Julia Debyshire died in October 2015 at the age of 16. The teenager had hanged herself at her home in Warrington, Cheshire, but was found by her father, Adrian Derbyshire, 42, who rushed her to the hospital where she was placed on life support for five days, before her father was forced to make the tough decision to switch off the life support when she remained unresponsive.
Just before Adrian turned off the life support, he took a photo of his daughter on her hospital bed, but he never shared them until recently, on the day when his daughter would have been celebrating her 18th birthday.
Adrian who is a two-time Paralympic gold medal winner became an advocate against online bullying and set up an anti-online bullying campaign in memory of Julia. He revealed that he had not viewed the sad photo of his daughter ever since he took it until he had to upload it on her 18th birthday to highlight the consequences of online bullying. He said that revealing the photos was a hard choice but he had to make it.
"Releasing these photos was one of the hardest things I have had to do in my life. I took the photos in the minutes before Julia's death and buried them on my phone until now because I didn't want to look at them and I still don't. But I knew that I was going to them, obviously to help raise awareness, because I think that the cause is too vital to not use them. Instead of taking her out for champagne to celebrate her 18th birthday, I was placing flowers on her grave," he said.
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Adrian had tried to help his daughter when he first noticed she was suffering due to online bullying.
He moved her back to Warrington, UK, where she was born before she moved to the US at age 4. he also got her into his Inspire Belief Succeed campaign that works with children to help them prosper through sport. He had no idea that his daughter was still being abused online and she was already using a false identity to visit online groups that promote self-harm and suicide.
How sad. And she was so pretty.
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onyibo nd dia mumunez wich one kon b online bullying abeg.d girl na big mumu na by force to go online. yeye pipu
ReplyDeleteYou are so ignorant. So ignorant of humanity and even your environment. We aren't cut from same cloth. Someone like you made this girl kill herself, it's not until you carry a gun before you can kill. Wake up! Human beings aren't toys, we bleed red blood.
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ReplyDeleteI don't blame her d world is full of shits haterz...i would have done mine a long time ago but still thinking of my punishment wen i die
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