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Saturday 30 March 2013

'It's so so difficult to find a wife' - Mikel Obi opens up

On his marriage dilemma, the Chelsea midfielder told sports journalist, Kayode Tijani that finding a wife is so so difficult that he's leaving it to God. Mikel said:
I know, normal people don’t go through what I am going through now when it concerns finding a Wife to marry, normal people don’t at all. Believe me it’s so so difficult, very difficult, it’s so so difficult you just have to leave it to God. To find someone who truly loves you, there might be someone who really loves me truly for who I am but I may not be aware but maybe you don’t know but you may think she’s one of them people that loves you for who you are or what you have, because of your money, but maybe she’s there for you, you never know, you get so confused, now I have decided I will just leave it to God to decide who I get married to.
On his rumoured five Bentleys, what he said after the cut...



One thing is I really don’t go into the Nigerian papers, not like I don’t care but he called me, my agent called me, he was in Nigeria and he said to me there’s rumors that I have Bentleys, I am like what, five Bentleys? What am I going to do with five Bentleys? They are all same cars. Five Bentleys, I might have five different colors of them. I think it boils down to when you are doing really well, when things are going well for you, you become what people don’t expect you to become, what people don’t expect you to achieve, you know there’s always going to be rumors flying here and there., it all depends on how well you manage yourself though, you curtail yourself from things that are not right for you, I want to play this game for a very long time, I love Chelsea, I will like to finish my Career here at Chelsea but it depends on what happens, who comes and goes, that’s football, we shall see what the future holds.

See the full interview HERE

165 comments:

  1. so true my brother is so so difficult to find a wife.....if its difficult for me, I just imagine what a rich futbol star like u ll b going through but as u hv rightly said; GOD is d ultimate one to direct u to ur real wife...u can do it on ur own or unless u ll stumble

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    1. Dear Mikel,
      Go and watch the film 'Coming to America' and take a leaf of that. Then holla at yo boy and thank me later

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    2. Obi come to my village stream during xmas,if u don't find a good,well behaved and lovely girl,call me a liar.lolz

      ~BONARIO~says so via NOKIA3310

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    3. Why wnt Ȋ̝̊†̥ be difficult wen u'r busy looking @p the wrong direction! There are 1001 God fearing, homely, faithful, humble, lovely, cool headed girls out dia just ℓi̶̲̥̅ke me waiting patiently unto the Lord for a husband!

      Girls Ώђo are genuine, submissive not after luxuries buh seeking true n pure L♥√e; beautiful in dia own ways are all scattered all ova the places! Buh Ώђo sai....una no go look for dem, buh na to dey for seek Miss World wey dia taste don high, ladies frm rich n classy backgrounds with high n weird living!

      Well....i pray God to open ur eyes n direct ur feet to me or other ladies dat ar just ℓi̶̲̥̅ke i'd earlier stated! #Phew#

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    4. Mikel plSs come n marry me. I'm a true wife..

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    5. @adorable,YOU LIE,dat ur juju nor go work,I know ur type infact I don see your type b4,since you dey God fearing,why you nor marry "brother john"the God fearing usher for your church,you sef dey find rich footballer abi?park well joor.

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  2. Why does something tell me I 'll end up being this guys wife? Hmmmm Linda mark 2days date. I love him 4real!!!

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    1. Balawo onye oshi!!! Go n wrk hard!!

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    2. Hahahahahahaha...LMAO! Dream on baby.

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    3. LoL, wife indeed. Wake up b4 u die in ur dream. Evn in ur next world. Everybody wants to marry mikel. LoL. U love him becoz of who he is so God no de ansa dt kin prayer. You b thief.

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  3. Very true! Its actually very hard because virtually any gal would wanna marry him because of his status, so the true love thing would be slim. But he shouldn't fear, money can do wonders o! Especially on gals. Lol!

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    1. U r right prince charming,money can do real wonders on girls o

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    2. Being a footballer does nt add anything 2 his character,he may hv d money but money can't buy all gals as u guys tink,so his character mata's 2.

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  4. Oh plz cm nd marry me jor I love u for u nt ur money,well wish u luck in ur carear!
    PS: prince jobless God will punish u

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    1. Nigga, you will be punished a hundred times by satan... What did pJ do to you. You fucktard.



