'It's our responsibility to explain to kids the sense/concept of decency' - Kanayo O. Kanoyo advises parents
Popular Nollywood actor Anayo Onyekwere aka Kanayo O. Kanayo shares some
important words of advise for parents who see nothing wrong in
sexualising their children. See more of his tweets as you continue...
Lol..you know..Africans didn't wear much in the way of clothing before the westerners arrived. Why wasnt it seen as sexualization in those ancient days. It was even the westerners who were obsessed with covering up. Now, the tables have turned. That's funny.
There is nothing wrong with wearing bum shorts,its mostly for comfort and to be free, trousers and skirt can be quite troubling.. your mind sexualize them, not their bum shorts.. and yes,its bad for kids dancing lewdly. But the positive part is kids get to learn about sexual issues early and get to make better decisions
Well well well said sir. SO U KNOW ALL THESE SIR AN UR KEEPING SILENT HUH?FREEBORN WEPT. I hope that social media yeyebrities and baby mamas are reading this? Monalisa chinda,mercy aigbe,mercy Johnson ,ragina askia and many other bitches out there that are always advertising their children every minute on social media SHAME TO THEM, YOU CAN'T GIVE WHAT U DON'T HAVE HOW CAN A MOTHER BE INDECENT AN RAISE A DECENT CHILD IS NOT POSSIBLE NAA,SO THEIR CHILDREN ARE THEIR SHADOW. SHAME TO ALL THEM ALL
Speak up. Well well well said sir. SO U KNOW ALL THESE SIR AN UR KEEPING SILENT HUH?FREEBORN WEPT. For them train up a child in the way that he or she should go is just a mere word.if u talk they will call u hater. I hope that social media yeyebrities and baby mamas are reading this? Monalisa chinda,mercy aigbe,mercy Johnson ,ragina askia and many other bitches out there that are always advertising their children every minute on social media SHAME TO THEM, YOU CAN'T GIVE WHAT U DON'T HAVE HOW CAN A MOTHER BE INDECENT AN RAISE A DECENT CHILD IS NOT POSSIBLE NAA,SO THEIR CHILDREN ARE THEIR SHADOW. SHAME TO ALL THEM ALL
You cannot be more correct, those of use that stand for using the rod are seen as old school. I really weep for our kids and their generation. Go to the Malls and cinemas in lagos especially the island and you'll see 10 11 and 12yr olds dressed indecently like immoral adults hookers.
It is really sad and a cause for seriously concern for parents and the society at large. Parents give the excuse of ohh they are children and it is a modern world forgetting that majority of them are sexually developed like adults already. Is this what we have become as a people sexualizing our kids? Look at the rate of moral decadence in the society, yet we have loads of churches all over the place. Copying the west has it's own devastating consequences.
We need to get it right and go back to our days of high moral standards, because every form of religious worship i know in nigeria supports it and frowns at indecency..
So true and very sad indeed but that's the reality these days not sure what these parents r thinking. When the kids get molested or abused they look for everyone to blame than themselves and their lack of being able to instil the morals to their kids. What a shame.
My goodness!! You are so right sir. Every children parties have been to and I watch kids dancing, I get scared. Even parents using body spray for kids. C'mon! They are kids(no matter how they sweat, they don't have body odour) not teenagers. That phase of their life is when personal neatness should be inculcated. You will see some girl children with purported "mild make up". Even during harmattan instead of using lip gloss (makes lips pouty/sexually attractive) why not use a lip balm for them (it heals chapped lips only)
The secondary school I attend u dare not use lip gloss, or chapstick, you can only use lip balm (mist of us the kids from average homes use "Robb" and also them no born you well to use brown powder nah white o with a stud "student earrings" even a chain wrist watch was not allowed it was strictly leather wrist watch (we were thought that the essence of wrist watch is to keep time for timeliness and you get to use the watch when u get to senior class) we were only allowed to use only anti perspirants (Roll-on) not perfume or cologne. While growing we often see this as being the "too much discipline "
But later I discovered that all this help us cut down our teenagehood excesses and help us grow focusing on what is concrete about life.
Parents, guardians, teachers need to know that every phase in a child's life (babyhood, childhood, teenagehood (the most turbulent stage) , young adulthood(less turbulent if teenagehood was handled properly) and adulthood) has a purpose in the formation of an individual's life. And it's what is written on their young mind that will form their life stance and it will be hard to curtail when they grow into adulthood.
You are a 100% right!,when and if i have my kids,i definitely know the right way to bring them up.From day one of their lives they will be guided in the right part of God's ways.Very Nice.
Thanks, Mr. Kanayo. It has been really bad these recent days. Sex is now everything. Nude pregnancy photoshoots, nude photos to show your fitness status, hot and sexy as compliments that girls want to hear. Sometimes, I wonder what the motives behind those photos and sexualisation are. To make everyone want to have sex with them? Kids dressing these days is another topic, terrible dress sense is now the norm. All under the excuse that they feel comfortable in it. And when they grow up, probably walking around nude would mean nothing. What a generation we are raising. Ladies, hot and sexy objectify you. Be hot and sexy for your partner and not your co-worker or random strangers. Decency!!!
