I was busy with school runs in Gwagwalada when I got a frantic call reporting the attempted rape of a first year University of Abuja(UniAbuja) student by another first year student of Biological Sciences called Monday. By the time I got there, the Chief Security Officer was just beginning to interview both parties, starting from the boy, Monday.He told of how he made his 'intentions' known to her and she said she would 'think about it' but he according to him, he didn't understand why shy couldn't give a straight answer, so he began making moves at 'romancing' her and feigns ignorance of her claims that from the moment he started, she told him to stop. He claims he only noticed her seriousness 'when he crossed the boundary'. He is upset that he had sent her 400 naira recharge card before and doesn't get why she will reject him.
The young lady insists she came by at all because he said he was not well. By the time she got in, he was playing loud music, so from the moment he began trying to have sex, she was shouting but the loud music drowned her voice. She insists he pinned her to the mattress and she tried strangling him with his necklace till it cut. After that, she reached for the laptop as a weapon and ripping it out turned off all the music then he released her because she could now be heard. She ran out and called for help. She got help and retrieved her phone and slippers and purse. Then she began reporting to their mutual friends and people she trusts. She insisted she injured him to. On demand, he took off his shirt and everyone saw injuries she gave him and more.
I got upset that the attitude towards gathering evidence is zero. There seemed to be a majority notion that as long as there was eventually no penetration, it is not so grievous a crime. All I insisted was to document all that could be seen as evidence before any statements are taken etc.
I applaud the lady for speaking up. We need ensure the students and security men understand sexual harassment in its entirety and be sure whatever responses are in place take into cognizance victim needs.
I was very agitated when it seemed people were upset that 'she was trying to make a lot out of something very small.
More people need to understand what sexual violence is and legal provisions for victims and offenders.
More details tomorrow. These pictures were finally taken at the crime scene. More shocking experiences tomorrow morning.
Many are trying to use victim blaming and shaming to force her to drop the case. Please, let us change the narrative and share this widely to punish the perpetrator, not the victim. ...Ambassador Dorothy Njemanze
Haba guy
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Negodu
ReplyDeleteAnimal in human cloth
ReplyDeleteHorrible idiot
ReplyDeleteRape? 400? What do i call this. Extreme poverty or village people? In fact, na both!
ReplyDeleteSome people sha !
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Girl, you're a fighter, thank God for your life! The idiot should be taught a lesson, he'll never forget in nearest future. #Evil
ReplyDeleteConji na bastard
ReplyDeleteIt was difficult understanding the write-up.....because of N400 recharge card,all he could think of was attempted rape!....SMH
ReplyDeleteSome guys ve guts tho
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Nna na wa o! Linda take note!
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ReplyDeleteThis guy should be punished for the crime. Now in Nigeria nobody likes to say the truth.
ReplyDeleteNawa o
ReplyDeleteVery quick to take sides. Why should u believe her story over his? Why didn't she turn down the recharge card gift or does she tink he's father Christmas? Rubbish
ReplyDeleteU r a big fool...its because of people like u silly things like this happen...tell me what she will gain by lying?
DeleteThe next person will.be it daughter, animal!
DeleteHe deserves to be beaten...#500 can gv him a quickie at olosho joint.
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LibBadBoy
Why is this so one sided please let's hear the side of the perpetrator before making any judgements
ReplyDeleteGwagz boys are fund of dat hostage shit
ReplyDeleteAmbassador Dorothy needs to provide more evidence concerning the girls story not just claims
ReplyDeleteRather than come here on the Internet to destroy the image of the young man
I no fit laugh biko...so he thinks by sending her N400 recharge card he can have his way??? like seriously???
ReplyDeleteSee the idiot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...Nonsense! all this cheap girls that cliam rape just to spoil the guy name...,my question is, why do u start collecting gift from guy if you don't want to get down with him?. the boy should be freed.
ReplyDeleteNawa o.
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ReplyDeleteThat's the thing. If there was no pentration, there is no case. N Mr man na 400naira recharge card that gave u d right to molest a woman. Thug!
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Shuooo! Ordinary 400 airtime? Thank God d girl was brave o,hmmmmmmm. See d guy's ugly face.
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So he wants to rape the girl because of "#400 recharge card"
ReplyDeleteLook at his dirty singlet
And did I just read he is in "100 level"?
Girls have seen things!
you don't like him, you resist his advances, yet hes got your phone nbr,he also sent you recharge card and finally you went to visit him alone at home because he said he wasn't feeling fine.. girl stop making him look like a rapist..tell the full story undiluted. YOU GUYS ARE DATING ALREADY.he is your bf.
ReplyDeleteSee his face,exactly a face of a rapist
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@Joeboy, so they must be dating before she could visit him? Even if they are dating, is he right for trying to rape her?
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Demented entity..
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