      ****mandy*****

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    2. You are an epic moron

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    3. The problems wit rich celebrities like mikel is dat they are not ready to date babes who are simple in nature or frm a poor background, they forget they were once in dat shoe, they prefer to date dose babes who claim to b high classed,.and at d end , it ends in divorce. like sumone here rightly advised, mikel shld go watch. Coming to America , n get a cue frm dat. Let him get himself disguised for a while, and let's see d outcome

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  5. Dear Lord
    May Mikel Obi never find rest till he locates me!!!
    His future wifey

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    1. Hehehe dis na ashawo prayer

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    2. No b small. Some girls no get shame.

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    3. I tell u!! LMAO! ;)

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    4. Anon. 1:07, please which kain prayer be that? Abeg, no give am unnecessary unrest.

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    5. Na mumu dey worry u o! Dey dere dey wait 4 mikel.

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  6. When u find the right one,
    let her go where she'll see step by step pics of how to cook any NIGERIAN DISH @: www.wivestownhallconnection.com

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    1. U done come bk??welcome oh n as mikel is locating d wife,so shall d wife locate ur kitchen..

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    2. Lmfaooooo @ anon 1:03. Forrealz I've been wondering where she was.

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    3. Aunty Eya, GBU. I've learnt a lot from your cooking blog. I now know how to make ice cream at home. Thanks!

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    4. LIB readers, Eya's blog is so on point. Seriously. A lot to learn.U shd visit n see for urself. Weldone madam.

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  7. Ekwurekwu!ok,we don hear...God will gv u wife dnt worry..

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  8. Nwanna I love u truly! Cum and marry me naa:)

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  9. NORMAL PEOPLE? IS HE ABNORMAL???

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    1. @Anon 12.00 am, Ode,Olodo or Iti bolibo whc 1 r U̶̲̥̅̊? Normal people are regular ppl like U̶̲̥̅̊. Stars(celebs) are peculiar n rare people.

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  10. Normal people??? Meaning?

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    1. Ordinary nigerians are normal, celebrities abnormal.

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  11. Perfect! Let go and let GOD. Meanwhile this phobia about loving negatively is not healthy Mickel, if you don't take some risk you might not learn some lessons.

    SJD

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  12. When we have good girls like linda ikeji

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    1. Akuko! Linda i see u...lol

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    2. @Frannie ur mouth eh lmao!Linda fit born Mikel now

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  13. Wow! I feel u bro.. Leave all to God. He wil direct to u to ur missing rib. Love u scarra...

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  14. MAKE I ADVISE U MY GUY,U HAVE D FYNE FACE NO PIMPLES,MONEY AND FAME!LIVE LIKE NAIJA HOME BOY/6BABA.ENJOY THEM GIRLS,PLAY THEM WELL.F*** THEM WELLA.COS U ARE STILL YOUNG AND FRESH.ALL THE MODERN DAY WOMAN CRAVE FOR IS MONEY AND FAME.IF U HAVE THESE,U ARE COVERED.SO STOP BN A MUMMY'S BOY MIKEL.I ADVISE U START ENJOYING LIFE FULLY LIKE 6BABA,ENTER THE PLACES*WINK*WINK*.I AM YOUR MATE AND NOT PLANING ON SETTLING DOWN ANY TIME SOON.YOU HAVE MONEY AND FAME.BIKO 4FORGET LOVE!!!#REPRESENTINGDEMIGBBOBOYS#

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    1. Zombi!!!anumanu wit his dirty n short engine pri*k#linda don't fail 2 publish oh#

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    2. And die early of AIDS. Idiot.
      Better be careful with that wayward lifestyle you're leading.

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    3. Oh I wish u all u wish ursef #earlydeath#u knw dis rite!!!

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    4. And the insults came from the female homo sepians...

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    5. 12:11, let me know you so I can pray fervently for you, ehn!

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  15. This dude seems to've a good head on his shoulder.Remember chatting briefly with him in the loo @ Establishment nite-club in Swiss Cottage(no homo) during his transfer brouhaha,his boys were knocking back hard liquor but he just drank water.

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    1. Awwwwwww then dats nice if he is a take home to mama/papa kind of guy.some will just use fame and scatter d lives of many youngs girls around.leaving them moody forever afta d fling,dats if he doesn't get them pregnant sef.wish him a beautiful,educated and homely wifey.

