Few weeks ago, Patoranking's record label boss, Foston Utomi's wife,
Ajoke accused him of domestic violence and even shared some photos of her injured body on her Instagram page (
read here).
Today which was supposed to be their one year anniversary, Ajoke shared
photos from their wedding and said that she has forgiven him. She also
revealed that their marriage is over. She wrote;
This
time last year you were full of smiles, laughing and dancing like I've
never seen you. You were HAPPY. And you made sure I had a perfect day. I
didn't get my happily ever after, and yes you did awful unimaginable
things to me, but knowing God has a plan for me or he wouldn't have
counted me worthy of even seeing today, makes me choose to only count
all the beautiful times you went out of your way just to make me laugh
and make me happy. Today I was staring at our amazing son while he
slept, i forgave you and I prayed for you for the first time in all
these months, that you conquer your demons and find peace and happiness
and I genuinely this morning, wished you a great life. Our marriage is
over, and it's for the best, but today will always hold fond memories
for me.
Sad end to a beautiful love story.
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The lack of money is the root of all evil. (Argue with your ancestors)
Things like this makes me sad...domestic violence
ReplyDeleteI guess wt time & wt humility & proper approach & genuine promise of not being violence,d man can still take his angelic wife back home,so bro,do d needful while their hope for reconciliation
ReplyDeleteThese happy ever after idea, its makes ladies get married, not every potential man is potential husband! Ladies for Christ sake,u must not be with a man to be happy, "These man addiction must stop "
DeleteThis foul mouthed girl... Shout outs if you read this Aj, its your buddy Tizzy. You will never change.
ReplyDeleteAlright
ReplyDeleteIT'S WELL
ReplyDeleteAUNTY LINDA 👩
Why re men like this, you have a beautiful wife like this and all you could do is turn her to punching bag??? Why is our men turning to monsters. No matter what the day you raise your hands on ur woman u become a useless man. Wow wow . sweet heart plz more ahead and care for your son becos no man is worth it, your life comes first, dnt worry a better man will surly locate you.
ReplyDeleteGod help us o
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DeleteMy dear,it's not abt being beautiful. U can't not leave wit som angels as d case may b.again,women make d mistake of lookin for already made men and wen dey get to man's Hux,dey start telling him wat to do and wat not to do even wen u were not there wen he made himself.u start telling him who to b friends wit and who not to.u dnt dictate for a man Mr woman!i dnt support beating,but am just saying how annoying mst women who think they are d most beautiful can behave.another cause of beating is wen a woman picks her calls and walks out to where d man can't hear her conversation.again,lies DAT MST women are fond of,is d reason MST women suffer beating.dey shld change
DeleteMarriage they fear we single ladies ooo.
ReplyDeleteMy dear no be small I just tire the ones wet never enter keep praying to be there and the ones wet Don enter and we dey admire just dey rush out.
DeleteOh dear, Ajoke may God mend your broken heart and give u a better man
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive him and make him realise his mistakes. Ladies watch well, broken relationship is better to broken marriage. Men of these days lack respect for women.
ReplyDeleteShut up madam, you guys are always in a hurry to come to social media and damage your husbands. Who asked for your forgiveness mgbeke? This girl but nno ezigbo okuko igbo.
ReplyDeleteFoston Utomi... Is that u? Why d bitterness na?
DeleteShe has forgiven you and moved on Inspite using her to learn boxing. It is well.
Anyway, i want u to know dat ur a very WEAK MAN...
BUT UR JUST A BOYyyy... In Beyoncé 's voice.
#SoYouDontUnderstand
Foston Utomi... Is that u? Why d bitterness na?
DeleteShe has forgiven you and moved on Inspite using her to learn boxing. It is well.
Anyway, i want u to know dat ur a very WEAK MAN...
BUT UR JUST A BOYyyy... In Beyoncé 's voice.
#SoYouDontUnderstand
Foston Utomi... Is that u? Why d bitterness na?
DeleteShe has forgiven you and moved on Inspite using her to learn boxing. It is well.
Anyway, i want u to know dat ur a very WEAK MAN...
BUT UR JUST A BOYyyy... In Beyoncé 's voice.
#SoYouDontUnderstand
Kodo
ReplyDeletei can't hv dis beauty as a wife nd even tink of laying a finger on hr#wegetproblemsha
ReplyDeletei can't imagine my self laying a finger on dis beauty.#we get problem sha
ReplyDeleteI read her first story and am happy she has forgiven him because with forgiveness, she can can be happier and attract better luck and of course men. Now, I saw some people doubting her but I believe that those people have never witnessed domestic violence. My dad beat the shit of my mum until my mum gave it back to him one day, that's when I was already an adult. Now my husband beats the shit out of me... But guess what? Am too weak to leave him and too weak to return it in kind. Now Kudos to a woman strong enough to leave and brave enough to forgive! To the doubtingThomases out there, A woman beater doesn't always need the woman to be wrong to get beaten. They can always manufacture a reason to exercise their addiction. And I pray you never ever find yourself in such a place that will make you a believer. Please Enjoy your innocence...
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DeleteVery correct! A violent man is as good as death itself, God will deliver us....Pls ladies if u discover any trait of dis, pls don't manage thinking he'll change, ruin for ur fear life. It's better to be alive to tell d story cos it's easier to accuse a corpse wrongly
DeleteTake care dear! God will see you through.
DeleteSad
DeleteThe worst part is the walking on an egg shell in your own home!!!!!
