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Monday, 11 April 2016

Has Khloe Kardashian finally let go off Lamar Odom?

After several reports of her estranged husband, Lamar Odom being seen drinking heavily in a bar in L.A. Khloe may have decided to finally let him go. She took to her IG page to leave several emotional messages where she wrote: "Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself." Read the rest after the cut..

"Letting go doesn't mean that you don't care about someone anymore. It's just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself." Letting go with love takes great strength. We have to learn to stop taking on peoples problems as if they are our own. Loving people does not mean we have to carry their burdens and confusions on our back.

Sadly, You can only express your opinion on a situation. You can't want their life more than they do. This is in fact their life to figure out on their own and in their own time. I do believe in timing. I do believe timing is everything. You forcing your beliefs and dreams down ones throat is only going to cause resentment and possibly manifest deeper issues. Possibly to the point of no return. "People say time heals all wounds... I say time heals wounds but scars are left to remind you what you have been through and what you survived." Stop shattering your own heart by trying to make a relationship (friend, family, partner) work that clearly isn’t meant to work. We have to stop trying to repaint people's colors. We have to learn to believe the love we AREN'T given. You can't love someone into loving you. (God I wish it were that easy) You can’t force someone to be loyal, kind, understanding. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Even if it's for their own good!! Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. 😩😫 You have to understand... some things ARE supposed to happen in your life, but they just are NOT meant to be. Damn... It took me so many years to understand that.

Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. God always has a plan even if we can't understand it (or don't want to understand it) Even in the darkest of places... Our Lord sees His vision.

We might not understand it at the moment but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding and clarity of why things didn’t work out. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone (family, friend, partner) who isn’t holding on to you. "A Girl once told me… Be careful when trying to fix a broken person. For you may cut yourself on their shattered pieces."

40 comments:

  1. That's their wahala, what I need now is fuel.

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  2. awwwwwwwwww
    so sorry, I can relate

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  3. adefunke Cynthia11 April 2016 at 05:49

    U v done ur best dearest Khloe,thanks ur words r inspiring

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  4. Damn Homie....dat was deep af....

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  5. tomao she will come back and say its not what she meant ...

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  6. Lamar still drinks 'heavily ' ? Guess he is not ready to change

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  7. Eeeyah. ..and she really tried for him o

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  8. Time shall tell! Linda take note!

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  9. Don't like this family but she stood by him. If it isn't working then what can she do??

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  10. Words of gold digger already targeting new prey and tired of old ones still hanging around

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  11. Words of gold digger already targeting new prey and tired of old ones still hanging around

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  12. Sad yet so true... Really deep... I so feel her just now.... Xty

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  13. I wish her love and happiness!

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  14. Nice 1....all d best dearie

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  15. Such powerful words. Thanks khloe.

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  16. GBAM!!!!! "or you might cut yourself on their shattered pieces"!!!!

    Word khloe.

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  17. OK Khloe, heard. Can you now show us your fat butt and talk to us about your vagina ? Just as you did on TV the last time. Thanks.

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  18. My dear Khloe, even God in heaven knows u ve tried for Lamah or Nama,its 100% ok if u moved on.

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  19. This people self, hope it's not another of their drama for their reality show. Na dem sabi

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  20. She has over tried, if she lets go now, no one will blame her... Khloe please find happiness

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  21. Well said wish her happiness

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  22. I love them together but lamar has choosen that horrible part of destruction and khole dnt have to go down with him.
    . She jst need to let go.... Move on khole. We love you








    ...... One love from klepton....

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  23. Fuckin Whore.
    What do u know about loyalty?

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  24. We don hear

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  25. Errm...khloe I luv u girl,but u need to get a life.when a man doesn't want u anymore,nothing or anyone can change it.u say he is not ready to get to dat bridge but girl he married u.he probably felt d whole thing was a mistake.dnt lie to itself girl.cut ur losses n move on.

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  26. Sharrap there, ASHEWO oshi with ur stupid quotes to justify ur immoralities, after fucking all his friends n colleagues, how is it suppose to be d same? And after he almost died at ile-ASHEWO, yet u think it's a man like that that u want to make up with? Kole work, stop fooling Una selves. Happy Monday folkers

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  27. She has over tried, if she lets go now, no one will blame her... Khloe please find happiness

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  28. I am feeling you Khloe, is not meant to be. Carry go!

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  29. powerful words from a hurting heart. there is always a time to let go and move on with your life. I pray u find love again Khloe.

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