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  16. I hv a friend that really cares about mikel passionately, I just hope he finds her some day.

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  17. Na so, frnd tinz hehehe ole!

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  18. And I'm available lol

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  19. Seriously,gud gals r hard 2 cum by dese days. There r gud gals bt veeeeeerrryy few. No girl wants 2 luv a man 4 who he Is, rada,4 wat he has,dey all claim 2 luv u scatter wen u r loaded bt wen it seems lyk tins r dropping 4rm d norm,dey scamper. Mikel its rily goin 2 b difficult 4 u 2 find a wife nw dat u'v made name,it wud hv bn a lot easier 4 u if u hadn't cum dis far. Bt I pray u find a gud one soon cos no one wants 2 marry a "knife" in place of a wife.

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  20. Must be really hard for real...Trust God to help you choose your soulmate,someone who truelly L♥√عs you for you because if na dat your money,every girl go'L♥√ع' you ℓ☺ℓ

    Pretty Girl

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  21. Bro, I implore you to pray for wisdom, women can be deceitful sometimes. Just find someone that does not care about your status, or someone that sees you normal. If you love white girls, go ahead but be ready to split in half when they ask for divorce.Good luck bro.

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  22. Why won't it be hard for him? First, he's over thinking it...second, he was kinda uppity when I met him at the airport....I didn't know him at the time and thought he was a rapper coz his hair looked crazy....he said, yeah, I'm a rapper....I think he thought I was pretending not to know him. And now he feels he's not a "normal" guy....that attitude will be his downfall...goodluck man, you'll need it.

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    1. Eeya! I feel you. But I think it strange if as a Nigerian, u don't know who Obi is. I agree that not everybody loves football but don't u see tv adverts and billboards too? Guess he just thought u an ignoramus and decided to ignore you.
      P.S I think u're a very ignorant person.

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    2. Na wah o, hair made you think he is a musician. Guess crazy hairstyle=rapper. You can't be too intelligent

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    3. Nobody was there oooo

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    4. Probably thought u were being saucy. Wld have done same if i wia in his shoes.we are all human and have our off days u know. Give him a break.
      Personally i am proud of how much hr has grown. I remember him as the saucekid who was embarrassing Naija at the time. Hubby and i Watched him at AFCON and cldnt help but notice his maturity. Well done bruv

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  23. Lmfao @ Anon March 31, 2013 at 12:11 AM... Kinda sounds like one of my igbo home boy Bobby Jones... Omo, Mikel, if u want to marry a woman that would love u for you and not your money, go out and mingle with young ladies as rich as u, i dont know where you would find them, maybe in Hollywood or some Top shots daughter, that way u will be sure she just doesnt love u cos you are rich. But i doubt if most rich girls are wife materials, just saying... In life, hardly can u eat your cake and still have it.

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    1. Rich gals still want more money so itz possible d can marry him cos of money too !!btw,he can get a gal that truly luvs him 4who he is and d fact he has money wil b an added advantage or he should do like 2Baba and go 4his first love when he was a nobody if she is still single...I don't like to mingle with footballers or celebrities generally cos Therez more to handle than d relationship,would hv dated u longtime cos u live close to me and could hv been ur friend@least 4a start but regardless,goodluck!

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  24. which one be normal people.Linda pls is Mikel abnormal

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  25. He's just 25-26. Get off his back with the marriage stuff. Besides, he's rich. As a result, gold diggers are on the prowl making it hard for him.

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  26. Yeah mikel is actually a nice guy met him last sunday,he's not even proud like people usually say he is..even his PA was so nice to me I really do love that guy but its so sad that there are billions of girls out there waiting to have him..nchekwube am waiting for you.

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  27. Mikel is not Difficult.....i am here Available

    Make U shine ur eye.......

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  28. Sme pple can tach# sha *RME...na so evribdy knw Mikel oooh....shuooooo

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  29. Or some top shot's daughter??? abi na them dey worse pass. Looking for rich boys who are also looking for them so that daddy will bless them too. Golddigger tins. Like the recent couple that engaged that Linda featured. Dont be decieved my people abeg, come and see what they are doing u go run. Men sef no get shame this days, money is everything to some daz why they get hooked up with the wrong ones abi na right ones sef. 9ja don spoil finish

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  30. Am in love with your every little something chai! Am in love,am in love
    onyi am in love ooooo.