IT'S AMAZING HOW ITS ALWAYS MEN TELLING OR TRYING TO TELL WOMEN HOW TO DRESS BUT NEVER THE OTHER WAY AROUND. SEEING AS MEN ALWAYS FEEL LIKE THEY KNOW WHATS BEST FOR WOMEN, IF A WOMEN WERE TO GIVE A DOCTRINE ON HOW MEN SHOULD DRESS AND BEHAVE, IT'LL BE FULL ON WAR.
Everyone wants to be a Dad or a Mum but not all know what it takes to be one. Most child bearers today are not qualified to be called parents and most qualified parents today have resorted to imitating the unqualified in the name of swag, in thin, etc. Its a society thing folks and has to be fought drastically.
Moral decadence is been encouraged unknown to parent. You are termed primitive if you speak against indecency. Our new generation parents are failing us and they need to be cautioned before it's too late.
Anon 3.17 how dare you bring that gender bullcrap when we have a more pressing issue on the table , the need for we parents to curtail these excesses in the name of trend cannot be over emphasized lest we breed a society that causes teary eye which if my memory serves me right isn't far from what's happening already #DecencyIsA.Divine.Injunction #LordhelpOurChildren Amen.
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ReplyDeleteYes! He's right 👏👏👏👏👏
DeleteTrue talk
ReplyDeleteYEAH THAT'S TRUE
ReplyDeleteAUNTY LINDA 👩
Well said. Let he who has ears listen
ReplyDeleteLong Live LIB
Lol..you know..Africans didn't wear much in the way of clothing before the westerners arrived. Why wasnt it seen as sexualization in those ancient days. It was even the westerners who were obsessed with covering up. Now, the tables have turned. That's funny.
ReplyDeleteNice saying
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong with wearing bum shorts,its mostly for comfort and to be free, trousers and skirt can be quite troubling.. your mind sexualize them, not their bum shorts.. and yes,its bad for kids dancing lewdly. But the positive part is kids get to learn about sexual issues early and get to make better decisions
ReplyDeleteRubbish
DeleteYea
DeleteNow I know youre truly a fag! Mr man get your head out of your stretched out ahole
DeleteWell said
ReplyDeleteWell well well said sir.
ReplyDeleteSO U KNOW ALL THESE SIR AN UR KEEPING SILENT HUH?FREEBORN WEPT.
I hope that social media yeyebrities and baby mamas are reading this? Monalisa chinda,mercy aigbe,mercy Johnson ,ragina askia and many other bitches out there that are always advertising their children every minute on social media SHAME TO THEM,
YOU CAN'T GIVE WHAT U DON'T HAVE HOW CAN A MOTHER BE INDECENT AN RAISE A DECENT CHILD IS NOT POSSIBLE NAA,SO THEIR CHILDREN ARE THEIR SHADOW.
SHAME TO ALL THEM ALL
#sad indeed
Speak up.
ReplyDeleteWell well well said sir.
SO U KNOW ALL THESE SIR AN UR KEEPING SILENT HUH?FREEBORN WEPT.
For them train up a child in the way that he or she should go is just a mere word.if u talk they will call u hater.
I hope that social media yeyebrities and baby mamas are reading this? Monalisa chinda,mercy aigbe,mercy Johnson ,ragina askia and many other bitches out there that are always advertising their children every minute on social media SHAME TO THEM,
YOU CAN'T GIVE WHAT U DON'T HAVE HOW CAN A MOTHER BE INDECENT AN RAISE A DECENT CHILD IS NOT POSSIBLE NAA,SO THEIR CHILDREN ARE THEIR SHADOW.
SHAME TO ALL THEM ALL
#sad indeed
Well said.
ReplyDeleteSpot on sir! I mean SPOT ON!
ReplyDeleteThat's why I always try to put myself in the good light even if the flesh is dangerous
Thank you sir! These end time parents forming "JAZZY". #letkidsbekids
ReplyDeleteI dey feel U prof. John Bull
ReplyDeleteYou cannot be more correct, those of use that stand for using the rod are seen as old school. I really weep for our kids and their generation. Go to the Malls and cinemas in lagos especially the island and you'll see 10 11 and 12yr olds dressed indecently like immoral adults hookers.
ReplyDeleteIt is really sad and a cause for seriously concern for parents and the society at large. Parents give the excuse of ohh they are children and it is a modern world forgetting that majority of them are sexually developed like adults already. Is this what we have become as a people sexualizing our kids? Look at the rate of moral decadence in the society, yet we have loads of churches all over the place. Copying the west has it's own devastating consequences.
We need to get it right and go back to our days of high moral standards, because every form of religious worship i know in nigeria supports it and frowns at indecency..
