from the guys!!!!!!!!

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  5. 2-3 days, Linda how long will it take you to give a guy sex?

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  6. MmmmmHhhhh Lili. Guys ok oooh, over to you.

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  7. Where are de guys plssss....we need to hear u here?#tongue out

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  8. 1 week, you shouldnt make him wait, you might end up being raped

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  9. It depends on her body signals. I've done a few girls I met same day, some fews weeks, months n all d@.

    Ams

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  10. As long as she doesn't as me for money, I will wait till marriage, but if she doesn't, she deserves to be defied

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  11. I think most guys will say after the second date, let me say two weeks or two months or two days , it's all depend on the douchebag, if he is a gentle man or not. As for me, I make them suffer, it's not groundnut or kulikuli they can get from back of the market, I watch a guy and give him one year. The only one that was able to wait that long was my hubby and that is why he is my hubby! Girls beware God made guy mouth with honey, am sure their heart with charcoal! All your insults , right back at ya!

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  12. A few seconds...what the heck kinda question is that?

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  13. The funny thing is dat when u respect a woman too much, she won't allow u have sex, she will give d sex easily to someone dat will give it to her the hard way, they like it rough, so a times, when u wait too long some see u as a weak person, I advise u start trying ur luck from first time she visits ur house

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  14. Two days; if it's love at first sight.

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  15. Aww, thanks for visiting my blog Linda. :)

    Glad to see you are a fan of African Sweetheart.

    http://africansweetheart.blogspot.co.uk/

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  16. LOOOOOL

    LINDA ARE YOU KNOW USING YOUR BLOG FOR DATING ADVICE AND TIPS


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  17. Few Days..... #Gbam!

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  18. few days of for real, wen she no be learner.

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  19. We need to ave sex b4 I could cal it a date..

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  20. Only small boys wait a week, I sleep with girls the same day... If i like the girl and i want to keep her i will wait a week

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  21. Preferably the Next day.... At most 1 week. After one week, then it has turned into a long thing.. I am already chasing another one.

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  22. I will wait for marriage. When the foundation is wrong, then everything goes wrong.

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  23. Linda, 10 minutes. I don't have the patience. Thanks.

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  24. #Excited!! I would really want to see the answers o... Guys, over to you!

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  25. Depends on the way the babe is. Within 2 weeks sha. That's if I don't really love her yrt

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  26. After dating this babe for a week, she was still forming no sex. The chemistry was obvious but she dey do one kind. So I gave her an ultimatum. Sex or let me go! We've now been married for 10yrs.

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  27. same day......

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  28. Few days are enough, only that pre marital sex is not for me.

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  29. No.6. Immediately!

    Thats my answer. Doing it now and then, no be the same thing? Wait for wetin again?
    Ain't nobody got time for that!!!

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  30. B4 first date.

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  31. No timetable; whenever.
    The earlier the better.

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  32. That same night. i mean whats all the forming for when it will happen eventually

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  33. omo,na after d first dinner ooh.When we dey chop d dinner,i go ask am"baby,okwa aku cha dinner,anyi aga a DINA KWA?......LOL.

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  34. A few days, I dnt give chance cus chances are ment for fools

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  35. A week is alright for the matured mind lolz...

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  36. 6months or a year depending.....

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  37. she craze? 3months? na spider webs na hin go grow dia. Na dat dat day jor.

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  38. Not untill their wedding night

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  39. Me and my wife had sex d first day we met and we have been married. Kw for 9 yrs. Too much shakara can kill the spark has at first on you. What will be will be not how far but how well. He can still dump u if u waited after 1 year before sex with him.

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  40. Immediately, or else I move on....

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  41. Answer from a woman. You are not her husband, therefore you have absolutely no right to expect sex from her at any time. If she chooses to share it with you then thats her choice not your expectation.

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  42. Hmm. A month so we can no each oda more bt it hard dis days cos d gals wil ask u wat re u waitn 4.