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  31. When looking for a wife,find the one your hearts beats a little harder for.She wants to know more about you and shows a keener interest in your family.Look for her in The Church,since you want God to be a part of this search.Attend every sunday.Most of the homely ones also come around during the mid week services.Be patient.She will pass by.Then take it from there.

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  32. Don' t worry, God will come down from heaven and give u a wife. Oloshi, no go find wife marry. U had better make up ur mind fast. They are after ur money abi? Who no like better thing? Who wan suffer this days. Chop and clean mouth. Superstar oloshi

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  33. As for those guys lamenting bout women not loving them for who dey are instead of what they are, aren't u d same pple that will so dump d lady's cute behind once u get rich n she's done all d struggling wv u? I believe we all are familiar wv the popular saying bout u not knowing the true colours of a man till he becomes rich. So don't blame d girls who go after already made men cos men hv shown women pepper. As for Mikel, may God truly give u a discerning mind to guide u in ur quest.

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  34. shouldisaymyname31 March 2013 at 04:15

    Lol...too bad...i understand and feel for you bro...too bad that the last good girl (apart from my sisters ) is with me...love you boo...'lovina'(not her real name) ...you know yourself

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  35. All these gals and their friends professing love for Mikel go and chop stone. Would u profess love for someone without money. Gold digging naija gals. D guy is right u would all be after his money

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  36. So many gals wan marry Mikel. Na so una go de Pray for mikel ur real husband Go pass una, then u will start to blame God. Pray for ur own husband and not a man that evry girl wants. Make una de dream de fast de waith for mikel. Una go Old pass una papa. Rubbish.

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  37. Did u not have girlfriends when u were nobody??? Go and locate them, they cud fit in and pls take ur eyes off celebrities, actresses, musicians, MODELS in naija, all of them re thieves and goal diggers... The only one I know who is a good lady is married already.. I think the problem is u re looking for over high standard chicks,those ones wey go cum ur house the first day wit calabar helps bro if u cut it down a bit, good girls over full naija.. But u wunt see them cos they no dey show for television.....

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  38. Eiyaaah Sweet Mikel. U would make a good catch for any young lady. I am everything u desire- humble, kind and preety..and I don't give a hoot about ur money. Buh I may not want to marry a guy like u cos I won't want †Φ spend the rest σƒ my life fighting wit girls who already know ure married and still want a taste σƒ u. I don't want to die σƒ hypertension. ALl the best †Φ u boo. God will give u someone better dan me. One L♥ve!

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  39. he doesn't want to get married to d humble ones dt's why it's so so difficult 4 him.

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  40. Which one is 'normal'people again?is he abnormal'? I don't know why he is thinking of a wifey now,please live ur life n face ur career,seek God and every other thing wld be added to you.All this talk abt marriage is so unnecessary and marriage is sooo overrated.when the time is right God wil send along the 'perfect partner' so til then I say enjoy because you only live once and everyday we see a new day only means we are much closer to our deathday.Goodluck and best wishes to you

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  41. Mikel pls contact Kanu aka Papilo for advice.

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  42. honestly if he wants a wife, he'll find her. Not many ladies are into football. Travel to a city in NY and call yourself James and see how many akatas scream and identify u..none will jo. so if u really want a wife, u'll find her..

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  43. I have made the worst decision of my life,if only I knew then what I know now.

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  44. be a good husband,u will find a good wife,be what u want,and u will find it.very easy.

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  45. Which pple are d normal pple are u a ghost?just bcuz ur a footballer do u want to say u never had one or 2 date b4 bcoming wat u r 2day?my dear its only a mata of d hrt and choice forget d fact dat u hv money and do wat is xpected of u wat if its someone who doesn't watch football and doesn't even know u just dat she nos der is a person called u and u r a footballer? U must not go 4 d poor as usual wit u stars u can also go for d rich so u no de r not coming 4 ur money.

