I am a Lagos mum, I work at a top auditing
firm and I really love my job. I have built an amazing career over the past 10
years, but I worry a lot about my kids. I have a 9 year old boy and a 7 year
old girl who I feel are way below their potential and my husband constantly
accuses me of loving my job more than my kids, him and my home. I am losing my
mind over this issue, here’s how it started…
When my boy was 5 years, I was very
involved with teaching him and mentoring him at home and he showed traits of
extraordinary brilliance. Then I got a promotion at work that needed me to
travel more often and spend longer hours at the office. Over time, his
performance started to deteriorate, I would talk to him, encourage him, scold
him, pray for him and SPANK THE LIVING DAYLIGHT OUT OF HIM. But it didn’t work
and as my daughter grew I started to see the same traits of complacency and
mediocrity.
A few months ago I started to think maybe I
should quit my 6 figure paying job to stay home and teach my kids because I
have tried different schools and that also didn’t work. A friend advised me to
get tutors for my kids but I was worried
What would the tutor do to change the situation?
How would I even know the best tutor sef?
What about security?
Will I just call some strangers into my
home HIAN!! And even if I work with the school teachers, I know that if anything
were to happen at my home, the school would certainly say that what I had with
the teacher was not any of their business.
I spoke with a counsellor and former
teacher and they said having a good
home tutor for my kids would solve the problem. So I asked…
How
would getting a home tutor solve the problem?
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Tutorshelps to tailor learning
to specific children’s educational needs unlike teachers who follow a
curriculum or a fixed plan, the tutors teaching method revolves completely
around the child’s needs and learning patterns
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If the kids are special needs
children, tutors can better accommodate and support them much better than a
teacher in a normal class can
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Tutors help build independent
thinking and self-confidence.
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Tutors help with homework and school problems and
would give me more time to focus more on other things
I felt the reasons made sense but the big
challenge was getting
the best tutor for my kids. Then I started to get recommendations and
suggestion from friends that I use
Prepclass Home tutors in Lagos. I was made to know that they have the best professional
home tutors in Lagos, so I did some of my own research as to
Why I should choose
a Prepclass tutor?
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Their tutors are well trained.They
receive feedback and are well monitored and supervised.
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Prepclass tutors keep sessions
structured, intense and very challenging which helps to really build the child
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Prepclass does extensive tests
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Prepclass tutors are trained to
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skills, then plan lessons to match, help your child build confidence and
challengethem to grow.
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Their tutors are punctual,
professional and stay on task during tutoring sessions.
All these I found out from feedback I got
from friends who use their services and I simply hadto
fill a form here to get a tutor
Prepclass is an academic solutions provider
with numerous success stories from over 500 clients in Lagos. I was delighted
to see that they area fully registered company in Nigeria, they have a physical
office on the 3rd floor, No. 315 Herbert Macaulay Road, Sabo, Yaba, Lagos
(Opposite KFC) and provide the best
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They can also be reachedon 01-2913970 or
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Your children are your priority dear.... You have made enough money for yourself nd would last you for years.... Quit ... First to comment
ReplyDeleteCool! You took the right step oo....this is how mothers should react
ReplyDeleteDear mothers, lets be more proactive as mothers. Taking the right steps like this woman makes sense
ReplyDeleteNoted! Great post sha...mothers and babymamas come and see
ReplyDeleteNot for fathers then
ReplyDeleteNice! Nice! Nice! Well done eyin Prepclass! But great one sha
ReplyDeleteDunnno wat to say
ReplyDeleteMtchewwwww
ReplyDeletePray over it.. Simple!
ReplyDeleteIf the job is causing you pain and sorrow, quit.
ReplyDeleteLol. Laugh at Nigeria's funniest comedy skits here
U should ooo
ReplyDeleteIssokay seen! Linda take note!
ReplyDeleteTseeew and I was about to offer my candid advice!
ReplyDeleteKai ... So this is an advert
ReplyDeleteWell scripted
Who would have thought this is an advert. Choi.
ReplyDeleteAll this story for lesson teacher?
ReplyDeleteAll dis stories cos of adverts? How catchy!
ReplyDeleteSo a tutor can replace a mothers undiluted love in this wicked day and age?? Stupid post!
ReplyDeleteOk, seen
ReplyDeleteEvery girl will eventually become a mother one day so, if u can't balance ur work with ur family then quit. But a lot of women manage both and are still happy with both.
ReplyDeleteA big lol to this!
ReplyDeleteMadam i will advise u keep ur job. You can take time to go to ur kids school talk with their teacher. I mean try nd relate well with let her pay extra attention to them. Also get a tutor i mean the professional ones not just a road side tutor. Nd get feedback from ur kids like do u like ur new lesson teacher? Am speaking outa experience. If u drop the job u feel more depressed the more. And if u dnt hv money how can u take care of them well. That's another problem unless ur husband is very very capable to carry all of u. A 9years old boy shld almost be getting to jss1 so u need to also try nd make out time nd teach him the values of reading and making good grades. U can promise to buy something he admires the most wen he does well in school and please keep ur promise. Good luck
ReplyDeleteIf she quits and God forbid her husband passes away,how would she cope wit d kids? Job for women is not all about making money but security for d future
ReplyDeletelol....advert abi. i catch u linda. hehehe
ReplyDeletelol....advert abi. i catch u linda. hehehe
ReplyDeleteYES!!!!! Your children are more important! I did same! My husband said i should stop and i did. Now I am doing my business.
ReplyDeleteno quit your kids for your job
ReplyDeleteHeheheh😁some people are here giving advice !cant they see its an advert?smh
ReplyDeletewho said its only a womans job to look after the kids? men will be forming busy yet the woman shares the bill for expenses...men will be forming busy but all they do is go out with friends, sleep with other women yet expect the woman to work, do house chore, look after children etc....men you are the headof your home and that means taking out time for issues of the home like looking aftercyour kids....training up a child is not the sole responsibility of the mother...stop justifying that falacy with tradition
ReplyDeleteYes u should quit
ReplyDeleteWhy d advice to quit....do you know if she pays the bills as most men nowadays are OBIAGERI....she should seek for a solution not to quit her job,to loose a paying job at this CHANGE TIME
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