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  43. If its d lady I want 2 marry i can wait 4 ever! But if its a girl I want just for fun... I make move @ d 1st date and can be patient 4 @ most a week or She F*** off! Datz all.com

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  44. Dat same day we shud start avin sex sef

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  45. Same day. Sex at first sight. Lust first, then true love after. The initial attraction is always physical-her shape,her boobs,her backside, her smile... Later, love will let me discover more about her personality. Also, it eliminates making sex an issue in the relationship. Sex in a relationship should be natural, and not a negotiating tactic or something for sale. Good sex between consenting adults is beautiful and healthy.
    Bia, Linda, I'll do a hot babe like you in the first hour!

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  46. Linda,that a man delays sex doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't expect it, most times it is just a strategy to win her trust and love. As a man looks he sees himself *inside* what/whom he admires....so he expects it...it is a core part of the admiration...forget when he finally gets it...all men wanted it like yestarday...all na strategy...and sometimes while playing their script(men) they eventually fall in love or get caught to move to no where else. BTW Linda, I'm having a crush on you

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  47. hmmm, dear linda.... if possible,, i would like to have sex with her, the very first day we started dating...

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  48. I had it with my last within 1 week. Mind blowing from my usual.

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  49. less than a month.

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  50. I ain't expecting sex from no date. My genes are too unique to be polluted by someone I might eventually not marry.

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  51. Few days naw are you a learner?

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  52. Me really I think sex should not be a priority in a relationship... Me,we have sex weneva we decide to,sex cum early in a relation wen u want to do away wit her.I see sex as a give away prize to do away wit her,but wen u reali love dis gal genuinely u won't to demand fo sex earlier...but gals rili have a say in this,cuz u cnt force her,she decides wen..!

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  53. Linda are you asking for yourself?

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  54. 1 week......#GBAM + first to comment....hehehehe

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  55. It depends on the gal in question, some gals lack in other aspects so much that you just keep thinking of sex. I waited for my current gal for more than a month, and we are always together and believe me, I wasn't even desperate...

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  56. A month will be fine

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  57. IT DEPENDS ON WEN SHE WANTS IT, COS ITS MUTUALITY @ WORK

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  58. Till we walk down the aisle.
    I can wait,av been waiting with d help of something.

    ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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  59. Depends on how I see her person and what I've known about her for a short period.but i can stay with her for a year if I see she's decent.we all want girls we can take to mama.

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  60. Hmm mm, that question is a tough call for guys but if i'll speak for the guys.......i guess it all depends on the moment, most times the dating game is just to get the mode going for a healthy relationship and if you ladies must be sincere some ladies want it the very night of the date but i guess the most appropriate time for sex should be one month....the waiting game and all the fantasies built up makes the sex thing even more exciting don't you all think?

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  61. Linda,God bless you for dis topic cos I dey dilemma right nw ontop dis matter.

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  62. Depends on the timing, but for me a few days...

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  63. After ur first date,frm dinner to the guys home.

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  64. Few days ke? A day or two joor!

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  65. Linda ebi like say u no dey naija again who dey talk of how many days? Am sorry to say this but our girls have lost it all, if u have money u can have her d very day u pick her.

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  66. *rolling my eyes*... He had better wait till the wedding night!

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  67. After our wedding (if we decide to get married) and not any time before then. That's the right way to do it and that's God's instruction.

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  68. Funny though. I don't have an answer. I don't ask for sex. Somehow, it just happens. Dated one for 2 years before. Started off having sex the first day. I think I just ride with the tide.

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  69. Same day. it aLl depends on what u feel for each other,cos u can let it happen after five month and and the relationship will not last more than two months,cos that is not what makes relationship last longer. U can meet someone today and have sex with the person same day and the relationship last longer and even leads to marriage

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  70. It depend on d individual involved. Sm ppl met tda n d nxt day dey re hittin it out. Sm met bt sex isnt a priority. So it al depends.

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  71. Linda pls do proof read before u post . Check this post 4 a grammatical error. "How long would u to date a lady" # how long would u want to date a lady" u meant!