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  46. @ Eze how can u say girls are decieteful its applicable 2 everyone u can never find a perfect husband or wife u breed dem to wat u want and as for dis money money money who says women of dis days don't work for der own money?gone r doz days where woman wants to leave everytin for der man 2 handle and every woman reasons d way dis life is going everyone will be single both men and women all u nid is God,s direction

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  47. Oh please don't bother ur handsome head thinking.....I truly do love u....4 real.Linda I'll drop my details with u and u'll try and help me reach him....by all means.I know I am his heaven-sent.yeah..and as a couple I bliv we'll both do Nigeria proud

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  48. @ Anon 12:11 u be real fool

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  49. Ask jay jay okotcha how he got his wife! D advice will help u.smiles

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  50. Gold digger this nd that! Give me a break, 4 real so jst cos he is rich nd famous doesn't stp a girl 4rm loving him cos knowing well dat his never gonno be poor so why complaining? Show luv 2 d sistr dat shows u luv nd f**ks u well also cos dats all a man will ever need.

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  51. I luv u Mikel n I'll keep praying 4 u.

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  52. Women are really great pretenders, that's why you really need to pray to find the right woman

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  53. Mikel, u no get prob. Apply Economics. Start "sampling" your "wifey candidates" as from now. By the time you are 28-30, am sure you wld have narrowed down d list to manageable size. Borrow a leaf from TuBaba na.

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  54. Which kind talk be that I still believe that there are so many good girls out there especially in Nigeria.if m go put hand where oyibo girls de he will end up like tiger wood.make u na advice am make in come 9ja our culture is strong.

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  55. Lindaaaaaaaa..... Am vexing 4 u ohhh!!!

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  56. English in Naija Hard 2 Interpretes,Normal As In nt Being A Superstar,not d orda way round,negative Pple!-Kelkay

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  57. English in Naija Hard 2 Interpretes,Normal As In nt Being A Superstar,not d orda way round,negative Pple!-Kelkay

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    1. "Interpretes" kwa? It surely is! Prince Charming I've got you a new pupil, kindly assist with tutorials in the English Language.

      Drops da mic!

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  58. I saw mikel obi in winners church headquartes dartford,UK. That was after second service. He was standing alone and I was looking from afar, thinking that people will flood around him. Funny enough no one did. I watched him go and enter his range and drove off. First, it was good to see him in church unless if his purpose for coming was to look for wifey. Se0ondly, he looked just like everyone except for his hair style.

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  59. Ladies say there are no good men, men say there are no good ladies to marry. Hmmmmmm! The thing taya me.
    @Anno 12.11 you are a fool!

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  60. Beht I'm here naaa :'( I'm here

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  61. DatSweetIboChic31 March 2013 at 09:15

    Its Not difficult my dear, simply marry your type, a rich celebrity babe like you, Dat way U r sure she is not in 4 d money cos she would not need your money. Its always good to love and marry smone ur status, Let d poor men marry thr type and the Rich ones marry the rich *straight Face*

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    1. Abi oooh! female footballers many for here naaaa! That will be so ideal! You guys can exercise, train and do the other stuff footballers do together. LMAO! Let's face it, most celebs want "trophy" partners to show off with. I'm not saying he is 1 of them but if he is...beauty and elegance come with a steep price 80% of the time.

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  62. Mikel should jst keep straffing dem babes..dude is still young ..he can drop a kid for naw sha..


    BOLOS

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    1. Excusesir, probably "BOLOS" isn't as befitting as "BLOKUS" with the kinda slutty advice you're dishing out. You should consider a name change. *rme*

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  63. Jes as its difficult for u as a man, so is it difficult for sum young gals too like me! U need to stay focused on God's direction. He will surely lead us all right. Gud luck

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  64. My dear mikel_if not that am married_i could have let u into ma world__picking a wife shouldn't be a problem for someone like u,back then in nigeria(jos)u attented the lords choosen charismatic renewal(which ur family still attends)many gals 3e in that church who will love u with all their heart regardless of the fame and money_also we have deeper life bible church too_pick a wife there na-abeg break record from the normal footballers marrying actresses,models infact celebrities_oga mikel please go to those churches and get a born again that will bring ur children up in the fear of the lord___gbam...

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  65. My advice 4 mikel is dat jst pray to god dat god should give u a wify dat wil b like ur mum,infacts jst b prayerful.nd leave everyting to god bcos he has been doind it nd he wil always be.prince taiwo.