I believ u
ReplyDeleteTruly an African man,truly a nigerian man,truly God fearing, well said sir.
ReplyDeleteTell them Sir... It's really worrisome! God help us to bring up our children in the way of the Lord.
ReplyDeleteSo true and very sad indeed but that's the reality these days not sure what these parents r thinking. When the kids get molested or abused they look for everyone to blame than themselves and their lack of being able to instil the morals to their kids. What a shame.
ReplyDeleteMy goodness!! You are so right sir. Every children parties have been to and I watch kids dancing, I get scared. Even parents using body spray for kids. C'mon! They are kids(no matter how they sweat, they don't have body odour) not teenagers. That phase of their life is when personal neatness should be inculcated. You will see some girl children with purported "mild make up". Even during harmattan instead of using lip gloss (makes lips pouty/sexually attractive) why not use a lip balm for them (it heals chapped lips only)
ReplyDeleteThe secondary school I attend u dare not use lip gloss, or chapstick, you can only use lip balm (mist of us the kids from average homes use "Robb" and also them no born you well to use brown powder nah white o with a stud "student earrings" even a chain wrist watch was not allowed it was strictly leather wrist watch (we were thought that the essence of wrist watch is to keep time for timeliness and you get to use the watch when u get to senior class) we were only allowed to use only anti perspirants (Roll-on) not perfume or cologne. While growing we often see this as being the "too much discipline "
But later I discovered that all this help us cut down our teenagehood excesses and help us grow focusing on what is concrete about life.
Parents, guardians, teachers need to know that every phase in a child's life (babyhood, childhood, teenagehood (the most turbulent stage) , young adulthood(less turbulent if teenagehood was handled properly) and adulthood) has a purpose in the formation of an individual's life. And it's what is written on their young mind that will form their life stance and it will be hard to curtail when they grow into adulthood.
#Godhelpmesimplycantwaittobeaparent#
Na so
ReplyDeleteYou are a 100% right!,when and if i have my kids,i definitely know the right way to bring them up.From day one of their lives they will be guided in the right part of God's ways.Very Nice.
ReplyDelete#fact#TRUEword
ReplyDeleteWell said
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ReplyDeleteWell said! Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteThat's nice
ReplyDeleteHe's right
ReplyDeleteLib addict#just passing#
The training should start from Nollywood Mr kanayo O kanayo.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Mr. Kanayo. It has been really bad these recent days. Sex is now everything. Nude pregnancy photoshoots, nude photos to show your fitness status, hot and sexy as compliments that girls want to hear. Sometimes, I wonder what the motives behind those photos and sexualisation are. To make everyone want to have sex with them? Kids dressing these days is another topic, terrible dress sense is now the norm. All under the excuse that they feel comfortable in it. And when they grow up, probably walking around nude would mean nothing. What a generation we are raising. Ladies, hot and sexy objectify you. Be hot and sexy for your partner and not your co-worker or random strangers. Decency!!!
ReplyDeleteGbam!!Well said
ReplyDeleteTruths but sir you started it first with ini Edo an an so many stars on screen. So we just coping what our elderly tough us.
ReplyDeleteLinda I'm first time comma please post my comment
ReplyDeleteWell said and very true.
ReplyDeleteThanks kok
God bless you sir. I thought am the only one who see this wrongful act of parents and the call it trend smh
ReplyDeleteIT'S AMAZING HOW ITS ALWAYS MEN TELLING OR TRYING TO TELL WOMEN HOW TO DRESS BUT NEVER THE OTHER WAY AROUND. SEEING AS MEN ALWAYS FEEL LIKE THEY KNOW WHATS BEST FOR WOMEN, IF A WOMEN WERE TO GIVE A DOCTRINE ON HOW MEN SHOULD DRESS AND BEHAVE, IT'LL BE FULL ON WAR.
ReplyDeleteGodless parents= No fear of God!
ReplyDeleteEveryone wants to be a Dad or a Mum but not all know what it takes to be one. Most child bearers today are not qualified to be called parents and most qualified parents today have resorted to imitating the unqualified in the name of swag, in thin, etc. Its a society thing folks and has to be fought drastically.
ReplyDeleteYou are right sir, may God help the parents of this generation
ReplyDeleteAn elder has spoken God bless u KOK
ReplyDeleteAn elder has spoken God bless u KOK
ReplyDeleteMoral decadence is been encouraged unknown to parent. You are termed primitive if you speak against indecency. Our new generation parents are failing us and they need to be cautioned before it's too late.
ReplyDeleteAnon 3.17 how dare you bring that gender bullcrap when we have a more pressing issue on the table , the need for we parents to curtail these excesses in the name of trend cannot be over emphasized lest we breed a society that causes teary eye which if my memory serves me right isn't far from what's happening already #DecencyIsA.Divine.Injunction #LordhelpOurChildren Amen.
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