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  72. In my opinion, I would ONLY expect sex from her after our wedding (if we decide to get married and finally do) and not any time before then. God created sex for married couples and not for 'dates' because sexual intercourse is not merely a physical sensual activity, it is more of a total bonding of spirit, soul, and body. That's what's acceptable to God and that's what I will do.

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  73. Hmmm idont really care HO̶̲̥̅̶̷̩̥̊͡ long we date its lovethat matters..¥̴̥̩̩̥̩̩̩̥ε̲̣̣̣̥§ Oo°˚˚˚°

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  74. I can be very disciplined when it comes to sex, its a mind thing really - as long as I can keep my mind off it, its easy. I can date a long time and have dated 6 months without sex. But it was the lady I was dating who eventually requested for it, else I'd have waited longer. The challenge comes when both parties start fanning the flames with long kisses and petting - I don't know how many people can wait until under such a circumstance as waiting will become pure torture. But if both parties will mutually agree and be disciplined I think I can wait much longer than 6 months.

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  75. How long will a lady date me b4 she expects SEX from me?

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  76. Nigerian boys, guys and men. Please give us reply. This question directs to you males. Thanks

    www.orabellaa.blogspot.com

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  77. I used to have this crazy notion that I will keep the girl I love till marriage. Whosai! That has long gone with the winds after a girl taught me in an early age that in relationships, nkemjika (meaning that what I get now is better than what I expect in the future). So the earlier the better and anything that goes beyond 2 months is bad market.. dazall!

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  78. Linda as for me oh! That day,that day we gonna have sex cos how can she eat my moni n cant be grateful by havn sex wit me n returns..what if she leaves n neva comes bak?

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  79. I think its the same as how long it takes her to ask me for money.

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  80. Depending on d level of connection made, dts 4me buh it shuldnt exceed a week @d most.

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  81. A month maybe 2months if I really like her

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  82. How long would u 2 date a lady? Really, which kan English b dat?...

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  83. I would go a few weeks

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  84. I THINK ITS WHEN THE URGE COMES FROM BOTH OF US

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  85. Few days n d sex has to b gud

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  86. Speaking Canally i would say immediately if possible, otherwise it should be after marriage.

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  87. Three months or even more. Anything less makes me kick her app once am done sleeping wit her @reviloonthebeat.twitter

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  88. I do not think that there is a stipulated time for dating. You should date positively until you both know that you are both matured for what follows after.

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  89. The truth is that we start expecting it from the first day..but it may not happen immediately.it depends on the pressure from the man and the lady.

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  90. Three months

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  91. Same day delivery

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  92. hmmmmmmmm depends though ... different strokes for different people

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  93. Odikwa shap shap

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  94. I really wonder why premarital sex has become a normal thing!

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  95. I will expect sex from her as soon as she start expecting expenses from me,lol

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  96. hangout-chillo.com 4 funniest jokes & vedios20 March 2013 at 07:41

    one month.... after one month i expect sex from her.... except she is planning to only chop my money and run...

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  97. Linda please post comments...eagerly waiting 2 read....

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  98. a week is what i use to get sex from a lady

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  99. A week. First to comment

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  100. Can't wait for d comments, I just started seeing dis guy, 3weeks into it nuffin yet. Ion wanna b perceived in an abnormal form.

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  101. i'd say like 2 weeks....enough time to make the lady feel secure with you. Anytime spent afterwards talking to each other is a waste. Guys need sex....like food.

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  102. Sex in relationship is a desire which cannot be determined by d no of days. it happns when d guys nuclear weapon and d lady's atomic bomb are willing to absolve each other. we can start rocking right from d first day




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  103. Personally, I'll go for few days...I hate it when i aven't had sex with a girl before i begin to find flaws in her....definitely, i can't ave sex with a girl full of flaws

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  104. rawlings on twitter @wisper2raw20 March 2013 at 07:58

    Linda it depends on the two people involve.and also it depend on the chemistry flowing between them.two people crushing strongly on each other won't survive a day or two. And it depends too on who wants it most..if the urge is from the lady she might get it within the earlier said a day to two. But if the urge is from the guyand the lady knows her onion it could be upto a month. But most people now want sex is a relationship like a friend said that not untill he confirms a girl by having sex with her he won't be committed to the relationship. But naturally a month is okay. I like the wait, the anticipation. Most relationship that begins with early sex don't last long. And talking from experience. Linda the normal is one month but trust me these days it last a week max.