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  66. Y dont u try gals with surnames like ecclestone, hilton, adenuga, dantata etc perharps dey will ignore ur humble past and absolve u into their silver spooned enclave.
    If u r worried about wifely submission then spend your next leave in a remote place where u are likely unknown, dress like 'normal people' and carry an air of humility. When u catch a lovely young ladies attention, ensure she is unaware of ur status until after marriage ( u can do a simple registry ceremony for starter's) same advice I gave my son and he's been enjoying marital bliss of couse all with God's stamp of approval. Thank me later......

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  67. I listen to dus interview years ago y bringing it up now linda? Amebor no go kill u.

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  68. Dear Mikel,I love u for who u are,what u are,who n wat u'll still become.infact any way u want the love.Indian film pple will jelox u by d tym I finish giving u true love.. Marry me n put all ur properties in my name *wink

    Belle fille

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  69. its going to be hard if he try all by himself, but as he stated, he is leaving it to God. so i don't expect it to bother him that much.

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  70. Mikel please don't go for Nigerian girls! The girl in your picture (her race) will do just fine! There are gold diggers in Nigeria mate! Be a lad and use your brains!

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    1. Yeah! And who was that person wondering why people lash out @ PJ? Here's one of the numerous reasons! Dude am bi-racial too and very light skinned, guys like you make me sick to my stomach! You claim to live overseas so don't fool yourself. Over there we are still regarded as "BLACK" so stop the self-hate and embrace your black culture as well.

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  71. I think it is myopic when a guy is scared to marry cos he thinks he has money and d lady will want him only for his money. Wisdom suggests u simply marry a woman with potential to multiply ur money. And by d way not every woman knows Mikel Obi. My friend doesn't so let him get over his delusion of grandeur. There r richer guys who got married

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  72. Trust me there are good girls... but stop chasing after models video vixen and beauty queens or women just cos of their exotic look, only then would ou find a wife...

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  73. U feel good women are difficult because you don't even trust ursef

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  74. Mr Obi, if u get to read this, better listen and listen well!!

    There is no way a gal will not look and consider your fame and money..

    Firstly, with ur fame and fortune, comes a whole lot of vultures(ashawo) will she be able to cope with gals throwing themselves at u? How long and how well will u be able to resist their temptation??

    Secondly, what kinda woman are u looking for?? Beauty? Brain? Innocent? Wild?.. The kinda gal u have in mind will also determine the kinda of woman you will get!!

    Am sure if God ask u to marry an Illiterate ugly gal from a poor background.. Will u??

    Mr Obi..Just pray to God to be able to understand and accept his plans and will concerning the woman u will marry..

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  75. Hmmmm,so u ar abnormal,abeg u lik every normal person jare,pple dat av mony mor dan u ar marryin everydai

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  76. Honest to God, i am as confused as Mikel about ladies. I honestly want to settle down,if possible as i type this but can't seems to find somebody with whom my spirit finds complete with rest with.

    I have prayed and ask God to make it an Easter gift to me. Believ me it is not an easy issue particularly with dishonest ladies everywhere.

    God has blessed me and continues to but wife.....I am really bother.

    @ahea

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  77. Mikel is foolish, he is too arrogant.

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  78. Confab word he nor easy to see de one wen just love u normally bcoz u don de famous mostly bcoz of ur owo...but many still de wen go love u normally too shaa nut bcoz u own moni natural love dat wat I mean 4 marriage tings,
    Steadyman say so

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  79. Oga Mikel, it is good 2 leave everything in Gods hand but if u are waiting for a perfect woman, then u won't marry, u can only marry an imperfect woman n make her perfect

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  80. Mikel pls marry Linda, she is a good gal & very hardworking. Am sure she will make a good wife

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  81. My dear mikel, do d following if u wnt a gud wife. 1. Giv ur life 2christ 2. Quit messin around wit oda girls 3. Be humble nd normal 4. Wait.

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  82. How rich is mikel? He is not even educated. Only whores run after people like him. Long hisssss!

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  83. mr.mikel, did u jst say its nt difficult 4 normal pple? r u abnormal? Dat aside sef if u dey find wyf brother u beta get one soon coz d bible sed he dat finds a wyf,finds a gud fin n nt wen God finds a wyf 4 u!

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  84. Nah ovakaku go kill unah.....I sabi am ...I know am,,,,, abeg grab a bench jareh.