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm I did that for 7yrs until I was loosing my mind Gosh! And left. Domestic violence is a terrible experience... Would not wish that for my enemy
DeleteGod! One year? What the hell happened to the smile on his face
ReplyDeleteI read her first story and am happy she has forgiven him because with forgiveness, she can can be happier and attract better luck and of course men. Now, I saw some people doubting her but I believe that those people have never witnessed domestic violence. My dad beat the shit of my mum until my mum gave it back to him one day, that's when I was already an adult. Now my husband beats the shit out of me... But guess what? Am too weak to leave him and too weak to return it in kind. Now Kudos to a woman strong enough to leave and brave enough to forgive! To the doubtingThomases out there, A woman beater doesn't always need the woman to be wrong to get beaten. They can always manufacture a reason to exercise their addiction. And I pray you never ever find yourself in such a place that will make you a believer. Please Enjoy your innocence...
ReplyDeleteI have been beaten severally even with pregnancy and with black eye and sore body he still ask for sex and I Won't refuse because my pastor always say forgive him every time and don't refuse him anything and that he will change, I put my own life on hold., put my certificate under the bed to become a real house wife where his family is the one who control a home that is suppose to be mine. He insult my entire family even my late Dad and now am so ashamed to let it out to my family because I have over praised him to them. Am not strong or brave enough to walk out. My story!
DeleteThis brought me to tears. Be strong my dear for the sake of ur child(ren)
DeleteHa you better walk out or confide in responsible people that can take up your matter. Violent husbands do kill their wives with beating, that will not be your portion but be proactive and stop bring silent.
DeleteAnon 07,I feel u my dear. But the shock will only last few weeks. At least tell one member of your family u are closest to. That person can relate it to your parents Your hubby is doing most of these evil cos he blves no one will come to your rescue. You aren't useless or foolish. You are human with limited knowledge and can't possibly know it all before marriage. What u HV BN doing regarding praising him, so many wives have done, eg. Tonto Dike n co. It happens. No marriage should be a battle field or a place of horror. Don't blve any Pastor that says otherwise. No, he won't change. I advice you to start looking for a job once u put to bed. Yes, he will still fight u for it n call u names, but hasn't he been doing same even when you submitted all to him? Don't ruin your life. Don't damage yourself and your kids psycological and emotionally by staying in a toxic marriage. It won't get better. An evil husband is an evil husband. No exceptions
DeleteThere is God, dear.... be strong... am in a similar position..
DeleteGehn gehn!!!!
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Dats wot happens when u marry a small boy wit low self esteem
DeleteTook the words right outta my mouth.
DeleteTo forgive is divine......you've done the right thing. God will continue to order your steps.....
ReplyDeleteDrugs!!! The only reason y! Wen d chap is souped up on all his crap ....
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ReplyDeleteThis is where a lot of us get it wrong
A man is looking for a very pretty damsel to marry not even knowing her character
While a lot of our ladies are looking for and already made man.know already made man that will respect u no matter how beautiful u might look
Weda you have character or you have a humble beginning with your hubby doesn't mean a wife beater would beat.Pls babe's don't dull o!no go marry poor man cos of love n humble beginning.All men have the same character so marry the best you can abeg.Na one life person get.
DeleteWomen,,,,tell what what he suspected you of, or what you did before the so called beating, always seeking public sympathy. U are an angel and the man decided to be the devil baa. Abeg forget all this beautiful demons oo der ogbanje wear g string , dey can frustrate you into beating dem, after a fight dey will snap picture for future purposes . Na money u find come, abeg drop d key to d range rover before u go, Na so tonto call her ex yahoo boy BT still dey drive d Prado wey yahoo yahho boy buy. Two things can make a man beat his wife, she cheats or she fights him. I go beat for the aforementioned reasons
ReplyDeleteI believe your father beat up your mother! Idiot
DeleteMumu.
DeletePathetic soul.
itz a shame ur mom carried you in her womb, totally waste. Mtcheeew.
DeleteGood one the truth is bitter..
DeleteSometimes, it is better to keep certain things in house,social media won't do your marriage any good.Accord your kids some respect by not posting things on the net, that would be there forever.
ReplyDeleteMan,dnt beat ur wife even if we all knw dey can nag u to beating dem.my personal opinion remains DAT u dnt allow ur anger over rule u.yes,women can b very so annoying, but stil show her some maturity and take a walk out wenever she starts d nagging.again,wat u giv to a woman is wat she gives back in return. If u give her love,she gives it back double over a period of time.in all,patience to preside over ur actions.this my take as a married man.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you. Your wife is more than lucky to have you
DeleteMay you continue to enjoy your marriage sir, this your comment is filled with great wisdom. Marriage is really not for small immature boys, it's adult game, the earlier we learn that, the better
DeleteHmmmm if I ever asked for ur hand inmarriage ur answer will be no cos I no get money not famous either.....u went after d cash just ordinary 1year ur calling off ur marriage on social media....it rily shows how greedy u were in first place. Get a life jooooor
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ReplyDeleteWe are always quick to put the blame on men,hot tempered ladies that insults n reign curses on there husband once there's any Lil issue can frustrate n provoke a man to raise his hands
ReplyDeleteNot encouraging at all
ReplyDeleteMy husband used to beat me when i say certain things to him,so the last time he beat me,about 4 mths ago,i called all his family members ,reported him,screamed etc.and till today he hasnt tried it again,i also learnt how to just keep quiet and walk away when he starts ranting and wev had quarells but none have led to physical abuse again.We will be 5 years in marriage in a few mths
ReplyDeleteMy husband used to beat me when i say certain things to him,so the last time he beat me,about 4 mths ago,i called all his family members ,reported him,screamed etc.and till today he hasnt tried it again,i also learnt how to just keep quiet and walk away when he starts ranting and wev had quarells but none have led to physical abuse again.We will be 5 years in marriage in a few mths
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