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  105. if i really want to be with the girl it could take close to a year or even more if not then probably days. me and my girlfriend of six years had sex when we were 3years into the relation maybe its cause i met her a virgin. but the bottom line is if i love her i could wait eternity.

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  106. A few days I go for .AGRO no dey wait guys at all even self if possible dat day.but a true one should take three month

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  107. When ever she is ready.

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  108. Few hours sef if possible...execept I like her so much and have great plans for her,but even at that,lemme first of all enjoy the koko,the the lovi lovito fit follow!

    Abi naa?

    HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

    1. Feed him
    2. Sleep with him
    3. Leave him in peace
    4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
    5. Don't bother him with his movements

    HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY

    It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
    woman happy, a man only needs
    to be:

    1. a friend
    2. a companion
    3. a lover
    4. a brother
    5. a father
    6. a master
    7. a chef
    8. an electrician
    9. a plumber
    10. a mechanic
    11. a carpenter
    12. a decorator
    13. a stylist
    14. a sexologist
    15. a gynecologist
    16. a psychologist
    17. a pest exterminator
    18. a psychiatrist
    19. a healer
    20. a good listener
    21. an organizer
    22. a good father
    23. very clean
    24. sympathetic
    25. athletic
    26. warm
    27. attentive
    28. gallant
    29. intelligent
    30. funny
    31. creative
    32. tender
    33. strong
    34. understanding
    35. tolerant
    36. prudent
    37. ambitious
    38. capable
    39. courageous
    40. determined
    41. true
    42. dependable
    43. passionate

    WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
    44. give her compliments
    regularly
    45. Go shopping with her
    46. be honest
    47. be very rich
    48. not stress her out
    49. not look at other girls
    AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU
    MUST ALSO:
    50. give her lots of attention
    51. give her lots of time,
    especially time for herself
    52. give her lots of space, never
    worrying about where she goes.

    BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
    IMPORTANT
    53. never forget
    *birthdays
    *anniversaries
    *valentine
    *arrangements she makes.

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  109. For the very first time, i choose to be blunt. Every man will really wanna test his investment from the very first day but depending on the lady involved. I have dated a lady and few days after we had it and I have equally dated a lady that i never saw beneath her face. Love and Lust also have their influence on it.

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  110. As long as we can understand each other Linda

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  111. depends on the type of lady...lets say a few days....max,a week.

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  112. Ehhhh? after that meal ooooo. i no get time. and it doesnt mean i wont love her if shes stable or disrespect her. women shouldnt always form. ofcus i wont force her but trust me,i will make sure we talk dirty and make her horny,if it happen in the car infront of her house, the better. once again sex on the first date doesnt make her a whore. someone like me just needs a lady with a crazy sex drive.

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  113. it depend on de motive of de girl.it may be dat very day.but if de girl don have any nagative motive in her mind it will take one week.

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  114. AS FOR ME. A WEEK, AFTER MUCH SPENDING.

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  115. After marriage

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  116. as long as it takes,sex is not the ultimate when dating,when she agrees to it i think i am ready then we go all the way

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  117. Sometimes, it depends on the status of the girl and how calm the guy may b when it comes to sex issue. But I could stay a year sha o o . Na tru love matters

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  118. Three months z too much ooo lyk one week nah

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  119. Linda you're obviously going to get plenty "wtf right away"

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  120. Honestly i cant date a gal more one month witout asking for sex

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  121. hehehhehehehe,linda,u don come again oh,oya,lib guys,make we hear how long una fit keep una'banana inside shokoto''linda,nah ur place i won take chop afternoon food o,wetin u cook nah,but post my comment frst.