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  85. Hello mr Mikel obi, are really sure u are lookin 4 a wife if den come down to niger delta ughelli precisely come let us knw ourself hmmmm.

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  86. Mikel,go back to ur first love like TU Face idibia did...well dats if u had any dat agreed to date ur broke ass back then!*rme*
    That's the secret!thank me now!!

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  87. Date the girl who won't have u. She's from a good, educated, middle class to upper home and she still won't date u in spite of ur money. Chase her down and make her like u. And date a girl with a real job, not one that relies on u for everything. I know it boosts the guys' ego, but forget that. It will help u respect her better, which is a quality that invites marriage.

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  88. This interview is over three years old. Anyways, he's not ready to marry because he's scared of being faithful. Alot of nice and beautiful Nigerian girls will give alot to marry him, I don't even think he's into black girls. . .

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  89. I really feel this guy's dilemma, or put correctly, state of marital imbroglio! This is one of the many prices of fame and fortune, confirming that this world is simply just a funny place with so much confusion here and there. Anyway, I still think the best way forward is to look back, that is, let him go back to olden days like secondary school days and surf for a wife from there. Believe me, the friends we make in those days are, most times, the true friends we have for life. Well, if he's so confused, I can sympathize with him and welcome him as my in-law if he promise to drop his promiscuous ways - not bad

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  90. Why won't it be so difficult when you want to fuck all the pretty girls around cos of your money. When you are ready, you will surely find her.

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  91. we all try 2 find faults in wht ppl say, wen he said normal I presume we all knw wht he meant by dat bt some stil question dat mayb 2 mek jest or tryin 2 be mischievious. D truth is dt dis guys leav lif dt smtim seems abnornal, 4 exampl, a normal 9ja guy can jst walk up d street witout any fuse or eyes on dem, bt pesn lik Mikel could barely do dt, fans mite evn tear his cloths on d proces of jst aproachin him,som wil beg 4 his love, som may want his autograph on dier boobs,cloths etc,som may b askin 4 money or one 4rm of help, so does dt sound normal 2 u nw. Imagine crowd steering at u nd evn som folowin u lik Jesus Christ. A normal pesn can easily move around witout pesnal security or body guard, bt in his case is nt usualy dt, so dt is al he meant by 'normal' so critics nd fault finders learn 2 smtim sheath ur venomous blabbermouth sword nd appreciate ppl's honest comments nd intentions odawise u wil becom a devils advocat who neva see anytin good 4rm wht ppl do or say. I leav u wit dis words of Christ abt d adultrous woman 'if any of u who has nt sinned let him/her be d 1st 2 cast a stone on her'

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  92. I think everybody get into things for all the wrong reasons am happy he knows God can help because that's the first thing to admit u can't do it yourself. I believe God will grant the desire of your heart Boss

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  93. I think everybody get into things for all the wrong reasons am happy he knows God can help because that's the first thing to admit u can't do it yourself. I believe God will grant the desire of your heart Boss

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  94. The truth will remain that any girl who wants to marry him will be said to be marrying him becos of his mony. No Matt's how much she loves him. So u Berra start lookin.

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  95. Did I hear anyone say linda ikeji is a good gurl???

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  96. reading u guys comment its so funny. i believe if u look out there, there is someone for every one of us. u need to open up ur heart and knw wat u re looking for u ll find t. but if u meet a gal and start showing the money u think u ve den she ll help u chop the money. but really there re nice gals that re wifey material, if u need hook up i cud come with sth.........

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  97. That's life o, my people. The richer you are, the harder to find a wife. If the humble me here finds it so hard I can't imagine Mikel, BankyW, DonJazzy. Poor people marry very easily. I guess they've got not much to offer so it's easy to find true love. What an irony!

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  98. Don't lose hope cos there are still some good home girls out there. The truth is dat is diffcult to find them cos they are not usually in the obvious places.

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  99. We had a discussion in my house dat superstars like u would find it difficult 2 get a wife now, like u rightly said there re those who love u for who u are n what u are. Like 2face he married d girl he dated when he was nobody y? Cos he know dat she loves him very well n dat they were compatable. So i wuld advice u 2 go back 2 nkechi or ada dat was ur love when ur nobody n u shuld b very sure dat she loved u when u were nt yet a celebrity dat hw u will get a wife k

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  100. Ow long wit ur approval al d time Linda

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  101. what does he mean by normal people. I thought people are people,u mean people are others? Wetin be this?

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  102. When mikel is looking in the wrong directions, how will he find a wife? Me love u long time baby, very soon, I mean very soon the holy spirit will minister to u and lead u to me.......until then, my prayer and fasting continues

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  103. Oshi. Naija women will neva mk his list cos dem eyes too chook. See wt is happenin to 2face. Naija women r too poor n lack moral. Mikel go n marry an white billionaire's daughter cos naija will ruin u.

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  104. I'm here na :'( I'm here



    Linda, pls post ma comment nw? Did we quarell 2day??

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  105. So hard. On a normal day, to get a wife is difficult, talk more of whn u re a star! I tot I was d only one crushing on u,now luk at so many of dem here prophesying luv! And re u really proud as people say? If so change,cos it won't help matters. Be humble nd pray.

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  106. IF U SEE A GIRL U LOVE,ASK GOD IN UR HEART,IS DIS MY WIFE?U'LL RCV AN ANSWER 4RM D PRINT OR ELECTRONIC MEDIA OR SMD'SMOUTH?HER NAME MAY KEEP RECCURRING 4 LIKE 3TIMES.IT WORKED 4ME.IT'S CALD' D WAKING DREAM'.BEST OF LUCK.

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  107. This Bonario Nnags guy is cracking me up. LOL
    www.obinnaenemuo.blogspot.com

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  108. Someone give him several seats, sounds like a ploy for attention

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  109. @shouldisaymy name..I love you too baby..you are the best

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  110. Lmao. Linda, is this a joke? Where is he, lemme give him a knock! When they spend all their time in champagne parties, with video vixens and models who like only money and their beauty and rich guys that can spend it on them. How wld he find a wife? There are many simple available girls who are wife-material. But guys like this will never notice them. They'll say d girl isn't in their class or status. Leave it! Men are materialistic too. They say girls like flashy guys, but check it, men like flashy girls too. Is kanu nwankwo not a happily married man with a sane home? He knew how to do what was best for him- simple, homely, 'not-vain' girl. (And u can tell she's not vain, cos u hardly see her doing paparazzi thins unlike sme who wld hv loved to, if they were in her shoes). So likely should also set his priorities right. Maybe he's even a player that good girls runaway from becos they don't want scandals. But he def won't tell u that. Abeggggy!

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  111. And all the other guys saying 'i am in d same dilemma as mikel' u ppl should keep deceiving urselves. Mschheeew! Linda, na so dem dey talk. Try and date them and u'd be disgusted in one week. I hv NEVER seen a guy who is comfortable, has a good heart and a good character, ugly or not, stay up to 30yrs of age, before getting married. Cos women sure know good things when we see. If u r hunting for a wife, then check ur self. Maybe u r looking in d wrong places. Wen u hv naked girls pics on ur fone and laptop, hw will u attract a good wife? When u hv porn videos scattered in ur house, how will u find a good wife? When u r out in club every Friday and Saturday night, how will u find a good wife? U are neither a good xtian or Muslim and don't act like a God-fearing man, how will u find a good wife? U dont dress responsibly, how will u find a good wife who wld want to Tk u to her folks? U do 419, which reasonable girl wld want to stick out her life to marry you? U have girls calling your name up nd down, and u say u are looking for true love? U hv a past u want the girls to accept and live with, yet u won't accept the girl's own past too, u want a virgin. How wld u find wife? Pls, u ppl shld arrange ya selves 1st nd stop making it look like all girls are so terrible

    Linda, no try me oh! Post pls * winks* *winks*.

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  112. i agree with miami.Mikel should stipulate his priorities.there are different kinds of girls-classy,local,homely,vain,born again,churchless, tall, short,yellow,dark,etc.let him be clear what he wants and go for it.let him not believe that all girls are only after money.let him humble himself.i tend to think that it takes a good husband to make a good wife.no woman comes as a finished product.for me any woman that is not into occultism,juju and adultery,i can mould to my taste.
    Andy.

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  113. Am now confuse,thought I heard his Nigerian face of delta moved in with him and both are engaged to be married soon.

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  114. Being rich would make him the target of a whole lot of girls. I can see why his decision is difficult. Well, I am sure his folks would not let him rest till he marries. lol

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