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  122. linda..not at all.. bcos as me i will hate her wit passion if i had sex wit her....i believe sex is meant for married people

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  123. hehehheheeheh,take banana till u go yo!linda,abeg open gate for me o,i don reach.frst to comment 'dancing azonto'

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  124. A month probably!It all depends.

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  125. una know say if banga soup don reach day 2 nai e take dey sweet pass,so linda,i pick two days,

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  126. A month probably,it also depends...

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  127. habba LINDA...few days bawooo

    Aabeg na after we don chop Dinner finish jooor......make we knack our akpaco.

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  128. No sex @all, men r dogs dey cnt do witout sex... Idoits

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  129. Smooching a guy should happen within a week after you identify him as a toaster that you like. Sex with a guy after identifying him as a toaster you like should not exceed two weeks abeg. Life is too short to be wasting time forming and delaying sex when u know say you de gel for the guy. Besides, the earlier you know his performance, the better biko.

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  130. As the spirit directs

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  131. Smooching a guy should happen within a week after you identify him as a toaster that you like. Sex with a guy after identifying him as a toaster you like should not exceed two weeks abeg. Life is too short to be wasting time forming and delaying sex when u know say you de gel for the guy. Besides, the earlier you know his performance, the better biko.

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  132. it depends on the chic and how she potray herself.but as a sharper guy just two weeks. but for my real babe i allow her till wen she ready for it.

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  133. 1-3 weeks. Anything after that puts a broda in the friendship zone.

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  134. 1 month , under normal conditions. if i'm really into her, then i'll give her more time. I might consider her loose if she gives in earlier.

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  135. i think one should wait to know the person like 3-6 months? it varies

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  136. Some guys do it @ the first date. Even if they met the girl on a social network.

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  137. I date my wife for 6months without sex. Just to show her dat sex is nt love

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  138. Linda, am yet to understand what you are preaching or insinuating and am yet to understand when sex became affirmation for love.

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  139. I'm a chick tho bt imma comment on dis as for me three months is cool.let em wait.

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  140. The longest relationship I have ever had in my life, was a girl I met and had sex with her the same day.
    No need for fronting.

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  141. a week will be good by me... that's all.

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  142. Depending on how often she visit my house n what I think about her,cos if she's highly regarded I wud slow down to a week or more but surely less than a month!

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  143. A few days of course,to seal the relationship....

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  144. a week will be good by me... that's all.

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  145. before you start dating, you already have intentions of having sex, this implies on both parties, so it can happen anytime ( 1,2 day, months or years ) depending on the party involves.

    But these days, ladies dont care. they can give it out on the first date and we are ready to accept at any given time

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  146. Linda Lolo, you na kawain! No long things, i will shag a guy am cool with on a first date. The point here is that you can tell from the first date is this is a guy you will get down with anyway, wink! I have done this like thrice already and no regrets.

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  147. It depends, emotional and sexual connection matters, and the goal of you guys coming together too, so it could be one day, a week, a month, but definitely not more than a couple of months if you guys are in the same city and its not a long distance relationship.

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  148. 30minits LoooL, naughty me, that was a joke shaa. In a proper relationship till Honey Moon..... So i have vow.

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  149. ONE WEEK, I MET AN OLD FRIEND FRM MY UNIVERSITY DAYS, AFTER 1 WEEK OF TALKING, WE HAD SEX, I M ABOUT GETTING MARRIED TO HER, THIS MONTH N I CNT WAIT

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  150. Same day if possible. Ask and it shall be given to you. He who seeketh, findeth.

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  151. d answer is no5. Others specify. *wink* honeybell.

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  152. Depend on the lady.... if u loose guard, same day!

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  153. Abeg as quickly as possible b4 she carry d tin run VGBG

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  154. linda as for me its all depends.

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  155. Linda, no vex but is this question really necessary? Am not being sanctimonious here really but if you are even half a Christian you shouldn't promote or seem to suggest thoughts that promote premarital sex. Already as the role model you are do kindly encourage young persons to live right.
    My take? Wait untill you have exchanged marital vows to knack.

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  156. Lin Lin pls always go tru whateva u've writen b4 postin it oooo...u kuku ma no say we go yab u.

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